I was recently at a Chris Rock show and he said this about older men wanting younger women: "I don't stay rich and fit to date a Whoopy Goldberg! I'm tryna get a Doja Cat!" 🤣
Today, I am going to meet my ex, to talk about things. It has been 6 months since she was caught out drinking with her boss from work, lying to her family and to me. She denies anything happened (yeah right). She called me crying, telling me how much she missed me and how she wants our family back, we have a 6 year old child. I have been thinking, over and over, in my head about how we could make this work. But after following Coach, I can honestly say, the new me doesn't want her. I have gained self respect and don't take shit from anyone anymore. She truly belongs to the streets. Even though we had many good time, there were plenty of red flags and she refuses to get into her feminine, plus she is diagnosed with BPD. WARNING.... Do no get into a relationship with someone with BPD!
I hate to agree with you, given my false belief of “people change” but truth is, modern women are promiscuous and social media has elevated it. Most men live in an illusion, modern women are shallow. Media, film, social media and feminism have changed this dynamic. 63% of men aged 18 - 30 are single, 36% of women fit into this single criteria. The numbers don’t add up why? Because the top 10% of men are sharing these women. Yes, their getting ass 24/7 because women live in denial that these chads are SPEACIAL. Never idolise women, but improve your odds by working out and getting smarter. If you’re high quality, then women will be more lenient and forgiving if you sleep with other women. There was an experiment where they asked women if they preferred to share a “high quality man” or have a “low quality loyal man” the majority of women chose to share. We can’t change female biology because of our moral beliefs, instead we have to accept the terms and improve ourselves. Gym hard, improve academically, focus on our appearance and hygiene and not be selfish in the bed (make sure she finishes 5 time before you do) and once you reach that realisation, you’ll know your worth. Women by nature will leave a relationship cold heartedly for a better man. Find the best version of yourself and play around with these sociopaths, it’s fun!
Same story with me, but actually caught her lying so she told me all. And was much worse than my worst thougts. Slept severeal times that night with the guy
@@ArmandoGonzalez-oy4zbsame story 7 months. And all the gaslighting 😮 Now the other guy became needy.. I have started getting over her .. But now girl is coming back and becoming clingy to me And crying badly Don’t know what to do ..
@@Sid20-jd7mb you take the door and you slamming her face because if you take her back after cheating? then all you’re telling her, is that it’s totally fine for her to cheat again, she broke her honor and now you can’t take her back. You don’t know what to do? Come on man! Knock it off, if you had self-respect, you’d know what to do, here’s what you tell her when she’s crying, you broke this you go work on yourself and go meet a nice guy who might love you one day because I don’t.
The dude is still trying everything he can to keep her around. Bro, she CHEATED on you. Even if you "fixed" your marriage it will never be the same. "She's been a stay at home wife for so long she doesn't have anywhere to go so she can live here" lmao. Pathetic.
Found Corey's work 8 years ago and still follow to this day amazing material that if applied correctly is outstanding 👏 truly life saving work for men today a wonderful message 😊
Corey man your aging very well. You shaved your grayed facial hair and still look has young as you did when I first watch your content years ago. Keep doing your thing and providing great wisdom.
If she cheats on me and comes back I will treat her as a friends with benefits but not as a serious lover sad but true you have to let that shit go #3%
Married 17 years had 4 kids together and she cheated? Corey this video needs your "She belongs to the streets!"stop being so nice. It's also his fault 2 for not showing up. 10 to 15 times
Only a minute into the video and I’m already disgusted with the stuff that men put up with today. Women continue to cheat at such a high percentage because there are no consequences to their actions. These weak men either don’t leave when they are cheated on or super happy to take them back. It’s like come on man!
@@CoachCoreyWayne I agree, but I feel like when men cheat women have the “balls” to walk away. They know they have other options, they often have the abundance mindset you talk about. Men get too caught up in “the one” and they become paralyzed when they should just walk away. I don’t disagree with you, stats say men cheat more (although it think it’s closer than what statistics show, because I think women do a better job at hiding it and not getting caught). Love your content coach, keep up the good work.
@@CoachCoreyWayneya where did you get your stats from please post them you just can’t say that and expect us to believe it because I can’t post stats from 6 reputable psychologists that say women cheat more , the stats and studies don’t lie , post your studies and stats and I will post all the studies and stats and interviews from thousands of women telling us of how women really are , I will wait for your stats, here is a couple of stats for you right now. 91% of women confessed to emotional cheating, compared to 77% of men. 26% of women used an online service to cheat, versus 21% of men.
Wow. This came out 3 days before I met my ex who did exactly this. It was on and off for 5+ months. Ended last night. She chose to end it BAD. I kept my cool for the most part, didn’t say anything hurtful.
It's good advice as always but being in a marriage with kids is a totally different dynamic to being single and playing the field. Women's interest in sex with their husbands drops of 90%. Both have a lot of after school activities to do, women want men to make them feel in love whereas most men just accept women for how they are. Divorce is almost a 100% guarantee if you've got a hot wife because you simply can't catch and deal with every threat to your marriage. There are also bad actors such as new social groups and friends that aren't invested in the husband emotionally, Then there's the "new guy at work" thing. Took me a long time to get over it, haven't dated since (6yrs single after a 17yr relationship), I'm a good looking guy (other people's comments, not mine), it just gets very very hard to find quality women when you're over 40, a lot of baggage and broken women on the dating circuit, the only option is to take a decent catch off another guy and that's not part of my philosophy. I just enjoy my kids, watch movies, eat nice food and do what I want when I want. It's actually other people who tell me that I need someone and to try and date, that's just their own insecurities projected. I really miss my marriage but can't be arsed getting to know someone else's family at my age and taking on a load of shite to deal with, ex boyfriends, nob head relatives, more kids....no thanks.
Great as always. Also no offence but you should hire another thumbnail designer. Im sure it would help your channel, seems like a missed opportunity. Best content though.
This is what I needed. She cheated on me, and right now she sending me signals.. after a year of NC! it's hard to move on, but still It's funny how they try to come back..
Hard disconnect. Dump her and block her on everything. Go do better - you are the main character and first priority in your life.... there are plenty of chicks who will kill to be around a winner.
I know everyone is trying to kick her in to the curb which I agree with but 17 years is a long time, this guy's emotions are going to be all ovdr the place. He must make a decision in a place wherein his emotions are absent and his rational mind is functioning.
6:30 3% Man has been in my gym rotation for months now, and I couldn't tell you how many times I've been through the book that way. Much like RUclips though, I can't boost the speed past 1.25 and absorb it properly. I'm a quick learner, but not that quick! And unfortunately, I can't follow the youtube references like this.
I know I might get burned for this, but she’s a nurse! As far as vocations go, nurses are one of the top cheating vocations out there! My ex was a nurse as well and she cheated all over the place and when I find out I bailed on her heart! I don’t know what it is about nurses but there’s too many of these female nurses that pretty regularly, if you want someone that spicy in the sheets and honorable in the streets? Find yourself a teacher! I’ve had so much good luck with teachers, they love sex, but they also stay loyal most of the time.
Hi corey, I need some suggestions. regarding this topic. I will have to make a confession that shows how I failed to do the proper thing when the time came. After 7 years together, she cheated. She says that she only hooked up but I digress, why would I believe that? Had to found out after our mutual friends outed her a few months afterwards. I was so convinced of breaking up, went to do it in person and buckled. I did not break it up that moment and I truly regret it. We have been together a year and a half more, but it definitely is not the same. I know for a fact that she hasn't deeped the waters another time, but I just don't hold the same love. It has been tainted. And she is truly making an effort, she certainly is putting a lot more into the relationship than me. But I have found myself constantly seeking other women attention and when I got it I just could not even contemplate cheating (not even going on a date). I feel trapped. In a stable enough and happy enough relationship to last but not truly in it. Sometimes I even wish that things were worse just to make a definite decision but it's not easy. I love her enough to stay but not enough to be fully in it. We live together. What can I even possibly do?
You have a couple of options here: 1) Hold your frame and self respect and embrace the pain, accept that you are going to be sad for a while (5 days, 5 months, 5 years). It’s ok, we’ve all been through this. 2) Learn to live with it for the rest of your life, because it will bother you as long as you walk on the Earth, speaking from experience After all, make your decision based on the benefits of the next move. Will you regret it in 5 years, or be thankful to yourself? Also, I can suggest that you take a look at some of Andrew Tate podcasts, like the one with Rollo Tomassi. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but the right one.
Leave her. She cheated once, she will do it again. Kick her out and move on. As men we value our time and attention + love and we dont want to feel like weve wasted our own time, truth is its a hard pill to seall and realize that is exactly what we did, try to understand that the time you’ve invested helped make you a better man, and in so you deserve a better woman.
The guy that emailed is actually a sucker, I’ve heard the story before over and over by other men, they’re acting tough. They’re telling you they grew, but guess what happened? They didn’t change anything about their life at home, they still stayed with the same cheater and somehow they’re baloney, this guy is still a beta and he should leave her right on her ass.
Nothing to do with cheating. I went of a first date last Saturday, thought it went quite well. We spent hours together... From 9pm to 10 pm the next day no sleep. Made out of course. Today, she sent me a message asking what plans I have for Thursday and Friday night. I said I didn't have any, but that Saturday I planning on going to this place to see the sunset and that she's welcome to meet me. She said shes not sure she can, so I dropped her the "No problem, we can do it some other time :) line. She replied "It's up to you but if you want to go Thursday or Friday night I'm up for it" So I just went "Let's say 7:30pm outside X metro station?" Not sure if I handled that right?...
@@jleano609 He didn't change any planning. It was her who couldn't go out on Saturday and shifted to Thursday or Friday. The only mistake, and it's minor at the moment, is telling her he has no plans till saturday (instead of showing he's busy).
I was recently at a Chris Rock show and he said this about older men wanting younger women: "I don't stay rich and fit to date a Whoopy Goldberg! I'm tryna get a Doja Cat!" 🤣
😂😂😂
@@barrycazimir1804 Man I was in tears 🤣
@@avenue.central so much truth to that!
😂😂😂😂😂😂Damn Right😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 FELT
Today, I am going to meet my ex, to talk about things. It has been 6 months since she was caught out drinking with her boss from work, lying to her family and to me. She denies anything happened (yeah right).
She called me crying, telling me how much she missed me and how she wants our family back, we have a 6 year old child.
I have been thinking, over and over, in my head about how we could make this work.
But after following Coach, I can honestly say, the new me doesn't want her.
I have gained self respect and don't take shit from anyone anymore.
She truly belongs to the streets. Even though we had many good time, there were plenty of red flags and she refuses to get into her feminine, plus she is diagnosed with BPD.
WARNING.... Do no get into a relationship with someone with BPD!
I hate to agree with you, given my false belief of “people change” but truth is, modern women are promiscuous and social media has elevated it. Most men live in an illusion, modern women are shallow. Media, film, social media and feminism have changed this dynamic. 63% of men aged 18 - 30 are single, 36% of women fit into this single criteria. The numbers don’t add up why? Because the top 10% of men are sharing these women. Yes, their getting ass 24/7 because women live in denial that these chads are SPEACIAL. Never idolise women, but improve your odds by working out and getting smarter. If you’re high quality, then women will be more lenient and forgiving if you sleep with other women. There was an experiment where they asked women if they preferred to share a “high quality man” or have a “low quality loyal man” the majority of women chose to share.
We can’t change female biology because of our moral beliefs, instead we have to accept the terms and improve ourselves.
Gym hard, improve academically, focus on our appearance and hygiene and not be selfish in the bed (make sure she finishes 5 time before you do) and once you reach that realisation, you’ll know your worth.
Women by nature will leave a relationship cold heartedly for a better man.
Find the best version of yourself and play around with these sociopaths, it’s fun!
Same story with me, but actually caught her lying so she told me all. And was much worse than my worst thougts. Slept severeal times that night with the guy
Same story with me she was in a relationship for 7 months n I had no clue this 💩 is such a hard pill to swallow
@@ArmandoGonzalez-oy4zbsame story 7 months. And all the gaslighting 😮
Now the other guy became needy..
I have started getting over her ..
But now girl is coming back and becoming clingy to me
And crying badly
Don’t know what to do ..
@@Sid20-jd7mb you take the door and you slamming her face because if you take her back after cheating? then all you’re telling her, is that it’s totally fine for her to cheat again, she broke her honor and now you can’t take her back. You don’t know what to do? Come on man! Knock it off, if you had self-respect, you’d know what to do, here’s what you tell her when she’s crying, you broke this you go work on yourself and go meet a nice guy who might love you one day because I don’t.
Taking a girl back is like reheating fast food the day after!
Nice
Great analogy!
Well...that's life🤣
The dude is still trying everything he can to keep her around. Bro, she CHEATED on you. Even if you "fixed" your marriage it will never be the same. "She's been a stay at home wife for so long she doesn't have anywhere to go so she can live here" lmao. Pathetic.
Found Corey's work 8 years ago and still follow to this day amazing material that if applied correctly is outstanding 👏 truly life saving work for men today a wonderful message 😊
Corey man your aging very well. You shaved your grayed facial hair and still look has young as you did when I first watch your content years ago. Keep doing your thing and providing great wisdom.
Thunder cock genetics
Reach down make sure you still have your balls and go find another one the end lol
you gotta have short term memory to take her back.
If she cheats on me and comes back I will treat her as a friends with benefits but not as a serious lover sad but true you have to let that shit go #3%
Married 17 years had 4 kids together and she cheated? Corey this video needs your "She belongs to the streets!"stop being so nice. It's also his fault 2 for not showing up. 10 to 15 times
Only a minute into the video and I’m already disgusted with the stuff that men put up with today. Women continue to cheat at such a high percentage because there are no consequences to their actions. These weak men either don’t leave when they are cheated on or super happy to take them back. It’s like come on man!
Men cheat more. Those are the facts.
@@CoachCoreyWayne I agree, but I feel like when men cheat women have the “balls” to walk away. They know they have other options, they often have the abundance mindset you talk about. Men get too caught up in “the one” and they become paralyzed when they should just walk away. I don’t disagree with you, stats say men cheat more (although it think it’s closer than what statistics show, because I think women do a better job at hiding it and not getting caught). Love your content coach, keep up the good work.
@@CoachCoreyWayne Men cheat woman betray
@@joemomma1763vMen cheat pahysically, women first emotionally..so they screw things up from the get go
@@CoachCoreyWayneya where did you get your stats from please post them you just can’t say that and expect us to believe it because I can’t post stats from 6 reputable psychologists that say women cheat more , the stats and studies don’t lie , post your studies and stats and I will post all the studies and stats and interviews from thousands of women telling us of how women really are , I will wait for your stats, here is a couple of stats for you right now. 91% of women confessed to emotional cheating, compared to 77% of men.
26% of women used an online service to cheat, versus 21% of men.
Wow. This came out 3 days before I met my ex who did exactly this. It was on and off for 5+ months. Ended last night. She chose to end it BAD. I kept my cool for the most part, didn’t say anything hurtful.
It's good advice as always but being in a marriage with kids is a totally different dynamic to being single and playing the field. Women's interest in sex with their husbands drops of 90%. Both have a lot of after school activities to do, women want men to make them feel in love whereas most men just accept women for how they are. Divorce is almost a 100% guarantee if you've got a hot wife because you simply can't catch and deal with every threat to your marriage. There are also bad actors such as new social groups and friends that aren't invested in the husband emotionally, Then there's the "new guy at work" thing. Took me a long time to get over it, haven't dated since (6yrs single after a 17yr relationship), I'm a good looking guy (other people's comments, not mine), it just gets very very hard to find quality women when you're over 40, a lot of baggage and broken women on the dating circuit, the only option is to take a decent catch off another guy and that's not part of my philosophy. I just enjoy my kids, watch movies, eat nice food and do what I want when I want. It's actually other people who tell me that I need someone and to try and date, that's just their own insecurities projected. I really miss my marriage but can't be arsed getting to know someone else's family at my age and taking on a load of shite to deal with, ex boyfriends, nob head relatives, more kids....no thanks.
totally agree with all that mate
you must be a fellow englishman using knobhead as a term 😂
Hey. Update? Something similar
Great as always. Also no offence but you should hire another thumbnail designer. Im sure it would help your channel, seems like a missed opportunity. Best content though.
I feel bad for this guy and I want to give a heart to heart hug, this video serves as a reminder that I simply can't date a woman with low integrity.
This is what I needed. She cheated on me, and right now she sending me signals.. after a year of NC! it's hard to move on, but still It's funny how they try to come back..
amazing work as always coach!
Get rid of her man. She might respect you for getting more masculine but she will continually find someone that she thinks is more than you.
1) Make sure all the kids are yours.
2) The marriage is over; let her get her job before you divorce her.
I am first! BOOM!
🏅
The hard thing is getting a woman to admit shes cheating. As long as my woman is still chasing me, shes not replacing me.
Cheaters will never admit to cheating. That requires accountability and responsibility. Most cheaters are narcissistic and are incapable of doing that
@@straightcashhomey1261 yes, I agree
I love you coach.
Hard disconnect. Dump her and block her on everything. Go do better - you are the main character and first priority in your life.... there are plenty of chicks who will kill to be around a winner.
When interest level too high, okay for squaw, but great warrior become boy. (Arapaho proverb quoted in Doc Love's The System)
I know everyone is trying to kick her in to the curb which I agree with but 17 years is a long time, this guy's emotions are going to be all ovdr the place. He must make a decision in a place wherein his emotions are absent and his rational mind is functioning.
looking young coach with the fresh shave!
6:30 3% Man has been in my gym rotation for months now, and I couldn't tell you how many times I've been through the book that way. Much like RUclips though, I can't boost the speed past 1.25 and absorb it properly. I'm a quick learner, but not that quick! And unfortunately, I can't follow the youtube references like this.
I know I might get burned for this, but she’s a nurse! As far as vocations go, nurses are one of the top cheating vocations out there! My ex was a nurse as well and she cheated all over the place and when I find out I bailed on her heart! I don’t know what it is about nurses but there’s too many of these female nurses that pretty regularly, if you want someone that spicy in the sheets and honorable in the streets? Find yourself a teacher! I’ve had so much good luck with teachers, they love sex, but they also stay loyal most of the time.
My ex is a teacher…and a cheater.
Can‘t wait for corey to run for president when he‘s 80 w😂
Hi corey, I need some suggestions. regarding this topic.
I will have to make a confession that shows how I failed to do the proper thing when the time came. After 7 years together, she cheated. She says that she only hooked up but I digress, why would I believe that? Had to found out after our mutual friends outed her a few months afterwards.
I was so convinced of breaking up, went to do it in person and buckled. I did not break it up that moment and I truly regret it. We have been together a year and a half more, but it definitely is not the same. I know for a fact that she hasn't deeped the waters another time, but I just don't hold the same love. It has been tainted. And she is truly making an effort, she certainly is putting a lot more into the relationship than me. But I have found myself constantly seeking other women attention and when I got it I just could not even contemplate cheating (not even going on a date). I feel trapped. In a stable enough and happy enough relationship to last but not truly in it.
Sometimes I even wish that things were worse just to make a definite decision but it's not easy. I love her enough to stay but not enough to be fully in it. We live together. What can I even possibly do?
You have a couple of options here:
1) Hold your frame and self respect and embrace the pain, accept that you are going to be sad for a while (5 days, 5 months, 5 years). It’s ok, we’ve all been through this.
2) Learn to live with it for the rest of your life, because it will bother you as long as you walk on the Earth, speaking from experience
After all, make your decision based on the benefits of the next move. Will you regret it in 5 years, or be thankful to yourself?
Also, I can suggest that you take a look at some of Andrew Tate podcasts, like the one with Rollo Tomassi. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but the right one.
Leave her. She cheated once, she will do it again. Kick her out and move on. As men we value our time and attention + love and we dont want to feel like weve wasted our own time, truth is its a hard pill to seall and realize that is exactly what we did, try to understand that the time you’ve invested helped make you a better man, and in so you deserve a better woman.
7:20 reminder
The guy that emailed is actually a sucker, I’ve heard the story before over and over by other men, they’re acting tough. They’re telling you they grew, but guess what happened? They didn’t change anything about their life at home, they still stayed with the same cheater and somehow they’re baloney, this guy is still a beta and he should leave her right on her ass.
Nothing to do with cheating.
I went of a first date last Saturday, thought it went quite well. We spent hours together... From 9pm to 10 pm the next day no sleep. Made out of course.
Today, she sent me a message asking what plans I have for Thursday and Friday night.
I said I didn't have any, but that Saturday I planning on going to this place to see the sunset and that she's welcome to meet me.
She said shes not sure she can, so I dropped her the "No problem, we can do it some other time :) line.
She replied "It's up to you but if you want to go Thursday or Friday night I'm up for it"
So I just went "Let's say 7:30pm outside X metro station?"
Not sure if I handled that right?...
@@jleano609 He didn't change any planning. It was her who couldn't go out on Saturday and shifted to Thursday or Friday. The only mistake, and it's minor at the moment, is telling her he has no plans till saturday (instead of showing he's busy).
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Me now
🤦 1yr with a side dude wtf. Save yourself and the kids
Devastating
Trump2024!! Great video and great advice !
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As soon as you made it political. Buh bye!!
Lmao bye Felicia soft libtard