Fear of losing n low self-esteem = seeking validation externally = attachment = pain. The more you chase outcomes, things, and people, the more unhappy you'll be.
A lot of men fail to understand that being good with women is a skill, much like learning to play an instrument, play a sport, or master a new profession. They assume a man either “has it” or he doesn’t, and don’t grasp the “process” of mastery. One of the earliest lesson for me was accepting that time is going to pass anyway, so you can put in the years necessary to master a skill, or, you can simply watch those years pass and you’re in the same place you were in on Day One. It’s entirely your choice.
Do you think the best football player in your high school, given that he was attractive enough, had to put any effort in learning how to interact with women? You need to master a skill and be proud of it in order to build confidence. Be the best you can at something and get other people's recognition for it (status) and take care of your looks . Women are not a computer that you need to learn how to use, they are just humans. If you are decent looking, you have some kind of status and you just go out to meet people in general and have fun women will end up coming to your life. If you go out just to get women and you link your self worth to the number of women you hook up with then you will emit a repulsive needy energy. So learning game is useless, its just about getting used to socialize, taking care of yourself and being good at something so you can be proud of yourself.
Corey you were a big part of my journey getting clean and addressing my mental health issues after losing a really special relationship because of them. You and a few other relationship folks, along with studying taoism helped me at first to even sleep at night at first, and then to keep momentum as I worked more and more. I naturally get manic and used to spiral. I got to a point where the heartbreak lessened and I thought ‘these videos are kinda cheesy/I don’t need to watch’. Now fast forward a few years. I’m back lol. Meeting good women, but getting really impatient and wanting a relationship, getting frustrated over it, etc. A few days of listening to your stuff and it’s like snapping to again. I guess the only thing I will say is that all this info is absolutely true, and I might mean this more towards other coaches approaches, but it can lead, I have found to overthinking what I say to women, esp over text. But I’d rather have the info than not. Thanks man.
I feel like a lot of people have difficulty understanding the differences between being a PUA and just making it a lifestyle. If you make meeting and talking to women a lifestyle then nothing is a strategy or a line. It is just who you are fundamentally.
So clueless, ignorant, and out of touch with a modern reality where all women are obese or wrongly infantilized into you being seen a creep and there are literally zero places for attractive 20s young men to meet suitable females after college
So I am not a ladies man at all, when I be myself around women they are uninterested in me. I'm averagely attractive, well dressed, and I have confidence but I'm terrible with women. I struggle to have any meaningful conversation besides shallow small talk and I can't flirt to save my life. How do I change this part of my life and become a genuine ladies' man?
Hi Corey, LOVE ur content since it's helped me understand both male and female behaviors. Is your book recommended to read to build better skills for a career in sales?
I’m in sales and it definitely helps a lot with my communication skills in the real world. what i’ve noticed so far is many people are socially awkward and don’t know how to hold a conversation. most are very timid and cannot hold eye contact properly making it a very awkward conversation. I am enrolling in a speech class so I can further enhance my communication skills for my personal and professional life! For the men out there, get into sales. It’s hard but it will push you to become a better version of yourself !
I've been thinking about getting into sales for a career change. Can it be ANY Sales job? Also, I bought the book "Never split the difference" along with Corey's book. To help me with negotiation skills in dating. 😂😂
@@louio haha, i would focus more on a relationship building sales career and less transactional. but yes any sales can teach resilience and rejection. i’ll warn you though it’s not easy at all. it is extremely difficult, but with the right mentors and mindset you can become really good. and this charisma you develop will translate to your personal/relationship life
You are spot on. Been in sales forever. Also you want to be divorced from the outcome. If you have a pipeline of 30 in various stages you don’t care about any single one. Only those that are about to close. If you have only one, it’s terrifying. Abundance and not caring what happens is key.
Jonny Bravo is a cartoon every man should watch. Still funny af, awesome adult innuendos and while he has no balance in his personality and is far far away from being a 3% man, he nails the letting abrasive comments slide of his back like no other🤣
Sometimes I find the advice a little unclear. It seems contradictory like: 1. Don't let a woman get to you when she's difficult but also don't be with girls who are difficult 2. Be playful when they break your balls but also don't tolerate disrespect
I think there is a difference in a woman being difficult and a woman who is difficult as in pretty much always or at least majority of the time is unnecessarily constantly putting off negativity. And women who are "busting your balls" not in the physical way but where she's just kinda testing you on how you handle things if your gonna act like a man should or be an insecure little boy who gets but hurt over absolutely nothing..........if you realize things that aren't that serious are what they are "not that serious" and have indifference but be playful kinda of a smartass that goes a long long way with women.......just my own personal experiences it has for me anyways........good luck just practice socializing and don't be a robot just be your self is all I can say........this just being my own opinion tho.......it's right tho 😏
I use the cat technique. With even my ex and my friends that are girls. It seems like the more I ignore my ex. The more she texts and is all up in my Facebook. Then sends me more money for my son. Im feeling also a shift in closeness with my other friend. Right now i'm through the book a second time. I am stopping each time he says google such and such. Then reading or watching the corresponding video. Im feeling more confident every day.
I just got dumped after being in a five-year relationship, I’m so glad I read this book 5 times during the relationship because I’m a lot more prepared for dating now. (I applied everything in the book to my relationship, but there were some circumstances that were out of my control-distance)
Well sometimes I choose the friendzone whilst I persue other more compatible women. The friend because of personality or circumstances such as she is married can be a great ally and practice to banter.
Precisely, having female friends you're not overly interested in is great for this. It certainly helps if they're in a committed relationship but beware! That hasn't stopped a number of them from making a pass at me
I told my friend the other day to adapt learning how to read the room gauge interest and recipicate accodingly if there comes a time that you have to walk away that is key bc when you know your worth u wont put it on discount layaway or clearance Game information isnt common information
You can't get emotional and overreact. I've found someone that I can be indifferent with while she flutters away in her emotions trying figure out how she feels and why she can't stop thinking about me. It's an interesting chemistry between us.
Love that film Charade. Saw it with my mum when I was about 10. The scene where one of the gang goes up to the open coffin in the church and sticks a pin into his dead mate's hand, to check that he's really dead and not just pretending. Hilarious film.
I love Wayne, I guess it depends on the woman, but if he acts disinterested then I assume he is and I walk away and never look back. Especially if I really liked him. It's a pride and self preservation thing. I did it to a guy I was serious about 2 years ago. It killed me, but 2 years of recovery and I am now with a guy who is such a good guy - my best buddy. Indifference, rude texting, pretending to be 'in demand' and negging did not work on me.
_Indifference makes the DIFFERENCE_ - Corey Wayne This phrase has stuck with me ever since I read the book years ago. It actually helps in business when negotiating deals. You gotta be able to walk away from the table and be okay with the decision.
Lets make a calculation! Man and woman fin each other attractive Both are both are putting out confident, secure, non-needy vibes Both feel nice and easy going in the relationship, and it starts evolving. Conlusion= happy, secure people together make happy couples! Being happy secure and confident is for everyone, only becomes a problem when a woman becomes so independent and masculine that her vibe doesnt click with guys in a relationship sense anymore.
Also I notice insecure women will test you harder when they like you also..not just women test you when they don’t like you..because they are so scared of getting hurt or let down they wanna test you to make sure you really like or love them
Story of my life with this one woman that’s super bratty and just hot and cold. She’s obsessed with me and she does exactly what you say and I just leave then she comes back everytime. She’s been doing this for 8 months and in and out of being in love with me. She has a bf so I even told her it is going nowhere but she keeps trying and hoping for a different outcome. Honestly she’s the one that woke me up and got me super comfortable talking to all women so now even women am into and want am like if it happens cool but if not that’s ok too. If I feel am getting too attached to the one I want I meet more women to distract me so I don’t screw it up with the one I want. BUT I have the mind set if it doesn’t work out with the one I want then it wasn’t meant to be. I really have gotten to see so many different types of women which are good and bad.
this chick at the gym always gave me choosing signals. I went to talk to her she told me she had a boyfriend i smirked like james bond and said okay. and said its ok i understand have a good day ok. the next day she walked right up to me had a 30 minute conversation and asked for my number. I texted her later that night and she responded 12 hours later. I blocked her number and today she tried to put herself where i was working out and looked at me and i kept walking. Never accept games or women who just want attention and show disrespect. some men will play along but she got 1 chance now i can see everyday i dont talk to her its making her more mad. Which i still keep cool smile and keep it moving. Alot of other women in there look at me too i mind my business. Gotta keep cool fellas.
@@sofiamaddix8821 lady, when shes at the gym shes always on her phone. I dont have interest in a woman who has low interest or plays games like that. With all due respect i love the feedback but in my opinion thats disrespectful. yesterday she put herself near me looked at me in the mirrow and i just walked away. im not bitter or give her dirty looks. I just go about my business now. plus she said she had a bf the first time then the next day walked up and asked for my number. lol
Go to the gym every day, make more money, eat an extremely healthy diet, get a good haircut and dress well and groom properly, be confident in everything you do.
I have a problem attracting women. It seems like any women who is even remotely attractive is taken by some guy who is better looking or makes more money than me. How is an average man supposed to compete with these dudes? What do I need to change guys?
change your perspective. reframe your thinking.. money and better looks what do they do : grows you confidence.. with confidence you atract.. do it for you.. if you have confidence, you will feel better inside :) and from there..
Bro what if she is cheating on you? I would question the shit of her, because if you're innocent and she's accusing you out of the blue she is the one projecting guilt and prolly cheating on you. Start asking her questions instead.
Could be a shit test. The book would say to joke, with her, banter, stay in a positive playful frame. Don’t let it affect you, or just walk away... That’s what a strong man would do.
Corey my ex came back but insisted that we're not exclusive. She saw a girl call my cell and now she won't talk to me or meet up. It's not fair how entitled shes acting. I pushed to meet and talk and she ignored me.. what does this mean now?
You're still playing in her game. There's also a time you need to be authentic to yourself. If she does something idiotic "acting" cool about it sends a message that's it's ok when it's not. You also better act cool when she sleeps around or takes half your stuff. Respect yourself always.
Elephant in the room (pun included) - unless you are really big down there (and under 5% body fat, over 6'2"), everything else is transactional and a veiled charade. Notice I never mentioned rich because no one stuffs dollars inside the hoo hoo
hey Coach. my girl of 13 months cheated april 6th and left me april 7th for a kid that has nothing but gives her expensive gifts. he's also in the same city and can give her constant attention (i was long distance and work more hours). today is jul 24th so it has been 3.5 months... i think about her every fking day. (we had magic going on when we were together. i never had that. she was my 207th and my 1st girlfriend) she went from being loving to not talking to me normally (she wont look me in the eyes, i think she's scared of still feeling something. (she would always melt when i looked her in the eyes) and now she's always bitchy). i've had better sex since then, i've slept with 2 girls that look better than her (a 21 year old that rocked my world for days (she was getting attached so i dropped her). and still.. i can't disconnect from her. I just feel despair. my life went to shit. lost the job, will need to move back into the same city as her (and yes i met her while i was abroad. i didn't leave her for work). she's never coming back so my question is... how the fk do i move on?
I am flattered that you consider me a player and even thought how a dating with me might go... I say friday night by (that time) be ready with your nice clothes on and after you can tell me if it met your expectations... (where will we go?)....( it's a surprise) it really reminds Me of "I am not gonna have sex with you" it means she would as long as you don't talk her out of it... daamn who is teaching these stuff ?! :P
The goal is to be indifferent not to tell her you're going to take her out anyways. Seems like this is more trying to seek her approval. Instead of being indifferent and telling her to go find someone else or flipping the script like the book says.
@@AndrewAung1992 are you trying to get mine or Corey's approval? :P the goal is to hang out have fun and hook up... i might try to remember what were you saying next time I will be hooking up :P... cheers
@@4ceosp4des76 If she going test you with her statement like that. Why don't you flip the script and test her. I would tell her to leave then and find someone better. If she comes back she passes and she likes you, if she doesn't she doesn't like you. Then you can do the three Hs cheers go get them tiger.
I met a woman on a dating site recently coach gave me the skills and know how to get her out. I said we should go out and she asked me " if I knew any good places" I said " "of course". She said " tell me about them. I told her" it would be easier to take her out and show her them". She said "Ok let me see about it I will think about it".I then told her " How bout this give me your number and we can have a chat and decide on a day and time" She gave me the number. I told her " I was looking forward to getting to know more about her" She responded " Same here goodnight and sweet dreams". I let her go and haven't called yet this was on Tuesday night I am going to reach out tomorrow afternoon. Like coach said she was testing me and went from " let's see" to "sweet dreams" in just a few messages. Coach Wayne is the Mayne!
Fear of losing n low self-esteem = seeking validation externally = attachment = pain.
The more you chase outcomes, things, and people, the more unhappy you'll be.
Nothing gets better until you get better, nothing changes until you change...
True
That’s the ticket
@@rsimmons41407best ticket ever 🎟️
You’ve been doing what you’ve been doing and you’ve been getting what you’ve been getting. It’s time for a change.
@@andrewpizzino2514🔥🔥🔥
If a woman I’m not involved with is in a bad mood, I’m moving on to someone else. Life is too short to coddle people’s feelings
I needed this lol
A lot of men fail to understand that being good with women is a skill, much like learning to play an instrument, play a sport, or master a new profession. They assume a man either “has it” or he doesn’t, and don’t grasp the “process” of mastery. One of the earliest lesson for me was accepting that time is going to pass anyway, so you can put in the years necessary to master a skill, or, you can simply watch those years pass and you’re in the same place you were in on Day One. It’s entirely your choice.
Do you think the best football player in your high school, given that he was attractive enough, had to put any effort in learning how to interact with women? You need to master a skill and be proud of it in order to build confidence. Be the best you can at something and get other people's recognition for it (status) and take care of your looks . Women are not a computer that you need to learn how to use, they are just humans. If you are decent looking, you have some kind of status and you just go out to meet people in general and have fun women will end up coming to your life. If you go out just to get women and you link your self worth to the number of women you hook up with then you will emit a repulsive needy energy. So learning game is useless, its just about getting used to socialize, taking care of yourself and being good at something so you can be proud of yourself.
Corey you were a big part of my journey getting clean and addressing my mental health issues after losing a really special relationship because of them. You and a few other relationship folks, along with studying taoism helped me at first to even sleep at night at first, and then to keep momentum as I worked more and more. I naturally get manic and used to spiral. I got to a point where the heartbreak lessened and I thought ‘these videos are kinda cheesy/I don’t need to watch’.
Now fast forward a few years. I’m back lol. Meeting good women, but getting really impatient and wanting a relationship, getting frustrated over it, etc. A few days of listening to your stuff and it’s like snapping to again.
I guess the only thing I will say is that all this info is absolutely true, and I might mean this more towards other coaches approaches, but it can lead, I have found to overthinking what I say to women, esp over text. But I’d rather have the info than not. Thanks man.
I feel like a lot of people have difficulty understanding the differences between being a PUA and just making it a lifestyle. If you make meeting and talking to women a lifestyle then nothing is a strategy or a line. It is just who you are fundamentally.
So clueless, ignorant, and out of touch with a modern reality where all women are obese or wrongly infantilized into you being seen a creep and there are literally zero places for attractive 20s young men to meet suitable females after college
So I am not a ladies man at all, when I be myself around women they are uninterested in me. I'm averagely attractive, well dressed, and I have confidence but I'm terrible with women. I struggle to have any meaningful conversation besides shallow small talk and I can't flirt to save my life. How do I change this part of my life and become a genuine ladies' man?
Im feeling what you are saying. Little by little its coming to me.
Read the book 10-15x
16:59 "If you piss me off again i'm gonna walk away" "well Ill see what I can do to piss you off as soon as possible" is $$$
Hi Corey, LOVE ur content since it's helped me understand both male and female behaviors. Is your book recommended to read to build better skills for a career in sales?
I’m in sales and it definitely helps a lot with my communication skills in the real world. what i’ve noticed so far is many people are socially awkward and don’t know how to hold a conversation. most are very timid and cannot hold eye contact properly making it a very awkward conversation. I am enrolling in a speech class so I can further enhance my communication skills for my personal and professional life! For the men out there, get into sales. It’s hard but it will push you to become a better version of yourself !
I've been thinking about getting into sales for a career change. Can it be ANY Sales job?
Also, I bought the book "Never split the difference" along with Corey's book. To help me with negotiation skills in dating. 😂😂
@@louio haha, i would focus more on a relationship building sales career and less transactional. but yes any sales can teach resilience and rejection. i’ll warn you though it’s not easy at all. it is extremely difficult, but with the right mentors and mindset you can become really good. and this charisma you develop will translate to your personal/relationship life
You are spot on. Been in sales forever. Also you want to be divorced from the outcome. If you have a pipeline of 30 in various stages you don’t care about any single one. Only those that are about to close. If you have only one, it’s terrifying. Abundance and not caring what happens is key.
The difference that makes the difference is
Indifference.
Jonny Bravo is a cartoon every man should watch. Still funny af, awesome adult innuendos and while he has no balance in his personality and is far far away from being a 3% man, he nails the letting abrasive comments slide of his back like no other🤣
Sometimes I find the advice a little unclear. It seems contradictory like:
1. Don't let a woman get to you when she's difficult but also don't be with girls who are difficult
2. Be playful when they break your balls but also don't tolerate disrespect
I think there is a difference in a woman being difficult and a woman who is difficult as in pretty much always or at least majority of the time is unnecessarily constantly putting off negativity.
And women who are "busting your balls" not in the physical way but where she's just kinda testing you on how you handle things if your gonna act like a man should or be an insecure little boy who gets but hurt over absolutely nothing..........if you realize things that aren't that serious are what they are "not that serious" and have indifference but be playful kinda of a smartass that goes a long long way with women.......just my own personal experiences it has for me anyways........good luck just practice socializing and don't be a robot just be your self is all I can say........this just being my own opinion tho.......it's right tho 😏
Read the book 15 more times then the contradictions will disappear
Nuance
Outstanding as usual brother. I need another read through of the book!!
I flipped the script on women so many times, I lost the plot...
Cheers Coach.
Lmao
I use the cat technique. With even my ex and my friends that are girls. It seems like the more I ignore my ex. The more she texts and is all up in my Facebook. Then sends me more money for my son. Im feeling also a shift in closeness with my other friend. Right now i'm through the book a second time. I am stopping each time he says google such and such. Then reading or watching the corresponding video. Im feeling more confident every day.
peace is found on the other side of discipline
Once again the coach comes to the rescue when it's needed. Excellent timing!
I laughed out loud several times at your level of candour. Aging like fine wine Coach
I just got dumped after being in a five-year relationship, I’m so glad I read this book 5 times during the relationship because I’m a lot more prepared for dating now.
(I applied everything in the book to my relationship, but there were some circumstances that were out of my control-distance)
Thank you for this vid, CW! This came at the right time in my journey
Click your heels 3 times and repeat "There's no place like The Friend Zone."
hahaha , good one
Like the twilight zone , only worse ...
Incels chasing the juice box. Changing yourselves to suit a woman.
Well sometimes I choose the friendzone whilst I persue other more compatible women. The friend because of personality or circumstances such as she is married can be a great ally and practice to banter.
Precisely, having female friends you're not overly interested in is great for this. It certainly helps if they're in a committed relationship but beware! That hasn't stopped a number of them from making a pass at me
Love when Corey does the robot voice. The arm movements are so funny.
I told my friend the other day to adapt learning how to read the room gauge interest and recipicate accodingly
if there comes a time that you have to walk away that is key bc when you know your worth u wont put it on discount layaway or clearance
Game information isnt common information
You can't get emotional and overreact. I've found someone that I can be indifferent with while she flutters away in her emotions trying figure out how she feels and why she can't stop thinking about me. It's an interesting chemistry between us.
Great advice, thank you
Love that film Charade. Saw it with my mum when I was about 10. The scene where one of the gang goes up to the open coffin in the church and sticks a pin into his dead mate's hand, to check that he's really dead and not just pretending. Hilarious film.
He who sweats heavily in practice bleeds less in battle
I love Wayne, I guess it depends on the woman, but if he acts disinterested then I assume he is and I walk away and never look back. Especially if I really liked him. It's a pride and self preservation thing.
I did it to a guy I was serious about 2 years ago. It killed me, but 2 years of recovery and I am now with a guy who is such a good guy - my best buddy.
Indifference, rude texting, pretending to be 'in demand' and negging did not work on me.
Quality stuff, thank you!
This is really great. I’m learning how to play games with women really well
You're part of the problem.
‘Insufferable fking cents’..so honest straight talking Corey W…
_Indifference makes the DIFFERENCE_ - Corey Wayne
This phrase has stuck with me ever since I read the book years ago. It actually helps in business when negotiating deals. You gotta be able to walk away from the table and be okay with the decision.
Lets make a calculation!
Man and woman fin each other attractive
Both are both are putting out confident, secure, non-needy vibes
Both feel nice and easy going in the relationship, and it starts evolving.
Conlusion= happy, secure people together make happy couples!
Being happy secure and confident is for everyone, only becomes a problem when a woman becomes so independent and masculine that her vibe doesnt click with guys in a relationship sense anymore.
Hit Man on Netflix is an excellent example of bantering
Also I notice insecure women will test you harder when they like you also..not just women test you when they don’t like you..because they are so scared of getting hurt or let down they wanna test you to make sure you really like or love them
"You're being naughty" with a smirk works too.
Absolutely love this video! It came at the right time for me.
Merci!
Consider this: read the word of God 10-15 times and learn from the Creator how men were created to be. Ask, seek, knock!
Story of my life with this one woman that’s super bratty and just hot and cold. She’s obsessed with me and she does exactly what you say and I just leave then she comes back everytime. She’s been doing this for 8 months and in and out of being in love with me. She has a bf so I even told her it is going nowhere but she keeps trying and hoping for a different outcome.
Honestly she’s the one that woke me up and got me super comfortable talking to all women so now even women am into and want am like if it happens cool but if not that’s ok too. If I feel am getting too attached to the one I want I meet more women to distract me so I don’t screw it up with the one I want. BUT I have the mind set if it doesn’t work out with the one I want then it wasn’t meant to be. I really have gotten to see so many different types of women which are good and bad.
Nothing like experiencing it yourself, cant just read about it or watch youtube videos on it and assume that's how it is.
Legend thank you! 🙏🏻
this chick at the gym always gave me choosing signals. I went to talk to her she told me she had a boyfriend i smirked like james bond and said okay. and said its ok i understand have a good day ok. the next day she walked right up to me had a 30 minute conversation and asked for my number. I texted her later that night and she responded 12 hours later. I blocked her number and today she tried to put herself where i was working out and looked at me and i kept walking. Never accept games or women who just want attention and show disrespect. some men will play along but she got 1 chance now i can see everyday i dont talk to her its making her more mad. Which i still keep cool smile and keep it moving. Alot of other women in there look at me too i mind my business. Gotta keep cool fellas.
@@sofiamaddix8821 lady, when shes at the gym shes always on her phone. I dont have interest in a woman who has low interest or plays games like that. With all due respect i love the feedback but in my opinion thats disrespectful. yesterday she put herself near me looked at me in the mirrow and i just walked away. im not bitter or give her dirty looks. I just go about my business now. plus she said she had a bf the first time then the next day walked up and asked for my number. lol
and i did text her back and didnt text me back all day i dont deal with women like this
so many woman want attention at the gym just focus on yourself there amen
half the time they just think can I get him best chance is to hit PRs and get bigger and ignore if shes into you there, she will approach
"I texted her later that night".
You couldn't resist like a little boy who wants the cookie right away.
😂😂😂😂 i just laugh every dang time. Lol idk why ..
If I join on your website in order to get the annual discount will i be able to watch on you tube?
"Life is too hard to be with a chick who is constantly making your life difficult" are wise words to live by
Any advice on where to meet women at besides a bar?
How are you supposed to practice if they never talk to you or show any sort of interest at all?
Go to the gym every day, make more money, eat an extremely healthy diet, get a good haircut and dress well and groom properly, be confident in everything you do.
Escorts Will show interest when u pay..works for me 😂
...And go talk to them.
I have a problem attracting women. It seems like any women who is even remotely attractive is taken by some guy who is better looking or makes more money than me. How is an average man supposed to compete with these dudes? What do I need to change guys?
Take care of yourself. Be yourself. Stop trying. Focus on building a life you love.
change your perspective. reframe your thinking.. money and better looks what do they do : grows you confidence.. with confidence you atract.. do it for you.. if you have confidence, you will feel better inside :) and from there..
Coach my gf keeps falsely accusing me of cheating .. even with family members wife .. WTH should I do .. haven’t cheated on her at all
Bro what if she is cheating on you? I would question the shit of her, because if you're innocent and she's accusing you out of the blue she is the one projecting guilt and prolly cheating on you.
Start asking her questions instead.
Been through this before. Break up with her. It WON’T GET BETTER. The future you will thank you for splitting up with her.
Could be a shit test. The book would say to joke, with her, banter, stay in a positive playful frame. Don’t let it affect you, or just walk away... That’s what a strong man would do.
Takes attention away from her own cheating.
@@petertensuda1192 nah that’s not the case . She works w my family and is always either at work or at home …
Corey my ex came back but insisted that we're not exclusive. She saw a girl call my cell and now she won't talk to me or meet up. It's not fair how entitled shes acting. I pushed to meet and talk and she ignored me.. what does this mean now?
It means don't wait around go live your life, don't bother reaching out.. if she's come back then she comes back.
it means she's your EX.
fuck that bitch
Stop the games. If you want to be with her let other women go.
don't over pursue , let her adore you , just keep your cool , ty Corey
You're still playing in her game. There's also a time you need to be authentic to yourself.
If she does something idiotic "acting" cool about it sends a message that's it's ok when it's not. You also better act cool when she sleeps around or takes half your stuff.
Respect yourself always.
But by asking questions do you not show interest?
Playful banter with a woman is a good way to gauge chemistry.
Elephant in the room (pun included) - unless you are really big down there (and under 5% body fat, over 6'2"), everything else is transactional and a veiled charade. Notice I never mentioned rich because no one stuffs dollars inside the hoo hoo
Don’t be an incel lol
I pay no mind to women. I find that makes them gravitate towards me. It’s indifference. They are curious why you don’t behave like other men. 🤷🏻♂️
Love u bro
hey Coach. my girl of 13 months cheated april 6th and left me april 7th for a kid that has nothing but gives her expensive gifts. he's also in the same city and can give her constant attention (i was long distance and work more hours). today is jul 24th so it has been 3.5 months...
i think about her every fking day. (we had magic going on when we were together. i never had that. she was my 207th and my 1st girlfriend)
she went from being loving to not talking to me normally (she wont look me in the eyes, i think she's scared of still feeling something. (she would always melt when i looked her in the eyes) and now she's always bitchy).
i've had better sex since then, i've slept with 2 girls that look better than her (a 21 year old that rocked my world for days (she was getting attached so i dropped her). and still.. i can't disconnect from her. I just feel despair. my life went to shit. lost the job, will need to move back into the same city as her (and yes i met her while i was abroad. i didn't leave her for work).
she's never coming back so my question is... how the fk do i move on?
You have the power. Focus on yourself.
Was wondering where that join button was, $10 a month for how many women I’ve hooked up with due to Corey’s knowledge is nothing.
Coachbot Corey 😂
Guiltily
I am flattered that you consider me a player and even thought how a dating with me might go... I say friday night by (that time) be ready with your nice clothes on and after you can tell me if it met your expectations... (where will we go?)....( it's a surprise)
it really reminds Me of "I am not gonna have sex with you" it means she would as long as you don't talk her out of it... daamn who is teaching these stuff ?! :P
The goal is to be indifferent not to tell her you're going to take her out anyways. Seems like this is more trying to seek her approval. Instead of being indifferent and telling her to go find someone else or flipping the script like the book says.
@@AndrewAung1992 are you trying to get mine or Corey's approval? :P the goal is to hang out have fun and hook up... i might try to remember what were you saying next time I will be hooking up :P... cheers
@@4ceosp4des76 If she going test you with her statement like that. Why don't you flip the script and test her. I would tell her to leave then and find someone better. If she comes back she passes and she likes you, if she doesn't she doesn't like you. Then you can do the three Hs cheers go get them tiger.
Don’t be douche or you won’t be introdouched to their friends 😅
FI R S T
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All this stress, lmao
No way
The self help journey never ends, which is a good thing
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I met a woman on a dating site recently coach gave me the skills and know how to get her out. I said we should go out and she asked me " if I knew any good places" I said " "of course". She said " tell me about them. I told her" it would be easier to take her out and show her them". She said "Ok let me see about it I will think about it".I then told her " How bout this give me your number and we can have a chat and decide on a day and time" She gave me the number. I told her " I was looking forward to getting to know more about her" She responded " Same here goodnight and sweet dreams". I let her go and haven't called yet this was on Tuesday night I am going to reach out tomorrow afternoon. Like coach said she was testing me and went from " let's see" to "sweet dreams" in just a few messages. Coach Wayne is the Mayne!
Women on dating sites have huge body counts, don't be so excited 😂
You’re 10% of the way there. Women change like the weather, grab an umbrella even if it’s sunny.
@@Gobstopperrr LOL! Indeed this is why it is important to have multiple choices until you find one that deserves your full attention.
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