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No Contact, Moving On & Being Single Again After A Breakup
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- Опубликовано: 5 янв 2023
- Employing no contact, moving on and being single again after a breakup.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is new to my work. He recently broke up with his girlfriend 2 months ago which led him to my articles, videos and books. He shares his journey of overcoming heartbreak, being single again and getting back into the world of dating. He describes how he’s using what he’s learning in 3% Man, to start dating again, be more selective and create a life and lifestyle that continually brings new dating prospects effortlessly into his life.
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I prefer this content more than the ultra red pill content. This is more realistic and relatable
And that’s the truth. It takes emotional maturity to listen and understand this versus the red pill
@@albert-lutherrandolph2808 the red pill standards are so high, it’s just unrealistic. AMS was saying if a girl cancels once even if she reschedules, never try to meet her again? !? Lol wtf
It's way less far-fetched
Redpill is just knowing women nature. Corey is also redpill but for relationships which is also called purple pill. Extreme redpill which i assume ur talking about is just blackpill or woman hating
@@nova12332 yes I mean extreme red pill AMS/Tate/Fresh&Fit
If you decide to be with a woman, you must know that she might leave you even if the relationship works almost perfectly. Everything in life is a risk, including life itself. Therefore, if you are not attached to the relationship and that woman, you'll be okay with the outcome - the breakup won't bother you at all.
Not being bothered is unrealistic,but we get your point
Not being bothered is if you have the power in the relationship. If you are higher value than her. I've experienced both sides of the coin.
@@paulthomas2178 same. But now after many years of experience, I have more of an abundance mindset. Still bothers me when someone I liked more than she liked me decides to leave, but the difference is I get over it much more quickly than I did when I was younger. Take it as another learning experience. Because knowing the skills and remembering that you can pull excellent result, gives you the confidence to move on and find someone just as good or better every single time
Yep woman are finicky . I had one show me interest, she initiated everything, I only reciprocated what she was giving out. She gave me two compliments and I just said thanks and never gave her one. I was convinced she liked me. Then I reached out to her, she ignored me and ghosted me. No response and that was two months ago. I just moved on. Not sure why women would do this but next time I’ll just ignore these signs
@@steel128 absolutely👍
Men must understand that you have to accept total responsibility for relationships that sour, both personal or business. When you can do this great things will start happening for you in life. Yes, it is a strong mindset that allows you to crush your personal goals!
Yep because we all should know women will never accept accountability for anything.
So I agree with you. Man to man what would yoh say when a woman really loves and truly cares for you but is giving you ultimatus. She wanted me to leave my family, friends and my daughter to move to missouri with her. She said she cant see me not in her life and she fought hard but she had some serious insecurities. Is there ever a time where you go with it because of that deep love that is shared?
@@ApostleThe344 No good woman would want you to leave your daughter, period.
@@brianwaller7383 a good healthy woman does, Brother. They are out there.
@@tjbohmier46 yeah it’s like finding a 1929 penny from a bucket of 10 million pennies
This just said everything I needed to hear! Broke up in November. She spoke her mind. I read the book. We talked a little in December. The interest is low on her side. Even after some great chats and laughs. I started reading the book again and watching videos. I hit a place yesterday where it just clicked and I’m done. No point in wasting energy and looking like a dumb ass. I like what was said about “thanks for not wasting my time.” There’s so much good material in this. Thank you
How did you even start speaking again in December
This man saw his worth and realized he is the prize. That is what is needed to become a 3% man. Hats off to him!!!
Heal and focus on yourself… learn from your past mistakes in the relationship… next relationship, listen more, communicate and act like a man in the relationship and not a doormat.
And stay off the phone, make eye contact constantly. Women wont be able to handle that in an intimate way. For any dating i would say i slept with women on the first sate 90% of the time
Dude, are you following my life? So many of your videos come out exactly when I need them!
We're all in this wonderful thing called life together. My wins are your wins and your losses are mine as well. Enjoy it man and no matter what happens, remember we're all here together
I think a lot of Corey's followers are engineers because we like to diagnose problems, figure out the failure mode, and try to improve the next iteration.
I had a lot of issues towards the end of my last relationship, even though I've been following Corey's material for 5+ years now. I fixed a lot of issues from a relationship 5 years ago where I was dumped (which caused me to find CW in the first place), but new ones sprang up that caught me off guard. I'm in a new relationship now where - so far - it just feels like second nature and this *younger, hotter girlfriend* just can't get enough of me. Just keep living and learning, fellas.
Btw Corey, if you ever need a real life testimonial, I'd love to connect. You have my Uncle Bill on your pod once in a while, and I visit WPB on occasion.
Im in sales so we always want to improve and be better
Good in you sir. Also you may be right about the engineer thing as I'm one myself.
Engineer here 🤓
@@HawaiianKong she aint yours man. Its just your turn. She can leave at any moment. Be prepared.
It takes emotional maturity to listen and understand this way of thinking versus the red pill or black pill.
Redpill is different from black pill they are not the same
This man saved me 2 times once in highschool and in college, now that im working I still go to this man for advice, great work !!!
Welcome to the 3% club, the journey is amazing when you take responsibility for everything in your life
5 years ago I was on your page heavy trying to learn game…. Got into 2 relationships back to back haven’t been single since 2018 and finally I’m at the place of this email…. I need to work on myself for myself
Gotta become a 3% man
Thank you Corey for holding us down all these years your the man
The hardest type of break up is the one where no one did anything wrong but life’s circumstances have caused the break reasons such as religion, career choices, moving etc. Regardless be on your mission and never make women your focus
Everything EXCEPT!! For religion makes sense to me for breaking up
Happened to me situationship not heard from her since a month
@@Digitalizedx
Yeah mine started complaining she didn’t hear from me unless she texted me first. I tried to open her up, but she refused to speak to me on the phone. Almost 3 weeks of silence.
You’re just assuming that this wouldn’t of come out, I didn’t get a chance for it to come out
last year I met a beautifull girl gorgeous if I might say, at first she was like a angel, so as someone who use to be insecure this was like a dream come true, but as time went on I became more needy and wanted to see her every week. And by me loosing all my masculine frame I pushed the girl away to the point that I went no contact. I started working on my issues and got my masculine aura back and in late october she messaged me. We texted for 3 days and on the 4th day, we went with some other female classmates for some coffee and when one of the girls asked her why she was chatting with multiple dudes she said "more options" right in front of me. I realised she was disrespecting me and stoped all contact once again, deleted her number and moved on with my life. Later I heard she was upset that I stopped talking to her, but hey If the appology is louder than the disrespect I might consider talking to her again as I allso had part in the falling out, but if not so be it. My point in all of this is don't tolerate bulls**t, there are cuter, kinder and better girls out there. I know becouse in theese 2 weeks of me going out and socialising I realised that.
Just my 2 cents. But don’t let that knock you off your center. If she said that, show (not brag) how you also have options, even if you don’t. You don’t need to tell her who you are potentially talking with. Laugh about it. Don’t get emotional about it. But honestly the mistake was going on a group date with her and her friend to a coffee date. Cause they both can double team on you to test your masculinity. Which looks like they did.
@@ZeroTolerence0 I forgot to mention it it wasnt a group date, I wanted to grab coffee with a girl-friend and more people came in the mix thats how she ended up with us. My friend is no longer in contact with her because she was sad she introduced her to me as she also didnt know this side of her. After that I just went no contact and focused on my exams and on the recent post I made she commented on it, but like I said if the apology is louder than the disrespect then I might consider talking to her. But thank you for commenting and giving me info, I am human and I also make mistakes and I want to learn from them we can grow from them.
Bro, that you wanted to see her once a week is not needy. If you see somebody twice a month (in the same area), that is not a relationship. Thats's an occasional hookup, which she saw you as. Corey is teaching you not to put up with, nor seek out bs like that in the first place.
dude she has to come to your place after no contact at least 3 times, read the book
This guys advice works - if you follow it. Read 3% man and listen to what he tells you.
I'm a 43 year old divorcee who used to just settle for any woman who would speak to me on a dating app.
6 months ago I met a woman at a bus stop we were both using regularly - she's 49. I'd been single for 3 years ( mostly through choice ) and she was 4 months single. We got speaking and I asked her out.
I'd already read Corey's book 6 times and felt prepared.
From the offset she made it clear she didn't want anything serious.
So - from the offset I used Corey's techniques and had her in my bed on the 3rd night ( 6 days )
I now have her basically begging for my time. At least 5 phone calls from her a day and several texts telling me she loves me.
I don't even have to put in that much effort.
Get the book, read it, follow it and you will have similar success.
I had the same success, but like Corey Wayne says, if there's an X in the background, no matter if you are on top of your game ,sometimes, she will go back to him, and that's exactly what happened to me, but the book does work.... Corey wrote that in the book an in a video, I think it was called( dating women on the rebound) he encountered the same thing ,,she wasn't over her ex ,,he ran into her six months later and she told him she was still in love with her ex, but he was moving on by that time with somebody new. That's why he says always leave the door open because you never know when they'll come back, 2 months, 5 years 10 years then it's your choice to make a decision if you want them back
Hope she isn’t a borderline
@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Got it
She sounds crazy lol
In the book it says one date a week!!! you said the third night in 6 days oh, that's pretty fast and she's only been out of the relationship Four months.. The girl I was dating was only out Four months, from her previous relationship and I'll bet you she starts backing off, what's the rush, she sounds needy, just rebounding , she told you she loved you already, that was only in that moment, the girl I was seeing said the same thing, and still went back to her ex boyfriend, good luck...
My girl of a year and some change just broke up-I feel good about it-she was beautiful but I was on that 3% man the whole time and started reading it 2 years before and had a lot of beauties before her…but I’m so excited to see what else the universe has up its sleeve for me :) we never fought-but she had too many problems. And meeee I got nothing but options 💪🏼
Amen. Just live your life and see as life unfolds for each person, which paths cross and what paths don’t??
If she dips move on. She chose to not be with you, that's all you need to know. Take stock, get the lessons out of it, work on it, get better. Next time go for better. Don't waste your time.
Women these days can’t be trusted. Stay single and enjoy your money and life.
I dont always comment but there is so much information hidden in this video. Coach gave away plenty of it away and that guy is also inspirational. I am going through the same situation like that guy. Good Job King
I lost a good one because of my insecurity and stupid mistakes after 3 years. It’s been almost 6 months I’m doing a lot better But I’m not gonna lie it does hurt how easy women can move on and find new options out there.
Well, that's true, women r a b1tch for doing that. But those men who r ready to act as her doormat n a trashable option for her by betraying fellow men needs to be taken to task as well! Men betraying fellow men is the worst thing in world, even more than girl cheating on us!
U were insecure a got with that girl for 3 y , imagine now ?
Its not abt how easly they move one .. its their life , they can fuck up many time after u .. focus on urself to get a better quality future relationship .
The social dynamics make it easy for them to move on in terms of new thing not better thing
@@abderrahimbelagnach9856 thanks for the reassurance. I’ve been in the gym and focusing on self improvement!
@@abderrahimbelagnach9856 8-9months later there are still women sitting still. This goes both ways
Moving forward is the difficult part for me. I've grieved. I worked through the pain and heartbreak. I've reflected and made peace with acceptance.
But
Moving forward absolutely breaks my heart that he won't be by my side for the new adventures 😢
Good morning coach!
Coach, I've been following you for like 6 years. You HAVE to get on the Playing With Fire podcast. I recently started following these guys and they are great. Alex is growing quickly and interviews anybody who is anybody in the manosphere. (Hes not a redpiller) I would really like to see you get on there and defend your concepts.
Saludos desde Guadalajara Jalisco Mexico Corey El mejor coach
So true, learn from our mistakes-what NOT to do NEXT TIME.
I got out of a 3-month old relationship just recently. It started out fine and dandy, but it started to dwindle little by little. Our breakup had a lot to do with a lack of mutual attraction. Because she's an Asexual, it's hard for her to feel any sexual attraction to anyone, and she had a hard time reciprocating intimacy. So we were sexually incompatible. I don't mind us being friends because she's still a great person to connect and have deep conversations with, but I'm currently on no contact for a while, so I heal up and move on from the relationship. We both handled the breakup pretty well because I don't want to be with someone who doesn't find me attractive, and she doesn't want to feel like I have to try really hard to get her to feel sexually attracted to me. Just because she doesn't find me attractive doesn't mean no one else will. I was hoping for our relationship to be healthy enough to be considered an end game, but it sucks getting back into a never-ending process of finding the right person. All I can do is learn from it, focus on myself, and keep moving. I know she and I will find our match at some point in the future.
I'm going through a similar thing right now after a 4.5 month relationship with a woman I've been friends with for 4 years. Your post helped me.
I'm not gonna take it NO ! ! ! I'm not going to take it anymore ! ! !
Just in the right timing, thank you coach Corey
I followed Coach's advice, when I was out of a relationship, and no joke I had over 700 match on Hinge within 2.5 months--with selective swiping. Sent ZERO message and literally received 100's of messages. Take good pics and you will thrive online, which is WAY harder than in person
You must be a hinge employee lol
@@brianwaller7383 Not at all man. I used my Fb profile pic, in the suit, and had other pics of me. I am also 6'2"
@@Blodia1990 I’ve gotten way more responses on the Facebook dating app then everywhere else maybe because it’s free. Still plenty of garbage to shift through. I’ve had two dates in a month from there. Still talking to two. But my response rate is still under 3%. The other apps was like .33% yes 1/3 of one percent.
@@brianwaller7383 Do you message them first?
Words of wisdom Coach. 👍🏾
I couldn't run across this video at a better time. Finding out I got cheated on on the first day of the year. Talk about a clean slate here we go
@@blair5475 I'm not going to get into the details of it but I will say this. It was a great experience I learned a lot from and a lot of good times and a lot of fun. And also some great memories never forget.
That is already a great thing my friend! When you feel like you've hit rock bottom, the only way is up starting today.Better things are coming soon
Coach Corey Sir I swear you never age! Been with you for 10 years. You saved me from getting involved with a few Jezebel’s 😄👍💪
"Jezebel's "😂😂😂😂
I wish you all the best in the new year Mr. Wayne
Your content is the most important thing on this platform in my opinion
Thank you for all your efforts.
Corey seriously man such solid advice. Where did you learn it from seriously? Just endless breakups?
I have now read the book 2 times and have not seen the section for how to get your ex back.... Ah well the book has helped me a lot and I am already starting to read it a second time.
Love this video Corey!
Yes good positive video
My only issue is that i ignored my intuition and all the redflags. My mind was telling me exacly what was going on in the first week, i just chose not to listen 😢
Your cock did the thinking brother lol
My two cents for anybody that wants it: I just let a girl go that I’ve been with for 5 years. She’s a dismissive avoidant. I’ve let her go 4 times over the last 5 years, to do as she pleases. When she leaves, I continue dating, much to her chagrin. However, SHE chooses to leave, and I let her know that I’ll be dating immediately. Getting women has never been difficult for me. I don’t chase or beg, or try to reason. I tell her to keep in touch and “good luck”. She always comes back, asking for another chance, because no other men treat her with a “take it or leave it” attitude. You have to be that rock, for ALL females. Don’t cater or fall on your knees for anybody.
If you find a girl like this, you can’t take it seriously. They get comfortable and forget what they have. Enjoy her when she’s around, be happy when she’s not. My main point: don’t expect to tie an avoidant down. One of these days, while she’s out of my life, I’ll meet the RIGHT girl, which is bound to happen, and all will work out as it should.
This girl was the person I got things dialed In on, practicing what Corey preaches.
@@dannywholuv it’ll drive you crazy, then angry that you chose to waste that much of your life.
Never again 2 years of my life wasted I dumped them a few times and everytime for them to come back and turn up the bullshit there fucked 😂
It’s been a little over 3 months since she dumped me. 3 weeks later I find out she’s dating someone “new” and Is currently still dating. No contact ever since. Specially difficult during the holidays. I helped her raise a baby girl for almost two years. The door was closed to her as well. I still feel mentally broken. I am scared of my mind and all these thoughts. I don’t want to continue like this.
It’s a rebound with one of her “male orbiters”… she already mentally left the relationship long before you guys broke up… you should move on too. She used you it sounds like. Not sure if the baby is yours or another man’s but either way, she liked the company you kept, wasn’t 💯 percent into you. Find someone who is more of a match for you. You’ll be ok
I know the feeling (I think we all do). Even 6 months after getting dumped by a girl I knew I wasn’t compatible with, and dating younger, hotter girls, I was still spiraling. A professional therapist helped, but honestly a mild anti-depressant prescription really helped me climb out of the hole, detach from my ex emotionally (who’s been seeing a new guy), and really enjoy the holidays and focus on my new girlfriend. Just my .02 man. Let me know if you need any advice or encouragement!
It's gets easier chin up keep busy and never go back ever.
Damn dude watch the video
@@cryptopharmacist7983 I believe she used me too. I’m letting time take control of this whole situation. I’m hoping it will get better. I just hope to change this side of me at some point, the type of person that gives his all for the incorrect one. You will end up like me, abandoned, laughed at and tossed aside when there is no use for you anymore.
Corey is the most based dating coach out there
Good advice
Me and that person are going through the same thing at the same time except for he handled it better
The email guy is a G
I had zero success on Bumble. Seemed like half the profiles I see were likely inactive users or just passing through on vacation (I'm in Orlando).
Use Facebook dating
I miss the quotes in the beginning, you had really good stuff
Great story man! Taking notes
Corey is the Boss!
I suppose I can be a man and take responsibility for the mistakes I made obviously I made some. We’re only people though it doesn’t make it any easier.
What he is saying is so true. My fiancee who I had been with 5 years monkey branched to a co-worker she used to make fun of. When I found out I packed my belongings and left. At that point I realized something had to change. I started working out and running again. I lost over 30 pounds and reached 5 miles per day.
How are you a month later?
@@coadymcgarry1878 a little better. She reaches out breadcrumbing me every chance she gets so that has made it harder. This last time I just told her that I had come to the conclusion we were not meant to be together long term bc the person I thought she was would never have done to me what she did. Haven't heard back and it's been almost a week. I'm just working on myself daily in every aspect of my life which seems to help with the sadness and depression.
@@robertwhitehead9831 been with mine 11 years. Still live with her still sleep in same boat lol no contact however been almost 3 months since the split. Kinda ignored her for a long time so she is use to it so ive been takibg her out and doibg fun things with her but doesnt seem to change her opinion
Look for ways you can be causitive, focus on goals, stop begging for attention. See the advantages of what is happening.
I never understood why most women, as Corey said, prefer 6ft+ tall men? When the average height for women are 5'4 tall, and the average height for men are 5'9 tall, in the U.S that is. If you go with world wide it's 5'2 tall for women, and 5'6 for men. I could understand if you are an above average height woman looking for an above average height man. Not many women want's to kneel down to kiss a guy lol! However, most women are 5'2-5'6, so why isn't a guy that's 5'6-5'9 good enough for 80% of those women? I'm only 5'7, and I've dated taller women. Maybe that's because I don't have a short man complex, I don't know lol! I just think closer to height would be more preferable. I really don't care too much of height on women, unless extremely short or tall lol!
So I had this girl who was obsessed with me, we began dating and it was going great. However I started failing tests and eventually left her in her masculine and I became a needy little bitch and got the "lets just be friends, I'm not looking for anything right now" speech. I then found Corey's work, told her that wouldn't fly and I went no contact for a month. She reached out, I set a date and she was very flirty and girly with me all night, buying me drinks and we hung out, had fun and ended the night by hooking up.
Few days later we hung out again and again she was back to being very girly and flirty with me and kept touching me, it wasn't an intended hang out so I had to go to work and she ended up going seeing my mam later and chatting with her.
Didn't text her for a week and then she wished me happy new years, I asked when she was free to hang out and she said she's on medication atm but was free all week and wanted to hang out and see me again. We went bowling and at the start she was very cold and almost standoffish and I could feel my insecurities creeping in, however I stood firm and she then became girly and touchy with me again and at the end of the night, handed me a bag and said she got me things for Christmas and couldn't get them to me sooner because she was sick and I definitely did not expect Christmas presents. I went from being needy, to her flirty with me, having sex with me and buying me Christmas presents all because I went no contact
I mentioned I was going on a day trip and she said she'd be interested in coming along if she felt better, when I asked however she said she was feeling a bit better and would consider it, however the weather isn't great and she'd rather we done something else. I said I'm going anyway and that's fine, I'll just find someone else to tag along. She got back to me the next morning and said she was at dhe doctor as she woke up ill again and couldn't come on the trip. I told her no worries, get better and let me know she's ready to hang out again and she said "hahah ok". What's the play from here? I've not read 3% man enough yet however I was wondering if her going cold when we were bowling was a test?
Sounds like she is the problem, do you really want to deal with the hot and cold? Could be a test but if a woman is healthy and really into you, she wont test. From what you're saying it looks like you're doing everything right... keep reading the book and be yourself. The book is a guideline not a formula.
Coach, what you're opinion on Nofab?
my fuckin ex gf just contacted me today, a whole year of no contact
Damn Good luck.
Corey looks younger and younger as the years go on
Your videos aren't showing up on Spotify?
It is normal to want to meet New people after a break Up i was seeing coming the end for several months and it was exausting but the things is i have energy and Want to know New people , It is normal ? Because i dont feel bad or sorry i feel Happy and Whit energy sometimes flashbacks come to my mind but the images desepear quickly
I’m not a guy, (I’m a gal 🥰) but, I really would like to take this advice. I’m currently in a crappy disrespectful abusive relationship where he prioritizes other women (porn) over me, I’m always last, he disrespects me, judges, puts me down you name it.
In the beginning we were SO IN LOVE (but it was just him love bombing me). Promised marriage and all kinds of empty promises that ever happened. But I the beginning I was completely oblivious to what his true intentions were and was Gullible enough to believe everything was just fine and things were great etc.. he had moved from Miami up to Virginia to live with me. Then after a month out of nowhere he packed his shit and went back. Completely blindsided me and put me in total shock. I had a severe nervous breakdown that entirely wrecked my life and STILL to this day I’m STILL fucked up from it and coping. I lost myself, and I can’t even go into EVERYTHING typing here during my breakdown, but, for an entire year after he left, I BEGGED AND BEGGED him back. Like I COULD NOT LIVE without him. I attempted suicide, I was diagnosed with (whatever that medical term is I forgot) a broken heart (but survived), I got addicted to drugs, I dropped down to almost 100lbs, my hair was falling out, my hair turned almost completely grey, I wasn’t sure stung AT ALL. I isolated myself, stopped going into public, ALL I did for a YEAR was mope, cry, suffer, starve, sit and stare at my wall for HOURS AND HOURS and even DAYS without moving and sometimes sat and stared SO LONG if eventually passed out to sleep would wake up and not even know where I was who I was or anything.
I had to go into a mental facility for awhile.
That entire year we talked on the phone EVERYDAY, and he was up and down and up and down and Just SO indecisive and kept giving me the run around. Till finally, he came back.
Well….. NOW I KNOW WHY THE UNIVERSE had him LEAVE n the FIRST PLACE!!!
He ain’t worth a SHIT!!
Ever s in me he’s been back he’s lied, betrayed, abused me , and just the list goes on…
To the point even though I had lost myself LONG ago when he left, I feel like I’m not even existing anymore.
And I am SO FED UP I am now to the point I just want him to LEAVE.
Even though I have ALOT more work and healing to do, I have LEARNED the lesson within this mess, I have now learned red flags, toxic behaviors, how to make boundaries and STICK TO THEM, how to respect myself more, NEVER to beg ANYONE to be in my life, how to let go, trust the process the universe throws at me, never to lose myself over ANYONE Ever again, my love language, the 7 different types of love, and much more.
In the beginning I was SO ANGRY BECAUSE I couldn’t understand WHY this happened. After ALL I’ve been through in life, and now THIS?!
I couldn’t understand why I wasn’t worthy of love or why nobody wanted me (I’m still kinda struggling with this honestly but I’m working on it..)…
I have a plan to end this hell of a relationship but it will take time. I just can’t up and move or leave or just do whatever it’s just impossible with my situation at the moment.
However, when he is FINALLY out of my life AGAIN, I PROMISED Myself I will NOT lose myself, I will embrace the process, and I am prepared for the trauma bond that I WILL GET through.
Hurt people ..hurt people.
Healed people…Heal people.
I got this (at least I hope I do.).
I just can’t wait to get to the point where it doesn’t hurt anymore.
I’m tired of the pain, the hurt, the rejection, the discarding, the lies and betrayal, the cheating, the abuse, just everything.
It’s poison….
And I know now that if I don’t get this poison OUT of my life, I will DiE.
Sorry this got long…
I kinda needed to vent anyway…
I’m very depressed and TRYING to say “I got this”!!
But I guess… it’s okay to not be okay..,
But I know.. I will be okay,,.
-Anna ❤
Good to c a girl in men's shoes for once! Now u know how u girls make men feel! Hope you'll pass on this message to your fellow girls, that it hurts to b at receiving end of female behaviour n that u women should change for the better. As for your situation i hope u feel better soon n meet someone who respects u the way u should b.
great topic coach!
I give up on women
Im glad I do not live in US. This 6" requirement is fucked up
Why can't Corey use 'F bombs'? I see new content all the time that do
So it doesn’t get demonetized on Facebook
@@CoachCoreyWayne ah ok, well hey I appreciate your work! Got the book recently I'm on my 3rd read
Corey Hi I'm in no contact and she messaged me if I could send her my mom's phone number for her mom because they use to work tomorrow. Obviously don't respond or what do I say do not contact me unless you're ready to get back together? .......great to hear from you, when are you free to get together? Appreciate the advice.......
Reading your book, looks like I have some great things to learn.
Say your around 5'11, why not just say your 6ft tall? Alot of women use filters and I'm sure like about weight, what's a couple more inches lol? Is she really gonna measure you when you meet up?
*you’re
Coach, this video wil get millions of views given the current dating scene. By the way , Avoidant exes come back after approx 8 months if you went strict no contact. Dontvtake them bac cos they ll do it again and again.
Is 8 months the time frame you’ve experienced? Just curious if that’s a hard and fast rule or just one experience you’ve had. In the name of science!
@@cultivatemagic62408 month I experienced twice, I mean with 2 different women, and it s documented avoidants take far longer to come back than non avoidants,, so 8 months is a very predictable time frame, again , they ll leave again shortly after , even after just 1 date.
@@dannywholuvsoo..?
@@dannywholuv but you broke the relationship right? i dont think no contact applies here
@@dannywholuv I'm usually the one fucking up by being a distant cold fish.
But i'm still struggling to figure out if i'm really a cold fish or if the book is making insecure woman that need constant reassurance show their true colours. Both of my previous relationships ended because of that, they approached me first, they both had no dad, they both were depressed and they both believed their friends telling them that i didn't care about them when i was just focused on my porpuse xD.
NO MORE IGNORING RED FLAGSS I CANT FIX HER
Question, so recently my ex came back ik the gym and approached me... we went of a few dates and i noticed she became structured and because of that i dont want her anymore now my question...every like 3 days she is in the gym and she comes to talk to my every 5 minutes she is like a rubber band and we kiss when no one is looking but what do i do because she became structured and coach taught us that that is a no go if i would continue date her then i probably get bleu balls😂 what do i do?
Stop being a simp. She’s using you for attention and validation. You need to watch 7 principles of getting an ex back and apply it. Buy his book and read it. You wouldn’t be asking this if you read the book my king.
@@cabdolla but i dont want to date her but she keep approaching me every 5 minutes in the gym
She's disqualified simple as that
Don't give her such easy access to you. Just because she approaches doesn't mean you stop what you are doing. Set a date you know the rest.
@@SoundBalls then man up and tell her to set up a date to bang or take a hike. You’re showing total beta simp energy to her. A man with options doesn’t tolerate that behavior from her.
Hmm, say that , if you want to go off, then go ahead
Im glad the guy is doing good but damn some stuff he says sound full of cope and like he's trying to convince himself he believes all that. Makes sense if it's only been a couple of months tho
You mentioned putting the blame on the big man upstairs, but what if some of us are atheists and we don’t believe in God?
Well... then believe
in the Universe ☺️
Hey coach, I’m 5’7” and my girlfriend is 6’ and 1/2”! She has to bend down to kiss me and she does it all the time. 😉
This guy is not going on dates though.
I was just thinking the same thing. He only mentions sending messages but never says anything about going on dates or even setting up a date in the future.
FOS 60 plus likes in his first few hours on tinder and he was dumped lol? Sounds like lying was part of the relationship problem
Dr. Corey wayne the purple pill pharmacist
This guy story was believable until he said 60+ likes on tinder lol
🙄
This guy is a nerd. Overthinks the hell out of it, as if a girl replying to him and 100 other guys is the same as the dating cycle 😂
Dudes if you are only 5’9” just set The height on your profile to 6 feet tall. Chicks lie about their age and other things on dating profiles it won’t be the end of the world if you steal a couple of inches to get a date. if you’re not cheating, you’re not trying. 😅