When you go back and watch movies for the last 5-10 years, the men are always chasing the women, especially in Adam Sandler, Ben Stiller Rom Com movies. Hell even the toby spiderman movies. But watch the Indiana Jones movies he's all about purpose and the women are trying to get with him and he's always indifferent. Be like Indy
"The last Crusade" Austrian woman: Thats how Austrians say goodbye. (After giving him the tongue) German commander: And this is how we say goodbye in Germany Dr Jones! (Closed fist across the face)
Happy birthday, Corey! You help make this world a better place. My life has improved a lot after reading/Listening to your book 25+ times and always Studying my notes on your work. In a good relationship finally. All the best to you
The deal is sometimes it doesn't matter what you do after someone breaks your heart. If you break the vaise no matter how well you glue it back together you can still see the cracks.
8 thousand views in 14 hours….if that doesn’t tell you that Corey really knows what he’s talking about! Thank you Corey Wayne for turning me into a self improvement junkie. You changed my life.
My ex girlfriend and I broke up over a year ago. We still texted each other every now and again she would phone me every now and again, but I just blocked her on all social media and my phone. It felt great to finally put her in the past
The cat analogy is perfect!! I remember when I was reading his book for the first time I had a REAL AH-HA moment when I read it. It's spot on!! Corey's do man!!
This vid popped up at the perfect time in my feed. My gf just backed out of moving in a week prior. She definitely feels pressured and she said "I feel like ill lose you if i dont move in" which in my mind was the case but i realize thats putting pressure on her and its needy and not masculine. Moving forward im going to give her some space and let her do all of the contacting
I had shut down 22 yr. old darling after she chose my backstabber lesbian colleague over me. I told her "that I can't be her friend' this followed by no hi's or hello's in the workplace hallways but then she continued to stay connected. She is nice and really sweet and kind but I couldn't settle for less so I stood my ground. I block her completely on all of my social media. Butthurt move? Bitterness? Whatever but as long as it disturbs your peace and hurts you repeatedly then why stay in hypocrisy? Sometimes, honesty cannot be understood. Sad but it helps.
This is why I tell women to never date separated or freshly divorced men.....she was seeking his validation because he was treating her like crap and it triggered her, and then he suddenly wanted her when she didn't want him anymore. I've been there - those men are the worse type. Neither of them are into each other, its just the level of who is triggered more that keeps flipping around.
Finally someone came forward and exposed trauma-based attraction in dating which is ubiquitous nowadays. And wrongly taken for real love or real interest. Congrats to you for putting it out in simple words great contribution you made. This is also the reason for the so called mix signals we get all the time , over and over. Dont fall for this , and only date healthy indiviiduals. Just make sure youre healthy as well , and fit to date. Be objective with yourself.
The 2nd guy , holy shit ! She went to his place late at night , he already slept with her and he thinks he has to ask to kiss??? Good Lord ! I’m 57 and I’m still learning shit and the one thing I learned decades ago is that any woman who comes back to my place after any sort of date is ready to rock ‘n’ roll . Granted, you don’t want to make foreplay simply “Brace Yourself!” But still, if you’re cuddling on the couch, and you’re touching her hand, touching face , shoulder and neck , just move in for the kiss already . I have found that it doesn’t take long after that and their panties are ready to come off . My problem is I get addicted to that shit and then eventually tend to wuss out… after dating for a while . Or at least I have , too many times. I’m always great coming out of the gate. That must’ve really sucked for him .He got her back to his place messed up by rejecting himself from her and then she goes away. He must’ve felt pretty feminine at that point enough to ask her if he’s just a friend. Jeez . Well, at least he’s reaching out. He’s trying to figure shit out, so hopefully he doesn’t make that mistake ever again. Thanks again Cory for all you do I really admire guys like you, Dr. Robert Glover, Rich Cooper, that young lad David from “how to beast “ and a number of other coaches . Bottom line is we have to value ourselves, always put ourselves first take care of ourselves, and when a woman shows interest, walk through the open door. If the door closes, find another one to walk-through, don’t beat on a closed door, even if you messed up and made it close.
Believe it or not.. I’m the guy from the 2nd story! There’s a little bit more nuance to the story than what I was able to include in my email.. But Corey’s advice is welcome for sure.. Contact has fallen off again for a while and I’m just going to leave her be for the time being.. If she comes back she does and if she doesn’t she doesn’t. I did feel like a bit of an idiot asking about whether I was friendzoned but there’s a lot of history with this girl and I and we were essentially really good friends for years before hanging out.. I guess I just play it out from here and see what happens!
@@mdoreian All good my friend ! I have put myself in the friend zone many times over the years until a few years ago after heading down this path . I made a commitment to myself I would never go in a woman’s Friendzone again who I’ve been intimate with, after being in a committed relationship. Friends with benefits or short term flings , that’s one thing when there’s no commitment, but being in a fully committed, exclusive, relationship is entirely different for me . The No contact thing really does work. I didn’t discover it until five years ago, and I was in a very karmic relationship with a woman up until about two months ago during those five years . Super hot for a while then super cold . She was BPD as well , but damn, she was great in bed… I seem to be the most attracted to, and excited by these damaged women who are usually very smart just extremely crazy . We also had a deep emotional connection as well. She broke up with me probably 12 times over the course of those years and would always come back because I would never contact her when she did that , and she never went out with anyone else as she knows thats my dealbreaker… again we were committed and exclusive, and even talked about staying together until the end of time . Guess that didn’t go so well… Lol ! Awareness is key number one, then number two doing something about it in the future. I’ve had that damn oneitis too many times myself over the years when there’s so many doors to walk through out there . I get the scarcity mindset and then I’ll behave accordingly and they get distant . So, take care of yourself, get out of the house, linger in public, talk to people everywhere you go, test for interest and walk through the open doors . You got this bud !
@@timothylloyd3852 Thanks for the kind words mate!! I definitely found this whole experience to be a bit of a wake up call.. I've only just dipped my toes into dating again after 6 years of being single and SO much has changed in the world of online dating.. Hopefully things work out with this girl but if not I'll take your advice and put myself out there more and hopefully those doors do open!! Thanks so much for your response mate :)
@@mdoreian You bet ! Corey has some good stuff on dating / profile setup , etc . Dr Glover has a good book and workbook called Dating Essentials For Men as well (DEFM) all great stuff . Personally, I am on a female moratorium until further notice after this last one ended a couple months ago . Since my divorce ended 12 years ago, I’ve just gone from relationship to relationship to relationship a few LTR’s this last one almost 5 years and several short term flings… I need to take care of some stuff around my house as I put way too much time into these women just to have them all runoff with someone else eventually ( I picked the really wrong women to stay with. I had a few that were head over heels for me. I just didn’t get excited about them so I let them go ) and have let my house go on many areas . It’s all good , I’ve learned from them all and am grateful they all came into my life and growth I experienced. At 57 , I take great care of myself, and when I do put myself back out there with everything I’ve learned from this last relationship especially and keep learning from Coreys book 3% man ….is a great book as well as Dr. Glover’s book no more Mr. nice guy , i’d like to invite a really great woman into my life . Now that I know what I want in a relationship and the type of woman I want, and what I won’t tolerate ever again, once I get a few pieces of my shit together maybe just maybe I’ll find a great one. If not, I’ll have some fun ! Women love to ride motorcycles, I have a V Star 650 . Probably looking at putting myself back out there about the time it gets really warm for bike season ! As David Goggins would say, keep getting an after it bud !
@@timothylloyd3852 Pretty crazy to look back on this story so long after I sent it to Corey earlier this year... I met a girl in late Feb of this year and we instantly hit it off.. No bullshit or games.. Just a great relationship.. We love and care for eachother and I'm traveling to meet her parents in a few days.. Crazy how life can turn around so suddenly.. Admittedly I found that I was probably watching the wrong content on RUclips for a really long time.. I'm glad that I'm out of the weird Red Pill space I found myself in and have now managed to get my shit together on a whole new level! Life is a crazy thing!
First guy broke her heart and picked someone else and now wants the girl HE rejected back. That is basically the issue. She is making him work for it because he put himself there. He probably should cut bait and move on as she can claim anxiety and all sorts of stuff, but he proved she was second place to him. It will not work out. The second guy has no game at all. After you sleep with a girl and she goes back to your place, you do not need to ask for a kiss. She is there. It was incredibly weak and she probably got turned off. Then he compounded the error acting like a wuss and actually tried friendzoning himself. He is a complete amateur.
Hey Corey! We all know about Alpha and Beta male mentality, but I’ve recently heard about and read info on “Sigma male” mentality. I would love to hear your take on that information.
This dude said Sigma males dont exist. As if God himself made only two options (Alpha and Beta), because some dude somewhere said so. Where do people get this stuff...
I need to be a 3% women because I'm chasing them and their pulling away or leaving me and I'm getting hurt, this applies to women too, I need to get the book
She offered me her friendship. Didnt want to lead me on and said i might be able to fond find someone else. She also said her feelings might change. I told her no thanks and she to call if she changed her mind. 1 month later..she called. I didn't pick up or call back yet. Its been 3 days..thoughts?
I understand but at one point she was totally ignoring me while seeing someone else. Came back to me when it obviously didnt workout woth the other guy. I tried to set up dates but she cancelled. Gotta have slef respect.
@@CoachCoreyWayne my IQ is registered +190, multiple times. A beta male is a male that is in a monogamous relationship. This is *the definition of the word. Get it right Mister genius
When you go back and watch movies for the last 5-10 years, the men are always chasing the women, especially in Adam Sandler, Ben Stiller Rom Com movies. Hell even the toby spiderman movies. But watch the Indiana Jones movies he's all about purpose and the women are trying to get with him and he's always indifferent. Be like Indy
"The last Crusade"
Austrian woman: Thats how Austrians say goodbye. (After giving him the tongue)
German commander: And this is how we say goodbye in Germany Dr Jones! (Closed fist across the face)
@@itsjustnopinionok "I like the Austrian way better"
Same w/ James Bond
@@krinkle7695So did I!
@@itsjustnopinionokalways makes me laugh
You're 53? Fuck man, you're doing well. Obviously your skill in avoiding female stress is paying off!
This guy out here putting out the same content on youtube for like a decade now. Legend.
Email 2: Is everything Ok ? Never ask this question on a date. It shows no game.
Happy birthday, Corey! You help make this world a better place. My life has improved a lot after reading/Listening to your book 25+ times and always Studying my notes on your work. In a good relationship finally. All the best to you
No contact
I tried ''friend zoning''. It doesnt work unless you like hearing comparisons between yourself and the NEW GUY.
The deal is sometimes it doesn't matter what you do after someone breaks your heart. If you break the vaise no matter how well you glue it back together you can still see the cracks.
Thanks for still dropping these awesome newsletters coach!
8 thousand views in 14 hours….if that doesn’t tell you that Corey really knows what he’s talking about! Thank you Corey Wayne for turning me into a self improvement junkie. You changed my life.
there's only one exception to the it takes women time to fall in and out of love - BPD
Yes, indeed
My ex girlfriend and I broke up over a year ago. We still texted each other every now and again she would phone me every now and again, but I just blocked her on all social media and my phone. It felt great to finally put her in the past
Coach, you look great with that new haircut. All the best.
Keep reading the book, people! Every time i read i find a LOT of things i missed on or just forgot!
The cat analogy is perfect!! I remember when I was reading his book for the first time I had a REAL AH-HA moment when I read it. It's spot on!! Corey's do man!!
This vid popped up at the perfect time in my feed. My gf just backed out of moving in a week prior. She definitely feels pressured and she said "I feel like ill lose you if i dont move in" which in my mind was the case but i realize thats putting pressure on her and its needy and not masculine. Moving forward im going to give her some space and let her do all of the contacting
So any updates?
I had shut down 22 yr. old darling after she chose my backstabber lesbian colleague over me. I told her "that I can't be her friend' this followed by no hi's or hello's in the workplace hallways but then she continued to stay connected. She is nice and really sweet and kind but I couldn't settle for less so I stood my ground. I block her completely on all of my social media. Butthurt move? Bitterness? Whatever but as long as it disturbs your peace and hurts you repeatedly then why stay in hypocrisy? Sometimes, honesty cannot be understood. Sad but it helps.
This is why I tell women to never date separated or freshly divorced men.....she was seeking his validation because he was treating her like crap and it triggered her, and then he suddenly wanted her when she didn't want him anymore. I've been there - those men are the worse type. Neither of them are into each other, its just the level of who is triggered more that keeps flipping around.
Finally someone came forward and exposed trauma-based attraction in dating which is ubiquitous nowadays. And wrongly taken for real love or real interest. Congrats to you for putting it out in simple words great contribution you made. This is also the reason for the so called mix signals we get all the time , over and over. Dont fall for this , and only date healthy indiviiduals. Just make sure youre healthy as well , and fit to date. Be objective with yourself.
@@gabrielrod1253 Agree!
Are you single
Found out the same thing as a rebound for a freshly divorced woman.A big waste of time unfortunately
Appreciate your work and videos almost everyday.
Happy early Birthday Coach
The 2nd guy , holy shit ! She went to his place late at night , he already slept with her and he thinks he has to ask to kiss??? Good Lord ! I’m 57 and I’m still learning shit and the one thing I learned decades ago is that any woman who comes back to my place after any sort of date is ready to rock ‘n’ roll . Granted, you don’t want to make foreplay simply “Brace Yourself!” But still, if you’re cuddling on the couch, and you’re touching her hand, touching face , shoulder and neck , just move in for the kiss already . I have found that it doesn’t take long after that and their panties are ready to come off . My problem is I get addicted to that shit and then eventually tend to wuss out… after dating for a while . Or at least I have , too many times. I’m always great coming out of the gate.
That must’ve really sucked for him .He got her back to his place messed up by rejecting himself from her and then she goes away. He must’ve felt pretty feminine at that point enough to ask her if he’s just a friend. Jeez .
Well, at least he’s reaching out. He’s trying to figure shit out, so hopefully he doesn’t make that mistake ever again.
Thanks again Cory for all you do I really admire guys like you, Dr. Robert Glover, Rich Cooper, that young lad David from “how to beast “ and a number of other coaches .
Bottom line is we have to value ourselves, always put ourselves first take care of ourselves, and when a woman shows interest, walk through the open door. If the door closes, find another one to walk-through, don’t beat on a closed door, even if you messed up and made it close.
Believe it or not.. I’m the guy from the 2nd story! There’s a little bit more nuance to the story than what I was able to include in my email.. But Corey’s advice is welcome for sure..
Contact has fallen off again for a while and I’m just going to leave her be for the time being.. If she comes back she does and if she doesn’t she doesn’t.
I did feel like a bit of an idiot asking about whether I was friendzoned but there’s a lot of history with this girl and I and we were essentially really good friends for years before hanging out.. I guess I just play it out from here and see what happens!
@@mdoreian All good my friend ! I have put myself in the friend zone many times over the years until a few years ago after heading down this path . I made a commitment to myself I would never go in a woman’s Friendzone again who I’ve been intimate with, after being in a committed relationship. Friends with benefits or short term flings , that’s one thing when there’s no commitment, but being in a fully committed, exclusive, relationship is entirely different for me .
The No contact thing really does work. I didn’t discover it until five years ago, and I was in a very karmic relationship with a woman up until about two months ago during those five years . Super hot for a while then super cold . She was BPD as well , but damn, she was great in bed… I seem to be the most attracted to, and excited by these damaged women who are usually very smart just extremely crazy . We also had a deep emotional connection as well.
She broke up with me probably 12 times over the course of those years and would always come back because I would never contact her when she did that , and she never went out with anyone else as she knows thats my dealbreaker… again we were committed and exclusive, and even talked about staying together until the end of time . Guess that didn’t go so well… Lol !
Awareness is key number one, then number two doing something about it in the future. I’ve had that damn oneitis too many times myself over the years when there’s so many doors to walk through out there . I get the scarcity mindset and then I’ll behave accordingly and they get distant .
So, take care of yourself, get out of the house, linger in public, talk to people everywhere you go, test for interest and walk through the open doors . You got this bud !
@@timothylloyd3852 Thanks for the kind words mate!! I definitely found this whole experience to be a bit of a wake up call.. I've only just dipped my toes into dating again after 6 years of being single and SO much has changed in the world of online dating..
Hopefully things work out with this girl but if not I'll take your advice and put myself out there more and hopefully those doors do open!! Thanks so much for your response mate :)
@@mdoreian You bet ! Corey has some good stuff on dating / profile setup , etc . Dr Glover has a good book and workbook called Dating Essentials For Men as well (DEFM) all great stuff .
Personally, I am on a female moratorium until further notice after this last one ended a couple months ago . Since my divorce ended 12 years ago, I’ve just gone from relationship to relationship to relationship a few LTR’s this last one almost 5 years and several short term flings… I need to take care of some stuff around my house as I put way too much time into these women just to have them all runoff with someone else eventually ( I picked the really wrong women to stay with. I had a few that were head over heels for me. I just didn’t get excited about them so I let them go ) and have let my house go on many areas . It’s all good , I’ve learned from them all and am grateful they all came into my life and growth I experienced.
At 57 , I take great care of myself, and when I do put myself back out there with everything I’ve learned from this last relationship especially and keep learning from Coreys book 3% man ….is a great book as well as Dr. Glover’s book no more Mr. nice guy , i’d like to invite a really great woman into my life . Now that I know what I want in a relationship and the type of woman I want, and what I won’t tolerate ever again, once I get a few pieces of my shit together maybe just maybe I’ll find a great one. If not, I’ll have some fun ! Women love to ride motorcycles, I have a V Star 650 . Probably looking at putting myself back out there about the time it gets really warm for bike season !
As David Goggins would say, keep getting an after it bud !
@@timothylloyd3852 Pretty crazy to look back on this story so long after I sent it to Corey earlier this year...
I met a girl in late Feb of this year and we instantly hit it off.. No bullshit or games.. Just a great relationship.. We love and care for eachother and I'm traveling to meet her parents in a few days.. Crazy how life can turn around so suddenly..
Admittedly I found that I was probably watching the wrong content on RUclips for a really long time.. I'm glad that I'm out of the weird Red Pill space I found myself in and have now managed to get my shit together on a whole new level! Life is a crazy thing!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY COREY!
First guy broke her heart and picked someone else and now wants the girl HE rejected back. That is basically the issue. She is making him work for it because he put himself there. He probably should cut bait and move on as she can claim anxiety and all sorts of stuff, but he proved she was second place to him. It will not work out.
The second guy has no game at all. After you sleep with a girl and she goes back to your place, you do not need to ask for a kiss. She is there. It was incredibly weak and she probably got turned off. Then he compounded the error acting like a wuss and actually tried friendzoning himself. He is a complete amateur.
You look great for 53 Corey!
Thats so cool, Im an Aquarius myself. Happy Early Bday fam. Love your work its the business.
22:27 this was a “Come on man” 🙄moment
Much needed advice, Coach. 💪🏾💪🏾
The cat analogy is so dead on true Coach.
Dam I thought you were in your 30s coach, I guess women are the worse stress a man can have thank you again for all that you do
Let's take the positive out of this. He accelerated from emails to phones now.
The only further contact a woman will get once she friendzones me is NO CONTACT!
Hey Corey! We all know about Alpha and Beta male mentality, but I’ve recently heard about and read info on “Sigma male” mentality. I would love to hear your take on that information.
I would love to hear his opinion on this as well. I think I fall into the sigma category.
It is made up internet BS
That 2nd email was painful...
The first case is beyond "liking", that woman is a jackal
I’d be more interested too if someone took me to Hawaii 😂
She sounds more like an Alaska girl
Hey my birthday is on the 31st, we might have close to the same birthday
There is so much illness in this one, I keep going, "Wow, that's rough." 😁
Who the fudge writes a email to try to reconnect with someone…
This dude said Sigma males dont exist. As if God himself made only two options (Alpha and Beta), because some dude somewhere said so. Where do people get this stuff...
The 3H method: Hang out. Have fun. Hook up.
What about Sigma males? You never mention us!
I need to be a 3% women because I'm chasing them and their pulling away or leaving me and I'm getting hurt, this applies to women too, I need to get the book
If they really like you they'll stay with you
Me too girl
Thank you!
Read 3% man and mastering yourself 15 times, problem solved man 🤙
22:58 xD
She offered me her friendship. Didnt want to lead me on and said i might be able to fond find someone else. She also said her feelings might change. I told her no thanks and she to call if she changed her mind. 1 month later..she called. I didn't pick up or call back yet. Its been 3 days..thoughts?
You NEVER IGNORE her when she reaches out man smh
Why would you punish her when she’s the one reaching out? Positive reinforcement needed here my man. Pick up the phone and make a date.
I understand but at one point she was totally ignoring me while seeing someone else. Came back to me when it obviously didnt workout woth the other guy. I tried to set up dates but she cancelled. Gotta have slef respect.
You are right! Ignore her ass! I do the same.
If you truly want her back you shouldn’t have waited more than 24 hours at that point it is just games
Should i tell her happy birthday in the no contact rule?
No contact means no contact.
Sorry Corey. You cannot make up your own definitions for words. Beta male means he's in a relationship. This is the definition of the word
Which dictionary are you using?
Low IQ take of the day
@@CoachCoreyWayne my IQ is registered +190, multiple times. A beta male is a male that is in a monogamous relationship. This is *the definition of the word. Get it right Mister genius
You’re just regurgitating red pill nonsense you heard from a guy with serious mommy issues who’s not qualified to even talk on the subject.
@@CoachCoreyWayne Science my dude