I express my feelings to this girl from work with whom I had a very close connection. She tells me that she loves me as a friend. I said to her I can’t be friends with you because I have romantic feelings for you, and no matter how hard I try my feelings will come out one way or the other and you might get offended and I am the last person who would want to offend her. She jumped out of her chair and said: what about me? Don’t I have a say in this? Why are you doing this to me? I said it is because I want to respect myself when I am not being reciprocated with the same feelings and I don’t want to be hurt while you are considering other people and not me. I am offering you more than friendship, but you don’t want it. She said: it cannot be either romantic relationship or nothing. I said: yes it can and I am not going to come and see you again. I have to move on with my life and walk away with dignity. She said: you will come and I know you will. I said it won’t happen again while I walked away. She didn’t expect my response at all to the point where she was shocked. Advice: if you’re not being reciprocated the way you want, just walk away, respect yourself and don’t expect that person to check back with you again and do not contact them again unless they reach out to you first. All they want is your attention and resources you come with, but never you.
So true. They make it easy for you. They still expect you to do some of the work. But they will definitely go out of thier way if they really like you.
Coach literally on point with the videos! I literally asked a girl out the other day and have been friends with her but have always liked her she told me that she doesn’t see me like that only a friend. Just gave her the good old not interested in just friends. Change your mind let me know and haven’t spoken since. Well see how she reciprocates. Thanks coach!
What do you mean you asked her out? As in you made it clear you wanted to take her on a date? If so that's just silly. Of course she's going to back off from that. You're already friends so i would've just invited her over to hang out, then made a move when it felt right to see how she reacted. She might have have gone along with it. If not then you tell her that you like her more than a friend, and to not contact you anymore unless she feels the same way, but you don't just suddenly try to make an official date with a friend.
@@craig8304 I don't think inviting a female friend over to your place and making moves on her is the best idea. I agree with OP's approach. Walk away and never look back if she does not reciprocate. At least he had the balls to ask her out unlike 97% of men on this Earth.
@@KiranSharma-hd1lj - I said to make a move if it feels right. If you ask a friend out on an official date, she is almost always going to back up and say no because it's out of the blue and she has to logically think about it. Making a move takes just as much balls on your part, maybe even more, but it's more of an escalation thing where emotions are involved and "it just happens" which is what women like. As i said she still may back up and say she wants to remain friends, then you just tell her to let you know if she changes her mind but you don't want to be just friends anymore. It's just this way you have more of a chance of something happening than if you just ask her out on a date, because there is a good chance she will get swept up in the moment if you do things right. Edit: What the OP did can work, but only if the friend has feelings for you and likes you more than a friend, but is too afraid to show it.
@@craig8304 Yea absolutely that’s what I made clear. What’s silly about that? Do you know the material at all? I personally wouldn’t invite a girl over for a first date when romance is the key. Not a good way to go about it. Now second, third? Absolutely
@@hunternixonfishing2500 - Yes i know the material. This is not some girl you've just met, she's your friend, you know each other, so inviting her over is fine and in my opinion preferable in your situation. If it was a girl you didn't know then doing that would communicate you're after one thing and there is a good chance she will bounce. All you made clear to me is that you asked your friend out on a date, which i said was a silly thing to do if you want to get with her for the reason I stated above. No need to take offence, was just trying to help.
Once you're in friend zone, it's hard to get out. Per the story, the fact that she wants to see him because she's "in town", doesn't imply she's changed her mind and now wants romance. She just needs a place to crash while "in town" and needs a dinner partner. Once in friend zone, you lost that option, just move on and start fresh.
@Josephextreme basically for sex..or atleast that would be what I'd be after..I'd no longer be putting her in the wife material category..she'd be a playmate only...for me relationships are 1 strike and you're out...I don't believe in second chances on any level...when people are meant for each other friends/relationships/familyn they never make the wrong moves or do shit to make you 2nd guess. In my book you're gone as soon as you do anything to me that I wouldn't do to you.
I feel like he is deeply insecure aswell. This guy will rather be in the friend zone or ignore that girl rather than take the risk of potentially getting rejected. He is expecting her to tell him she is crazy unconditionally in love with him before he makes a move. That ain't Alpha man...
Lol, I haven't read your book but I've read hundreds of others and practiced it all for years. I fucking love it that you can instantly tell when people are lying and haven't read youre shit. I try to give people advice and they lie to me just like that. I will read your book eventually, I like to watch your vids to keep myself refreshed and my head straight in case my feelings start pushing me the wrong way but so far I got like 5 chicks in my rotation without issues and allot of that is because your vids remind me of the right direction. Thanks for being an amazing coach Corey Wayne
Everything was great. Out of no where. Just want to be friends. Don't date crazy girls over a body. She told me she broke off relationships after a week. I stayed thinking I was different. Hundreds spent. Stupid. Read the book again
Hi Coach Corey, I have read some comments here saying you always make it to be the man's fault. My understanding of this is that you want men to take full responsibility of what happens to them because that's what a leader will do. And not develop that toxic mindset preached out they that all women are bad by wounded guys. People have to be careful what coach they listen to with regards to relationship. You don't wanna cultivate internal resentment which will become a self fulfilling prophecy.
The art of getting out of the friendzone is not getting into the friendzone in the first place lol. Your goal as a man is to go for what you want, make your intentions clear, make moves and create opportunities for sex to happen. It’s that simple
a men puts himself in the friendzone and keeps himself there. she knows you like her, she is testing your strength. if she single, she testing how whipped you are for her to put up with what she says and wants. if she not single but comes to you to tell you about her man, she is testing your strength. the more you say he is no good and etc etc is the weaker you display yourself to her.
Simple fact of life - its easier to get out 'feet first' so to speak. It will free your life for someone who wants you truly without this friend zone thing. Funny things will happen next, youl see that your friend zone 'friend' while was perfectly fine keeping you at a distance will be massively jelous when you will be doing just fine.
My friend has stopped talking to me, I want to get out of the friend zone. What if she isn't romantically interested in me, we've had a really good times over the past 3 years not as much as we've had in the past 3 months she has a lot of problems lately and I'm there for her. What can I do? Walk away or try and resolve the situation.
Being in the friend zone as a guy is like having a girl who’s interested in you but you just see her like a friend, there’s literally nothing she can do unless she loses weight or you run out of options, but still you’re standards don’t drop. Start putting effort into yourself and go date other girls, preferably start dating a more attractive girl.
Hi coach, from Perth in Scotland, I have this issue, I met this woman, she is incredibly flirtatious but says she isn't, she does things like grabbing my arms, telling me she loves me and asking if I love her too (she said this once), she wants to come to my flat but it's being renovated, so I've been to her house several times, she has said to me she thinks we will be really great friends, but her actions are telling me she wants more and is holding back for some reason, she also said she can't just date or have sex, whatever that means.. I went to kiss her goodnight while we were laying on top of her bed, because it was late, and she probably wanted me to stay but sensing that nothing was going to happen I decided to make the decision to leave, I leaned over,and said goodnight, puckered my lips and waited for her to meet me half way, and instead of kissing my lips she kissed my chin.. anyway, the other day we had an argument, she said something about coming to take my things whenever I like, and I took this to mean, she didn't want to speak to me, she gets mad whenever I make suggestive jokes, like really annoyed, even saying that people who talk about sex are basic.. anyway, so when she said I could collect my things (a portable speaker) I said, that's fine, I don't really want to speak to someone who is flirting back and forth one minute, then really upset the next, well she lost it, calling me names, saying things like she will never sleep with me, and calling my a lunatic basically.. Now look, I read her message wrong, what she said was, you can come and collect your speaker anytime, I don't find myself in conversations with innuendo very much (I only did it 2 times) but reading back I realize she wasn't angry I just misread it. So I guess my question has two parts, first is, I think she blocked my phone number but she's still on my WhatsApp, what should I do, and secondly, do you have any advice regarding how I get out of this friend zone situation and put a little oxygen in that flame she is likely holding, albeit strangely? Thanks for hearing me out, I love your tips.
Read the book, apply it. Screen her behavior, rate it and downgrade it. You either learn how to win or you're pumpin' your right hand in your home gym.
I think dating apps, social media, textting, are pure bs. Look based Zeus... Yeah, hes succesful, but... I haven't see any book or something like it made by that guy. So, I don't trust too much in the content he show on that channel.
If a girl is telling you she only wants friendship she is telling you very politely she doesn’t find you attractive. Ask her directly, do you find me sexually attractive? If the answer is no then accept it, it’s probably not ever gonna change. Attraction is not a choice. If she genuinely wants friendship it’s because she likes you as a person and what’s wrong with friendship? You could learn a lot from her. Please don’t demonise women for not being attracted to you. If you don’t want to be in the friend zone then politely decline, don’t need to be an asshole about it. Just move on and find someone else who is attracted to you. Simple.
The guy tried to get out of the beta zone, misunderstood what an alfa is, instead turned into an a-hole, cheesus christ - hope he stays single for a loooong time.
this guy does not age
Fr
Neither does his videos
It’s his green drink
To be fair, he didn't have much hair to lose to begin with 😂
He’s a vampire.
Helping out the herd for the slaughter 😂
I express my feelings to this girl from work with whom I had a very close connection. She tells me that she loves me as a friend. I said to her I can’t be friends with you because I have romantic feelings for you, and no matter how hard I try my feelings will come out one way or the other and you might get offended and I am the last person who would want to offend her. She jumped out of her chair and said: what about me? Don’t I have a say in this? Why are you doing this to me? I said it is because I want to respect myself when I am not being reciprocated with the same feelings and I don’t want to be hurt while you are considering other people and not me. I am offering you more than friendship, but you don’t want it. She said: it cannot be either romantic relationship or nothing. I said: yes it can and I am not going to come and see you again. I have to move on with my life and walk away with dignity. She said: you will come and I know you will. I said it won’t happen again while I walked away. She didn’t expect my response at all to the point where she was shocked. Advice: if you’re not being reciprocated the way you want, just walk away, respect yourself and don’t expect that person to check back with you again and do not contact them again unless they reach out to you first. All they want is your attention and resources you come with, but never you.
When women like you they help you. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾Thanks Coach.
So true. They make it easy for you. They still expect you to do some of the work. But they will definitely go out of thier way if they really like you.
This means no woman ever liked me haha lol so funny :)
I just go no contact as getting out of the friend zone.
Coach literally on point with the videos! I literally asked a girl out the other day and have been friends with her but have always liked her she told me that she doesn’t see me like that only a friend. Just gave her the good old not interested in just friends. Change your mind let me know and haven’t spoken since. Well see how she reciprocates. Thanks coach!
What do you mean you asked her out? As in you made it clear you wanted to take her on a date? If so that's just silly. Of course she's going to back off from that. You're already friends so i would've just invited her over to hang out, then made a move when it felt right to see how she reacted. She might have have gone along with it. If not then you tell her that you like her more than a friend, and to not contact you anymore unless she feels the same way, but you don't just suddenly try to make an official date with a friend.
@@craig8304 I don't think inviting a female friend over to your place and making moves on her is the best idea. I agree with OP's approach. Walk away and never look back if she does not reciprocate. At least he had the balls to ask her out unlike 97% of men on this Earth.
@@KiranSharma-hd1lj - I said to make a move if it feels right. If you ask a friend out on an official date, she is almost always going to back up and say no because it's out of the blue and she has to logically think about it. Making a move takes just as much balls on your part, maybe even more, but it's more of an escalation thing where emotions are involved and "it just happens" which is what women like. As i said she still may back up and say she wants to remain friends, then you just tell her to let you know if she changes her mind but you don't want to be just friends anymore. It's just this way you have more of a chance of something happening than if you just ask her out on a date, because there is a good chance she will get swept up in the moment if you do things right.
Edit: What the OP did can work, but only if the friend has feelings for you and likes you more than a friend, but is too afraid to show it.
@@craig8304 Yea absolutely that’s what I made clear. What’s silly about that? Do you know the material at all? I personally wouldn’t invite a girl over for a first date when romance is the key. Not a good way to go about it. Now second, third? Absolutely
@@hunternixonfishing2500 - Yes i know the material. This is not some girl you've just met, she's your friend, you know each other, so inviting her over is fine and in my opinion preferable in your situation. If it was a girl you didn't know then doing that would communicate you're after one thing and there is a good chance she will bounce. All you made clear to me is that you asked your friend out on a date, which i said was a silly thing to do if you want to get with her for the reason I stated above. No need to take offence, was just trying to help.
Dude read the book backwards….learned how to lose the girl
💀💀💀
Once you're in friend zone, it's hard to get out. Per the story, the fact that she wants to see him because she's "in town", doesn't imply she's changed her mind and now wants romance. She just needs a place to crash while "in town" and needs a dinner partner. Once in friend zone, you lost that option, just move on and start fresh.
Every situation is different and nuanced, it's rarely one size fits all.
Honestly, if you get put in the friend zone, leave and don't come back. Why would you want for her to come back when you were not her first choice
@Josephextreme basically for sex..or atleast that would be what I'd be after..I'd no longer be putting her in the wife material category..she'd be a playmate only...for me relationships are 1 strike and you're out...I don't believe in second chances on any level...when people are meant for each other friends/relationships/familyn they never make the wrong moves or do shit to make you 2nd guess.
In my book you're gone as soon as you do anything to me that I wouldn't do to you.
I feel like he is deeply insecure aswell. This guy will rather be in the friend zone or ignore that girl rather than take the risk of potentially getting rejected. He is expecting her to tell him she is crazy unconditionally in love with him before he makes a move. That ain't Alpha man...
Leva was right!
I see I have that perspective myself
Rule number 1: Don’t bullshit the coach.
You bullshit the coach, you get put in your place.
Lol, I haven't read your book but I've read hundreds of others and practiced it all for years. I fucking love it that you can instantly tell when people are lying and haven't read youre shit. I try to give people advice and they lie to me just like that. I will read your book eventually, I like to watch your vids to keep myself refreshed and my head straight in case my feelings start pushing me the wrong way but so far I got like 5 chicks in my rotation without issues and allot of that is because your vids remind me of the right direction. Thanks for being an amazing coach Corey Wayne
Everything was great. Out of no where. Just want to be friends. Don't date crazy girls over a body. She told me she broke off relationships after a week. I stayed thinking I was different. Hundreds spent. Stupid. Read the book again
Hi Coach Corey, I have read some comments here saying you always make it to be the man's fault. My understanding of this is that you want men to take full responsibility of what happens to them because that's what a leader will do. And not develop that toxic mindset preached out they that all women are bad by wounded guys. People have to be careful what coach they listen to with regards to relationship. You don't wanna cultivate internal resentment which will become a self fulfilling prophecy.
10:20 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you always make me laugh with your impressions. It's funny because it's true.
The art of getting out of the friendzone is not getting into the friendzone in the first place lol. Your goal as a man is to go for what you want, make your intentions clear, make moves and create opportunities for sex to happen. It’s that simple
What a good video
a men puts himself in the friendzone and keeps himself there. she knows you like her, she is testing your strength. if she single, she testing how whipped you are for her to put up with what she says and wants. if she not single but comes to you to tell you about her man, she is testing your strength. the more you say he is no good and etc etc is the weaker you display yourself to her.
Simple fact of life - its easier to get out 'feet first' so to speak. It will free your life for someone who wants you truly without this friend zone thing. Funny things will happen next, youl see that your friend zone 'friend' while was perfectly fine keeping you at a distance will be massively jelous when you will be doing just fine.
The grocery store “date” is gold.
He called him a dunce, haha
The way to get out of the Friend Zone is to Paint Her like One of Your French Girls ✍👀🖌😜
14:22 🤣🤣🤣
C'mon man
Strawberry fields forever
My friend has stopped talking to me, I want to get out of the friend zone. What if she isn't romantically interested in me, we've had a really good times over the past 3 years not as much as we've had in the past 3 months she has a lot of problems lately and I'm there for her. What can I do? Walk away or try and resolve the situation.
Getting out of friend zone? yeah turn around, walk away, find chick that pursues you.
She wants to see me so I gave her the silent treatment. What did I do wrong?!
Don’t ignore women that give you interest
Stupid
totally 😂
Being in the friend zone as a guy is like having a girl who’s interested in you but you just see her like a friend, there’s literally nothing she can do unless she loses weight or you run out of options, but still you’re standards don’t drop.
Start putting effort into yourself and go date other girls, preferably start dating a more attractive girl.
This is the way
“Plough her strawberry field”🤣
I recently did many of the same things with an old fling from 3-4 years ago. Except, I didn't want to see her at all. That's the reason I did it. 😆
Hi coach, from Perth in Scotland, I have this issue, I met this woman, she is incredibly flirtatious but says she isn't, she does things like grabbing my arms, telling me she loves me and asking if I love her too (she said this once), she wants to come to my flat but it's being renovated, so I've been to her house several times, she has said to me she thinks we will be really great friends, but her actions are telling me she wants more and is holding back for some reason, she also said she can't just date or have sex, whatever that means..
I went to kiss her goodnight while we were laying on top of her bed, because it was late, and she probably wanted me to stay but sensing that nothing was going to happen I decided to make the decision to leave, I leaned over,and said goodnight, puckered my lips and waited for her to meet me half way, and instead of kissing my lips she kissed my chin..
anyway, the other day we had an argument, she said something about coming to take my things whenever I like, and I took this to mean, she didn't want to speak to me, she gets mad whenever I make suggestive jokes, like really annoyed, even saying that people who talk about sex are basic.. anyway, so when she said I could collect my things (a portable speaker) I said, that's fine, I don't really want to speak to someone who is flirting back and forth one minute, then really upset the next, well she lost it, calling me names, saying things like she will never sleep with me, and calling my a lunatic basically..
Now look, I read her message wrong, what she said was, you can come and collect your speaker anytime, I don't find myself in conversations with innuendo very much (I only did it 2 times) but reading back I realize she wasn't angry I just misread it.
So I guess my question has two parts, first is, I think she blocked my phone number but she's still on my WhatsApp, what should I do, and secondly, do you have any advice regarding how I get out of this friend zone situation and put a little oxygen in that flame she is likely holding, albeit strangely?
Thanks for hearing me out, I love your tips.
Help, how do you handle dating a shy girl? Any difference then a 'normal' girl?
Read the book, apply it.
Screen her behavior, rate it and downgrade it.
You either learn how to win or you're pumpin' your right hand in your home gym.
Shy women are usually structured so just keep dating and look for any red flags. Keep an objective view
Shy girl is typically a girl that dont like you like that
Incredibly difficult women to deal with and are usually horrible communicators.
Am I the only one who think the emailer is doing something the red pill community teaches with their material?!
Stuff red pill teach works. Issue is alot of guys take it to the extreme. They dont go with their guts, they see everything as BIack and white
I think dating apps, social media, textting, are pure bs.
Look based Zeus... Yeah, hes succesful, but... I haven't see any book or something like it made by that guy. So, I don't trust too much in the content he show on that channel.
If a girl is telling you she only wants friendship she is telling you very politely she doesn’t find you attractive. Ask her directly, do you find me sexually attractive? If the answer is no then accept it, it’s probably not ever gonna change. Attraction is not a choice. If she genuinely wants friendship it’s because she likes you as a person and what’s wrong with friendship? You could learn a lot from her. Please don’t demonise women for not being attracted to you. If you don’t want to be in the friend zone then politely decline, don’t need to be an asshole about it. Just move on and find someone else who is attracted to you. Simple.
The guy tried to get out of the beta zone, misunderstood what an alfa is, instead turned into an a-hole, cheesus christ - hope he stays single for a loooong time.
Just delete that number