Well there’s a difference between letting go and giving up, you can work on yourself and stay focused on your goals all the while acknowledging that your ex may come back and you can evaluate whether that’s something you want when and if that happens, have a couple friends who have even divorced and remarried years later and are happier than ever
She might come back, she might not. You have to be indifferent to her, stop living in the past and hoping she will call or text. She consciously walked away from you so why waste your time thinking about her? Spend your time working on yourself and meeting other people and developing a life of abundance. If you guys need any help, just ask.
@@CHICANOGANGSTER13 well there isn't a simple answer for this, patience and rational thinking will help, but I'll make a video on this to go in more detail.
What's your opinion if the man suddenly stops talking with the woman since the woman doesn't respond with eagerness than before? He cut the communication and didn't tell her any other words just left her
Never wait for anyone who decides to leave you. Even though it may break your heart you have to stay centered and just move on. Also I don’t think it is a good thing to make yourself so available for the person who wants no part of you anymore.
Let's be honest, it is truly difficult to keep your sanity as a man if your woman dumps you. No question about it. However if you've made an honest effort to save the relationship and she still walks then you have to let her go. It's just something you have to do as a man. We don't like it and it hurts but you gotta let her go. We try to make it work, we hope it works but in the end if she's done she's done. Face reality and just let her go.
It really is simple fellas but we let our egos and emotions get in the way of seeing things clearly. If a woman wants you, it won’t be confusing because she will make it LOUD AND CLEAR. Everything coach teaches us is to know how to handle her emotions when she backs away.
@Anthony Timmers I appreciate it. Won’t bore you with details but basics - she had this unfamiliarity about her I never felt before, kind of looked like me because we share ethnic somewhat similar background, she had daddy issues abusive ex and I played the codependent people pleaser. Have learned a lot from the experience and truly believe we were learning lessons. Am more independent and self centered now and speak my mind with respect out of instinct with zero nervousness. it’s difficult to let go that’s the next step. I tried explaining this to my sister and mom and it blows over their head and it’s weird but there’s parallels between them and her. Anyway thanks for the response.
@Anthony Timmers Thanks man that’s the next step. It’s been tough realizing all this. It’s been so difficult to get her off my mind it’s like an addiction. Any other girl it took me 2 days but with her it’s yeah I just gotta move on. Self love is key.
What you say is actually true . When there is a lack of clarity , you are in that territory where they are considering you , they are just not that into you . I have learnt it the hard way . No point crying over spilt milk . We make some mistakes at times they can be expensive but life has to go on or be stuck and die there .
How long should you wait? Short answer.... you don't wait at all. You work on yourself. You move on. You do better. She needs to worry about losing YOU, not the other way around. If she comes back and you want to work on it, great. If not, wish her well and let it be her loss.
When a woman pulls her intimacy away as leverage to get you to do something she wants, the most manly thing to do is mirror what she does and pull away also. When a woman does this she's being manipulative and controlling. Sometimes women do this with good intentions but it's unfair, and as a man you shouldn't give in to let her get away with it. Let her get away with it, and she'll just put you in the friend zone.
This part killed me: him: "is it because I am strong, centered, her rock, mountain, super hero etc" CCW: "no, it's because you're a beta male and you won't stand up for yourself"
Okosun Onose, are you so desperate for business that you have to try to poach people from a proven and legitimate coach? Ladies and gentlemen, there is no magic. No witch doctors or shaman or mystics are going to magically make your ex return to you. If you see someone on comment threads like the one for Coach Corey Wayne here, trying to lure you away, understand that they are just fishing for the most emotionally desperate, when they will.then con out of as much money as possible. Don't fall for it. Stick to Coach here, follow his advice, and you will emotionally heal, center yourself--perhaps for the first time in your life--and you will give yourself the best possible chance to have great, fulfilling relationships. You will also give yourself the best possible chance to get your ex back, on YOUR terms, and give yourself the best possible chance of KEEPING your ex long term, if that is what YOU want. I am 3 times through The 3% Man, and starting the 4th read. It really needs at least 15. There are a lot of subtle nuances in the mass of information he presents, no fluff, all meat. Hang tough!
Love this guy definitely has helped out reading his book 8 times and counting now. Love yourself more than enough that people will see you as value rather than you looking for validation from other people
It is quite hard if you still have feelings for her.. but you just cannot put yourself in "waiting" mode. Stop counting the days after the breakup and move on with things you like to do or should do. I've been there and know the pain but that is the best way
Man I'm loving the fact that you are uploading tons of videos these days I've read your 1st book four times now and your 2nd book once, they're basically part of a repeat playlist of personal development books I listen to. I'm on a journey to really fix and discover a lot of myself lately I'm on a couple months of no contact with a woman who's been both a friend and a lover. She brought to my attention a lot of faults in myself. Even though we're both in a period of personal development, and I had to identify that I had a lot of toxic traits in our relationship a while back, I know what I want from her so I had to walk away in the end. Hard not to think about her still, but I'm committed to working on myself and making that my only priority. Her actions are out of my control, if she comes back into my life, so be it. If not, so be it as well.
I respect the advice. As a dating coach, I never recommend to wait, because it's a lose-lose situation. The majority of your thoughts become oriented on the mere hope of someone potentially coming back. That's the opposite of an abundance mindset.
The answer is: You express your truth, nicely but in no uncertain terms, and then you walk away and you never look back. If she contacts you again, and most of them will, then you stand firm in your position, but friendly. Leave the door open to them, to return on YOUR terms. It is up to HER to make the changes, to make the effort, and to earn her way back into YOUR life. Respect yourself, value yourself, because if you do not, neither will any woman. And pull that "soul mate" and "she's the one" crap out of your head and crush them. They are not real, they never were. There are lots of women who are better than the one who left you. And when you finally realize that, you will not only be happier, and getting the emotional and physical fulfillment you need and want, but you will also most likely have your ex come back seeing if she can be yours again, too.
I needed this talk 8yrs ago. Now that I know the wrong things I was doing, I will be well aware of shutting it down before she get complacent toward me. Your book does work! Thank You Sir 🤌💯👍🫵.
Maybe.... There will always be more people don't stop fucking.... You must have an abundance mindset.... Remember guys there are new 18 and 20 year olds each and every day coming on the market why wait for old milk when you can get a new one off of the shelf....
I remember I got attached to this girl in high school, and she ended it. I was hoping and waiting for her to come back for a year, and she was nice enough to flirt with dudes in front of me when we were college, and also was dating several dudes throughout the year. Biggest waste of time, and now that I have worked on myself. I thank God every day that I’m not with her because it would have been a nightmare. She was a narcissist just like my mom, and that’s why I became so attached. Last time i heard about her. she got beat up by her ex, and now is married to some guy younger than her. To me that is a red flag 🚩 when a women gets in a relationship with a younger dude.
Yup, she's settling with a beta to run him into the dirt. Bullet dodged, she's leftovers and nice guys get the leftovers after her years of prime are past
Yeah, my experience, never wait, they wanna go, let them. Short changing yourself waiting. I replaced a non-communicative, non-feeling ex with a girl who is really, really into me. Just wow. Should have gotten rid of the ex at first sign of dissension and you should too. A girl should always feel you are going to leave. It keeps her on her best behaviour. P.s. Ex realised that I'd checked out of the relationshit and came knocking. Told her to pound rocks.
Good luck!! As far as text game goes, 80% of the time she's is not gonna come back, if you are not reinitiating, unless she's a single mom or below average looking or insecure. I was screening out the most desirable women(western/north european descent under 24 years old) by following coreys texting advice, I learned the hard way. Not reinitiating did not get me anywhere with women. But to be fair, I was able to improve my career/education following his advice. Btw I bought the book on 2 different occasions.
Stop waiting, stop putting a time frame on it, if she comes back at a later stage then figure it out when it happens, if she doesn't then she doesn't, simple.
We're men...why, WHY would we want to spend time with anyone that no longer wants to spend time with us? She left you for someone else. Period. Ergo, immediately forget her and move on.
@@ryanbailey3185 ...and....YOU haven't added anything to the conversation except to say it's 'hard'...if it were easy, everyone would do it and this topic of discussion wouldn't exist...right? Dude, you are 'projecting'...and seems that you're not even aware of that
These videos are clutch, I over pursued her a little too much after she got out of a 2 year relationship a few months ago. Now we haven’t talked in almost a week and I’m not breaking my frame.
@@noboody2088 All is well, Said she didn’t know what she wanted but wanted to stay friends so I made it easy and just stopped talking to her altogether.
I've been some while ago in this guy's skin,been a bit of a do boy and becoming beta during the course of relationship ,trying to please the women I love to love me back.I found out my weakness was fear do not lose her and I correct myself,read Corey Wayne's book over 10 times .Now I have a lady who respects me,loves me,she can't have enough of me and I always pay attention to her level of attraction and act accordingly. I won't go back to anyone who cheats,disrespects ,lies and all of that bs.Life is too short for that sort of nonsense.Wish to everyone good luck in their love life.Thanks Correy for all the advice!
Mine did reach out for emotional support but I assume she wants to see me and I asked her out as per 7 principal to get an ex back. Nothing from her since. I am so proud of my self that I didn't be her emotional tampon.
I’ve been so jaded for so long and your videos are definitely providing me the clarity I need to help me get back on track after being lost for so long. I’ve known about you for years and I don’t know why I’m listening more carefully at this point in time. I honestly can’t wait to read your books and have solid healthy permanent changes in my life. I’m actually a self proclaimed female simp lol. I learned that after the will smith debacle. What I am tired of? I’m tired of being treated like crap from people and the person I love the most. I screwed up big time and have tried multiple times to make it right over the past 16 years and can’t seem to breakthrough. In the meantime I don’t know where I stand, although I should since I’ve been blocked but I will never give up on what I want no matter what.
Man i swear your Videos are therapeutic, ive been a fan since 2012, and i watched every single video you posted and i read the book 3 times as well as hearing it another 3 and i still learn something new and really feel inspired and valued everytime you post new material, thank you man, i wish i could afford a face to face session with you
I haven't watched the video yet but the answer is don't wait at all. It's always been a complete waste of time for me so I stopped doing that shit a long time ago
I definitely agree with the point about reading the book 10-15 times. I originally read the book when I was having issues with my past relationship. It helped tremendously and we had a great two year run. I honestly forgot to keep rereading and became complacent because of my busy schedule. Eventually we began losing our relationship because I was giving off very feminine energy unknowingly. It just came to a breaking point on New Years and I’m trying to use it as a lesson. I’m rereading and looking at some of these videos to figure out if and how I should salvage the relationship. This information is gold and never take a relationship for granite!
I really like how you make these videos and explain them in an understandable way. People need to understand how to show their boundaries and stop trying to make it work out at all cost... Love your content and appreciate you!
Took me a little longer than expected, but don’t chase, don’t beg. Just keep living your life and let her live hers. If they even think you’re needy it’s fallback season for sure
I was dating a girl, in no time she was doing most of the pursuing, we had a great time, she wrote me a love letter, always putted our dates as a priority, and then out of the blue she pulls back, starts to get cold and delay texting, I was OK with that. I get back to town and invite her over, she canceled on the last minute, and then flakes twice again because of her parents. I realize that maybe that was just a BS excuse and just tell her no problem, I will talk to her. I don't even send her a text, at first I thought she was going to contact me in a few days, now it's been over a month since the last time we talked lol, the first days was the most tempting to call her, but now I really don't care, honestly I feel a lot better. I am doing business, I am physically stronger than ever before, and I enjoy myself, now I can't meet many other women bc pandemic, but that shit doesn't affect me. I don't have time for BS games like that. And you must not too. Cheers
@@XLNC616 yeeaah right, i don't care if someone gets offended but the term that came to my mind after that roller coaster of attitude is emotional whore haha
Simple answer is that you just go on with your life just like you did before you met her. Now lets be real, that is easier said than done if you have true feelings for her. Tho think like this, you are single again and havent met her and what did she feel attracted to you? Tho this depends if she had high intrest for you in the beginning. How do you know that? Just read Corey's book then you see. If you keep in that frame, She will most likly come back. But, Its not about if she comes back or not. Its about the things you enjoy doing that makes you happy and having your life in check.Then Believe me, Girls will come up.Life is hard, some have it eisier than they think and some have it more difficult. But thats just the way it is.You can't just settle down and stop all the things all the sudden. You have to still keep on going and thats the whole point.
Im only on read #3 of the book before i even play this video i know the answer to the title. We dont wait we move on and never look back. If they want to comeback its not our worry.
My opinion in a short anwer: You shouldn´t wait a single second. Be it that you end up finfing out you are actually better without her, or that maybe you found someone better, take that chance. If you are ok with her coming back, that´s great too. Maybe she actually used that time to reflect on things and improve. But you should NEVER sit and wait and waste time while she makes up her mind. From the second she says "I need time", it´s on her if she wants to waste hers and your time.
It's up to her. If I'm into someone they'll know it and they're welcome to come round and see how far we can take it. Relationship not strictly necessary.
You don't. Move on with your life. Always work on your own self first. A woman is a compliment to your life, not the focus. IF she comes back around SHE has to earn another chance with you.
Man I love the sternness Coach !! I’ve followed you for several years and I’ve always been more stern like your recent videos and questioned at times if I was a little harsh... Nope, I’ve just been tired of tire kickers! Spot on message here brother! I Watch you everyday! Keep up the new stuff! Love it!!!
If her absence is the reason I’m feeling uncomfortable, I’ll put up with it long enough to clean my house . Clean my car . Then I will put myself out there to meet her replacement.
She broke up with me a month ago via text. She wanted to put me on the friend zone. I wrote an email the same day telling her good luck with your life. And went NC forever. She has reached out 3 times since the breakup but of course I ignored every single one of them. Last one was yesterday she said “she was missing and thinking about me” she probably Thought she was gonna get and I miss you too or something like that. I guess she will be waiting all her life. She will never have the privilege of hearing my voice or get a text from me. Never ever take and ex girlfriend back! She will lose all respect for you. Don’t get me wrong Im human and it hurts and I miss her but my PRIDE is way bigger than anything. Now Jan 3 2021 still missing her and she didn’t contact me again. I still feel the pain. I don’t see any progress after 3 months of NC and breakup. Please help.
I respect that you value yourself but don’t let a woman breakup get you all worked up. She broke up with you and now has came back because she feels something for you. She initiated so it’s up to you if you want to continue it. You obviously have gone somewhere with this woman so give her the gift of missing you just like Corey says. Always be respectful and treat others how you want to be treated. Woman or man. NEVER allow pride to guide you in the way you think and act, this is only showing her that you are an emotional man who is self centered and does not care for others. Be a good man and attract every woman this way you will attract there friends and the list goes on. Be honest with your intentions but have a balance so you do not come off as needy or over pursue. Never let your emotions get the best of you. Let her chase you. And in a few months usually 6- 10 months if you do things right like coach Corey says she will want to date. Let her initiate dating, if she does not there is always another boat waiting on the corner who will want you to ride along. Remember boys, YOU ARE THE PRIZE.
@@elijahwoolley6486 wow! I just read this. Thank you for your words. I really don’t want her back. I was good to her from day one until the end of our relationship. It was a lovely relationship and still don’t know what happened. The day she broke up with me she was a whole totally different person and treated me like if I was garbage. That’s the reason I never replied to her text.
I have experienced every shit with every girl. Do you want her back? Or get attention or whatever? 1. Ignore her on social media 2. If you see her almost in your daily life (school or work) be cold like they do 3. If they talk about their ex or another random guy just don't respons 4. Do you want to drive her crazy? Try to talk to 1 of her girlfriends (when she is around) And she will show you her weakness and jealousy 5.Most important!!!: If they act like they are jealousy but they say they are not? They are... bcuz Many females trying to act like a tough girl from the outside But from the inside they will shatter into million pieces just from 1 wrong step... 6. If you can't flirt; try to be very nice and helpfull. Not toooo much and don't say YES on everything she ask you for or tells you. Or else you will be in friendzone. If you can handle the friendzone situation ( but you want more then that) like for months and years but she don't have a bff yet? That means she gives you the opportunity to ask her out for dating :) ( happened to me many times). ~~~But if she tries to flirt with another guy.; ■Ignore her till she says sry or "i broke up" or "he broke up". You must say this :" you just lost a trustworhty soul. That will make there heart shatter and they will suck your dick in the next days
I only clicked on the video to comment. Ima watch the video after. But I wanted to say that I never wait for her to come back; I'm just talking to new women and if she comes back while I'm single cool if not her loss
With my ex for almost 5 years no contact for a week. She's dealing with health issues and her father has cancer for 4 years. I've been understanding and was always supportive. We agreed for her to stay at her parents house (Dad) Sunday - Thursday and see me on the weekends, while we live together. Beginning relationship she loved me but over time she dumps me 10 -15 times within 5 years and I always chase, beg, wait outside her work, call you name it, but she always comes back to me. Her birthday past I didn't contact and are anniversary next week and will do no contact. She loves her dad and I accept it, cannot be selfish. She also has all her suff at our place did not bother picking it up or taking one thing yet. This time im standing up and walking forward. Any advice about my situation is much appreciated. Thanks for your advice.
Corey you put this video out at just the right time man I'm going through a complete shit show right now with my ex I'm pretty much in it and emotional limbo with her I appreciate all your videos bud u help me out so much god bless much love from New York
People really aren’t listening. It’s not about how long it takes - it’s not about manipulation it’s about a mindset. Adopt it with reckless abandon and focus on yourself and your life. Let the rest come to you.
I've spent (wasted!) years and years chasing skirt! Helping birds out - helping and supporting them with every eventuality they faced. And..............all I got in return was pretty much nothing! Zipp. Bollocks all. Thankless they were. Even cheating on me after I'd done everything for them. Don't waste your time, energy, efforts and money on women. Take it from me, just don't gentlemen.
Thanks coach, if you get a chance watch my video on how to not get the girl! Dude this girl is really pissed at me rn 🤣 I know bc of her friends, but anyway she ignored me, never said happy birthday to me, and basically didn’t put any effort in the relationship. Her texts became boring and bland, but what I don’t understand is why is she pissed at me for cutting things off? She acted like she was so busy and didn’t have anything to offer me at all. I felt disrespected by her, so I got the hell out of that situation. It did hurt and I was depressed for like 2 days, but now I realize I have more options and feel happier without her! Can she not see herself on the bad end of the stick? If not I’m glad bc I dodged a bullet on that
Normally , you need to wait from 1 day up to 6 months for a woman to come back , That depends on : - Her interest level in you - Your actions ( No contact rule obligation ) - Her emotional life in this period and the mistakes her current boyfriend does
Took 3 months and there she was. I was stupid though didn't capitalise and make date I just fell back into the friendzone. Read the book, level up so you know how to act when she comes back. They almost always do.
Hey Corey, just wanted to say I hope you and your family stay safe during this election season :) as well as continued success with your RUclips channel!
I was still married hoping she would see the error of her ways for about a year. Take advice from a “former good husband”. If she crosses you or you see it building up, walk away in less than 3 seconds.
Easy answer, you don't. You say if She changes her mind to contact you but you can't wait for anyone unless you are hurt and you need time off for yourself.
When a woman puts you in friend zone, say no no platonic you can give your friendship to the next guy, they use you for their benefit ,they'll just use you to fix their stuff , take them to Dinner won't spring even the tip , for just Faust hope move on there just exploring their other options ,don't wait for a girl that has low interest, move on young man move on...
before I even start this video I can hear Coach are ready, “the fact that you’re even asking this question tells me you don’t know the material, you’re not waiting for her to come back you’re acting like she doesn’t come back you’re bettering yourself and if she comes back good but you’re not waiting for her”
Hello to whom it may concern I can recommend you to someone that helped me get my ex back recently without stress and delay and I believe he can also help you too ❤️💞💞💞💞
It's funny, I found Corey's work like 6 years ago and it was my entrance into the "redpill" world, the person I was back then is completely gone by now. Whenever someone is new to his work due to a current experience my first thought is "Dude, you have a hell of a journey ahead of you"
51 now been here since I was 43. Always reference the book, never stop reading it ! My life has dramatically changed ! Built my own business making 6 figures doing what I want and have had some great women . Mr. Wayne is the fucking man. Listen to him all and apply it!
Same, I got into the redpill through Corey Wayne first. I’ve followed him for more than 8 years. Whoever start with Wayne has a long way to go. He’s parted of the most basic dating advice. After him you got YT channels like AMS, Locario, now FnF & others.
The answer: you never wait for them to come back. You move on with your life
Well there’s a difference between letting go and giving up, you can work on yourself and stay focused on your goals all the while acknowledging that your ex may come back and you can evaluate whether that’s something you want when and if that happens, have a couple friends who have even divorced and remarried years later and are happier than ever
yuuuuuuuuuup.
@@justint7190 haha
They will come back when they miss you so focus on your self.
@@justint7190 you’re def not saving time by not watching the GOAT
Focus on yourself, your happiness is not tied to her. You’ll attract more than you ever dreamed when you have purpose.
Howard you are exactly right
Oh really? Hahaha
Is this really true?..
“If a woman pushes you away, its her who must earn another chance with YOU. Not the other way around.”
She might come back, she might not. You have to be indifferent to her, stop living in the past and hoping she will call or text. She consciously walked away from you so why waste your time thinking about her? Spend your time working on yourself and meeting other people and developing a life of abundance. If you guys need any help, just ask.
Thanks bro this is right on the money and also some help would be appreciated.
@@CHICANOGANGSTER13 well there isn't a simple answer for this, patience and rational thinking will help, but I'll make a video on this to go in more detail.
What's your opinion if the man suddenly stops talking with the woman since the woman doesn't respond with eagerness than before? He cut the communication and didn't tell her any other words just left her
Great post
i know someone who can help in any love/relationship related problems you can contact him on Whatsapp
Never wait for anyone who decides to leave you. Even though it may break your heart you have to stay centered and just move on. Also I don’t think it is a good thing to make yourself so available for the person who wants no part of you anymore.
you need tell my male friend lol
Let's be honest, it is truly difficult to keep your sanity as a man if your woman dumps you. No question about it. However if you've made an honest effort to save the relationship and she still walks then you have to let her go. It's just something you have to do as a man. We don't like it and it hurts but you gotta let her go. We try to make it work, we hope it works but in the end if she's done she's done. Face reality and just let her go.
It really is simple fellas but we let our egos and emotions get in the way of seeing things clearly. If a woman wants you, it won’t be confusing because she will make it LOUD AND CLEAR. Everything coach teaches us is to know how to handle her emotions when she backs away.
@Anthony Timmers I was a codependent and got love bombed by a covert narcissist. You’re 100% right. Wish it didn’t happen.
@Anthony Timmers I appreciate it. Won’t bore you with details but basics - she had this unfamiliarity about her I never felt before, kind of looked like me because we share ethnic somewhat similar background, she had daddy issues abusive ex and I played the codependent people pleaser. Have learned a lot from the experience and truly believe we were learning lessons. Am more independent and self centered now and speak my mind with respect out of instinct with zero nervousness. it’s difficult to let go that’s the next step. I tried explaining this to my sister and mom and it blows over their head and it’s weird but there’s parallels between them and her. Anyway thanks for the response.
@Anthony Timmers Thanks man that’s the next step. It’s been tough realizing all this. It’s been so difficult to get her off my mind it’s like an addiction. Any other girl it took me 2 days but with her it’s yeah I just gotta move on. Self love is key.
@Anthony Timmers Thanks so much.
What you say is actually true . When there is a lack of clarity , you are in that territory where they are considering you , they are just not that into you . I have learnt it the hard way . No point crying over spilt milk . We make some mistakes at times they can be expensive but life has to go on or be stuck and die there .
How long should you wait? Short answer.... you don't wait at all. You work on yourself. You move on. You do better. She needs to worry about losing YOU, not the other way around. If she comes back and you want to work on it, great. If not, wish her well and let it be her loss.
Nice guys finish last is a true statement!
When a woman pulls her intimacy away as leverage to get you to do something she wants, the most manly thing to do is mirror what she does and pull away also. When a woman does this she's being manipulative and controlling. Sometimes women do this with good intentions but it's unfair, and as a man you shouldn't give in to let her get away with it. Let her get away with it, and she'll just put you in the friend zone.
This part killed me:
him: "is it because I am strong, centered, her rock, mountain, super hero etc"
CCW: "no, it's because you're a beta male and you won't stand up for yourself"
Literally laughed myself to tears 😭
i know someone who can help in any love/relationship related problems you can contact him on Whatsapp
Okosun Onose, are you so desperate for business that you have to try to poach people from a proven and legitimate coach?
Ladies and gentlemen, there is no magic. No witch doctors or shaman or mystics are going to magically make your ex return to you.
If you see someone on comment threads like the one for Coach Corey Wayne here, trying to lure you away, understand that they are just fishing for the most emotionally desperate, when they will.then con out of as much money as possible.
Don't fall for it. Stick to Coach here, follow his advice, and you will emotionally heal, center yourself--perhaps for the first time in your life--and you will give yourself the best possible chance to have great, fulfilling relationships.
You will also give yourself the best possible chance to get your ex back, on YOUR terms, and give yourself the best possible chance of KEEPING your ex long term, if that is what YOU want.
I am 3 times through The 3% Man, and starting the 4th read. It really needs at least 15. There are a lot of subtle nuances in the mass of information he presents, no fluff, all meat.
Hang tough!
“Goodbye! It’s been reaal” 😂
Love this guy definitely has helped out reading his book 8 times and counting now. Love yourself more than enough that people will see you as value rather than you looking for validation from other people
It is quite hard if you still have feelings for her.. but you just cannot put yourself in "waiting" mode. Stop counting the days after the breakup and move on with things you like to do or should do. I've been there and know the pain but that is the best way
Hang out, have fun hook up.
I dont want that. I want:
Hang out, have fun, life partner.
Man I'm loving the fact that you are uploading tons of videos these days
I've read your 1st book four times now and your 2nd book once, they're basically part of a repeat playlist of personal development books I listen to.
I'm on a journey to really fix and discover a lot of myself lately
I'm on a couple months of no contact with a woman who's been both a friend and a lover. She brought to my attention a lot of faults in myself. Even though we're both in a period of personal development, and I had to identify that I had a lot of toxic traits in our relationship a while back, I know what I want from her so I had to walk away in the end.
Hard not to think about her still, but I'm committed to working on myself and making that my only priority.
Her actions are out of my control, if she comes back into my life, so be it. If not, so be it as well.
I respect the advice. As a dating coach, I never recommend to wait, because it's a lose-lose situation. The majority of your thoughts become oriented on the mere hope of someone potentially coming back. That's the opposite of an abundance mindset.
Using someone’s else channel to promote yours is just low! Get a life!
Not promoting, I actually have been watching Corey's vids for years and still watch them till this day. I support his work.
I just unfriend or block never be 2nd best to no one... as coach says there’s another bus every 10mins
Dont wait. Live your life.
This monday is definetely a good day to receive this video, especially after seen my father's divorce (which was a blessing)
Same scenario here bro.
Told my ex "If you don't love me, someone else will".
The answer is: You express your truth, nicely but in no uncertain terms, and then you walk away and you never look back. If she contacts you again, and most of them will, then you stand firm in your position, but friendly. Leave the door open to them, to return on YOUR terms. It is up to HER to make the changes, to make the effort, and to earn her way back into YOUR life.
Respect yourself, value yourself, because if you do not, neither will any woman.
And pull that "soul mate" and "she's the one" crap out of your head and crush them. They are not real, they never were.
There are lots of women who are better than the one who left you. And when you finally realize that, you will not only be happier, and getting the emotional and physical fulfillment you need and want, but you will also most likely have your ex come back seeing if she can be yours again, too.
Excellent advice
I needed this talk 8yrs ago. Now that I know the wrong things I was doing, I will be well aware of shutting it down before she get complacent toward me. Your book does work! Thank You Sir 🤌💯👍🫵.
Don't wait for her to come back, go live your life, & maybe find another,
Maybe.... There will always be more people don't stop fucking.... You must have an abundance mindset.... Remember guys there are new 18 and 20 year olds each and every day coming on the market why wait for old milk when you can get a new one off of the shelf....
Just move on, it's hard at first but you will forget her eventually and you will meet someone new
I remember I got attached to this girl in high school, and she ended it. I was hoping and waiting for her to come back for a year, and she was nice enough to flirt with dudes in front of me when we were college, and also was dating several dudes throughout the year. Biggest waste of time, and now that I have worked on myself. I thank God every day that I’m not with her because it would have been a nightmare. She was a narcissist just like my mom, and that’s why I became so attached. Last time i heard about her. she got beat up by her ex, and now is married to some guy younger than her. To me that is a red flag 🚩 when a women gets in a relationship with a younger dude.
Mmm why do you think its a red flag?
Yes it's interesting to know why u think it's a red flag .
Did you smile when you heard that she got beat up?
Yup, she's settling with a beta to run him into the dirt. Bullet dodged, she's leftovers and nice guys get the leftovers after her years of prime are past
You do not wait ..you do you and move on
Yeah, my experience, never wait, they wanna go, let them. Short changing yourself waiting. I replaced a non-communicative, non-feeling ex with a girl who is really, really into me. Just wow. Should have gotten rid of the ex at first sign of dissension and you should too. A girl should always feel you are going to leave. It keeps her on her best behaviour. P.s. Ex realised that I'd checked out of the relationshit and came knocking. Told her to pound rocks.
Living is much better than waiting
Been listening to you for many years, I got annoyed when you were pro female. I’m glad you’re back. Cheers Brotha. 🇨🇦
Good luck!! As far as text game goes, 80% of the time she's is not gonna come back, if you are not reinitiating, unless she's a single mom or below average looking or insecure. I was screening out the most desirable women(western/north european descent under 24 years old) by following coreys texting advice, I learned the hard way. Not reinitiating did not get me anywhere with women. But to be fair, I was able to improve my career/education following his advice. Btw I bought the book on 2 different occasions.
Stop waiting, stop putting a time frame on it, if she comes back at a later stage then figure it out when it happens, if she doesn't then she doesn't, simple.
We're men...why, WHY would we want to spend time with anyone that no longer wants to spend time with us? She left you for someone else. Period. Ergo, immediately forget her and move on.
Dude everyone thinks that way, it’s the hard fact that it’s far easier said than done.. you haven’t come up with any novel idea here.
@@ryanbailey3185 ...and....YOU haven't added anything to the conversation except to say it's 'hard'...if it were easy, everyone would do it and this topic of discussion wouldn't exist...right?
Dude, you are 'projecting'...and seems that you're not even aware of that
@@elgar6743 I added commenting that your comment was useless so perhaps you’ll reconsider stating the obvious. Think it over buddy.
These videos are clutch, I over pursued her a little too much after she got out of a 2 year relationship a few months ago. Now we haven’t talked in almost a week and I’m not breaking my frame.
Stay strong bro. How's things now?
@@noboody2088 All is well, Said she didn’t know what she wanted but wanted to stay friends so I made it easy and just stopped talking to her altogether.
I've been some while ago in this guy's skin,been a bit of a do boy and becoming beta during the course of relationship ,trying to please the women I love to love me back.I found out my weakness was fear do not lose her and I correct myself,read Corey Wayne's book over 10 times .Now I have a lady who respects me,loves me,she can't have enough of me and I always pay attention to her level of attraction and act accordingly.
I won't go back to anyone who cheats,disrespects ,lies and all of that bs.Life is too short for that sort of nonsense.Wish to everyone good luck in their love life.Thanks Correy for all the advice!
Mine did reach out for emotional support but I assume she wants to see me and I asked her out as per 7 principal to get an ex back. Nothing from her since. I am so proud of my self that I didn't be her emotional tampon.
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Don't wait for anyone, you're basically saying, I'm nothing without you and I need someone to fulfill me. Thanks for helping me Corey
I’ve been so jaded for so long and your videos are definitely providing me the clarity I need to help me get back on track after being lost for so long. I’ve known about you for years and I don’t know why I’m listening more carefully at this point in time. I honestly can’t wait to read your books and have solid healthy permanent changes in my life. I’m actually a self proclaimed female simp lol. I learned that after the will smith debacle. What I am tired of? I’m tired of being treated like crap from people and the person I love the most. I screwed up big time and have tried multiple times to make it right over the past 16 years and can’t seem to breakthrough. In the meantime I don’t know where I stand, although I should since I’ve been blocked but I will never give up on what I want no matter what.
Whatever you chase will run.
Man i swear your Videos are therapeutic, ive been a fan since 2012, and i watched every single video you posted and i read the book 3 times as well as hearing it another 3 and i still learn something new and really feel inspired and valued everytime you post new material, thank you man, i wish i could afford a face to face session with you
I haven't watched the video yet but the answer is don't wait at all. It's always been a complete waste of time for me so I stopped doing that shit a long time ago
Disagree if you dont look you'll nvr find the good ones
@@psrandz Who said to stop looking, I'll I'm saying is once a girl walks away never waste your time hoping she'll come back. Just keep moving
I definitely agree with the point about reading the book 10-15 times. I originally read the book when I was having issues with my past relationship. It helped tremendously and we had a great two year run. I honestly forgot to keep rereading and became complacent because of my busy schedule. Eventually we began losing our relationship because I was giving off very feminine energy unknowingly. It just came to a breaking point on New Years and I’m trying to use it as a lesson. I’m rereading and looking at some of these videos to figure out if and how I should salvage the relationship. This information is gold and never take a relationship for granite!
for granted*
I'll never wait for any woman to come back.
I really like how you make these videos and explain them in an understandable way.
People need to understand how to show their boundaries and stop trying to make it work out at all cost...
Love your content and appreciate you!
Took me a little longer than expected, but don’t chase, don’t beg. Just keep living your life and let her live hers. If they even think you’re needy it’s fallback season for sure
I was dating a girl, in no time she was doing most of the pursuing, we had a great time, she wrote me a love letter, always putted our dates as a priority, and then out of the blue she pulls back, starts to get cold and delay texting, I was OK with that.
I get back to town and invite her over, she canceled on the last minute, and then flakes twice again because of her parents.
I realize that maybe that was just a BS excuse and just tell her no problem, I will talk to her.
I don't even send her a text, at first I thought she was going to contact me in a few days, now it's been over a month since the last time we talked lol, the first days was the most tempting to call her, but now I really don't care, honestly I feel a lot better. I am doing business, I am physically stronger than ever before, and I enjoy myself, now I can't meet many other women bc pandemic, but that shit doesn't affect me. I don't have time for BS games like that. And you must not too. Cheers
The ones who come on strong are usually like that from my experience, definite issues!
@@XLNC616 yeeaah right, i don't care if someone gets offended but the term that came to my mind after that roller coaster of attitude is emotional whore haha
@@XLNC616 plot twist… it was the same chick….
Update? Did she ever try to squirm her way back in?
@@Corinari no lol, she went to beta bf but I'm better than ever and that what's matter.
Now I am with a girl that is really 100x better
I love the comments section guys, you keep reminding me of the alpha life!
Simple answer is that you just go on with your life just like you did before you met her. Now lets be real, that is easier said than done if you have true feelings for her. Tho think like this, you are single again and havent met her and what did she feel attracted to you? Tho this depends if she had high intrest for you in the beginning. How do you know that? Just read Corey's book then you see. If you keep in that frame, She will most likly come back. But, Its not about if she comes back or not. Its about the things you enjoy doing that makes you happy and having your life in check.Then Believe me, Girls will come up.Life is hard, some have it eisier than they think and some have it more difficult. But thats just the way it is.You can't just settle down and stop all the things all the sudden. You have to still keep on going and thats the whole point.
Im only on read #3 of the book before i even play this video i know the answer to the title. We dont wait we move on and never look back. If they want to comeback its not our worry.
Thanks for the technical explanation of the term "hooking up" for non-native English speakers.
My opinion in a short anwer: You shouldn´t wait a single second. Be it that you end up finfing out you are actually better without her, or that maybe you found someone better, take that chance. If you are ok with her coming back, that´s great too. Maybe she actually used that time to reflect on things and improve. But you should NEVER sit and wait and waste time while she makes up her mind. From the second she says "I need time", it´s on her if she wants to waste hers and your time.
It's up to her. If I'm into someone they'll know it and they're welcome to come round and see how far we can take it. Relationship not strictly necessary.
Indifference is the key. Hang out, Have Fun and Hook Up 😊 thank you coach. Your work is life changing. 😊
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You don't. Move on with your life. Always work on your own self first. A woman is a compliment to your life, not the focus. IF she comes back around SHE has to earn another chance with you.
I've waited 7 months, don't think she's coming back 🤣
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He help me got my ex back after we break up with each other's
Boys, I was having a laugh. I didn't wait a single day for her 🤣 no one should wait or play there games! Do you and move the fuck on!!!
You should never wait for her, you move on with your life.
@@Kaprlaalis did you even read the comments?
“Lol alright, never mind” - always respond humorously to rejection, the validation they’ve sought from you diminishes when you treat them like a joke.
Always love your content Corey but I think this video just set a world record for # of commercial interruptions.
Man I love the sternness Coach !! I’ve followed you for several years and I’ve always been more stern like your recent videos and questioned at times if I was a little harsh... Nope, I’ve just been tired of tire kickers! Spot on message here brother! I Watch you everyday! Keep up the new stuff! Love it!!!
If her absence is the reason I’m feeling uncomfortable, I’ll put up with it long enough to clean my house . Clean my car . Then I will put myself out there to meet her replacement.
Don't wait. See others and work you career. If she comes back what ever.
For anyone that might not have noticed in this guys videos there is an underlying tone of 'Not giving a fuck'. I like it
You dont need to wait for her to Comeback
~Your Future Self
For me, it's easy. Nobody, and I mean NOBODY, ever tries to come back to me. Not once in 47 years. I’m not sure if that’s good or not.
I love how savage Corey is with these fellas. Hard lessons learnt here lads!
She broke up with me a month ago via text. She wanted to put me on the friend zone. I wrote an email the same day telling her good luck with your life. And went NC forever. She has reached out 3 times since the breakup but of course I ignored every single one of them. Last one was yesterday she said “she was missing and thinking about me” she probably Thought she was gonna get and I miss you too or something like that. I guess she will be waiting all her life. She will never have the privilege of hearing my voice or get a text from me. Never ever take and ex girlfriend back! She will lose all respect for you. Don’t get me wrong Im human and it hurts and I miss her but my PRIDE is way bigger than anything. Now Jan 3 2021 still missing her and she didn’t contact me again. I still feel the pain. I don’t see any progress after 3 months of NC and breakup. Please help.
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I respect that you value yourself but don’t let a woman breakup get you all worked up. She broke up with you and now has came back because she feels something for you. She initiated so it’s up to you if you want to continue it. You obviously have gone somewhere with this woman so give her the gift of missing you just like Corey says. Always be respectful and treat others how you want to be treated. Woman or man. NEVER allow pride to guide you in the way you think and act, this is only showing her that you are an emotional man who is self centered and does not care for others. Be a good man and attract every woman this way you will attract there friends and the list goes on. Be honest with your intentions but have a balance so you do not come off as needy or over pursue. Never let your emotions get the best of you. Let her chase you. And in a few months usually 6- 10 months if you do things right like coach Corey says she will want to date. Let her initiate dating, if she does not there is always another boat waiting on the corner who will want you to ride along. Remember boys, YOU ARE THE PRIZE.
@@elijahwoolley6486 wow! I just read this. Thank you for your words. I really don’t want her back. I was good to her from day one until the end of our relationship. It was a lovely relationship and still don’t know what happened. The day she broke up with me she was a whole totally different person and treated me like if I was garbage. That’s the reason I never replied to her text.
I have experienced every shit with every girl.
Do you want her back? Or get attention or whatever?
1. Ignore her on social media
2. If you see her almost in your daily life (school or work) be cold like they do
3. If they talk about their ex or another random guy just don't respons
4. Do you want to drive her crazy? Try to talk to 1 of her girlfriends (when she is around)
And she will show you her weakness and jealousy
5.Most important!!!:
If they act like they are jealousy but they say they are not? They are... bcuz
Many females trying to act like a tough girl from the outside
But from the inside they will shatter into million pieces just from 1 wrong step...
6. If you can't flirt; try to be very nice and helpfull. Not toooo much and don't say YES on everything she ask you for or tells you. Or else you will be in friendzone.
If you can handle the friendzone situation ( but you want more then that) like for months and years but she don't have a bff yet? That means she gives you the opportunity to ask her out for dating :)
( happened to me many times).
~~~But if she tries to flirt with another guy.;
■Ignore her till she says sry or "i broke up" or "he broke up". You must say this :" you just lost a trustworhty soul.
That will make there heart shatter and they will suck your dick in the next days
No longer than an episode of your favorite sitcom
I only clicked on the video to comment. Ima watch the video after. But I wanted to say that I never wait for her to come back; I'm just talking to new women and if she comes back while I'm single cool if not her loss
With my ex for almost 5 years no contact for a week. She's dealing with health issues and her father has cancer for 4 years. I've been understanding and was always supportive. We agreed for her to stay at her parents house (Dad) Sunday - Thursday and see me on the weekends, while we live together. Beginning relationship she loved me but over time she dumps me 10 -15 times within 5 years and I always chase, beg, wait outside her work, call you name it, but she always comes back to me. Her birthday past I didn't contact and are anniversary next week and will do no contact. She loves her dad and I accept it, cannot be selfish. She also has all her suff at our place did not bother picking it up or taking one thing yet. This time im standing up and walking forward. Any advice about my situation is much appreciated. Thanks for your advice.
@@charzanboo9940 I hear you hang in there.
"How long do I wait for her to come back?"
You...don't. Carry on, my wayward son.
don’t. just don’t.
Corey you put this video out at just the right time man I'm going through a complete shit show right now with my ex I'm pretty much in it and emotional limbo with her I appreciate all your videos bud u help me out so much god bless much love from New York
Corey saved my life..I was so down..but Corey brought me out of the darkness..ty Corey. I owe you so much..
You keep getting more handsome Corey. You alpha man ! 3% club
You gotta chill on the "obviously" conversation stall. Thank you so much for what you do.
People really aren’t listening. It’s not about how long it takes - it’s not about manipulation it’s about a mindset. Adopt it with reckless abandon and focus on yourself and your life. Let the rest come to you.
The universe will reward you as you respect nature
Im 51 they dont always come back ..only one never came ba k out of a dozen. They always come back around 6 months to a year.
6 months to a year actually is accurate
I'm surprised they would still have your number 6 months to a year after they broke it off or walked away
@@jonnytwocombs198 i live in a small town..
I've spent (wasted!) years and years chasing skirt! Helping birds out - helping and supporting them with every eventuality they faced. And..............all I got in return was pretty much nothing! Zipp. Bollocks all. Thankless they were. Even cheating on me after I'd done everything for them.
Don't waste your time, energy, efforts and money on women. Take it from me, just don't gentlemen.
Too bad no one taught you the way earlier!
@@jand8303 Red pill changed pretty much everything for me. Over night too..
Thanks coach, if you get a chance watch my video on how to not get the girl! Dude this girl is really pissed at me rn 🤣 I know bc of her friends, but anyway she ignored me, never said happy birthday to me, and basically didn’t put any effort in the relationship. Her texts became boring and bland, but what I don’t understand is why is she pissed at me for cutting things off? She acted like she was so busy and didn’t have anything to offer me at all. I felt disrespected by her, so I got the hell out of that situation. It did hurt and I was depressed for like 2 days, but now I realize I have more options and feel happier without her! Can she not see herself on the bad end of the stick? If not I’m glad bc I dodged a bullet on that
24:15 - I'm dieing 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Have your stuff together before you date these women and they wouldn't need to do these things
Thanks coach. This video couldn't have come at a better time.
Normally , you need to wait from 1 day up to 6 months for a woman to come back , That depends on :
- Her interest level in you
- Your actions ( No contact rule obligation )
- Her emotional life in this period and the mistakes her current boyfriend does
Took 3 months and there she was. I was stupid though didn't capitalise and make date I just fell back into the friendzone. Read the book, level up so you know how to act when she comes back. They almost always do.
@@noobish5574 facts! If I don’t hear from her in the next few weeks I’d be surprised lol but not tripping whatsoever if not.
Hey Corey, just wanted to say I hope you and your family stay safe during this election season :) as well as continued success with your RUclips channel!
I was still married hoping she would see the error of her ways for about a year. Take advice from a “former good husband”. If she crosses you or you see it building up, walk away in less than 3 seconds.
Easy answer, you don't.
You say if She changes her mind to contact you but you can't wait for anyone unless you are hurt and you need time off for yourself.
When a woman puts you in friend zone, say no no platonic you can give your friendship to the next guy, they use you for their benefit ,they'll just use you to fix their stuff , take them to Dinner won't spring even the tip , for just Faust hope move on there just exploring their other options ,don't wait for a girl that has low interest, move on young man move on...
Prepare to wait forever or move on. Take your pick 🤔
before I even start this video I can hear Coach are ready, “the fact that you’re even asking this question tells me you don’t know the material, you’re not waiting for her to come back you’re acting like she doesn’t come back you’re bettering yourself and if she comes back good but you’re not waiting for her”
I needed to hear this because I think she wants to friend zone me,thanks
Just friend zone her first that simple.
I have a feeling that she has someone else in her life but she is not telling me
@@MrMMK777 dude who cares who she has in her life move on go find a new chick don't wait for old milk.
@@oroville12345 everytime I do that she start chasing and when I show a little interest back she pull away again ,I guess this time I end it for good
Hey coach you should do more of these. I couldn’t stop laughing when you made those expressions. 😅
I can't say enough thanks 👍 You're the best coach 💓💓💓💖
Take it from the movie swingers
That's a clean shirt, Coach!
Don't wait!
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Corey. On point baby!!
Thanks for the knowledge coach, I appreciate the knowledge, and thanks for being here.
Exactly what I’m going through right now
She reached out to me for "emotional support......" Yayyyyyyyyy!!! lol.
Coach,your looking very well mate.
It's funny, I found Corey's work like 6 years ago and it was my entrance into the "redpill" world, the person I was back then is completely gone by now. Whenever someone is new to his work due to a current experience my first thought is "Dude, you have a hell of a journey ahead of you"
51 now been here since I was 43. Always reference the book, never stop reading it ! My life has dramatically changed ! Built my own business making 6 figures doing what I want and have had some great women . Mr. Wayne is the fucking man. Listen to him all and apply it!
Same, I got into the redpill through Corey Wayne first. I’ve followed him for more than 8 years. Whoever start with Wayne has a long way to go. He’s parted of the most basic dating advice. After him you got YT channels like AMS, Locario, now FnF & others.
coach C.W rocks
12-24 hours tops then start looking for new women
One of your best videos! WWJBD
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