If a man tells you he doesn’t want you...Believe Him! He has absolutely no love for you. You shouldn’t want to stay with a man like that. My ex husband was the same way. Girl, run to that courthouse.
Mine didn't tell me but his actions spoke louder than his words, he made it so obvious. Its painful to think back but thankfully I am on the road to recovery.🙏🏼
Ladies trust your intuition. We have to stop ignoring the signs because we don’t want to face the truth. I know starting over is hard, but staying is worse. I left and I am better for it.
True that, left 11 years behind and the heartbreak was hell. 2 years later I’m finally starting to feel like myself again. I cried so much, but I will not go back.
I was eating chips and when he said it and took a moment of silence I spit all my chips out laughing. No disrespect to her because if she needs lube nothing wrong with that
This email is sad but so many women go through this. Some times God protects us and we have no idea that that’s what he is doing. God did you a favor. God bless you sis!
This man reminds me of my ex hubby. He was real mean and nasty. I feel for you sis. Just surround yourself around a loving support system. That's what I did. Praying for you.
He acts like he hates her for leaving, which was the only option he gave her. Some guys are so cruel. Just because they no longer want a woman, doesn't mean they have to punish her for loving him, he chose that relationship as well.
@@LA-wv7gf I'm so sorry to hear that. It makes me wonder if the stats about women filing 70 percent of the time are skewed because the husbands force it.
@@taylorthenatural5509 it’s so high in part because men will abuse and terrorize their families and not just leave for whatever reason, like you’re saying the woman often ends up being forced to file
I prayed and asked God to revel what he wanted to me know and see in my last relationship and he did. He may lead to a phone it may be to a smart watch and it could be through the computer. He will reveal if you ask. Don't be blindsided by a man or a woman.
I got to say my last breakup made me realize so much.... I will never let another Lil boy play with me!!!!!!! Baby I’m so into me now it scares me ❤️👑😂🤷🏽♀️ I’m really waiting this time ..... I love this process 👑
The chaos and destruction after cheating and feeding that temptation is not worth it. Don’t cheat. Don’t feed the Devil’s temptation. Don’t lack integrity. Don’t be disloyal. Don’t be dishonest. Don’t be secretive. I know after years the ideas play by numbers but look at the bigger picture. I hate it for this young lady and I pray she grieves that relationship and heals! ♥️
I see so many women try to hold all the men that don't want them and that's not a judgment. I think that we would need to know their worth because one man's trash will be another man's treasure. Sometimes you have evolved past that man and God has something better for you. Lift your self-esteem up and have a little pride about yourself and understand that you're a jewel. Move on
They get to me too. I can't believe women are going through this. Hurts my heart and brings tears to my eyes. Makes me want to curl up in bed with just me, my Bible and Jesus
If I could ever see you in person Tony!! I know I will cry and hug you so hard, and thank you! From the bottom of my heart, because only you! Has had helped me go through all I've through and helped grow into a new different women. I will thank you from the bottom of my heart, I cannot really express it with words!! Thank you Tony!! Blessings to you, your family, your business!!
Won't nobody ready for what she said about da Turkey!! No ma'am😜. But I get it, if you feel like your man is cheating and doesn't want you then the rivers won't flow...Just that simple!! Pay for the divorce Sis! Money well spent!
Tony, tell that woman to use the video's, of him cheating, as proof to show to the judge. She will not be liable for anything. Thank you brother for all that you do. 🙏🏽
Omg he felt the load of her statement ‘he don’t love me anymore’. I felt that too 🥺 We know what to do with it, it’s just the heart wants what it wants. Acceptance is hard.
He's the one who has been cheating & lying for how long?😒 And, on top of all that he's DISRESPECTFUL & DL too!😩 All I gotta say is: To the left, to the left, everything you own in the box📦to the left. Don't let the door hit you, where the good Lord done split you!✌🏽🙏🏽✌🏽
@@kaleema1987 These grown boy tactics are just unacceptable. Seems like when you let one impropriety slide, then the floodgate open for all kinds of nonsense.🤦🏽♀️
My hope for decent woman is to loose the energy of “ I Need A Man” ......Why be dragged through the mud all in the name of “ Fake Love” My Goodness 🙄 I’ll pass‼️Single & Happy , Infection Free & Stress Free It is🤷🏽♀️
Lessons and Laughter.🤣🤣🤣🤣...Tony scrolling through the phone!!! Married 17 years you are a "different type of human". Yes, Ladies you need passwords to conduct business in an emergency!!
Always love, protect, guard and treasure yourself, your life, your beliefs and your standards. Being single and happy is so much better than being with someone who does not value you and worse than that, disrespects you, mistreats you, abu*es you, puts you down and tries to break your wings and make you feel less than. Always be ready to leave the table when respect and love are no longer being served.
Just for the DISRESPECT he can get the hell OUT!!Why the heck r we staying with this type of trash?!!!Married or NOT this a a full on nonsense man.Get going girrrlll u deserve the BEST man.God got your back!He is giving you a new life.Take it and run.That man was toxic from the beginning u just didnt want to see it
My ex husband use to tell his friends he love them and i always felt a certain type of way about that now I know I'm not crazy glad I divorce his nasty behind and their was other stuff as well
I'm 100% lady, but I don't say I love you except for my immediate family members, and my then spouse. That term is not to be used loosely, it requires work, commitment, and sacrifice.
A man WILL SHOW you through his CONSISTENT ACTION that he does not want you. It is the same thing as him saying it. Stop waiting for a man to Tell you he doesn’t want you. He most likely won’t because he doesn’t want to feel guilty or wants a reason to come back to you if things don’t work out with someone else. Therefore if he tells you he doesn’t want you. It would be harder for him to come back. A man doing the following things are clear signs he does not want you. - Him disrespecting you, not listening to you during a conversation, saying he’s going to cheat on you, cheating on you, asking you what would you do if he cheated, checking out other women in front of you, flirting with other women in front of you, comparing you to other women, not celebrating special occasions and or purposely ruining them, picking petty fights and arguments, not taking responsibility for his wrong instead saying “Everything is my always fault” - reverse psychology effectively getting you to doubt your accurate judgment that he was in the wrong. Him saying he does not like how you think, him saying you made him not like you, Allowing his family and friends to disrespect you, Going through the makeup and breakup cycle with you, telling you your not attractive, allowing you to struggle when he could easily help you, throwing other women in your face, the list can go on forever, lol but One thing that will really guide to know for sure if he doesn’t want you is that uncomfortable feeling you get from being with him, the anxiety that something bad is gonna happen, you’ve already repeatedly argued about the same thing, you conscious mind whispering to you that he is not the one, you know longer feel safe to be yourself around him, you can see he is deliberately pushing you away. All the things you asked of him he does for ever other woman but you. All the things he said he does not want in a woman is the exact definition of his current woman. He Does Not Want You. And if your able to be honest with yourself, you don’t want him either! Your just afraid of losing the investments you put into him and the relationship.💯
I had to listen to the beginning a few times. This story is so 😥 But thank God this Sister prayed and eventually listened to the wisdom of God!! As TG says, focus on your three B's. Hope in God Sis! Stay blessed 💯🙏🏾💜 Thank God for TG's Divine message 💜💜💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯
TG’s pause made me go running to the phone as I was In Another part of my house 🏡 I tripped over my stockpile and stub my toe....ugh that’s a shame...man I was gunning for that phone.
As soon I see that wrist pop, I'm out. 🏃🏾♀️ My gaydar is strong. He was never meant for her. Unfortunately, she married the wrong person. Like Tony said, get out of that situation and have a peace of mind, and be UTI free. Dag. That's crazy.
Tony is right! No phone should be a secret to a wife, or he’s hiding something. Anything that feels a secret is cheating; otherwise, why would it not be shared?
Oh my! I cannot imagine the how bad her heart is breaking. This just so happens to be one of those bitter pills handed to us in life that you have to swallow with cranberry juice to ease the taste a bit.
I have never felt the need to look at a man’s phone. If he’s lying about who he’s talking with or texting it’ll all come out in the wash. I feel if you as a woman need to look at your boyfriends phone, that’s a sign of insecurity. Nor has a man ever asked me to look at my cell phone.
Life is too short to settle for someone that cheats and lies.
@V D Exactly. We make so many excuses for men. We have to love ourselves more and keep it pushing. Everyday we get is a blessing.
@@Pinkdiamond12 Amen
If a man tells you he doesn’t want you...Believe Him! He has absolutely no love for you. You shouldn’t want to stay with a man like that. My ex husband was the same way. Girl, run to that courthouse.
YESSSSS! Someone told me this years ago, she said she learned the hard way if you don't leave he'll dog you out until you have no choice
Mine didn't tell me but his actions spoke louder than his words, he made it so obvious. Its painful to think back but thankfully I am on the road to recovery.🙏🏼
Run fast....
Correct!
Don't Walk, Run Ur Butt Over Dere !!! Like The Lady Told Da White Gurrl In "The Help" Movie !!! Lololol
If he's cheating..You don't want him either.
Life is fleeting. Don't let people treat you like you're a mistake when you're an entire miracle out here ladies 💞
@V D if we collectively make this our mindset, we shift the narrative and culture 🧫
👑💎❤️
Beautiful msg!
@@afrozeahmed6515 thank you
That's a whole word sister. AMEN!!!
Ladies trust your intuition. We have to stop ignoring the signs because we don’t want to face the truth. I know starting over is hard, but staying is worse. I left and I am better for it.
Very very true sis. Thanks 🙏🏽
True that, left 11 years behind and the heartbreak was hell. 2 years later I’m finally starting to feel like myself again. I cried so much, but I will not go back.
"Lube myself like a turkey." Let's take a moment to give Tony a round of applause for keeping a straight face.
No fr though, he needs a round of applause 😂🤦🏾♀️.
I agree 👍🏾💯
I laid completely out 🤣🤣
Right!! 😂😂😂😂
I was eating chips and when he said it and took a moment of silence I spit all my chips out laughing. No disrespect to her because if she needs lube nothing wrong with that
This email is sad but so many women go through this. Some times God protects us and we have no idea that that’s what he is doing. God did you a favor. God bless you sis!
Especially in Atlanta
“When a man is 100% heterosexual, there will be no questionable conversations.” TG
X carried his phone even while he was in our house. He changed password said it was noones business. Horible man.
Amen
Exactly!
Thank you NO privacy in marriage.💯
This man reminds me of my ex hubby. He was real mean and nasty. I feel for you sis. Just surround yourself around a loving support system. That's what I did. Praying for you.
He acts like he hates her for leaving, which was the only option he gave her. Some guys are so cruel. Just because they no longer want a woman, doesn't mean they have to punish her for loving him, he chose that relationship as well.
@@LA-wv7gf I'm so sorry to hear that. It makes me wonder if the stats about women filing 70 percent of the time are skewed because the husbands force it.
Going this now I’m crying every night it’ll get better
@@taylorthenatural5509 it’s so high in part because men will abuse and terrorize their families and not just leave for whatever reason, like you’re saying the woman often ends up being forced to file
You tolerate any kind of cheating and stick around.....he will continue cheating on you. He knows what he can get away with from you
I paid $185.00 for our divorce total. I'm so much better and happier and proud of myself for my strength and standards
Stay blessed 💯😊🙏🏾
I prayed and asked God to revel what he wanted to me know and see in my last relationship and he did. He may lead to a phone it may be to a smart watch and it could be through the computer. He will reveal if you ask. Don't be blindsided by a man or a woman.
I got to say my last breakup made me realize so much.... I will never let another Lil boy play with me!!!!!!! Baby I’m so into me now it scares me ❤️👑😂🤷🏽♀️ I’m really waiting this time ..... I love this process 👑
Sis I do understand even though my last relationship wasn't a break up but actually mines was through Death it was 12 years and am waiting this time.
This is just how I feel about my bby father
The chaos and destruction after cheating and feeding that temptation is not worth it. Don’t cheat. Don’t feed the Devil’s temptation. Don’t lack integrity. Don’t be disloyal. Don’t be dishonest. Don’t be secretive. I know after years the ideas play by numbers but look at the bigger picture. I hate it for this young lady and I pray she grieves that relationship and heals! ♥️
1 minute in & I'm 💀💀💀💀 that caught TG off guard‼️‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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His initial reaction was hilarious 😆
Was Tony reaction a burst of laughter he tried to cover up?
I see so many women try to hold all the men that don't want them and that's not a judgment. I think that we would need to know their worth because one man's trash will be another man's treasure. Sometimes you have evolved past that man and God has something better for you. Lift your self-esteem up and have a little pride about yourself and understand that you're a jewel. Move on
I was married 17 years, he was cheating and I divorced him! I don't tolerate any kind of cheating!
Exactly I don't either because cheating is a choice not a mistake
When a man is 100% heterosexual, there will be no questionable conversations-TG 💯
Precisely☝🏼
@@sisi_zzz sexual orientation is always a conversation I have with possible suitors.
@@LA-wv7gf I agree. It's always going to be a conversation. Our lives are on the line 💯
Sometimes these sad stories get to me, and you having to read these stories all the time, I can’t even imagine how much they must get to you.❤️
They get to me too. I can't believe women are going through this. Hurts my heart and brings tears to my eyes. Makes me want to curl up in bed with just me, my Bible and Jesus
EXACTLY 17 YEARS WASTED
If I could ever see you in person Tony!! I know I will cry and hug you so hard, and thank you! From the bottom of my heart, because only you! Has had helped me go through all I've through and helped grow into a new different women. I will thank you from the bottom of my heart, I cannot really express it with words!! Thank you Tony!! Blessings to you, your family, your business!!
yes he made her leave. so sad. and then trying to take her self esteem
That's the best choice she made! I thank God gave he gave her the wisdom🙏🏾💜
IKR....one did me that way and that Karma tore that @$$ up.
You need to trust your gut instincts and love yourself wholeheartedly and say goodbye
Won't nobody ready for what she said about da Turkey!! No ma'am😜. But I get it, if you feel like your man is cheating and doesn't want you then the rivers won't flow...Just that simple!! Pay for the divorce Sis! Money well spent!
Tony said He had to get him a couple Scrolls!! Lol
And he is ssooooooooo nasty that he even put that on his business phone, oooh yeah he nasty.
Tony, tell that woman to use the video's, of him cheating, as proof to show to the judge. She will not be liable for anything.
Thank you brother for all that you do. 🙏🏽
It’s full-time now ladies need to know their worth .What a bitter man !
Omg he felt the load of her statement ‘he don’t love me anymore’. I felt that too 🥺 We know what to do with it, it’s just the heart wants what it wants. Acceptance is hard.
I like the videos before I watch! All of his videos are excellent.
Run and never look back, let him have all of them! It’s blessings coming her way, praying for healing for her. Blessings Tony to you and the Queen 🙏🏾
My mom use to say..." Every dog got his day".....!!! Karma will catch up with you and may God have mercy on your soul.
He's the one who has been cheating & lying for how long?😒 And, on top of all that he's DISRESPECTFUL & DL too!😩 All I gotta say is: To the left, to the left, everything you own in the box📦to the left. Don't let the door hit you, where the good Lord done split you!✌🏽🙏🏽✌🏽
@@kaleema1987 These grown boy tactics are just unacceptable. Seems like when you let one impropriety slide, then the floodgate open for all kinds of nonsense.🤦🏽♀️
"I'm finna get me a couple of scrolls!" 😂
He should be responsible for the divorce &pay her alimony! Also get tested for HIV & run ma’am!!
This hurt me to the core! I’m in tears! God bless you sister and allow the Lord to be your strength! This hurts but your better off without him.
When Tony go to scrolling on that phone 🤣🤣
It be that fa me 😂😂😂
He's right tho, that couple scrolls will tell you everything you need to know about the man you're with.
My hope for decent woman is to loose the energy of “ I Need A Man” ......Why be dragged through the mud all in the name of “ Fake Love”
My Goodness 🙄 I’ll pass‼️Single & Happy , Infection Free & Stress Free It is🤷🏽♀️
Dr. Tony, you be wild'n however, speaking facts, speaking truth.
ANYYYYY HOPEEEEE FOR US? Sisssssss come onnnn nah!
I meannn we all in the same boat 🚣♀️ but this is a lil toooo much!
16:05 Tony done heard it all through these coaching calls. It’s sad 😢 but thank God for them, because we are learning.
SO SADDD 🙏🙏ING FOR THIS WOMAN!
Lessons and Laughter.🤣🤣🤣🤣...Tony scrolling through the phone!!! Married 17 years you are a "different type of human". Yes, Ladies you need passwords to conduct business in an emergency!!
Tony said “hol’ on now” and had to deep breathe on em!! Thanks for pushing through continuously TG!
UTI Free 😂😂😂😂
It's the first 30secs for me lol 😂😂😂 maam what
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My mama always told us girls to never make a man tell you twice that he doesn't want you for whatever reason
Always love, protect, guard and treasure yourself, your life, your beliefs and your standards. Being single and happy is so much better than being with someone who does not value you and worse than that, disrespects you, mistreats you, abu*es you, puts you down and tries to break your wings and make you feel less than. Always be ready to leave the table when respect and love are no longer being served.
Amen on that grown boy statement Mr. Tony!
Just for the DISRESPECT he can get the hell OUT!!Why the heck r we staying with this type of trash?!!!Married or NOT this a a full on nonsense man.Get going girrrlll u deserve the BEST man.God got your back!He is giving you a new life.Take it and run.That man was toxic from the beginning u just didnt want to see it
My ex husband use to tell his friends he love them and i always felt a certain type of way about that now I know I'm not crazy glad I divorce his nasty behind and their was other stuff as well
@@tjaspire Facts!
I hope she has the strength and wisdom to make the right decisions and take care of herself 🙏🏾
Gift to self: *coach session* 🎁
🙏🏾😊💯
I'm 100% lady, but I don't say I love you except for my immediate family members, and my then spouse. That term is not to be used loosely, it requires work, commitment, and sacrifice.
You better know it sis....bump that.
Omg I cried 😅😅😅😅 at Bruce & Caitlyn😂😂😂😂😂
Yes go on with your life. GOD will surely make him REAP it all.
He said her body like ‘we ain’t got no response for this here’ 😩😂😂😂😂😂🤣 real tears
Sis, 🤦🏾♀️ 😞.
A man WILL SHOW you through his CONSISTENT ACTION that he does not want you.
It is the same thing as him saying it.
Stop waiting for a man to Tell you he doesn’t want you. He most likely won’t because he doesn’t want to feel guilty or wants a reason to come back to you if things don’t work out with someone else. Therefore if he tells you he doesn’t want you. It would be harder for him to come back.
A man doing the following things are clear signs he does not want you.
- Him disrespecting you, not listening to you during a conversation, saying he’s going to cheat on you, cheating on you, asking you what would you do if he cheated, checking out other women in front of you, flirting with other women in front of you, comparing you to other women, not celebrating special occasions and or purposely ruining them, picking petty fights and arguments, not taking responsibility for his wrong instead saying “Everything is my always fault” - reverse psychology effectively getting you to doubt your accurate judgment that he was in the wrong. Him saying he does not like how you think, him saying you made him not like you, Allowing his family and friends to disrespect you, Going through the makeup and breakup cycle with you, telling you your not attractive, allowing you to struggle when he could easily help you, throwing other women in your face, the list can go on forever, lol but One thing that will really guide to know for sure if he doesn’t want you is that uncomfortable feeling you get from being with him, the anxiety that something bad is gonna happen, you’ve already repeatedly argued about the same thing, you conscious mind whispering to you that he is not the one, you know longer feel safe to be yourself around him, you can see he is deliberately pushing you away. All the things you asked of him he does for ever other woman but you. All the things he said he does not want in a woman is the exact definition of his current woman. He Does Not Want You. And if your able to be honest with yourself, you don’t want him either! Your just afraid of losing the investments you put into him and the relationship.💯
Girl....dont care about the blame, keep on walking
Lord please help this lady 🙏🏼
Is she slow in the understanding that SHE NEEDS to pay for this divorce? He don't want you!!! Pay the money and set yourself free from him...
I laughed so hard oh wow. Tony looks uncomfortable while he’s reading the first part of this story.
I'm fenna get me a couple of strolls...ROLLING ON THE FLOOR..LOL
Tony your a Genius 🙋🏾♀️💥💥💥💥
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I laugh when Tony laughs 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I had to listen to the beginning a few times. This story is so 😥 But thank God this Sister prayed and eventually listened to the wisdom of God!! As TG says, focus on your three B's. Hope in God Sis! Stay blessed 💯🙏🏾💜
Thank God for TG's Divine message 💜💜💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯
Only 8 seconds in, and T.G has to bow his head... !!
Sad!! I had to rewind a few times couldn't believe what I hearing! I pray for this women but God is with her now she listened to his wisdom 🙏🏾
“I’m gone get me a couple of scrolls”😂😂😯
It was the hold on na for me!!! 🤣🤣🤣
ROFL all 16:51 mins for "we have no response for this here" 😆😆😆 I love TG!!!
TG’s pause made me go running to the phone as I was In Another part of my house 🏡 I tripped over my stockpile and stub my toe....ugh that’s a shame...man I was gunning for that phone.
As soon I see that wrist pop, I'm out. 🏃🏾♀️ My gaydar is strong. He was never meant for her. Unfortunately, she married the wrong person. Like Tony said, get out of that situation and have a peace of mind, and be UTI free. Dag. That's crazy.
On his work phone the company provides? They can at any time review, just like the company computer...
Not deal with Bruce and Katelyn 🤣
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This letter is similar to what I have been through.
Thank God you got this divine message from TG🙏🏾💜💯
Me too besides a man being involved lol
Definitely no hope
Right on time! Thanks Tony 🙏🏾
Double upload on this good Saturday 💎
Women talk a lot of stuff like, "Look at his phone? Well, I never!!"
I'm like Tony: *scroll scroll scroll*
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Like some of these other ladies stated, "Trust your intuition!" And please go get tested.
"They shouldn't have put the W in there." 😆
What is the "W"?🤔
Ohhhhh just got to that part.
All right TG, no me it's we.
Wow women please get some SELF ESTEEM! Smh
Hi Tony. I saw one of your possible mentees and family from BU yesterday.
0:28 🤣🤣🤣 tony had to hold it in
Not a couple skrolls 😂😂😂😂😂😂
He's not worth your time
48 seconds into this video and I smirked and said I’m not doing this with Tony today lol smh 🤦🏽♀️
Oh yeah.....never want a mant that DON'T want you....boy bye....Karma is real.
Tony is right! No phone should be a secret to a wife, or he’s hiding something. Anything that feels a secret is cheating; otherwise, why would it not be shared?
Present!
That’s not a woman dancing in those panties and bra!! That’s a WHOLE MAN!! FOR REAL!!
Oh my! I cannot imagine the how bad her heart is breaking. This just so happens to be one of those bitter pills handed to us in life that you have to swallow with cranberry juice to ease the taste a bit.
He's gay sweetie.
YEAH I WOULDA TOOK HIM OUT
Move forward
There was no need to be that rude to her, I pray she finds healing and a man that will love her the right way.
I have never felt the need to look at a man’s phone. If he’s lying about who he’s talking with or texting it’ll all come out in the wash.
I feel if you as a woman need to look at your boyfriends phone, that’s a sign of insecurity. Nor has a man ever asked me to look at my cell phone.