The side chick will call you and talk bad about him only to be with him when you finally decide to leave lol. Let her have him and enjoy your stress free life.
Happened with one of my friends...she was living with the guy ..they had 3 kids ...he was still living with my friend when the other woman call to tell my friend ...that they (him and her) were getting married ...she wished them well ...the woman was shocked....
A leopard never looses its spot. Most cheaters are serial cheaters, ya’all it’s actually a personality disorder, a character flaw. When they do it once and don’t come clean they’ll keep doing it again and again until you lost count on how many people or times they’ve done it. Cheating is just like addictions, they need to commit to a behaviour change program so they can develop their character. Ladies always remember your man is not a project and you ain’t his therapist/babysitter. Go for men who are raised well and can take ownership accountability for the choices they make. Above all we need to elevate ourselves so high that we stop attracting the backwater swines and peasants who bring nothing but soul crushing agony and pain. Tony thank you so much for the work you do, we need more men like you to continue speaking up.
Tony ain’t lying.. i’m 36 and I was talking to a 26yr old who was trying to holler at me. In one conversation he called me an old head” I snapped out of it so fast and came all the way to my senses smdh. Tony already tried to tell me.
I don’t believe that cheating men can change. Zebras don’t change their stripes and “old habits die hard”. A person has to be willing to admit that their cheating habits have caused destruction to others and want to do better. Unfortunately, some people don’t care and don’t see anything wrong with their destructive habits.
listen I am a RN for almost a decade ..i see this from a mile coming...these men never going to totally discard their meal ticket ..they will try to find ways to play you if you let them..the information is out there so any nurse thats falling for this is deluisional..most nurses i have worked with they man a waste man and not a provider and thats from white,black,philopino,spanish etc....dont get fooled by all these nurses getting married and engaged yall do not know the real story 9/10 its bad...I have seen nurses bring themselves to work meanwhile they husband home and unemployed and he cant even drive them or pick them up..Nurses really be going down bad from the outside it looks good but its a lot of smoke and mirrors
Fun and a friend made my friend get cheated on and she still in that relationship 6 years later getting cheated on and getting married now . This is why girl friends are so important literally have girl nights with your girls getting cute together getting dinner , spa days etc
Lesson for all the ladies. You can't do what men do. You can't just have fun. You will get caught up and like this woman, 11 years later still be caught up. DO NOT have children until you're married!
Mines was 15 years younger he was a great provider he was cheating well I have never caught him cheating though I know he has throughout our whole relationship he's was just good at hiding it I've grown and evolved as years have gone on I'm a registered nurse he was a pain in the ass he was competing with my children for my attention and affection I wouldn't recommend any woman date a younger man it's like having another child
My male cousin, who has had two wives, and a baby's mother told me that he was disgusted by the process of pregnancy, I was HORRIFIED because he was serious! He cheated on both his wives, and the baby mama. They (the wives) would call, visit and cry to us (the family) about him. He wouldn't listen to us. He is now single and still has the same views. He is a superficial Narcissist. SMH :( IMO, Cheating is the ULTIMATE sign of disrespect. He'll say one thing, gaslight you (tell you what you want to hear-it wasn't like that, she didn't mean nothing, it was just sex or whatever). It will happen again. IMO Tony tells it like it truly is.
Always sad and tough situations when grown boys convince women to fall (in love) but they are not there to catch them and then the woman has to go through years of suffering for either not paying enough attention to the red flags, or simply for wanting to believe in love more than in anything else. Ladies, as Tony once said, in the court of love nothing is true until proven beyond any reasonable doubt.
You can't convince someone to continue something... Women need to love themselves and use better discernment. There's no excuse to be uninformed in 2023
She is living at work working those 12 hour shifts 5+ days a week to recoup the money..she is his bankroll for gambling..many nurses I have worked with have spouses that gamble ..how you gambling and you are unemployed and not independantly wealthly its because they stay working OT to pay for the debt because the guy asks to be on their account because they live together and he swipes that debit card like a NYC meterocard ..Nurses make good money but they live check to check it is really bad.
Tony, thank you for speaking on this topic. I have a son with someone who did not love me, and everything you said about that was the absolute truth. I have learned so much from this channel the past year which has been a blessing to my life. I left my son’s father, started to most importantly love myself and my son, bought a home, and is focusing on us. I cannot thank you and your wife enough for your influence in my life.
My husband told me in the hospital after I gave birth, “you still look pregnant”. My life from there was hell, which includes prostitutes, family members, STDs, sister wives, transgenders, drugs and more, am thinking about writing a book, unbelievable!!!’
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I haven’t even watched yet and the answer is no! Lol they might change later on in life ...maybe when they truly give they life to Christ or something. Idk
My grown ex boy has Christ in his life and he still cheated. Maybe when he truly surrenders his life to Christ. I didn’t stick around to wonder if that would happen. I’m good!
You are so right in that after what I thought was my ex's first affair, there was actually around 30 women over 15 years. Even after we broke up, he kept cheating on whatever woman he was with. He has a lot of childhood trauma to deal with, is weak-minded, passive-aggressive, and has no boundaries. I wish him well but I don't think he will ever change.
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Wow, could this message have come any sooner ... My husband wants another chance to make things right, after years of cheating on me 😔 throughout our entire relationship (4 years) claiming he has changed.
One of the most important issues here, is the fact he has had a child with somebody else. That a lone should be her ticket to want to be out. That's A LOT to have to take on. And if she doesn't check her heart she's going to have such ill feelings toward that child with or without that man. No matter if he says, he wanted that child or not. That child did not ask to be here or choose to be here.
To anyone reading this and willing - please pray for me and my young son.. I’m walking through the darkest season of my life. A “man of God” convinced me he was going to marry me, to leave a job I can’t go back to, and to move out of state to his state... and then dumped me. I don’t know where I’m going to live, I don’t have much family.. and I’m struggling with a broken heart and crushed spirit ... please pray for me
KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! HOLD ON TIGHT WITH ALL YR MIGHT! U GOT IT RIGHT! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U AND YR SON! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U!( AND YR SON)GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD! AND TELL HIM ALL ABOUT IT ! GOD HEARS YR PRAYERS! KEEP YR FAITH IN GOD ALMIGHTY! KEEP YR JOY AND TRUST IN GOD! STAY STRONG! STAY CALM! STAY POSITIVE! SMILE ALWAYS! ( EVEN WHEN U ARE GOING THRU THIS STORM, THIS TO SHALL PASS) LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! AND PRAY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! WHEN GOD IS IN YR LIFE EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT!
@@mesozoicperiodvlogs8323 AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! GOD ANSWERS PRAYERS! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@@lindaanthony6008 Amen! So RIGHT! Yes INDEED! KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! ALWAYS! PRAY TO GOD OFTEN AND DAILY! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW!
This man is so raw and real,I m laughing my ass off. He is truly in a league of his on.please Tony don't ever change. You make my nights less lonely. Trying to live Holy. Thank you Sincerely.
I understand what Mr. Tony Gaskins is saying but most people when it comes to mental health, People make money excuses and believe mental health is not a real thing but it is just because they can't physically see it on you.
I was married to a cheater and one of the ladies he was cheating with called me to explain! It’s in I’ll have to make a topic on it. Thank you for your beautiful work 🙏🏿🙏🏿
TONY!!!! 😂 "Pregnancy is not cute, it look like an alien in your stomach.." Awwww heck noooo. Now I'm neverrrrr getting pregnant!!!! I'm sooo shooketh!!! I'm dying over here. 😩😂
"if you stand for nothing, you will fall for it all" - that's in regard to her not looking for nothin in the beginning but just taking him for the fun. Yes, we need to get a dog or a Barbie jeep perhaps.
Happy birthday!! 🎁 Tony: “Get on outta here.” Wife keeps talking.... Tony: Get on outta here lost my point.. Wife: and spit in ya face...😂🤣😂🤣😂 Mrs. Gaskins was right on point!😂 You two are so funny..
Happy Belated birthday brother in Christ!!! You have no idea how God is using you in helping me with developing and growing!! What you’re doing is God sent and GOD FELT!! God bless you and the family❤️
Sis, please don’t have another child with this man until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt, and he had done the work. Honestly no sex at all, he mans up and does the work...with a ring to follow. He needs to be all in! Know your worth, and love yourself....God will help you. Blessings Tony, another needed video🌸
Tony can you talk about 30+ yr olds dating, waiting for marriage for sex and the realistic nature of most men who won’t marry without “sampling” I’ve watched your previous two videos years ago but dating in the roaring 20s is horrible for Christian women 😖
Do not lower your standards. Don't create unholy soul ties; cause you will waste years of "soul capital." Only God can uproot soul ties, but sis you gonna go thru it before u can heal. Your body is God's temple, but it's your choice to defile it. Maintain your standards.
Sis, please go get your peace away from this troubled guy before you get more than a phone call. Most women see pregnancy as beautiful. I never knew some men, who see that sacrifice, see it as unappealing. Thanks for that insight.
Serious dating in your 20s as a woman is a waste of time, get your degrees, get your dream body, fix your (mental) health, fix your relationship with god and build your wealth. Start serious dating from around the age of 27 with guys 30 years and above.
Happy Belated birthday Tony Gaskins! I hope you had a great time, mine is coming up next week will be 52 years young, thanks for all you do, you are truly blessed!
HAPPY BLESSED B DAY AND MANY MORE BLESSINGS TO COME YR WAY IN YR LIFE! STAY STRONG! STAY POSITIVE! ALWAYS KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! AND PRAY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! SMILE ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL!
I know Tony says that he is not a comedian...but he is hilarious! "Dat dere placenta"....had me rollin! On a serious note, we need to practice the art of walking away when we are not valued. I don't know if it's so important that others see our worth, as much as it is important that we should see our own worth. The inability for one to see worth in a priceless diamond is not a slight to the diamond...it's the fault of the one who failed to see it. But the diamond doesn't lose it's worth just because one doesn't see it...only if the diamond forgets who she is does she lose it, because somewhere along the way, she believed a lie. We have to remember why we were created. For GOD"s glory!!! If Jesus thought you were worth dying for...you're worth something...don't forget that. True love from The Father is really the only thing that can remove fear of being alone and tendency to be a willing participant in cycles that cause us pain. We really need to receive our Father's love so we can be made whole. Sit at his feet like Mary did.
OMG. I started dating a guy who was 19 when I was 22.. i left him the day I found out he was sexting other girls. He’s wanted me back every year. He’s now 27 & I’m 30.. talking to me daily for 6 months. He was talking about a future etc. Soon as I was like I need to be making some big life decisions soon what do you want? “I found out I’m going to be a dad idk what I’m going to do” I had a DREAM like the first time that another girl was involved. But after he said that my dream showed that he actually had a girlfriend. Haven’t went on Facebook for years. Went on that morning I woke up.. bam had a girlfriend! Who was a lot older than me!! With 3 kids previously looks like from different men. Nightmare became reality too but luckily I’ve got God watching out for me. Those dreams that feel more real than reality.. LISTEN to them. I feel for this girl. Crazy the parallel of the ages, I’m in health care etc. To be fair he has his career and house together at a young age. But Man! this makes me look at things in a new way. Needed this🤍 this all JUST happened past 2 weeks. Come from a pure place & God will have your back. He kept telling me I’ve really grown up😅. Boy you’re about to now. Lady gonna be in menopause in 13 years, 4 kids now. Karma
Yes, dreams are a real sign. I’ve been having dreams in the past years about my ex still being connected to his ex wife. I ignored all those signs and my intuition. It wasn’t until the start of this year I really listened to them, I had a dream they were still together and sure enough.... they were.
@@susanntillzxo3626 they’re so unbelievably helpful. You must be a decent person if you’re being shown those things to help yourself get into a better situation 🤍
I was cheating on after being married to a man in which I knew when we started our serious relationship of 28 years, I had one daughter with him, while upgrading my nursing career, he got addicted to every addictions. Cheating, cocaine, gambling, drinking, and friends. I got sick with cancer, we became grandparents, I had to quit school due to my life spiraling out of control. He basically wanted me to stay married but he could do whatever. Wouldn't divorce me, so I had to divide and divorce him. I tried very hard to please him, because of the equity that we accumulated together. He didn't change. I was left to my own devices. He overspent, in every way. Now he wants me back and wants to now change his ways.
My question is why do you even still want him? He’s for the streets.
the typical woman response is "because i love him"
Come on Krystle 👏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Right!
street meat -- throw him back
Smen its because she lonely
From my experience: no. 😂😂 Left my cheating husband. Never been happier.
Amen Hallelujah happier and at peace. 🙏
Amen you know your worth
Once the guy has a baby with someone else. No way to come back from that.
Amen
Right! We not even about to talk about the weather.
Amen its don't have get that far cheating is bad enough
Tthiisss....like NO!! Hell NO! Lol
Cheating men have to want to stop cheating. It will take Divine 🙏🏽intervention and a professional. I’m neither of these. God bless sir.
😂❤
I think he can stop for the one he want but to work on a relationship w/ a cheating man is none Existent 🤷🏾♀️
Now, that’s nothing but the truth!
🤣🤣🤣🗣🗣
😂😂 best comment so far!
Cheating is the ultimate dealbreaker. That let’s me know that’s not my husband.
Amen girl!!
Fr!!
Indeed
If he is your husband, he never cheat on you regardless. If he love you he never cheat to hurt his love for you
“Anytime, as a woman, when you’re not looking for anything with a man more than a friend and fun, you need a dog.” TG
🎯 100%!
( at least a dog can be loyal! )
@@kellyellis6080 Amen! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
🤣I can't ... this man is so full of truth ... only Tony can make the sad truth funny. Thank you Tony my 👀are wide!
And a dog she got. Him!
If she just wants a friend and fun, she wasn't going attract a man that is serious.
@@drighalo87lovespellcaster92 Get off of this page! You are not wanted!!!
“Babe go on bout yo business “🤣🤣🤣
😂
He might be faithful one day. But not to her. She needs to go on about her business.
He must need a place to stay...leave him where he's at sis
@@egyptnz27 😄
😂😂
@A Raymond sis he ain't changed lol
@@Loyaltyisalifestyle 😁🙃
@A Raymond and that should be a huge red flag to women. If he's not stable he's not ready to be in a relationship
The side chick will call you and talk bad about him only to be with him when you finally decide to leave lol. Let her have him and enjoy your stress free life.
Tony you ain’t lying when the side chick calls the main chick it’s because she’s caught him with others. Yes I was the wife that got that call!!!!
How did you handle that situation?
He should be ashamed of himself! Smh😑
Happened with one of my friends...she was living with the guy ..they had 3 kids ...he was still living with my friend when the other woman call to tell my friend ...that they (him and her) were getting married ...she wished them well ...the woman was shocked....
@@clarkclarke5321 yess!!! Love this comment..cuz little GIRLS do this then be shocked at an answer like that...
@@patricemurray6412 they have demons living inside them...THEY ARE NOT ASHAMED...
How about dealing with a 52 yr. old liar and cheater. It’s ridiculous! I’m over it.
Sounds so familiar. I feel your pain
Men that do not love you do not find you more attractive when you’re pregnant ! 🤰🏾👽 Such a great point and a common misconception among young women.
Big facts
In my experience they don't change. Its a vicious cycle. Walk away and never look back.
A leopard never looses its spot. Most cheaters are serial cheaters, ya’all it’s actually a personality disorder, a character flaw. When they do it once and don’t come clean they’ll keep doing it again and again until you lost count on how many people or times they’ve done it. Cheating is just like addictions, they need to commit to a behaviour change program so they can develop their character. Ladies always remember your man is not a project and you ain’t his therapist/babysitter. Go for men who are raised well and can take ownership accountability for the choices they make. Above all we need to elevate ourselves so high that we stop attracting the backwater swines and peasants who bring nothing but soul crushing agony and pain. Tony thank you so much for the work you do, we need more men like you to continue speaking up.
This is spot on.
Perfectly said!
Hello! But the back water swines.🤣
This!
@@UniquelyVickie lol 😆
No . Period. If this is a habit for manny years with a huge ego , the answer is NO .
Yeah, like Mr. Wonderful, Donald Trump. Lol
Tony ain’t lying.. i’m 36 and I was talking to a 26yr old who was trying to holler at me. In one conversation he called me an old head” I snapped out of it so fast and came all the way to my senses smdh. Tony already tried to tell me.
That was Highly Disrespectful of him, but Narcs operate that way!! He was devaluing you...& 36 isn't old..nor is someone in their 50s...Like Wow!!!
the “i snapped out of it so fast” was hilarious 😂😂😂😆
Years of cheating??? No way!!! My motto has always been, “you can cheat if you want, but do not expect me to stay.” 🖐🏾🙄
Toney s FACE when his wife was @ the door.. and came back the second time😂😂😂😂
This type of man changing is possible however not likely based on where he is. Jesus has to wash him! Point blank perioodd.
Or his Wang Wang dies out 🤣😂
Period, lol. Hi!
Yes girl
For Real!
Yes! Amen
"You need a dog" HOLLERING!!! 😂😂😂
@@charmariah4766 😁
Me too🤣🤣🤣
@@mymakersdaughter6041 too funny! Lol
Gambling and cheating... sis he ain’t the one.
I don’t believe that cheating men can change. Zebras don’t change their stripes and “old habits die hard”. A person has to be willing to admit that their cheating habits have caused destruction to others and want to do better. Unfortunately, some people don’t care and don’t see anything wrong with their destructive habits.
He saw the word "Nursing Career " and jumped on her before anyone else could get with her .
listen I am a RN for almost a decade ..i see this from a mile coming...these men never going to totally discard their meal ticket ..they will try to find ways to play you if you let them..the information is out there so any nurse thats falling for this is deluisional..most nurses i have worked with they man a waste man and not a provider and thats from white,black,philopino,spanish etc....dont get fooled by all these nurses getting married and engaged yall do not know the real story 9/10 its bad...I have seen nurses bring themselves to work meanwhile they husband home and unemployed and he cant even drive them or pick them up..Nurses really be going down bad from the outside it looks good but its a lot of smoke and mirrors
A lot of ppl at 19 ain’t experienced much in life and still have years ahead of them to live and learn compared to a 26 year old.
True to some degree some ppl have age and experienced yet continue to make the same dumb decisions sadly
Amen
“He like the salt bae , just sprinkling bacteria all over you “🤣🤣 with the hand movements hahahah !!! I’m finished 🤧🤣
I know right? 😄 he was trying to get his point across though.
🤣😅😅😅😅
Nasty, nasty.... 😂😂🤣🤣😅
Dfl
@@Khadijah_respectfully😄 that's a new one for me.
I thought he was about to take the whole month off 😂😂I started rewatching videos!
😂 I was like I know it’s his bday but I need a video lol
Me too sis 😂
Same here 🤣🤣
Fun and a friend made my friend get cheated on and she still in that relationship 6 years later getting cheated on and getting married now . This is why girl friends are so important literally have girl nights with your girls getting cute together getting dinner , spa days etc
This is saddening.
You mean she is still going to marry the cheater?
SHE'S DESPERATE & HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM..😔 She's giving ppl the Illusion that she's happy...smh
That’s a lot! I would just take the lesson and move on. To much D serving the community.
This story went from bad to worse..
😂😂😂
Tony really Loves Sheri. He can't even focus and smiles when she comes in his office. 😂. Great couple! I love it!
Lesson for all the ladies. You can't do what men do. You can't just have fun. You will get caught up and like this woman, 11 years later still be caught up. DO NOT have children until you're married!
And even marriage doesn’t guarantee. Just makes sure you choose wisely and don’t rely on potential.
@@zeldapolk1980 she never said marriage was guaranteed yall love clapping back with that tired line
Mines was 15 years younger he was a great provider he was cheating well I have never caught him cheating though I know he has throughout our whole relationship he's was just good at hiding it I've grown and evolved as years have gone on I'm a registered nurse he was a pain in the ass he was competing with my children for my attention and affection I wouldn't recommend any woman date a younger man it's like having another child
My male cousin, who has had two wives, and a baby's mother told me that he was disgusted by the process of pregnancy, I was HORRIFIED because he was serious! He cheated on both his wives, and the baby mama. They (the wives) would call, visit and cry to us (the family) about him. He wouldn't listen to us. He is now single and still has the same views. He is a superficial Narcissist. SMH :(
IMO, Cheating is the ULTIMATE sign of disrespect. He'll say one thing, gaslight you (tell you what you want to hear-it wasn't like that, she didn't mean nothing, it was just sex or whatever). It will happen again. IMO
Tony tells it like it truly is.
Always sad and tough situations when grown boys convince women to fall (in love) but they are not there to catch them and then the woman has to go through years of suffering for either not paying enough attention to the red flags, or simply for wanting to believe in love more than in anything else. Ladies, as Tony once said, in the court of love nothing is true until proven beyond any reasonable doubt.
😔🥺🥺
You can't convince someone to continue something... Women need to love themselves and use better discernment. There's no excuse to be uninformed in 2023
Tony did u say GONT-torrhea? Lol!😆🤣
Boy u crazy! Happy belated birthday.
And she said in the email his gambling has decreased instead of HE HAS TOTALLY QUIT GAMBLING
She is living at work working those 12 hour shifts 5+ days a week to recoup the money..she is his bankroll for gambling..many nurses I have worked with have spouses that gamble ..how you gambling and you are unemployed and not independantly wealthly its because they stay working OT to pay for the debt because the guy asks to be on their account because they live together and he swipes that debit card like a NYC meterocard ..Nurses make good money but they live check to check it is really bad.
I LOVE WHEN MRS. GASKIN BOTHERS YOU WHEN YOUR MAKING YOUR VIDEOS. IT IS THE CUTEST THING EVER! 😂😂😂😂
Tony, thank you for speaking on this topic. I have a son with someone who did not love me, and everything you said about that was the absolute truth. I have learned so much from this channel the past year which has been a blessing to my life. I left my son’s father, started to most importantly love myself and my son, bought a home, and is focusing on us. I cannot thank you and your wife enough for your influence in my life.
Well done Sis! I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you.
😊
@@womanofgod2948 Thank you so much! It means so much to me. I hope you have a blessed day 😊
Get it girl👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!
@@mymakersdaughter6041 Thank you so much for the kind words ☺️
@@Kassielynette You are very welcome and you are beautiful!!!
My husband told me in the hospital after I gave birth, “you still look pregnant”. My life from there was hell, which includes prostitutes, family members, STDs, sister wives, transgenders, drugs and more, am thinking about writing a book, unbelievable!!!’
My lord 😟
She wants your attention. Y’all so cute🥰
Highly unlikely a cheating man to stop. Especially if ego is involved! Girl go on about your business.
No one has ever ASKED how to 💯 % bulletproof your Relationship as MUCH as possible BEFORE you even get into one.
I'm 23. Waiting on marriage.
I don't want to have to wait until something happens to call in. I want to make SURE I'm getting a real quality man worth my time BEFORE he actually comes along
I haven’t even watched yet and the answer is no! Lol they might change later on in life ...maybe when they truly give they life to Christ or something. Idk
My grown ex boy has Christ in his life and he still cheated. Maybe when he truly surrenders his life to Christ. I didn’t stick around to wonder if that would happen. I’m good!
You are so right in that after what I thought was my ex's first affair, there was actually around 30 women over 15 years. Even after we broke up, he kept cheating on whatever woman he was with. He has a lot of childhood trauma to deal with, is weak-minded, passive-aggressive, and has no boundaries. I wish him well but I don't think he will ever change.
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I love how Tony adds an extra ‘t’ to certain words. You rock Tony.
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Wow, could this message have come any sooner ... My husband wants another chance to make things right, after years of cheating on me 😔 throughout our entire relationship (4 years) claiming he has changed.
Stay strong sis, let the Lord guide you in making the right decision. Hugs
@@mileyroe4877 thank you.
I know this all too well, God bless you ❤️❤️. Pray about it!!!
One of the most important issues here, is the fact he has had a child with somebody else. That a lone should be her ticket to want to be out. That's A LOT to have to take on. And if she doesn't check her heart she's going to have such ill feelings toward that child with or without that man. No matter if he says, he wanted that child or not. That child did not ask to be here or choose to be here.
To anyone reading this and willing - please pray for me and my young son.. I’m walking through the darkest season of my life. A “man of God” convinced me he was going to marry me, to leave a job I can’t go back to, and to move out of state to his state... and then dumped me. I don’t know where I’m going to live, I don’t have much family.. and I’m struggling with a broken heart and crushed spirit ... please pray for me
KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! HOLD ON TIGHT WITH ALL YR MIGHT! U GOT IT RIGHT! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U AND YR SON! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U!( AND YR SON)GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD! AND TELL HIM ALL ABOUT IT ! GOD HEARS YR PRAYERS! KEEP YR FAITH IN GOD ALMIGHTY! KEEP YR JOY AND TRUST IN GOD! STAY STRONG! STAY CALM! STAY POSITIVE! SMILE ALWAYS! ( EVEN WHEN U ARE GOING THRU THIS STORM, THIS TO SHALL PASS) LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! AND PRAY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! WHEN GOD IS IN YR LIFE EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT!
I am praying for you sis.. god is going to take care of you.
Praying for you🙏🙏
@@mesozoicperiodvlogs8323 AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! GOD ANSWERS PRAYERS! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@@lindaanthony6008 Amen! So RIGHT! Yes INDEED! KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! ALWAYS! PRAY TO GOD OFTEN AND DAILY! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW!
This man is so raw and real,I m laughing my ass off. He is truly in a league of his on.please Tony don't ever change. You make my nights less lonely. Trying to live Holy. Thank you
Sincerely.
I understand what Mr. Tony Gaskins is saying but most people when it comes to mental health, People make money excuses and believe mental health is not a real thing but it is just because they can't physically see it on you.
A Good Quote, Don't stress over anything that you can't change
“Here go a cookie,” 😂😂😂.
The smile Mrs. Gaskins gives you! 🤩🤩
She sounds like a fool... This what happens when you turn a situationship into a relationship.
I pooped during my delivery that must be why my ex hubby cheated on me! I get it. Oh well, good riddance.
I was married to a cheater and one of the ladies he was cheating with called me to explain! It’s in I’ll have to make a topic on it. Thank you for your beautiful work 🙏🏿🙏🏿
People can change. Tony has stated that he changed as well, it’s possible!
Amen but Tony surrender his life to God That's what its going take for any man that has a addiction to anything
@@fredajohnson506 I’m aware, that’s why I made my initial comment. Thanks
he didn’t express that for ppl to be accepting of it though! Lol
@@90charim Your own discernment
When Tony makes those spitting sounds I LITERALLY feel it! Such a storyteller our Tony😂😂
TONY!!!! 😂 "Pregnancy is not cute, it look like an alien in your stomach.." Awwww heck noooo. Now I'm neverrrrr getting pregnant!!!! I'm sooo shooketh!!! I'm dying over here. 😩😂
He's changed and has a new slate w the next woman.... Not u
"if you stand for nothing, you will fall for it all" - that's in regard to her not looking for nothin in the beginning but just taking him for the fun. Yes, we need to get a dog or a Barbie jeep perhaps.
Happy birthday!! 🎁 Tony: “Get on outta here.” Wife keeps talking.... Tony: Get on outta here lost my point.. Wife: and spit in ya face...😂🤣😂🤣😂 Mrs. Gaskins was right on point!😂 You two are so funny..
Happy Belated birthday brother in Christ!!! You have no idea how God is using you in helping me with developing and growing!! What you’re doing is God sent and GOD FELT!! God bless you and the family❤️
Sis, please don’t have another child with this man until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt, and he had done the work. Honestly no sex at all, he mans up and does the work...with a ring to follow. He needs to be all in! Know your worth, and love yourself....God will help you. Blessings Tony, another needed video🌸
That line about “old heads” stung me and I’m 33😂😂 !
Tony can you talk about 30+ yr olds dating, waiting for marriage for sex and the realistic nature of most men who won’t marry without “sampling” I’ve watched your previous two videos years ago but dating in the roaring 20s is horrible for Christian women 😖
Hello 👋
It's no better in the 40's either .
Do not lower your standards. Don't create unholy soul ties; cause you will waste years of "soul capital." Only God can uproot soul ties, but sis you gonna go thru it before u can heal.
Your body is God's temple, but it's your choice to defile it. Maintain your standards.
@@trinap.8904 exactly. Those soul ties of users and abusers aren’t worth it.
not any better in 50's ... please head these women's comments on soul ties
Sis, please go get your peace away from this troubled guy before you get more than a phone call. Most women see pregnancy as beautiful. I never knew some men, who see that sacrifice, see it as unappealing. Thanks for that insight.
Serious dating in your 20s as a woman is a waste of time, get your degrees, get your dream body, fix your (mental) health, fix your relationship with god and build your wealth. Start serious dating from around the age of 27 with guys 30 years and above.
Not salt bae 😂😩 I spit out my drink.
Uncle Tony is baaazzzzzzaaackkkk!!
Happy Belated birthday Tony Gaskins! I hope you had a great time, mine is coming up next week will be 52 years young, thanks for all you do, you are truly blessed!
HAPPY BLESSED B DAY AND MANY MORE BLESSINGS TO COME YR WAY IN YR LIFE! STAY STRONG! STAY POSITIVE! ALWAYS KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! AND PRAY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! SMILE ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL!
@@micheleprice9771 Amen!
This man got me ROLLING! 😂😂😂😂 " A little boo boo came out"! 😂😂😂 Dead! 😂😂
I know Tony says that he is not a comedian...but he is hilarious! "Dat dere placenta"....had me rollin!
On a serious note, we need to practice the art of walking away when we are not valued. I don't know if it's so important that others see our worth, as much as it is important that we should see our own worth. The inability for one to see worth in a priceless diamond is not a slight to the diamond...it's the fault of the one who failed to see it. But the diamond doesn't lose it's worth just because one doesn't see it...only if the diamond forgets who she is does she lose it, because somewhere along the way, she believed a lie.
We have to remember why we were created. For GOD"s glory!!! If Jesus thought you were worth dying for...you're worth something...don't forget that. True love from The Father is really the only thing that can remove fear of being alone and tendency to be a willing participant in cycles that cause us pain. We really need to receive our Father's love so we can be made whole. Sit at his feet like Mary did.
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY - MR.G!!!!!!!!!!!!- those of us whose life you’ve changed ... Appreciate U.... also sending good vibes to ur beautiful wife ..
First comment. Glad you’re back!
Hey Tony yes 1984 best year ever. I'll be 37 this year as well.
OMG. I started dating a guy who was 19 when I was 22.. i left him the day I found out he was sexting other girls. He’s wanted me back every year. He’s now 27 & I’m 30.. talking to me daily for 6 months. He was talking about a future etc. Soon as I was like I need to be making some big life decisions soon what do you want? “I found out I’m going to be a dad idk what I’m going to do” I had a DREAM like the first time that another girl was involved. But after he said that my dream showed that he actually had a girlfriend. Haven’t went on Facebook for years. Went on that morning I woke up.. bam had a girlfriend! Who was a lot older than me!! With 3 kids previously looks like from different men. Nightmare became reality too but luckily I’ve got God watching out for me. Those dreams that feel more real than reality.. LISTEN to them. I feel for this girl. Crazy the parallel of the ages, I’m in health care etc. To be fair he has his career and house together at a young age. But Man! this makes me look at things in a new way. Needed this🤍 this all JUST happened past 2 weeks. Come from a pure place & God will have your back. He kept telling me I’ve really grown up😅. Boy you’re about to now. Lady gonna be in menopause in 13 years, 4 kids now. Karma
Yes, dreams are a real sign. I’ve been having dreams in the past years about my ex still being connected to his ex wife. I ignored all those signs and my intuition. It wasn’t until the start of this year I really listened to them, I had a dream they were still together and sure enough.... they were.
@@susanntillzxo3626 they’re so unbelievably helpful. You must be a decent person if you’re being shown those things to help yourself get into a better situation 🤍
A cheater will never change NEVER.
Glad to hear you back TG.
Tonyyyyyyyyyyy boooooy we missed u brother. Happy belated bday.
Speak on it Tony Gaskins! so many jewels in this one right here! Blessings to you and the Queen🙏🏾
Happy belated, Brother Tony! More life and blessings to you and the Gaskins family.
I’ll I want to do is watch Tony Gaskin!!!
Me too!! I binge watch like I’m watching Netflix🤦♀️
@@missmarymack3457 same!!!!
Happy belated birthday Herr Tony Gaskin and welcome back 🙏
Happy belated! 🥳
Thanks for serving! We appreciate you!
Happy belated Birthday Mr.Gaskins
Tony so right.. that childbirth and postpartum period is very vulnerable time.. I felt this whole message. Tony so funny. Always speaking the truth..
Hey Tony!!!! Happy to see this video!!! Happy Belated Birthday!!! Welcome 😊 Back!
Ohh snap how did I miss this drop today?? Now watching!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Happy Belated Birthday again, TG!!
I was cheating on after being married to a man in which I knew when we started our serious relationship of 28 years, I had one daughter with him, while upgrading my nursing career, he got addicted to every addictions. Cheating, cocaine, gambling, drinking, and friends. I got sick with cancer, we became grandparents, I had to quit school due to my life spiraling out of control. He basically wanted me to stay married but he could do whatever. Wouldn't divorce me, so I had to divide and divorce him. I tried very hard to please him, because of the equity that we accumulated together. He didn't change. I was left to my own devices. He overspent, in every way. Now he wants me back and wants to now change his ways.
Happy Belated Birthday Tony Gaskins. I hope you had a wonderful day!!!
Tony !!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am hollering !!!! “Okayyyyyyy God bless!”
EXCELLENT points, Tony!!! I agree with ALL of your commentary 100%! 👌🏾
Happy Belated Birthday Tony Gaskins
Brother! Missed you welcome back & happy belated bday! 💙
Happy belated birthday!🎂. Love that sign.
We have missed you!!
Yaaaaaaaaaaaay welcome back. Hope your Birthday was wonderful!!