Telling your past | Talks with Tony
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- Опубликовано: 25 май 2021
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You should never put you past in the hands of a man; you cast your cares on the Lord.” TG
Amen!!
Yesss!
Yes Lord
People PLEASE listen to him....HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH!!! STOP TELLING YOUR PAST....PLEASE
Yes Mam!
YES!!!
Yep. Just giving him a blueprint.
Got it!!!!
Right....Im not telln you JACK !!!!
It's terrible how some men will use, a woman's past hurt against her. I told a man (grown boy) something personal once and days after he threw it back in my face. Some men can be so cruel. I won't be telling a man ANYTHING.
True,can't stand it when certain people of that category will do that.
@@tricks2564 True he did have trauma from his dad. He was a real narcissist. I'm sorry to hear that you went through that. We are champions.
Absolutely nothing! Learned lessons
Yep same thing happened to me once with someone.
Wow a real man wouldn’t do that. I remembered my friend telling me the guy she was dating asked her TWICE( I guess to see if she would stick to the same number ) about how many guys she slept with ( which was under 4 but his was over 13) than he used it against her and wouldn’t commit to her but to be real he wasn’t going to anyways
I made the mistake with my ex of telling him my past traumas, family troubles etc thinking I could trust him. Toxic, emotionally and mental abusive (mostly) relationship and would have the things used against me. One of my fears, I told him and he would use it against me especially when he was mad. Loose lips sink ships. Learned my lesson.
I did the same thing. Not anymore!
I did the same as well … lesson def learned
I truly want to give you a big thank you for this message. People are sharing way too much traumatic information about themselves early on. It's inappropriate and extremely unfair. I met this fellow recently and he was dumping so much of his trauma on me that I had to stop him. I told him I am not a therapist and I don't want your nightmares. I am not equipped to handle your horror stories. Seek professional help, or not, but that's not what I am here for. And yes I have my own traumas but they are not the subject of casual conversation.
Loving it.
He is so adorable 🥰. I like when he come in and say hi.
He absolutely makes my heart smile when he comes in the room!
Me too🤗 his kids are sweetheart so precious 🥰 to me very well mattered
Tayden is the man foreal lol
I’m disappointed when he doesn’t stop by to say hi to us and bless us with his adorable self😍.
The whole family is adorable😘. Toni and his wife are appreciated for sharing him with us during these sessions.
Your Past has nothing to do with your Future! Keep your Lips and Legs CLOSED🔴
😂😂 I’m hollering! Tony does not have time for the shenanigans today. “& you probably went to sleep watching my videos”
I hollered 😂😂
"And it's now in your subconscious" lmaoo!!
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From my experience, it's good to keep the profound deep personal stories for when you know for sure the person has good character, intentions and can be trusted. Until then just be naturally you, don't avoid and don't pretend to be someone else, just answer briefly and when you decide to talk about something, make it gradually. Don't pour your heart out without being proven you are being understood, respected, valued and your past is seen NOT as a list of vulnerabilities, minuses or scars, BUT as part of what made you the special, strong, great woman that you are today.
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! MAY2021
@@micheleprice9771 Thank you so much & God Bless you !
Well said
@@shantalbarbot5801 Thank you very much !
Your son is so cute! I miss my children being that little. They are 23 and 20 now and on their own. But I still call them my babies
Tony your baby boy is just too cute!!! Tell him I like his Legos and how smart he is to plan his bedtime so that he won't be tired the next day... You and your wife have beautiful children
Does the dude not know you offered the course for $200 during a Christmas sell?! You literally just went up on your price, which makes sense because the knowledge is so valuable, rightfully so going up on the price. Get yo bread, Tony.
I used to be really open with men about my past pains but now I keep it to myself, since Tony taught that. It does put you in a vulnerable position for potential abusers and I have experienced this myself looking back.
Mr Gaskins ignore people like that, they are jealous and need to go about they Business nothing but the Enemy. God Bless you brother keep doing what you do. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
He said, “this a little black man, now”-I’m deaddd-uhhh!!!☠️☠️☠️😂🤣😂
Told my ex about some things from my past and (after cheating on me thru our entire relationship including while I was pregnant and then getting angry because I didn’t give him enough words of affirmation) he told me I must have PTSD and that must be why I couldn’t love him good enough 🤦🏽♀️ such a toxic mess... I had to stop telling him things at a certain point because he was one that likes to use what he knows about you to put women down smh
That little boy (Tayden ) always a pleasant intrusion.
ALWAYS! To tell you the truth, I would like to have a little bit of Tayden everyday! Sheri and Tony are on top of their parenting game👏🏾!!
Cute baby. He’s so adorable gosh!!
I feel like the only disclosure women should make is regarding STD/STI status and overall health (cancers, blood disorders, seizures, disabilities, etc.). Some things are hereditary and I feel like people should be able to make informed decisions if your health needs will impact the relationship or daily routines. Not everyone is equipped to deal with someone who has special needs or chronic health issues
Tayden is so adorable, i like when he says hi to all of us!
May OUR HEAVENLY FATHER KEEP BLESSING AND PROTECTING You Tony and Your Family members IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST!!!
AMEN!!!!
I had to examine where the need to tell men what has happened to me before. Now after therapy and Tony’s videos I know it’s no one’s business.
My grandmother warned me about telling my past to my now almost ex. It was too late and MANNNNN has he used it against me. I will definitely heed this warning for the next relationship. Thanks for reminding me Tony.
The mint-imum🤣
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I’ve made this mistake in my past toxic relationship thinking I could trust him and all he did was throw it in my face when he would get mad. NEVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!
Oh my goodness, so cute and funny when he took his legos to show his audience! Lol. 😀 so adorable.
Yes!! I thought that was cute also
Be still my ❤️ ! I almost teared up!
Got that right take it to God and leave it at the altar my past is the past let's get with the future
Super Amen!
I just can’t with Tony’s youngest son. The preciousness is way too much😍😍! Such a sweet spirit❤️!!
Gaskins, I was able to ref you to a client of mine I was so proud to be able to do that and will continue with blessings, April
Tony, baby boy is just too cute. He just brings a smile to my face every time he walks in the room. 😊
Mr.Gaskins you don’t to explain anything to that lame. That ain’t nothing but the devil. The blessed tribe knows why we are here and what we receive. Keep on doing what you’re doing, it’s working!!!!
I was going to say, he should be thankful he got BLOCKT because the Blessed Tribe would have really went in on him 😆
Amen to that 🙏
Awww he is sooo adorable!! I need to start going to bed at 7pm 🤣🤣🤣
Tony has changed my life with thr videos alone. Let alone a whole course.
The beauty between Tony & his son is beautiful 🤩😍.
Why when he waved I was waving back like he seen me.....😊
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How cute lol 😂
Tony, thank you for making this a video. I would share my past when people ask common questions due to not wanting to lie and dishonor anyone. But now I see it's not about what I thought. It's about protecting myself and having personal boundaries.
Legos, Send him a Check .
Thanks TG. I was nervous about starting a RUclips Page, because of the opinions and unsolicited advice from others. However, since attending your Block Game 101 class provided through your videos, I must say that I'm ready for it all! :)
I thought it was an actual class 🤣🤣🤣.
In agreement. The past should stay right where it is.
I love how raw and real he is - feels like a father figure giving me advice and it’s great
This is a topic I've been debating in my mind for a while,glad it came up
This is a good one! I tend to attract ppl that give me their worst sob stories... And they lay it on honey. Its physically draining for me that I have to walk away or change the subject. On the flip side, I've spoke with dudes that ask certain questions in certain ways to try to get me to talk about my past and how I would handle certain things. I see that manipulation tactic a mile away... They usually end up getting frustrated and calling me guarded... I realized a long time ago sharing ur trauma with a man does not bring u closer. It just creates something he'll use to his advantage or throw back in your face.
Awww he came right in and waved to us. He is so special
Take it to God is right.
But if I wanna get involved with someone seriously or marry then I want to know everything about them to understand them, not to heal them or use it against them.
Next time just say if you can't afford the course you really wanna take...just say that 🥱🤷🏾♀
I love to see the love and smile you have for your family! My son in law looks at my daughter and granddaughter with that same genuine love! Your face lightens up! I love love love it! Real father real man! God bless you sir you are a real blessing to me and my growth! Please know you are never wasting your time giving freely of your heart! I go to sleep listening and wake up in the morning listening! Unfortunately I had no one to pour into me [both parents dead by 12(dad beat mom to death)], so I've made MANY mistakes that I'm now trying to put to rest!I plan to write to you soon but I'm waiting for God to tell me when! Thank you again sir for being a blessing in more ways than you could know! Bless you and your beautiful family! Keep showing the love for them sir because it is a witness to you and the words you speak! God is good all the time!
Sorry for your loss. Praying for your healing🙏Let the light of God lead you into His promises. Be blessed❤️
@@candace6022 thank you so much🥰! I'm in the process of doing some real healing and work! I thank God for Him keeping me and my children while I was faking it until I could make it! Your kind words and prayer means a lot and I send the same back to you🥰!
@@stephaniejones912 you're quite welcome. And thank you for your prayers as well. Most of us are on the path to healing for some reason or another. Some more severe than others, but there is no greater healing than the love of God flowing through us to share in His love the way He intended. Part of my story is I am a single mother of two in my early forties trying to raise my soon to be 8&7 year olds in the way that the Lord sees fit so they do not travel the road that i did; which includes a lot of heartache and regret. I'm glad that our heavenly father allowed us to connect for this brief moment. It' s encouraging! Many blessings to you, your children and family and much continued success on your journey. 🙏😁❤️
I thank God too that we connected and I m excited to see our growth! Nothing we have been through will God waste! I will definitely keep us in prayer! I'm excited about finding myself so God can send the right man for me! Im almost 49 and all my girls are grown so I'm learning how to live for real! I'm So over grown boys and I'm trying to be the best grown woman I can be! Be blessed🥰🥰🥰🥰
Your son is sooo adorable. He reminds me of when my son pops in on me when I'm in my virtual meetings. He loves seeing what's going on.
People with a 99 cents mentality refuse to invest in paying the asking price of hight quality services or products.
Sis ain’t watched enough of yo videos because she would’ve known not to tell him about her sexual abuse
Love it when Tayden make an appearance. He is just too cute!
Ladies he’s telling the true was dating someone who I didn’t realize A narcissist until after a relationship told him I pass because I believe we were going to be married. However this guy use my past against me and when I realize he was using that as a way to control and manipulate. I thought me being honest and upfront showing I was committed to the relationship but I got the total opposite. It was a lesson learned thank God for getting me out of that topic relationship
Take it easy lil big brother Tony we give the negative too much attention it’s a distraction one day we’ll be able to ignore them and keep it positive. I’m still working on it
Beautiful Child. May God bless and protect him.❤ Amen! Aww
I love the video but I should say that I love how honest you were with your son with the time you will be available for him!
His baby boy is so adorable 🥰 I just love seeing him
SATAN GET THE BEHIND ME!!! 😂👏🏽
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I love seeing his son and there bond super cute lol 😍😩.
Tony said BACK TO BACK TO BACKKKKKKKKKK video’s in this here RUclipsr
I absolutely love the father that Pastor T is ☺️!!!
Just thank you brotha for opening up your world to us God is using you too his glory just thank you.
People have to charge that much for one course Mr Tony bc they won’t get but maybe one or two people to sign up. They have to get it from the jump!! You are good. You are fine. I’m going to take the course as soon as I can!! God bless this man over and over!! In Jesus name!! Amen!
He sounds so adorable
Baby boy cracks me up. Too cute and a natural in front of the camera.
Your child is superb! God bless you and your family, Tony!
I caught myself the other day saying “what in the worlll?!” Listening to this here TG! I just had to 😂
Lol o I use that one on the daily! 😂
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Well he needs to go and sign up for the 49.00 course. These days the only person I expose my entire past to is my life coach and therapist.
@Zero Gravity My response to this man would be, "Please feel free to sign up for the $49 course if you think it will get you to the level that you aspire to." The knowledge of the subject matter commands the $499 price tag assigned to the course. And then BLOCK his butt. He was just a "DEMON 👹 IN DISGUISE.
Tony with his sons >>>>
Some men kill me when they try use your past as if him being in your present with his negative ways don't play a part in your issues with the relationship. Always trying to gaslight.
Exactly dudes like this need some serious help
Omg hes so adorable 🥰hes a beautiful mix of you and your wife, such beautiful family🙏🙏
Thank you Tony... you are helping me to affirm what i've already felt to be true about relationships/interactions with men, as well as teaching me new things that will help me navigate better, moving forward :) i'm grateful that you're out here helping good women who want a decent man & committed marriage/relationship 🙏
"A BIG mistake women make!" Search that video it's a year old on Tony's channel.
If he isn’t the cutest little boy in the world! 🥰
I love it when you expose the truth about some people's reactions when you charge for your intellectual property or product! I always say, would you ask a plumber to fix your toilet for pennies for "exposure"? This is Canada. People die of exposure up here 🤣 Keep going Tony and don't worry about people who produce nothing, but criticize everything. You are a blessing. Satan get thee behind me! I love it 🙏❤😊
Loving these back to back videos!
Speaking truth TG 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Such sweet babies. Mom & Dad are doing a great job. Their smiles and tones are so beautiful.
Your son coming on your video filled my heart and your interaction with him 💜 I cannot wait to be a mummy and have a family with my husband.
Jesus Christ, this is such a crucial video and information!! 🤯🤯🤯
He answers the question @ 10:05 if you want to skip ahead. You’re welcome
Thank you 🙏🏾
LEGO, Send Tayden a check!! 💵
That was good Tony. Thank you.
Dem whyteeee people have it out for you tadayyyyyy tony 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Goodness cuteness overload. He is just adorable and sweet
Blessings 🙏
Be bless.
Lmbo, the little is too cute! Looks exactly like you and sheree
He is adorable 🥰
Gratitude 🙏🏽 Tony..
Thank you Tony. Be Blessed
Thanks for sharing, be blessed!
Be Blessed 😊
Thank you for your wisdom. I'm listening and here for it.
Listening.
Listening
i lovee every time his son comes in LOOOL he's so cute and curious
I saw that comment on your video.
I’m glad you addressed that situation.
Have fun little one 🙏💕
He's so cute when he says"Oh!!! and does those eyes.
Baby boy so sweet! Have fun building your truck