@@user-cv7no8bj9va simp?? I'm ole school? A simp?? This is nothing but grace and love, true love ....This is the epitome of what a real man does .Take notes..my soulmate loves me just the same...Real Love not this generational shit of today...
Men these days are more emotional than women. In a bad way. And they start more gossip and sh*t. They go to town on FB and tictok. They used to be quiet and think before they spoke. They even would tell you they don't have time for such nonesense. Now you can't get them to stfu.
@@carolynmoore1413 Lol. You think such a man would live long? "You can't rattle him" "you can't make him raise his voice" So who was trying to rattle or make him raise his voice?😂😂 I wonder how high his blood pressure must have been living life like that.
One day shortly after we were married I heard my wife in the shower crying. I stood outside of it first asking her what was wrong. She was just having a mental break. Without thinking I opened the curtain got in still fully clothed and just held her for as long as she needed the embrace. I honestly didn’t think much of it. The next day she made a big Facebook post about how it made her feel when I did that(she was grateful) she still brings it up to this day. She’s been there for me when I start falling so of course I wanna be there for her before she start falling.
It is awesome to truly love someone and truly be loved in return. But I don’t have to tell you that, you get it. Feel deeply sorry for all those incels and fragile alpha types out there who can’t comprehend that the major reason they are unloved because they do not love.
That is truly beautiful, good on you sir❤and best believe she will have your back when you hit low, and she will never forget that day you got in that shower and just held her and showed her I'm here ..sometimes, really most of the time, that's all we as humans need
So Glad She Experienced This Kind of Love, a Love That is Unforgettable. You Can Tell She Felt Protected & Safe. RIP Sir! Every Woman Should Experience This❣️
She never spoke about the things he bought her, the places he took her too or how he use to dress. But of his character and how he treated and loved her - and that - is true love. That is what you call a soul mate. Be not saddened that it ended, but be glad that you was given the privilege to experience it. Wishing this sister nothing but the best
Be thankful for that you experienced it. My mother experienced. ID I belong to a club that did not experience. But i'd love listening to your experience. Some sisters get that experience. Other sisters don't.
Oh yes he's a bottle of Valium but he's a true man of Valor I'm glad she was blessed with that experience he didn't bring things he bought himself and the rest was all Trinkets and trophies but she got him..... and all of him❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel you my sister. But it's time to move on in life.change are thinking and let the pass be the pass.cause you cant change that.but you could change your thinking and move on.i feel one should fine happiness some where with the life you have left. If not the pass will take you out of this world from pressure.to live is to let live and the pass is the pass that we couldn't change know matter what.know matter what we say or feel.to be strong is to let go and move on in life.if not it's your life.we talk a bout so many things but to listen is the big thing.its time to move on and let the pass be.
Judge few women experience this kind of love. For someone to tell you let your pain be the be put in the past. That is the worst self righteous advice some could Give you. After all those Years of a wonderful life. Keep moving at your own Pace. And listen to positive People that love you Judge and there are so many of us Who are with you and truly love you Judge. She never knew love like this before. So she is a empty Barrel. And you know what they say about those."they Make the most noise. We got you.😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I hear you. Women tend to believe and assume that they are always right and have it all together. We do need to do a better job at building one another up. Oppose to choosing to tear someone down all of the time. We are speaking death and bringing those things in our lives when we choose to do that. I pray your strength in the LORD IN JESUS' NAME. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN. GOD TRULY DOES LOVE AND CARE FOR YOU AND SO DO I. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. AMEN.
Except women can't even do this for themselves so how the fuck are we suppose to take you seriously when it comes to your expectations of anything especially us
No she married a certain kind of man and every other kind of man that exists is a man and your diminishing of that says a lot about your inadequacies and character flaws
Have u ever wondering if the man feels the same as reciprocity. I would just asked her, if she think she deserves a man like that comparing to her behaviors toward him?
He gave her reason to speak that well about him. You can't get that if you don't have those types of qualities as a man or shit a person. People speak of people who treat them genuinely well. You just haven't met that woman. The question is do you treat women well genuinely to receive that from your woman? And also some aren't broadcast so you will never know unless you change your circle of men and women.
@@joshuaphillips4958 picked up? What are you talking about haha I’m pretty sure the comment is just saying his uncle was a good dude and good husband to his wife, cared about her feelings and they had strong love for each other. She also trusted him with her life. They likely were together for many decades What did you think? Are you talking about the “Picked up by the ankles over a cliff” comment? U realize that was an expression and nobody is really doing that and also sure as hell not in ur 90s 😂🤦🏾
Both are rare here brother. Poised, collected men and women who appreciate such men. Nowadays men are just as emotional if not more emotional than women, and women don’t appreciate good men. This can also be flipped around both ways.
Come from around them..go to the places where they are..hint it’s not on the internet or club. Pray for your future wife or husband..one more thing all churches are not equal choose wisely..only the ones who teach the truth.
@@Zombieologist08 Any advice on how not to make it a routine ? Eventually the passion dies once the excitement of the discovery passes, so how do you guys manage to make the relationship still interesting ? I get bored of my partners and the life we live after a year, they're not bad partners it's just a problem within me I guess. With friends it's different, I'm loyal as one can be and I can hardly see my life without them.
@@charlesm.2604 try setting up dates during the week where you both dress up in cosplay costumes and act like you are complete strangers I mean really dive into the roles I promise you will be satisfied and so will she keep it spontaneous and never do the same cosplay spice it up even from some of your favorite tv shows one thing I have come to find out after being married so long is weather you want to or not peoples minds fantasize about things they may see here or even smell so my advice for you find what works for you any women can be anything you want same for men!
I can't believe I am watching this now at a time I dicided to work on my emotions and not being moved my pressure.understanding how to be calm in the storm..
@jayden1033 I know this comes as no consolation to your lose but, I'm sorry to hear you lost her, truly. Keep her memory ever-present in your heart and mind, and stay strong .
This is exactly what women want. The freedom to do the craziest things and expect no accountability for it. The freedom to fulfull their destructive urges without being shamed for it. And if you attempt to stop them, youre "abusive, toxic, controlling, oppressive, cant handle them, not a real man, insecure, blah blah, blah." No thank you!
Thats not love, sje is saying she abuse him amd he say nothing. He even ask for more, if you need me call me agian. That just a kinky sex those white man pay to be domnated in sex
That Judge married an angel. She was truly blessed to have had him in her life. Enjoy the memories Ma'am. When you speak of him the love rolls right off your lips.
My husband is like that...the day we got married he said..."you will never regret marrying me" and oooh boy he was sooooo right ✅️ 💙 ❤ such a calm, polite and very patient man of God who loves his family and i thank the Lord everyday for him and my children ❤️
@@mandlenkosihlazo977 it's his character, integrity and honesty. When he says he will do something, he does it. We don't fight at all...instead we sit down and talk about stuff up until I'm ok. We don't have secrets, we use the same pattern of my name on all our phones. It is in the way He was raised I must say...because he says he's never seen his parents fight infront of them and that's exactly what he does not want in our marriage. And it has been like that eversince. My husband is just a good guy period. He proved that even the day he came to pay lobola(dowry) at home...we had never dated before...we even had s#x after we exchange our vows with the marriage officer.
I love hearing her speak of big E. Always so much love when she speaks of him. She spoke highly of him while he was alive and in his death. Just beautiful ❤.
And that's what's happening when you hear a woman talk about her man like that and that man hears this woman talking about him like that and no feet above this Earth that he can't handle
Whenever she speaks about her husband,my heart swells with emotions. You can feel the love. But I couldn't imagine her with nothing less than an exceptional brother because she is an exceptional woman ❤
One thing that helped me achieve my goals that might help you is look into the mirror every morning without fail and simply say, "I will achieve more today than I did yesterday." Don't expect big steps. It's a slow process. Keep on keeping on. Much love
PTSD fkn sucks been 5 years suffering. Best thing is to always sleep as much as you can cuz you will lose control really quick if you don't. Also live second by second because overthinking can stress you so much that it affects your muscles, stomach ect. Much love homie. Hope you win all your battles
@@LebronTCG I feel so bad for my family sometimes because I average 4-5 hours a night max. You're so right. Lack of sleep will make you flip a switch so quick.
Love you Judge Lynn! You are very strong, resilient and blessed!!! You help us so many people too. God bless you sister. You also have a compassionate heart.💖💖💖
My mother is very lucky to have my father.... he's everything you explained....m very lucky to have him as a father.... I thank God everyday for him ❤❤❤❤
You woman Run thru The wrong men & dis the obvious right Man thinking You can do better but end up settling for someone waaayyy worse in every way lol …. The joke be on Yall
@@jlove8441 You can't be talking about because, I damn sure not trying to chase a man down to have 1 by my side. Never! I stay in prayer and wait on God to chose a man for me. Love God and yourself 1st and all will follow.
Sadly he passed last year & she went through it but she's coming out w/her children. She's a strong, accomplished woman w/the Best advice, personality. God Bless her.🙏🏻❤
@@OpinionatedBlues Damn... Thanks for the heads up, though... damn... I've seen so many clips talking about him and the love in her voice, and the way she talks about him always hit me. Didn't realize that the brotha had passed. Damn...
She's also an example of a good woman. I never heard her speak ill of him. We all have faults, but to tell it to the world is a terrible thing. It's poisoning your own relationship.
@wildchild3862 My husband has that character, I have only seen him lose his "cool" just a few times and each time the only thing he does is step back to get fresh air. I would feel so sad, and instantly know I had done something wrong. When he comes back I would be so teary and apologetic and the only thing he does is to pull me into a hug .. I love that man!
This is my husband too! Took me 41 years to find him but he’s mine now and life is good! Don’t give up ladies! Perfect timing is everything! Gods time!
@@kerrishagayle9708If you waiting on the Roman CATHOLIC version of hey Zeus to drop a man out the sky. You gon be waiting. How about YOU actually talk to men
Good 👍 God's child oh you are now planning to be this beautiful. Oh God's child c'mon man, as God's child this is how you are supposed to be all this while.
@@chimakalu5195I get what you’re trying to say but I doubt you see them everyday. Not in these days. Great men AND women are out here but it’s becoming more challenging everyday to find. If you do meet a special person with a great heart, hold on tight, as c they should be holding on to you too!
To have known, shared in his graces, witnessed, lived a partnership of one in a million was a true blessing from God. You so deserved him sweet lady. Amen. ❤❤❤
Judge Toler.. I found THAT and I treasure him with all I have. I FELT THAT, Prayers for your peace and hope you are doing well. He is always with you, until you meet again ❤
We need classes that teach children how to behave as adults and as husbands and wives. We should at least have this in churches. We need good parents to teach their children how to behave. This is society's problem. Just as bad is when good individuals end up with problem individuals. It happens with good guys as well as with good females. No matter how good they treat the problem person, it's not appreciated or reciprocated.
She adored her husband. My heart breaks to know the horrible grief she is obviously suffering. Many prayers sent to our heavenly father to help ease her pain.
I grew up seeing my parents having absolutely insane fights, punching holes in walls screaming and crying, when i was 6 they broke up and both used me as a weapon against one another until I was about 16/17. They would still try to use me against one another and I told them both to shut their mouths and that I dont want to hear anything out of either of them about one another because I was beyond caring at that point. I brought that into my relationships even at the same age of 17 onwards . Today, I have not screamed or shouted with anybody I've had as a partner. Its not worth the heartache, if you make me feel like I want to scream at you, then I don't want to be with you, I talk it out and I tell them how I need them to support me and I'll support them and if we disagree about things to tell me and we can work out a resolution, if you're mad at me or im mad at you we need to leave eachother alone for a while and we can talk when we are cooled off but we will not fight and if you scream at me or try hit me or anything like that you wont get any reaction from me and I will not engage, usually at that point I'd be considering if we should even be together. So far, everybody I've had a relationship with I've had clean breaks we can still talk and there's no bad blood, if things stopped working we went our separate ways and we can stay distant friends. In a way im glad I grew up the way I did with insane parents. Nowadays, things are a lot smoother, and I have a good relationship with them and have forgiven them for what happened and they are positive figures in my life who support me but I wouldn't want my kids to go through it and I completely refuse to let someone im supposed to love control my emotions like that. Fellas, if your partner and you are fighting every week and screaming and shouting every week its not normal, girls are very emotional and they know how to push your buttons, put the pants on in the relationship and be the bigger person, if it doesn't work leave, even if it hurts. Every time things get worse, they will become the new normal. It's simply not worth it.
Same here😢 Man !! These testimonies make me really keep faith in mankind😢 Now this is what u call a man! I whoch i was that cool!! I do take very good care of my wofe nad children, but this cool temper ?? Man this is epic!🔥😌
She was truly blessed to have had a husband like the one she describes. It's not too often that you hear a woman who gives her man praise for his attributes. It's not the material things that make the man it's the everyday little things that are the biggest things,solid accountabilities, all the unspoken and supportive things that make you feel loved, her husband sounds like a wonderful supportive, steady and agreeable man that's awesome 👌
Just wondering if he taking in a lot of stuff and not really releasing his emotions cause his death… just a thought woman out live their men generally about 10 years…they emote all the time…I say let it out brothers every now and then or find a brother you talk to ….
What you said about sex mate or walking wallet, it's sad, but true. The thing is, while they are getting their fill of the sex and wallet, some have the acting down so good, you can't tell, until the time comes when it stops, or changes.
“Hold me by the ankle over a cliff and I wouldn’t worry ” that’s some real trust and love!! I’m so happy that she was able to experience what some of us women dream of. 🥰❤️
He may did I believe He was patient with her but deep down he was tore down from the mental abuse that’s just my outlook on what I see I believe she was mentally unstable and Dump her load on him and he couldn’t take it
@@christopherbiddle7234 They still, don't get that it's not supposed to one-sided. They need to be the type of woman a man would be willing to be that man for. Women are far too entitled these days smh
That was my William. God called him home 3 years ago. Godly Man, Protector, Best Friend, Confidante, Lover, Comforter, Great Father. I know how she feels. To all the young ladies. There are STILL men like these out there. Pray. And don't ever give up.❤❤
@orravalb Yes. There are. Remember, A tree is known by the fruit it bares. A Godly, Respectable, Good woman will keep her Character & Demenor at all times.
😂😂😂😂.... 🧢🧢🧢🧢 You've never met a man who criticized you after listening to your complaints, troubles and worries (unless you're a nag). Men don't criticize when our women tell us their troubles; we're more solution oriented. We'll quickly start giving you solutions (out of instinct). We begin to criticize when you don't appreciate our efforts to help solve your problem which cry about and treat us with harsh rejection (there's no smoke without fire you know). The surprise is that I learnt this last month when researching for a lecture I want to deliver to single mothers on how to get a man who will commit and marry them (even though we despise single mothers for good reasons). Nobody teaches us these things. Even you women have no idea what you want us to do. She's lucky to have a man who has learnt this lesson on womanology.
I feel such compassion for her, because she really loved her husband. I know she misses him so much you can see how sad her eyes are on her recent videos
Always good to hear women speak positive about their man.
If a man do right by a woman she'll speaks highly of him.
@@eileenwatt8283 well said.
Good to hear there are still men worthy of being spoken of, well.
*Yes, it's obvious from this conversation that she is very much missing this man! Her rock!* My condolences ...
Well of course she does, b/c she is married to a #POSITIVE man! 🙏
This is the man I am growing up to be. Despite all I've been through, I will become this man.
Don't become too soft . You don't want to be a SIMP. I don't argue with women but if they are disrespectful I send them on their way.
Simply beautiful ❤️ and u will.
@@user-cv7no8bj9va simp?? I'm ole school? A simp?? This is nothing but grace and love, true love ....This is the epitome of what a real man does .Take notes..my soulmate loves me just the same...Real Love not this generational shit of today...
I believe in you. I pray God brings the perfect woman for you who appreciates you so much ❤
@@arniciahall7737 I'm ole school as well and back then REAL WOMEN knew their place and how to CONTROL their tongues. Otherwise the man is a SIMP.
A man who has control over his emotions is a priceless man!
Amen
Men these days are more emotional than women. In a bad way. And they start more gossip and sh*t. They go to town on FB and tictok. They used to be quiet and think before they spoke. They even would tell you they don't have time for such nonesense. Now you can't get them to stfu.
Hallelujah ❤
True dat 👍
💯🎯‼️
“If you need me again I’ll come back” that’s a powerful statement!!!
So true!
That makes me shed tears for her, now that he’s GONE and can never come back…. 😭
WORD
Boy, if we could have a man like that WOW!🤚🏽👍🏽
@@regeneratedmind3799he's always with her 🙏🙏🙏
She is amazing! R.I.P to her husband
RIP to her husband 🌹🙏
Now that's LOVE 💕
She 🎉🎉🎉🎉 miss him soooo much.Hope she find peace.😢😢😢😢.I'm saying this as something POSITIVE
WHAT!!!!! HE PASSED AWAY????
@@carolynmoore1413 Lol. You think such a man would live long? "You can't rattle him" "you can't make him raise his voice" So who was trying to rattle or make him raise his voice?😂😂 I wonder how high his blood pressure must have been living life like that.
One day shortly after we were married I heard my wife in the shower crying. I stood outside of it first asking her what was wrong. She was just having a mental break. Without thinking I opened the curtain got in still fully clothed and just held her for as long as she needed the embrace. I honestly didn’t think much of it. The next day she made a big Facebook post about how it made her feel when I did that(she was grateful) she still brings it up to this day. She’s been there for me when I start falling so of course I wanna be there for her before she start falling.
It is awesome to truly love someone and truly be loved in return. But I don’t have to tell you that, you get it. Feel deeply sorry for all those incels and fragile alpha types out there who can’t comprehend that the major reason they are unloved because they do not love.
Her protector. A lot of times that's all women need.
That is truly beautiful, good on you sir❤and best believe she will have your back when you hit low, and she will never forget that day you got in that shower and just held her and showed her I'm here ..sometimes, really most of the time, that's all we as humans need
Love this!
So you went in there while she's vulnerable and showering without her clothes on just because you thought she wanted if? Without consent?
A Queen saluting her King! Good to hear those kind words! 🤎🙏🏿
So Glad She Experienced This Kind of Love, a Love That is Unforgettable. You Can Tell She Felt Protected & Safe. RIP Sir!
Every Woman Should Experience This❣️
Amen 🙏🏾✨
Yes ❤lord
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Aww I didn't know he passed
AMEN to THAT.
She never spoke about the things he bought her, the places he took her too or how he use to dress. But of his character and how he treated and loved her - and that - is true love. That is what you call a soul mate.
Be not saddened that it ended, but be glad that you was given the privilege to experience it.
Wishing this sister nothing but the best
Be thankful for that you experienced it. My mother experienced. ID I belong to a club that did not experience. But i'd love listening to your experience.
Some sisters get that experience. Other sisters don't.
Oh yes he's a bottle of Valium but he's a true man of Valor I'm glad she was blessed with that experience he didn't bring things he bought himself and the rest was all Trinkets and trophies but she got him..... and all of him❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel you my sister. But it's time to move on in life.change are thinking and let the pass be the pass.cause you cant change that.but you could change your thinking and move on.i feel one should fine happiness some where with the life you have left. If not the pass will take you out of this world from pressure.to live is to let live and the pass is the pass that we couldn't change know matter what.know matter what we say or feel.to be strong is to let go and move on in life.if not it's your life.we talk a bout so many things but to listen is the big thing.its time to move on and let the pass be.
Amen
Judge few women experience this kind of love.
For someone to tell you let your pain be the be put in the past.
That is the worst self righteous advice some could
Give you. After all those
Years of a wonderful life.
Keep moving at your own
Pace. And listen to positive
People that love you Judge and there are so many of us
Who are with you and truly love you Judge.
She never knew love like this before. So she is a empty
Barrel. And you know what they say about those."they
Make the most noise.
We got you.😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
He loved her just as mush as she loved him❣️
That's what it's about. Taking care of each other, no hidden, personal agendas!!!!
The fact he no longer here my heart ache for her and her family
Sure nice to hear a woman not tear down a man. We need more of that.
That's because she didn't have a brother tearing her down.
@@melliemcghee6349 IKTR👏🏽
I'm sure he was the type of Man that Deserved that Respect... I'm so sorry for your loss judge Lynn 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Big Facts @@melliemcghee6349
I hear you. Women tend to believe and assume that they are always right and have it all together. We do need to do a better job at building one another up. Oppose to choosing to tear someone down all of the time. We are speaking death and bringing those things in our lives when we choose to do that. I pray your strength in the LORD IN JESUS' NAME. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN. GOD TRULY DOES LOVE AND CARE FOR YOU AND SO DO I. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. AMEN.
She is speaking on what we should ALL be able to speak on in a partner. PERIOD
Amen ❤
👏🏾👏🏾💯ok!
Yes!
Except women can't even do this for themselves so how the fuck are we suppose to take you seriously when it comes to your expectations of anything especially us
I don't know of any man I would trust to hold me over a cliff, I'm on the heavier side! 😂 But I truly have a goodly husband! RIP Eric
"He can hang me over a cliff and I wouldn't worry" now that line alone speaks volumes.
Fr imagine if the girl weighing 200+
That part.
@xAGiiL3UnTiTL3D a gross soul weighs more than any person, get gone
@@xAGiiL3UnTiTL3DThat’s why chicks gotta watch the cakes and burgers. Weight is not just a number. 🤣
Amen
She was so blessed. Condolences to her and family.
They were Gods Beautiful Gift To EACHOTHER🥰🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾👍👍💯💯💯💯💯💯😅
Truly Blessed......
I wish that for myself and every other God fearing woman....😇😇😇
Oh no, so sorry😢
Thank you for giving him the accolades!!
That is beautiful!!!
YOU MARRIED A REAL MAN JUDGE.💐❤️🤲🏿🙏🏿🌹💐❤️🤲🏿🙏🏿💐❤️🤲🏿❤️
No she married a certain kind of man and every other kind of man that exists is a man and your diminishing of that says a lot about your inadequacies and character flaws
Have u ever wondering if the man feels the same as reciprocity. I would just asked her, if she think she deserves a man like that comparing to her behaviors toward him?
@@crypwayne7197I wondering of you literate or NOT🤷🏿♀️😩😭😂
@@Zeebo216tf you just say you illiterate mf?
@@Zeebo216he is, but by the way you spell, you're not.
Never heard a partner describe her love like that .
Genuinely beautiful woman in all forms 😍
That's because the man she was speaking of was doing everything right. Like being a true man and decent human being
I don’t think I’ve ever heard a woman speak so publicly about the positive qualities of her guy like this rest in peace, brother
He gave her reason to speak that well about him. You can't get that if you don't have those types of qualities as a man or shit a person. People speak of people who treat them genuinely well. You just haven't met that woman. The question is do you treat women well genuinely to receive that from your woman? And also some aren't broadcast so you will never know unless you change your circle of men and women.
Positive?
So he is dead?
@@sinceredatruth be 6'1" and do nothing. Got ya 👍
Her hubby past away?
Wow! What a man. In the meantime, all the rest of us can do is dream of someone like that. He saw ya as a team, and lived it out.
I love the way she describes her husband and how blessed and grateful she is/was to have him ❤❤❤❤❤❤ you Judge Lynn Toler
She was truly blessed. Hopefully she is coming out of her grief over his loss. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
His character is what she admired because it's the most important trait in a human. Lovely to hear ❤
Such a wonderful testimony of a supportive man and human being.
What a Godly man she's describing. So beautiful. This is love.
Act crazy as possible and see if he is that guy 😅
@EastfEden - Amen, true. ✝️🙏🏽
Me personally as a man I got my limits. I don't argue but if you do something really bizarre you may get divorce papers.
That man is dead
@@user-cv7no8bj9vthey don’t deserve the privilege of exit from that without consequence
This is how my uncle treated his wife. He passed away yesterday at 94 and she's 92. Good bless Judge Tolar❤
That can't be true
@@joshuaphillips4958have you lost ur mind. The internet is so delusional. How u read this and that’s what y come up with
@@smdd6751 you think a 94 year old man picked up a 92 year old woman
@@joshuaphillips4958 picked up? What are you talking about haha
I’m pretty sure the comment is just saying his uncle was a good dude and good husband to his wife, cared about her feelings and they had strong love for each other. She also trusted him with her life. They likely were together for many decades
What did you think? Are you talking about the “Picked up by the ankles over a cliff” comment? U realize that was an expression and nobody is really doing that and also sure as hell not in ur 90s 😂🤦🏾
🙏🏿😢❣️
Not many women speak of their men in such a great light. Bless you sister.
Both are rare here brother. Poised, collected men and women who appreciate such men. Nowadays men are just as emotional if not more emotional than women, and women don’t appreciate good men. This can also be flipped around both ways.
Come from around them..go to the places where they are..hint it’s not on the internet or club. Pray for your future wife or husband..one more thing all churches are not equal choose wisely..only the ones who teach the truth.
Bc not everyone is worth that. She's worth it to him
Not many males are men to be spoken of with such great honor. A woman doesn't hide that from an honorable man, even if she herself is not the best.
Cause they can’t and have no reason too
Judge Lynn Toler... what a Beautiful and Intelligent Woman♡
"He's that Brother" really hits different when you hear it from the woman who loved him. Respect to you both
Yes.
Awesome 🙏
Big facts
Trust me. x
Lol the "brother" lost his soul because of what she did to him. Sounds sad to me
I married that same man. 17 yrs happily together. I'm so thankful.
Does she know you married her husband?
Dramaaa 😮
Same here ❤❤🎉 17 yrs going strong let’s keep it going
@@Zombieologist08 Any advice on how not to make it a routine ? Eventually the passion dies once the excitement of the discovery passes, so how do you guys manage to make the relationship still interesting ?
I get bored of my partners and the life we live after a year, they're not bad partners it's just a problem within me I guess. With friends it's different, I'm loyal as one can be and I can hardly see my life without them.
@@charlesm.2604 try setting up dates during the week where you both dress up in cosplay costumes and act like you are complete strangers I mean really dive into the roles I promise you will be satisfied and so will she keep it spontaneous and never do the same cosplay spice it up even from some of your favorite tv shows one thing I have come to find out after being married so long is weather you want to or not peoples minds fantasize about things they may see here or even smell so my advice for you find what works for you any women can be anything you want same for men!
I can't believe I am watching this now at a time I dicided to work on my emotions and not being moved my pressure.understanding how to be calm in the storm..
That's a real man❤ I'm happy she found one!
That was touching the soul right there
" When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure."
I needed to hear that man thank you
@thepilgrim1842 you are more than welcome. I'm quite sure they are proud of you. Even if you do not think so. Honoring their memory is proof of it. ✌️
my gf just died this is very true
@jayden1033 I know this comes as no consolation to your lose but, I'm sorry to hear you lost her, truly. Keep her memory ever-present in your heart and mind, and stay strong .
😢😢
May EVERY woman experience the LOVE Judge Tolar had!❤❤❤
They won’t because they probably already had that experience or they aren’t that themselves
One day
One day I will experience this
Unfortunately, only a select few women will have a chance to have a relationship like this.
I yes
I married one of these giants among men, too. We are blessed.
I love how she just GENUINELY loves him. It’s a rarity to find your “soulmate”. It’s such a blessing when you do.
I never knew genuinely loving someone meant that u should have an affair on them for years!!!!?
This is exactly what women want. The freedom to do the craziest things and expect no accountability for it. The freedom to fulfull their destructive urges without being shamed for it.
And if you attempt to stop them, youre "abusive, toxic, controlling, oppressive, cant handle them, not a real man, insecure, blah blah, blah."
No thank you!
@@jayr3635No way she had an affair for years after all that mushy talk😑
Thats not love, sje is saying she abuse him amd he say nothing. He even ask for more, if you need me call me agian. That just a kinky sex those white man pay to be domnated in sex
@@hypnotize3224 yeah it's public knowledge, with her husband's best friend!
She’s able to speak so highly of her late husband who was obviously good to her warms my heart. This was an example of true love!❤️
Yeah
What was his name and what’s her name
tears already started forming in my eyes
that there is a ROLE MODEL
Your husband was solid, what a gift from God❤🙏💝
That Judge married an angel. She was truly blessed to have had him in her life. Enjoy the memories Ma'am. When you speak of him the love rolls right off your lips.
He had no choice but to listen 😊 yes judge
😊mine is exactly the same nothing rattles him.
They not together no more?
@@twanany The wonderful angel has passed.
He passed away unexpectedly.
My husband is like that...the day we got married he said..."you will never regret marrying me" and oooh boy he was sooooo right ✅️ 💙 ❤ such a calm, polite and very patient man of God who loves his family and i thank the Lord everyday for him and my children ❤️
Blessings to your love, marriage, and your family.
Please say more..What does he do n doesnt do??Please give examples..I will be getting married soon and I I want to make that same promise n mean it.."
@@mandlenkosihlazo977 it's his character, integrity and honesty. When he says he will do something, he does it. We don't fight at all...instead we sit down and talk about stuff up until I'm ok. We don't have secrets, we use the same pattern of my name on all our phones. It is in the way He was raised I must say...because he says he's never seen his parents fight infront of them and that's exactly what he does not want in our marriage. And it has been like that eversince. My husband is just a good guy period. He proved that even the day he came to pay lobola(dowry) at home...we had never dated before...we even had s#x after we exchange our vows with the marriage officer.
Beautiful words ❤
God is better than Valium
I love hearing her speak of big E. Always so much love when she speaks of him. She spoke highly of him while he was alive and in his death. Just beautiful ❤.
And that's what's happening when you hear a woman talk about her man like that and that man hears this woman talking about him like that and no feet above this Earth that he can't handle
Whenever she speaks about her husband,my heart swells with emotions. You can feel the love. But I couldn't imagine her with nothing less than an exceptional brother because she is an exceptional woman ❤
@@toniecarter5597 ❤️exactly
Yes❤
We need more videos like this. Black woman speaking highly of their partners
What a gift God sent her, mission complete he has his wings now ❤
You experienced "REAL LOVE". Something that EVERYONE does not get to experience. That's beautiful.
This is the husband and I am growing to be. I want this. 7 deployments and Chronic PTSD have set me way back...but I will become this man.
Treat yourself how you would treat your woman or man if you're gay.
One thing that helped me achieve my goals that might help you is look into the mirror every morning without fail and simply say, "I will achieve more today than I did yesterday." Don't expect big steps. It's a slow process. Keep on keeping on. Much love
My friend - 1 day at a time. Please take care of yourself
PTSD fkn sucks been 5 years suffering. Best thing is to always sleep as much as you can cuz you will lose control really quick if you don't. Also live second by second because overthinking can stress you so much that it affects your muscles, stomach ect. Much love homie. Hope you win all your battles
@@LebronTCG I feel so bad for my family sometimes because I average 4-5 hours a night max. You're so right. Lack of sleep will make you flip a switch so quick.
Love you Judge Lynn! You are very strong, resilient and blessed!!! You help us so many people too. God bless you sister. You also have a compassionate heart.💖💖💖
May his soul Rest in Peace. Another beautiful reflection of what a humane man he was. You can’t buy that. You can’t. Stay strong and stay blessed,
He died? Who was he?
He sure had enough of this b....
My mother is very lucky to have my father.... he's everything you explained....m very lucky to have him as a father.... I thank God everyday for him ❤❤❤❤
That's awesome thank you judge you make me feel good as a black man I strive to be that tight man God bless you and your family
He was that special one for u and always thêre 4 u 🎉❤🎉❤
That's a man from God! God bless you!
You woman Run thru The wrong men & dis the obvious right Man thinking You can do better but end up settling for someone waaayyy worse in every way lol …. The joke be on Yall
BEAUTIFUL!!!!
@@jlove8441 You can't be talking about because, I damn sure not trying to chase a man down to have 1 by my side. Never! I stay in prayer and wait on God to chose a man for me. Love God and yourself 1st and all will follow.
He giveth and he taketh 🥺
Allot of y'all met the right man. Just that you gave up on your blessing.
Its beautiful to hear a woman praise her man like this. Men respect that
It's easy to do this when you are blessed with a real stand up man.
Yeah a pussy whipped man.. lol.. 😅😂
Sadly he passed last year & she went through it but she's coming out w/her children. She's a strong, accomplished woman w/the Best advice, personality. God Bless her.🙏🏻❤
And other women keep hoping there are good men too.
Only a few men earn it, though... 😅🎉
Sounds like my Daddy❤😢I miss him so much!
Mine too he left such a void. I miss him more than words could ever convey... sorry for your loss.
❤
Same , and my husband is like that.. he and my father calms the storms in me and the family.. the lord is so all knowing who to place where... ..
I could only wish 💔
Same 😢
That’s an AWESOME compliment to her husband. She’s blessed!!!
She always speaks so highly of him. You can tell she loved him deeply. 😊❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You definitely can tell he was a good husband/person 🙏🏽❤️
Was?
@@BrotherKnowledge.Big E passed away unfortunately.
@@OpinionatedBlues
Damn...
Thanks for the heads up, though... damn...
I've seen so many clips talking about him and the love in her voice, and the way she talks about him always hit me. Didn't realize that the brotha had passed.
Damn...
She's also an example of a good woman. I never heard her speak ill of him. We all have faults, but to tell it to the world is a terrible thing. It's poisoning your own relationship.
You all had real love friendship companion amazing couple blessings he is still with you ❤❤❤❤❤R.I.P 👑
My husband is your husband's twin. He's 6’3 280lbs and built like a linebacker, but a gentle giant. He doesn't even like to argue. ❤️
What women dont understand is the repercussions if a man like that looses his cool.
I think I can speak on behalf of most men "we don't like to argue" Period with a capital P.
I got that man... ❤
@wildchild3862 My husband has that character, I have only seen him lose his "cool" just a few times and each time the only thing he does is step back to get fresh air. I would feel so sad, and instantly know I had done something wrong. When he comes back I would be so teary and apologetic and the only thing he does is to pull me into a hug .. I love that man!
You can just tell by her voice she so very much appreciates and respects him so much. ❤
This is my husband too! Took me 41 years to find him but he’s mine now and life is good! Don’t give up ladies! Perfect timing is everything! Gods time!
I’m so happy for you. IRS such a rarity to find your soulmate. I found mine too. 30 years in.
thank you for this! crying, I'm 35, no kids, no husband. none. just trusting God
Thank you.
Much respect to you and your family, you have a good man, from Ireland x
@@kerrishagayle9708If you waiting on the Roman CATHOLIC version of hey Zeus to drop a man out the sky. You gon be waiting. How about YOU actually talk to men
I wish I could have found someone like that ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
How she talks about her solemate gives me hope that ppl like her still exist 🐺🐺💪🏾
Amen brother 🙏
@@pravoslavnibalkancilmao
And him
Good luck!
Wow that speak volumes powerful love her stories 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽RIH to her husband 🙏🏾 for her continually!!!!
I want to be talked about like that, so I will start change today.. so beautiful, everything you do in life matters, blessings to all
Good 👍 God's child oh you are now planning to be this beautiful. Oh God's child c'mon man, as God's child this is how you are supposed to be all this while.
God's child make a fast change now!!!!
God Bless you with much more than you ask for just do it
❤😊
Love what you.said.Somebody somewhere is watching you. You can be or make a difference in someone's life. ❤
Men value respect above all things, what a wife👏
He has her respect because he earned it.
@@heatherbanks9867
That part.
He carried himself with respect.
I need a husband like that!!
Your the best Judge 😊
Baby you see them every day and pass them by because they are broke to your liking. 😅
@@chimakalu5195I get what you’re trying to say but I doubt you see them everyday. Not in these days. Great men AND women are out here but it’s becoming more challenging everyday to find. If you do meet a special person with a great heart, hold on tight, as c they should be holding on to you too!
@@chimakalu5195or vise versa we don't fit the profile❤
You would have to be a woman like her.
That might not be what u need
I’m glad she had that time with him n such wonderful memories ❤
This is how all men should want their wives to feel about them. I love this, she genuinely adored her husband.
No, men should not only "feel" these things from women but the women should proactively show their appreciation. Words with no action mean nothing.
you completely missed it, unfortunately.
If women star acting like a woman should, then the man would treat her like that.
No woman is going to speak highly of a man if he NEVER earned it! He has to 💯 earn his woman's respect
He is not automatically entitled to it! 😮
@@tamuz9633 Neither is a woman automatically entitled to anything. Just remembered that women are not just supposed to be receivers.
To have known, shared in his graces, witnessed, lived a partnership of one in a million was a true blessing from God. You so deserved him sweet lady. Amen. ❤❤❤
I pray one day I find someone who feels this way about me😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤
Awwww how sweet. I hope you do.
While she is getting her cheeks clapped by his best friend like a cheap whore? 😂
💯💯💯💯
@@barth9580You have no clue what you talking about.
Amen
This is the kind of man I want a strong not petty brother and brother that listen wow how blessed are you
That was a nice way to publicly tell a personal story without getting too personal!! Love it!! ❤
YEAH!
Exactly
Judge Toler.. I found THAT and I treasure him with all I have. I FELT THAT, Prayers for your peace and hope you are doing well. He is always with you, until you meet again ❤
I love how she speaks about her husband!!!! That’s so real and genuine ❤❤❤❤
Damn I love her so much‼️ Her Language is Inspiring and Intentional‼️ Divorce Court hasn’t been the same without you‼️ #JudgeLynnToler 🫡
Every man wants his woman to speak this. Highly of him ..beautifully spoken
Only if you can do what big E used to do
Most humans don't deserve it
Not all men rise to the level of this kind of praise. They are very few.
We need classes that teach children how to behave as adults and as husbands and wives. We should at least have this in churches. We need good parents to teach their children how to behave. This is society's problem. Just as bad is when good individuals end up with problem individuals. It happens with good guys as well as with good females. No matter how good they treat the problem person, it's not appreciated or reciprocated.
And every woman wants a man to be able to speak that high😢of
She adored her husband. My heart breaks to know the horrible grief she is obviously suffering. Many prayers sent to our heavenly father to help ease her pain.
I grew up seeing my parents having absolutely insane fights, punching holes in walls screaming and crying, when i was 6 they broke up and both used me as a weapon against one another until I was about 16/17. They would still try to use me against one another and I told them both to shut their mouths and that I dont want to hear anything out of either of them about one another because I was beyond caring at that point.
I brought that into my relationships even at the same age of 17 onwards . Today, I have not screamed or shouted with anybody I've had as a partner. Its not worth the heartache, if you make me feel like I want to scream at you, then I don't want to be with you, I talk it out and I tell them how I need them to support me and I'll support them and if we disagree about things to tell me and we can work out a resolution, if you're mad at me or im mad at you we need to leave eachother alone for a while and we can talk when we are cooled off but we will not fight and if you scream at me or try hit me or anything like that you wont get any reaction from me and I will not engage, usually at that point I'd be considering if we should even be together.
So far, everybody I've had a relationship with I've had clean breaks we can still talk and there's no bad blood, if things stopped working we went our separate ways and we can stay distant friends. In a way im glad I grew up the way I did with insane parents. Nowadays, things are a lot smoother, and I have a good relationship with them and have forgiven them for what happened and they are positive figures in my life who support me but I wouldn't want my kids to go through it and I completely refuse to let someone im supposed to love control my emotions like that.
Fellas, if your partner and you are fighting every week and screaming and shouting every week its not normal, girls are very emotional and they know how to push your buttons, put the pants on in the relationship and be the bigger person, if it doesn't work leave, even if it hurts. Every time things get worse, they will become the new normal. It's simply not worth it.
The appreciation is so far n between, it's rare appreciation 😢😢, it's always about them ❤love her 🎉
"If you need me again, I'll come back"... That was powerful 👏🏼👌🏼💪🏼
Exactly 🙏
He was a simp to put up with this masculine girl
Yes❤
Dude got a boyfriend.. 😂
A real man would’ve never left until it was OK not come back if needed again
She's blessed to have experienced that kind of love.
She turned her husband into an emotional trash can. Don’t know why women get praised for toxic behaviour.
He said if you need me again I will come back. That brought tears to my eyes. Love is a beautiful verb
... He's gonna to come back to her, just in a different body. Her Man will be back.
Same here😢
Man !! These testimonies make me really keep faith in mankind😢
Now this is what u call a man! I whoch i was that cool!!
I do take very good care of my wofe nad children, but this cool temper ?? Man this is epic!🔥😌
Amen
Sounds Reminiscent to me 🙏🏾🙏🏾! You we’re blessed 🙏🏾
She was truly blessed to have had a husband like the one she describes. It's not too often that you hear a woman who gives her man praise for his attributes. It's not the material things that make the man it's the everyday little things that are the biggest things,solid accountabilities, all the unspoken and supportive things that make you feel loved, her husband sounds like a wonderful supportive, steady and agreeable man that's awesome 👌
She's blessed to have been loved by a good man...hard to find a good guy and I know she misses him...
I feel it in her voice.
Yes sad very sad....
He picked the right woman too lol. Smart man!
Just wondering if he taking in a lot of stuff and not really releasing his emotions cause his death… just a thought woman out live their men generally about 10 years…they emote all the time…I say let it out brothers every now and then or find a brother you talk to ….
I know that she does
Praying 4 her, she had a SOUL MATE!! Not sex mate or walking wallet. Most are looking for.
She was definitely blessed 🙌
What you said about sex mate or walking wallet, it's sad, but true. The thing is, while they are getting their fill of the sex and wallet, some have the acting down so good, you can't tell, until the time comes when it stops, or changes.
Facts!
You said that perfectly my sis.. perfect from God. Yes.
Omgosh you hit me he nail!!!!
This made me cry real bad man what a man😢😢😢😮💨😮💨🦾🦾👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💐💐💐💐🙏🏽 God please bless me with a husband like this a Pilar.
Pray to be a good wife as well🎉🎉
I love Judge Toler! It truly broke my heart when she lost the love of her life; such an amazing man!!!
❤❤❤
IKR😢
How she lose her husband?
I don’t know who she is...
Im assuming by what others have posted, this is Jude Toler...
I'll search & see...
“Hold me by the ankle over a cliff and I wouldn’t worry ” that’s some real trust and love!! I’m so happy that she was able to experience what some of us women dream of. 🥰❤️
So beautiful to hear our sister compliment her man
He's probably that way because she's controlling
Unless her man is white, then it’s just Stockholm syndrome right?
As rare as hens teeth!
she is talking about a lot of our fathers and grand father's husbands😀😀😀😀😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🤠😇🤠🤠😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🤠
@joeIc3sv why u people always negative, I get you there's no men like that exist smh.
That's what you call love❤❤❤
That's love and respect.
I LOVE YOU JUDGE LYN TOLER😊😊❤❤❤ THATS BEAUTIFUL!😊❤
May he rest in peace. 🙏🏽🕊🪽
❤❤❤
That’s a man that truly loved his woman!!!
He may did I believe He was patient with her but deep down he was tore down from the mental abuse that’s just my outlook on what I see I believe she was mentally unstable and Dump her load on him and he couldn’t take it
No, that's a man who knew "how" to love a woman
That's a man that woman truly loved him
You missed the point that's a woman that loved her man. She was his biggest fan. A dinosaur compared the garbage most men deal with today
@@christopherbiddle7234 They still, don't get that it's not supposed to one-sided. They need to be the type of woman a man would be willing to be that man for. Women are far too entitled these days smh
That was my William. God called him home 3 years ago. Godly Man, Protector, Best Friend, Confidante, Lover, Comforter, Great Father. I know how she feels.
To all the young ladies. There are STILL men like these out there. Pray. And don't ever give up.❤❤
😂This is the best quote and comment on the thread. Yes, as a son of God may he have peace and salvation with the Lord on the day of judgment. 🙏✝️
But are there women still out there like this ?
@orravalb Yes. There are. Remember, A tree is known by the fruit it bares. A Godly, Respectable, Good woman will keep her Character & Demenor at all times.
@@orravalbyes there are
My husband's name is William too! And he is also my personal gift from GOD!
Thanks for sharing. Love you
He is that kind of guy who listens to all your ups and downs and never criticizes you but is always ready to help you at anytime
And then youre only the nice guy
😂😂😂😂.... 🧢🧢🧢🧢
You've never met a man who criticized you after listening to your complaints, troubles and worries (unless you're a nag).
Men don't criticize when our women tell us their troubles; we're more solution oriented. We'll quickly start giving you solutions (out of instinct).
We begin to criticize when you don't appreciate our efforts to help solve your problem which cry about and treat us with harsh rejection (there's no smoke without fire you know).
The surprise is that I learnt this last month when researching for a lecture I want to deliver to single mothers on how to get a man who will commit and marry them (even though we despise single mothers for good reasons).
Nobody teaches us these things. Even you women have no idea what you want us to do.
She's lucky to have a man who has learnt this lesson on womanology.
You see a fairytale in him why? Privilege?
I feel such compassion for her, because she really loved her husband. I know she misses him so much you can see how sad her eyes are on her recent videos
she does, can't imagine finding a person like that and then losing them one day
YOU HAVE THE MEMORY STORIES OF A GREAT REAL MAN THAT CANT WON'T EVER DIE❤
He understands her...and appreciates her....Priceless!❤
So glad you found him when you did he sounds like a great man
Plenty of great men out there,it's the entitled women that are the problem!