None of this works in some cases. There are toxic people, with whom you're supposed to work. Every little bit of insecurity, even the smallest mistake, is exagerated and used against you. You can't win, as they railly up people against you. They're calm, composed and know exactly, which strings to pull to make you seem inkompetent. It has nothing to do with how you feel or behave, what you know or don't know. They're simply on a path of destruction and you are their target. There's envy, jelousy and pure hate. These people are smart enough to hide, what they think. They do everything they can to get rid of you.
indeed....enables us to act better toward others', w/o expectations...much easier to not allow them to rent space in our heads, rent-free..LOL...thanks.
Exactly. I recently exited my class whatsapp group as soon as I handed in my final paper. Half the class disrespect me partly because I'm black, female and very outspoken. Since I gifted them with my silence and completely ignoring them like they don't exist, no one has even come remotely close to disrespecting me.
I encountered the same issue when I was right when I spoke up. I am at fault because I came out as aggressive. God gave me wisdom: keep quiet and disappear.
Some people just want you down. You have to do it wiser. Tell em in the way the themself understand they are animals. Show no anger lift your head eye contact them so they pull their wision down. Speak facts. They are just full of fear loosing their jos. Dont be like them put all in. I was ex criminal sitting with ppl who are wise more than anyone can imagine. I was well respected by them because of my character and word so i retired and now working in the mall seeing disrespectful colleagues. I told the director who is disrespectful couple of wise one where he cant defend so he never callas me in office again and gives greetings every time he sees me and shake my hands. More you put selflove and selfrespect on yourself more they will respect you. Dont let dogs sheeps make you angry. Answer on every disrespect instantly. There are more good ppl in crime and more loyal than on normal jobs. Noone will stand for you bcz they are just feared and they cant accept that fact. Jobs* -- i got ill sorry on grammar but can't correct now lol
You’ve perfectly captured the essence of Stoic wisdom in your approach-why engage with someone who only seeks to disturb your calm? By refusing to let others pull you into their chaos, you protect not just your peace of mind but also your well-being. It’s a bold and inspiring reminder that we have the power to decide how we respond to negativity. Your metaphor of preserving your blood pressure is such a vivid way to illustrate the importance of not letting fools dictate your emotions-so beautifully said! Have you ever found that your silence or your decision to walk away speaks louder than any argument could?
But what if u work with people who disrespect you ? I work with one Irish woman, when she dont like , when she have bad day then u dont talk with her, she is not morning person, u can make jokes only when she have good day, sometimes she threating me , she is irish, she knows killers , she is big and tough, bla bla bla. Sometimes i just want to open my mouth but if i do we gonna be in war , sometimes i feel small when she say something to me but i always ignore. If u set boundaries then she becoming so offensive and threating
Setting boundaries and staying assertive are essential. Respect starts with how we treat ourselves, and sometimes walking away is the strongest reponse.
Refusing to engage with those who disrespect you is a powerful declaration that you value your peace and dignity above all else-a principle deeply aligned with Stoic wisdom. Your resolve serves as a reminder that respect isn’t something to be negotiated or compromised, and by standing firm, you protect not only your self-worth but also your mental and emotional well-being. The way you’ve articulated this is inspiring, and it’s clear that you’re walking a path where integrity guides your decisions, no matter how difficult they may be. Have you found that maintaining these boundaries has brought a sense of clarity and empowerment in your relationships, even when it's challenging?
Being serious when it’s necessary, while maintaining a calm and firm demeanor, truly embodies the Stoic approach-handling situations with grace, strength, and control, without ever resorting to force or hostility. Your insight speaks to the art of communication, where we aim to convey our points with conviction, yet without diminishing the humanity of those we engage with. It’s a powerful reminder that respect is often earned through the balance of calmness and firmness, not by overpowering others but by standing unwavering in our truth. Have you found that this approach has changed how others respond to you when you adopt this calm yet assertive stance?
"You don't have to tolerate disrespect from anyone. It's time to stop letting people walk all over you and reclaim your power. Remember how people treat you says more about them than it does about you, but how you react says everything about the level of respect you have for yourself". Thank you for your video.
Sometimes you have to speak up and be firm on your boundaries. The next time they cross them , you then must let them go and stay away because they were warned.
There’s something truly profound in your decision not to demand or fight for respect-by choosing to rise above it, you demonstrate a level of strength and self-assurance that is both admirable and rare. It’s almost as if you’ve embodied the very essence of Stoic philosophy, understanding that respect, like so much in life, can never be forced or expected. Instead, by choosing to ignore those who don't give it, you free yourself from the emotional weight of seeking approval and allow your actions and inner peace to speak for themselves. It’s an approach that radiates calm confidence, and I think it’s a perspective that could teach many people the value of letting go of what we cannot control. Do you think that by ignoring disrespect, others eventually come to realize their mistakes, or do they remain blind to their actions?
You deserve to be treated with respect, and it starts with how you allow others to treat you.’ This takeaway hit hard. Thank you for sharing such actionable wisdom! 💡👏
*When faced with people who don’t respect you, it’s essential to remember that their actions reflect their character, not your worth. The Stoics teach us that we cannot control the behavior of others, but we can control our response. Handle disrespect by maintaining your dignity, setting firm boundaries, and choosing not to be dragged into emotional conflict. Silence, calmness, and rationality are your greatest allies, for they protect your peace while showing others that their negativity has no power over you. Instead of seeking validation from those who do not value you, focus on strengthening your inner resolve. Respect is earned through how we treat ourselves, and when you embody self-respect, you demand it from others without ever needing to say a word. In the end, true power lies not in forcing others to change, but in your ability to rise above their actions with grace and wisdom.*
Thank you so much for watching and supporting the channel! May everyone listening to this find health, peace, and good fortune on their journey. Remember, as Marcus Aurelius said, 'You have power over your mind-not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.' Stay strong and stay wise!
“Learning comes from books,” but “Wisdom comes from God.” He will give us the wisdom to use the learning, “just by asking for it and not doubting.” “Seek wisdom, for it is more precious than rubies.”
Setting boundaries and embracing silence-two strategies that seem simple but are incredibly powerful. This video is a wake-up call for anyone struggling with disrespect. Grateful for these timeless insights. 🙏
I love the emphasis on surrounding yourself with supportive people. It's a game-changer to have a circle that lifts you up instead of tearing you down. Thank you for reminding us that we have the power to choose who we allow into our lives!
It’s such a beautiful embodiment of the Stoic mindset, where you choose not to engage in unnecessary conflict, but rather, you reclaim your peace by stepping away with dignity. There’s something so empowering in that final gesture, where your silence says more than words ever could. It’s a reminder that true wisdom often lies in knowing when to walk away and choosing yourself above the noise. Do you think that walking away leaves a stronger impression than confronting someone directly?
Responding with silence is a powerful strategy. It forces the disrespectful person to face their actions while helping us stay calm and in control. Great approach for handling tense situations!
The fact that you acknowledge this difficulty already shows an incredible self-awareness and a desire for growth, which is a testament to your strength. We all have those moments where the wisdom we know seems just out of reach, but even in recognizing that, you are laying the foundation for future resilience. The beauty of Stoicism is that it's a journey, not a destination, and with every situation, we get a little better at embodying its principles. Have you found any specific strategies that help you recall these teachings more easily when you're faced with challenging situations?
This video is a powerful reminder that respect starts from within. Setting boundaries and prioritizing our self-worth can feel uncomfortable at first, but it's one of the most liberating acts we can do for ourselves. Thank you for sharing such practical and empowering wisdom! 🙌
The golden rule-treating others as we wish to be treated-often feels like a cornerstone of decency, but as you so insightfully pointed out, it doesn’t always yield the same in return. It can be disheartening when the kindness and respect we extend aren’t reciprocated, leaving us questioning the fairness of it all. Yet, your words remind us that while we can’t control how others behave, staying true to our principles is a testament to our strength and integrity. It’s a reflection of who we are, not of what we expect in return. Your observation speaks volumes about the complexity of human relationships, and the emotional weight it carries is deeply relatable. Do you think there’s ever a time when we should change how we treat others or is staying consistent in our values always the better path?
@@sindhugireesan5515 It’s a lesson many of us have had to learn, sometimes the hard way, that some individuals thrive on taking without giving, testing our patience and boundaries. Yet, your observation is empowering in its simplicity-understanding that we cannot change them, but we can protect ourselves by recognizing these patterns. There’s a quiet strength in your words, and it resonates deeply with the Stoic belief of focusing on what we can control: our own responses, not the actions of others. Have you found that embracing this mindset of acceptance has helped you maintain more peace in your relationships?
@@stoickingdomofficalThe Good Book says, “Treat others the way you want to be treated,” but there is no promise written that others will do the same. It has taken me many years to understand this. At least we are doing what is asked of us to do, which is always the right thing to do. We are surely blessed by God Himself. Once I realized we are not doing it for a reward, my feelings no longer got hurt. 😊
Setting clear boundaries has been a game-changer for me. I used to let people walk all over me, but once I started speaking up, I noticed a huge shift in how they treated me. It's empowering to reclaim my self-respect. If you read this comment, I hope you find the courage to stand up for yourself too!
For me, I disappear. When I am disrespected, I become a ghost. The person or people are dead to me physically and emotionally. I respect myself by keeping it moving like they do not exist and I do not exist to them, too.
This video is a masterclass in reclaiming your self-worth. The blend of stoic wisdom and practical strategies is exactly what we need in today’s world. Respect truly does start from within. 💪✨
3:56 really made me think - focusing on controlling your own reaction instead of their actions is such a powerful reminder. It not only helps maintain calm but also protects our inner peace.
Stoicism teaches us that we can't control how others treat us, but we can control our response. It's powerful to realize that disrespect says more about them than it does about us. Focusing on our own peace and letting go of the need for validation frees us from unnecessary tension. The real strength lies in how we handle ourselves when others fall short of respect
I started boxing so i have the confidence to stand up to bullies who disrespect me. If they continue to, i invite them to the boxing ring in front of everyone. That shuts them up but some will never learn. They have too much time on their hands and are troubled.
I like the express: Speaking for yourself. No matter what they have said or done, they are telling others: who they really are by the words or conducted.
This video is a powerful reminder that respect begins with the boundaries we set for ourselves. The stoic approach to handling disrespect feels empowering and grounded. Truly inspiring insights! 🙌
True respect , is far beyond the understanding of anyone who would be disrespectful to another . Do not explain yourself , do not try to convert them , be silent and walk away.
I had to cut ties with various family members who treated me with total disrespect and disregard. Now that they are out of my life, I feel whole again, and much more at peace within. It was worth it. No one should be treated like dirt for no reason whatsoever, and like it says here, their disrespect says more about them than it does about you. If you respect yourself first, others will see that.
As an autistic individual, I believe that people with special needs must be treated with respect just like anyone else. Every day at work, I have to deal with my slightly impatient co-worker. She sometimes makes the entire team miserable as they became accustomed to her behavior, but I stood up to her multiple times. This video is a great reminder to not stoop so low to another's level when handling disrespectful. Sometimes it's better to back down than escalate the fight.
Right I just walked away from so many situations, places, relationships and more I just cut them out from my life because they don’t deserve me They don’t know how to treat right and they don’t know how to work together and some people have trust issues with their own self.just walk away from any kind of disrespect, drama,negativity and stand up for yourself no matter who they are… God brings you to this world alone and takes you from this world alone between that who cares for disrespectful people let them live with their negativity.
As an elder with no money beyhond Social Security, I slmetmes need financial help from my Son.He judges me, interruprts, derides, and belittles me.I am in a powerless position.Sad.
How very sad indeed 😢 praying that your son has a change of heart, that the Love of God envelope you, may you know His PEACE that surpasses all human understanding 🙏
Thank you Lord for your blessings on me and my children husband and all my family and friends. I plead the blood of Jesus on my children and my life. Amen
The love you have for your family and the way you shield them with your prayers is a beautiful testament to your strength as a mother and as a person of faith. Your words carry so much hope and assurance, offering a sense of peace in knowing that, despite the challenges we face, we are never alone. Do you feel that your faith has shaped the way you handle life’s more difficult moments, and if so, how has it strengthened your resolve?
Family are the worst. We should be able to be ourselves around our family they should be the people who bring us up, but when they are not, we are allowing them to strips away who we really are.
But how to know whether someone disrespected me because of my own action or behavior which he/ she did not like? At time I don't respond believing that ' one should COMMAND and and not DEMAND respect.
Thank you for this video. It has been confirmed that my actions are the best way to deal with disrespect. I wouldn't say I like disrespect, disadvantage, theft, lying, and cheating. Everything you said is a fact. This video blessed me. I followed your RUclips channel.
Small town life has always seemed was worse when being respected then working with the public and having a large family made it more complicated. I was always taught to be respectful to others and please especially your elders. I am 71 now and these last 2 years something has switched in my life especially when most of the people i needed to escape from happens to be close relitives. I have always been popular in my family my school years and was pretty happy . I decided that i am not the boy one who feels they have lived their lives for others . I’m glad to see i’m not alone and how to be comfortable in my own skin is sad seems to be you are a villain even with in your own family. especially your spouse of 50ish years and your adult child , I am regrouping and this video which i happened to see at a most genuine time Thank you I’m excited about being free and i’m not lonely actually if i were single i think i would welcome it. Life is too short not to enjoy the good things that are the simple things in life that appearantly , others don’t realize I’m done with the apologies! no need to explain! yes! Now i know some of my best times were with old pets or strangers. 😊
If you have live a life of being strong and as you retreat away from interactions whit people you sometimes feel like you have betrayal people who have relied on your strength and walking away is sometime a great burden is shearing your strength and what you have learned not to be sheared and is this not what you are doing ask yourself are you not your brother keeper we all go through life going through the bad and good that is in us all
I Never Use To See All This Videos And Believe Me i Am Today What This Video Has Presented 🙏 really Felt Very Happy For Knowing That There Are People And its a different Universe Which Makes people like us to Bring together ❤.
I had a group of friends that I knew for a long time and the disrespect and toxicity grew over time, I distanced myself for awhile and started hanging out with new friends. One of them eventually said so negative things about me and my new friends, so I blocked him on everything. He immediately was trying to appologize through ither friends and I never gave any word back, did look back and just ignored it, and Im in a much better place because if it. Im now having a similar situation with 1 friend with similar behavior but a different situation that will ignore me/not listen to what I have to say and not take acclunability for thier actions, and Im getting vwry close to the point of just blocking them amd not lookimg back. I have no time or energy for people that expect my time but dont respect me or my opinions 🖐
Such insightful analysis! Thanks to this video, I appreciate the philosophy of Stoicism even more. I hope everyone watching this finds balance and peace within their souls! ❤
"By the end of this video you will have the confidence" - plenty of contradictions over these 15 min. Silence does not earn you respect, the doc says, but 3 or 4 minutes later "responding with silence can often speak louder than any words." Times have a-changed since stoicism began, Jay The Stoic. Word to the wise: the ads do nothing for credibility.
8:00 This video is incredibly insightful and helpful! Approaching disrespect from a Stoic perspective shows how patience and calm are key. Sometimes, encountering disrespectful people is inevitable, but these tips help me understand how to maintain my dignity and not let others disrupt my inner peace. Thank you for sharing
Setting clear boundaries is essential when dealing with disrespect. By calmly and assertively defining what behavior is acceptable, you communicate your self-respect and create a standard for how others should treat you
This is a truly helpful video! It provides practical and inspiring strategies, reinforced by Stoic philosophy, to empower viewers to confidently face challenging situations where they are disrespected.
"You should not let their behavior dictate your emotions" Some people have toxic, infective vibes and makes this particular piece of advice difficult. But Jesus gives grace when we keep trying and eventually we will notice they are not getting under our skin as they used to.
Like they use to say ,family looks only good on the picture, stay away from disrespected family, i do some i dont talk for years some occasional on the phone never go to their houses, and we will never go .
Your resilience shines through, and the grace with which you acknowledge this speaks volumes about your character. Thank you for sharing your perspective, as it’s a reminder of the silent strength many people carry within their families, often without recognition. Have you found that this role you’ve taken on has helped shape your understanding of respect and self-worth in ways you didn’t expect?
This video is incredibly empowering! The strategies shared here are not only practical but also deeply grounded in wisdom. Thank you for providing such valuable insights on handling disrespect.
Your gratitude shines through, a reminder of how powerful and transformative shared knowledge can be. Your connection with the content speaks to your openness and readiness to embrace these Stoic principles, which will undoubtedly serve you well as you move forward. Has a particular piece of Stoic wisdom resonated with you the most during this time?
@@stoickingdomoffical Thank you so much for your reply🌻I am still and actually increasingly working on focusing and changing my reactions rather than wearing myself out by (vainly!) trying to control the actions of others. My goal is to be better able to pause, think and then respond when I choose to - no more conditioned and fear/hurt based reactions that don't serve me at all. Your channel is full of gems so I did dive right in....Glad to have found you...thanks again for spreading your knowledge, encouragement and support🙏🌹
@@RChH24 The way you’ve expressed your desire to shift from reactive, emotion-driven responses to thoughtful, deliberate actions is a perfect reflection of the Stoic mindset. It takes immense courage and self-awareness to recognize that real power comes from within-choosing when and how to respond, rather than letting others dictate your emotional state. The path you’re on, of mastering your inner world, is not easy, but it is profoundly rewarding, and it’s wonderful to see that you’ve found value in the knowledge shared here. Your presence in this community adds richness, and your openness to share is a true gift.
everything is well said.if I've learned this before, I couldn't be sick this day, by rebuttling, when my feelings n thoughts are disregarded n disrespected.
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None of this works in some cases. There are toxic people, with whom you're supposed to work. Every little bit of insecurity, even the smallest mistake, is exagerated and used against you. You can't win, as they railly up people against you. They're calm, composed and know exactly, which strings to pull to make you seem inkompetent. It has nothing to do with how you feel or behave, what you know or don't know. They're simply on a path of destruction and you are their target.
There's envy, jelousy and pure hate. These people are smart enough to hide, what they think. They do everything they can to get rid of you.
thank you, i will see your video
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It's great to have finally reached the age where I no longer give a shit what other people think about anything.
Exactly! {most of the toxic people I had to work around are now "graveyard dead"} lol
Yea started at about 55. Now 67 it doesn't mattet what people think or an earthworm.
Me too, i'v learnt to rise above it.
indeed....enables us to act better toward others', w/o expectations...much easier to not allow them to rent space in our heads, rent-free..LOL...thanks.
Yea people are gonna think, and people are gonna stink. & oh yea and people are
gonna tax you ever time you do ANYTHING.
I tried standing up for myself at work, and I got blamed for it. Lesson learned. Trusting anyone is pointless. Silence speaks louder.
Always stand up for yourself no matter what because nobody else will
Exactly. I recently exited my class whatsapp group as soon as I handed in my final paper. Half the class disrespect me partly because I'm black, female and very outspoken. Since I gifted them with my silence and completely ignoring them like they don't exist, no one has even come remotely close to disrespecting me.
I encountered the same issue when I was right when I spoke up. I am at fault because I came out as aggressive. God gave me wisdom: keep quiet and disappear.
Yes blame shifting is what happened when I stood up for myself.
Some people just want you down. You have to do it wiser. Tell em in the way the themself understand they are animals. Show no anger lift your head eye contact them so they pull their wision down. Speak facts. They are just full of fear loosing their jos. Dont be like them put all in. I was ex criminal sitting with ppl who are wise more than anyone can imagine. I was well respected by them because of my character and word so i retired and now working in the mall seeing disrespectful colleagues. I told the director who is disrespectful couple of wise one where he cant defend so he never callas me in office again and gives greetings every time he sees me and shake my hands. More you put selflove and selfrespect on yourself more they will respect you. Dont let dogs sheeps make you angry. Answer on every disrespect instantly. There are more good ppl in crime and more loyal than on normal jobs. Noone will stand for you bcz they are just feared and they cant accept that fact. Jobs* -- i got ill sorry on grammar but can't correct now lol
I walk off when I’m disrespected,I don’t need to elevate my blood pressure by being dismayed by a fool !🖐🏽💯
You’ve perfectly captured the essence of Stoic wisdom in your approach-why engage with someone who only seeks to disturb your calm? By refusing to let others pull you into their chaos, you protect not just your peace of mind but also your well-being. It’s a bold and inspiring reminder that we have the power to decide how we respond to negativity. Your metaphor of preserving your blood pressure is such a vivid way to illustrate the importance of not letting fools dictate your emotions-so beautifully said!
Have you ever found that your silence or your decision to walk away speaks louder than any argument could?
dont tolerate🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
Rightttttttttttt!!!
so true
But what if u work with people who disrespect you ? I work with one Irish woman, when she dont like , when she have bad day then u dont talk with her, she is not morning person, u can make jokes only when she have good day, sometimes she threating me , she is irish, she knows killers , she is big and tough, bla bla bla. Sometimes i just want to open my mouth but if i do we gonna be in war , sometimes i feel small when she say something to me but i always ignore. If u set boundaries then she becoming so offensive and threating
Setting boundaries and staying assertive are essential. Respect starts with how we treat ourselves, and sometimes walking away is the strongest reponse.
Don't die as a disbeliever
Couldn't agree more! Setting boundaries isn’t about pushing people away, it’s about creating space for respect and healthy relationships.
My sister is the one someone who should lift you up always she pull me down and doesn't talk to me.
I don’t talk to people who disrespect me including family!!!
Refusing to engage with those who disrespect you is a powerful declaration that you value your peace and dignity above all else-a principle deeply aligned with Stoic wisdom. Your resolve serves as a reminder that respect isn’t something to be negotiated or compromised, and by standing firm, you protect not only your self-worth but also your mental and emotional well-being. The way you’ve articulated this is inspiring, and it’s clear that you’re walking a path where integrity guides your decisions, no matter how difficult they may be.
Have you found that maintaining these boundaries has brought a sense of clarity and empowerment in your relationships, even when it's challenging?
@@stoickingdomofficaldon't die as a disbeliever
Don't die as a disbeliever
SIMPLE
The good thing is ,we do not have to deal with anyone that we don't want being part of our life.
Disengage and walk away, ultimate way to peace of mind.❤
Good Saftey Tip
Avoid Danger.
Know when to be serious.
Assertiveness is key, not aggresive.
Calm , firm, and pleasant. You’re trying to get a point across, not bully.
Being serious when it’s necessary, while maintaining a calm and firm demeanor, truly embodies the Stoic approach-handling situations with grace, strength, and control, without ever resorting to force or hostility. Your insight speaks to the art of communication, where we aim to convey our points with conviction, yet without diminishing the humanity of those we engage with. It’s a powerful reminder that respect is often earned through the balance of calmness and firmness, not by overpowering others but by standing unwavering in our truth.
Have you found that this approach has changed how others respond to you when you adopt this calm yet assertive stance?
I don't talk to people who disrespect me, even if they're family!
Silence is the best
Exactly
"You don't have to tolerate disrespect from anyone. It's time to stop letting people walk all over you and reclaim your power.
Remember how people treat you says more about them than it does about you, but how you react says everything about the level of respect you have for yourself".
Thank you for your video.
Don't die as a disbeliever
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What do you mean?
I don't demand or fight for respect. It's never guaranteed so I just ignore them
Yeah they are trying to get a reaction anyway why give them what they want
I agree but, when it is from your spouse, it has a lot effect on your life.
Sometimes you have to speak up and be firm on your boundaries. The next time they cross them , you then must let them go and stay away because they were warned.
@@studentlearning7805 it absolutely does…..
There’s something truly profound in your decision not to demand or fight for respect-by choosing to rise above it, you demonstrate a level of strength and self-assurance that is both admirable and rare. It’s almost as if you’ve embodied the very essence of Stoic philosophy, understanding that respect, like so much in life, can never be forced or expected. Instead, by choosing to ignore those who don't give it, you free yourself from the emotional weight of seeking approval and allow your actions and inner peace to speak for themselves. It’s an approach that radiates calm confidence, and I think it’s a perspective that could teach many people the value of letting go of what we cannot control.
Do you think that by ignoring disrespect, others eventually come to realize their mistakes, or do they remain blind to their actions?
Reacting defensively is losing power. Be stoic. Walk away. THAT IS POWER
You deserve to be treated with respect, and it starts with how you allow others to treat you.’ This takeaway hit hard. Thank you for sharing such actionable wisdom! 💡👏
*When faced with people who don’t respect you, it’s essential to remember that their actions reflect their character, not your worth. The Stoics teach us that we cannot control the behavior of others, but we can control our response. Handle disrespect by maintaining your dignity, setting firm boundaries, and choosing not to be dragged into emotional conflict. Silence, calmness, and rationality are your greatest allies, for they protect your peace while showing others that their negativity has no power over you. Instead of seeking validation from those who do not value you, focus on strengthening your inner resolve. Respect is earned through how we treat ourselves, and when you embody self-respect, you demand it from others without ever needing to say a word. In the end, true power lies not in forcing others to change, but in your ability to rise above their actions with grace and wisdom.*
Thank you so much for watching and supporting the channel! May everyone listening to this find health, peace, and good fortune on their journey. Remember, as Marcus Aurelius said, 'You have power over your mind-not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.' Stay strong and stay wise!
Great content. Appreciated
“Learning comes from books,” but “Wisdom comes from God.” He will give us the wisdom to use the learning, “just by asking for it and not doubting.” “Seek wisdom, for it is more precious than rubies.”
It's called move forward ignore them!!❤❤❤❤
Setting boundaries and embracing silence-two strategies that seem simple but are incredibly powerful. This video is a wake-up call for anyone struggling with disrespect. Grateful for these timeless insights. 🙏
I love the emphasis on surrounding yourself with supportive people. It's a game-changer to have a circle that lifts you up instead of tearing you down. Thank you for reminding us that we have the power to choose who we allow into our lives!
I smile, thank them for their “wisdom” & walk away, never to be seen again ❤
It’s such a beautiful embodiment of the Stoic mindset, where you choose not to engage in unnecessary conflict, but rather, you reclaim your peace by stepping away with dignity. There’s something so empowering in that final gesture, where your silence says more than words ever could. It’s a reminder that true wisdom often lies in knowing when to walk away and choosing yourself above the noise.
Do you think that walking away leaves a stronger impression than confronting someone directly?
@@stoickingdomofficaldie how Jesus died
Don't die as a disbeliever
U apply the power of sarcasm. It works actually!
Ah, someone who has never worked in a company
Responding with silence is a powerful strategy. It forces the disrespectful person to face their actions while helping us stay calm and in control. Great approach for handling tense situations!
If I could only remember these teachings when the situation arises.
Yes. Me too
Right yesterday it happened to me and I said something back and then file a formal complaint.🎉
The fact that you acknowledge this difficulty already shows an incredible self-awareness and a desire for growth, which is a testament to your strength. We all have those moments where the wisdom we know seems just out of reach, but even in recognizing that, you are laying the foundation for future resilience. The beauty of Stoicism is that it's a journey, not a destination, and with every situation, we get a little better at embodying its principles.
Have you found any specific strategies that help you recall these teachings more easily when you're faced with challenging situations?
100 thumbs up 👍
Amen
This video is a powerful reminder that respect starts from within. Setting boundaries and prioritizing our self-worth can feel uncomfortable at first, but it's one of the most liberating acts we can do for ourselves. Thank you for sharing such practical and empowering wisdom! 🙌
Sometimes getting angry and aggressive works. It pushes these idiots back.
agree bite them sometimes
Assertiveness is much powerful than aggressiveness.. just need some understanding!!
Yes, need to give them the unexpected telling off when they take your silence for granted!
@@keilennhxjxjxiksbucbostaga388🤣🤣
Treating others how you wanted to be treated does not work with so many ……sadly.
The golden rule-treating others as we wish to be treated-often feels like a cornerstone of decency, but as you so insightfully pointed out, it doesn’t always yield the same in return. It can be disheartening when the kindness and respect we extend aren’t reciprocated, leaving us questioning the fairness of it all. Yet, your words remind us that while we can’t control how others behave, staying true to our principles is a testament to our strength and integrity. It’s a reflection of who we are, not of what we expect in return. Your observation speaks volumes about the complexity of human relationships, and the emotional weight it carries is deeply relatable.
Do you think there’s ever a time when we should change how we treat others or is staying consistent in our values always the better path?
@@stoickingdomofficaldie how Jesus died
Yes, they wont change and will take advantage and repeat😅
@@sindhugireesan5515 It’s a lesson many of us have had to learn, sometimes the hard way, that some individuals thrive on taking without giving, testing our patience and boundaries. Yet, your observation is empowering in its simplicity-understanding that we cannot change them, but we can protect ourselves by recognizing these patterns. There’s a quiet strength in your words, and it resonates deeply with the Stoic belief of focusing on what we can control: our own responses, not the actions of others.
Have you found that embracing this mindset of acceptance has helped you maintain more peace in your relationships?
@@stoickingdomofficalThe Good Book says, “Treat others the way you want to be treated,” but there is no promise written that others will do the same. It has taken me many years to understand this. At least we are doing what is asked of us to do, which is always the right thing to do. We are surely blessed by God Himself. Once I realized we are not doing it for a reward, my feelings no longer got hurt. 😊
Setting clear boundaries has been a game-changer for me. I used to let people walk all over me, but once I started speaking up, I noticed a huge shift in how they treated me. It's empowering to reclaim my self-respect. If you read this comment, I hope you find the courage to stand up for yourself too!
IAM THANK YOU
I agree, silence is golden.
Respect should be a universal law
I believe it is ❤
You are valued and loved. As long as I have breath, you will never be alone.
WE ARE NEVER ALONE GOD IS WALKING BY OUR SIDE AND IN THE END OF OUR LIFE GOD OPEN IS ARMS TO WELCOME YOU
For me, I disappear. When I am disrespected, I become a ghost. The person or people are dead to me physically and emotionally. I respect myself by keeping it moving like they do not exist and I do not exist to them, too.
I respect myself...silent is Golden!thank
Don't die as a disbeliever
@maxineb1975 🥰🥰
This video is a masterclass in reclaiming your self-worth. The blend of stoic wisdom and practical strategies is exactly what we need in today’s world. Respect truly does start from within. 💪✨
If small disrespect becomes a recurring issue, it could indicate a deeper problem
Respect stands for standing out for yourself not silence.
3:56 really made me think - focusing on controlling your own reaction instead of their actions is such a powerful reminder. It not only helps maintain calm but also protects our inner peace.
I think avoiding or ignoring is the best way to worth myself,& setting firm boundary around me to get rid of toxic people.
I go through this every day as a teacher
Stoicism teaches us that we can't control how others treat us, but we can control our response. It's powerful to realize that disrespect says more about them than it does about us. Focusing on our own peace and letting go of the need for validation frees us from unnecessary tension. The real strength lies in how we handle ourselves when others fall short of respect
I started boxing so i have the confidence to stand up to bullies who disrespect me. If they continue to, i invite them to the boxing ring in front of everyone. That shuts them up but some will never learn. They have too much time on their hands and are troubled.
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I like the express:
Speaking for yourself.
No matter what they have said or done, they are telling others: who they really are by the words or conducted.
This video is a powerful reminder that respect begins with the boundaries we set for ourselves. The stoic approach to handling disrespect feels empowering and grounded. Truly inspiring insights! 🙌
True respect , is far beyond the understanding of anyone who would be disrespectful to another . Do not explain yourself , do not try to convert them , be silent and walk away.
I had to cut ties with various family members who treated me with total disrespect and disregard. Now that they are out of my life, I feel whole again, and much more at peace within. It was worth it. No one should be treated like dirt for no reason whatsoever, and like it says here, their disrespect says more about them than it does about you. If you respect yourself first, others will see that.
As an autistic individual, I believe that people with special needs must be treated with respect just like anyone else. Every day at work, I have to deal with my slightly impatient co-worker. She sometimes makes the entire team miserable as they became accustomed to her behavior, but I stood up to her multiple times.
This video is a great reminder to not stoop so low to another's level when handling disrespectful. Sometimes it's better to back down than escalate the fight.
Right I just walked away from so many situations, places, relationships and more I just cut them out from my life because they don’t deserve me
They don’t know how to treat right and they don’t know how to work together and some people have trust issues with their own self.just walk away from any kind of disrespect, drama,negativity and stand up for yourself no matter who they are… God brings you to this world alone and takes you from this world alone between that who cares for disrespectful people let them live with their negativity.
It only workout if do all that minus Resentments and Judgmental ❤
Thank you, it was just a reminder for me, silence is how I treat people who tried and disrespected me.
SO DO I NO DRAMA JUST SILENCE
Don't connect with people who try to disrespect you. Silence is a great treatment.
Thank you for helping me reflect and stand my ground. I am getting stronger every day. Thank you again.
To firmly disconnect disrespect flow, I have disconnected from my wife, three adult children and fake toxic "friends". What a relief!!!
I know myself and i know when someone shows disrespect.
From me it will not be unanswered. No way.
Respect starts from within
As an elder with no money beyhond Social Security, I slmetmes need financial help from my Son.He judges me, interruprts, derides, and belittles me.I am in a powerless position.Sad.
That’s elder abuse. Try to do things you enjoy.
I am sorry..this is so sad..
How very sad indeed 😢 praying that your son has a change of heart, that the Love of God envelope you, may you know His PEACE that surpasses all human understanding 🙏
Do only one thing; Don't resent, don't resent, don't resent, just be plain spoken with kindness, patiently and FIRMNESS
That is elder abuse.
The way you incorporate daily life examples is brilliant.❤❤❤❤❤ 1:45
Yes! I silent is absulotely Powerfull! Thank you much greetings from Germany ❤❤❤
Thank you Lord for your blessings on me and my children husband and all my family and friends. I plead the blood of Jesus on my children and my life. Amen
The love you have for your family and the way you shield them with your prayers is a beautiful testament to your strength as a mother and as a person of faith. Your words carry so much hope and assurance, offering a sense of peace in knowing that, despite the challenges we face, we are never alone.
Do you feel that your faith has shaped the way you handle life’s more difficult moments, and if so, how has it strengthened your resolve?
IT IS NOT THE BLOOD OF JESUS YOU NEED TO BE ANOINTING BUT IS LOVE
I used to think I had to be treated disrespected because it came from my family, but realized I feel much happier away from them
My thoughts exactly. I have been exiting their presence rather than handle them
My family, they are so negative, that I don’t want to communicate with them
Family are the worst. We should be able to be ourselves around our family they should be the people who bring us up, but when they are not, we are allowing them to strips away who we really are.
But how to know whether someone disrespected me because of my own action or behavior which he/ she did not like? At time I don't respond believing that ' one should COMMAND and and not DEMAND respect.
@@estellagonzales3090that's is exactly how I feel.thank you.❤
I appreciate your support of me! Thanks so much!
Set clear boundaries repeated in 1 and 5
Don't die as a disbeliever
I never let people talk over me
Thank you for this video. It has been confirmed that my actions are the best way to deal with disrespect. I wouldn't say I like disrespect, disadvantage, theft, lying, and cheating. Everything you said is a fact. This video blessed me. I followed your RUclips channel.
Small town life has always seemed was worse when being respected then working with the public and having a large family made it more complicated. I was always taught to be respectful to others and please especially your elders. I am 71 now and these last 2 years something has switched in my life especially when most of the people i needed to escape from happens to be close relitives. I have always been popular in my family my school years and was pretty happy . I decided that i am not the boy one who feels they have lived their lives for others . I’m glad to see i’m not alone and how to be comfortable in my own skin is sad seems to be you are a villain even with in your own family. especially your spouse of 50ish years and your adult child , I am regrouping and this video which i happened to see at a most genuine time Thank you I’m excited about being free and i’m not lonely actually if i were single i think i would welcome it. Life is too short not to enjoy the good things that are the simple things in life that appearantly , others don’t realize I’m done with the apologies! no need to explain! yes! Now i know some of my best times were with old pets or strangers. 😊
You have to learn how to “quit people.”
Not holding a grudge, not feeling upset, you are just done.
Be cordial if you have to talk to them.
𝑰 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔
If you have live a life of being strong and as you retreat away from interactions whit people you sometimes feel like you have betrayal people who have relied on your strength and walking away is sometime a great burden is shearing your strength and what you have learned not to be sheared and is this not what you are doing ask yourself are you not your brother keeper we all go through life going through the bad and good that is in us all
I learned the hard way to stop telling people my plans. They will always look for something. It's better to walk in silence.
I Never Use To See All This Videos And Believe Me i Am Today What This Video Has Presented 🙏 really Felt Very Happy For Knowing That There Are People And its a different Universe Which Makes people like us to Bring together ❤.
Respect starts from within. I love how this video emphasizes maintaining your composure ❤❤
I had a group of friends that I knew for a long time and the disrespect and toxicity grew over time, I distanced myself for awhile and started hanging out with new friends. One of them eventually said so negative things about me and my new friends, so I blocked him on everything. He immediately was trying to appologize through ither friends and I never gave any word back, did look back and just ignored it, and Im in a much better place because if it. Im now having a similar situation with 1 friend with similar behavior but a different situation that will ignore me/not listen to what I have to say and not take acclunability for thier actions, and Im getting vwry close to the point of just blocking them amd not lookimg back. I have no time or energy for people that expect my time but dont respect me or my opinions 🖐
Thank you, it makes perfect sense 😊
Thank you for sharing this wisdom…such an excellent reminder
Such insightful analysis! Thanks to this video, I appreciate the philosophy of Stoicism even more. I hope everyone watching this finds balance and peace within their souls! ❤
Thank You, your absolutely correct, from your title. Yes. It is a smart way. To just remove yourself completely out of their lives
"By the end of this video you will have the confidence" - plenty of contradictions over these 15 min. Silence does not earn you respect, the doc says, but 3 or 4 minutes later "responding with silence can often speak louder than any words." Times have a-changed since stoicism began, Jay The Stoic. Word to the wise: the ads do nothing for credibility.
Very useful advice! Sometimes we need to stay calm and not let others affect our mood
If you react, your energy extract.😊
8:00 This video is incredibly insightful and helpful! Approaching disrespect from a Stoic perspective shows how patience and calm are key. Sometimes, encountering disrespectful people is inevitable, but these tips help me understand how to maintain my dignity and not let others disrupt my inner peace. Thank you for sharing
Most of what u said describes jealous and insecure people
Setting clear boundaries is essential when dealing with disrespect. By calmly and assertively defining what behavior is acceptable, you communicate your self-respect and create a standard for how others should treat you
EXCELLENT STOIC ADVICE!
This is a truly helpful video! It provides practical and inspiring strategies, reinforced by Stoic philosophy, to empower viewers to confidently face challenging situations where they are disrespected.
Leave in silence ❤❤❤❤
"You should not let their behavior dictate your emotions" Some people have toxic, infective vibes and makes this particular piece of advice difficult. But Jesus gives grace when we keep trying and eventually we will notice they are not getting under our skin as they used to.
Psalms 15 4-5
He that sweareth to his own hurt and changeth not......he that doeth these things, shall never be moved
Takes practice
I learned these rules the hard way over life. I stopped defending myself. No one needs to know why I do what I do.
Like they use to say ,family looks only good on the picture, stay away from disrespected family, i do some i dont talk for years some occasional on the phone never go to their houses, and we will never go .
Thank you. I needed to hear this today. You awesome
God create all things wise and wonderful. Amen.
"Nothing is permanent, not even pain."
I live with my family after all this years I’m
Always the one any way th thank you for your share
Your resilience shines through, and the grace with which you acknowledge this speaks volumes about your character. Thank you for sharing your perspective, as it’s a reminder of the silent strength many people carry within their families, often without recognition. Have you found that this role you’ve taken on has helped shape your understanding of respect and self-worth in ways you didn’t expect?
Disrespectful people, does not have self confidence, jealousy is demonstrated in Disrespect..walk away,keep walking...
Narcissist only respect money. So there is that.
This video is incredibly empowering! The strategies shared here are not only practical but also deeply grounded in wisdom. Thank you for providing such valuable insights on handling disrespect.
ALSO ITS FREE
Very helpful information and advice Thanks sir
Thank you! I can't change people but I can learn to influence how they react to me. It's real magic
Excellent advice! ❤
The best way of dealing with people who do not respect you is for you to not respect them.
No, don't lower yourself to their level
2 wrongs don’t make a right ❤
Great thank you.
So helpful, I found this video and your channel exactly when I needed it most...right now🙏Thank you so much for your wise words🌻
Your gratitude shines through, a reminder of how powerful and transformative shared knowledge can be. Your connection with the content speaks to your openness and readiness to embrace these Stoic principles, which will undoubtedly serve you well as you move forward.
Has a particular piece of Stoic wisdom resonated with you the most during this time?
@@stoickingdomoffical Thank you so much for your reply🌻I am still and actually increasingly working on focusing and changing my reactions rather than wearing myself out by (vainly!) trying to control the actions of others. My goal is to be better able to pause, think and then respond when I choose to - no more conditioned and fear/hurt based reactions that don't serve me at all. Your channel is full of gems so I did dive right in....Glad to have found you...thanks again for spreading your knowledge, encouragement and support🙏🌹
@@RChH24 The way you’ve expressed your desire to shift from reactive, emotion-driven responses to thoughtful, deliberate actions is a perfect reflection of the Stoic mindset. It takes immense courage and self-awareness to recognize that real power comes from within-choosing when and how to respond, rather than letting others dictate your emotional state. The path you’re on, of mastering your inner world, is not easy, but it is profoundly rewarding, and it’s wonderful to see that you’ve found value in the knowledge shared here. Your presence in this community adds richness, and your openness to share is a true gift.
𝑴𝒆 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒂𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒄𝒕
Same here
everything is well said.if I've learned this before, I couldn't be sick this day, by rebuttling, when my feelings n thoughts are disregarded n disrespected.
Thank you need to hear that
Thank you for sharing your teaching and skills. I appreciate it.
Thank you I love this guy smart
Respect is a two way street .
Number 6 really hit home for me.
After watching the video, I learned how to set boundaries and avoid power struggles. Thank you for the useful strategies!