7 Red Flags In A Job Interview - Signs of a Bad Employer

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  • @BrigetteHyacinth
    @BrigetteHyacinth  3 года назад +318

    Don't let anyone clip your wings. You were born to soar! You deserve to be happy. Thanks for watching! 𝗗𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗼 like and 𝘀𝘂𝗯𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘃𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗼𝘀. T𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗸 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 🥰

    • @loisehinga8873
      @loisehinga8873 3 года назад +5

      Brigette wanted an opinion on this, went for an interview and it was weird the lady interviewing me she had not gone through my cv at all, she told me so. She asked me to tell her about myself then asked me how much is my salary expectations and wanted to hire me immediately because she liked my energy.Remember she had not read my cv and also there was no job description indicated on the job posts hence had to ask then another red flag during the interview, her staff walked in and she allowed it and started asking for a day off infront of me and she was declined, imagine in the middle of an interview.

    • @BrigetteHyacinth
      @BrigetteHyacinth  3 года назад +4

      @@loisehinga8873 Very weird indeed and unprofessional. Does the company have any reviews on Glassdoor?

    • @CTSpeed413
      @CTSpeed413 3 года назад +3

      Love this! (Don’t let anyone clip your wings; don’t love the awkward interview. Had to add that for clarity. )

    • @murielharley764
      @murielharley764 3 года назад +3

      @@loisehinga8873 Wow. I would have wanted to run out of there. They actually did you a favor by showing their toxic behavior instead of painting a rosy picture, only for you to find out after you came to work there.

    • @loisehinga8873
      @loisehinga8873 3 года назад

      @@BrigetteHyacinth no they don't have, had to check that one out

  • @starbyheart
    @starbyheart 3 года назад +323

    Some jobs show these red flags quickly but in my last job, they were slowly revealed that at 2 years, I got out because everything was getting toxic. Now, I am at a job that appreciates me, pays well, and no micromanaging. It is possible

    • @f21rodrz41
      @f21rodrz41 3 года назад +9

      This gives me hope. I also left a toxic job even though it paid very well, but it was severely affecting my health. I have been without a job for almost six months and all the interviews show all these toxic red flags. So no Thank you!

    • @harmony3279
      @harmony3279 3 года назад +4

      @@f21rodrz41 How do you survive?

    • @YouTubePurgetheblackplague
      @YouTubePurgetheblackplague 3 года назад +15

      I have kept falling into these jobs since my internships in college. Toxic companies are everywhere.

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      @YouTubePurgetheblackplague 3 года назад

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    • @Bells2141
      @Bells2141 2 года назад +5

      Truth! Ones that eventually show themselves are so tricky! I am in that situation now. Had some intuition when I first started, but thought I’d I worked hard and kept my head down all would work out. But after seeing a manager cuss someone out, three leadership walkouts, and poor project management I see I need to leave. Been the most stressful 2 years of my life

  • @pateltarun3849
    @pateltarun3849 3 года назад +131

    My recent experience says that Micro management is not good for a employee as it demotivates them and decreases their morale.

    • @liesloliver-burger3253
      @liesloliver-burger3253 3 года назад +16

      Micromanagement is undermining and demotivating and fails to allow true potential to develop in an employee.

    • @pateltarun3849
      @pateltarun3849 3 года назад +1

      @@liesloliver-burger3253 very true

    • @chekwubedominic5931
      @chekwubedominic5931 3 года назад +1

      hello i will like to have a conversation with you

    • @PhaMa1002
      @PhaMa1002 3 года назад +8

      It's horrible and my recent company I was micromanaged so bad for so long that I quit. It was taking a serious toll on my mental health so I had to choose myself first.

    • @thelazycrafter4u
      @thelazycrafter4u 2 года назад +1

      It was so bad it made me quit a job and according to my boss I was not "trying hard enough".

  • @intermanus1118
    @intermanus1118 3 года назад +100

    The one phrase I hated at my last job was "Stay in your Lane!"

    • @davidodinga3721
      @davidodinga3721 3 года назад +4

      I don't know how to do it either

    • @lisashaw6067
      @lisashaw6067 3 года назад +11

      I agree Donald! My last job I was told to stay in my lane all the time! I was banned from asking questions or questioning the lack of procedures and processes.

    • @latinobandido7471
      @latinobandido7471 3 года назад +1

      Amazing right? Be average like the rest of us lol. See yaaaaa.

    • @keciaaskew5166
      @keciaaskew5166 2 года назад

      @@lisashaw6067 When I voiced my concerns about what is going on, they told me I’m still on probation and I’m not allow to voice my concerns or ask any questions.

  • @kezlakez
    @kezlakez 3 года назад +257

    I think the bad employers are the ones disliking this video. 😂
    Thanks for sharing, Brigette.

  • @shanwilliams9222
    @shanwilliams9222 3 года назад +56

    I remember a manager telling me “ don’t let your initiative get you in trouble “

    • @mikaelamorley8658
      @mikaelamorley8658 3 года назад +4

      I've had this one too. Usually followed by "be more proactive" 🤷‍♀️

    • @adeolaoke4165
      @adeolaoke4165 11 месяцев назад

      meaning please?

  • @raphaeldechichi7501
    @raphaeldechichi7501 3 года назад +19

    If someone offers you an amzing opportunity and you're not sure you can do it, say yes then learn how to do it later. Go where you are celebrated, not tolerated. If they can’t see the real value of you, it’s time for a new start.

  • @jilanieh
    @jilanieh 2 года назад +23

    “One bad employer can set you back in your career.” This unfortunately happened to me

    • @keciaaskew5166
      @keciaaskew5166 2 года назад +2

      One bad employer had set me back in my career. And was begging me to stay. And didn’t wanted me to grow as a person.

    • @dankmanchill
      @dankmanchill Год назад +7

      You're not alone. I had a great resume 6 months ago having worked at a company for 4 years, accepted a job offer for another bigger company since they offered a higher OTE, and ended up quitting 4 months later because of how toxic it turned out to be. Didn't have another job lined up (it was so bad, I had to get out ASAP). I've been unemployed for a little over 3 months now and have found it difficult to get any offers after making it to the final rounds. Every interview gets me closer to my dream opportunity. Got to have faith

    • @Sass2000Cass
      @Sass2000Cass 3 месяца назад

      Me too. I was abused and harassed in my last job enough that I should have filed a police report. Now setting foot inside a similar job environment is still unsettling to me. I know I will overcome it and will be suing the individual who did this to me.

  • @kimshulman3018
    @kimshulman3018 2 года назад +48

    Thank you for this video. One red flag that has always held up for me is when the interviewer says that the work group is "like a family". I run as soon as I hear those words. I just left a toxic environment to set up my own practice and work for myself. Fingers crossed! I appreciate you.

    • @keciaaskew5166
      @keciaaskew5166 2 года назад

      I had that during an interview as well. When the interviewer said to me that work group is like a family. I’ve should’ve had seen the red flags sooner. And now I’m stuck at a toxic environment.

  • @RachelSDay1982
    @RachelSDay1982 3 года назад +125

    I've experienced most of these situations in the workplace. Those "urgently hiring" ones you really have to watch for. Thanks again for confirming what I know to be true, and thanks for the encouragement!! 😊

    • @programmer4life
      @programmer4life 3 года назад +5

      Yes I agee on "urgent hiring one".
      I just recently turned off a 3rd interview for a potential start-up company. I did some more research for the 3rd research - turns out the employee churn was very high. Almost whole team had changed within 2 years. Also, no transparancy over estimated salaries (no estimations given at 3rd interview!). They had almost 2M$ venture capital funding, which made it even more weird. Another red flag was that very little revenue generated after several years with the product. If the company has a working product for many years, why revenue is not being generated? This is a huge, huge red flag, as it can indicate no real value preposition (all companies like to think their solution equivalent to cancer cure), but is their solution (product) REALLY benefitting the customer if it is generating almost no revenue? If it's a good product nonetheless, there could be another major issue with strategy of sales/marketing, which tells that the CEO/Founders/COs don't know their drill or the market fit is just not right.
      What saved me (dodged the bullet)?
      Intuition.
      If you feel even the slightest that something is off, do all you can to research all you can. You don't want to get baited on bad company and ultimately get burnt.

    • @andrewm4537
      @andrewm4537 2 года назад +2

      it saddens me to say that a new person is going to start at the place i resigned from recently - He was offered the job on the day of the interview - he clearly has not seen this video - this organisation is short staffed and BLOODY TOXIC

    • @wvanderwahl
      @wvanderwahl 2 года назад

      So true. I made that mistake once. The hiring manager, the VP of sales was in rush and basically gave me a deadline to accept the position.

    • @KittenBowl1
      @KittenBowl1 Год назад +1

      @@andrewm4537 He would learn his lesson soon. Maybe by now he’s looking for a new job as it’s such a toxic environment.

  • @mariahaeschlimann7910
    @mariahaeschlimann7910 3 года назад +33

    "...Ill-fitting chicken suit..." and "I was too driven for that organization..." - WELL SAID!

    • @sandrairby5758
      @sandrairby5758 3 года назад +1

      I have experienced the "too driven for the organization" recently. A manager with little vision and disregard for employees needs is simply a place to leave in your rear view mirror.

  • @tevaristorres8535
    @tevaristorres8535 2 года назад +12

    The rude and dismissive interviewer was my experience at my last job. I didn't get the promotion thank God but a month later a Top 5 employer interviewed me and they were fantastic! Great energy in the next interview and they called me the next day with a bomb Offer with multiple promotions! Honestly, I'm grateful for the rude interview...they blessed me and now I'm working in my dream job!

  • @rayadmendez9617
    @rayadmendez9617 3 года назад +23

    I wish I had seen this some years ago. I found myself in a terrible position and whn I reflected on the interview I realized that I there were a lot of red flags. Good news is I have learned my lesson.

  • @captainamericamarvel8199
    @captainamericamarvel8199 3 года назад +30

    Attended 9 IVews and all failed, finally i manage to secure a job at my 10 Ivew. One of the largest O&G company in the world. I always believe dont give up and keep trying. Remember god has a better plan for us.

  • @italyfrance3388
    @italyfrance3388 3 года назад +31

    I worked in a toxic organisation for 5 years.They are the worst but I won't give up Brigette.One day I'll be a boss and treat my employees how I wanted to be treated.

    • @BrigetteHyacinth
      @BrigetteHyacinth  3 года назад +6

      Well said. I like how you a turning your negative situation into a learning experience to become a better leader. 👏

    • @charmelizabeth8584
      @charmelizabeth8584 3 года назад +3

      That is what I said Italy France. You got out earlier than I did. I was in my toxic work environment for several years. I finally started exploring careers, and now I am happy with the career path I am studying :-)
      I haven't landed a job yet, but I think I will eventually with new skills I am working on.
      With you on your last point about if you become a boss, you will treat your employees great!

  • @jeffreyvalenzo
    @jeffreyvalenzo 3 года назад +94

    Great video! I left a job as their usual line was "we always did it this way" and they were never willing to change for the greater good. Definitely micromanaging and toxic environment too. You pointed out a lot of realistic truths.

    • @violinogirl
      @violinogirl 2 года назад +2

      Yes, that is so true. My very last full time job was just like this. They had us to write suggestions, goals and what would help the company to stand out... But any suggestions made were never heard. When I spoke from their few faithful vendors perspective, and I knew theirs were valid inputs, the manager just gave us deaf ears. But my group chat was chiming all the time, very controlling. Then some employees, who wanted to keep their job, turned having a narcissist attitude. It was a toxic environment. When I asked for support, i was burnt out, working almost 15 hours a day, they told me "you are just complaining". I was fired, the exit letter said "behavior issues". I laughed. The owner said "you are a great employee but not a good fit for our company". I sought professional counseling, took a break from job hunting, and let the universe to show me what it had for me. I am happy now working on my own, at the same time networking put me in places I thought it was impossible to reach in my career. I prayed God to send me jobs. He did it and still doing it.

    • @keciaaskew5166
      @keciaaskew5166 2 года назад +1

      @@violinogirl I’m going through the same exact thing. I’ve been at this job for over 6 months, and most of the times the teachers I’ve work with have the narcissists attitude. One of the teachers was forcing me to stay because she’s been at this job for 15 years. And she got upset at me because I’m going to put my week notice in December. And told me that cannot be too nice at this job and that I have to stay quiet and do my work. The teachers I’ve work with are very controlling, and will not support me whatsoever. And the teachers will have conversations among themselves. And act like I don’t even exist. The company fired the supervisor because of a child’s expensive coat.

    • @violinogirl
      @violinogirl 2 года назад

      @@keciaaskew5166 I hope everything turn out well for you. Keep it going. A small step leads to greatest paths.

    • @keciaaskew5166
      @keciaaskew5166 2 года назад +1

      @@violinogirl I rather be jobless than to deal with a toxic job environment.

  • @AlexGreeneHypnotist
    @AlexGreeneHypnotist 3 года назад +216

    Thank you for the final comment about being jobless.
    It really is better for your health, integrity and well-being to be unemployed than to work for a disgusting toxic work environment. Glassdoor is definitely on your side here.

    • @rjtries
      @rjtries 3 года назад +11

      Ever almost been homeless, lose everytihng and take 20 years to get back to where you should be? Sometimes you need to do what you have to do...

    • @bva5362
      @bva5362 3 года назад +11

      @@rjtries sad to, some people have no choice but to settle for a toxic job until something better comes along.

    • @rjtries
      @rjtries 3 года назад +4

      It may be sad but it's called being mature and doing what u need to do. Today's wokeism is toxic ....so most places have now become toxic as they become more 'tolerant'

    • @harmony3279
      @harmony3279 3 года назад +2

      Tell that to the homeless people i see in Southside Atlanta

    • @rjtries
      @rjtries 3 года назад +1

      @@harmony3279 right!!

  • @mfpix
    @mfpix 3 года назад +54

    I remember going for an interview and the HR lady was 45 minutes late. When she finally turned up she told me that the interview would have to be brief as she was short of time. I don't think she appreciated my response that it was not my fault.

    • @latinobandido7471
      @latinobandido7471 3 года назад +4

      I got one too. Went to an interview at global luxury handbag company corporate position to be told, the VP is too busy today. Ah, thank you for telling me person? I left shaking in anger. What a waste of two hours.

    • @florenceashford6861
      @florenceashford6861 2 года назад +9

      Got to speak to a hiring manager like this too. Was terse from the beginning of the interview until the end. Five minutes to the interview, wouldn't stop complaining about how the interview was running "late", and I'm sat there thinking, "Should.I just leave while you hire your referral, then?" The person who interviewed me before her was much nicer and more.professional. However, when I asked her what the best thing was about working in the company, she said, "I'm actually leaving in a month."
      With a hiring manager like that, I can see why you'd want to leave too.

    • @catehastings128
      @catehastings128 2 года назад +1

      Good job!!

    • @tianathompson9359
      @tianathompson9359 Год назад +4

      I had one where she was completely a no show. I emailed her 10 minutes in and she got back to me hours later saying she forget to put it on her calendar and if we can reschedule. I agreed and once again.... she was late. She emailed me at the 5 minute mark saying she will be on and she's just finishing a call. After 15 minutes I got off and said I wasn't interested. She didn't reply back until an hour. Her lack of care for my time told me all I needed to know.

    • @KittenBowl1
      @KittenBowl1 9 месяцев назад

      I went a company’s interview where a young future colleague came late for 20 min but the manager came on time. I think whenever ANYONE comes late to an external people involved meeting such as an interview, customer meeting or vendor meeting, they’re being extremely disrespectful. There’s no exception to the rule. Every time anyone comes late to any meeting involving people outside of an organization and especially an interview we should run the other way. I learned in a hard way. But I know now.

  • @t7147
    @t7147 3 года назад +25

    I had an interview that had a number of these red flags including being late (then wanting to cut it short because they were going to miss the bus), being dismissive, and then the red flag for me was them explaining that they were looking for someone who could convince the company to find their projects useful because people weren't really liking how the systems worked. It was such a bizarre interview that the director who interviewed me was fired 3 weeks later.

    • @keciaaskew5166
      @keciaaskew5166 2 года назад +2

      My job didn’t give me a lunch break until 4pm because the supervisor told me that she had a 1:30 meeting, and did not wanted to miss the meeting. And being dismissive, therefore I had to deal with 9 (2 year old children by myself). That can’t even defend themselves.

  • @lindab2426
    @lindab2426 2 года назад +15

    I really needed this to video to confirm what I was seeing as a toxic, micromanaging work environment. I’ve since left this job and trusting the Lord for a better job. Bless you for sharing your wealth of experience.

    • @HidNTrackz
      @HidNTrackz Год назад +1

      How did it work out? Did you find anything?

    • @lindab2426
      @lindab2426 Год назад +1

      @@HidNTrackz Found something better😁

    • @HidNTrackz
      @HidNTrackz Год назад

      @@lindab2426 great job... 👍🏾 👌🏾 👏 I'm going through the same thing currently. Interviewing like crazy, hopefully soon!

  • @danielongoya9647
    @danielongoya9647 3 года назад +58

    Your videos have really built my career. Thanks for this too

  • @rebdyck
    @rebdyck 3 года назад +28

    Where were you when I started in the workforce 30 years ago! Love your advice. Thanks so much for what you do. :)

  • @frdon177
    @frdon177 3 года назад +7

    "I am the Boss." Excellent point--get away from that!

  • @antoniodelfino5936
    @antoniodelfino5936 3 года назад +37

    Great video. Unfortunately, many companies are paying low salaries, and pushing you to the edge, with an employee shortage, that makes you work during weekends too

  • @elizabethcrowley3340
    @elizabethcrowley3340 Год назад +3

    Would love to see similar tips for remote interviews, when a candidate can't get a sense of the physical space. Thanks for these vids!

  • @mrs.britt.s
    @mrs.britt.s 3 года назад +24

    Also wanted to mention. I went on an interview and the manager said upfront there is Mandatory OT 10 hours weekly. So I attempted to negotiate my rate and they would not budge. Why pay overtime and not increase the starting rate. 🚩

  • @danyos777
    @danyos777 3 года назад +10

    Being jobless is the best thing that can happen to a person!
    I have opportunities that otherwise we would not had if I was fully employed full-time.
    I’ve had the opportunity to be and share more with my family, develop my skills by not practicing shallow learning but deep learning, and reassess my life and career towards growing both personally and professionally.
    It gave me the opportunity to move from a rat race to a more entrepreneurial path!
    It is all about our EQ; our attitude, patiences, faith, and resilience!

  • @beilastoy3601
    @beilastoy3601 3 года назад +46

    Spot on Bridgette. I recently just moved from a job where I was working as legal officer of one company but also managing the other subsidiaries for the same meager pay! It is three man department and I worked my so much, I started spending my personal funds for office duties. I quit two weeks ago and I am job hunting but it has to be a very good company that is not toxic and need valuable hands like me in their Legal department

    • @beilastoy3601
      @beilastoy3601 3 года назад +1

      Sorry for the typos

    • @BrigetteHyacinth
      @BrigetteHyacinth  3 года назад +14

      @@beilastoy3601 Spending your own funds on office duties. Ridiculous. Glad you are no longer there. You will get something better.

    • @tshifhiwarasiluma5020
      @tshifhiwarasiluma5020 3 года назад +1

      Well done for standing in your power! You deserve better 🙏🏽

    • @keciaaskew5166
      @keciaaskew5166 2 года назад +1

      @@BrigetteHyacinth I’m in the same exact boat when there is me and two other teachers in the classroom. As soon as I arrive to the classroom, they want me to do everything, especially the lead teacher. Like the teacher would text me sometimes and ask me to buy her food, and I would have to come out of my pocket to spend my personal funds on the teachers, especially the lead teacher. And the teacher would boss me around and tell me what to do. And I’m always burned out physically and mentally, I’ve been at this job for over 6 months, no room for growth or advancement. I’m leaving the job in December. I’m still job hunting at the same time. And I rather work in a company that is not toxic, and need to appreciate me for my hard work as a teacher.

    • @shaydseka
      @shaydseka 10 месяцев назад

      Lawyers can be one toxic lot. Glad you chose to move.

  • @paulmattox6039
    @paulmattox6039 2 года назад +8

    For my first job interview that I had, the regional supervisor who was supposed to interview me was late even though I arrived on time. I let it slide and we met an hour or two later and I got the job, but I probably should have taken that as a bad sign. Another job that I applied for promised me a phone interview, and that they would call me. The day and time arrived, but no call. This time I didn't let it slide; I didn't want to even bother talking to them this time. I have no dating experience, but I see it kind of like dating now - if the employer doesn't want to commit to hiring you and stands you up, you shouldn't commit to them either.

  • @marclinelazarus9808
    @marclinelazarus9808 3 года назад +29

    Thank you, you are so motivational. You are blessings, may your store basket never be empty.!!!

    • @BrigetteHyacinth
      @BrigetteHyacinth  3 года назад +4

      Thanks Marcline. I appreciate the kind words. May God richly bless you. 😊

  • @marliesajohnson5789
    @marliesajohnson5789 3 года назад +12

    I knew that I wasn't the only one who looked bathroom and break room lol. Thanks Brigette 😊

  • @andypainter8611
    @andypainter8611 3 года назад +18

    Great video. However the no amount of money bit.
    You still need to have an income to pay bills. I do agree it's not worth staying in a toxic environment, to this end i would say update your CV then send out to companies who are hiring and in the mean time start learning new things and continue to self develop you will find something new in the end.

  • @Earlo45
    @Earlo45 3 года назад +35

    In a recent interview they asked me if I had a girlfriend, am I married, where I live, and who am I living with. I felt uncomfortable and embarrassed. I answered them anyway because I though it was the right thing to do during an interview .
    Thank you for your video, it's helpful eye-opener.

    • @BrigetteHyacinth
      @BrigetteHyacinth  3 года назад +12

      Wow Unbelievable! They were on a roll. It's good how you handled this. It showed you have high EI. Earl, stay focused and keep moving forward. You will get something better.

    • @Shannete572
      @Shannete572 2 года назад +11

      The interviewer ask me the same thing too too if I was married, has kids, and if I had a husband too. I told the interviewer that it’s none of your business what does that have to do about the interview

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 2 года назад

      @@Shannete572 If you answer them that way, you’ll definitely not get the job. They’ll label you as “combative & uncooperative or defensive.” I understand it’s a very personal question 🙋🏽‍♀️ Perhaps, they asked because they’re trying to weed out single candidates who might have family emergencies or single candidates who might have affairs with each other while working. I don’t know 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Shannete572
      @Shannete572 2 года назад

      @@Melanated483 that’s true

    • @Princess-gy5kx
      @Princess-gy5kx 11 месяцев назад +1

      a person doesn’t need to answer that . end of interview .

  • @catehastings128
    @catehastings128 2 года назад +3

    Brigette, thank you for sharing truth. I landed a remote job with one of the premiere Pharma companies. They lied 🤥 about every aspect of the role. Then fired me and told me I was incompetent. First time I had ever been told this. The truth was they hired me as a placeholder for headcount and the week their budget was approved released me. The lying hurt, what hurt most was the disregard toward me as a fellow human, experienced colleague, and outstanding employee. It has taken me 3 months to recover from this bushwhacking.

    • @catherinegreen1152
      @catherinegreen1152 Год назад +1

      This is a way to embezzle resources; you were the bate with nuf other things. Do not worry about the lie - if a prospective employer can think logical, they'll solve the equation.

  • @mikaelamorley8658
    @mikaelamorley8658 3 года назад +6

    Wish I'd seen this before I started my last job. Also, use your gut. I ignored my instinct that it was a bad place and paid the price. But you can get out and not everywhere is bad.
    Thank you Brigette, your messages and tips helped me keep faith to get out of a toxic environment for a much better position without panicking and running to somewhere just as bad. Thank you.

    • @keciaaskew5166
      @keciaaskew5166 2 года назад

      Me too, I’ve wished I’d seen this video before starting this job that I’m at in May. I’ve should’ve went with my gut feeling, but I ignored all the signs because I needed a job so badly. And the place is so bad, the pay is horrible, and the people and the culture is so bad.

  • @daphnegabriel6767
    @daphnegabriel6767 3 года назад +10

    You nailed it Brigette Hyacinth. I worked for gov't and now retired, but one must have a list of red flag observations to pursue a dream job. Keeping one's eyes and ears open to the gist of the interview is key. Presently, I sit on boards to enhance those experiences. Left our homeland at preteen, but enjoy the warmth and exuberance of the people on visits.

  • @coryrhoades5153
    @coryrhoades5153 2 года назад +1

    Funny you mention managers having different uniforms than employees. I'm a remote employee (sales engineer) and only noticed this during the recent trade shows. Management wear full suits, normal employees wear company polo's. Didn't think much about it at the time.
    Great video Brigette! Glad I found it on your linkedin :)

  • @colinpierre-campo3319
    @colinpierre-campo3319 3 года назад +2

    Complete analyst of improper conditions. Well done Brigette. Educational..

  • @A.Bass00
    @A.Bass00 Год назад +3

    It's sad that when you are polite to members of your work culture and perhaps say "your welcome" and was met with "If your fishing for a thank you, just know I don't work that way."

  • @soochinhock4784
    @soochinhock4784 3 года назад +6

    Brigette is right, on the first day I joined a company, when I was led to my place, I realise the chair was broken. I talked to the GM about the chair, and she told me, she will look into it. After a few days of inaction, I found myself a chair. There were other incidents too. I left after two years as the situation doesn't change and even when I didn't have any job. :(

  • @marypatton2929
    @marypatton2929 2 года назад +2

    I really enjoyed this video and shared on LinkedIn. I recently was engaged with a company that literally had all 7 red flags. After the one interview, I got in my car and texted immediately that it would NOT be a place/company I would be pursuing, or dedicate any further consideration, for employment. I am glad you made this video, it empowers people that would otherwise waste time and hopefully bring awareness to employers. Excellent!

  • @blurayen313
    @blurayen313 2 года назад +1

    Oh I worked for an organization where EVERYONE was related. Management also parked close the building while understaff had to park a block away and walk..even in the winter. They also made me feel like an outcast because of my previous employer and my supervisor is a narcissist who feels women have a certain place. Upper management played favorites. Even got suspended when I was threatened by a male staff. He was able to come in the next day. I was suspended with no pay and I did nothing wrong. I cried daily at my desk and hid how I felt. Left as soon as I could. Left for one bad place for another...everyone is unhappy and turnover is high. .they hired me for my expertise and won't allow me to do what I'm great at ....thanks for this vid. I needed this as I start my search for happiness again.

  • @unmiss-com
    @unmiss-com 3 года назад +6

    I truly agree

  • @RoyJ63
    @RoyJ63 3 года назад +5

    The first thing I always do when I've started at an employer is to renovate the employee lunch rooms and bathrooms, followed by any other facilities. My view was that if you want to attain employee engagement, then you need to show that you respect them by giving them facilities that you yourself would want. The other thing was to renovate reception areas when funds were available. Basically to create an environment where we were presenting ourselves, "On show and ready to go."

  • @catiecain9696
    @catiecain9696 3 года назад +10

    This is so similar to my experience! Thank you Brigette!

  • @catherinegreen1152
    @catherinegreen1152 3 года назад +7

    Madam, both of us are speaking the same languages here!!! When you make suggestions for improvement - they ask; are you the director? The leaders in the company displayed horrible body languages when communicating to their low level support. It is just sick, I had to respond to a prospective employer - the interview would be a balance one if these personal questions were not asked. I list them and made suggestions on how to navigate the uncomfortable situation to make candidates feel more appreciation of their time to come to the interview.

  • @user-xw9nv9iv1p
    @user-xw9nv9iv1p Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing..Many times, I found recruiters behaving as "the boss" even in interviews. Since they are hiring, so they believe only they have right to question and assess candidates, but they forget that they are representing their organisations, and their behaviour reflects their organisation culture. They, generally, dont like to be put an awkward question, and reply negatively. Once an interviewer, literally shouted at me for replying wrong answer. I was actually shocked, he could have said that my reply wasn't correct, instead of frowning and shouting at me that I don't know certain thing and want to be hired and paid by them. I never went back to that org for interview again.
    Regarding wait time, once I waited for 4 hrs, only to be told by them that I have been purposefully kept at the end of the list to test my patience. It was a very reputed organisation, and I never expected such behaviour.

  • @beccaroberts1171
    @beccaroberts1171 3 года назад +1

    You're amazing Brigette! Thank you for this video. It makes me feel confident again that I did the right thing by declining the job I recently had an interview. Most of what you mentioned was what I saw and heard at this employer.

  • @allisonpehleman566
    @allisonpehleman566 3 года назад +2

    Thank you, Brigette! It has been over 15 months since the pandemic and I don't want to make the same mistakes I have before. I wish I had known this before, but now I am better equipped! I WILL find that great job.

  • @peachy4147
    @peachy4147 3 года назад +5

    I've been following you on LinkedIn, but just started watching your videos. I didn't realize you're Trini! ❤🇹🇹 Thanks for sharing your knowledge with the world.

  • @sherryhedenberg2549
    @sherryhedenberg2549 3 года назад +2

    I applied through a staffing agency in Jun 2021. Last week the hiring manager had computer issues and could not sign on to a video interview - I waited 15 minutes past the start time and NO SHOW. Never got a call or email saying so. This week I signed on for the video interview and again - NO SHOW! Again, no communication from the hiring manager about not showing up. I told the 3rd party recruiter to withdraw my application for the role. If the situation were reversed, they would say that they don't want anything to do with this candidate. I don't like the way I was treated and do not want to work for a company such as this, no matter how much I need a job.

  • @laiasun
    @laiasun 3 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for your video, Brigette. I have a video interview in 40 minutes and I'vee written down some of the questions you just mentioned and I'll make sure to ask them. You're amazing!

  • @labroshatzilabrou2442
    @labroshatzilabrou2442 3 года назад +5

    All great points! Spot on!

  • @minitachattergoon395
    @minitachattergoon395 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

  • @nicolenoel2890
    @nicolenoel2890 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this amazing video, I am at a crossroads with my current job, and your last point rang true to me, step out on faith. Jobless is better than a toxic environment.

  • @stellanabulere1001
    @stellanabulere1001 3 года назад +5

    Very insightful Brigette, thank you

  • @TheDolls06
    @TheDolls06 2 года назад +1

    I was hired in November for a senior leadership role. The director painted a beautiful picture during the interview. There’s no parking, people can only take the train, the building is extremely old, we don’t even have a coffee machine or water to drink. They don’t sanitize the space, only take out the trash. Every single employee is unhappy they made it clear since the first day I started. During the interview I asked questions regarding work life balance and micromanagement and the leadership lied. There is absolutely no leave in the first 6 months, no sick vacation or personal time and if you get sick within that period, they simply don’t pay you. The only benefit we have is health care. Most of the reg flags you brought up, they have. No care for staff members or their advancement

  • @abdulahamad2736
    @abdulahamad2736 2 года назад +3

    What an awesome breakdown. There are a lot people who find themselves in this position and it becomes quite difficult to break free due to circumstances and they end up just drowning in this environment. This is so demoralizing to your ambitions and potential, whatever you do, find a way to move on. It will benefit you long term.. Also great content!! You have yourself a new subscriber ;)

  • @shawndavis914
    @shawndavis914 3 года назад +4

    Thank you Brigette

  • @gingerkehler618
    @gingerkehler618 2 года назад

    Have literally just lived through this! As always, your advice is spot-on! Thanks Brigette!

  • @kathlientozzi3121
    @kathlientozzi3121 2 года назад

    Absolutely spot on! I've seen it time and time again. Thanks for sharing!

  • @robbymyrick
    @robbymyrick 3 года назад +5

    SO good! Thank you Bridgette. :)

  • @3arcovich
    @3arcovich 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for your concern. Your kindness enhances my faith in life. ☺️

  • @sergeantraven794
    @sergeantraven794 2 года назад

    Excellent! Thank you for insightful video, Brigette! Spot on (I love the "bathroom and breakroom check" part: so true).

  • @RaethePhoenix
    @RaethePhoenix 3 года назад +3

    Omg! I see your posts all the time on LinkedIn! I didn’t know until now that you have a RUclips! Oh what a treat! 🙌🏾

  • @brentjohn8299
    @brentjohn8299 3 года назад +4

    So true i like your speach

  • @MusicalMaverick55
    @MusicalMaverick55 3 года назад

    So many 💎💎💎. Def added this to my favorites! Thanks again, Brigette! You rock!

  • @robertrobert1460
    @robertrobert1460 Год назад +1

    Awesome video @Brigette! Thank you.

  • @Mangzorz
    @Mangzorz 3 года назад +20

    All of this. Every single point you made is perfect.. I've definitely worked at places like these because I need a job, and it turns out, they were an awful company to work for. Not sure where their arrogance comes from lol. So thankful I'm not there anymore.

  • @animalfarm4918
    @animalfarm4918 3 года назад +4

    You took your time and explained present and future situations ,you are so correct ,as always another great educational video

  • @fatimam5490
    @fatimam5490 3 года назад +2

    I love watching your videos and learn all the great tips ! Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us , you are AMAZING!

  • @davidspiteri33
    @davidspiteri33 3 года назад

    Many thanks Brigette, your advice is insightful and your positive energy is contagious. God Bless

  • @lindaeknoian2290
    @lindaeknoian2290 3 года назад

    Thank you Brigette, this is very helpful advice. Love your positive message at the end! Thank you!

  • @edcarde100
    @edcarde100 3 года назад +1

    Very informative and at the same time inspiring video. Loved your final messages. They uplift my spirit and energy during my current transition! Look forward to seeing your next video. God bless you and stay safe and healthy Brigette! I will keep you on the loop with my progress and share the good news when the right opportunity shows up!

  • @ReneRingnyu
    @ReneRingnyu 2 года назад

    Dear Brigette,
    You're outstanding! You're a great example of leadership. Leading with truth, honesty above all a lot of empathy. Keep helping, God bless you.

  • @victorphillips7580
    @victorphillips7580 2 года назад

    Thank you Brigette. This is so eye-opening.

  • @ilseharo209
    @ilseharo209 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video! I feel better now after having to deal from a, rather, discouraging job interview I recently dealt with. Felt like my wings were chipped but it's okay, I will soar somewhere soon!

  • @elizabethcrowley3340
    @elizabethcrowley3340 Год назад +1

    Wow. Thank you. Good reminder of importance of self worth.

  • @crazygurlflying
    @crazygurlflying 3 года назад +3

    I have followed you for some time now and I love your positive advice.

  • @rajeshrawat6026
    @rajeshrawat6026 3 года назад +1

    Happy to hear it.
    Thanks for sharing.
    Keep it up.❤💖

  • @DeneeDubwa
    @DeneeDubwa 2 года назад

    I really needed this message! Perfect timing. May God Bless everyone here watching 💕

  • @ivelissewallace8736
    @ivelissewallace8736 2 года назад

    God bless you Brigette Hyacinth, it is justly we are having in a lot workplace market. Very insane environment for the job seekers. Thank you for help us out.

  • @blazzinheat1414
    @blazzinheat1414 3 года назад +4

    People Don't ever wear no chicken suit .... #trustme . Bless Video brigette .. great info for #Life

  • @vivektimalsina2574
    @vivektimalsina2574 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Brigette for this information.

  • @kristibeisecker
    @kristibeisecker 3 года назад +3

    another one - when the internal organization doesn't reflect the external message that they promote and they hire inexperienced employees so the GM can bully them around.

    • @joypeacelove81
      @joypeacelove81 2 года назад +1

      Sad that this is really what happens

  • @rahuliyer7456
    @rahuliyer7456 Год назад +2

    How about this story. It happened to me in 2006 in Houston TX. I was interviewing in person for an engineering role at a manufacturing company. I am an engineer. Here are some things that happened, and what I did.
    1) I was interviewing with the factory manager, and he asked me to accompany him on his factory walk. He berated every supervisor he met, telling them how they screwed up. He used colorful language that I do not care to repeat...scatalogical language.
    2) we returned to his office, and I was escorted to the HR office for an interview. While waiting, I heard the factory manager yelling at a number of people... including women. I was surprised he could get away in saying things he said... especially with women present. They were very uncouth, and that was putting it mildly.
    3) when the HR manager sat down for his part of the interview, I was asked what I thought of the place so far. I asked, "May I have the ride to the airport? I am ending the interview. My choice.".
    They were of course shocked, as it barely started. I specifically told them why. I went back home to Chicago. I told the recruiter what I thought and why.
    1 day later the factory manager in Houston, who would have been my supervisor if I chose to continue the interview, lost his job. I was one of 20 candidates who said the same thing.

  • @christilee8452
    @christilee8452 3 года назад

    Very encouraging! Especially the last part! Spot on!

  • @stephaniejaeger3
    @stephaniejaeger3 3 года назад +2

    Very important points here. And if I think about it, there have been many red flags in several of my previous positions

  • @charmpajar35
    @charmpajar35 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Brigett! :) your words are truly inspiring.

  • @angelblake8857
    @angelblake8857 3 года назад

    Love the advice in this vid and everything is correct based on my experiences. Everything after “in conclusion” is EXACTLY what I needed to hear today. Thank you so much for this!

  • @vikingmike8139
    @vikingmike8139 Год назад +1

    An excellent video detailing educational aspects of what to watch out for. I personally liked the
    uplifting message regarding to know [one's] worth. Thank you very much for this uplifting video.
    Cheers!

  • @Shannete572
    @Shannete572 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing this Brigette Hyacinth. I absolutely agree With your statements, I will always read about the company and see what is about. You don’t want to say yes to everything, because people will see through that you are desperate for the job. I will always tells my sis the same thing too that I understand you want to work but you don’t want to be desperate, you have to know your worth. If you want respect, you have to stand up for your rights don’t let people walk all over you. I just don’t want to settle for anything, and what stood me out was when you said that one of the ladies waited it two hours for the interview that’s insane, because I will get up and leave and tell them excuse me can I come in for another interview another day? Never want to be to desperate. I was at a interview in the summertime waiting to be interview, I came bright and early on time, the front desk security told me to wait. So I waited for someone to come get me, and nobody hasn’t showed up, remind me the interview was at 2:30 so I waited for the interview person to interview by, and it was going on 3:45. And nobody still haven’t interview me until 4:00, that shows signs of disrespect at all times, and your right @Brigette Hyacinth you don’t want to be to desperate. I shouldn’t had told them to reschedule me another day for the interview but I was to busy on being desperate for the job. It’s like what my neighbor said that me and my sister needs to sit still and be patient wait on gods time, don’t settle for anything. Red flags 🚩 right there too, that shows that the interviewer doesn’t care about the employees. I am learning not to take anything, because imagine how they’re going to treat me, and when a job tells you that we are like family, we are hiring on the spot, that shows signs right they’re. I rather be unemployed than to be dealing in a toxic place, it’s best to have a peace ✌️ of mind. I am not breaking my back for anyone, especially if it is a toxic environment. You want to feel comfortable at a workplace and not being stressed out, because a lot of these jobs should always understand that you have doctors appointments, your health is always your first priority. Oh yes, I would look on indeed everyday when they put the same job each day that shows RED FLAGS 🚩 right there. It’s best to be your own boss because you are taking control of your own company.

  • @peaceoluchi5617
    @peaceoluchi5617 2 года назад

    Thanks for taking your time to explain these red flags. Sometimes it is difficult to just let go as you explained, the fear of the unknown; I am at this point, I pray i find the right job asap or find the courage to quit. Thanks once again.

  • @charmelizabeth8584
    @charmelizabeth8584 3 года назад +1

    Great tips Brigette! Thank you

  • @southerncalilady
    @southerncalilady 3 года назад +1

    This was very informative. I definitely hear you on the "clip your wings" statement.

  • @mmillie28
    @mmillie28 3 года назад +2

    You always build my confidence with your videos,

  • @kishamharrison
    @kishamharrison 3 года назад +1

    I needed this video several years ago....This video is so spot on!!!

  • @MISSSMOOTHBABE
    @MISSSMOOTHBABE 3 года назад

    Couldn’t have said some of these points any better. Good luck to all those looking for the right place for their mental health, dedication and prayers will get you through. Know your worth.

  • @cpgrant9509
    @cpgrant9509 2 года назад

    Thank you very much, these were all such great insights.

  • @brieuse007
    @brieuse007 2 года назад

    This was a really refreshing video Bridgette to look at... Thanks!