1. Impatiently waiting to graduate 2. Not being yourself to fit in 3. You want to figure out everything 4. Picking popular friends instead of real ones (for me it’s weird, the “real” friends were terrible and the popular friends were the true ones) 5. Underestimating the power of a growth mindset 6. Being Shy 7. Not having balance
@dalati Thanks, You actually replied... Btw I'm in Highschool rn and even though the school system is kind of different here, I'll try to remember your advice but focus on studies as well! Thanks a lot and keep making wonderful videos for us as you always do! ❤️
I wish I had that when I was in 10th grade (in my country high school last 3 years instead of 4), my years in high school were really bad and I woulda lobed having these videos back then. I'm now in my senior year and I'm gonna apply all of these, thank you for everything! 🙏
Yo thanks man, I really needed this video because I’m a freshman in high school and iv always been a shy person. The way that you put shyness to another prospective makes me wonder what will happen if I just try to talk and do things. You know what? I am gonna practice all of freshman year and do my absolute best. Thanks for helping me with telling me your wisdom!!!
Great video as always! When I was in high school, I remember telling a few of my friends to enjoy it while it lasts because the real world is not easy whatsoever. Even though my high school experience could have been better, I still had fun overall and am satisfied with how it ended.
Exactly how I feel, I’m very satisfied with the way it went. However now that I’m out of high school, looking back on it I realized there’s certain things I could’ve done differently to enjoy it more. Which is why I made this video, to hopefully help out some students currently in high school.
I can confirm the last one, in 6th grade I was known as the loyal, chill, and fun friend to be with, dropped out and 2 years later in freshmen year I was just left in the dust, nearly all my friends forgotten me, so I got "real, lifetime" friends that still stick to me today
Thank you so much for all of the amazing tips youve given me. You helped me get over a lost friendship, and i was able to forget about it by watching your videos. Keep up the amazing work.❤
Thanks bro its a well-made video. Listing out all these direct and true points. I feel like some of the students in my high school get lost and not getting the balance so well. I like the point of being genuine and not being shy to pursue valuable moments. Not too worried about being cringe and live a regretless high school life. I am currently studying in HK high school where students here get higher stress levels than other countries, but I'm lucky enough to choose a class of which I believe fits me the most. I am quite optimistic and humorous. Some friend in my class will tease me about the wrong ans I gave in simple questions. I know they're not being rude but it still kinda hurts me. Things get better over time when you improve urself too!
i agree with you so much bro!! i'm a content creator as of right now. And I really am enjoying it, I don't really have a lot of friends purposely. more like acquaintances really. This was really helpful!!!
Dalati is best guy on this platform. This video helped me a LOT. for example, i was really shy going to gym for first time and this advice helped so much ❤❤
I think it's funny that I'm working at the same high school I graduated from 2 years ago, where I'm still young enough to be a student. This will definitely come in handy
I can say from experience, dont switch up just to fit in. Its all just words in your heads now but if you are one of these people who i used to be, you can vouch its not good for you, your reputation and dignity.
I really need some advice regarding how to get hired or a job in general i really appreciate the time you take to make others have a better understanding of how to make the best of high school ❤
I am not a shy person, I just don't think anyone really cares if I said anything tbh😂. I do try speaking up if I am talked to and raise my hand and also talk to people when there's nothing important going on. Like I would say "how's your day" and "what kind of songs you like" or anything that comes to mind I just don't wanna bother others you know. I don't mind if others strike a conversation with me actually I'd love it if it happened more often because I love talking to people and since I have ADHD I tend to talk a lot lol
High school can be a real rollercoaster, but there are some tips that can make the ride smoother. Let me share seven common slip-ups to steer clear of: First up, procrastination. We all do it, but leaving things until the last minute can stress you out and mess with your work. Managing your time and staying organized can save you from this headache. Next, mental health matters. High school's a lot, and ignoring how you're feeling can lead to burnout. Taking care of yourself and getting support when you need it is super important. Then, don't overload yourself with activities. They're awesome, but too much can backfire. It's all about balance. Pick a couple of things you really love instead of trying to do everything. Also, don't forget your peeps. It's not just about school stuff or hobbies. Your friendships and family connections are mega important too. Keeping those relationships healthy is a big deal. And, please, ask for help when you need it. Whether it's school stuff or personal stuff, reaching out can make a huge difference. Teachers, counselors, and friends are there for you. Future plans! You don't need to have your whole life figured out, but having a general idea of what's next after high school can be really useful. It could be college, trade school, or something else. Keeping an eye on the future helps you make smarter choices. Lastly, it's not all about grades. They matter, but they're not everything. If you focus only on grades, you might miss out on other important skills and experiences. Avoiding these pitfalls in high school can make the whole experience way better and more balanced.
you can just go to comunity college for and graduate in half the time (yes, 9th graders are allowed to go to community college) if just want to get it over with asap and move on to college as soon as you can. you'll most likely miss out on a lot of social experience, but graduating in half the time as a normal kid tends to be an impressive thing. just depends on what you want to do
I have severe stuttering that has only gotten worse and it has completely ruined my life, no one wants to talk to me, I cant make jokes, I cant do speeches, I cant even communicate. I am trying to make the most out of high school, but at the moment I feel like I am in the deepest corridors of hell.
the first mistake is thinking its gonna be the best years of your life, what does that make the year you got your car? the year you get married? the years you spend having a family? if highschool was the best what does that make all those years?
Welp, I was shy, socially anxious (and I think I may be autistic but I can't get diagnosed where I live) and also COVID took away 2 and a half years of high school for me, I have no friends, no girlfriend and idk what to do with my life other than hope that going to the gym will probably fix my problems although it most likely won't.
Mistake 1. Going to public high school Mistake 2. Socializing with idiots who take your precious mind doen with them. (Seriously, your mind is worth more than engaging with idiotic activities) Mistake 3. Thinking YOLO (Don’t ruin your later life in your early years) Mistake 4. Thinking you’re invincible because you’re young (Don’t play with your life) Mistake 5. Thinking the same as the world (Stuff that everyone else says is stupid might benefit you in the long run) Mistake 6. Wasting your time (For example, Videogames, Reading mindless stuff, or sleeping your afternoons away) Mistake 7. Gaining free range of the Internet
7:00 My brain don't talk a girl, what if she calls all her friends and she links my ip and recovers my browsing history's you know some like that could happen. I gotta me safe
in middle school there was this cute girl i wanted to talk to but avoided her literally almost the whole year, now that i missed my chance i regret it a lot honestly, i want to know what would happen or what wouldnt, and it honestly hurts a lot more like he said by not knowing the outcome of what could have been or what could not have been
My high school is only gunna last for 2.5 years for me and my friends, me and my friends realize we are missing some things by not going every day but hey we can still go to senior prom
Yes, high school is so good, i have like one friend and i hate most of the people because they are some kinds of bullies or just people that think they are always right, they say you are stupid and blame everything on you even tho you are sitting still all day long and minding your own stuff, i also wanted to let my hair grow but now its just worse because of others and they think like toxic 10 year olds, very nice expirience 😊 btw sorry for bad english
Personally (especially) the first one I don’t agree on, when you said; “Highschool is an experience that you’ll never get back, so enjoy it” I don’t agree with this (personally as I’m a growing Christian, and so I rather not do things that involve any bad movements but if it’s something good in Highschool I’ll def enjoy and experience it. (This is all for me personally and any other Christian Teenager ☦️🤲🏻🙏🏻)
"Highschool [lets you make connections that last a] life time" 50 seconds later... "Stop trying to fit in with people that you arent even going to be friends with that long"
Stand up for yourself by giving a bully an actual challenge, get into arguments and fights, you dont have to win them but its still a challenge to them mentally
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Thanks a lot for the tips man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dude thanks, I have to write three essays by friday and this just gave me some more motivation
The shy part helps
do middle school
1. Impatiently waiting to graduate
2. Not being yourself to fit in
3. You want to figure out everything
4. Picking popular friends instead of real ones (for me it’s weird, the “real” friends were terrible and the popular friends were the true ones)
5. Underestimating the power of a growth mindset
6. Being Shy
7. Not having balance
Legend
that just means the real friends were the popular ones.
Dub
if your first set of friends were terrible then they werent weird, and if your second happened to be popular then theyre still real
💯
Dalati is lowkey one of the best guys out here
So true
Appreciate that man
@@dalati Didn't reply to my comment... 😭
@dalati Thanks, You actually replied... Btw I'm in Highschool rn and even though the school system is kind of different here, I'll try to remember your advice but focus on studies as well! Thanks a lot and keep making wonderful videos for us as you always do! ❤️
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as a freshman in high school, thanks. your content has always been really helpful, but this one is probably the most. thanks again bro!
Happy to hear that bro
FRESH MEAT!!!!!!!
@@thedaggonatorWATCH OUT FOR THE SUPER SENIOR
I hope your sophomore year goes well bro
@@TH-rx1kt yo thanks 🙏started a couple days ago
people are popular because people can resonate easily and relate with them, keep that in mind. i got into guitar and still am cause of them.
I wish I had that when I was in 10th grade (in my country high school last 3 years instead of 4), my years in high school were really bad and I woulda lobed having these videos back then. I'm now in my senior year and I'm gonna apply all of these, thank you for everything! 🙏
Not too late, just enjoy every moment on it. You’re still young and got a bunch of time ahead of you
Yo thanks man, I really needed this video because I’m a freshman in high school and iv always been a shy person. The way that you put shyness to another prospective makes me wonder what will happen if I just try to talk and do things. You know what? I am gonna practice all of freshman year and do my absolute best. Thanks for helping me with telling me your wisdom!!!
Great video as always! When I was in high school, I remember telling a few of my friends to enjoy it while it lasts because the real world is not easy whatsoever. Even though my high school experience could have been better, I still had fun overall and am satisfied with how it ended.
Exactly how I feel, I’m very satisfied with the way it went. However now that I’m out of high school, looking back on it I realized there’s certain things I could’ve done differently to enjoy it more. Which is why I made this video, to hopefully help out some students currently in high school.
why is the real world not "easy"? what's not easy about it? at least I won't have to sit and do a bunch of work that I don't care about
@@iiCounted-op5jx You get more free time in HS compared to a job. Don't throw that away.
I can confirm the last one, in 6th grade I was known as the loyal, chill, and fun friend to be with, dropped out and 2 years later in freshmen year I was just left in the dust, nearly all my friends forgotten me, so I got "real, lifetime" friends that still stick to me today
Man i love this guy hes helping me become a better version of myself and its awesome
Thank you so much for all of the amazing tips youve given me. You helped me get over a lost friendship, and i was able to forget about it by watching your videos. Keep up the amazing work.❤
Thanks bro its a well-made video. Listing out all these direct and true points. I feel like some of the students in my high school get lost and not getting the balance so well. I like the point of being genuine and not being shy to pursue valuable moments. Not too worried about being cringe and live a regretless high school life. I am currently studying in HK high school where students here get higher stress levels than other countries, but I'm lucky enough to choose a class of which I believe fits me the most. I am quite optimistic and humorous. Some friend in my class will tease me about the wrong ans I gave in simple questions. I know they're not being rude but it still kinda hurts me. Things get better over time when you improve urself too!
Me who graduated high school: Interesting
i agree with you so much bro!! i'm a content creator as of right now. And I really am enjoying it, I don't really have a lot of friends purposely. more like acquaintances really. This was really helpful!!!
very nice tips,i have high school next year and i'll try them out once i'm there!
Dalati I am SOO great fun for your bids keep it up man!
Your content has made me realize that these might be my best years. I'll make sure to spend them wisely. Thank you 😊
Dalati is best guy on this platform. This video helped me a LOT. for example, i was really shy going to gym for first time and this advice helped so much ❤❤
6:22 “Don’t be shy” YOU think I like begging shy? Don’t you think I’ve tried? It’s not that simple.
Yes it is.
Honestly, You HAVE to force yourself, Yes it IS hard, But so is life,Good luck on the journeys bro, You're on the right pace
I think it's funny that I'm working at the same high school I graduated from 2 years ago, where I'm still young enough to be a student. This will definitely come in handy
I can say from experience, dont switch up just to fit in. Its all just words in your heads now but if you are one of these people who i used to be, you can vouch its not good for you, your reputation and dignity.
thank you. while watching and as you were talking i was seeing how this could relate to my life and experiences and the people around me
I Couldn't care less about my high school experience. I just know I'm going to join the Marines to get my mom's documents and the rest is beyond me.
Nice I have the same plans parents need documents I ship to boot in 3 days
What if I don’t got friends
Just start talking to people, you don’t gotta ask them to hang out just interact
Get friends lil bro 👍
Sane here ☝️
I don’t wanna spend my teenage years without friends
I really need some advice regarding how to get hired or a job in general i really appreciate the time you take to make others have a better understanding of how to make the best of high school ❤
Thank you for this advice, I am going to do my best not to be shy anymore and to speak up.
this year Imma be an absolute menace, but a respectable menace 😈
You're actually my most fav youtuber, Luv u ❤
❤️
Great advice for someone who already finished high school haha, great advice though bro, good advice for my sistes
Me who has dropped out of high-school:this is absolutely perfect information....
I am not a shy person, I just don't think anyone really cares if I said anything tbh😂. I do try speaking up if I am talked to and raise my hand and also talk to people when there's nothing important going on. Like I would say "how's your day" and "what kind of songs you like" or anything that comes to mind
I just don't wanna bother others you know. I don't mind if others strike a conversation with me actually I'd love it if it happened more often because I love talking to people and since I have ADHD I tend to talk a lot lol
I really loved every part of my life but high school was truly special! The most happening time definitely. I am glad I was social!
Thank u, im having issues as a freshman in high school, and this could really help!
Ngl Dalati is a g bro, not many people are gonna work this help other people
Me watching this as high school ended for me last week 👁 👄 👁
This video came at the perfect time, it helped me a lot. Thank you for this
I was expelled by every high school in my district so this doesn’t apply to me
Bro tf did you do😮
Bro tf did you do commit arson or smth? 💀
Great video Dalati
Thanks bro, I really need this as a sophomore in high school.
High school can be a real rollercoaster, but there are some tips that can make the ride smoother. Let me share seven common slip-ups to steer clear of:
First up, procrastination. We all do it, but leaving things until the last minute can stress you out and mess with your work. Managing your time and staying organized can save you from this headache.
Next, mental health matters. High school's a lot, and ignoring how you're feeling can lead to burnout. Taking care of yourself and getting support when you need it is super important.
Then, don't overload yourself with activities. They're awesome, but too much can backfire. It's all about balance. Pick a couple of things you really love instead of trying to do everything.
Also, don't forget your peeps. It's not just about school stuff or hobbies. Your friendships and family connections are mega important too. Keeping those relationships healthy is a big deal.
And, please, ask for help when you need it. Whether it's school stuff or personal stuff, reaching out can make a huge difference. Teachers, counselors, and friends are there for you.
Future plans! You don't need to have your whole life figured out, but having a general idea of what's next after high school can be really useful. It could be college, trade school, or something else. Keeping an eye on the future helps you make smarter choices.
Lastly, it's not all about grades. They matter, but they're not everything. If you focus only on grades, you might miss out on other important skills and experiences.
Avoiding these pitfalls in high school can make the whole experience way better and more balanced.
Thank u ❤
Why oh why do I find this after my 8th grade. This would have made my 9th easier!! ( ig I do have the power and ability to change so that’s a plus)
8:04 put all your eggs in one basket because youre only able to sell one basket so the more eggs the netter
Ok i will do it thank you Dalati
6 is SO important I was a shy b****, and I have a lot of regrets. Be better
Thanks for making this video really helpful
Literally on my second day of 9th grade right now, thanks I hope this will help.
Meanwhile all of the people I know on highschool doing the exact opposite of every single thing
Same
you can just go to comunity college for and graduate in half the time (yes, 9th graders are allowed to go to community college) if just want to get it over with asap and move on to college as soon as you can. you'll most likely miss out on a lot of social experience, but graduating in half the time as a normal kid tends to be an impressive thing. just depends on what you want to do
This is gonna help me as a 8th grade introvert thank you so much dalati
I dont know why but the popular kids seem to be the most realest
is it just me?
I have severe stuttering that has only gotten worse and it has completely ruined my life, no one wants to talk to me, I cant make jokes, I cant do speeches, I cant even communicate. I am trying to make the most out of high school, but at the moment I feel like I am in the deepest corridors of hell.
As a freshmen (i think thats what its called) i already know what i want to be, and i really want to be it, plus i am good at it, im set man
5:09 made me happy that I didn't peak in high school and instead focusing in my future
Just as my high school is going to end...
great advice, im a sophmore rn and this seems like it will help me a lot
the first mistake is thinking its gonna be the best years of your life, what does that make the year you got your car? the year you get married? the years you spend having a family? if highschool was the best what does that make all those years?
I have not watched this video yet, but I already know that I made at least more than half of these
Starting secondary school next year at 16 and i am both exited and nervous and sad but it will def be the best time in my life
Some people have to have everything figured out or else their parents will be disappointed.
Hey bro where did you get your water bottle from, it looks cool
this is amazing
Welp, I was shy, socially anxious (and I think I may be autistic but I can't get diagnosed where I live) and also COVID took away 2 and a half years of high school for me, I have no friends, no girlfriend and idk what to do with my life other than hope that going to the gym will probably fix my problems although it most likely won't.
U just like me
maybe late for me.. but i still got 3 months.. IMMA DO MY BEST THANK YOUUU
High school starts tomorrow for me and I’m going to remember everything in this video
How’d it go
@@TheDefenseGuy101 thanks for asking. It went fine for the first day. There’s a lot I need to improve on though.
Mistake 1. Going to public high school
Mistake 2. Socializing with idiots who take your precious mind doen with them. (Seriously, your mind is worth more than engaging with idiotic activities)
Mistake 3. Thinking YOLO (Don’t ruin your later life in your early years)
Mistake 4. Thinking you’re invincible because you’re young (Don’t play with your life)
Mistake 5. Thinking the same as the world (Stuff that everyone else says is stupid might benefit you in the long run)
Mistake 6. Wasting your time (For example, Videogames, Reading mindless stuff, or sleeping your afternoons away)
Mistake 7. Gaining free range of the Internet
I am so shy and I really want to get better at it!! I always know I should say something I just don’t say it.
nice vid i’ll try to apply it (i’m a freshman) but i’m rlly having trouble with making real connections
as a 9th grader i self defended myself so hard he was hospitalized in the first fucking month
nice
What happened
I've been myself in high school which let into the social work office, this is real I'm not kidding.
I love that eye of Horus chain you have. Where’d you get it from?
as a person in 5th grade, im gonna rewatch this in 8th/9th grade ( saving it to my playlist )
Good luck your gonna need it (I’m a freshman 9th grade)
i fell into the trap in mistake 1 until the start of this year, Junior year
7:00 My brain don't talk a girl, what if she calls all her friends and she links my ip and recovers my browsing history's you know some like that could happen. I gotta me safe
so what do you mean? does the bloodline end with you?
great vid
high school is past and i was in special ed i didnt even had a reason to watch this video
in middle school there was this cute girl i wanted to talk to but avoided her literally almost the whole year, now that i missed my chance i regret it a lot honestly, i want to know what would happen or what wouldnt, and it honestly hurts a lot more like he said by not knowing the outcome of what could have been or what could not have been
My high school is only gunna last for 2.5 years for me and my friends, me and my friends realize we are missing some things by not going every day but hey we can still go to senior prom
You talk about people automatically fitting in with you, but my high school isn’t that big and I haven’t found anyone much like me. What do I do?
Make 1 For college
Thanks bro
Yes, high school is so good, i have like one friend and i hate most of the people because they are some kinds of bullies or just people that think they are always right, they say you are stupid and blame everything on you even tho you are sitting still all day long and minding your own stuff, i also wanted to let my hair grow but now its just worse because of others and they think like toxic 10 year olds, very nice expirience 😊 btw sorry for bad english
At some point you realize those bullies are loners who have managed to form a group by just spreading hate, they drink alcohol to keep them together
@@Zer01211 it is something like that and i understand it
Thanks
Personally (especially) the first one I don’t agree on, when you said; “Highschool is an experience that you’ll never get back, so enjoy it” I don’t agree with this (personally as I’m a growing Christian, and so I rather not do things that involve any bad movements but if it’s something good in Highschool I’ll def enjoy and experience it. (This is all for me personally and any other Christian Teenager ☦️🤲🏻🙏🏻)
Going to high school on the 5th
I'm in Marching band. What's balance?
Bro you are the only self improvement channel that gives us real life advice rather than that alpha , beta male shit
"Highschool [lets you make connections that last a] life time"
50 seconds later...
"Stop trying to fit in with people that you arent even going to be friends with that long"
#1 mistake in high school is being too cautious to make mistakes 😌
I’m still in high but cant find way improve something ever one else so strong and smarter than me any advice ?
You can fake a personality and not fake it anymore when you have been there for a while
What if i be myself and people decide to bully me for it?
Stand up for yourself by giving a bully an actual challenge, get into arguments and fights, you dont have to win them but its still a challenge to them mentally
The fight doesnt have to be fist KO, it can be pushing and wrestling too
Elementary was a huge pain, highscool will be the worst of hells
Tf? Elementary is easy asf and fun highschool can also be fun with the right mindset
Depends on the people around you, i was in a school where everyonr but me gossiped about each other
Lol why did I watch this video if I graduated back in 2014? Anyway I wish there were videos like this when I was growing up
Underrated
Too late, I have already graduated!
yes
Guys be yourself 100 percent unless you suck, then you can copy someone else.
Nice
Long bone Lupe
Out of all of this, for me is being shy :/
been a senior at high school, I found myself violate most of them😂
I am not in high school, i am in trade school, its the same thing but with job stuff as the subject
Everyone there is some type of criminal 💀, so much more toxic than high school
This is some chatgpt shit lmao