Andrew, I watch your videos frequently but hardly ever comment. I just want to say that you are a beacon of light in the darkness for so many wounded good spirits. Your worth is completely priceless and through the roof AMAZING. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being such a good role model for the entire world including myself ❤️
I burned the candle at both ends for 7 years. His income doubled when with me. He made sure all of his financial obligations were paid off and that is when the discard happened. They are users and abusers nothing more.
Our family is suffering from our son's wife. We are close knit, but our son cannot see the forest for the trees. She Is Jekyll and Hyde. His dad is in hospital, will not visit by himself (only once because she gave her ok ). She controls everything and he lets her. We do not have a number to reach him, only hers, Need prayers, peace and miracle.
The narc's poor decisions are like the definition of insanity.. they keep doing the same things expecting a different result, only to stay trapped in the web of their making! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈 🎀😘
It's hard being the truth teller in the narcissists world of bad decisions. I wonder after repeating their loop so many times if they expect a different result, or if the rely on the same results. That could be a new definition of insanity....😊 You keep making your good decisions.....the narcissist never will. 😊❤ wise&well
“ They will succeed until they can’t “.I like the way you put words. They think they can outsmart everyone, poor things, they bounce back with ( bruises),financially and emotionally. Hence moving on to another supply !!!
Thanks, remember folks: your joy is a narcissist's misery, and your misery is a narcissist's joy. It does get better. It may not feel that way now, but it does ☮️💪🥰🌞
It surely will!!! And not " only" better!!! It will get amazing! It takes time but eventually we'll ALL get there! Thanks to our master Andrew and all the effort we but in ourselves! ❤
Thank you! I’m no longer “punching a clock” being his 2nd mother. Nothing I did for him was ever enough. A couple days before I put him out, he told me “you are as good as gold until you’re not.” He doesn’t realize In the end “baby, I am gold and you’re not!” 😂😂😂
This is so true! Andrew hits the nail on the head with all his videos. My sons dad USED me to have a baby without a marriage, several boyfriends used me way back, my landlord was angry and abusive towards me just because I had some rights to live ar the old apartment. She was required to give me some payment to move. She pulled alot of crap. The narcissist HATES doing the right thing!
After ending things today and telling my ex that she will not be love-bombing me, I also blocked all contact with her so I am now healing and feeling so much better and I am hoping 2025 will be a year of peace ☮️
Congratulations Malcolm. 😊❤ I am only going to say one thing. WE MUST GO NO CONTACT or it's epic failure. Can't be friends or acquaintances. They don't work that way. Only no contact will help you heal. Play the tape out to the end. Cycle of terror LOL
@reneelyndamartinez1362 my maiden name was Martinez. I used to cry, too, but the closer I get to freedom the easier it gets. Hope you find freedom too someday! 🌠💖
That is the thing that really got to me is that I kept seeing my life be affected by the narcissist's bad decisions and it was all gradually going downhill for me. Thank God I got out. It's a lesson in boundaries I will never forget.
This is 💯 percent true. I remember my ex narc who's soon to be 63, told me that he's going to do whatever he wants to do and whenever he wants to . After 30 years, I divorced him in October 2024. I finally have peace and a whole lot of life left in me to live. 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 Get out if you can . It's never too late ❤️
Laying it all down for those who were not worthy... is not a waste, It's a lesson that we were fortunate to learn....not because we did wrong... but because the narcissist is alive & well on planet earth! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
They are takers & steal your money & beautiful soul. No good ever comes out of any of these's toxic relationships. Life can only get better if your narcissistic & toxic free. Ive had a few trying the holiday Hoover's & no chance at all with me. Once you heal & have got the wisdom 🙏 ✨️ you will never put up with anyone abusing you in anyway 🎉 Wonderful night video Andrew ❤ blessings 🌞 🙌 to you all & stay strong 💪 🙏 💙
Thank you for your very kind complimentary words. You are a bright shining beautiful person empath too. I have been Narcopath free for 7 years and almost one month now. I love my life now at 61 years old. I have the mindset of keeping on moving forward only. 🎉❤😊😍🤗🎄
Andrew, Once again you describe everything flawlessly. Picture perfect narcissism 101. Dealing w it. At the end of the day I feel bad for the narcissist and their poor decisions. I have compassion but will not be an unpaid helper again. Unfortunately these people do not grow or change as they are not very self aware. Its quite sad. I wish the best for everyone. All you can do is stay away from their nonsense
Great video Andrew. Thanks. Yes they still continue to hoover and harass even though you have gone no contact and blocked them. THey are toxic and often turn into stalkers. it is scary when you see who they really are and that they are so toxic.
Yep. He used all my resources-my organization, my money from my organization, my business mind, my money from my business, my love for developing myself and he became a coach and he literally took everything about me and made himself a split image of me. I helped him build a business because he claim he was too old to do anything new once his job dried up. He got prostate cancer and I supported him just to find out that he was cheating on me the whole time. And in the end he stole my portion of the business money. He never read books and all of a sudden he wanted to read. I gave him everything and he was nothing like what he is now. He acted as if he was going to run for political office in our area yet he was a demon in disguise, lying the whole time. In the end he told me he was watching me and needed my energy. He took advantage of my heart but I got away. They are demons and will even abuse their own children.
Omg my husband of 30 years steals all my ideas they pretends it was his. If we talk about anything the next day he acts like he was the one that told me. He mirrors everything I do. I’ve learned to say nothing to him but sometimes I forget that I’m talking to a person that is a Narc .
I would love to know you in person, Andrew. I am an RN/Empath who has finally incorporated the traits of a Narcissists who have been in my life since childhood. i am in my cocoon of boundaries and healing with my eyes wide open. My life has changed drastically since my awakening. I appreciate what you are doing for all of us out here supporting our growth and validating our healing path. God Bless You. My world has definitely changed in a miraculous direction.
Thank you Andrew🌸 I understand now…I was going to make a big mistake😞 Now I have to look for the right path I should go … I almost forgot my sister in law was the worst narcissist and that was the beginning of everything😞 Thank you again Andrew🤗
I just cleaned out 2 yrs of financial folders from when I was with the ex-narc. Every check and all documents had my pen strokes. Not one word, letter or pen stroke was made by him. The built-in accountant resigned 6 yrs ago. He just bought a mobile home, financed over $200,000 at the age of 68 years old. His new supply is another old guy who is also a narcissist. For me, I am living independently and free in my paid up house these past 6 years.
Great video. I am almost there. I had a great day today so I am moving forward. It is an emotional rollercoaster but so worth it. I have been suffering from joint pain and today is gone. My anxiety was nonexistent.
These videos juice me up each day enough to make it a little more bearable than the day before. Other channels almost make me feel worse. You should have some of us "targets" on, interview style, to tell our stories. I'd be first in line lol
Narcissists are so messed up! Nice scenery where you are tonight. Thanks for another super video Andrew. Blessings to you for doing all you do to help us all in this community.
The narcissist is dumbfounded how the empath sails the sea of life alone. Not lonely but alone. They are barnacle, they can only look for someone or something to hang on and ride. They look to enmesh they are horrified that we are free beings and they are slaves. But they choose their life daily every hour every moment.
As long as the narc has enough money... And at least a tiny bit of health... The grift will continue. I would love to see more content on the wealthy narc
We might be able to start with Elon Musk, the guy with 12 kids (one who hates him, another who was given an unpronounceable name cuz quirky), ruined Twitter, and currently THE richest human ever.
@13:12 "So whenever that relationship ended, that's when it was supposed to end. However that relationship ended, that's how it was supposed to end." Thank you for saying that, Andrew. It *was* a hard pill to swallow. But the truth is.... no sane person should stay in a crazy-making relationship with a person who refuses to accept reality, and will commit the most heinous acts to prevent the truth from coming out.
Maybe they "left to the store for milk" but they were actually texting hate mail from your phone to your mama... or setting up a scandal to someone through your phone. When they get home they frisbee your phone across the room where you later find it under the sofa. And of course... they are trying to make you crazy. Just remember you had a gut instinct before them, pray for guidance. Trust your gut, listen to the little children, yield to your trusted friends and family who know you. Forgive yourself and move forward towards safety. Such a great message here 😎
I hear you so loud it's like you're sitting next to me. Narcspouse stomped on and cracked mine in front of me after having backhanded me in the back of the head one night. These monsters ...
The aging narcissist wont escape his karma and there’s nothing more pathetic than aging narc. Narcissistic collapse is real. Thank you, for the information and confirmation! 🙏🤗💕
I got to the point in my former narcissistic relationship that I got tired of being the one who was always pulling the cart so to speak. Of course I was ridiculously optimistic and as soon as I try to let him go of course I get loved bombed and I fall for it and it’s a continual cycle. I’m happy to report that it’s been over two years and I wish I would’ve done it sooner
Your channel has grown SO much Andrew!!! I’m so happy to see you are still sharing the wisdom for others! God bless you and everyone watching this video. You are here by coincidence, you’re here to help you in your healing ❤️🩹 journey
He used to call me weak, pathetic, annoying, and worse. Even back then I knew it was all projection. How badly he must think of himself to throw around labels like that. Truly a "petulant child" as you mentioned. I almost feel compassion for his doomed psyche, but still remember the hurt he caused. That memory is unpleasant, but in a way it's also my protection.
Thank you Andrew. I have used this exact quote multiple times about poor decisions because I have to coparent with her and the new supply, after her moving our kids almost two hours away to be with him.
It took me so long to be able to say no. I thought saying no and having boundaries was rude or offensive. But I got to a point in life where I was so exhausted trying not to disappoint people. And those people were never happy no matter what I did. The goal post keep moving. Cutting people out of my life wasn’t a choice. I couldn’t take it anymore. My circle is very small. It only includes people who don’t get upset when I say I can’t do something.
I’ve been a chronic people pleaser and I’m just now learning to say no. I always cared too much about what other people think. It’s not healthy so I’m learning new ways of protecting myself. I’m in my 60s and wish I had known decades ago. Could’ve saved myself a lot of grief.
They make such poor decisions they can't keep up with what they have said make 100[ plans and follow through with nothing I heard it so much when he started I turned my ears off
Narcs make you believe they are strong......that they are better than anyone you will ever meet. But like Andrew says (I'm 1+ year after leaving the narcissist .....after 7 years of him always discarding me multiple times!) .....believe me: once you get through the terrible hell (I left him for the first and final time, even though i still loved him), you will not see it any other way than Andrew describes. It is unbelievably painful.....especially to let go of someone you still loved, There is an expression or something i've once heard:: 'It was harder to stay, then to leave."........ hang in, to those of you that are in the dark hell.....it WILL get better once you start to love yourself again. Peace and love to this community xo
I'm so sorry you went through so much hell for 7 years but I'm glad you got away and moved forward with you life. I was with my ex for 7 years as well and we broke up Christmas eve after I found out she was cheating the night before while I was home with 3 kids so I get it fully. God bless you please keep your head up
I never thought in a milliom years I would as a man deal with another man that is a pure narcissist (not in gay relationship or anything) but a guy who just wants to burn bridges and keep watch of what Im doing!
Thank you Andrew! your communication abilities are profound. You do a wonderful job of dissecting each subject and breaking down the barriers of understanding. I'm in the very beginning of my post-narc experience and I feel like you are my guide to learning how to heal. I trust you and you talent. Thanks for making me feel like someone out there can relate. I'm humbled.
Andrew your assessments are so true! You help them make the right decisions until you get the education. Then you sit back and watch them own anything that goes well and blame you for the rest. Empty shells, waste of space and all that…
Once i realized that i had to get the education about narcissism and use the tools to protect myself, i also knew that i needed to read behind people's masks to make better choices. Mostly whom i let into my life and whom i don't let into my life. And now my quality of life is getting much better. Have a great evening Andrew, keep warm out there. Don't catch a cold 🥶🤧😉🫶💜⛰️✨️
Love this video, Andrew!❤ I am truly living a Beautiful & Empathetic Life✨ 1 Yr & 1/2 free from ex-Narc. Thank you for your wisdom & realness about this issue. You help me this whole time 😊🙏🏻❤
Thank you so much for this excellent video. Everything you said rings true. Yes they were making poor decisions before we met them yet they accuse of of ruining their lives. Their life was ruined long ago. When the ex narcissist was released from prison he blamed me . He said you have no idea how hard it was doing time. I wanted to say well don’t break the law and you won’t end up doing time . I never said it because the consequences would not have been good.
THANK you Andrew ✨️🇫🇷☃️🌳🙏🐶🐶stay warm & Noah & Nelson too!! We are Free of the Narc/ control!! 2nd Christmas no Stress & dishonesty from my Narc/sister!! MY home here in France is filled with the light of Christmas🌳🌲✨️🇫🇷💯💚
Gbu I can id 20yrs in a Narcissist relationship , GOD sees, hears and see all the moves I wouldn't do thats what broke the camals back GOD MY PROTECTOR DISCARDED HIM AMEN.❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂
You're so right, Andrew. How you know these details is amazing. I noticed all of it with my experience in a relationship. I mistakeningly accepted a hoover that lasted several months. After meeting his abusive mother, I came to know where his trauma came from. Yikes. I ended the relationship. I hopefully mortified him enough to ensure he doesn't come back. It has been over 3 months.
Try over 50years. Adopted into a narcissistic cult family. Then a cult for 11 years. Then flatmates, then friends and in laws. Finally now landlords. It just never end !!!
I have never ever seen anyone so impulsive in my 56 years on this planet. This video nails it. Why I felt like I was whacked upside the head when they'd leave is because they're SO IN YOUR FACE. 24/7. Almost. Then NOTHING. It's a hole in my life. Irregardless of them having NPD, the void is what made me "miss" them. I told him I was drawn to him from the first date when I met him. There was something about him. Yes, it was the mask. He fooled me that he was my kinda guy. I never seen "that" guy again. Or very briefly at most. For 3 years, I seen flags and didn't want to be judgey. The phone went to the washroom every time. I don't check phones anyway. Not my thing. But looking back he was always on it. Yet he'd comment about me always on my phone. Total lie. I didnt know where my phone was half the time. He asked me my I locked my screen. I said because it keeps my information safe. Always questioning me. It was his mind working overtime. LOL
Thank you for the content. Since i watched your youtube I have learnt so much and have become very aware of people. People can be very fickle and fake, not just the narc. Thats why no i no longer make all that effort investing time with others as most people dont have your best interest at heart. Trust has gone after experiencing a narc relationship. I hope i can grow stronger and tougher as opposed to being taken for granted.
Have witnessed some of his poor decisions now that I have left… and the mask has slipped…his stories no longer make sense, and the lies are ridiculous… Have a great evening!
You have been a light house in the midst of a number of the mighty storms in my life. Narcissists are so destructive to themselves and everyone and mean everyone around them whether the know it or not because its always true.
Actually I was taught narcissism 101 in school lol, but that was eons ago and theoretical. These ppl are so cunning I think until you’ve had a personal experience with one you’re at risk.
Yes. You have to go through the hell of a narcissistic relationship to fully understand these demons. Then you become aware and hopefully never let it happen again.
when the stepdaughter narcissist has to be endured, for years, they never realized they could be abandoned as an adult. same for elderly narcs. Ive always made it known to them they are dead to me and abandon them. not taking shit from anyone now neither should you.
ANDREW MY MAN YOUR RIGHT ABOUT THESE FOLKS THEY MIRROR PEOPLE INTHE MOST DECEPTIVE WAY,I WAS A VICTIM AT ONE TIME BUT I EMERGED AS A VICTORIOUS CHILD OF GOD BECAUSE YOUR CHANNEL HELP ME TO SEE WHAT I WAS DEALING WITH YOUR THE MAN ANDREW I SALUTE YOU KEEP SPREADING YOUR MESSAGE PEOPLE ARE LISTENING GOD BLESS YOU'VE HELP IMMENSELY
Andrew, I watch your videos frequently but hardly ever comment. I just want to say that you are a beacon of light in the darkness for so many wounded good spirits. Your worth is completely priceless and through the roof AMAZING. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being such a good role model for the entire world including myself ❤️
Thank you..😌💜🙏⛰️
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you brother
I couldn't have said that better !
Yes❤He helped me unknowingly tremendously through a hard time which I overcame with his message.
He saved me too! God bless you Andrew
Andrew you said it right on, “when the money is gone they are gone” this is 100% correct!
Yes, and I’d add - when your youth is gone, or your raising the children is done, or looks have gone … very predictable
True
100%
You have to feel nothing for them , don’t hate them don’t love them nothing
You are absolutely right.👍😊
I burned the candle at both ends for 7 years. His income doubled when with me. He made sure all of his financial obligations were paid off and that is when the discard happened. They are users and abusers nothing more.
Yep. Been there.
Our family is suffering from our son's wife. We are close knit, but our son cannot see the forest for the trees. She Is Jekyll and Hyde. His dad is in hospital, will not visit by himself (only once because she gave her ok ). She controls everything and he lets her. We do not have a number to reach him, only hers, Need prayers, peace and miracle.
The narc's poor decisions are like the definition of insanity..
they keep doing the same things expecting a different result,
only to stay trapped in the web of their making!
Be Well, Be Wise 🌈 🎀😘
Poor decisions, Exactly!
It's hard being the truth teller in the narcissists world of bad decisions. I wonder after repeating their loop so many times if they expect a different result, or if the rely on the same results. That could be a new definition of insanity....😊
You keep making your good decisions.....the narcissist never will.
😊❤ wise&well
“I’m returning to my original high vibrational natural state…I am abundant!”
RUN NO MATTER WHAT!
Gbu AMEN 😂❤
I did and it's refreshing to be free.
“ They will succeed until they can’t “.I like the way you put words. They think they can outsmart everyone, poor things, they bounce back with ( bruises),financially and emotionally. Hence moving on to another supply !!!
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Thanks, remember folks: your joy is a narcissist's misery, and your misery is a narcissist's joy. It does get better. It may not feel that way now, but it does ☮️💪🥰🌞
You are right. I was SO distraught. Only temporary. It does get better. Thank you for this post.
It surely will!!! And not " only" better!!! It will get amazing! It takes time but eventually we'll ALL get there!
Thanks to our master Andrew and all the effort we but in ourselves! ❤
Walk on, run on, swim on and carry on. Never stop.
Nice to know you relate. See u at 7a tomorrow no matter how you move. Let's go!!!
Thank you! I’m no longer “punching a clock” being his 2nd mother. Nothing I did for him was ever enough. A couple days before I put him out, he told me “you are as good as gold until you’re not.” He doesn’t realize In the end “baby, I am gold and you’re not!” 😂😂😂
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This is so true! Andrew hits the nail on the head with all his videos. My sons dad USED me to have a baby without a marriage, several boyfriends used me way back, my landlord was angry and abusive towards me just because I had some rights to live ar the old apartment. She was required to give me some payment to move. She pulled alot of crap. The narcissist HATES doing the right thing!
After ending things today and telling my ex that she will not be love-bombing me, I also blocked all contact with her so I am now healing and feeling so much better and I am hoping 2025 will be a year of peace ☮️
Thank goodness!
Wishing you the best, Malcolm!
Stay strong🙏
Yes, stay strong Malcolm, for peace and happiness to reign in your life ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
Congratulations Malcolm. 😊❤ I am only going to say one thing. WE MUST GO NO CONTACT or it's epic failure. Can't be friends or acquaintances. They don't work that way. Only no contact will help you heal. Play the tape out to the end. Cycle of terror LOL
Hello Andrew, yes they make poor decisions. Like throwing away a good wife 😔🙌🙏
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@reneelyndamartinez1362 my maiden name was Martinez. I used to cry, too, but the closer I get to freedom the easier it gets. Hope you find freedom too someday! 🌠💖
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That is the thing that really got to me is that I kept seeing my life be affected by the narcissist's bad decisions and it was all gradually going downhill for me. Thank God I got out. It's a lesson in boundaries I will never forget.
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Thank you. God bless you.
Welcome..😌🙏💜
I needed to hear this ..I needed the reminder .
This is 💯 percent true. I remember my ex narc who's soon to be 63, told me that he's going to do whatever he wants to do and whenever he wants to .
After 30 years, I divorced him in October 2024.
I finally have peace and a whole lot of life left in me to live. 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
Get out if you can . It's never too late ❤️
Wishing a good night to you, Andrew and our community here! ❤
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Laying it all down for those who were not worthy... is not a waste,
It's a lesson that we were fortunate to learn....not because we did wrong...
but because the narcissist is alive & well on planet earth!
Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
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Lesson learned....
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Yesss - take the lesson away from it all. Thank you for this post. So important to remember 😊❤
Thank you Andrew for being a guide of providing awareness to these monsters.
So true! He has to get "away". Don’t have a clue where he goes. Even over night. I have so much energy when he's not here!!
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They are takers & steal your money & beautiful soul. No good ever comes out of any of these's toxic relationships. Life can only get better if your narcissistic & toxic free. Ive had a few trying the holiday Hoover's & no chance at all with me. Once you heal & have got the wisdom 🙏 ✨️ you will never put up with anyone abusing you in anyway 🎉 Wonderful night video Andrew ❤ blessings 🌞 🙌 to you all & stay strong 💪 🙏 💙
Another wonderfully lightening video Andrew. Thank you so much. You have helped me beyond what you can ever know.
Welcome..😌🙏💜
Thank you for your very kind complimentary words. You are a bright shining beautiful person empath too. I have been Narcopath free for 7 years and almost one month now. I love my life now at 61 years old. I have the mindset of keeping on moving forward only. 🎉❤😊😍🤗🎄
Welcome..😌😌💜🙏
Andrew,
Once again you describe everything flawlessly. Picture perfect narcissism 101.
Dealing w it. At the end of the day I feel bad for the narcissist and their poor decisions. I have compassion but will not be an unpaid helper again.
Unfortunately these people do not grow or change as they are not very self aware. Its quite sad. I wish the best for everyone. All you can do is stay away from their nonsense
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This is all so true! Thank you so much! Freedom from these people is life changing. ❤
Once they show you who they are, believe them.
Great video Andrew. Thanks. Yes they still continue to hoover and harass even though you have gone no contact and blocked them. THey are toxic and often turn into stalkers. it is scary when you see who they really are and that they are so toxic.
Yep. He used all my resources-my organization, my money from my organization, my business mind, my money from my business, my love for developing myself and he became a coach and he literally took everything about me and made himself a split image of me. I helped him build a business because he claim he was too old to do anything new once his job dried up. He got prostate cancer and I supported him just to find out that he was cheating on me the whole time. And in the end he stole my portion of the business money. He never read books and all of a sudden he wanted to read. I gave him everything and he was nothing like what he is now. He acted as if he was going to run for political office in our area yet he was a demon in disguise, lying the whole time. In the end he told me he was watching me and needed my energy. He took advantage of my heart but I got away. They are demons and will even abuse their own children.
Omg my husband of 30 years steals all my ideas they pretends it was his. If we talk about anything the next day he acts like he was the one that told me. He mirrors everything I do.
I’ve learned to say nothing to him but sometimes I forget that I’m talking to a person that is a Narc .
Love this guy❤ Always accurate😊
Thank you Andrew, So right
Merry Christmas 🎄
I would love to know you in person, Andrew. I am an RN/Empath who has finally incorporated the traits of a Narcissists who have been in my life since childhood. i am in my cocoon of boundaries and healing with my eyes wide open. My life has changed drastically since my awakening. I appreciate what you are doing for all of us out here supporting our growth and validating our healing path. God Bless You. My world has definitely changed in a miraculous direction.
Thank you Andrew🌸
I understand now…I was going to make a big mistake😞 Now I have to look for the right path I should go …
I almost forgot my sister in law was the worst narcissist and that was the beginning of everything😞 Thank you again Andrew🤗
After 23 miserable years I'm finally free. Thanks for the encouragement Andrew
Amazing share..its all so true, thank you for your support ❤
I just cleaned out 2 yrs of financial folders from when I was with the ex-narc. Every check and all documents had my pen strokes. Not one word, letter or pen stroke was made by him. The built-in accountant resigned 6 yrs ago. He just bought a mobile home, financed over $200,000 at the age of 68 years old. His new supply is another old guy who is also a narcissist. For me, I am living independently and free in my paid up house these past 6 years.
Great video. I am almost there. I had a great day today so I am moving forward. It is an emotional rollercoaster but so worth it. I have been suffering from joint pain and today is gone. My anxiety was nonexistent.
Bless u so much❤❤❤
These videos juice me up each day enough to make it a little more bearable than the day before. Other channels almost make me feel worse. You should have some of us "targets" on, interview style, to tell our stories. I'd be first in line lol
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Narcissists are so messed up! Nice scenery where you are tonight. Thanks for another super video Andrew. Blessings to you for doing all you do to help us all in this community.
The narcissist is dumbfounded how the empath sails the sea of life alone. Not lonely but alone. They are barnacle, they can only look for someone or something to hang on and ride. They look to enmesh they are horrified that we are free beings and they are slaves. But they choose their life daily every hour every moment.
My relationship of 44yrs! At the end! He turned to alcohol and wasted all his money! Blamed me! Than kicks me out of our home!
As long as the narc has enough money... And at least a tiny bit of health... The grift will continue. I would love to see more content on the wealthy narc
We might be able to start with Elon Musk, the guy with 12 kids (one who hates him, another who was given an unpronounceable name cuz quirky), ruined Twitter, and currently THE richest human ever.
Same!
@@b8akaratn19
Narcissists censor people.
Actually there is plenty of that in the news. LOL. Nothing like the worst of them imploding on the public stage.
I read somewhere that every wealthy narc cheats. My narc husband is wealthy (doesn’t share it with me or anyone)… that really made me think
@13:12 "So whenever that relationship ended, that's when it was supposed to end. However that relationship ended, that's how it was supposed to end." Thank you for saying that, Andrew. It *was* a hard pill to swallow. But the truth is.... no sane person should stay in a crazy-making relationship with a person who refuses to accept reality, and will commit the most heinous acts to prevent the truth from coming out.
I'm putting myself back together, staying by myself and thanking God I'm free. Your videos are so helpful. Thank you❤ I have so much more energy
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Thank you I needed this sleeping in my car again.
Thank you so much for these reminders, it helps us stay free.
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Maybe they "left to the store for milk" but they were actually texting hate mail from your phone to your mama... or setting up a scandal to someone through your phone. When they get home they frisbee your phone across the room where you later find it under the sofa. And of course... they are trying to make you crazy. Just remember you had a gut instinct before them, pray for guidance. Trust your gut, listen to the little children, yield to your trusted friends and family who know you. Forgive yourself and move forward towards safety. Such a great message here 😎
I hear you so loud it's like you're sitting next to me. Narcspouse stomped on and cracked mine in front of me after having backhanded me in the back of the head one night. These monsters ...
@@b8akaratn19 Sad. Cruel, possessed monsters. Not to be filled with anger but rather embrace trusting your own instincts 🥰 So glad you were strong.
The aging narcissist wont escape his karma and there’s nothing more pathetic than aging narc. Narcissistic collapse is real. Thank you, for the information and confirmation! 🙏🤗💕
I got to the point in my former narcissistic relationship that I got tired of being the one who was always pulling the cart so to speak. Of course I was ridiculously optimistic and as soon as I try to let him go of course I get loved bombed and I fall for it and it’s a continual cycle. I’m happy to report that it’s been over two years and I wish I would’ve done it sooner
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Your channel has grown SO much Andrew!!! I’m so happy to see you are still sharing the wisdom for others! God bless you and everyone watching this video. You are here by coincidence, you’re here to help you in your healing ❤️🩹 journey
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He used to call me weak, pathetic, annoying, and worse. Even back then I knew it was all projection. How badly he must think of himself to throw around labels like that. Truly a "petulant child" as you mentioned. I almost feel compassion for his doomed psyche, but still remember the hurt he caused. That memory is unpleasant, but in a way it's also my protection.
Thank you Andrew. I have used this exact quote multiple times about poor decisions because I have to coparent with her and the new supply, after her moving our kids almost two hours away to be with him.
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It took me so long to be able to say no. I thought saying no and having boundaries was rude or offensive. But I got to a point in life where I was so exhausted trying not to disappoint people. And those people were never happy no matter what I did. The goal post keep moving. Cutting people out of my life wasn’t a choice. I couldn’t take it anymore. My circle is very small. It only includes people who don’t get upset when I say I can’t do something.
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Yes 💯 same here!!!!
I’ve been a chronic people pleaser and I’m just now learning to say no. I always cared too much about what other people think. It’s not healthy so I’m learning new ways of protecting myself. I’m in my 60s and wish I had known decades ago. Could’ve saved myself a lot of grief.
@ I hear you! I wish I knew all of this sooner. I’m just glad for knowledge and support here be able to make changes. We got this!
They make such poor decisions they can't keep up with what they have said make 100[ plans and follow through with nothing I heard it so much when he started I turned my ears off
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Narcs make you believe they are strong......that they are better than anyone you will ever meet. But like Andrew says (I'm 1+ year after leaving the narcissist .....after 7 years of him always discarding me multiple times!) .....believe me: once you get through the terrible hell (I left him for the first and final time, even though i still loved him), you will not see it any other way than Andrew describes. It is unbelievably painful.....especially to let go of someone you still loved, There is an expression or something i've once heard:: 'It was harder to stay, then to leave."........ hang in, to those of you that are in the dark hell.....it WILL get better once you start to love yourself again. Peace and love to this community xo
I'm so sorry you went through so much hell for 7 years but I'm glad you got away and moved forward with you life. I was with my ex for 7 years as well and we broke up Christmas eve after I found out she was cheating the night before while I was home with 3 kids so I get it fully. God bless you please keep your head up
@@timothyduffey4528I had similar experience with my X.
@@timothyduffey4528 thank you, and God bless you, too! Crazy how similar our stories are. Sheesh!!!
@@raegirl5551 Thank you so much as well, it really is tho when I was reading your story I was shocked
I never thought in a milliom years I would as a man deal with another man that is a pure narcissist (not in gay relationship or anything) but a guy who just wants to burn bridges and keep watch of what Im doing!
Thank you Andrew! your communication abilities are profound. You do a wonderful job of dissecting each subject and breaking down the barriers of understanding. I'm in the very beginning of my post-narc experience and I feel like you are my guide to learning how to heal. I trust you and you talent. Thanks for making me feel like someone out there can relate. I'm humbled.
Andrew your assessments are so true! You help them make the right decisions until you get the education. Then you sit back and watch them own anything that goes well and blame you for the rest. Empty shells, waste of space and all that…
Once i realized that i had to get the education about narcissism and use the tools to protect myself, i also knew that i needed to read behind people's masks to make better choices. Mostly whom i let into my life and whom i don't let into my life. And now my quality of life is getting much better. Have a great evening Andrew, keep warm out there. Don't catch a cold 🥶🤧😉🫶💜⛰️✨️
Love this video, Andrew!❤ I am truly living a Beautiful & Empathetic Life✨ 1 Yr & 1/2 free from ex-Narc. Thank you for your wisdom & realness about this issue. You help me this whole time 😊🙏🏻❤
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Thank you very much Andrew for the expertise.You are cheering with us all.
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I totally agree, they take all they can at any time they want.
I'm exhausted....and done!!
I'm free now and slowly healing.❤
Thank you Andrew ❤ God bless you❤
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Thank you so much for this excellent video. Everything you said rings true. Yes they were making poor decisions before we met them yet they accuse of of ruining their lives. Their life was ruined long ago. When the ex narcissist was released from prison he blamed me . He said you have no idea how hard it was doing time. I wanted to say well don’t break the law and you won’t end up doing time . I never said it because the consequences would not have been good.
Thank you Andrew for taking time out of your Sunday night 🌙 to help us all with our healing 🙌 ✝️
THANK you Andrew ✨️🇫🇷☃️🌳🙏🐶🐶stay warm & Noah & Nelson too!! We are Free of the Narc/ control!! 2nd Christmas no Stress & dishonesty from my Narc/sister!! MY home here in France is filled with the light of Christmas🌳🌲✨️🇫🇷💯💚
Really good content here and a great reminder for everyone.
@ 17:31 Sleeping 8 hours soild !
Gbu I can id 20yrs in a Narcissist relationship , GOD sees, hears and see all the moves I wouldn't do thats what broke the camals back GOD MY PROTECTOR DISCARDED HIM AMEN.❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂
Thank u so much for those true wonderful words.i feel that I am worth it.❤
Thank you again NARCDAILY 🙏
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Just be you.But do it away from that dungeon they call home😅😅😅
You're so right, Andrew.
How you know these details is amazing.
I noticed all of it with my experience in a relationship. I mistakeningly accepted a hoover that lasted several months. After meeting his abusive mother, I came to know where his trauma came from. Yikes.
I ended the relationship. I hopefully mortified him enough to ensure he doesn't come back. It has been over 3 months.
Great video!! Thank you!!
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You are exactly right about everything
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Try over 50years. Adopted into a narcissistic cult family. Then a cult for 11 years. Then flatmates, then friends and in laws. Finally now landlords. It just never end !!!
I have never ever seen anyone so impulsive in my 56 years on this planet. This video nails it. Why I felt like I was whacked upside the head when they'd leave is because they're SO IN YOUR FACE. 24/7. Almost. Then NOTHING. It's a hole in my life. Irregardless of them having NPD, the void is what made me "miss" them.
I told him I was drawn to him from the first date when I met him. There was something about him. Yes, it was the mask. He fooled me that he was my kinda guy. I never seen "that" guy again. Or very briefly at most.
For 3 years, I seen flags and didn't want to be judgey. The phone went to the washroom every time. I don't check phones anyway. Not my thing. But looking back he was always on it. Yet he'd comment about me always on my phone. Total lie. I didnt know where my phone was half the time. He asked me my I locked my screen. I said because it keeps my information safe. Always questioning me. It was his mind working overtime. LOL
One thing I have noticed in my life. It is so simple but food tastes good again. 😅😅
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So does the Weed they could never afford that all they do is steal 🥩🐽
Don't let them steal ur food
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So true
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Thank you for the content. Since i watched your youtube I have learnt so much and have become very aware of people. People can be very fickle and fake, not just the narc. Thats why no i no longer make all that effort investing time with others as most people dont have your best interest at heart. Trust has gone after experiencing a narc relationship. I hope i can grow stronger and tougher as opposed to being taken for granted.
ThankYou 4Sharing Andrew!!! 💙🕊 ⚜ 💠🕯MuchLove N GodBless You!!!
I was teaching for years. Thats when I saw - youre not supposed to be telling an adult basic human interaction.
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Have witnessed some of his poor decisions now that I have left… and the mask has slipped…his stories no longer make sense, and the lies are ridiculous… Have a great evening!
You have been a light house in the midst of a number of the mighty storms in my life. Narcissists are so destructive to themselves and everyone and mean everyone around them whether the know it or not because its always true.
Love you Andrew!!!!!
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If they go to jail we get a record contract in writing who knew😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Actually I was taught narcissism 101 in school lol, but that was eons ago and theoretical. These ppl are so cunning I think until you’ve had a personal experience with one you’re at risk.
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Yes. You have to go through the hell of a narcissistic relationship to fully understand these demons. Then you become aware and hopefully never let it happen again.
This was a strong video Andrew . Thank you
God bless you Andrew, I'm so glad I found your channel. My heavenly father is protecting you and your family.❤
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when the stepdaughter narcissist has to be endured, for years, they never realized they could be abandoned as an adult.
same for elderly narcs.
Ive always made it known to them they are dead to me and abandon them.
not taking shit from anyone now
neither should you.
ANDREW MY MAN YOUR RIGHT ABOUT THESE FOLKS THEY MIRROR PEOPLE INTHE MOST DECEPTIVE WAY,I WAS A VICTIM AT ONE TIME BUT I EMERGED AS A VICTORIOUS CHILD OF GOD BECAUSE YOUR CHANNEL HELP ME TO SEE WHAT I WAS DEALING WITH YOUR THE MAN ANDREW I SALUTE YOU KEEP SPREADING YOUR MESSAGE PEOPLE ARE LISTENING GOD BLESS YOU'VE HELP IMMENSELY
It's such a great video.....Very supportive. Thank you so much
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