5 SIGNS You Might Be A LOW VALUE Man
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- Опубликовано: 25 июл 2019
- Ever wondered if you unknowingly do things that make others view you as a low value man -- even though you're actually a high value male -- then you're going to like this video.
Demonstrating to others that you're a high status man who has value is great because it makes you more attractive and more respectable.
Real people barely got any friends🤷🏾♂️
Jugg Season facts
I dont have friends cause other humans can be shady and have a agenda.
you nailed it👏
I only have a hand full of friends because most people are obsessed with mindless trivial shit such as sports, stupid reality tv shows and they love to gossip about other people. They don’t worry about or care about things that actually matter. Very few people these days that are red pilled.
totallylooneytunes facts of life, carved in marble. So frustrating that women don't get this simple fact... like they're mentally still stuck in high school or something
I'm high value when I'm alone, but I'm low value when i go outside.
Improve your social skills and you will feel the difference, I recommend "Charisma On Command" channel he really good at addressing this kind of issues and help you stand better against that kind of insecurities.
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Bro, please don’t think like that, whatever positive inner talk you have inside the house take the same positive inner talk outside the house, I know it maybe hard but be hyper aware of that and do it, write it down or something so you can remember
@@LyJoker but if you have autism or other personaility disorder than how the fuck can you learn charisma
Distreet Pictures exactly!
1. No Friends
2. Complain (Negative energy)
3. Insecurity
4. Criticising other people
5. Emotional Intelligence (How well you know your self, how well
you manage your emotions and how you create connection with
other people)
You are welcome
i can't read
How can you type??
miximup Thank you. I don't ever need to watch the video no more thanks to people like uou.
So many simps up in here lol
@@TheBishop12 hahah, simps. I haven't heard that in a long time.
In my mind , to be a high value man, just mind your own business, be low key , don’t show off. Always speak when you have to speak, but don’t talk too much , show respect and courtesy, and keep the girls guessing , what your all about.
Chouds Pride that's me
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Chouds Pride you got it!
That was fake value.
BINGO
Those who fly alone have the strongest wings.
Sign number 1. You follow one girl every single day
For the most part. I know someone that flies solo but sadly he fits all 5 categories of low value.
Yeh it's a truth
Anti-social behavior is a trait of intelligence in a world full of conformists. - Nikola Tesla
*_One Big Indicator:_* Lack of self-love
Is that a personal attack lol
Underrated comment. Self-love deters a lot of these tendencies.
Man, I am my biggest enemy....
Cereal example doesn’t work, if there’s only 1 box left then it means that it’s almost sold out. Meaning it’s popular
he said that there r 2 groups.1)10 15 boxes r kept there and on other shelf away from it2) only 1 box is there.Its obvious we will think that box is euther defective or something thats why its seperated and we will take box from a GROUP one😅
I can agree with that
@@bruh4196 Nah I'll take lonely box
and I will do research online and buy the cereal that comes highest recommended by dieticians etc. I'm not joking, I am rarely able to make intuitive decisions.. it can be a problem! Although, with quick access to online reviews etc, it's a lot easier now.
its not a good example. the staff in the grocery store doesnt know how to arrange the cereals, items that are near expiration its place in front of the display.
And people wonder why they end up with fake friends. Society deems you as low value or uncool for not hanging around with people, even if you don't like them.
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯💯
It’s totally fine to have a small circle of close friends
Yuhhh
The realest ppl dont have lots of friends... in my view, ppl who have alot of friends are operating on a different plane, different frequency and havent been through pain.
100000% TRUE. God pulled me away from my family, friends, and city to live an isolated existence in my teen years and it was in those years that I grew a backbone and became less sensitive. I hated God and my life in those years, but if I could do it all again, I would. And do it even better.
People with loads of friends need others to remove their pain. They lack internal strengt to deal with sh*t themselves. A leader knows how to survive alone if necessary. You never get strong (or alpha) by relying on other people to remove your pains or struggles.
What does no friends gotta do with value. I choose not to have them cuz I like being alone and chooose when I wanna talk and go out.
Chris Bidegain 👏👌😎
@Malcolm M yes I see now
Social status! But no you don't have to have them
"I like being alone and chooose when I wanna talk and go out"
You can do that while having friends. It's called saying "No".
IF having no friends does not impede your ability to pick up women means you are a sigma male...
yeah but it is best to build a friend base at least in your peripheral, you are unlikely to maintain long term attraction with a girl, as she start notice later on .
Nice cope.
@@yomomomama3964 Thnks you are right bro
I am pretty awkward when socializing with people. Barely have any friends. I keep to myself and do have hobbies and goals I work towards. I just am not much of a people person. But people around me seem curious af as to why I barely talk. There has been co workers who have asked me dumb questions because of my demeanor. I just wanna stay away from loud people throwing their business out there and do my own thing.
Your a bad ass bro remember that.
What demeanor do you have
You're very wise. How can i be so sure. It exudes from your words.
Notice how throughout this video, being "high status/value" is associated with a drawing of a physically attractive man, while being "low status/value" is associated with a drawing of an unattractive man. It's ironic that you dont even realize that you're reinforcing the source of what causes many men to feel insecure in the first place 🙄.
@venomspeak exactly! But people like to pretend this natural law doesn't exist.
3 mind in I realized that dude. Thought i was the only one.
I'm not sure your point is valid. Look at "Woody Allen," not very attractive, but have something that very attractive women adore him.
Really depends on one's mood. On good days, I can look into the mirror, be that in the morning or in the evening and see a relatively attractive, high value person. On days where I'm less comfortable with myself, I see a person of, at best, mediocre value, that needs improvement.
@@a45williams he’s referring to the video.
Study Niki Lauda - he admitted to have ZERO friends, yet he's a Legend in the sports world and loved by the world.
It's been my experience that deep thinkers and highly intelligent people tend to have few if any "close" friends. Matching intellects is difficult for these people, but they are generally friendly. Not what I would define as "low value", but more discerning of the company they keep.
That's correct (4 years later comment)
"Sometimes, insecurities are real things, like going bald". As a balding 22 year old you destroyed any shred of confidence I had left.
Huh?
Being bald means a woman goes to bed with two bald heads.
Up your game Bro. ... you are what you think.
.. just start shaving your head all over... that's a statement... While your peers are whinging about hair products and hairdressers..you get more time to play the game!!.... harden up.
Too sad. Many like bald men. especially if he has a beard.
I'm not too bad looking with a full head of hair, but without it I look absolutely disgusting.
Bald looks masculine if you ask me
Marines are basically almost bald...gang members, many cops have little hair on their head....
A low value man actually doesn't value himself.
Excellent point!!
You a legend
@@patrick6662 Yep
@@limo3419 Lol....I don't know about that
Facts 💯
I was feeling really shity about myself after a recent breakup. This video helped me to realize that it really wasn't my fault and that I made the right decision. Thank you!
Caring how others view you is a low value trait periodt
Truth
Are traits like honesty, kindness, compassion, a giving attitude not more important than this high and low value. People who have status don't really care about status. If you care so much about status goes to prove you really have no status. Focus on being a light unto ourself, focus on love and serving others and the right people will be attracted to you. If you focus on all these high or low value traits you will attract the wrong kinds of people into your life. Own who you are, if you have no friends own it. That doesn't mean you have to have no friends forever, make it a goal to have more friends for yourself but not to potray high value.
All you have to do is live in your truth and be the best version of yourself unapologetically there's a tribe out there for all of us take what you can use and leave the rest thus all RUclips content is subjective
Why would people even visit this channel if they didn't care at all how others view them? If you look for advice but say you dont care youre just in denial. Caring too much might be a sign of low value, but there is a balance. The way people view you will have real impact on your life, anything from your ability to make friends, to form romantic relationships to getting a job (or being succesfull if you start your own company) which again determined your economy and whether you spend most of your life doing something you love or hate (or something in between)
or if you even think in values at all
The cereal box analogy was extremely lame
Stop complaining
How would you show it?
Yeah. I was thinking that its because that cereal is really popular and everyone's buying it totally negating the anecdote.
@@LuckLuckie1 Start reading.
Darnell Warren now he’s right it means that that cereal box has higher popularity that’s its being sold more is what I think
Guys that are not goal driven or future focused on their purpose are low value.
Irish redpill coach
what if a person rather live to be happy and have fun and enjoy his life instead of wasting lots of time to have meaningless materialistic shit. ever thought of that? goals are only for people who wants/needs them.
I am glad I subscribed to this channel. This channel is helping me to improve myself day by day.
Theworld isimmense I see where you’re coming from
Theworld isimmense do you think? 🤔 because people who care too much about others are followers and low value men.
If I remember correctly, Steve Jobs had no friends...
One in a billion case
Having alot of friends can be a downfall
really? That's surprising
He had subordinates 🤷
Wasn't Bill Gates his friend?
I choose not to have many friends I can get along and talk to different people men and women
But I choose not to have many friends I don't care what the girl thinks of me
She be probably more curious than anything and being mysterious is good
Women like that
Also I don't agree with your cereal box theory
If I seen a box sitting by itself I will automatically think it has to be on offer or is discounted and if so I would buy it because just because your by yourself dosnt mean there's no use for you
Gaz Nann thank you!
I would maybe thing it was rare or special since there aren't any like it
You missed the entire point bro. He saying that women psychologically assume that something is wrong with that guy if he has no friends. This is especially true today with all the crazy shit happening among men. If she judges you for that there is nothing wrong with it because she’s doing it for her own safety. Even nerds have friends despite the fuck shit of high school or society. It’s also good for you personally to have friends because you need to be around like-minded, positive, individuals Who are what you aspire to be. Being socially inept doesn’t make you real.
Good one!
1st sign- you are watching this video.
Well. You are as well
S G - Very sobering point!
Nahhhh...0:50 Proves that
@@helmuthvonmoltke858 nah I didn't. Came here just to comment this.
Fucker, you caught me...
I have many insecurities. Here are some examples and what I do:
When I chat with someone I think "I'm probably boring" "Still no response..." "I shouldn't have said that...".
You can manage this feeling by having only short chats and not caring about what others think. Eventually the more people you chat with the more confidence you get and the less you care.
When I talk to people I think "They'll make fun of me when I leave" "They know I'm not confident".
In this case, you have to check your body language. You can even record your voice and listen to how it sounds.
I avoid eye contact in crowded places, because I may not recognise people and I'm too nervous to initiate a conversation when people are watching.
If you don't want anything from anybody, you can just say hi confidently and walk away. If you want to have a conversation, then you can ask a simple thing like "How are you?". If they respond and ask you back, you can start the conversation, but if they answer and turn away or don't even reply, just walk away. If you have the confidence also say a joke like "Ehh, you have bug in your ears?" :D
One thing overlooked is physical health. If you're not feeling right then you will exhibit all of those traits.
Particularly if you have long term problems relating to diet and lack of sleep.
No friends doesn't mean you are low-value.... So many high value guys were loners. Nikola Tesla was avreal high value guy.... Totally disagreed with that one particular point.
When someone has to many friends most of the time they are being someone they are not to gain the approval of others. In life you will be love and hated by people you know and you don't know. If you try to seek others approval than you are already low value. A high value male is on his purpose and doesn't need to entertain other people especially women.
Yup..
@d Exactly my point... He gave no shit about other people or their opinions on him. That's real legendary right there!
@@leviathandiabolo6296 precisely!
Exceptionally much of a gem mine Channel I have been attending in silence long as I can remember I'm in a learning trend again thx you should come with more to the chart.
great advice!
One of the most insightful videos I've seen in a long time
Much better to be alone in the right direction than to have a lot of friends but in wrong direction
Thankyou Julian! Spot on! Your the best youtuber
@Matt Ludwig well put nice one!
Strongly agree for all the keypoints especially with having friends. A man or a person having absolutely no friends means that u not interested in people making u perceive as a weird, at least that's what i had observed. Friends doesnt have to be many. Be friends with everyone and if they done bad on you, assert urself and its up to u if u will unfriend them or not.
Don't make fun of anyone, you don't know what they are going through
When he said, No.1 Sign - No friends, just stopped watching the whole video.
Agreed 100%.
you are suffering from mental discognition. social status opens up networks, increasing your value further.
I got a lot of friends they alsow wanne hang out with me, but ik prefer to be on my own, sow ik dont need a higher status
bruh. making friends is easy. Just target real friends
I agree with all your points besides the first one. In certain context friends aren’t needed to be high value. The opposite can be true, once again in certain context. Having little to no friends makes you high value because it shows that you’re capable of prioritizing your life and values. Theres a time and place for everything and being able to discern that precisely is extremely high value.
Great Video!! Thanks :)
Seeing someone who cycles through people that they want to "show off" is a sign that they don't have friends, they have trophies. Its a tactic that gives an air of sociability when there isn't one.
Keep one good friend around .. That is value
You changing lives❤️
cool stuff
Define success on your own terms and be the best version of yourself 😃😎
Ηaving a genius level iq is a reason to not have many friends.
Steve jobs
It’s not a reason, it’s stupid. A genius level iq guy that choses to not have any friends is plain old stupid.
Not true. I'm not even a genius, but I'm gifted an I have no friends because I have aspergers. My friend Catzee has 142 IQ and is suffering from the same issues. Anyone above average is probably drawn to esoteric stuff that most people don't like because it's hard (i.e. Speedrunning or math) which makes it harder to find people with similar interests.
This is a reply to Durium btw
They have a page dedicated to laughing at people like you on reddit. But I can't pick on you. The reason why I have broken up with my last four girlfriends is because I couldn't imagine not being curious about the world. The world is stacked against us as men. Work hard and get the girl you deserve fellas. Best-
I’m loving the consistency bro
Great teaching.
Might be worth looking at your social circles as well. In a more positive group, you will become more positive, change the way you view things and automatically increase your value
Having loads of friends indicates insecurity in my opinion, because it show you are too insicure of being viewed as having no friends. A “high value man” wouldn’t be insicure about something as small as that
Absolutely!! Thanks to RUclips for suggesting this to me
Man, i don't have friends.
I dont have friends either cause all the ones i had only wanted me for favors and spend money on then so i gave everyone the cold shoulder and now I feel a lot better
thats not a bad thing. most people are not worth being friends with
I totally agee, specially on the importance of Emotional Intelligence.
Please could you made a video about the ability to pick up and read emotions and body language of others? Thanks and best regards from Spain.
At around 2:20 I wouldn't use the cereal analogy because, if it's the only one left, then chances are that it's a good cereal since it's almost sold out. Spot on with the points that you are making though.
So your name is Julian! okay
I'm really grateful Julian for contents you always provide us with
Thank you
Wait a minute criticism is what makes you a low value man? How? Because last time I checked other people have the nerve to criticize you and they aren’t low value? Wow just wow
This video does make any sense. 'Having no friends makes you a low value man'. What the fuck? Was Nikols Tesla a low value man? Was Eminem a low value man?
@@leviathandiabolo6296 Generally, whatever your value is, having more friends will increase your value. Nikola Tesla was astonishingly introverted. But he went through a lot of pain and of social ostracism; there's no doubt if he had friends, his value would be more. Perhaps because towards the end of his life, he derailed: having an obsession with coins and the number 3
stiil i do like your videos and thank you🙂😊
Well this a pretty good video very informative but there is more to the game, you gotta turn your video game off and get out meet and talk to women , the more you do that the more you learn about the game and you’ll feel really good knowing that you’re in fact very valuable dude and nothing can stop you from getting the girl of your dreams ! you are the king so No fear bro 💪😎🙏🏽🔥
I subscribed to this channel when it had a mere 70k subs. Today it's got 1M... that is great!🤞🤞
Its a combination of : lack of good looks, shortness, ethnically dark, low social status, low self esteem.
Mr. Red exactly these red pill tips only work on potential chads PUA channels like these are going down in the manosohere thank god but they will continue with these falsehoods becuse they need hat patrean money so they themselfs can stay in front of there laptop making such crap and not experiencing the true world it’s time we start calling these red pillars and PUAs out there incels in denial that have a meat head jock mentality
Great video, but does "Fox & Friends" count as friends? Someone I know rings every bell on this list!
When you can enjoy the loneliness and handle two cute girls at the same time, there is literally no time for friends.
Your value begins in the mind - *thus being a mindset.*
You have to attain that attitude, before becoming it.
Insecurity, impulse, bad managing of emotions, gossiping, too much tv... So a low value guy is technically a girl.
Women have all those traits and want a guy with none of those traits lol
To be a MAN, don't be a girl
Simple but tru!
@@macho-qs1hy yeah i hear you
If you have 1 true friend you are lucky. 1 thing to remember, be the friend you want to have, but choose wisely because many are friends to your stuff, or your wife, and not your friend.
This was for me...thanks Julien
Thank you for the video. But I respectfully & strongly disagree about the MUST have friends advice!
That is quite well done stuff. You talk about of the point of womans view. How does you got the information? Dont get me wrong, i dont want to blame you or anyting. iam just courious where you have that knowledge from. Study, interviews or recherge? Bit of all?
the thing with the cereal, I definitely would've taken the cereal thinking there was something magical about it being alone on a huge shelf
how you making such good videos man.
criticizing other people = low value I have seen people build their status from busting on others
Fatelvis2 that was the entire career of trump
@@ashleyoasis7948 yea there were times he needed to slow his roll
The one box of cereal could be there because it's almost sold out, indicating many people found it valuable.
I do get your point and I guess that's why the cereal was drawn the same way. Want to take a personality test? Couldn't help my curiousity
Agree with all of these EXCEPT the first one
my biggest problem used to be - reading other people's emotions. I was so bad, that meeting a new person often was a cause massive anxiety, and I often just locked up. It took decades to get better at it; when each new person is a huge information overload, you tend to stick to people you already know very well - family, old friends from school or university. The only way to get better is to frequently thrust yourself into the midst of new people, with the primary goal of talking to as many people as possible. My final breakthrough was getting a job at a cell-phone store for three months, where there was a line of people in front of me, and I had to have 5-10 minute interactions with each one. It was grueling, but I got much, much better.
The high value person knows, it's not just about getting others to like you. It's about attracting the kind of people you want around, and scaring away the rest. The average person with lots of friends is only high value to those at their same level, average. Lots of those around. But to be truly high value, one must exceed the crowd and attract only those who are also able to exceed the expectations of the crowd. One will have fewer friends, but they will all be of higher value, and really bring something special to the relationship.
The force is fierce & most strong throughtout these finest of form lineages with whom I'm indebted my whole gratitude, for so graciously bestowing upon my alchemical mental planes, these ever evolving hidden mysteries of great value, most precious than all gemstones, silver, plus gold.
What books do you read? Where do you get these information?
The works of Padre Powah Peyness Panny Peñetratore
"Do not fear having no friends.
Fear having bad friends".
--Niccolo Machiavelli
My ex could not go a day without hanging with friends ( he was almost 40). GROSS. He was also a drunk and I immediately qualify low value with addiction.
So true Minty. 👍 This goes for both genders. It's good to let people like that go, because they drag you down with them and distract you from your own life goals. Yes, they're low value. They are addicted to attention, just like booze or any other drug, it's there to distract them from their own real issues. Low value people drag everyone else down with them .
I am a woman but this video is soo good! I am going yo apply to my life as well
Watching too much TV is an excellent path to lowering your own value.
The cereal box analogy is flawed. If there was only one left, you'd buy it because of scarcity.
Plain ass Fun and showing acting or going thru the motions of: full acceptance im how you are are with him or her....add a nice finger slide...kinda dragging touch on his arm..or leg or neck....3 things that really resparks up majorly damaged things within couples.
my ex has many “friends.” he even calls those strangers he plays with online his “buddies.” he has so much free time as he will not work while I go to school and pay all our bills. he complains when I ask him to help around the house. he likes to criticize people including his so called friends and family and they have no idea that he is like this behind their back. he even say “i hate him/her” (actors/actress on tv) as if he knows them. when i ask him why, he told me i just hate how his/her face looks. he’s not talking about the character they’re playing but it’s almost personal to him. he even told me that if he see that kid who used to bully him back in the day that he will beat him up. he lies, cheats, steals, manipulates and exploits too. so low value.
That is true social status is very important some guys think it's money but I think social status is even more important
This is a great video, but does "Fox & Friends" count as friends? I know someone who rings every bell on this list!
Oooooh is that a trump reference? You’re so edgy. I bet your wife’s boyfriend likes you a lot.
It's gonna be hard for me to change most things about myself to become a high value man. Ho, boy! Here I go!
I basically gave up for a game I lost since birth, but I just want to not feel so bad about it. Any idea to relinquish the depression?
5:08 You monster! You killed Harambe! Again!
It's ironic that these points literally the same as in the high value's video
In the last part of the video you can almost use the same point but with an attractive guy picture and it would be "the alpha male traits"
Great video! 🔥
Before all else know what your personality is, and what you care about. Know yourself and respect yourself for who you are, then work outward. If there is no inner understanding there is no outer success.
Friends do not keep you focused.
Be youself no matter what
I’m in my 40’s. I’m not trying to make “friends” at this age.
You need a pal, not so much a friend.
I was hosed by the 1:04 mark. I watched the rest anyways. It's almost like women want to enjoy life while sharing experiences or something.
So I have goals for life and just have 3-4 real friends that are motivating and love to talk about spiritual, physical and mental things like me. I train my brain and my body everyday and I am connected to my spiritual side as well, does that mean I am High status? The only thing I don‘t do is talking much, I am mostly silent and focused and don’t like to talk about unnecessary things like „did you see the amazing football goal yesterday?“ or crappy talks when you are bored with your buddy like „stfu man look at you you fat octopus looking biatch“. 😁
Avoid these mistakes because they're not to your advantage. The whole value system... that's debatable.
Knowledge helps