5 THINGS That Make Men LOOK Weak

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024
  • MANY men do these 5 things that make them look weak every single day, and it's not that they do it on purpose -- rather, it's that they had no idea that these things make them look weak from the point of view of other men and women.
    These are things that many guys would call 'beta', or say they're things a 'beta male' or 'nice guy' would do, so if you're doing them, simply stop doing them, and you might just find that you become a far more attractive, high-value male in the eyes of women.

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  • @aerdwolram3938
    @aerdwolram3938 4 года назад +1282

    If a guy convinces your girlfriend to leave you, he just did you a favor.

  • @thegentlemensgame
    @thegentlemensgame 5 лет назад +1852

    *My Top 5*
    1. Being more invested in a girl than she is in you
    2. Not having a clear sense of boundaries
    3. Not being decisive
    4. Not having a purpose/direction in life
    5. Speaking too fast, in a high pitch voice

    • @jonathandixon7518
      @jonathandixon7518 5 лет назад +80

      Having a high pitched voice in general*
      I feel bad that puberty didn't work for some guys

    • @holycrapitsjohnceena6007
      @holycrapitsjohnceena6007 5 лет назад +23

      Why does all those apply to me

    • @AbelR91
      @AbelR91 5 лет назад +66

      These are all symptoms of a bigger problem, trying to monitor these is like monitor how much you sneeze or cough when you have a cold. Videos like these are useless, you focus on the real problem which is self esteem and competence, not symptoms.

    • @deltharramorghal8130
      @deltharramorghal8130 5 лет назад +12

      ​@@AbelR91 And sometimes you are sick and you don't even know it, for the illness have been with you for so long, you have internalized the symptoms as part of you. I'd say videos like these are there for people that needs to remember the symptoms are present and real. You discern the symptoms in order to decipher the issue.

    • @sanadayukimura1615
      @sanadayukimura1615 5 лет назад +17

      The Gentlemen's Game 5. not doing nofap
      4. not doing nofap
      3. not doing nofap
      2. not doing nofap
      1. not doing nofap or having sweg

  • @TheRealFalkerry
    @TheRealFalkerry 5 лет назад +836

    1:00 1) Blaming other people for your own mistakes, *being passive-agressive*, being mad at Life in general (Be direct)
    2:10 2) Getting too emotional (self-control and calm are *VERY* sexy)
    3:00 3) Seeking approval from others
    3:55 4) Act instead of complaining about things
    4:40 5) Don't talk shit about other people BEHIND their backs (Be brave)
    (5:35) With that said, until next time.

    • @matija251
      @matija251 5 лет назад +22

      Plzz do this on more videos ty

    • @TheRealFalkerry
      @TheRealFalkerry 5 лет назад +32

      @@matija251 I, Falkerry first of my name, hereby declare that I will do this on every upcoming video of this channel.

    • @gladiator2003
      @gladiator2003 5 лет назад +16

      @@TheRealFalkerry Not all heroes wear capes!

    • @TheRealFalkerry
      @TheRealFalkerry 5 лет назад +24

      @@gladiator2003 some just wear condoms

    • @biluuu3313
      @biluuu3313 5 лет назад +1

      @@TheRealFalkerry hahhahaha good one

  • @samualcalnan2267
    @samualcalnan2267 5 лет назад +235

    Apologizing all the time for everything

    • @joebeta1837
      @joebeta1837 3 года назад +9

      I do too. I don't care if I'm considered weak. You know why? Because when the going gets tough, so-called alpha males end up running away. I, on the other hand, stay behind and get the job done.
      Guess who are the weak ones after all?

    • @chriscarlisle6835
      @chriscarlisle6835 3 года назад

      Exactly the same way with people who say thank you way too much

    • @shuukemedia1404
      @shuukemedia1404 3 года назад

      @@joebeta1837 ,

    • @yaquma
      @yaquma 2 года назад

      @@joebeta1837 bruh you are litterly beta🤣🤣

  • @ArtistNRecovery
    @ArtistNRecovery 5 лет назад +1256

    Number one- Watching videos about being a weak man.

  • @ayomideolawale4528
    @ayomideolawale4528 5 лет назад +169

    Being a weak man is caring whether or not people think you’re weak when you are doing what you need to do to heal yourself. Being weak is not admitting that men have emotions just like women and allowing other people to persuade you into believing you have to suppress those emotions. Being a weak man is not realizing that your masculinity (manhood) is not defined by a moment (or two) of weakness. Understand this: anyone (male or female) who takes advantage of you during moments of weakness is in fact the weak person. All men will experience weakness in life. How you respond to it is key. Manhood is defined by resilience.

    • @JayCo-1978
      @JayCo-1978 5 лет назад +8

      Your's is a perfect fucking comment, brother! I couldn't agree more!

    • @steveoneill1157
      @steveoneill1157 5 лет назад +9

      I have to agree with evil 69!! I couldnt have commented better!! They try to make men robotic thats supposed to be strong!? We are human not robots!! We will feel, we will make mistakes but real men admit to theirs and better themselves!!

    • @firestream93
      @firestream93 4 года назад

      Indeed, sir! Very insightful!

    • @Psalms23rd474
      @Psalms23rd474 4 года назад +2

      Exactly. There's someone for everyone. Besides, no matter how good and perfect a man may think that he is being or no matter how good you are doing for yourself someone else is always going to have a negative opinion to say about it. Think about it, people talked about Jesus Christ so therefore who are we. So you are exactly right .

    • @tonytaylor8198
      @tonytaylor8198 4 года назад

      Terrance Pinckney good stuff Terrance. 👍🏻

  • @omegawolf9537
    @omegawolf9537 5 лет назад +228

    To me, constantly seeking the approval of women and worrying about how women perceive you is the #1 weakest thing of all.

    • @kbs1212
      @kbs1212 4 года назад +3

      mr matic Agree!

    • @realm1840
      @realm1840 4 года назад +1

      Nope that aint it

    • @donny9590
      @donny9590 4 года назад +2

      So every woman and man that lifts weights and stays in shape is just for health? And not approval? Lol yeah right

    • @yourmommahouse
      @yourmommahouse 4 года назад +1

      Agreed!!!

    • @justansimplealien1775
      @justansimplealien1775 2 года назад

      @@donny9590 he mentions constantly thinking about women

  • @americanhighlander3448
    @americanhighlander3448 4 года назад +62

    I am always told that I have a strong personality and it intimidates people, but lately I have realized it not that I have such a strong personality, most other men just have weak personalities. We're living in a time where honesty and integrity are perceived as threats, sad.

    • @thexel133
      @thexel133 Год назад +1

      I have a similar issue. I work with a lot of guys that treat work like a joke and I am a target because I am a strong worker and do not goof off. I lightly bumped into a co-worker, which is a minor thing. He complained to the supervisor, which was brought up to management and considered a physical altercation. Am I supposed to start complaining about the other "men" that work there to get my point acrossed? That is just not in my wheel house and I pay a large price for it, as now my job is in jeopardy. I can't even have a face to face conversation because I'll be seen as hostile and confrontational. Women have become more demanding and less feminine, but men have also become less masculine. I apologize for the ramble, just frustrated with the current state of afairs.

    • @DepenilleBagrille-gt8dl
      @DepenilleBagrille-gt8dl 4 месяца назад

      @@thexel133 Did you jump him afterwards?

  • @rollwiththetroll7497
    @rollwiththetroll7497 5 лет назад +674

    One thing that makes men look weak is caring about people thinking you look weak!

    • @xres1329
      @xres1329 5 лет назад +20

      Exactly. Number one sign of weakness is sweating to look strong.

    • @SS_Psyops
      @SS_Psyops 5 лет назад +2

      Bingo number 1 right there

    • @akaalisbenjamin2093
      @akaalisbenjamin2093 5 лет назад +16

      @@xres1329 Yessssss brother. Being calm and relaxed at all times and in environments is true strength. Only a few I know can do this.

    • @xres1329
      @xres1329 5 лет назад +2

      That takes care of the issue (if there is one)...

    • @xres1329
      @xres1329 5 лет назад +4

      One cynical collegue /construction worker of course/ of mine used to say when he got happy:"You are a gentleman and a scholar...Only few of us left!"

  • @GuruBikerTrash
    @GuruBikerTrash 5 лет назад +178

    4 things to remember.
    1) Rock
    2) Paper
    3) Scissors
    4) Throat Punch

    • @huseynhasanov8162
      @huseynhasanov8162 4 года назад

      LOL

    • @ballybunion9
      @ballybunion9 4 года назад

      4) Lizard
      5) Spock
      6) Throat Punch

    • @davidmatson1984
      @davidmatson1984 3 года назад

      And number 5) never / ever get married !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @melloayahuasca7711
      @melloayahuasca7711 3 года назад

      Boxing lesson number one, defend yourself! After #4,sit on their chest, make them suffer a little more.

  • @justmadeit2
    @justmadeit2 5 лет назад +105

    Depending on your confidence or whether you are stressed/depressed you can act both strong or weak. I have had periods in my life where i have felt confident, with a good sense of humour and calm talking, at other times i have talked too fast, been anxious and talked negative in general. Much depends on your mood or level of self esteem at the time. Consistency is the key and thats something i am working on

    • @loveandsqualor6034
      @loveandsqualor6034 5 лет назад +1

      justmadeit2
      I suppose that is reactionary, and of course sometimes we are not ready when some idiot throws us a curveball and we end up feeling momentsrily disorientated. In that respect, endeavour to minimise any form of social anxiety that will jeapordise one's quickfire responses and kneejerk reactions.

    • @watthef8238
      @watthef8238 5 лет назад

      Dav serban aha aha i like it

    • @isaactorres5908
      @isaactorres5908 4 года назад

      True.

    • @mickmeadows
      @mickmeadows 4 года назад +1

      Exactly! We live in a spectrum and have high and lows. As you said, consistency is key! Good comment.

    • @heavyprogressive76
      @heavyprogressive76 4 года назад +1

      Goddamn my friend I'm feelin this big time right now. Definitely on the upside finally but 100% been going through exactly this.

  • @BrainsApplied
    @BrainsApplied 5 лет назад +361

    *#1 bad thing: being needy*

  • @kraftmuppen
    @kraftmuppen 5 лет назад +283

    Summary:
    1. Passive-aggressiveness
    2. Becoming too emotional
    3. Seeking reassurance
    4. Complaining too much.
    5. Talking about others (especially men) behind their back.

    • @sanadayukimura1615
      @sanadayukimura1615 5 лет назад +3

      Filip my summary
      Yuki's Top O' 5
      5. not doing nofap
      4. not doing nofap
      3. not doing nofap
      2. not doing nofap
      1. not doing nofap or having sweg

    • @PsychokoreUndergroundRap
      @PsychokoreUndergroundRap 5 лет назад +6

      You just summed up the typical female.. coincedence?

    • @wildchicken679
      @wildchicken679 5 лет назад

      I just have trouble with number 1. Everythingelse is nothing to me.
      Any advice?

    • @cletussamboy8650
      @cletussamboy8650 5 лет назад

      so basically being human.

    • @lasvegassnowman5505
      @lasvegassnowman5505 5 лет назад

      Sounds like 90 percent of...

  • @colinmccarthy7921
    @colinmccarthy7921 4 года назад +13

    I am not weak,I am VERY STRONG.Believe
    in your Inner-Self.

  • @bigmactiger3398
    @bigmactiger3398 5 лет назад +9

    I will never change myself being nice to everyone....if someone see me weak because of that, I couldn’t care less....

  • @t-7726
    @t-7726 5 лет назад +112

    afraid to make eye contact, walking with head down and not walking with good posture all makes you look weak

    • @cletussamboy8650
      @cletussamboy8650 5 лет назад +18

      it's called the virgin walk. Learn the chad walk. Also thinking everyone you walk past is for some reason staring at you is another symptom of being insecure and weak.

    • @buckethead6008
      @buckethead6008 5 лет назад +22

      Afraid to make eye contact is not weak, its a mental disorder
      ( Social Anxiety )

    • @buckethead6008
      @buckethead6008 5 лет назад +3

      @@t-7726 Sorry man, I just agree with you after check on Weak Definition on google. You're right.

    • @t-7726
      @t-7726 5 лет назад +15

      @@buckethead6008 think of it this way. why do you think the military is so strict when it comes to posture and other physical mannerisms. certain characteristics can make you appear like prey, or weak.

    • @cletussamboy8650
      @cletussamboy8650 5 лет назад +8

      @Buckethead social anxiety is a weakness because the person is plagued with insecurity about the way they come across and they cave into their fears very easily.

  • @jeffbahati8803
    @jeffbahati8803 5 лет назад +34

    Emotion is the enemy of logic

    • @gramcliches1980
      @gramcliches1980 5 лет назад +1

      Irrational behavior is the spark of emotion (i.e. irrational women)

    • @kmkmea
      @kmkmea 5 лет назад +5

      That’s a lie. Emotion is the friend of logic and vice versa. They need each other. It’s impossible to be purely logical or purely emotional. Desires are emotional and we use logic to achieve those desires. For example, let’s start with the most basic desire, the desire to live, give me a purely logical reason for the desire to live. You can’t there’s no need to try (that desire was engrained in us before we could even think logically) but where logic comes in is how do we achieve that. So we use logic( tools, technology, systems) to fulfill that desire.

    • @fromthepublic9636
      @fromthepublic9636 4 года назад

      @@kmkmea Well said. Not to mention, a person with logic and no emotion is clinically defined as a psychopath. A person who acts on emotion without logic is mentally immature.

    • @fromthepublic9636
      @fromthepublic9636 3 года назад

      @@cemtuganl175 Everyone can be impulsive, it's a matter or how disciplined you are to act on such behavior

    • @fromthepublic9636
      @fromthepublic9636 3 года назад

      @@cemtuganl175 you're right, but just like every other emotion, with a little thought put in, you provide a better decision

  • @thebasketballhistorian3291
    @thebasketballhistorian3291 5 лет назад +6

    To expand on #1... constantly blaming others or finding excuses for your failures and all the negative things that happen in your life.

  • @bobbyhill4118
    @bobbyhill4118 5 лет назад +11

    To be strong is to stop caring about what the women think and do what you want to do.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 лет назад +43

    *A man's STRENGTH is always tested*
    - Being emotional in an argument or discussion
    - Screaming at your woman or even worse, get physical
    - Being undeceive and incapable of action
    - Blaming on others instead of taking ownership
    - Avoiding conflict through lack of integrity

    • @stephon97
      @stephon97 5 лет назад

      depends on the situation really depends brother. volunteer in a children's hospital close to an emergency room to hear what going on for six months doing summer and winter. then and only then email me!. Being emotional in an argument or discussion

    • @simplemechanics8729
      @simplemechanics8729 5 лет назад

      Bro youre right on point. Your life is full of tests about your strength, you just have to realize them

    • @geoman51270
      @geoman51270 4 года назад

      I take ownership. I go down with mine. 20,000.

  • @edi9892
    @edi9892 5 лет назад +18

    The one thing I´m guilty is to speak badly of other people. I just can´t stand when people hold others in high regard when they are actually trash. If someone is a decent person, then I will say so, but if someone asks me if someone is a nice person, but I know that he/she is difficult to work with, backstabbing or only superficial, then I´ll say it.

    • @damienalvarez2957
      @damienalvarez2957 5 лет назад +1

      edi my response is I always find something positive to say even if it’s a half-assed compliment that doesn’t require much thought, because truthfully if I don’t exactly approve of someone I’m not gonna waste much energy thinking about them.

    • @oneguerrero
      @oneguerrero 5 лет назад +3

      I think there's a huge difference between giving an honest opinion when asked and going out of your way to trash someone

    • @MH-cv5ye
      @MH-cv5ye 5 лет назад +3

      Narcissists are so prevalent, it's not worth knowing most people.

  • @blastorange2460
    @blastorange2460 4 года назад +13

    At the end of the day how society treats you is gonna show big in your personality and confidence lvl

  • @kristofkovacsRisy
    @kristofkovacsRisy 5 лет назад +15

    Once a girl refused me. Minutes later I started to cry... But a few days later I was much stronger. So I don't agree with the meme. :D
    Btw, I may go out with that same girl soon...
    I had problem with my father for long time. I was weak around him, because of my childhood. It's like his words were always absolute. Now at age 24, I finally started to speak freely. We're arguing more and more... but at least now I'm not angry. I don't want to be like my father. I want to work hard to be better than him... better in my own eyes.

    • @skatingfae92
      @skatingfae92 5 лет назад +1

      It sucks, having a tyrannical father. I have one too. He’s an absolute failure. My mom left him because she probably got tired of his crap, and I got two brothers that act like bitches, all over the place mentally, always disrespecting boundaries and not knowing how to speak directly. Its a shitshow that I’ma make it out of without having to completely leave them.

    • @buckethead6008
      @buckethead6008 5 лет назад +2

      If the girl refuse you then you still with that same girl later, you are much even more weak, not just weak. But beta.

    • @kristofkovacsRisy
      @kristofkovacsRisy 5 лет назад +1

      @@skatingfae92 It's sad... Stay strong.
      My parents are still together, because my mom is really caring and forgiving, but too weak at times. I'm trying to help her mentally. I want to help my family to be a bit happier, so my father may stop getting drunk.

    • @kristofkovacsRisy
      @kristofkovacsRisy 5 лет назад

      @@buckethead6008 You're free to think anything.
      Here's what happened:
      I didn't see that girl for half year, then we just met. Another half year later, I decided to stay friends with her. We share many similarities and she's really friendly and caring. I invited her to meet and we had a good long conversation. She also invited me a few times.
      I cleared the situation with her and she said she may think about going out. Btw, she has INTP personality, has bad experiences with relationships and is insecure about herself... If she makes up her mind, we may go out, if not we'll just be friends.

    • @buckethead6008
      @buckethead6008 5 лет назад +1

      @@kristofkovacsRisy Okay you just get friendzone, the nice guy who finish last after she get bored with the bad boy who pump and dump her many times then she turn on you. Sound sad, but its fine, your life your choice.

  • @MrLazini
    @MrLazini 4 года назад +2

    My life changed completely when I stopped apologizing-for/justifying my actions to others..

  • @joeljbean
    @joeljbean 5 лет назад +5

    Me and my village people want you to know that this video changed our lives. Thank you!

  • @JustinMarc
    @JustinMarc 5 лет назад +11

    One thing that makes a man look strong is being vulnerable with your weaknesses

  • @xDarkPx
    @xDarkPx 5 лет назад +26

    I'm not worried about how a man looks... Is he actually weak or strong when it counts.

    • @lemostjoyousrenegade
      @lemostjoyousrenegade 5 лет назад +3

      🎯❗️WORD! REAL TALK! 💯

    • @joshuaandersen6523
      @joshuaandersen6523 4 года назад +4

      I believe that you are so much stronger if you get emotional than that "I'm not going to cry in front of my girlfriend I'll look like I'm being weak. " It goes to show you the truth and you have a great compassionate side and the biggest thing is your human and I will never change how I feel just to impress a woman because changing the person I am, is telling her that you are insecure in the way you look and it will never last because if you can't even tell and more importantly show her your true self how can you love her when you don't even love yourself and if you can't open up to her I'LL bet your going to the restaurant alone

  • @7LiquidSnake
    @7LiquidSnake 4 года назад +7

    If a guy convinces your girl to leave you, you being someone who treated her well and with respect...well, if that's all it takes, then you deserve better, surely?

  • @norm1815
    @norm1815 5 лет назад +6

    This is one of your best videos ever. I was that guy 2 years ago before discovering the Red Pill

    • @Aaron123791
      @Aaron123791 5 лет назад +2

      Is that Matrix reference or??

    • @norm1815
      @norm1815 5 лет назад +1

      @@Aaron123791 yes

  • @phutton88
    @phutton88 3 года назад +1

    Great video. I started emulating these characteristics far before I saw this video, and I'm ahead in the curve now. You do you and forgive yourself for learning new lessons. Enjoy learning. Have compassion for people and focus on constant improvement, vs worrying about what's happened in the past. Stand tall and proud and be a worthy man!

  • @kerty1977
    @kerty1977 5 лет назад +26

    Damn this guy can draggggg out a video.

  • @dewaynecoleman1989
    @dewaynecoleman1989 5 лет назад +2

    Wow! I had a friend who was No.5. Whenever we were in a group, of 5 or more guys, as guys left the group he would talk about each on as they left. Hes deceased now so I'm not gonna drag him, but he was weak in several aspects of life. Never thought of it the way you described No. 5.

  • @jesse_cole
    @jesse_cole 5 лет назад +183

    Number 1. Doing a “how to be a confident alpha-male” RUclips channel but never showing your face in the video.

    • @nokapimfit
      @nokapimfit 5 лет назад +9

      😂😂

    • @the-engneer
      @the-engneer 5 лет назад +13

      This comment is gold!

    • @norm1815
      @norm1815 5 лет назад +14

      In this day age of getting fired for having Traditional opinions about shit he is very smart NOT to show his face

    • @alexbophy7274
      @alexbophy7274 5 лет назад +2

      So true bro

    • @peace7482
      @peace7482 5 лет назад

      @@norm1815 I disagree. He just don't want to take responsibility for his words.

  • @abdulhamidmuktar9763
    @abdulhamidmuktar9763 2 года назад

    This channel obviously enhances and reevaluates masculinity. I liked it so much

  • @brucesims3228
    @brucesims3228 5 лет назад +3

    Know what makes a guy look weak? Being preoccupied with looking weak. If a guy needs to be taught how to act like he's not weak, the battle is already over and all you're doing is grooming the field. There's an old kid's ploy where someone spits on the ground stating, "think yer strong? Pick That up!" and there is a kernel of truth in that. Real strength is measured in resourcefulness and resilience and not necessarily in dominance. Get a clue, my friend. Your kind of thinking is what has kept men walking in self-destructive and self-abasing circles for generations. BTW Off and on I work with a former sheriff's deputy who ate the book on Winning through intimidation and offense. Personally I don't know if he's weak or not but his macho behavior makes him a s*** to be around and he seems kinda proud of that. Go figure.

    • @stuartd9741
      @stuartd9741 5 лет назад

      I have to agree.
      This video has very narrow mindset that may not apply to ALL men.
      If I understood your comment correctly. You're referring to strength of character; how to deal with (cope) in certain situations.
      How you interact/communicate with other people to coordinate as a group/team rather than single handedly
      Deal with a situation.
      Sounds like your sheriff friend needs some equality diversity training lol.

  • @andreasvenssonflorida2155
    @andreasvenssonflorida2155 5 лет назад +2

    🐨🦋WOW THAT WAS AN EXCELLENT VIDEO!🌻🦄... You NAILED IT. I had to comment... 1. You did an astonishingly well job putting ur vid 2gether! ur animation, and being spot on about what weak men do was great but the speed & ur voice BEST VID. YET....I hv a 4 yr old wild very curious boy, of course when I'm just chillin on the couch I'm usually interrupted multiple times including the 5 others I live with watchin YT. I was able to fully watch yours. My Ex of 6 yrs. Has almost maybe even all of these qualities. He was done wrong by his ex b4 me whom both of us have a son w/ him. Im 33 hes 46. He talks about other men behind their bk! Jealously He will talk about the guy that cut him off ALL DAY LONG AND COMPLAIN WHINE ETC... drop it subs move on right... He couldn't really care what he looks like. He will MAKE NOISE PURPOSELY IN THE MORNING WHETHER ITS THE TV BEING LEFT ON LOUD AFTER LEAVING TO WORK OR TURNING THE FAN OFF SO IT GETS HOT AND THEN OPENING THE BLINDS SO SUN SHINES IN... We aren't together but when he did not get his way or wanted to talk about things because I wanted to have good communication he would cross his arms like a 5 year old slouch down in a chair and actually have almost a pouty look on his face like a pouty lip it was pretty pathetic because now he has moved to New Hampshire leaving his 23 year old son which he stopped helping at 16 I believe so he could at first. well maybe the first year slightly spoil me but in reality now that Im in a new relationship...... he was very frugal with his money but also a tightwad for no reason. Anyways I'm happy to say the man with now is definitely not a weak man and he's such a good guy he has even been good to my children. I also have a 15 year old boy he shows some of these Tendencies but I believe maybe it was because he was picked on at a young age if I had blossomed into such a good-looking young man but still has insecurities anyways I had to comment your video was great and it was spot-on I love the part where you mentioned that thing about your roommate in the morning bc. like I said he did this to me and bragged about things like that he would to his last room mate whom had kidney disease. He NEEDED MENTAL HELP I'M STILL SCARED OF HIM being spiteful also because his ex cheated on him and his mother left him as a young boy only to be raised by his father so women to him are evil "he says"but he is not into men so I'm not quite sure how or what to call him? Hmmm kind of a psychopath. We could have had it all but he was always worried I was going to do him wrong in he broke his own heart....in the end. anyway just decided to share I know it was long but thank you for the video.

  • @jorguzman3490
    @jorguzman3490 5 лет назад +10

    Dang it!!! I was doing all 5 without even knowing it!... Well i did a small clue but now it's clear

    • @DREAMSINDIGITAL
      @DREAMSINDIGITAL 3 года назад

      Damn me too I got a lot of work to do on myself.

  • @johnpapa8681
    @johnpapa8681 4 года назад +2

    All this pretty much boils down to self confidence. If you're self confident, you're self confident. If you're not, then you're not.

  • @jasontutorials4809
    @jasontutorials4809 5 лет назад +8

    Men should never partake in any kind of gossip , had to take heed to this, being in a household with no men only mom and sis, and women love to gossip

  • @chriszablocki2460
    @chriszablocki2460 5 лет назад +8

    Competing. It's straight up riddled with insecurity. Think about it.

  • @monoludico6166
    @monoludico6166 5 лет назад +10

    #5 speak like Ned Flanders
    #4 dress like Ned Flanders
    #3 act like Ned Flanders
    #2 live like Ned Flanders
    #1 Be Ned Flanders

    • @JustFun-lu4zp
      @JustFun-lu4zp 5 лет назад +1

      MONO LÚDICO Ironically Flanders is better off, homer is more of the weak one

  • @willsutherland8618
    @willsutherland8618 5 лет назад +23

    In Colombia if a bird shits on your shoulder that’s a sign of good luck

  • @HumansOfVR
    @HumansOfVR 5 лет назад +3

    *_FFA working hard pumping out all these videos!_*

  • @GoodVibesOnly-2015
    @GoodVibesOnly-2015 5 лет назад +2

    1-listen more than you talk
    2-smile
    3-never complain
    4-do not back bite
    5-be fit, happy and stylish
    6-be reliable
    7-be a bit ambiguous
    8-be sophisticated
    9-be calm and act in royalty
    10-be gentleman to be treated as one
    11-express your opinion but never argue
    12-take sufficient time to recharge to stay focused and serene
    13-don’t be omnipresent so people will miss u
    14-have goals and work to achieve them
    15-control your emotions and desires

    • @ART-kp9cn
      @ART-kp9cn 5 лет назад

      sounds like and tough and impossible list to abide by

    • @GoodVibesOnly-2015
      @GoodVibesOnly-2015 5 лет назад

      practice makes perfect 😉

    • @__D-B__
      @__D-B__ Год назад

      Impossible

  • @eddycolon1986
    @eddycolon1986 5 лет назад +4

    How to be a man:
    Clean your room.
    Pay your debts.
    Chase your goals .
    Show respect and demand respect.
    Don't be agresive innecessarily.

  • @dwaynecunningham2164
    @dwaynecunningham2164 2 года назад

    Love how short and insightful your videos

  • @whowhat3679
    @whowhat3679 5 лет назад +57

    I just stay to myself

  • @TheMichael5833
    @TheMichael5833 3 года назад +1

    Strength and resilience can't be taught it is learned over time through life experience and tough times once you've got that you will adapt and start doing this naturally

  • @matiasdelatorreoverton3612
    @matiasdelatorreoverton3612 5 лет назад +5

    Well, if this 'wolves' have to take advantage of someone weak, or is out there spotting weak men, they are probably the weak guys in the first place...

  • @bullbear1113
    @bullbear1113 5 лет назад +1

    Great video very true about not complaining...

  • @neinneinnein379
    @neinneinnein379 5 лет назад +5

    Number 6
    Do never say "Im sorry"
    with that you give away all your power. Never apologise even when you are wrong. Instead if you are wrong you can say , alright man I did that wrong, on the next time I will try to not make it happen again
    People will turn into wolves against you once you apologises.

    • @Ws6Ms
      @Ws6Ms 5 лет назад

      factsss

    • @stuartd9741
      @stuartd9741 5 лет назад

      Ok so if you suddenly
      feel Hungary and eat your other 1/2s Ben and Jerry's does this still apply? 🤫

  • @MrEllipsis423
    @MrEllipsis423 5 лет назад +1

    The best part of this entire video is at the end... You don't want the wolves to come knocking...

  • @lukak6249
    @lukak6249 5 лет назад +71

    Why you deleted all videos on StrongerMen

  • @YTLuc
    @YTLuc 4 года назад +1

    *5 THINGS THAT MAKE MEN LOOK WEAK:*
    1) Passive-Aggressive actions/tendencies.
    2) Behaving Too Emotional.
    3) Seeking Reassurance/Approval From Others.
    4) Constantly Complaining About and Not Fixing Your Problems.
    5) Speaking Negatively About Other Men or Women.

  • @Bigpapamatt
    @Bigpapamatt 5 лет назад +46

    I clicked on this thinking I’d learn something but no.

    • @edrel4771
      @edrel4771 5 лет назад +2

      Congrats you were one step ahead

  • @Jay_gettoit888
    @Jay_gettoit888 4 года назад +2

    These 5 facts are facts thanks for the upload

  • @sidfalck2780
    @sidfalck2780 4 года назад +3

    This channel represents exactly how media sets different rules of how people are ”supposed” to appear (look, act) to fit in. This youtube channel shouldn’t exist. Real crap to be honest, people need to be able to appear just as they want without getting jugded by the society. What this channel does is exactly that - making up an ideal role model of how you (men in this case) are supposed to be, it can hurt people pretty bad.

  • @dominostimes2119
    @dominostimes2119 5 лет назад +1

    I ´ve been in both situations. In the first one people don’t like you, in the second they hate you

  • @ant1440
    @ant1440 5 лет назад +6

    Imagine a guy who fits the description listening to this vid with the narrators calm, cool, narrative voice lmao I hope he learns something from it

    • @twiznizzlenore7822
      @twiznizzlenore7822 5 лет назад +2

      Ant 1 haha as he’s watching it next to his girl friend and she keeps doing the side eye thing looking at him as he’s like “ oh ya that’s totally not me “ and he’s doing the side eye thing back to see if she’s not looking... lol

    • @ant1440
      @ant1440 5 лет назад +3

      @@twiznizzlenore7822 😄😄😄

    • @shawarmageddonit
      @shawarmageddonit 4 года назад +1

      Sorry, his... "voice lmao"??

  • @OneEyedLion
    @OneEyedLion 5 лет назад +2

    I knew a guy that was passive aggressive. His marriage was short and everyone was wondering what happened. Now I know.

    • @JustFun-lu4zp
      @JustFun-lu4zp 5 лет назад +2

      James D3 well this video could potentially save a marriage

  • @kbs1212
    @kbs1212 4 года назад +10

    4:27 Of course he’s pissed he’s got thick shards of glass in each eye

  • @saintdreko1846
    @saintdreko1846 4 года назад +1

    This is one video where I agree with you 100% on everything

  • @akashsirumalla594
    @akashsirumalla594 5 лет назад +3

    1. Blaming others for his mistakes
    2. Caring about what people think of him.
    3. Seeking reassurance from other people
    4. Being reactive and complaining
    5. Opressing, hating and jealous of other guys
    6. Allowing negativity to invade his life
    7. Being brainwashed by society.
    8. Lacking self-respect & self-dignity
    9. Living in scarcity mindset.
    10. Living without having a purpose.

  • @18James03
    @18James03 5 лет назад

    Oka,y to be direct I would like to say that I did not care for the commercials prior to your video at all. I may have subscribed but the meta-message they portrayed was extreme and people simply wanting to be a video should not be forced to endure those type of images. I hope everybody is strong enough to hear a direct position like this LOL

  • @TheEdgesphere
    @TheEdgesphere 5 лет назад +6

    Thanks for letting me realise I’m a strong guy with this video.

  • @edge3220
    @edge3220 5 лет назад +1

    Not talking bad about people behind their back to others can be hard to get over. I personally have someone unavoidable who severely annoys me and venting to others he also annoys was a way of dealing with it, but it definitely isn't a good look. It was probably okay at first, but the longer it goes on the more appears as grumbling and murmuring.

    • @sanadayukimura1615
      @sanadayukimura1615 5 лет назад

      エッジJ Yuki's Top O' 5
      5. not doing nofap
      4. not doing nofap
      3. not doing nofap
      2. not doing nofap
      1. not doing nofap or having sweg

  • @pixelwanderer1962
    @pixelwanderer1962 4 года назад +3

    This video in a shellnut: "Bruh men we live in a society?"

  • @abhijayskumar1
    @abhijayskumar1 Год назад

    Summary
    1. Passive aggression
    2. Insult - indifference
    3. How do i look - seek assurance
    4. Wined and Complained
    5. Saying bad about people , other men states that you re below him or weaker than him .

  • @mickkeker1990
    @mickkeker1990 5 лет назад +2

    I’ve learned more from your videos in 2 hours than my boomer parents could have ever taught me.

  • @Gomsroronoa
    @Gomsroronoa 5 лет назад +2

    Where do you find your pictures for your animations ? Is that Video Scribe ?

  • @walterkarl1024
    @walterkarl1024 5 лет назад +5

    Seeking external validation and reassurance, getting too emotional/ not being able to master and rephrase your thoughts and emotions, resentment out of frustration, complaining about smth while staying passive about it, avoiding direct confrontation and preferring small talks.
    Just sum up the video

    • @russellh6152
      @russellh6152 5 лет назад

      Walter Karl I don’t do any of those except preferring small talk

    • @walterkarl1024
      @walterkarl1024 5 лет назад +1

      Russell H small talk is hard to judge. It is sometimes vital in life to be able to exchange information and judgements about people in any environment without making such transfer of information public. There is sometimes a thin line between being smart and being weak or full of resentment and frustration/willing to find scapegoats and blurred by biases and pessimism. Life is complex, and on this point, this video fails to give an accurate and complete definition of what weak small talk is. Defining any small talk as a sign of weakness is nonsense. It is sometimes a lot smarter to keep judgements private rather than going into long protracted and senseless fights that will suck up your energy or cost you your job or inheritance. everything depends on the costs/benefits analysis that you make.

  • @willattwood4787
    @willattwood4787 4 года назад +1

    My top five ways to make women believe you're strong:
    1) Demonstrate your physical strength by seeing how many punches it takes to render her unconscious
    2) Demonstrate your selflessness by removing the restraints and giving her a day out of the cellar. REMEMBER - Warn her if she does anything to displease you, you'll defecate on her face when you get home.
    3) Show her your spontaneous side - tell her you're going to a French restaurant, put a blind fold on her, and when she removes it, introduce her to the donkey she's going to be pleasuring.
    4) Girls LOVE a faithful, trustworthy man. So, be sure to cheat on her regularly, and let her know how much better her best friend, sister and mum are at doing the wild thing.
    5) It's not a one-way street - allow her to call you a name once a year. But if she says anything too insulting (like "I'm tired - it's a lot easier to dig without wearing handcuffs." - Be sure to remind her who's boss. Use your imagination. For example, you could insist she salutes you and has intercourse with anyone (or anything) you tell her.
    Peace out :)

  • @the-engneer
    @the-engneer 5 лет назад +43

    Do not seek advice from RUclips! There are no guidelines for living life! Live your life the way you want to!

    • @kbs1212
      @kbs1212 4 года назад +2

      The Engineer ok weak boomer

    • @anom3778
      @anom3778 4 года назад

      So dont brush your teeth? Who cares what other people think?

    • @powerincarnate6783
      @powerincarnate6783 4 года назад

      Did you watch the video? It is pretty much against toxic behaviours that will make you miserable no metter if you are man or woman.

    • @realm1840
      @realm1840 4 года назад

      @@anom3778 i didnt brush in year cuz im inafrica

    • @realm1840
      @realm1840 4 года назад

      I starve me children to getda net connection

  • @jameswheat4225
    @jameswheat4225 4 года назад +2

    This is spot on

  • @thomtorrez7618
    @thomtorrez7618 4 года назад +25

    This could be renamed 5 traits of a democratic male .

  • @kgfhlmno5213
    @kgfhlmno5213 4 года назад +1

    Yeah that one guy we all have in our friend circle the one who talk bad things about other friend and when they are talking to other they will not hesitate to make fun,bad things about you I hate that type of people,friend

  • @mrdeeds72
    @mrdeeds72 5 лет назад +59

    You lived with a 50 something year old dude?

  • @pauldayton5285
    @pauldayton5285 5 лет назад +2

    Great video ! Thank you !

  • @jaysaenz4964
    @jaysaenz4964 4 года назад +3

    I thought if i tried hard enough 2 make her happy and avoid arguments being DISRESPECTFUL 2 her would save me ..😔

  • @LairdErnst
    @LairdErnst 3 года назад

    These are insightful. Keep up the good work.

  • @aidenwinter1117
    @aidenwinter1117 5 лет назад +14

    How to be a real man in two steps:
    1. Understand the basics of female psychology
    2. Don’t be like them

  • @billpeart
    @billpeart 5 лет назад +1

    1. Being so politically correct you are constanlty offended.
    2. Not knowing what bathroom to use.
    3. Not paying your student loans.
    4. Waiting for govt handouts.
    5. Taking selfies.

  • @curtistinemiller1560
    @curtistinemiller1560 5 лет назад +5

    I personally don't like the complainers .men or women it's a bad look.I really don't know Emotional men.......

  • @heavymeddle28
    @heavymeddle28 4 года назад +1

    Summarised... You can't control your surroundings. You can only control how you play. And when you truly understand and accept that... Well... You figure it out 😊

  • @dhirenram4971
    @dhirenram4971 5 лет назад +3

    1:48-1:57
    For people who have iron deficiency, this is where you can find some irony.

  • @bhaveshdhamone7067
    @bhaveshdhamone7067 4 года назад

    This are the things which a strong men shouldn't have :-
    1) Passive aggression for other.. doing small things to irritate others.
    2) Uncontrolled emotion.
    3) asking others if we r good to hang out with..( how do i look, r u enjoying with me). Seeking reassurance.
    4) Complaining for problem for long n not doing anything to fix it.
    5) Saying bad about others behind their back.

  • @TheBusta121
    @TheBusta121 4 года назад +3

    First topics she brings up, walk away:
    1. Mortgage
    2. Job
    3. Vehicle

    • @Psalms23rd474
      @Psalms23rd474 4 года назад +1

      I have came across this situation so many times and when it happens that tells me she doesn't love a man,she only loves what she can get out of him .

  • @Owondr
    @Owondr 5 лет назад

    Thank you. #5 is particularly toxic in the workplace.

    • @A.C31
      @A.C31 5 лет назад +1

      Which #5? lol. I assume talking behind one’s back.

    • @Owondr
      @Owondr 5 лет назад +1

      Jeff Brown yah, gossip is poison, mb tasty but it’s still poison

  • @BizzyJack
    @BizzyJack 5 лет назад +16

    "if someone doesn't like my video and makes a video about it instead of confronting me" i feel like there was some passive aggressiveness
    here xD

  • @reapvkz1
    @reapvkz1 5 лет назад +2

    When I'm mad I scream out of fury and bash things until I feel calmed again. xd

  • @HardcoreMotors
    @HardcoreMotors 5 лет назад +3

    How did the ranking go from 5 to 2? Was this mistake caused by weakness?

  • @lascelthem.b.a.6117
    @lascelthem.b.a.6117 5 лет назад +2

    I just did a video on this exact topic a week ago on my channel! Loved the content!

  • @craigeriley8164
    @craigeriley8164 5 лет назад +3

    Also saying sorry all the time

  • @HamzaAsghar786
    @HamzaAsghar786 5 лет назад +1

    Yeah one thing to keep in mind, if you consider yourself a strong man. Stop keeping, what a woman would think of you, as a standard of becoming a man.
    I found it that alot of times, thus video points out that a certain thing makes you look bad in front of a woman. Well, screw that. Just do the right thing irrespective of what a woman will think of you.

  • @sanadayukimura1615
    @sanadayukimura1615 5 лет назад +5

    Yuki's Top O' 5
    5. not doing nofap
    4. not doing nofap
    3. not doing nofap
    2. not doing nofap
    1. not doing nofap or having sweg

    • @ZuoCruz
      @ZuoCruz 5 лет назад

      Sanada 真田Yukimura 幸村 and not giving up porn

  • @undertaker9991
    @undertaker9991 4 года назад +1

    Given a mere 7 out 10 in a triad there's always going to be that one guy who deeply wants to outshine his other two friends.

  • @sergiolopez2797
    @sergiolopez2797 5 лет назад +15

    i think of done a few of those in my time even probably recently

    • @oldkingdomgemini9178
      @oldkingdomgemini9178 4 года назад

      I'm glad you said it brother because I was definitely going to. You have to do these, recognize them and despise them WITHOUT despising women. It's really hating yourself. Literally in a way. Why do have nipples? Is a dick not a vagina

  • @muhammadbaqir3081
    @muhammadbaqir3081 4 года назад +2

    Institutions not clear: Got arrested after a beat down from the cops.

  • @brodyg.9617
    @brodyg.9617 4 года назад +3

    Your integrity and character are more important than what people think of you.

  • @jsmooth3239
    @jsmooth3239 4 года назад +1

    Well wowww. Nice video man! 👍🏼