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5 Ways WEAK Guys Try To Act Alpha

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июн 2019
  • Ever wondered if you're trying to act Alpha and other people can see right through it? Many guys try to act Alpha without actually improving themselves in ways that would make them more of an alpha male, and as you might've guessed -- this usually doesn't work out very well for them.
    Many guys put on a facade as a 'fake alpha' and usually do a few very common things, so if you don't want to be viewed as this unapproachable guy -- make sure you're not doing these things.

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  • @jhouser972
    @jhouser972 5 лет назад +2533

    One sign of a fake alpha is someone who pushes others down rather than picking them up.

    • @aydenjamespiano3040
      @aydenjamespiano3040 5 лет назад +31

      Truth.

    • @Hitmanzay
      @Hitmanzay 5 лет назад +18

      Very true

    • @bittu2507
      @bittu2507 5 лет назад +16

      Very Very Truth

    • @DAce-vu5ct
      @DAce-vu5ct 5 лет назад +9

      Facts !!!

    • @driftking4
      @driftking4 5 лет назад +33

      One sign is 99.9 percent of guys who say or think they r alpha. Plot twist alpha isn't real.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 лет назад +1625

    *a MAN's strength comes within*
    Train your mind, master emotions, know your self.
    Your life will never be the same.

  • @aoyama8161
    @aoyama8161 5 лет назад +275

    you've already lost when you seek validation

    • @nahzewilliams5912
      @nahzewilliams5912 4 года назад +24

      only one worth seeking validation from is Jesus Christ

    • @BigRoqq
      @BigRoqq 4 года назад +3

      Nahze Williams 😂😂😂😂

    • @ElixirEcho
      @ElixirEcho 4 года назад +2

      @@nahzewilliams5912 HA gayyyyyy

    • @rmcd823
      @rmcd823 4 года назад

      Aoyama I like males searching for validation. The old model is gone.

    • @hit-by-bruh0_05
      @hit-by-bruh0_05 4 года назад +1

      I'm sorry. I'm a complete dumbass. What do you mean by seeking validation?

  • @ZacharyLaid
    @ZacharyLaid 5 лет назад +596

    Trying to act alpha only works temporarily, once the act fades, true colors come out.

    • @yardmasterswealtheducation8424
      @yardmasterswealtheducation8424 4 года назад +12

      Acting alpha is the male counterpart to women using sexuality for advantage. Nothing works like having real substance underneath, eh?

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 4 года назад +3

      And that's why i love you🌈

    • @abrahampalmer1153
      @abrahampalmer1153 4 года назад

      Indeed

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 3 года назад +2

      @@joell750 Are beauty like a 🌈

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 3 года назад +3

      @@joell750 To let me show✔️

  • @DennisNedryisStillAlive
    @DennisNedryisStillAlive 4 года назад +766

    "Only the gentle are ever really strong" - James Dean

    • @Sr19769p
      @Sr19769p 4 года назад +26

      Very true, Dennis. William Burroughs said the same thing in one of his books (I forget which): 'He had a gentleness which only the truly strong possess'

    • @spicyshizz2850
      @spicyshizz2850 4 года назад +6

      No not really

    • @lamboempire4599
      @lamboempire4599 4 года назад +10

      Once I held this thought and I was stepped all over

    • @clayrobb5862
      @clayrobb5862 4 года назад +32

      @@lamboempire4599 I would suggest to know when to be gentle and know when to stand up and be rough/tough. Creating a balance would be best.

    • @its_just_marvlus
      @its_just_marvlus 3 года назад +19

      @@spicyshizz2850 hes talking about calm dominance type of guys. They dont seem like much but they mostly stare at the 'weak' guys who act tough and ignore them.

  • @cricket4you330
    @cricket4you330 5 лет назад +1196

    6 If you seek validation from others you're not alpha, Alpha doesn't need validation from anyone he believes that whatever he's doing is right.

    • @eugengolubic2186
      @eugengolubic2186 5 лет назад +97

      ... and he recognizes when he's wrong.

    • @cricket4you330
      @cricket4you330 5 лет назад +55

      @@eugengolubic2186 he doesn't repeat the same mistakes and he learns from it

    • @eugengolubic2186
      @eugengolubic2186 5 лет назад +26

      @@cricket4you330 ofc, but he still makes them, so we are both right.

    • @jonathanmorrison9439
      @jonathanmorrison9439 5 лет назад +1

      Unapologetic.

    • @Darth_Bateman
      @Darth_Bateman 5 лет назад +20

      That's retarded. . . . We all need validation from others. The idea is that getting it comes so easily to the alpha that he doesn't need to find it.

  • @keithstimpyys3497
    @keithstimpyys3497 5 лет назад +948

    Learn the simple art of not caring

    • @andyisdead
      @andyisdead 5 лет назад +42

      easier said than done

    • @keithstimpyys3497
      @keithstimpyys3497 5 лет назад +23

      @@andyisdead for some

    • @youtoo2233
      @youtoo2233 4 года назад +32

      I agree, act like you don't give a shit and she'll come running

    • @anomalous34
      @anomalous34 4 года назад +37

      Can confirm guys. I don't care so much I don't even talk to people. I quit my job and don't watch my health at all. I'd tell you more about how alpha I am about not caring but, I don't care.

    • @LastGREATEST0
      @LastGREATEST0 4 года назад

      Christian Chandler Thought youbwere the real Christain

  • @SUPERAFRASIABI89
    @SUPERAFRASIABI89 3 года назад +178

    I don’t care if I’m alpha or beta. All that matters is my bills paid and I got somewhere to sleep.

    • @djstatyk1540
      @djstatyk1540 3 года назад +7

      @María García A friend of mine started chillin with this girl he thought he had no chance with, so He basically said "i didn't bother and acted normal because i gad no chance otherwise" boom, they been together 3 years

    • @giraffeman326
      @giraffeman326 3 года назад +2

      I can respect that

    • @wolfman231
      @wolfman231 3 года назад +1

      @@markdavison8602 take care of the basics, then build a life you enjoy. Women will take notice and want to join in the fun.

    • @faceripper77
      @faceripper77 3 года назад +3

      I can tell by your avatar that youre beta

    • @drippinwet774
      @drippinwet774 3 года назад +4

      you're neither. you're more of a sheep-like male. which makes you very valuable to alphas and betas, so its a more a good thing.

  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 5 лет назад +434

    *Confidence needs to be natural and this develops overtime. Trust the process instead of being fake.*

    • @deadlychip973
      @deadlychip973 5 лет назад +23

      Fake it till you make it has worked for a lot of people 😂

    • @christophercolumns7243
      @christophercolumns7243 5 лет назад +7

      thaed natas
      Everyone trying to be badasses but are truly insecure deep down. Lol

    • @BobRoss-wm3lc
      @BobRoss-wm3lc 4 года назад

      The Jaxx Channel - Self-Growth Health Wellness I agree with that, but when you say trust the process, what exactly does that mean like are you supposed to let it show that your not confident while waiting to naturally become confident?

    • @zephaniahmcdaniels
      @zephaniahmcdaniels 4 года назад +2

      @@deadlychip973 that's what u have to do essentially until it becomes you

    • @deadlychip973
      @deadlychip973 4 года назад

      @@zephaniahmcdaniels ooo

  • @unlikelyandunfortunate7476
    @unlikelyandunfortunate7476 4 года назад +296

    I remember being in church shaking older men’s hands and I swear they all where trying to assert dominance lmao I was 7 years old wtf

  • @GreatWhite7
    @GreatWhite7 5 лет назад +775

    5 Ways WEAK Guys Try To Act Alpha
    1: be-littering other guys
    2: talking about fighting
    3: too firm a handshake
    4: telling people to do things instead of asking
    5: calling other men beta (pretty much number 1)

    • @max__pain
      @max__pain 5 лет назад +65

      1: belittling

    • @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962
      @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 5 лет назад +13

      I think I have a fighting problem as I was picked on for most of my life.

    • @Aboguaboga
      @Aboguaboga 5 лет назад +17

      Mr._Imperfection he says bragging about fighting, as long as u don’t go around telling everyone and they mama that u just kicked someone’s ass every 5 min than we can’t really tell wut ur circumstances r

    • @bosshoggjdkk5211
      @bosshoggjdkk5211 5 лет назад +13

      @@Aboguaboga yeah real fighters don't go around talking about it. I like to fight actually I kind of love it. My friends all know it. Ive always been a bigger guy. I played every sport i could. I wasnt fat but i wasnt thin at all. You get assholes throughout your life that will talk shit or do shit to try to be cool or cool in front of other peopleI. 9 out of 10 guys that do that are weak and cant do shit. I don't go around starting fights. There are plenty of assholes out there trying to start fights and out there doing shit that you don't have a choice but to fight. Then people who talk about it how crazy they are when they get going and it takes a number of people to get him off the other guy and to get him to stop fighting lol. Its the funniest shit in the world when weak people do that and its usually only weak people that try to validate themselves to other people like that. Not always but most of the time. The guy you want to watch out for is someone who isn't loud all the time you can get loud once in awhile in fact everyone should get loud sometimes. They don't need the attention on them. The kind of person that pays attention to his surroundings. That watches out for his friends when everyone is fucked up. Someone when at a party or a bar while not being loud or attracting attention a lot of people will say hey to him and not go out of the way but at least walk across the bar and say what's up. That's a couple of ways to tell an Alpha fighter from a bata liar

    • @endishurdhaj9042
      @endishurdhaj9042 5 лет назад +8

      Fool asking about permission is something nice guys do
      NOT ALPHAS they dont need permission

  • @sanjayawira
    @sanjayawira 5 лет назад +101

    Be genuinely strong, mentally & physically.

  • @iamcancer3298
    @iamcancer3298 5 лет назад +125

    #6. when they say........ "I'm an ALPHA"

  • @Hitmanzay
    @Hitmanzay 5 лет назад +197

    An alpha fights back in my opinion, he refuses to be bullied and stands up for what he believes in regardless of what 99% of the people are saying.

    • @jaydav6521
      @jaydav6521 4 года назад +31

      Your version of Alpha is a paranoid schizophrenic who goes around starting trouble because of a belief that everyone is out to get you. True Alpha separates himself from the pussys who talk shit because he doesn't want to have to hurt them.

    • @MotoGQ
      @MotoGQ 4 года назад +29

      Or you just smile at them and shake your head because you don't give a fuck what other people think.

    • @tacotom3492
      @tacotom3492 4 года назад +1

      @CrazySicily your comment is the epitome of why people go through life being shit on yet thinking they're the bigger person.

    • @henrlima87
      @henrlima87 4 года назад +7

      Thats not alpha or beta. Thats a man right there.

    • @mikalgibbs715
      @mikalgibbs715 4 года назад +6

      Your profile pic screams fake alpha

  • @ArtoDelFunko
    @ArtoDelFunko 4 года назад +37

    6. Using noise and general obnoxious behaviour to try dominate his environment

  • @SSJfraz
    @SSJfraz 3 года назад +63

    Him: "I'm alpha, you're beta."
    Me: "Alpha things you can do, I can do beta, I can do alpha things beta than you."

  • @ReveredDead
    @ReveredDead 4 года назад +64

    This video needs to renamed: “How to spot a bitchmaid”.

  • @wyattthacker3679
    @wyattthacker3679 4 года назад +29

    If you're weak, then you'll do things that involve pushing others down and draining others. If you're strong, then you won't need to drain from others, you have your own energy along with enough energy to give to others in order to help them and do good deeds

  • @davidmadisontheguardian
    @davidmadisontheguardian 5 лет назад +35

    Being alpha or sigma has much more to do with facing your own fears and insecurities and overcoming them. When you do this; you'll be less likely to point out OTHER people's so-called deficiencies. There are certainly times to do this; but a strong man, from what I've gathered from those who I felt were strong men... believe in themselves; and even when they don't, work towards that end. They have persistence through repeated failure. Whether it's boxing, painting, getting a girl's attention, starting a business, skydiving, public speaking - it doesn't matter - what matters is their willingness to try; even if it sometimes makes them look foolish or powerless or graceless (because true power is never given to those who do not give their all or their best - and the result of these early I'M-ALL-IN's is a lot of learning to get it right while appearing incompetent in front of other people); and then to try again and again until they meet with success. They don't worry that they've failed a thousand times; because they know they will eventually succeed. They don't hide away from people; but they don't try to get attention all the time; either. They have become rather balanced. What I like to refer as dynamic balance. Balance within movement, or showing grace when within the storm. That's not easy. Talent is not enough. Brute strength is not enough. And intelligence is not enough; but that persevering soul that rises no matter the situation they find themselves in... that person who eventually CREATES THEIR OWN ENVIRONMENT UNIQUELY TAILORED TO THEM. This is the way of the alpha or sigma or strong man.
    I like to think about Superman; and how with all his strength; he has the ultimate strength of RESTRAINT - the ability to use one part of his strength to GUIDE or DIRECT THE OTHER WITH EFFORTLESS EASE AND FINESSE. Therefore, he can pick up an egg without cracking it; though he could just as easily use his strength to bend iron with his pinkie. Those who HAVE strength, actually have to learn to CHANNEL it. You may have a lot of energy; but if not channeled; it can come out as rage, or nervousness, or anxiety, or fear. The man who trains and conditions himself to CULTIVATE ENERGY, STORE IT, and then DIRECT IT AT WILL AT THE DEGREE HE WISHES... is truly strong.
    He may show off; because he likes to show off; because he likes to perform and get recognition; but that is different from the man who shows off GIVING ALL HE HAS IN A VERY SPASTIC WAY... using ALL HIS STRENGTH TO TRY AND IMPRESS. He does this; because he has so LITTLE STRENGTH that HE MUST GIVE ALL HE HAS TO APPEAR AS STRONG AS THE MAN WHO HAS A LOT; YET EXPRESSES GREAT AGILITY, TENDERNESS and DEXTERITY. One has the appearance of jaggedness, and being off center; and the other has this quality of INTRINSIC BEAUTY.
    I want the latter. Therefore, I strive to cultivate that; and not the former. But we all have both.

  • @spartavlogs3781
    @spartavlogs3781 5 лет назад +386

    I took LSD it made me much more confident than before

    • @JuggernautKickboxing
      @JuggernautKickboxing 5 лет назад +38

      Sparta Vlogs shrooms changed my life bro

    • @MrKABOOMLP
      @MrKABOOMLP 5 лет назад +28

      @jayday 313 If you implement the things you learned trough your journey in the day to day life, the gained confidence won't be just temporary.

    • @JuggernautKickboxing
      @JuggernautKickboxing 5 лет назад +6

      jayday 313 It helps you look at your life through another point of view. Its been 2 years

    • @Trump-a-Tron
      @Trump-a-Tron 5 лет назад +34

      I was always picked on until I started carrying my AK wherever I go. Changed my life!

    • @damianjones807
      @damianjones807 5 лет назад +1

      Lol

  • @valentinvalentino1502
    @valentinvalentino1502 4 года назад +291

    I’m neither alpha or beta, I’m a holy man that’s what makes you stronger. Be a man of God.

    • @AA-yu8fe
      @AA-yu8fe 4 года назад +14

      Valentin Valentino Now that’s beta BRO

    • @valentinvalentino1502
      @valentinvalentino1502 4 года назад +60

      Ignis Terra If loving God is beta, then so be it. For a man that follows God, he walks alone. I don’t follow the world, I follow God.

    • @valentinvalentino1502
      @valentinvalentino1502 4 года назад +19

      Ignis Terra psalms 27. I pray for you alpha man. Even on this channel he teaches a real alpha man will never call another man beta.

    • @AA-yu8fe
      @AA-yu8fe 4 года назад +8

      Valentin Valentino bro I was just kidding 😂😂😂

    • @valentinvalentino1502
      @valentinvalentino1502 4 года назад +11

      Ignis Terra OK maybe not🤔 Although I don’t Believe in alpha, beta and so call sigma. In the beginning of his video he talked about fake alpha belittle other men. I just figure I’d point that out to you

  • @actblue-m5i
    @actblue-m5i 5 лет назад +290

    trying too hard to dominate everyone and everything, and making an effort to let everyone know they're "alpha." some examples:
    1. never apologizing or saying "excuse me"
    2. exaggerated posture (literal and figurative posturing)
    3. talking down to other guys and trying to degrade/demean them
    4. thinking every interaction with another dude is a competition

    • @Dan-ul1hd
      @Dan-ul1hd 5 лет назад +8

      This is 100% me😥Except i avoid talking down to others because i don't want others to talk down about me. And i am insecure as fuck😥😥😥

    • @SeFu2006
      @SeFu2006 4 года назад +7

      I don’t really show much emotion to other dudes because most dudes have sour faces and look mean or depressed as fuck all the time.

    • @nestorgonzalez6078
      @nestorgonzalez6078 4 года назад +9

      The funny thing is that they're trying so hard to be alpha that people don't respect them and making fun of them behind there back. It has the opposite effect of what they're trying to acomplish

    • @e-shockwaave7418
      @e-shockwaave7418 4 года назад +2

      @@Dan-ul1hd You better fix that shit.

    • @authorbhattacharjee4957
      @authorbhattacharjee4957 3 года назад +1

      That's basically your stereotypical Sunday morning TV villain

  • @A-Dubs398
    @A-Dubs398 4 года назад +23

    I get so annoyed by guys who are obsessed with fighting and literally bring up fighting every second, especially when you disagree with them on something. Their all like, "You want to fight over it?" After getting so annoyed by it, I'm like "No, I don't give a fuck about fighting and don't want to waste my energy, and fighting doesn't really make a real difference in the long run." Only time I'm fighting is in a life or death situation.

    • @_x.xxten.ta_cion539
      @_x.xxten.ta_cion539 3 года назад +5

      As a boxer I agree you shouldn't be running around fighting everyone man it's not a game and some nasty shit can happen to you in a fight

    • @thinkfree8880
      @thinkfree8880 3 года назад +1

      Only when provoked. They can talk all they want. Soon as they put their hands up, its on, and I swing first. Win or lose.

    • @faceripper77
      @faceripper77 3 года назад +2

      Dont start fights, finish them

  • @unfazedo
    @unfazedo 5 лет назад +93

    I'm laughing as I'm watching this video as it reminds me of people acting alpha in the comments section. Lmao

    • @Jay_gettoit888
      @Jay_gettoit888 4 года назад +2

      😂😂

    • @faceripper77
      @faceripper77 3 года назад +1

      Fight me you beta

    • @unfazedo
      @unfazedo 3 года назад +1

      @@faceripper77 Why so mad bro? Didn't specify anyone not even you. But if the shoe fits, good day.

    • @faceripper77
      @faceripper77 3 года назад +1

      @@unfazedo the joke -->
      You

    • @unfazedo
      @unfazedo 3 года назад

      @@faceripper77 I'm not sorry if it touched your nerve.

  • @muzwot9603
    @muzwot9603 4 года назад +17

    2 Steps to self-actualization...
    Step 1: Have a totally rock solid frame and confidence in all of the values which you stand for.
    Step 2: Know that you know nothing, be willing to relearn, challenge and change everything you were taught.
    >>> WTF

    • @DrJ-hx7wv
      @DrJ-hx7wv 3 года назад +1

      I agree. This makes no sense

  • @coachbahman
    @coachbahman 5 лет назад +11

    *Trying to act Alpha is the problem. It's not an act. It's the mindset of success. Confidence out of mastery.*

  • @a7fanatical687
    @a7fanatical687 3 года назад +2

    Weak men start fights, Strong men don't get into one. Weak men hide emotion, Strong men show it.

  • @NQES777
    @NQES777 4 года назад +10

    A Warrior who conquered himself,
    Is more mighty than a warrior with a thousand fights.

  • @claytonwalker3490
    @claytonwalker3490 4 года назад +73

    I do the handshake thing but never did I think it meant I was trying to act alpha I just always thought it was good to give a firm grip

    • @benjamintafari7047
      @benjamintafari7047 4 года назад +8

      I have smaller hands than some men and it pisses me off when they only grab my fingers instead of a full hand. I'm kinda strong despite so, so depending on my mood, I WILL intentionally crush hands if I'm approached this way. And sometimes I'll just look at them and say, "sir, please shake my hand like man"

    • @kingsambition2179
      @kingsambition2179 3 года назад +11

      Firmly grasp it in your hand
      FIRMLY grasp it
      😠FIRMLY GRASP IT 🤝
      Ouch my hand 😣

    • @hippieboho_9365
      @hippieboho_9365 3 года назад +2

      @@kingsambition2179 U win the comment section. 😂🤣

    • @ieatpeopleand
      @ieatpeopleand 3 года назад +4

      @@benjamintafari7047 I hate that as well. I once told a guy "Let's do that handshake again, that last one was garbage." 🤝

    • @faceripper77
      @faceripper77 3 года назад

      @@kingsambition2179 FIRMLY GRASP IT
      *muffles screams*

  • @scottdennis8287
    @scottdennis8287 4 года назад +13

    i know a guy who literally does all of this brags about himself, insults me and everyone else, the handshake, talks shit behinds everyones back, talks about fighting.

    • @silentfighter06
      @silentfighter06 3 года назад +2

      Got a bunch of those from where I live

    • @XxSuicidalNinjaxX
      @XxSuicidalNinjaxX 2 года назад

      Just know that women have caught on to this concept and we DO NOT want an “alpha male” part of why these men are getting more and more angry towards women is because they’re getting rejected and they can’t fathom why because they consider themselves to be primo. They lash out so hard it’s absolutely hilarious lol

  • @kristofkovacsRisy
    @kristofkovacsRisy 5 лет назад +24

    I watch these videos so I can understand people more. Then someone comments: "You're a beta."

  • @QwEr-bx5ey
    @QwEr-bx5ey 5 лет назад +54

    FIRST ONE IS 80% OF MY SCHOOL lmao

    • @Jay-uo1sn
      @Jay-uo1sn 4 года назад

      But are they real or fake?

    • @tacotom3492
      @tacotom3492 4 года назад

      So you're saying you're the other 20% insecure... 😂

  • @cricket4you330
    @cricket4you330 5 лет назад +82

    Attitude comes from belief system you will act the way you think.
    so believe that you're Alpha😎
    Dont fake it🙄

    • @aspartamekillsyaknow9019
      @aspartamekillsyaknow9019 5 лет назад +2

      That's it. Don't fake it because thats contradictory.

    • @Jay_gettoit888
      @Jay_gettoit888 4 года назад

      Fatcs cause female's and or male's sense the whole thing just be real great comment

    • @DrJ-hx7wv
      @DrJ-hx7wv 3 года назад

      Believe based on what?

  • @richardcheese4680
    @richardcheese4680 4 года назад +8

    I had 2 spine surgery’s and literally have to walk like a pimp. It’s uncomfortable because people could think I do this because I think I’m a gangster but really it’s just more healthy for my back.
    Edit: btw I exercised all of these things because I wanted to be seen as tough. The reason behind that goes deeper than most people think. I had some let’s say bad things happened to me when I was a kid and I didn’t want to be a victim anymore. Physical and mental abuse can make a sweet child to a criminal. I don’t say this as an excuse for what I’ve became but it’s more than just “being seen as tough”.
    Took many years of down spiraling and mental breakdowns to realize why I was how I was and not easy to change it.

  • @billfreeman7770
    @billfreeman7770 5 лет назад +161

    The way to truly make the shift to becoming an alpha is to reprogram the beliefs you have about yourself on a deep, subconscious level.
    Guys.. go to GoogIe and look up a program called "Unbreakable Confidence". (pick the top result)
    Those guides are epic for learning how to make the transition.
    You'll probably find it super easy to get girlfriends after reading those.

    • @chrismccall797
      @chrismccall797 5 лет назад

      Bill Freeman You should also google “Monk Mode”. Very interesting info.

    • @anoldtimer
      @anoldtimer 5 лет назад +9

      Aspartame Kills, ya know? well some people could make a transition none of youre opinions matter it aint impossible until some crazy son of a bitch does it

    • @waveddesign9807
      @waveddesign9807 5 лет назад +14

      @@aspartamekillsyaknow9019 You just showed us a trait of a fake alpha boss

    • @llclassifiedll8179
      @llclassifiedll8179 4 года назад +1

      Aspartame Kills, ya know? When there’s a will, there’s a way

  • @AGCreationsflorida
    @AGCreationsflorida 5 лет назад +62

    Women do alot of these things

  • @Damnto
    @Damnto 3 года назад +11

    The only way to know if they’re alpha is by fighting them. If he beats you it doesn’t matter how you think he’s “weak”

    • @mightytattz6752
      @mightytattz6752 2 года назад

      Yes I agree but fighting about things like this is not worth it.

    • @Damnto
      @Damnto 2 года назад +1

      @@mightytattz6752 because it’s not real bro….some people are natural leaders but you can also develop that skill IF YOU NEED IT. Just have fun and exchange respect bro

  • @RikthDcruze
    @RikthDcruze 3 года назад +5

    Well, ive been in a lot of fights... out to prove that i am a tough guy. And i think I did too.
    But i never bragged about it. The people knew me as a good fighter without me saying it. IF YOU ARE, PEOPLE WILL KNOW YOU FOR IT.

  • @masonjohns208
    @masonjohns208 2 года назад +1

    You forgot the tough guy line " I would've dropped him"
    Always talking about what they would've done.....if they weren't scared 😂

  • @Gar96229
    @Gar96229 4 года назад +2

    People think being alpha means being James Bond or something.
    It’s not.
    Being a good respectable role model is the key to being an alpha.
    A lot of these “alphas” who get all the girls aren’t actually alphas, they just get the girls who are easy, that doesn’t make you alpha. Getting the girls who are hard, those men are alpha, and the hard girls don’t go for sleazy arseholes, they go for the good respectable role model.

  • @innodeus6694
    @innodeus6694 5 лет назад +23

    If you are into boxing and mma. Most of what will be talking about involves fighting doesnt necessarily mean you are asserting your dominance onto others. You are not completely about that assumption.

    • @wonphi
      @wonphi 5 лет назад +3

      True fighters will talk about fighting with other fighters since it is a passion and a common interest, but at the same time, most of the good ones are the most down to earth, funny, and respectful people to others around them. It depends on the whole picture.

    • @MuthaFuckaJones.
      @MuthaFuckaJones. 5 лет назад

      @@wonphi I'll talk about it with some of my friends or girls once they're interested.
      I have a drawstring bag, so I can only hang my gloves on the outside when going to or leaving the gym. It starts conversations, but I never do it to start a conversation, if you understand my words.

    • @samthesaxon3918
      @samthesaxon3918 5 лет назад

      I was thinking the same thing. Difference is, I'll talk about getting my ass kicked as well ha ha.

    • @nicktopolski9672
      @nicktopolski9672 5 лет назад

      this whole list is a 3rd wave fem list to weaken men!

  • @ShaneHummus
    @ShaneHummus 5 лет назад +11

    Learned a few tips here and used them in my life. What a life changing decision. But it took me months to use it smoothly and there are some failures but it is fun.

  • @josewmeldondo
    @josewmeldondo 3 года назад +1

    "Be strong enough to be gentle." - Larry Cullen

  • @ForeverCapone
    @ForeverCapone 3 года назад +2

    In my opinion the biggest thing you can do to look tough is to give respect

  • @MrRicardonz15
    @MrRicardonz15 4 года назад +5

    I always wondered why the "Jock" types made it to the top sporting sides at school, yet the people who make it to the international level are (mostly) level headed, hard working, and generally gracious in defeat. Correct me if I'm wrong

  • @fionnftc
    @fionnftc 3 года назад +10

    Bruh he literally described me in the first minute 😂😂😂

  • @Paaka
    @Paaka 5 лет назад +39

    I grip my handshake strong but not hard not because I mean to I was raised never trust a man who doesn't give you a strong handshake or looks you in the eye

    • @megashira1
      @megashira1 5 лет назад +17

      over compensating during a handshake is a sign of insecurity and fear.

    • @nicktopolski9672
      @nicktopolski9672 5 лет назад +10

      @@megashira1 weak hand shakes means a man cant be trusted to do a hard days work. this would be a beta male. grip that hand tight.

    • @kianturner6222
      @kianturner6222 5 лет назад +16

      I agree with you both. I think you should grip the hand firmly, make eye contact and smile. However gripping the hand extremely hard during a handshake, where I'm from, is a sign of aggression and intention to harm. There should be a balance.

    • @cd123atd4e
      @cd123atd4e 4 года назад +2

      very true

    • @cd123atd4e
      @cd123atd4e 4 года назад +2

      @@nicktopolski9672 so true

  • @MasterTSayge
    @MasterTSayge 5 лет назад +4

    I work out almost every week.
    When I shake hands I always do it very gently to avoid drawing attention to myself and to catch others off guard.
    Only then I'll know everything that I need about the other guy so I can make my own assessments on that individual.

  • @clinchknot8224
    @clinchknot8224 4 года назад +7

    So hold up, many of us are actually just not confident alphas. But we indeed are once we stop being insecure when the fake alpha starts stripping. Let’s stand up for ourselves cause I know most of you are! 💪🏽

  • @doky2571
    @doky2571 5 лет назад +6

    Thanks for yet another great video! You are truly a help to millions of guys looking to become better, I look forward to every single video and take so much from all of them. Thank you for saying it as it is, and keep up the informational aspect of everything you do! Much respect. Take care

  • @phillconklin382
    @phillconklin382 5 лет назад +4

    I found this interesting because it dispells a lot of common misconceptions. Kind of basic, but basic I haven't really heard articulated before so I found I learned something. Thanks.

  • @alejandrosalazar4732
    @alejandrosalazar4732 5 лет назад +10

    Thanks Farfromavarage I really take this videos seriously I will fix my problem number 4 of this video.👏👏

  • @SupremeSwaggy
    @SupremeSwaggy 3 года назад +5

    Appreciate you champ! 🤝🤝 always humbling me🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ThievNWalrus
    @ThievNWalrus 3 года назад +3

    This is an underrated video. Every guy in the west should watch this.

  • @gabrielhasbani3364
    @gabrielhasbani3364 2 года назад +2

    I will be honest I use to do one of those things but I grew out of it 🙏🏻

  • @samuelabela7685
    @samuelabela7685 3 года назад +3

    Usually some men try to embrace their weaknesses such as nervousness or anxiety and use it for their expression, I wouldn't blame them, it's a cruel world.

  • @younes86hotmail
    @younes86hotmail 5 лет назад +3

    one meathead at the gym TOLD me to switch with him the bench press that i was using. because i was using a dumbbell between reps. i looked at him straight in the eyes and told him "no". he insisted and i told him "i don't wanna switch with you". he then proceeded to belittle me by going to the other guys and tell on me. I said to him "I'm not switching with you. there is ways to ask someone to switch. you don't come at me ordering me to switch". he started talking nonsense so i put back my headphone and left his ass waiting like an idiot. when i finished i saw there was another bench press in the other room.

  • @jelle3336
    @jelle3336 5 лет назад +24

    I've been surrounded by men like this for the passed 20 years.

  • @xDarkPx
    @xDarkPx 4 года назад +2

    I honestly think this video has some good points, but I really don't indulge or pay attention to people like that. I try ro treat everyone the same, learn from my mistakes and make sure to not wrong anyone. At 35 years old, being the big dog is the last thing on my mind.

    • @XxSuicidalNinjaxX
      @XxSuicidalNinjaxX 2 года назад

      As women it’s a bit harder because we’re the ones being aggressively pursued by this type of individual and we really aren’t allowed to say no in their view. They can’t fathom why we would, actually. And this makes them angry and they always lash out and immediately insult our intelligence and appearance without fail. Which is fine mostly but we deserve the right to pick who we allow inside us without being berated.

  • @atlemea891
    @atlemea891 3 года назад +3

    I do the 2nd one. I didn’t notice at all but it’s my dream to become an MMA fighter.

  • @ahhmonn
    @ahhmonn 3 года назад +3

    i do non of these thankfully, so either i’m subconsciously Alpha or i just don’t care for peoples validation, i’d say a bit of both

  • @lydiaespiritu2752
    @lydiaespiritu2752 3 года назад +3

    How to identify a fake Alpha: he believes an Alpha exists.

  • @justinfreeman4614
    @justinfreeman4614 5 лет назад +1

    One of these is kind of funny. I actually used to fight in a ring and have done martial arts for over 10 years. This means that fighting isn't an extremely rare topic for me. I do remember a really buff dude (good on him!) at work getting defensive and insulting when fighting came up in conversation. He was thoroughmy convinced that muscles win a fight and didn't know until towards the end of the conversation I am authentically knowledgeable and experienced on the matter. (Spoiler: muscles and fitness do matter, but skill and technique massively outweigh them) He refused to believe I could know what I was talking about. However, since this was natural for me and not meant to be me showing off, everyone else could tell - probably by intuition - that I was legitimate (I was calm and comfortable with the discussion). I didn't need to defend myself really because everyone sort of blew off the buff guy. I really appreciated the support. Myself and buff dude are still friends and on good terms.

  • @craigmack5655
    @craigmack5655 4 года назад +2

    I feel bad for this but the very last time I went to a bar . I went out side to look for my friend . He was surrounded by three guys with girls around them. They were punking him . I went up to them friendly nd drunk and told them we were leaving nd touched one guy on the shoulder in a friendly manner...he aggressively threatened me nd told me hes this and that ... I gave him a quick jab jab right he was on the floor nd I was ground pounding him till I realized this was a crime ..I used to box for two years ... I regretted it in the morning. But I'm sure he was just showing off in front of those girls . I've lost fights I've won em but that night taught me dont go to bars nd donnt drink anymore or put my self in situations. If I guy thinks hes more alpha so be it if he is so be it if hes not oh well ... I'm just gunna focus on me nd my flaws nd take like one day at a time ..

  • @SaifAlikhan-wy1zs
    @SaifAlikhan-wy1zs 5 лет назад +28

    Truth is real alpha guys are also insecure
    Yes we all have our own insecurities that also means alpha males also have insecurities too
    I don't want to say anything against far from average hell this channel helped me improve a lot and I want to show my gratitude towards him But there's a video I saw where David goggins said that alpha males are insecure guys based on his experiences
    You guys should definitely check that video out
    But of course I don't want to say that what was told here in this video is wrong

    • @russellh6152
      @russellh6152 5 лет назад +2

      Saif Alikhan2188 agreed

    • @aspartamekillsyaknow9019
      @aspartamekillsyaknow9019 5 лет назад +1

      Insecurity, confidence, assertiveness and charm. Yeah, they fit together so perfectly. Whoever said that needs their head checked because he probably has a vag where his dick should be.

    • @Darth_Bateman
      @Darth_Bateman 5 лет назад +1

      Found the fake alpha.

    • @SaifAlikhan-wy1zs
      @SaifAlikhan-wy1zs 5 лет назад +3

      @@Darth_Bateman Bro to be honest I ain't even a real alpha
      I'm still learning what it takes to become an alpha 😁

    • @Darth_Bateman
      @Darth_Bateman 5 лет назад

      @@SaifAlikhan-wy1zs Perhaps it is he who is the most alpha of all. . .

  • @mlgwombat7487
    @mlgwombat7487 4 года назад +9

    I cringe whenever I see the word “alpha” in one of these videos

    • @jakefarrugia1020
      @jakefarrugia1020 3 года назад

      You read the title and clicked on it anyways

  • @darkmessiah9566
    @darkmessiah9566 3 года назад +1

    I kept reading that "chase your goals, not women" and all that, but did anyone ask what if my only remaining goal is to get the woman i like?

  • @Rose_Butterfly98
    @Rose_Butterfly98 3 года назад

    I don't talk about fighting unless someone brings it up. But I did get into many fights in school.Oh they used to brag and say they were black belts or something and try and pick on me and some other classmates I had but you can tell they couldn't fight because they'd hesitate way too much , hurting them was always so fun.

  • @scottbeater-man3714
    @scottbeater-man3714 4 года назад +5

    I always thought of myself this way. I'm not a tough guy but I'm not a bitch ether. Have a good time with everyone and be happy. That's all you gotta do to live well. 🍻✌🏻

  • @B1gBossMan
    @B1gBossMan 3 года назад +8

    Imagine some dude calling u weak for 5 straight minutes and then says he loves u like a brother :D

  • @andrewmontgomery8428
    @andrewmontgomery8428 2 года назад +1

    Best advice: once you identify these individuals- ignore them and totally cut them off. They are worth nothing.

  • @jonathanmegbassett1428
    @jonathanmegbassett1428 3 года назад +1

    So I agree with this for the most part . The hand shake thing is a little subjective just because it can depend on the other things then personality just a bit. For example an old farmer or blacksmith or machenic might have a stronger hand shake without trying to.

  • @heartycann3783
    @heartycann3783 4 года назад +3

    I love you guys like my Brothers...
    This line means a lot ...🦅👍

  • @AI-xi8gz
    @AI-xi8gz 4 года назад +8

    some guy once shook my hand and literally tried to crush it, and kept applying a lot of pressure for no reason. after introducing myself he tried to interrogate me in a dominant way LOL what a clown i kept correcting him and counter questioning and he got so frustrated

  • @manueltrujillo22
    @manueltrujillo22 4 года назад +2

    Love God
    Love your family
    Love your spouse
    Love your kids
    Live yourself end of story
    That Beta and alpha crap is irrelevant

    • @unklebin5734
      @unklebin5734 4 года назад

      Hahaha tru

    • @unklebin5734
      @unklebin5734 4 года назад

      Thay just can't help to not catagorise men while every person is a unique individual

    • @mightytattz6752
      @mightytattz6752 2 года назад

      Amen!! God is the protector of the righteous and the wicked.

  • @kingboa443
    @kingboa443 5 лет назад +2

    Love you brotha. Thank you, I’m glad I’m telling my team the rights from wrong. -thanks to my pops for showing me gentlemen ways. And thanks to myself for choosing to be alpha.

  • @VIDSTORAGE
    @VIDSTORAGE 5 лет назад +20

    It is THE NICE GUYS who have the switch you do not want to turn to the 180..They are the real Alphas

    • @Godschild77786
      @Godschild77786 4 года назад

      NICE DAWG could you elaborate on that?

    • @ploopy5235
      @ploopy5235 4 года назад

      @@Godschild77786 He means guys who say they're nice guys but don't have substance to back it up

    • @vinceking7878
      @vinceking7878 4 года назад

      🤣

  • @justsomeone6041
    @justsomeone6041 5 лет назад +18

    This simply means that to be an alpha, don't be a jerk!

  • @slendereddemon2505
    @slendereddemon2505 2 года назад

    I m crying inside bcoz I have all of these symptoms other than handshake one and calling others beta I am working on my personality and your videos are really helpful

    • @mightytattz6752
      @mightytattz6752 2 года назад

      Stop trying to prove yourself to people and prove yourself to yourself brother. Lift weights, do MMA and learn stoicism. But above all these things seek God my man. God be with you.

  • @LethalOwl
    @LethalOwl 3 года назад

    The giving orders-part; if you do this with your buddies, you better be joking. However, commanding should be considered when dealing with women. If you’re acting too nice, you’ll be despised. You need to be the leader in the relationship, period. That is, if you can even be bothered to do a relationship.
    Never marry, never cohabitate, never long-term date.

  • @timeisup3094
    @timeisup3094 3 года назад +4

    Fun fact; “Alpha male” baboons gets the best hiding spot it the tree when a predator is near.

    • @XxSuicidalNinjaxX
      @XxSuicidalNinjaxX 2 года назад

      Well good thing we aren’t baboons.

    • @timeisup3094
      @timeisup3094 2 года назад

      @@XxSuicidalNinjaxX Thank you for that non-contributing response.

  • @DESIBOY-fe7nm
    @DESIBOY-fe7nm 5 лет назад +3

    I had a friend, a coward. He used to talk about killing people. But he couldn't even kill a sheep when i gave him the knife. 😆

  • @KingClickMusic
    @KingClickMusic 4 года назад

    I’m 23, working at a factory. It’s got the most chill work environment.
    This guy who started a few months after me.. He’s 39, was in the Navy, etc. Cool. What’s not cool is when I first talked to him, he listed all his accolades, where he’s been, told me about his happy family with a 3rd kid on the way, etc.. I knew something was gonna be weird.
    Now if I’m in a circle talking, he’ll walk up and stand in front of me. I usually would get upset but I walk away and try to so compassion. That spot is more important to him than me.
    He seems like the type who picks out who shits on him and who he shits on. This use to be my weakness but now I don’t care.. Besides I want to watch him squirm, fail, and be exposed who he is.

  • @ryandubyah2345
    @ryandubyah2345 3 года назад +1

    Very well done video! So many points are so very true and obvious. Oddly enough most of these points are horribly apparent in steroid users, as their insecurity led to them using juice to create the confidence they were lacking naturally. Any worthwhile girl is far more impressed by a guy who can show humility and respective honesty, and ‘manliness’ only when necessary.

  • @TheRealFalkerry
    @TheRealFalkerry 5 лет назад +10

    1) Making fun of a guy that gets attention (from a girl for example)
    2) Bragging about fighting skills
    3) Trying too hard when shaking another guy's hand
    4) Giving orders rather than asking
    5) Calling other guys "beta"
    With that said, until next time

  • @bryanbiemans123
    @bryanbiemans123 5 лет назад +3

    So, how do i deal with those people accordingly?

  • @jasongunningham9545
    @jasongunningham9545 3 года назад +1

    I will judge you if you give me a Weak handshake. Sissy boys

  • @Th3Broth3r
    @Th3Broth3r 3 года назад +1

    1.Buying Name Brands
    2. Driving their parents car
    3.Getting chicks high or Drunk to bang
    4.Tattoos and piercings
    5. Brag

  • @temich1985
    @temich1985 5 лет назад +16

    I am Alpha enough to admit that I do have a lot of Beta traits lol

    • @andrewgiegerich5526
      @andrewgiegerich5526 4 года назад +4

      Everyone does as a society most men are betas at this point sitting on your ass playing video games doesn't bring out many alpha traits
      But having certain characteristics doesn't define you as a whole

    • @Doors067
      @Doors067 4 года назад

      @@andrewgiegerich5526 i like my video games

  • @ms.khongkwanchayanant3608
    @ms.khongkwanchayanant3608 5 лет назад +7

    3.🤝Donald trump is called to my mind.😂🤝

    • @montag4516
      @montag4516 5 лет назад

      Just this week Trump became the very first U.S. president to ever enter North Korea. He met with president Kim Jon Un, they shook hands and had a gentleman's accord between them. Trump could have easily dominated with his own physical presence but refrained from doing so.
      So Ms. Khongkwan, what great events of world diplomacy did you take part in this week? .

    • @ms.khongkwanchayanant3608
      @ms.khongkwanchayanant3608 5 лет назад +1

      Montag Alexis I have had seen many such incidents but You had only recent one in memory oh pity dude😊

    • @bobbyshewan4229
      @bobbyshewan4229 5 лет назад

      @@montag4516 it ain't about him as a president lmao dude just can't shake a hand

    • @wheeliebeast7679
      @wheeliebeast7679 5 лет назад

      @солнцевская солнцевская братва Hi, Cletus! How's life in your trailer park?

  • @bjjthaiboxing
    @bjjthaiboxing 4 года назад

    Those are things insecure guys do.
    However, the one regarding fight talk, is correct the way you described it.
    That being said, it's one of my favorite topics, since I own a full contact Muay Thai gym.
    And, I get my ass handed to me regularly. I never pretend it's any different?
    Some of the guys I've gone against, out classed me in every way... So, I take my glory in the simple fact I didn't get knocked out!
    I'm always trying to get more people interested in fighting. For me, it's very therapeutic. Even at the age of 53.

  • @Notdroc
    @Notdroc 3 года назад +1

    I was dealing with a co worker who I thought was a friend and he exhibited all of these qualities. I cut ties with himm

  • @vinnn4919
    @vinnn4919 5 лет назад +4

    Best alpha method is to do what u like

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 лет назад +8

    *DO NOT*
    - Thump your chest
    - Wear shades indoors
    - Whirl papa's BMW keys around your finger
    - Throw your arm around your hot girl buddy

    • @imxorua2412
      @imxorua2412 5 лет назад

      Ataur Rahman it’s seen as a douche move

  • @bobxbaker
    @bobxbaker 3 года назад

    there's lots of people like this and it's kinda annoying, but the best thing you can do is avoid them and let them self-destruct off of their lack of confidence in themselves.
    it's really only then when they have to either sink or float that they will become a better person, let them reflect on themselves on who they really want to be and what confidence actually is.
    if you're secure in yourself you allready know what to do about them i guess.

  • @djsdesignsandcustoms4779
    @djsdesignsandcustoms4779 4 года назад

    I have the same problem people always think that they are big and bad . Always looking for trouble picking on the weak. But great video

  • @alohacoach8002
    @alohacoach8002 5 лет назад +2

    I agree on all except number 4 I think it was.

  • @unsainted2240
    @unsainted2240 4 года назад +8

    Hahaha, a firm handshake is a sign of respect. Where tf are you from

    • @Ace-id3ky
      @Ace-id3ky 4 года назад +11

      A firm handshake ofcourse but not shaking someone's hand with full force, he said that.

    • @BxNcVsper777
      @BxNcVsper777 4 года назад +7

      There a difference between a firm handshake and breaking someone hand

  • @ellaparks3131
    @ellaparks3131 2 года назад

    just had the weirdest christmas with my brother who just got out of the army. he acted super aggressive forcefully. he would hit all of the girls “playfully” but WAY too hard with all his strength it would actually hurt. i didn’t like it i had to straight up tell him to leave me alone without giving a single smile or laugh. and i just didn’t understand why he was acting so off the wall forcefully dominant to the point it made other people feel UNCOMFORTABLE.

  • @tommyshelby2250
    @tommyshelby2250 4 года назад +2

    we've all met someone who acts super tough
    yeah,that's my brother.

    • @halofreak1990
      @halofreak1990 3 года назад

      Same here. And the moment you stand up to him and get in his face, he becomes a very small, almost pathetic man. He's pretty tough, from a safe distance, lmao.