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NEVER Ever Do THIS.... | No More Mr. NICE GUY
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- All around the world, many guys are TOO NICE, and they don't even know it! The truth is that nice guys really do finish last, so if you want to finish first, check out these 5 simple tips that you can start using immediately to shed your nice guy skin and become the high value man you were designed to be...
The moment you start respecting yourself and cultivate self-love is the moment when no one will have emotional control over you.
You can be your greatest ally, but also you can be your thickest barrier.
Evrryeear
Wise words Sir !
I see your comments everywhere man.
The only way to gain self respect it's to follow your own rules as a man and maintaining your standars
@@kevper96 lol me too
I don’t have to worry about being too nice, having no friends makes it easy
🔥🔥
Betterment Boss Not anymore, I used to though.
I don't have friends or family. Just the voices in my head.
G1ForLife Me too. It’s a struggle being alone, but I know exactly how you feel!
@@admirbarucija2018 it seems as if I've been alone my whole life. Just try to be remain strong. That's all we can do.
Treat her like a queen she'll treat you like a peasant.
uncle sam the sad truth . Everytime I show a girl a bit of attention they get too comfortable and expect it more. No more attention I’ll give her attention holding her hair while she slobbin on my slab
That's true
Don’t over think, with time he will come, in the mean while be the best u can be for ur self.
@@yoyococonuggets6922 nice girl spotted
R/nicegirls
The One and Only WAA
R/woosh.
It's satire, this is what it's like being attacked by a nice guy.
Don’t fear confrontation, but also know how to pick your battles
How to pick one's Battles? Not how but When.
Sometimes its easier to walk away. I'd rather use my energy on something useful
*The number one way to not be a nice guy*
Learn to draw boundaries. Learn to express to others what you are willing to and not willing to put up with. When people see you reinforce your boundaries, men will respect you and women will be more attracted to you.
The Gentlemen's Game Yes! This is the definition of a real quality man. This dude is attractive for women
Respect yourself, love yourself & you’ll see how much you can accomplish.
There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy just don't be a pushover.
Be kind not nice.
Come to think of it, men nowadays choose either to get used as financial pawns for women *OR* go MGTOW, to seek better options in life. Society at it's low.
Son Rikodu. Exactly. Kind, not nice. Nice people are the most unhappy people.
justin lumpkin yeah YOU should be a nice guy
That's what I go by. And if someone gives me shit, I bite back
Bro - Your sharing of knowledge is deeply appreciated !
Thank you always give the BEST advise👍🏾
this boost lesson is truly far from Average.
thumbs up man a true talk.
This is the life changer I needed! Thank you! 🙏🏾
Thank you Julian, you are the awesome one for all the great videos
I am impressed with the time you put into researching and producing these videos. Great job FarFromAverage!
Stop being so nice
@@PIPERBOYWILLIAMS Good one!
yeah that's my problem.. i was really confident around other people when i was a few years younger. i was flirty and and made people laugh with "mean" jokes because i knew when to pull them and i just could do them because people liked me and knew i wasn't serious. now a few years later my health went down the hill and i'm out of work (28 now by the way) and i feel reaaaally anxious even when i'm only with my best friends. you can tell i'm not feeling good from miles away but i still try to be the person i was before. Problem is..i'm just not confident anymore and people think i'm serious when i make the jokes and everything because i can't really show my emotions and intentions. just sucks and makes everything worse so i don't do them anymore..whichs sucks and makes everything worse..
Start doing push ups
never mistake kindness for weakness you weasels.
It seems like the majority makes this mistake cause all they do is judge. U couldn’t of said it better man.
Well said...
But They Do.
Welldone!, your video is on-point. Keep up the good work.
Thanks homie....keep on doing the work for us
FarFromAverage is the man. Your videos are always inspiring and fascinating. My life in general has taken some drastic leaps of recent cos of you. Thanks man!
Wait to you get into the big bad real world..then you will know this "far from average" dude is nothing of the sort.
Thank you and Amen
God bless you 1000 times, thank you so much
What you're saying is making so much sense... thank you Julien for this life saving content. Cant put into words how much I've changed since i started watching your channel and applying what you've taught. You literally heal men from the negative effects of our society and help unleash the man inside of boys like me raised by moms. I wish you all good things in life bro, keep it up.
Thank u so much man, i can't thank u enough
Thanks man for this video, its so true
Good job, these are all true.
Bro your vids are what I need . Pls keep on going
you got some real dope advice, hooked to your channel wanna see more of it, Lots of Love from India
Good information love it changeing right now. No more Mr nice guy great video
Great explanation very rounded
I really loved the expressions on the face of the guy and gal in the thumbnail 😀!!
Your videos are always awesome.
As with all things practice moderation. There is a fine line to these. If you always say somthing or call out before measuring the situation you may come across looking like a super jerk. For example if everywhere you go youre constantly disagreeing emphatically with your group of friends they will not want to hang with you as much. Or if youre constantly correcting other guys or people for the jabbing and ribbing. You may come across as weak and sensitive. These are great tips yet you must you good judgment and moderation with them.
I honestly don't think most guys are "nice guys." The gift/good deed one is true a lot but most of these, seriously? Are guys REALLY that f*cking spineless? Of course I'd rip you one and be firm if you over stepped your boundaries.
But I never encounter any of these other ones in real life. People are too busy trying to get on with life. So am I. So am just polite because it takes no effort. Maybe I just deal with good people currently.
Regarding dating crap, I think people take the nice guy thing too far and we end up with hyper jerks. You aren't a nice guy. And f*ck off to women who think you are. Tell them to say it to your face instead of ASSuming it.
Our plant manager at work tried impressing one of the girls by making fun of me to see if they would play along one time. Let’s just say he never did that again...fucking loser.
You are on fire, my dude.🦚
Awesome 🍀👍 thanks so much 🙏🏼
I recently was talking with a girl and she started using words that drew me back to thoughts of my ex and I told her I was done... I’m going to bow out now we’re my exact words. I found out later she has PTSD from a past relationship and tends to act out trying to keep the upper hand because of a perceived weakness inside other people. I’m worth more than that and there are other people out there.
I met the nicest guy in the world and married him 10 years ago.. I wouldn't trade him in for the world
Thank you very much
Expect nothing of others only of self 🙌🏾 the noble require no recognition
this channel deserves a higher amount of subscribers. since the other useless channels have multi million subscribers.
the content and concept of this channel is beyond imagination 👍👑
Youre right. His content helped me 10x more than many million plus subs channels. This truly is a gem
Great video!
Take a Boxing 🥊 Class or MMA Class Do sparring, it Will Boost Your Confidence it lets you know you can do it. Stand up put them hands up. That’s Why We Need Fathers 👌👌💰🥇
a father would have been good
agreed. i started off my childhood cuz my father couldn’t afford to come to the US. and he did his best to teach me to be strong but it was too late. i had to learn from experience and taking mma really changed things as well. after a few days of sparring i never held back and tbh it was too easy for me to get someone
@@seancorrea3757 by get someone do you mean get a gf?
That's exactly what I did
No.4 is 🔥🔥💯
I once saw a nice guy at my school standing up for himself
He got beaten up
😂😂😂😂😂
Lol
losing a fight is always better than submitting though
How can we talk like you? The tune and everything. It makes it really interesting conversation
What not just nice people but people in general need to understand is that just as you don't owe a person anything if they did something for you out of kindness nobody is obligated to do anything for you as well.
They feel cheated because they did a kindness feeling the ONLY way to become noticed is by doing kind things and when they learn it takes more than what they thought it took to that to gain affection emotions ensue.
People in general consider me nice. Now that I'm middle aged, I have already developed the traits mentioned here, and that didn't happen overnight. Sure, I've made some enemies, more in recent times, and that's part of the package. I have no problem with that.
Wow, what a wonderful day to spot beauties!!
It is a miracle that I subscribed to this channel. I feel like I subscribed at the right time.
You just sum it up in this video.
Keep up the good work Julian.
Stop being nice. You have to disagree and say the video sucked!
Jk I'm too nice. The vid is awesome
I'm a skinny guy from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰. You inspired me lot 👊keep it up man.🙏
Don't matter your skinny , i am too it's your mind set that counts
This is just the video I needed to watch today. It isn't that I don't like confrenations, it's watching people suffer in the work place due to floor managers/bosses walking all over their employees over unrealistic problems. I say this because where I work, this has happened multiple times. I once witnessed one of our managers walk all over a friend of mine for taking a leak. My friend had been having some bowel issues and clearly stated this to his manager. After watching this happen twice, I went to our general manager about it. This other manager has a history of outbursts of anger, and witnessed it first hand when it was directed at me. The problem went away, but this is just one example of an occasion where guys/men need to take action if you see something like this in the work place, or at school possibly maybe.
I’m teaching young men everyday how to dominate and control their environment with their women and friends . Not on RUclips but in person. They listen . Time to speak to your fellow men
Waow this is really helpful. Thanks!
Last one is really true. When i was in high school my classmates started bullying me and it was so disrespectful. One day I fought back and after that they never said me anything. Its good if you fight back. Its hard but it is better than Struggling on regular basis.
I keep track so I know when to set boundaries
Str8up 💯 gotta teach folx how to treat you or else deserve what you allow...
I agree with this video, but doing things for others and not expecting something in return is a good way to get people to take advantage of you.
I concur with your sagacious caveat.
Great 👍
Thanks
Oh I have high standards all right...they're so high that I'm just making my own pathway in this world...ALONE.
Yay!!! A new video😂
Please keep making more videos you they are awesome
You described me to the t. And I get treated like crap for my ways. But weaks hang with weaks
Everybody here randomly becomes a nice guy
This is good!!!!!
Just have some self-respect, set some boundaries and don't be super desperate.
Trust me, I'm 23, single, suffer from Anixety and depression and super insecure, whenever families or mates talk about their relationships I get super depressed and always think I'm missing out. When in actuality I need to better self-respect for myself
Tbh I just show respect to people and put my foot down when they disrespect me too much. I’m only tolerant because I’m not trying to get myself into trouble, but if I realize I’m taking too much shit ima lash out
Your page is DOPE🔥🔥🔥
When you have high standards, you never will have bottom feeders.
Respect yourself.
Definitely on the "too agreable" side of the spectrum. Mostly with confrontation. Thanks for the reminder 😉
Good vid. too many people just want to please others...
I realized I was too nice in my 20's
me too brother...but hey..better late than never
@@brownpunk1794 Definitely bro! Appreciate that 👍
@Tao Pai Pai Damn
There’s no such thing as being too kind. Don’t ever let a bitch make you think that. Just don’t be a floor mat aka a simp. Lol
JordanJones StoryFilms nicely said
These videos must be a part of learning process for boys at school. Here I am 32 and finding it too late to create all these kind of mentality after I fucked up with someone I'm in interested in....
Thank you so much. Video. Komol tata.
ALWAYS make sure you have options.
Some of these things are so true they are relatable. And you didn't even say "Be a Jerk".
One needs also to be willing to make mistakes, and bear the brunt of failures, and move on unperturbed by mocking comments, and use failure as the lesson it is.
He puts a lot of effort into these great videos. Must be very time consuming.
@Jasper: Just hit up UnbreakableConfidence,com..
You can be "nice".. just don't be a pushover.
Girls associate kindness with weakness, so you need to show her you have a backbone.
Don't show insecurities. Be confident... you should read those books, man.
Indeed. I have also noticed that he is different from other RUclipsrs who were forcing their viewers to subscribe on their channel at the very start of the video. He doesn't seem so needy enough because I seldom see him liking comments or replying to comments on his RUclips channel.
He's an idiot..ALL his videos are aimed at college students who while might be academically good in college they haven't got a clue how the real world works...and neither does he...he's most likely a beta college student himself...as someone who worked in a college I saw many students who thought they were "alpha" males get DESTROYED by actual REAL world alpha males when they went out into the big bad world when they were finished with college.
I don't associate kindness with weakness. I have respect for a man that, at the right moment, is kind and gentle. To be that way, you have to be strong and have self control. I agree with the insecurities thing. Mostly. I know any human being will have insecurities, but, if you have no self control and whine and moan and complain and be a victim and do the woe is me thing....immediate turn off. I was told, by a person, like it was his crowning achievement, that he was a nice guy. I wasn't sure at the time what that meant, to him. I watched his wife, from whom he was seperated, walk all over him and walk away from him and her kids. I told him, he was better than that and deserved more. I helped him to see more of his own worth. I showed him, he wasnt just a walking wallet. I found out what his dream was and encouraged him to never give up on it. No matter how hard times got and that I would always be there. Well...you tell me if he was a nice guy. He now, in the process of getting experience, got a job, hundreds of miles away. Lives rent free, with a male coworker, comes back here friday night to sunday afternoon, is totally unapproachable, doesnt reply to texts, or doesnt reply for anywhere up to 7 hours. Thinks that taking care of me is paying bills and doing dishes. He gets easily offended and if he feels anything, its about him and he cries. If I cry, he just looks at me, says sorry and finds something else to do. I have a difficult and sometimes, debillitating chronic illness, that Im fighting. Was actually in 'remission' until he took this job. I expressed concerns about it. Because I researched the area, housing, cost of living, etc He didnt. Ive been single for just over a month now. Still living in the same house. Like house mates. Still being told I'm loved. A man has to be loved and supported and taken care off, in a way, where his needs are specific to him. The same for a woman.
I was being taken care of, according to what he THOUGHT, not what i expressed or had shown him. I dont see him as a walking wallet. I never did. Being supportive is not paying the electricity bill. Nor yelling at someone or ignoring them. Or ghosting or gas lighting them. If that's a nice guy......being very English about it, my arse is a tea cake!! I'd rather have someone who is honest with themself and honest with me. Where I'm allowed to be genuine and be emotionally wired and he is practically wired, amongst other things. Where we both help each other, to be the best that we can be. Where love is unconditional and there is no judgement, of anyone. Sorry that ended up to be so long!!! I must be more of a passionate person, than I realised. Hope you have a good day. Kind thoughts to everyone!!
Give without expecting in return.
Julian, when's the obligatory book going to come out? We all know it's being worked on under the table.
Fight club: first homework assignment is to get into a fight with a complete stranger and lose
Dit is echt waar
You are an inspiration to my new book The Pain Before the Game.
Available on amazon
My problem with confrontation is that sometimes it can make me too emotionaI, I start tearing up - and that can be embarrassing 😕
I used to be like that when I was younger
I feel like the best friends to have is the people with no friends
Can adapt some of my past experiences , like I buy too many alochols from a local scots for nothing value exchange , like I bought expensive gift from Shanghai for a girl who I wss attracted to but she didnt appreiciate any , so thats it . Now I fully understand life and more career focused
There is nothing wrong to be a nice guy.If you let others take advantage of you and you don't mind and give then little comfort with that,it shows how strong you are and believe me when the people who are taking advantage of you realise what they are doing and how great you are they love you truly and that will be a true relationship.And if you are true a nice guy you won't even feel bad even if they don't realise and keep taking advantage of you.
I chatted with a 18 years old girl (I'm 24). She got teased like hell, but also got a few compliments. Maybe it's just what kind of man I am, so if she didn't like it, then we don't have business with each other.
The girl I liked is my friend and I'm like "There's a cute girl, let's talk to her." :D
But no more "nice" talk. I also encourage you to just be yourself.
I am. Happy.
for the sake of my life,
I've never seen a man who wasn't nice for nothing getting anything in return. I don't know maybe that was for my own good. since it's foolish to believe, that the world actually has amazing people, if you're one of them, I respect you.
I've notice Lot of males in the middle east are extremely weak towards women....well for men in the western hemisphere we have one thing in common treat women like garage and never respect them period.
Being a nice guy show that you respect a woman but if she don’t value a nice thing just let her go, A good women won’t do this shit to the one who value her.
Congratulations! You just described the secret of a good marriage.
80% of what this guy said I am I've never seen another RUclipsr on point the way he is except for improvement pill they're practically on the same level
Thank u
6:02 Embracing Competition in a Black Neighborhood is called: "SURVIVAL" Many times toxic people and influences rule this environment that can sway a black man or woman to go wrong way. Or be passive and just accept their environment. I know I'm really trying to change that. 🤔 Good Video! 💯📹
Not embracing competition will get yo wig split in da hood
@@adielwilson8749 Its black people with that mindest stay getting locked up
@@ChrisDeAnna that's only if you start things
Guilty of holding back, but not for fear of conflict, but for not knowing what to say next. Please help
Just don't be needy 😋
Hey Julien, FYI if you’re car is yellow a better fitting name for it would be Ghidorah
Im afraid i have to agree w you.
But wtf sad state of affairs this world is in you cant be nice to people.
Right on. You don't have to be a jerk or asshole to do this. Learn how to say NO. Speak and act with confidence