4 Things That Make Men Look SUPER Desperate
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- Опубликовано: 28 июн 2019
- Few things are worse than being a man who looks super desperate, and the crazy part is that you might not even realize you're doing these things. So if you don't want to be viewed as desperate or needy by other men and women -- then make sure you're not doing these 4 things, and you're attractiveness should increase quite a bit.
1. Bragging
2. Providing too much too soon
3. Being too available
4. Agree with whatever anyone says!
da real mvp
What if shes your gf already do these apply
@@KamikOzzy_ absolutely
@@KamikOzzy_ Definitely does!
@@KamikOzzy_ that's the quickest way to get her to dump you for eternity!
*Chasing her. If she don’t want you just move on to the next my friend.*
Most people use she don't , I'm confused it's actually she don't or she doesn't
The Jaxx Channel - Self-Growth Health Wellness - this is worldly advice, not scriptural advice.
please allow me to correct u: 'If she doesn't want you... move on to her friend.' 🤣🤣🤣
@@mpmedia6735 bruh it's "doesent not"
it doesn't matter if she wants you or not ain't nobody got time for games, such as "hard to get"
*Desperation is a sign of low self-value*
If you want to ged rid of it, you have to start searching internally.
No outward validation will make you like yourself more.
- Do whatever you love, follow your dreams
- Attain knowledge and wisdom
- Shoot for a long term excellence and people, including women, will flock around you
Desperation comes from insecurities - get to the root of the problem by working on yourself.
Pause "women" for a moment and improve your own qualities.
Word
This is solid advice for a lifetime, not just for a "moment," for once a man understands the root of the problem, he can be expected to reject the idea of going back to the gynocentric plantation.
Easy Dr. Psychology, not in every case. I realize you never implied every but it's implied in your words. Being lonely is not an insecurity, it's a normal human condition.
Boom! (Mic drop)
precisely. I learned this the hard way.
No matter how many videos like this you watch, you will NEVER make any progress in life until you work on yourself.
real alpha don’t care what the world think.
Thanks. The comment I was waiting for.
This is something I wish I would had learn a long time ago.
right the reason leaders can't be following people is cuz we're too busy leading people
Exactly
Amen
The other downside to bragging is, that it can make people envious and resentful towards you. Self confidence eliminates the need to brag.
Bryan Boydstun - Bragging can also easily slip into outright lying about yourself.
I've done it before. Was on a date at a place that had karaoke. A guy went up to sing and sounded just like Robert Plant. My date mentioned that he is actually in a Led Zep tribute band thats really good. Feeling inadequate and insecure myself I blurted out that I used to be in a band 10 years ago.
The truth was I was just jamming on the drums with a couple guys in a garage. It really wasn't a "band".
She saw right through it and ended the date right there.
#1: Breathing.
Batman
#2: Blinking
#3 drinking water
#4: Shitting
#5: Existing
#6 Moonwalking
*Number 4 is made worse when people change their opinions mid conversation simply to conform to the group.*
It's one thing to see the superior logic in someone's opinion over your own and as a result switch, but to switch simply to fit in or get 🐱 shows desperation.💪
Hmmm, just like the recent democratic debates.
@@georgelewis7154 perhaps😀
Black Vito, vote for Trump. Let's do this!!! 2020
1) OVERLY bragging
2) Giving too much, too soon (expensive gifts won't get you girls, it's the opposite. And even if it works, it won't be the type of girls you want to be with)
3) Don't be too available, don't chase her. Make your presence RARE and, especially, PRECIOUS
4) Agree with everyone (be brave enough to stand up for your thoughts)
With that said, until next time. (PS : sorry for being late on recent videos, i was partying this week-end ^^)
... Your greatness will silence them.
- Utimate Warrior -
Basically the video says. Don’t brag and don’t chase too hard. And hold your opinions. That’s the whole video in a nutshell
It says don't hold your opinions.
C.T. Holding opinions means “” staying true to yourself “
thanks
People like trying to figure out someone mysterious
Single life is the way to go, less stressful.
thanks gandalf, thanks..
Friendly conflict is something I struggle with myself. Brought some light, looking at it from a different perspective. Nice my friend.
I need to point out that there is another reason why a person will agree with whatever you say: to avoid expending the energy of the act of disagreeing (i.e. arguing). In this scenario, they will probably be avoiding like the plague after the conversation.
5. Commenting "😍😘😜🤪🤤" on her Instagram post.
AJ Truss that is a sign of a thirsty person
If each and evey time i went fishing and caught a fish right away i would be a very happy man. The fishing analogy was bad
If it is for food then I would be happy to, but if it is for sport or leisure then it is a different story.
I like winning but losing sometimes really teaches me that I am not invincible.
You don't want everything to just be givin to you just for asking,or you'll never build strength to handle any adversity.
@You Tube 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@salvadoramaya8642 good point
I LOVE THE LAST ONE!!!
That took me 3 decades to realized.
Good Job!!!
No matter what you do or how you go about it doesn't matter what matters is the woman who appreciates values you regardless
I love bragging about my 241k mile, 1997, ford ranger with no AC, and the tailgate is all bashed up. And they think its funny and attractive. Bragging about things that are obviously not great makes you look carefree and confident that your life is worth sharing. And If they don’t agree I shoo them away and tell them they can find a guy with a nicer car (showing I dont need them) ...and they love the tension. This basically hits on every point in this video (not being too needy, willing to let go for what You want, etc).
Awesome Video Man.. I was doing 1st 3 things
You are spot on about the bragging. I have a young friend who drives a new Mercedes. (He works for Mercedes! ) I told him to never tell a girl about his car- just offer them more a lift home. He eventually followed my advice and found a gorgeous girlfriend. She was so impressed that he never even mentioned it!
So, I guess it's fair to assume that she wouldn't have considered him had it *not* been for his Benz.
Well he already made the connection before she saw his car. That was just a bonus!
Agreed, 4 good examples .. however, one thing tops them all, that is "even caring enough about women to make a list" Cheers ...
Personally, if a woman shows any resistance to my "advancements," I immediately back off & forget her because essentially, I don't think women are worth too much time & effort!
Bingo. They weren’t interested to begin with so you move on to the next victim...uh I mean woman. Yeah that’s what I meant.
MagDump comedy
It depends on what you see as advancements. I can't say what you define as resistance, but usually you have to keep the game up for a bit, but of course, if you are wasting you'r time, move on.
1) watching these kinda videos
MGTOW frees a guy from giving a damn of what other people, especially women, think about him. Simply put, MGTOW is a pursuit of freedom , especially from cultural biases and the people who perpetuate them.
🤣😂🤣😂
@@FenderBassMan U MGTOW r like feminazi's but the men versions. You're just a bunch of hurt men who think they don't need women but I get it u guys have a lot of points but it all comes back to being hurt by a woman in your past and all u have to do is chose better women to associate yourself with.
Ahmose Nefertari go do the dishes, the men are talkin’
@@FenderBassMan except that mgtow wont bring you happiness in the long run
dude thank you so much the more of your video's i watch the more i think i had enough soo i will stop watching your videos because i pretty much transformed from a weak beta nice male to a strong minded alpha male who does not bow his head to any female or any male that is without being a jerk it took me 1 year but that year transformed me from rash desprate narcissist jelous to a humble open minded succesful person and i'am thankful but if you put a video solely to aproaching and proposing to girls without breaking down then truly i would perfect the art of the alpha male thank you soo much i would never forgot you nor this community but i would keep being subcribed and when my voice reach the world and when i become famous i will point them to your channel for my key to sucess but until that time's come i would have to cross this harsh road but i'm on my way and i would keep on subscribed and pass by sometimes and finally thank you even tho i said it soo much but without you i would've been just a failure in this community
The last tip is so important! So many people like to agree with others even though deep down they don’t just not to hurt their feelings. You gotta learn to speak your thoughts. Own it!
At work its best not to alienate coworkers. Your life can turn into 💩 real quick.
Thank you, very illuminating. I think that the whole wanting attention thing is particularly difficult, because we as humans have a psychological need for attention, or mental "strokes", as known in psychology. Indeed being thirsty for attention is a sure fire way to diminish other peoples respect for you, and thus your value in their eyes. At then end of the day, we as men need to have goals and ambitions, as well as practical things that we must do throughout the day, -to keep us busy. This could be something like turning off our phones while at the gym, effectively ignoring the world as we go about our business. Implementing this will eventually make you more "High-value" in the eyes of others, as this shows that your goals are more important to you than texting and hanging out. Furthermore I think that the crux of the issue is to give yourself what you want from others: Horny? Masturbate. Thus you won't give off as much desperation when talking to attractive women. Need to be recognized for doing something cool? Don't. If people are not saying it; they are thinking it. Talking openly about it diminishes its value.... Rant over.....
One of my guy friends cried about getting ghosted a lot and wonder why he has shit luck. Thought nothing much of it and thought he'll find someone eventually.
To my amazement, he texted my gfs friend, showing her phone display with a spam of texts much like this.
- "good morning cutesy"
- "heyz"
-"afternoon"
"You there? . . "
Yeah. I wonder why 🙄. Told him he needs hobbies.
this channel is my superpower
Did this man just call fish “desperate” 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Straight forward channel. Like this.
When one says "NO" . The others will say "YES"
Your speech patterns have improved bro. Good work.
😂
love the vid please make more.
Fishing analogy. Haha love it
ali ray here is another one friend.....it’s not how deep you go fishing, it’s how you wiggle your worm
#1; it always feels like the guy knows it’s desperate but just cannot help but brag like “word vomit” it just comes out.
I gave my crush an airheads at high school. I knew I gave too much too soon. She eventually unfollowed me on Instagram
What flavor tho
@@IvanKisaragi green one
They secretly like the purple jolly ranchers
Ricardito Ricardon and you care why?
fishing is boring and i actually think if a girl is available or make herself available is kinda sweet.
True. Well-observed.
If you want a specific girl and are finally acquaintances, making her laugh and feel special is key. Persistence is also another factor. Make her grow attached to you, or used to being there everyday whether it be just conversation over the phone and or in person. That will increase her comfort ability towards you which is the main goal that will ensure the score.
NEED HELP
I actually did all of the above. What's next ? Because I just don't know how long to be patient. I have invested enough in her. Can't see that going down without being in relationship now.
Now we are having a push and pull scenerio. Sometimes I Sometimes she. I want her to confess, means I want her to express her feeling about us to me. I feel she likes me. She does but how to make her confess. And I don't think she is so naive to still not believe that I already like her.
@@serpenteve Yes she can still be naive or a bit insecure, I also always presume that a man wants just to be a friend if he doesn't say clearly that he likes me or want relationship with me. Eventualy if he does, it takes me until 3 months of dating to start to feel attached/in love. I hope things are going well for you.
Thank you👍♥️👍
Whew!, I thought it one of em was gonna be about wearing sleeveless shirts.
I did The opposite
I told her i was a loser
I told her i would never buy her anything
I told her i was married
And i disagreed with everything.
Why did that not work ??
Balance
Thank you
Dude, I really like your videos and your voice, but you take too long to introduce each point. It's repetitive. Other than that, I love your content. Keep it up!
Just stop it, stop ✋ it , Now. Enjoy your life, no need to make others happy, make ur self happy first.
Well said sir.
Paul Barnes your most welcome sir.
I will be happy if I can make money and spend it on my family..
You should create a podcast that would be available on Spotify or other podcast platforms. I think it would be super successful. It would also be great to listen to the valuable knowledge you provide wherever and whenever I want to without having to have my phone unlocked. I know RUclips provides a service where you can do that, but I’m not about that lol Just an idea, do with it what you will, good sir, thanks for the amazing content.
Bro what car did you have? Did you rock a 60 trim turbo
I'm gunna cut to the chase do "NO FAP" and you will be so grounded and calm/confident around woman they will flock to your ENERGY
4th tip can too be,person may not agree but attack you really offensively and be angry.just be friendly when arguinf
Your info is Boss. Hate to watch it but usually spot on,
Actually, the part with finishing is wrong. From experience I don't like waiting long to catch a fish.
One way to tell is how fast a dude reaches for his pockets after she asks him for a cigarette
*What women seek in a man is the sense of security he gives her*
Confidence is a lack of insecurity. This is why confidence is the most important quality to have.
I'd highly suggest you look up "Unbreakable Confidence" in GoogIe (should pop up at the top).
Those guides are epic for learning how to change your mindset and become a truly confident male.
It doesn't matter if you're not rich or great looking either... you can still do great with women.
Character is the most important thing you can have.
@@MrBmxer41 confidence, character and charisma but charisma comes with confidence
@@jude9876 confidence without good character is arrogance.
My friend that had 4 chins, greasy hair and a wobbly belly was super confident.......it didn't help him one bit.
Mike Soul character is subjective
Please make a playlist of videos on your channel
So true.
Those things I'm tired of. After I ask my ex from church to get back together but she shut me down saying "I only like you as a friend." And it hurt and I never wanted to ask a girl that I like cause I know I end up getting rejected and ill see a ghost of my ex friend girl inside them.
Oops! Made the mistake of getting a gift for a friend that I had no intention of getting involved with at the time. No wonder that biznatch was always asking me for money. 😜😜😜😜😜
I disagree with the first one. There is a different between arrogant bragging and being proud. I think if you're proud of of something/accomplish I think it would be okay to tell that person. There is a tactiful way of doing it.
It's a fine line to walk. Too easy to be misunderstood. Risky.
Thanks now i know why im Single hahah
games games games games games games.
no room for decency, generosity, compassion, respect, etc etc ALL games.
No more bragging to my fam about how these vids helped my social skills.
Hey Apollonia Ponti I would love to have private coaching by you. I want to grow better as a person.
Before thinking of dating women think of yourself first. Make sure you’re goals are set make sure you’re financially stabled make sure you’re not afraid of life once you’re confident about yourself THEN start dating
Yeah. Man have to build his own life first and feel great with himself. That transformation could take years. Now , after I decided to visit a psychologist, things are finally changing inside me. But I'm still at the beginning of the journey. I wanna feel great in life , I wanna be confident a spread positivity to other people.
Like to add, with the bragging part. I was once in a situation in my early 20s where I took a step back and realized that I was bragging. A girl told me, "You compliment myself enough, so there's need for me to say anything." I told her to go Eff herself and bounced. But oddly enough, I thought about what she was saying. She was right. I was complimenting myself. But the problem was, it's not like I just began every convo about something I was proud of, but it's that she NEVER ASKED or show an interest in my interests or accomplishments. Some feats are a bit obvious, like winning on a basketball court. But I'm an author. Unless she likes to read, or have the patience to wait for my books to hit the shelves, there's no way she'd ever know, so I'd mention it myself. But what that taught me was this, fellas. If you're ever with a woman where she doesn't ask about you, or show an interest in what you do to the point that you end up bringing up your own feats, leave. This woman clearly isn't for you. She won't understand even if you explain this to her. And she'll gaslight you to say, "you just want the world to revolve around you." Men, we have egos. The smart women are the ones who know how to cater to those egos and don't mind doing it. This is what Feminism has killed in a lot of women these days.
I currently reside in 29 Palms Ca and I act aggressive as the town is a meth disaster
I mean I’m not desperate but telling a girl your intentions and what you want is better then holding it in and thinking like what if ?
I look super desperate to keep these nutbars away from me.
Yes. Genius.
Haha I don't care if I look desperate or not. Honestly I never asked for a number or asked to go out with anybody so I can't be desperate. Also I let them flirt with me and I simply reply back
Not being available. Who else you seeing? I'm out...
Number one- Watching this video
Drooling. Try to avoid it.
I dont keep nerds in a the bleachers bench closet shade place.
Instead of trying to get her to like you, try to figure out if she is someone you would like to be with. Turns your whole mindset around. Will also prevent you guys from giving too much to us girls too quickly.
Can i get a phrase count for how many times super desperate is said?
Julian please make a video on how to know if a fellow man is intimidated by me pleaseeeeeeeeeee
Well I fucked up step number 3, being too available
4:30 I just DGAF
Hell... I'd go to that lake when I'm hungry 😊
It's enough to be average looking and try to talk to a girl and you'll be seen as desperate
thats why i dont chase women anymore, neither text them. they will think you are a weirdo and probably will make up lies about you, thats why i rather be single. one day they will realize how wrong theyre and eventually it will be too late
Sometimes guilty of 3
Where does this dude get his sources?
These are strictly his opinions more than likely based on himself
The source is gathered wisdom about intuitive social behavior. It's not difficult to accurately identify and explain these things without doing a study, but people who feel targeted by the explanation will always say "SOURCE? WHERE'S YOUR SOURCE?" lol
Caleb Miller - I know, in general it’s okay advice. But he overlooks a lot. He crosses over into “jerk” territory. This isn’t “alpha” trust.
@Fred Asking for a "source" on a video like this is absolutely dumb, because it's presented exactly as what it is, which is just general wisdom about human interactions. He's not making any claims about studies, statistics, or external proofs, he's just saying "here's some advice about social situations." There's nothing to provide a source for, because he's not making those kinds of claims. You don't even know whether I agree with this video or not, I'm just pointing out that "DAHHH WHAT'S YOUR SOURCE???" may feel like a real smart, big boy retort here, but really it just reveals a kind of hilarious misunderstanding of the content.
A SIMP spotted
I agree with this video i don't care how desperate i look to all the other comment readers!
I really don't give a shit about what others think about me, I don't waste time worrying about others opinions.
4:38
got ‘em
super!
I'm desperate and she is no more interested in me what to do
I've been desperate my whole life
I dress for comfort blue jeans and a sweat shirt and people that meet me think im despite and poor not knowing im rich as hell !!! If you have nice shit flaunt it how else is people going to know !!! So with that being said your not desperate
Looking too stylish most of the time. It might signal to other people "look at me, I'm hot/handsome/pretty/gorgeous"
I told my crush I liked her. She said that she doesn't like me back. So I asked her how to get u to like me back. She said caring, flirting. Soo I have been flirting too much with her. And I always tell her we both r meant for eachother. Am I too desperate?
Yup
so... over supply seems to be a common thread
I listened to this to see if it would be painful. It was….
5. Looking like every other Mook in town: beard, shaggy hair and geeky glasses.
I especially like the flip flops, cheap gym shorts, nylon t-shirt, scruffy facial hair, unwashed hair look. What women looks at at mop like that ?
Its a game treat it as such add in humor cheekiness take the piss walk away...shell be back for more
GET AN ESCORT YOU PAY FOR IT EITHER WAY! At least this way you get what you want.
I’m 19 Rn I have had liked many girls but loved only 3 girls, The first one liked me as a best friend, Second one we had things but she was too good for me that I couldn’t even compete with her and ended up being friends and the third one is my imagination girl that I manage to score at the party, we loved hooking up with each other, she’s like the well known fine gurl from the area insta model, first night out after the party everything was goin perfect I was holding myself together quite well, but I did messed up a little by running from the cops knocking on random ppls house for a lighter to light my Dart some ppl started chasing us thought we were upto no good or some shit but I got an Uber to a park near by my house (safety zone ) where we hooked up for straight 45mins our lips were about to burst as it was pumped with blood but she’s loving every second of it she repeatedly saying that she wanna have sessh with me I said nothing but yeah dropped her home afterward, She then texted me on sc that she had a really good time and would love do it again soon and that kinda boost my confidence I was so overwhelmed and felt like I was floating as if I really gave a insta model a GOOD TIME. she said she is goin away for a couple of days to see her families in a country town for the Christmas. I was relentless when she gonna be back I started massaging her like good morning and shit she left it on delivered. I saw her the day she got back I was high as a kite on that night we didn’t get to talk as much but we were just hooking up I couldn’t resist how hot she was, there my desperation started showing up without talk and laughs there’s no feeling of intimacy as she was getting boring i took her home saw her after a week my lack of flirting skills and humour the connection we build really going downward as I didn’t know how to act in front of her we spend hours together in an apartment we did nothing but smoke joints. Later My mate came and we dropped her off and she gave me a kiss like those goodbye kisses. massaged her couple time she reply every three to four days I then started seeking for advise. I realised that I always available for her and do anything to see her. She took me for granted told her friends I was I was crying for her which I was but I denied as I have to act tough I don’t wanna be labeled as a emotional bitch. I started giving her space acting like not caring about her at all about a month after she replied to my story then I replied to her after 24 hours in response to the question, we had back forth for a bit I opened and left her on read. Told my friends about it said That she wanted to hangout again and she expecting to me to initiate after that I haven’t heard from but that thought me loads of shit I didn’t knew but regret the chance I had with her. Those kinda girls comes once in a while, everyday I wish I could go back and fixed the wrong I did. She was everything I wanted. Still working on my self get ready for the next possible heartbreak
5. Wearing sandals to shop in a hardware store
I dont know, this radiates confidence if you ask me. The person really doesnt care what anybody thinks of him haha
Hey man do you know how does jack manly pick up girl