I really appreciate your efforts of clarifying who were coz we don't know ourselves as we are different from most people and wonder why we are like that 😊 thanks a lot for your wise and great intelligence are you sigma as well
@@Highvoltage-ml6wl Power and skills have nothing to do with it. You can feel confident in yourself, but being surrounded by a bunch of people that are not aligned is quantity over quality. I go to concerts to see the band, not to be in the crowd. I focus on the stage and I might say something to a person next to me. I don't need anybody else there. If I could see the same show and share the experience with just one person I care about that is going to be preferable (although not plausible). Too much confidence is not a good thing, either.
Yeah, my relatives are suing each other. The say what ever they want to make themselves superior to the other. They try the same thing on me. It is very strange. I stay away.
If you're a Sigma, you don't wonder why you don't have many friends. You already know why. Supreme loyalty and trustworthiness are the two qualities a Sigma male looks for in a true friend, because he is that type of person himself. Very few people possess these qualities, so that is why Sigma males have few friends. If you're a Sigma, you couldn't care less if you have few to no friends. In fact, you prefer it that way, because people tends to run into troubles in their life, so as a true friend, a Sigma would not have enough time, energy or assets to offer genuine help to a large group of friends.
@@maxsparks5183 If NOT lying to every one you meet and pretending to be their friend only to leave them in the lurch is being selfish then Webster needs to update their definition.
@@gurkagurkadurka6688 The whole concept of being a sigma male is doing your own thing and not labeling yourself, so openly being like 'we sigmas we sigmas111!' is the least 'sigma' thing you can do. Besides this is all a nonsense attempt to make awkward and generally socially anxious people feel as if they're cool, when in reality they're not and they seriously need to attempt to reconnect with reality.
You nailed it. The world is currently under the influence of a mass induced psychosis. I started really wondering what the hell is wrong with everyone and I just went my own way when I hit 25 yo. It worked out for me. I have a productive farm and run my tractor and work with my animals and nurture my land everyday...I'm basically retired at 50. Turn off the TV. Go your own way.
Man, I heard that! I’ve got 150 acres but don’t run cattle anymore. I was diagnosed w/a disease of the spine so things I “used to do”, are growing smaller & smaller as I age & my disease progresses. You are right on track with the people of the world today. I used to call cities like Springfield, MO., New York, NY., or Los Angeles, CA., “Freak-Show Central”, but it’s like it’s taken over EVERY major city & even some not so major. Where I live in SW Missouri, through Covid-19? Nobody wore masks here, we weren’t made to stay home, school wasn’t canceled. I’ll be 50 my next birthday & I still have our youngest son in school 8th Grade, then I have an almost 28yr old with a 6yr old son himself, then our middle son is 25 w/a 1 1/2yr old daughter, and yes being a “Grandpa”, is AWESOME! I’ve come to a point where I’ve devoted my life to the Mrs., my youngest & his sports, Football, Baseball & Soccer. As for the grandkids, I just took my grandson camping for his 1st time last weekend, roasted hot dogs on the open fire & made him “S’mores. He was an absolute joy to be with ALL NIGHT. His name is “Lyle Scott”, after my Paternal Grandfather & me! I told my boy (Missouri Dept. Of Corrections-yes he’s a big lad! Benches 375lbs, 230lbs 35” waist), I wouldn’t have done that to him!! Lol My youngest is “Parker Scott”, again, NOT my doing but rather my wife’s and I told him the same thing “Blame your Mother”!! My middle son was a D-1 Baseball prospect but decided NOT to go to college as my wife was unpacking his clothes in the dorm. Now, he’s a Supervisor at a local manufacturing plant & Assist. Coach of the Varsity High School Baseball team. An exciting day for me is seeing a mama doe & her fawn grazing in the yard! Driving the SxS down to the creek & just listenen’ to the water! People do not realize the joy to be had in the simple life as the busy world is passing them by. I don’t need a “buddy”, here at the house everyday to keep me company. I’ve got my acoustic & electric guitars, my dobros I can play during the day. Music is & always has been as constant companion for me. I like to read as well & learning about the world around me can no value be placed upon it. It sounds like you’ve figured things out for yourself! It’s like if you & I could just get the world to listen I think they’d be better off? Right? The way things are now? I don’t think you can reach very many people w/reason & logic these days. You & I know where the people will come when things get real bad, don’t we? You know what? I’ve got no sympathy for them & I won’t have open arms for them either! Best of luck to you & all the happiness you deserve. We all deserve some peaceful years & I don’t mean when were 80! It’s nice knowing we found it long before we were at the end of of lives, right? Take care my friend!
I ALWAYS wondered why I was the quiet one anywhere I went, also,my big brother always said, the quiet one is the most dangerous one, also, it's not hard to figure out a person, just shut up and let them talk🤔🤭
People use talking as a substitute for doing. I also can't stand excuse making behavior. It's deception. Some people are incapable of being honest with themselves. They fuck up everything they touch.
Yes, Words like (friend, love, happy, lonely, relationship, spiritual), have emotional charges and baggage that can twist meaning. Unless you have the time to qualify and or explain what you mean by any of them, it's best to avoid using them.
@@lukula2934 Unless you are autistic there shouldnt be any problem using these words in a proper context. You can say: "I love donuts" without needing to "qualify" or explain what you mean with the word "love".
I'm aware of the risks involved when stating my opinions and observations. But I'll only say that if you equate your love of donuts with your love of another person....Well to me, the meaning of that word and one's ability to fully comprehend it, is reduced to some shallow version of itself. But hey! Perhaps you really do look at your confections with the same depth and consciousness as your significant other(s).......Who am I to judge?@@nostalji93
@@lukula2934if you mean what you say and say what you mean, then definition and action behind it is universal. You can’t twist words or make them carry “baggage” unless you are a liar or a manipulator. That’s just the truth, not subjective.
With due respect, The need to qualify is more or less dependent on one's desire to be a good communicator. In other words, whether or not one places importance in communicating with quality and/or accuracy. I think we can all agree that whatever feelings a donut may invoke are not the same as those towards your mom. While you may be inferring that you simply enjoy donuts, using a word that better describes your feeling shows a desire to be more authentic and accurate in speech. Examining our language requires examining our thoughts, feelings, beliefs and desires, not to mention our history and depth of experience. It is, of course, conceivable that the word "love" is not particularly meaningful to you. But I doubt this to be the case... @@nostalji93
ALL three are EARNED.....never freely given. I say that now- at 67; in my teens thru 40's I trusted near everybody. THEN I learned....about Life. WISED up. And Reality. MAKE then earn it.
well constructed video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
When see s girl I think I might like. And knowing damn good and well I can't have her, I find a flaw with her, and I dwell on that. Makes them less attractive. Laugh as you will, but I find feet a great turnoff.
Friends are pretty overrated, tbh. They usually just end up being a great big disappointment. They either fail you somehow, betray you somehow, or end up being obnoxiously needy. I ditched all social media (except for youtube, if that counts) 5 years ago. I'm good. I dont need to be liked. I dont need that kind of validation.
Being Sigma is the simple reason I don’t understand cults or any type of organized religion. I’ve lost friends over the years because of that nonsense.
When it comes to friends, less is more... And quality beats quantity! One really good best friend, easily outweighs dozens of so called acquaintances...
Zero friends. Too many questionable self centered types. Suddenly. Having more free time to do my things and not be pulled away for stupidity. Now focused on my goals and actually achieving them without others around to derail
No, you're not crazy or antisocial. I have 2 bloke friends I've known for almost 15 years. They're more acquaintances. We catch up around every 2 - 3 months. This does me fine. I've recently broken up with my Girlfriend of 2 years. I shouldn't have got involved with her from day one. She has some lovely qualities, but unfortunately, she suffers from BPD. I didn't know how difficult it is being in a relationship with a BPD sufferer. Her numerous angry outbursts and agitation due to easily being overwhelmed, left me walking on eggshells for most of the relationship. I had to make a decision that was best for my mental health. Yes, I'm single again, but at least I can now do my own thing. When I'm back in a good headspace, I'll start dating ladies, but, I won't rush into anything. Maybe, FWB or a Cougar situation would be beneficial for the lifestyle I need when I'm ready.
I had one true friend, trusted him implicitly, friends for 47 years, was always there for me through all my trials and tribulations, sadly he succumbed to pancreatic cancer. Have to say this video describes me to a tee
I lost my only best friend of 30 plus years to cancer but I didn’t stop being his friend when he died. I visit the grave site an I keep in touch with his mom, sisters, an kids thru out the year an visit when we can all get together as were spread across different states.
This was my younger brother, he was like the only real family I've had, lost him to non-hodgkins lymphoma 2 years ago. I see your pain. I'm sorry for your hurting
In younger days, I tended to have a few close friends. Now I have none. No social media, not even watching news. All the stress evaporated. Some people are meant to be alone.
My only friends are 5 from high school back in the 80’s we are close still call and keep in touch. I know absolutely nobody in my state I live in now though.
I can count on one hand the number of friends I have, and I'll have change left over. I ALWAYS tell my wife that I value honesty and loyalty over all else. I'm also able to walk away in 30 seconds flat if I ever need to. Being alone is solitude for me. It took a very long time before I let my wife in. This video nails it for me.
Love this comment section. I'm a full on red pill monk sigma male. No turning back , can't think of one friend that offered me any true value or comradeship without ulterior motives
My sigma side really came out in full force after my husband/soul mate/best friend died suddenly in 2019. I've always gravitated toward being more on the loner side of life. My late husband brought out a socially active part in me that I hadn't been aware of most of my life, and it was nice, while it lasted. Today, I keep the company of only my sheepdog pretty much, unless I have to interact with people... which I go out of my way to avoid if possible. To be honest, wish I wasn't this way in many ways, it's actually lonely... but, my growing distrust and dislike of people, in general, over the past 7-8 years has taken the driver's seat. Society has become unpleasant, and it feels like it's just getting worse. Peace.
I don't claim or have never claimed to be any particular personality types but every video I've watched about sigma males describes me to perfection. These videos have helped me understand myself. Wowww
I have no friends I only have acquaintance I don’t rely on anyone to do anything for me I do it myself because when you start to rely on other people, they’ll just disappoint you so don’t even ask and you’ll find your life so peaceful, so quiet, and as you get older Nobody will ask you to go to a party because you have turned them down so many times they finally get it you don’t like to be around people
Learning about sigma males made a lot of sense to me. Most of friends, family, and associates would describe me as an alpha male, however I suspect that is mainly due to my appearance rather than my attitude. But I never identified with the alpha male persona. Now it makes much more sense, as I identify greatly with the sigma male persona.
A lesson given to me nearly 30yrs ago, by a wise man; " If it doesn't feel right, it isn't right"......Addendum; look after those who need you, human or animal.....
That wasn't even a term used to label anybody until the last few years unless it was used in certain circles like psychologists, which I never had a use for
Every single trait mentioned in this video lines up flawlessly with my personality. I used to think that I was just weird or different from most people. Maybe I was just antisocial, but I actually fit into the sigma male category that makes complete sense. I have made countless friends throughout my lifetime but through school changes, job changes or life changes I always lose contact eventually. Sometimes they may do something that leads me to not trust them anymore. It might seem shallow, but I tend to make calculated decisions about people by observing their behaviors with others as much as possible before I categorize them as to where they would fit, or if they would fit into my life. I just see it as only letting trustworthy people into my inner circle. Why bother dealing with someone who you can't trust? Sadly these days there are not many people left that you can trust anymore so needless to say my circle has become very small.
Purposely choosing to judge people by their actions is the most shallow thing I have ever heard. Except for every other way. Joking aside, choosing your company wisely is of vast importance. Life is too short to waste any of it on bad company.
@@aubreysanders1613 Had a similar experience with an employer. She would go on and on about how white lies are necessary for good relationships, how not being willing to lie could be hurtful and unproductive. Two years I worked at her store, that came to an end when I decided to test her theories and told a small lie that I knew she would be able to bust me on with minimal effort. She went ballistic, I put in my notice right then while she was ranting. Afterwards, she apologized and tried to get me to stay... /shrug.
Well this explains a lot. If I’d only known years ago. I just thought there was something wrong with me thinking I was someone who withdrawals from society. Now, I’m just me and with this explanation I feel much better. So glad I clicked even though as a sigma I really didn’t care much. Thanks!
It’s not that I don’t like people, I just seem to feel better when they are not around. It is draining having to couch my words when it comes to sharing truth or insights. So many people defending the matrix.
@@gobigorangethe actual scientific word is: narcissist 😂 alha and sigma are terms from a science fiction novel and have nothing to do with humans whatsoever. The fact that guys choose to describe themselves as wolves and lions is just revealing of how insecure they are. I'm Mr rabbit brother, I will eat every sigma in this jungle ;)
I thought I was this way because I’m former Military. Apparently it goes a tad deeper than that. Great information and this explains a lot to many of us.
I could never figure out my oldest son til I learned about sigma male. It's nice to hear he fits there. Just an example of his personality I recently ask him if he had friends from work? He responded "honestly I have to remember to make time for people," other than his wife he just doesn't need people. But he's so friendly and gets along with others. He does have friends, but few. And they are pretty much the same as him. So thanks for helping me to understand my son.
sigma's trustworthy behavior we always address people in an honest way without deception .. we don't want an uncomfortable situation . we always do things in FAQs .
I have become what I always strived to be: "the crazy quiet old man down the road with the cool cars nobody knows about". Only my true friends know what I have and what I'm capable of. But once you're in, sit down and enjoy the ride.
I’m a sigma female. It’s all true. I have no tolerance of negativity taking away my peace, joy & quality life. This is very liberating for a Sigma like me. It’s all about trust, respect & happiness
The funny thing is that many ppl seek the friendship with sigmas, but we are very selective. It’s tough to deny good ppl our close friendship, but we need to, because our time and energy isn’t enough.
I like burning bridges when someone lies to me, tries to manipulate me or does some other form of betrayal. Finding quality friends is definitely difficult.
It was odd. I took a psych profile test in application for a sales job with a big insurance company. They said I wasn't aggressive enough. 6 months after an honorable discharge from an elite unit. It also explains why I was able to mix with all those alpha males without getting my ass kicked.
Free opinion here--You didnt "pass the test" because you would actually help people above all else. The cooperate machine is looking for marshmallows that when faced with the choice , would choose money over ethics. They did you a favor.
Its crazy (in a funny way) how well I feel and think I fit into these patterns. This is just from my yesterdays readings: "It is better for you to be defeated while speaking the truth, than to be victourious through deceit" - The sentences of Sextus Kind regads and best wishes!
I found solitude, with my studies, games, pets, movies, hobbies, walking around town, etc... Is always better than spending any type of time around "other people."
@@Freedom-Fighter1 it literally does because if you don’t have anyone u have no one to talk to so that’s not being a sigma male that’s just you being a loner and just trying to make ur self feel better about being lonely
@@lilpiggylukepower2837 if you feel lonely get some dogs and occasionally go out to eat. You can have conversations with your waitress for interactions with people. I do all the time and then I like my alone time doing hobbies and with my dogs.
How some people can live their lives putting on a costume in order to be accepted, is beyond all reason. The stress of doing that day after day has got to be draining. Sigma men hate stress and therefore will not only avoid doing that themselves, but avoid others that pretend to be something they're not.
My grandpa turned me into this one simple piece of advice: YOU choose your friends, don’t let them choose you. The bad apple spoils the bunch and bad people are always looking for others to bring down in their misery.
Today I've learned that I'm Sigma. I run on this video accidentally... Honestly, all the points described me very accurate. I am much grateful for this video because I saw that I'm bit different from most of people and friends in my life. Thanks again and have a great day 👍
After learning about this personality, it explains so much! I’m just more comfortable doing my own thing. I’m social but at a distance except for a few exceptions. Cool with most but trust few..
👍 Where was this video 66 years ago! Had I heard all this growing up I could have spent less time trying to figure out who I was in life. Even though I figured it out on my own… like, at 28. One of the things I hated most in life was trying to figure out who I was, takes too much time and effort. When I did figure it out I never looked back. That was forty some years ago and I haven’t changed since. I love who I am AND who I never became because of “someone” else’s desire. I own me, not thee, and vice versa. To this day finding the perfect female companionship has eluded me so I must be one in ten million. Maybe I’ll find my mate the next tyme around. If I ever find her she will think she’s a Princess! She will make me her Prince. But that fairytale is for another time. Great video!
I’m finding the “Sigma”, label topic to be very interesting as I’d never knew that I was one & now know why others often don’t understand me. It’s been a lifelong question for myself but thanks to these videos I know exactly why my life has unfolded the way that it has. Thanks for the video content!
Everyone loves to push the importance of having lots of close friends. Sigmas don’t need validation from groups of friends to be happy. They are self-sufficient and can do things by themselves and make their own decisions. Having friends is nice, but it’s not a requisite to be content
I am Sigma, but honestly I choose not to drink or do drugs which severely limits my friendships lol...95 percent of men are still choosing to poison themselves etc, and I can't be around it...I joined an MMA gym and have found a healthy positive circle to be around...alot of Sigmas in the gyms
We don’t have many friends -because we are Bourne with human intolerance syndrome . For the most part , if a person’s mouth is moving they aren’t saying anything worth listening to . How’s the weather 🤦🏻♀️ . How about those ⚾️🏉🏐🏈🎾🏀🥎⚽️🏏🏒🏑🥍⛳️ doing 🤦🏻♀️ . Politics money 💰 money 💵 money 💵 cars relationships ,the kids ME ME ME ME ME 🤔🤦🏻♀️. Genuine internal thoughts and feelings 🤐 to help expand and evolve the human species 😶. Genuine honesty without insults or feeling insulted 🤐 .
Wow. This spells me out exactly. Been fighting this nature all my life bc I have been told that there is something wrong with me my whole life. I’m my experience many female personalities tend to get frustrated by a sigma seemingly antisocial traits and alphas don’t like it that we aren’t part of the boys club. I finally realized, you can’t fight your own spirit.
I hit the like. This is one of the few videos about Sigma people that is fairly accurate. 😊 However, each Sigma individual is different in their own way and choosing.
My grand father said I was a lone runner, not a follower. I learned young that loyalty isn't given back and trust is easily broken. I consider people around me to be an acquaintance only there because of circumstances at the time I.e work etc.
Great videos. I am enjoying that listening to them is helping my expand my understanding of myself and my life. (I am 74) I do have only a very few and close friends. The simple truth is almost no-one perceives the world at the level of inter-relationship I experience. I was lucky enough to have my father tell me when I was 14 that I am very different from others. Neither better nor worse, simply very different. He advised I put my energies and attention into understanding myself with only a little energy going to noticing how others perceive their world. By the time I was 16 I was very aware my perception of life was vastly different than others, far more complex and inter-related than others perceived. I grinned realizing most people find my views of life as utter nonsense. It was obvious that my earlier expectations of others 'understanding' me was unrealistic. As an example... Someone would complain about another person lying. When viewed from the perceptive fields of the complaining person what the other person said certainly was a lie. Yet within the perceptive fields of the person 'lying' what they said certainly was 'truth'.
WOW! This is me to a tee. This really does explain a lot. I am so picky about my friends, They feel like I blow them off. You know what, they're right. Supreme loyalty and trustworthiness are the two qualities I must have in any friend. Since America don't make them like that anymore, I guess I am on my own.
Never realized I am a sigma. But ii definitely am !!!! I dont ever lie even if it hurts ur feelings. I can read people like a book almsot all the time and i can spot a lier a mile away !!! I have lots of aquantinces but 2 or 3 tru friendsand even those true friends i dont spend alot of time with. I spend almost all my time alone. Just me and my animals, my fishing poles and guns. I walk with the holy spirit who walks with me in TRUTH no matter what im goin through!! Jesus Christ is the only friend I need !!!
I’ve only recently realised I’m a 51yo sigma, and damn, I’m proud. I’m a CEO of a public US company, have three life friends, raised my son alone and been single 10yrs. We are the natural leaders in an apocalypse. I’ve rarely been the top social dog, but in a crisis, I always am, and even saved lives, but feel no ego with it. Never be afraid of an Alfa, but the very rare intelligent Alphas will use you to elevate him - I support these Alphas, as it can become an amazing pairing.
Alphas, Sigmas, Betas...All needed to make this human "casserole". All have something to give and to take. To learn and to teach. And all are equally dangerous when lacking self-awareness and authenticity.
I support no alfas they fear me. Only because they dont realize i can not stand confrontation. I only stand up for other people not myself. This destroys people not that im a fan. I would rather build people up and make them better no were it leaves me. But im tired of seeing people bullied. That is what an alfa male is a bully. Unfortunately its whats wrong with the police in this country. We are definitely the leaders of the apocalypse. I have seen it in my dreams and have lead hundreds to safety. God bless. Too bad none of us want to be president. Lol
The most fundamental problem Sigmas face is the initial belief that you’re the only one out there. Creeps all seem to run in packs, but Sigmas are out there by themselves - solitary, self-absorbed and wary. There should be a network or something. Sigmas Anonymous.
I have walked this earth for 74 years and just now realised that I am a Sigma male! This is why I did very well in the military and had a 30 year career. Learn something every day, if you pay attention.
OMG, this is me, yesterday I realized I have no friends at work, I hate to follow the crowd, tell the truth always, even though I know it often offends or hurts people. I am not perfect, but do relate to women, a whole lot better. At 58 I no longer care what other people think, I can now watch this video.
It is called the "Ugly Truth" for a reason, and people have always said to be honest, which means telling the ugly truth. So, I found out that it is easier to piss people off, by being honest and telling the truth, rather than lying, to yourself and other people by changing who you are, just to get people to like you. Ever since telling the truth and being honest, I have found myself.
Its easy . I would rather have 4 solid quarters then 100 penny's that do little on their own .I've had friend get into big trouble and I've done things the law would frown on to help those friend out . I've had friends do the same for me . Maybe I should just say that I will go all in for a friend and I expect the same . It would be too difficult and time consuming to get a deep understanding of a whole bunch different people .
I highly enjoyed this presentation. I am absolutely a Sigma. Not an anti-social outcast. Every bullet point rang true. Thank God I am not an Alpha or Beta male. I was never a follower of the crowd or an arrogant asshole. Being unique has its ups and downs.
I can't believe I finally found someone who explains me almost to a tee!! Thank you. It says and tells a lot, gives me reasons, and explains the why... I am truly a Sigma guy.
I much prefer conversing with others, though I generally find it more rewarding to read and reflect on my own. I can't get past, and have difficulty connecting with, others bias and inability to be genuine. I'm generally seen as shy while I'm more accurately reticent and reserved. I value communication in its quality while others seem to value its quantity and nonsensical/tangential playfulness. I find that tiring and immature. I don't fit anyone's mold. Justified confidence makes others feel inadequate and uncomfortable, while false confidence makes others feel secure. *Regardless of tactful approach and delivery* The few people I've developed long/close relations with all share the same feedback - I'm a completely different person than they thought the day we met. I believe it's fair to extrapolate that to the general publics perception. To be fair, i have a proclivity to observe human behavior. It's habitual and instinctual. People are fake and dishonest. So, I'm not inclined to be more transparent about my character.
When I got older than about 16, I had a few teachers who did not like me, although I liked them and enjoyed their teaching. But I simply was not able to phrase my questions in a way that did not make them react negative in some way. I finally even asked classmates whether my questions were in any way awkward or inappropriate. They said no and found my questions good and the teacher's reactions strange. The problem continued into my adulthood. Whenever I had advanced training, the same problem ocurred. I stopped asking interesting questions. It was the only solution.
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Please do a few of these on sigma fathers please .. How they are in the father role ...
I Do Concur.
I really appreciate your efforts of clarifying who were coz we don't know ourselves as we are different from most people and wonder why we are like that 😊 thanks a lot for your wise and great intelligence are you sigma as well
9 ? sigma feels uncomfortable 😄👍 ...sigma male SHOULD be comfortable in ANY situation because he know his power, Skills!
@@Highvoltage-ml6wl Power and skills have nothing to do with it. You can feel confident in yourself, but being surrounded by a bunch of people that are not aligned is quantity over quality. I go to concerts to see the band, not to be in the crowd. I focus on the stage and I might say something to a person next to me. I don't need anybody else there. If I could see the same show and share the experience with just one person I care about that is going to be preferable (although not plausible). Too much confidence is not a good thing, either.
Sigmas don't lie. We prefer to live in truth and not delusions. Hard to trust even your own family
Facts 👍🏼💯
Family can be the worst.
Yup
Yeah, my relatives are suing each other.
The say what ever they want to make themselves superior to the other.
They try the same thing on me. It is very strange.
I stay away.
Roger that.
Others say I have no friends. I say I have exactly the right amount of friends.
a friends erans their right to be a friend, ts not an open opprotunity!
People who think they have friends usually don’t have as many as they think.
No, they’re saying that because you literally have zero friends😂😂😂
@@kevint-ur3pe Yeah step one to earning friends, learn to properly speak English.
Maybe your lazy and not a sigma
If you're a Sigma, you don't wonder why you don't have many friends. You already know why. Supreme loyalty and trustworthiness are the two qualities a Sigma male looks for in a true friend, because he is that type of person himself. Very few people possess these qualities, so that is why Sigma males have few friends. If you're a Sigma, you couldn't care less if you have few to no friends. In fact, you prefer it that way, because people tends to run into troubles in their life, so as a true friend, a Sigma would not have enough time, energy or assets to offer genuine help to a large group of friends.
Very true, a sigma values his time and I thing he thinks it's priceless....!??
You spoke my mind 👍
So you’re saying these call signs are selfish turds?
Extremely well articulated.
@@maxsparks5183 If NOT lying to every one you meet and pretending to be their friend only to leave them in the lurch is being selfish then Webster needs to update their definition.
We don't have a lot of friends because we don't like the disappointment that comes with most people..
As soon as you say 'we' it's clear you don't even come close to the idea of what people are saying a "Sigma'' male is.
@@michaelmorrow607 How so?
Yep
@@gurkagurkadurka6688 The whole concept of being a sigma male is doing your own thing and not labeling yourself, so openly being like 'we sigmas we sigmas111!' is the least 'sigma' thing you can do. Besides this is all a nonsense attempt to make awkward and generally socially anxious people feel as if they're cool, when in reality they're not and they seriously need to attempt to reconnect with reality.
big facts.
You nailed it. The world is currently under the influence of a mass induced psychosis. I started really wondering what the hell is wrong with everyone and I just went my own way when I hit 25 yo. It worked out for me. I have a productive farm and run my tractor and work with my animals and nurture my land everyday...I'm basically retired at 50. Turn off the TV. Go your own way.
Man, I heard that! I’ve got 150 acres but don’t run cattle anymore. I was diagnosed w/a disease of the spine so things I “used to do”, are growing smaller & smaller as I age & my disease progresses. You are right on track with the people of the world today. I used to call cities like Springfield, MO., New York, NY., or Los Angeles, CA., “Freak-Show Central”, but it’s like it’s taken over EVERY major city & even some not so major. Where I live in SW Missouri, through Covid-19? Nobody wore masks here, we weren’t made to stay home, school wasn’t canceled. I’ll be 50 my next birthday & I still have our youngest son in school 8th Grade, then I have an almost 28yr old with a 6yr old son himself, then our middle son is 25 w/a 1 1/2yr old daughter, and yes being a “Grandpa”, is AWESOME! I’ve come to a point where I’ve devoted my life to the Mrs., my youngest & his sports, Football, Baseball & Soccer. As for the grandkids, I just took my grandson camping for his 1st time last weekend, roasted hot dogs on the open fire & made him “S’mores. He was an absolute joy to be with ALL NIGHT. His name is “Lyle Scott”, after my Paternal Grandfather & me! I told my boy (Missouri Dept. Of Corrections-yes he’s a big lad! Benches 375lbs, 230lbs 35” waist), I wouldn’t have done that to him!! Lol My youngest is “Parker Scott”, again, NOT my doing but rather my wife’s and I told him the same thing “Blame your Mother”!! My middle son was a D-1 Baseball prospect but decided NOT to go to college as my wife was unpacking his clothes in the dorm. Now, he’s a Supervisor at a local manufacturing plant & Assist. Coach of the Varsity High School Baseball team. An exciting day for me is seeing a mama doe & her fawn grazing in the yard! Driving the SxS down to the creek & just listenen’ to the water! People do not realize the joy to be had in the simple life as the busy world is passing them by. I don’t need a “buddy”, here at the house everyday to keep me company. I’ve got my acoustic & electric guitars, my dobros I can play during the day. Music is & always has been as constant companion for me. I like to read as well & learning about the world around me can no value be placed upon it. It sounds like you’ve figured things out for yourself! It’s like if you & I could just get the world to listen I think they’d be better off? Right? The way things are now? I don’t think you can reach very many people w/reason & logic these days. You & I know where the people will come when things get real bad, don’t we? You know what? I’ve got no sympathy for them & I won’t have open arms for them either! Best of luck to you & all the happiness you deserve. We all deserve some peaceful years & I don’t mean when were 80! It’s nice knowing we found it long before we were at the end of of lives, right? Take care my friend!
Yessss. This.
And in 5 years the new sigma create by Mondialvison, the Zeta Male.
You are exactly right about the mass psychosis
Same here. Did you marry and have kids?
My father always warned me to watch the quiet one in the corner.
I ended up being the quiet one in the corner.
My father was right!
The one that you don't mess with is always the one that tells you the absolute truth
I ALWAYS wondered why I was the quiet one anywhere I went, also,my big brother always said, the quiet one is the most dangerous one, also, it's not hard to figure out a person, just shut up and let them talk🤔🤭
It means you are an introvert that lacks self confidence. Why speak up if no one cares?
Bitter truth❤❤❤
People use talking as a substitute for doing. I also can't stand excuse making behavior. It's deception. Some people are incapable of being honest with themselves. They fuck up everything they touch.
Sigmas can befriend many people but the term "friend" has a massive meaning and we don't brand others as friends easily
Yes, Words like (friend, love, happy, lonely, relationship, spiritual), have emotional charges and baggage that can twist meaning. Unless you have the time to qualify and or explain what you mean by any of them, it's best to avoid using them.
@@lukula2934 Unless you are autistic there shouldnt be any problem using these words in a proper context. You can say: "I love donuts" without needing to "qualify" or explain what you mean with the word "love".
I'm aware of the risks involved when stating my opinions and observations.
But I'll only say that if you equate your love of donuts with your love of
another person....Well to me, the meaning of that word and one's ability
to fully comprehend it, is reduced to some shallow version of itself. But
hey! Perhaps you really do look at your confections with the same depth
and consciousness as your significant other(s).......Who am I to judge?@@nostalji93
@@lukula2934if you mean what you say and say what you mean, then definition and action behind it is universal. You can’t twist words or make them carry “baggage” unless you are a liar or a manipulator. That’s just the truth, not subjective.
With due respect, The need to qualify is
more or less dependent on one's desire
to be a good communicator. In other words,
whether or not one places importance in communicating with quality and/or accuracy.
I think we can all agree that whatever
feelings a donut may invoke are not
the same as those towards your mom. While you may be inferring that you simply enjoy donuts, using a word that better
describes your feeling shows a desire to
be more authentic and accurate in speech.
Examining our language requires examining
our thoughts, feelings, beliefs and desires,
not to mention our history and depth of
experience.
It is, of course, conceivable that the word "love" is not particularly meaningful to you.
But I doubt this to be the case...
@@nostalji93
Respect, Trust and Loyalty are hard to gain but easy to lose.
arrives on foot, leaves on horseback!
They are earned my friend not given
@@StevenMcLaren-zi6kt absolutely, but a certain amount of polite respect is given, what they do with it is up to them
ALL three are EARNED.....never freely given. I say that now- at 67; in my teens thru 40's I trusted near everybody. THEN I learned....about Life. WISED up. And Reality. MAKE then earn it.
@@tommynikon2283 when initially meeting someone, a bit of respect is given, because that is just being polite, but what they do with it is up to them.
well constructed video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
When see s girl I think I might like. And knowing damn good and well I can't have her, I find a flaw with her, and I dwell on that. Makes them less attractive. Laugh as you will, but I find feet a great turnoff.
Friends are pretty overrated, tbh. They usually just end up being a great big disappointment. They either fail you somehow, betray you somehow, or end up being obnoxiously needy.
I ditched all social media (except for youtube, if that counts) 5 years ago. I'm good. I dont need to be liked. I dont need that kind of validation.
I can relate to that 👍
Yeah being a Sigma sure makes it cheap when it comes to birthday cards.
If you always tell the truth then you don't need to have a good memory.
True, but even truth can benefit from discretion.
Why did you just quote with mark twains quotes 😂
...and you never have to apologize.
So true
@@acidcharon "Being Thug means never having to say you're sorry." lmao, hadn't thought of that quote in yrs.
Everyone is sucked into the matrix. My dog is more genuine than anyone I've ever known
At least you can trust your dog.
Every guy I know is under the thumb of a woman, and a social media zombie
TRUE THAT ✌️
@@beereaucrat3233😂😂 don't be such a weakling bro.
@@rhodesboyson1700??
To all Sigma Males out there, I Salute You. A Sigma Male in heart and soul.
🤓
Always wondered what sigma males is... according to this... I am one.
Hahaha welcome!
Amen, brother.
Facts we don't chase the we attract!
Being Sigma is the simple reason I don’t understand cults or any type of organized religion. I’ve lost friends over the years because of that nonsense.
Same
When it comes to friends, less is more... And quality beats quantity! One really good best friend, easily outweighs dozens of so called acquaintances...
“Be careful who you call friends. I’d rather have four quarters than a hundred pennies.” Alphonse G. Capone
Loyalty is paramount.
It’s mandatory. Without loyalty you have nothing.
Loyalty is everything. Nothing else matters.
Sadly, not many people get that these days.
Loyalty can get you in trouble.
I disagree. Honour is paramount. And one of the foundations of honour is truth. And as the Australians say, that's as rare as rocking horse manure.
Zero friends. Too many questionable self centered types. Suddenly. Having more free time to do my things and not be pulled away for stupidity. Now focused on my goals and actually achieving them without others around to derail
And notice how those people require you to be a real friend when they themselves weren't real from the beginning.
❤
Fuck yeah!! Go broda!!
PREACH !!🎉🎉👍🏻
That's why, its all about them.
With humanity on an obvious downward slide the pool of potential friends is so shallow that you can't even wet your ankles.
Or your toenails.
You have to be a shallow narcissist to get along with most humans today
So fuckin true
For the longest time I had tte feeling that I was crazy or even antisocial. Glad to know I'm not the only one
No, you're not crazy or antisocial. I have 2 bloke friends I've known for almost 15 years. They're more acquaintances. We catch up around every 2 - 3 months. This does me fine. I've recently broken up with my Girlfriend of 2 years. I shouldn't have got involved with her from day one. She has some lovely qualities, but unfortunately, she suffers from BPD. I didn't know how difficult it is being in a relationship with a BPD sufferer. Her numerous angry outbursts and agitation due to easily being overwhelmed, left me walking on eggshells for most of the relationship. I had to make a decision that was best for my mental health. Yes, I'm single again, but at least I can now do my own thing. When I'm back in a good headspace, I'll start dating ladies, but, I won't rush into anything. Maybe, FWB or a Cougar situation would be beneficial for the lifestyle I need when I'm ready.
Still don't know which I am.
Same.
I always have the best conversations with people in silence. I then get to know their true worth...
Wow so skibidi toilet fanum tax baby gronk sigma
I had one true friend, trusted him implicitly, friends for 47 years, was always there for me through all my trials and tribulations, sadly he succumbed to pancreatic cancer. Have to say this video describes me to a tee
I'm sorry for your loss. I've never had a friend like that. That type of friend is once in a lifetime.
I lost my only best friend of 30 plus years to cancer but I didn’t stop being his friend when he died. I visit the grave site an I keep in touch with his mom, sisters, an kids thru out the year an visit when we can all get together as were spread across different states.
This made me tear up as I lost my life long best friend to bowel cancer.
Sorry for your loss. Tell me about him. I love to hear the story of people's lives..
This was my younger brother, he was like the only real family I've had, lost him to non-hodgkins lymphoma 2 years ago.
I see your pain. I'm sorry for your hurting
I can’t stand small talk, I’d rather sit with you in silence and only speak when it’s interesting or funny.
👍👌
Same here!
yes
100%!
@DFeatherstone I smoke weed bro that’s why anything I say is either funny or interesting 😂
In younger days, I tended to have a few close friends. Now I have none. No social media, not even watching news. All the stress evaporated. Some people are meant to be alone.
Same here bro I like the way we used to be. Stay strong and proud.
I get what you're saying, but it doesn't mean we should stop seeking like-minded people.
Yes sir; my wife died almost 21 years ago, and I think I've had about three dates. I just found Miss Right. It was worth the wait.
My only friends are 5 from high school back in the 80’s we are close still call and keep in touch. I know absolutely nobody in my state I live in now though.
You are here. 🎉
I can count on one hand the number of friends I have, and I'll have change left over. I ALWAYS tell my wife that I value honesty and loyalty over all else. I'm also able to walk away in 30 seconds flat if I ever need to. Being alone is solitude for me. It took a very long time before I let my wife in. This video nails it for me.
Love this comment section. I'm a full on red pill monk sigma male. No turning back , can't think of one friend that offered me any true value or comradeship without ulterior motives
Monk Sigma here too 👊🏽 much respect
@@matteoferrari33 same here...i mean right from school, most people are fake,
Not one-
Only a grandfather.
Fake people are why I’m a lone wolf
If you call yourself a Sigma then you are NOT a Sigma. Everyone knows that. Only Fake sigmas call themselves a Sigma.. smfh.. 🙄
when you find someone you can trust with your life you are blessed. the loss of a soulmate for a sigma is especially difficult ...
...as well as, especially devastating. Changes everything.
so True and yet, its a reality we deal with.
please some define that
Life is loss first of all. We deal with loss like we deal with gain its all one & the same. Both come & go
My sigma side really came out in full force after my husband/soul mate/best friend died suddenly in 2019. I've always gravitated toward being more on the loner side of life. My late husband brought out a socially active part in me that I hadn't been aware of most of my life, and it was nice, while it lasted. Today, I keep the company of only my sheepdog pretty much, unless I have to interact with people... which I go out of my way to avoid if possible. To be honest, wish I wasn't this way in many ways, it's actually lonely... but, my growing distrust and dislike of people, in general, over the past 7-8 years has taken the driver's seat. Society has become unpleasant, and it feels like it's just getting worse. Peace.
This guy is reading me like a BOOK 📖 OMG I am in tears.
Thank you so much for this
Unlikely you are Sigma if you needed clarity on who you are and it made you cry.
Not a criticism just an observation.
@@Beyourselforbebetter I know what I know King, 👑 so I don’t feel no way about your opinion. Stay Bless
@@876-benyaminisrael9 you too brother💪💯
@@876-benyaminisrael9 you too brother💪
I don't claim or have never claimed to be any particular personality types but every video I've watched about sigma males describes me to perfection. These videos have helped me understand myself. Wowww
Me too.. so amazing
Sounds like me too.
I am that.
Literally, especially when I see myself as the complete opposite of what I personally thought “sigma male” actually is
Guess there are more of us than they think. :)
Once bitten twice shy.
I don't trust anyone.
I have no friends I only have acquaintance I don’t rely on anyone to do anything for me I do it myself because when you start to rely on other people, they’ll just disappoint you so don’t even ask and you’ll find your life so peaceful, so quiet, and as you get older Nobody will ask you to go to a party because you have turned them down so many times they finally get it you don’t like to be around people
Learning about sigma males made a lot of sense to me. Most of friends, family, and associates would describe me as an alpha male, however I suspect that is mainly due to my appearance rather than my attitude. But I never identified with the alpha male persona. Now it makes much more sense, as I identify greatly with the sigma male persona.
A description of how a mature, intelligent person should be.
A lesson given to me nearly 30yrs ago, by a wise man; " If it doesn't feel right, it isn't right"......Addendum; look after those who need you, human or animal.....
So you base your life on your feelings?
My dad taught me: "When in doubt...... rule it out"
@@pjreynoldsa1 Doubt isn't necessarily the product of emotional thinking. It may very well be based in rational thought.
All laws are based on feelings.
Nietzsche, genealogy of morals
Sigma Males are the best. Prove me wrong. 💪🏾🏆💥
That wasn't even a term used to label anybody until the last few years unless it was used in certain circles like psychologists, which I never had a use for
Alpha enters the chat👨 Sigma rolls over belly up🤐 Sigma runs away to be alone😬😮💨
@@MikeJones-mf2fw In your dreams.
@@ricksg777 You mean in all our dreams?
@@MikeJones-mf2fw interesting comment.
Every single trait mentioned in this video lines up flawlessly with my personality.
I used to think that I was just weird or different from most people. Maybe I was just antisocial, but I actually fit into the sigma male category that makes complete sense.
I have made countless friends throughout my lifetime but through school changes, job changes or life changes I always lose contact eventually. Sometimes they may do something that leads me to not trust them anymore.
It might seem shallow, but I tend to make calculated decisions about people by observing their behaviors with others as much as possible before I categorize them as to where they would fit, or if they would fit into my life.
I just see it as only letting trustworthy people into my inner circle.
Why bother dealing with someone who you can't trust?
Sadly these days there are not many people left that you can trust anymore so needless to say my circle has become very small.
Purposely choosing to judge people by their actions is the most shallow thing I have ever heard. Except for every other way.
Joking aside, choosing your company wisely is of vast importance. Life is too short to waste any of it on bad company.
People like to say we're sociopaths for not socializing with everyone.... they don't get that we just don't like them....
You ARE weird and different than most everyone else.
But that's not a character flaw
I feel the same exact way. My wife doesn't understand why it's so hard for me to lie even if its a small lie. It just is.
@@aubreysanders1613 Had a similar experience with an employer. She would go on and on about how white lies are necessary for good relationships, how not being willing to lie could be hurtful and unproductive. Two years I worked at her store, that came to an end when I decided to test her theories and told a small lie that I knew she would be able to bust me on with minimal effort. She went ballistic, I put in my notice right then while she was ranting. Afterwards, she apologized and tried to get me to stay... /shrug.
Well this explains a lot. If I’d only known years ago. I just thought there was something wrong with me thinking I was someone who withdrawals from society. Now, I’m just me and with this explanation I feel much better. So glad I clicked even though as a sigma I really didn’t care much. Thanks!
It’s not that I don’t like people, I just seem to feel better when they are not around. It is draining having to couch my words when it comes to sharing truth or insights. So many people defending the matrix.
Feel exactly the same way.
We prefer doing everything alone, friendly but not sociably.
We’re just in a higher frequency vibration. Our circles are small so if we let you in, it’s special.
Facts facts
There’s another word for me besides a “loner.” This video was quite enlightening.
There’s another word for loner an it’s “Smart” ✌️
@@gobigorangethe actual scientific word is: narcissist 😂 alha and sigma are terms from a science fiction novel and have nothing to do with humans whatsoever. The fact that guys choose to describe themselves as wolves and lions is just revealing of how insecure they are. I'm Mr rabbit brother, I will eat every sigma in this jungle ;)
@@rhodesboyson1700 the monitoring spirit reveals itself
being alone is the best way to
hear what the universe is saying....
@@wiz823 That's not what I would call him.
Thank you for this series of videos. Now in my 70s my life at last makes sense.
I thought I was this way because I’m former Military. Apparently it goes a tad deeper than that. Great information and this explains a lot to many of us.
I could never figure out my oldest son til I learned about sigma male. It's nice to hear he fits there. Just an example of his personality I recently ask him if he had friends from work? He responded "honestly I have to remember to make time for people," other than his wife he just doesn't need people. But he's so friendly and gets along with others. He does have friends, but few. And they are pretty much the same as him.
So thanks for helping me to understand my son.
sigma's trustworthy behavior we always address people in an honest way without deception .. we don't want an uncomfortable situation . we always do things in FAQs .
this is so corny omg
I'm a sigma but what's a FAQ????
@@PeachyCattyit's just sigma things
@@Ryu_Kage. "Frequently Asked Questions".
@@Ryu_Kage. indeed .. some people just dnt know how sigma maintains its cool personality 💪
I have become what I always strived to be: "the crazy quiet old man down the road with the cool cars nobody knows about". Only my true friends know what I have and what I'm capable of. But once you're in, sit down and enjoy the ride.
You just described me, have a great day
@@robscudder789 I knew of such a man when I was a kid and wanted to be like him. Now I am and it feels good.
❤ im the crazy bike guy all self built that plays with whips n nunchucks at 40. Our intrests are a part of who we are.
I’m a sigma female. It’s all true. I have no tolerance of negativity taking away my peace, joy & quality life. This is very liberating for a Sigma like me. It’s all about trust, respect & happiness
The funny thing is that many ppl seek the friendship with sigmas, but we are very selective. It’s tough to deny good ppl our close friendship, but we need to, because our time and energy isn’t enough.
I'm 48 and just heard this term for the first time today. The headline about a few friends drew me in and wow, me to a tee! Crazy.
I like burning bridges when someone lies to me, tries to manipulate me or does some other form of betrayal. Finding quality friends is definitely difficult.
It wasn't you who burnt the bridge
It was odd. I took a psych profile test in application for a sales job with a big insurance company. They said I wasn't aggressive enough. 6 months after an honorable discharge from an elite unit.
It also explains why I was able to mix with all those alpha males without getting my ass kicked.
Free opinion here--You didnt "pass the test" because you would actually help people above all else. The cooperate machine is looking for marshmallows that when faced with the choice , would choose money over ethics. They did you a favor.
Thats right!!!@@jumpstart9473
Funny i found myself much faster and stronger then the alfa males. They no longer talk to me. Im great with it alpha males are the worst people.
@@jumpstart9473
You're 100% right
Friends aren't what they're cracked up to be. At the end of the day it's you and your family.
Only you
Its crazy (in a funny way) how well I feel and think I fit into these patterns.
This is just from my yesterdays readings:
"It is better for you to be defeated while speaking the truth, than to be victourious through deceit" - The sentences of Sextus
Kind regads and best wishes!
For many years I wondered what was so different about me and why I was the way I am, now I know. These videos really do nail it.
I found solitude, with my studies, games, pets, movies, hobbies, walking around town, etc... Is always better than spending any type of time around "other people."
I don't have any friends I have associates.
Bro ur just lonely admit it bro
@@lilpiggylukepower2837 Being alone does not mean you’re lonely.
@@Freedom-Fighter1 it literally does because if you don’t have anyone u have no one to talk to so that’s not being a sigma male that’s just you being a loner and just trying to make ur self feel better about being lonely
@@lilpiggylukepower2837 if you feel lonely get some dogs and occasionally go out to eat. You can have conversations with your waitress for interactions with people. I do all the time and then I like my alone time doing hobbies and with my dogs.
How some people can live their lives putting on a costume in order to be accepted, is beyond all reason. The stress of doing that day after day has got to be draining. Sigma men hate stress and therefore will not only avoid doing that themselves, but avoid others that pretend to be something they're not.
Another reason to avoid small talk with people. "Here, watch this."
My grandpa turned me into this one simple piece of advice: YOU choose your friends, don’t let them choose you. The bad apple spoils the bunch and bad people are always looking for others to bring down in their misery.
Today I've learned that I'm Sigma. I run on this video accidentally... Honestly, all the points described me very accurate. I am much grateful for this video because I saw that I'm bit different from most of people and friends in my life. Thanks again and have a great day 👍
"Accidentally" - I don't think so. YT algos must have profiled us all as sigmas! :D
After learning about this personality, it explains so much! I’m just more comfortable doing my own thing. I’m social but at a distance except for a few exceptions. Cool with most but trust few..
👍 Where was this video 66 years ago! Had I heard all this growing up I could have spent less time trying to figure out who I was in life. Even though I figured it out on my own… like, at 28. One of the things I hated most in life was trying to figure out who I was, takes too much time and effort. When I did figure it out I never looked back. That was forty some years ago and I haven’t changed since. I love who I am AND who I never became because of “someone” else’s desire. I own me, not thee, and vice versa. To this day finding the perfect female companionship has eluded me so I must be one in ten million. Maybe I’ll find my mate the next tyme around. If I ever find her she will think she’s a Princess! She will make me her Prince. But that fairytale is for another time. Great video!
Sigma here.
I used to have many friends, but they were all narcissists.
I weeded them out.
Now all I have around me are idiots and fools.
Birds of a feather...
I’m finding the “Sigma”, label topic to be very interesting as I’d never knew that I was one & now know why others often don’t understand me. It’s been a lifelong question for myself but thanks to these videos I know exactly why my life has unfolded the way that it has. Thanks for the video content!
Same here
Same 😊
If you are very kind and true sigma like me we can be friends 😊
I’m in the same boat bro. It’s nice to be able to put a name to the type we are.
Happiness comes when you don't compare yourself to others. Sigmas learn this early and can be content being alone, even enjoying it.
@kps-321 just wait and see if I get ticket off for your Professional opinion pick nose. Hello! P=D²
@@kps-321
The proof is in the pudding.
I realized that I have more in common with people who work at book stores and old ranchers who saw Elvis in concert.
In this day and age, if you always speak the truth, you have no friends.
Everyone loves to push the importance of having lots of close friends. Sigmas don’t need validation from groups of friends to be happy. They are self-sufficient and can do things by themselves and make their own decisions.
Having friends is nice, but it’s not a requisite to be content
Trust is earned ..but I dnt trust people
I'm a woman and these traits apply to me too ♀️
Then you are a sigma female
Really? You avoid drama ? I've never met a woman that didn't like drama or was not dramatic herself.
I am Sigma, but honestly I choose not to drink or do drugs which severely limits my friendships lol...95 percent of men are still choosing to poison themselves etc, and I can't be around it...I joined an MMA gym and have found a healthy positive circle to be around...alot of Sigmas in the gyms
Me too have same problems.
We don’t have many friends -because we are Bourne with human intolerance syndrome .
For the most part , if a person’s mouth is moving they aren’t saying anything worth listening to .
How’s the weather 🤦🏻♀️ .
How about those ⚾️🏉🏐🏈🎾🏀🥎⚽️🏏🏒🏑🥍⛳️ doing 🤦🏻♀️ .
Politics money 💰 money 💵 money 💵 cars relationships ,the kids ME ME ME ME ME 🤔🤦🏻♀️.
Genuine internal thoughts and feelings 🤐 to help expand and evolve the human species 😶.
Genuine honesty without insults or feeling insulted 🤐 .
Wow. This spells me out exactly. Been fighting this nature all my life bc I have been told that there is something wrong with me my whole life. I’m my experience many female personalities tend to get frustrated by a sigma seemingly antisocial traits and alphas don’t like it that we aren’t part of the boys club.
I finally realized, you can’t fight your own spirit.
I hit the like. This is one of the few videos about Sigma people that is fairly accurate. 😊 However, each Sigma individual is different in their own way and choosing.
I appreciate!
Am sigma empath and I hate when I see manipulative people, liers, and arrogant ones am I different?
You described me. I'm a millionaire and don't make friends easily.
Can I be your friend 👍😁
Hard to make real friends when people are hard to trust and people are so fake nowadays.
@FloridamanStud yes, everyone asks for favors and money ultimately 😫
@@chadmagnifici2347 you probably would too if you weren't so fortunate there buddy you don't have to play life by the same rules
Can you couch me on how to make money??
These videos have really helped me understand myself. Now i get it and am happy 😊
Too many friends can be exhausting.... true.
Most people don't have as ma ny friends as they think, acquaintances are not friends.
My grand father said I was a lone runner, not a follower. I learned young that loyalty isn't given back and trust is easily broken. I consider people around me to be an acquaintance only there because of circumstances at the time I.e work etc.
Great videos. I am enjoying that listening to them is helping my expand my understanding of myself and my life. (I am 74) I do have only a very few and close friends. The simple truth is almost no-one perceives the world at the level of inter-relationship I experience. I was lucky enough to have my father tell me when I was 14 that I am very different from others. Neither better nor worse, simply very different. He advised I put my energies and attention into understanding myself with only a little energy going to noticing how others perceive their world. By the time I was 16 I was very aware my perception of life was vastly different than others, far more complex and inter-related than others perceived. I grinned realizing most people find my views of life as utter nonsense. It was obvious that my earlier expectations of others 'understanding' me was unrealistic. As an example... Someone would complain about another person lying. When viewed from the perceptive fields of the complaining person what the other person said certainly was a lie. Yet within the perceptive fields of the person 'lying' what they said certainly was 'truth'.
👍Soooo true, It is not easy to find like-minded honest friends who have the same interests.
Also difficult to work with careless people😊
WOW! This is me to a tee. This really does explain a lot. I am so picky about my friends, They feel like I blow them off. You know what, they're right. Supreme loyalty and trustworthiness are the two qualities I must have in any friend. Since America don't make them like that anymore, I guess I am on my own.
Crazy how i just found out i was a Sigma male less then 2 years ago. I appreciate the making of all you're videos. 🍷🍾
Never realized I am a sigma. But ii definitely am !!!! I dont ever lie even if it hurts ur feelings. I can read people like a book almsot all the time and i can spot a lier a mile away !!! I have lots of aquantinces but 2 or 3 tru friendsand even those true friends i dont spend alot of time with. I spend almost all my time alone. Just me and my animals, my fishing poles and guns. I walk with the holy spirit who walks with me in TRUTH no matter what im goin through!! Jesus Christ is the only friend I need !!!
I’ve only recently realised I’m a 51yo sigma, and damn, I’m proud. I’m a CEO of a public US company, have three life friends, raised my son alone and been single 10yrs. We are the natural leaders in an apocalypse. I’ve rarely been the top social dog, but in a crisis, I always am, and even saved lives, but feel no ego with it. Never be afraid of an Alfa, but the very rare intelligent Alphas will use you to elevate him - I support these Alphas, as it can become an amazing pairing.
Do more research. You will find that a true Sigma will NEVER call themselves a Sigma.. figure yourself out. You are not a Sigma.
Alphas, Sigmas, Betas...All needed to make this human "casserole". All have something to give and to take. To learn and to teach. And all are equally dangerous when lacking self-awareness and authenticity.
I support no alfas they fear me. Only because they dont realize i can not stand confrontation. I only stand up for other people not myself. This destroys people not that im a fan. I would rather build people up and make them better no were it leaves me. But im tired of seeing people bullied. That is what an alfa male is a bully. Unfortunately its whats wrong with the police in this country. We are definitely the leaders of the apocalypse. I have seen it in my dreams and have lead hundreds to safety. God bless. Too bad none of us want to be president. Lol
The most fundamental problem Sigmas face is the initial belief that you’re the only one out there. Creeps all seem to run in packs, but Sigmas are out there by themselves - solitary, self-absorbed and wary. There should be a network or something. Sigmas Anonymous.
All facts. I had conversation about number 12 late last year. I really don't care for attention or acceptance of others. I prefer to walk my own path.
Dont want to be famous but make an impact damn accurate
I have walked this earth for 74 years and just now realised that I am a Sigma male! This is why I did very well in the military and had a 30 year career. Learn something every day, if you pay attention.
OMG, this is me, yesterday I realized I have no friends at work, I hate to follow the crowd, tell the truth always, even though I know it often offends or hurts people.
I am not perfect, but do relate to women, a whole lot better.
At 58 I no longer care what other people think, I can now watch this video.
Same here...
Good for you 🤙
Until now, I didn’t even know there was a word for me..
It’s unbelievable when you discover an entire community just like you. 😎
I intentionally shrinked my circle, I regret that I haven t done it sooner
It is called the "Ugly Truth" for a reason, and people have always said to be honest, which means telling the ugly truth. So, I found out that it is easier to piss people off, by being honest and telling the truth, rather than lying, to yourself and other people by changing who you are, just to get people to like you. Ever since telling the truth and being honest, I have found myself.
Its easy . I would rather have 4 solid quarters then 100 penny's that do little on their own .I've had friend get into big trouble and I've done things the law would frown on to help those friend out . I've had friends do the same for me . Maybe I should just say that I will go all in for a friend and I expect the same . It would be too difficult and time consuming to get a deep understanding of a whole bunch different people .
That's the thing i move on fast whether by heartbreak or disappointment. The possibility of life and what awaits is what keeps me alive today.
I highly enjoyed this presentation. I am absolutely a Sigma. Not an anti-social outcast. Every bullet point rang true. Thank God I am not an Alpha or Beta male. I was never a follower of the crowd or an arrogant asshole. Being unique has its ups and downs.
Alphas aren’t arrogant assholes….lol dummy
I can't believe I finally found someone who explains me almost to a tee!! Thank you. It says and tells a lot, gives me reasons, and explains the why... I am truly a Sigma guy.
I much prefer conversing with others, though I generally find it more rewarding to read and reflect on my own. I can't get past, and have difficulty connecting with, others bias and inability to be genuine. I'm generally seen as shy while I'm more accurately reticent and reserved. I value communication in its quality while others seem to value its quantity and nonsensical/tangential playfulness. I find that tiring and immature. I don't fit anyone's mold.
Justified confidence makes others feel inadequate and uncomfortable, while false confidence makes others feel secure. *Regardless of tactful approach and delivery*
The few people I've developed long/close relations with all share the same feedback - I'm a completely different person than they thought the day we met. I believe it's fair to extrapolate that to the general publics perception. To be fair, i have a proclivity to observe human behavior. It's habitual and instinctual. People are fake and dishonest. So, I'm not inclined to be more transparent about my character.
When I got older than about 16, I had a few teachers who did not like me, although I liked them and enjoyed their teaching. But I simply was not able to phrase my questions in a way that did not make them react negative in some way. I finally even asked classmates whether my questions were in any way awkward or inappropriate. They said no and found my questions good and the teacher's reactions strange.
The problem continued into my adulthood. Whenever I had advanced training, the same problem ocurred. I stopped asking interesting questions. It was the only solution.