Me Explaining The Benefits Of Being Solo Poly

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  • Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024

Комментарии • 87

  • @Jac527
    @Jac527 Месяц назад +47

    I didn’t know I could have an option to remain single and celibate. Now I do and I’m 4B and I’m embracing it everyday 💃💃💃

    • @jenniferhaynes8625
      @jenniferhaynes8625 Месяц назад +6

      It's a blessing,Love God and yourself.

    • @rebeccalavoy6655
      @rebeccalavoy6655 Месяц назад +6

      I am 57. I only wish that I did it sooner.
      Men don't believe me, when I say that I am not interested. That is exactly what I mean. I have no desire to be in a relationship. I love my singlebriety

    • @rebeccalavoy6655
      @rebeccalavoy6655 Месяц назад +6

      Yes, God first ❤
      Also, disease free and intend to stay that way 😉

  • @cerromeceo
    @cerromeceo Месяц назад +22

    You have beautiful skin. You are just glowing ✨️ ❤

  • @jenniferhaynes8625
    @jenniferhaynes8625 Месяц назад +26

    The men want you,but they can't have you 😂.

  • @loriparks8657
    @loriparks8657 Месяц назад +17

    Do you Gurl 🎉along with the single Child-free ladies 🎉🎉🎉

  • @purplelaketafahdhali7753
    @purplelaketafahdhali7753 Месяц назад +5

    Tera! I saw you in an episode of Paternity Court in the audience! ❤😁

  • @crystalvouse6435
    @crystalvouse6435 Месяц назад +11

    Don't gotta worry about getting attached or pregnancy or stds to ..

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  Месяц назад +8

      The celibacy way💅🏽

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn Месяц назад +1

      Because are the main things men can offer you, no matter how many women try to dress it up.

  • @ms.wonderful8099
    @ms.wonderful8099 Месяц назад +7

    That's right beautiful lady

  • @oriamosley5746
    @oriamosley5746 Месяц назад +5

    Okay! Yes! Get it friend ❤❤❤❤

  • @DeRosyLife
    @DeRosyLife Месяц назад +6

    Good morning! I love your yellow dress, pls take it easy because your body frequency is high❤

  • @user-om8vw1xk5j
    @user-om8vw1xk5j Месяц назад +1

    This!!!❤👌🏽‼️

  • @jovanenglish919
    @jovanenglish919 Месяц назад +6

    Yes honey single and soon to be loving it

  • @Zvynb
    @Zvynb Месяц назад +3

    No stds
    No pregnancy scares

  • @kingznqueenztv
    @kingznqueenztv Месяц назад +3

    My song!!!❤❤❤

  • @FeliciaHamilton-fi9tg
    @FeliciaHamilton-fi9tg Месяц назад +5

    🤦🏾🤣🤣🤣🤷🏾💁🏾‍♀️✨☺️👍🏾👋🏾 same thing for me 🤷🏾😅

  • @tiffany5575
    @tiffany5575 24 дня назад

    My Energy/Spirit Sister! 🤗👍

  • @vanessathomas399
    @vanessathomas399 Месяц назад +1

    Yes, girl, I love it single free, happy, healthy, and God's blessings 🙌 to us beautiful people who choose our happiness and peace 😊 first

  • @CocoLane
    @CocoLane Месяц назад

    So far, singleness & not abstinence has been better for me. My experiences have been draining when it comes to men! I’ll pass!

  • @wanchawancha5323
    @wanchawancha5323 Месяц назад +1

    I’m going to explore this solo-poly celibacy…

  • @sarahmoore5289
    @sarahmoore5289 Месяц назад +1

    Sis 🤣🤣...... GOODNIGHT 💤

  • @septemberjai5216
    @septemberjai5216 Месяц назад +4

    💛💛💛💛

  • @Ms.LadyHey
    @Ms.LadyHey Месяц назад +3

    💛💛💛

  • @lgee9027
    @lgee9027 Месяц назад +4

    #free🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @lakendra2326
    @lakendra2326 Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @alexwilliams5799
    @alexwilliams5799 Месяц назад +6

    You are so beautiful 😍

  • @acollins9277
    @acollins9277 Месяц назад +1

    👍🏾😍❤️

  • @shamelessvanity1415
    @shamelessvanity1415 Месяц назад +2

    I get it. Forever a child stuck in arrested development. Definitely has its perks. Enjoy never-never land.🧚🏾‍♂️

    • @belissimahoney69
      @belissimahoney69 Месяц назад

      Why she gotta be a child tho? Just cause she don’t want a man…… 🫤 I think chasing after men is never-never land 🤷‍♀️

  • @tarvus-iz1bx
    @tarvus-iz1bx Месяц назад +1

    😍🥰😘💯🌹

  • @Locopueblo
    @Locopueblo Месяц назад

    What doooooooesss that meeeaan

  • @lovedalot
    @lovedalot Месяц назад

    🎉

  • @warpTdmBrLnt2030
    @warpTdmBrLnt2030 Месяц назад

    666 Mafia ya ya

  • @HelloWorldGoodbye
    @HelloWorldGoodbye 27 дней назад

    What is solo poly 😂😂😂

  • @16arcade
    @16arcade Месяц назад

    There's no more shock value anymore, easy to get a man just wants attention to her world of bazzar relationships.
    Will ruin your marriage in a nano second.

  • @16arcade
    @16arcade Месяц назад

    Wtf does solo poly mean?

    • @erinmcmahon4553
      @erinmcmahon4553 Месяц назад

      Since leaving a 10 year monogamous relationship where I felt it was impossible to leave, I have also been solo poly. Although I am not celibate , I respect it. I try to be as safe as I can . I am enjoying my autonomy, my own space and freedom.

    • @erinmcmahon4553
      @erinmcmahon4553 Месяц назад

      I feel like I was solo poly when young but never put a title or knew term for it.

    • @erinmcmahon4553
      @erinmcmahon4553 Месяц назад

      Solo polyamory, or solo poly, is a form of ethical non-monogamy where someone has multiple intimate relationships while maintaining an independent lifestyle. Solo polyamorous people may not live with their partners, share finances, or want to reach traditional relationship milestones like marriage or having children. They may also not have a primary partner, or someone they're committed to above all others.

    • @erinmcmahon4553
      @erinmcmahon4553 Месяц назад

      Some people practice solo polyamory by choice, while others may do so due to circumstances, such as recently ending a serious relationship. Solo polyamory can be challenging, especially for people who are used to chaos, and it can require learning to love solitude and silence. However, setting boundaries and being clear about how much time and energy you want to invest in each relationship can help make it successful. You should also respect your partners' boundaries and make sure they understand your definition of solo poly.

  • @Andrejr316
    @Andrejr316 Месяц назад

    So basically a Femcel

    • @Orangeisgreat383
      @Orangeisgreat383 Месяц назад +2

      LOL, no, she could get it in 5 minutes, she just doesn’t want or need it.

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn Месяц назад

      A femcel for not catering to some nasty man and allowing him to use her body.. or giving him a “poly” relationship.
      Is something wrong with you dudes? Seriously.

  • @YBRL007
    @YBRL007 Месяц назад

    🕯️👨‍💻☕️

  • @chezzeyfat1990
    @chezzeyfat1990 Месяц назад

    This some sad 💩 and that’s one of my favorite songs that had nothing and no business being played with this bs I swear this ray look real dumb right now 🤦‍♂️

  • @mauricehooks320
    @mauricehooks320 Месяц назад

    Oh you don't know how to share. Understandable.

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn Месяц назад

      Ok so share a woman then. Why do you weird dudes want women to be your spaces and share you..?
      And then you clowns can’t even reciprocate the same? Y’all shame and judge women for even daring to say they want More then one man. But you want to disappoint and terrorize multiple women all at once.
      Grow up.

  • @brianmeen2158
    @brianmeen2158 Месяц назад +1

    “Because you are only here to please yourself”
    That is a recipe for unhappiness. It works well in the short term but will leave you profoundly empty in the long run . Anyone in the mental health field would agree

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  Месяц назад +18

      No people pleaser in me😏

    • @Cartier7P
      @Cartier7P Месяц назад +22

      That's a lie. Its the situationships that have our ladies on psych medications and sitting before therapists. 😂

    • @jenniferhaynes8625
      @jenniferhaynes8625 Месяц назад +11

      She, as I feel the same way don't want to settle,there are a lot of people who won't value a beautiful woman like her,even if she is beautiful inside and out.Many women especially women of color have to protect their best interests because many men,not all,but many are not interested in a relationship,they want to exploit women.Again,I mean many,not all.

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn Месяц назад +1

      Y’all try to make women think something is wrong with us being single.
      But praise men who hate on women and claim not to want relationships. LOL

  • @thomassherman3883
    @thomassherman3883 Месяц назад +1

    Repent

  • @OutDaStreets092
    @OutDaStreets092 Месяц назад +2

    Why not just say your dating around and sleeping around but if that was said it would have other names other then poly lol ….. at an older age when marriage or being a good female role model should be a goal

    • @AWholeVibe96
      @AWholeVibe96 Месяц назад +5

      Maybe because she isn’t dating or sleeping around…. That’s the whole point of the video. Stop assuming and just accept it for what it is.

    • @sparklesp9304
      @sparklesp9304 Месяц назад +12

      Her platform literally promotes celibacy 😅

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +4

      Everyone not like yall go be good role models for other men we good over here

    • @Dee-cu8yr
      @Dee-cu8yr Месяц назад

      Men and some.male identified women cant imagine this scenario. Theyre still plugged into this everyone needs someone ides ​@AWholeVibe96

    • @fanders44
      @fanders44 Месяц назад

      Celibacy community does exist...probably exist because it comes with a bad price to pay. It's more to life than having sex, procreating demons/regrets, and degrading others. Not all women are delusional 😂😂😂

  • @jamesking3389
    @jamesking3389 Месяц назад

    I just want u to want me so I can say no would have been much easier to say, you didn’t have to bounce around in a dress to say that. 😂😂

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn Месяц назад +1

      It’s so weird how you dudes are mad in these comments
      .
      It’s weird. Nobody controls what you “ want” or what you’re attracted too. Stop being attracted to and looking for women who don’t want you. Weird

    • @antinatalistwitch111
      @antinatalistwitch111 13 дней назад

      ​@@AmberColeman-gq1wnthese special males thrive off chaos. They are walking contradictions. It's best to ignore them completely, just like their fathers did.

  • @swedmerson90
    @swedmerson90 Месяц назад +10

    Do you plan on remaining celibate for the duration of your life or are you just super focused on serving/loving/choosing self?
    I ask this because I am 3 years celibate post divorce and I have two kids. I want to date and be courted but I want to let it be known I DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX! Girl, I know you have your loving self workbook but you gotta make another e-book or master class on how to date solo poly and stay true to one's self. I still want to be pampered and have a good time but I don't want to devote/commit myself to any man and I want to keep the power my 😻 holds all to myself okayy!! 🫶🏾