What Can YOU Learn From This Polyamorous Relationship? - The Isiah Factor
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- Опубликовано: 30 июл 2024
- What can you learn from this unconventional relationship?
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So basically he was cheating and his wife just accepted it and invited her in the home to decrease the drama?
No she realized he wasn't gonna stop loving the side chick.she offered they all stay together. This has been offered to me personally but I'd never degrade a woman that way. when I decided to leave my ex, she didn't want to let it go,a few months later, she offered to stay with me knowing I was moving on with someone else. It was desperation and I told her she deserved to be with someone who can put up with her. She's now married with a kid.
🤔
A Chisolm exactly
D. Corey trying to figure out why this response starts with a “no” only to restate the same thing already imparted 🤔
EXACTLY!!!
His wife doesn't look as happy as the other people sitting there lol. There's also a BIG difference between agreeing to bring another party into your relationship and your husband cheating then you let the side chick move in.
Queen Lex - Is it that bad out there now where a woman just won’t leave and settle for the guy to bring a side chick into the marriage?
What message is being sent to the men that support this garbage? If you want more than one wife, go to a country that supports that, but don’t destroy our culture and women with that foolishness.
I guess my concern is this will become a normal thing.
Bryan Beeman I’ll be honest: I think it really is that bad out there and I’m HAPPY to be off the market lol. We’ve lost a sense of self, responsibility, structure and respect. Everyone receiving the message is in trouble: men, women and children. Now I won’t tell anyone to go another country (I hear your passion but exiling people is harmful on many different levels- my opinion of course) but I will tell people to evaluate this stuff from all sides and look at what the negative results could be. We have to strengthen our community and core ✌🏽🖤
Bryan Beeman I’d be OUT because this couldn’t work for me.
Queen Lex - When I made that statement about them leaving the country and going somewhere else that supports that garbage, I meant it. I’m sure that no father, mother, or grandparents in this country would want their daughter to experience this at all. We even see in the Bible how these types of relationships complicated marriages. Sarai and Abram and Hagar. Jacob, Leah, and Rachel... JESUS said male and female from the beginning. Man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife (not wives). Why would He say that?
Bryan Beeman you’re entitled to your opinion and feelings I just don’t share the same which is ok ✌🏽
The title should be: I didn't want to lose my man, so I let his mistress move in,or I don't want to start over so I'm going to just accept anything. Poor kids are already brainwashed by this foolery. My poor sisters. This is sad.
Exactly. Some women love to hold on to garbage.
That part..nailed it
Right
Y'all rather be lied to and cheated on.
Right!!
GIRL 👋🏾 IF Alex had an affair with her then you did NOT suggest it sis you ACCEPTED it🥴
Say it again
MirrorMommy oh stop your belly aching! This is a beautiful situation!!!!
playaflyJOE27 😬😭
@@PlayaflyJoe27 FACTS lol
I was thinking the exact same thing !
I like how the girlfriend was straight honest like nah....... it wasn’t all roses in the beginning 😂🤣
I repeat this is NOT what the vows mean " for better or for worse. He committed adultry and she should have left.
@Yoshiyahu Yisrael No. If the married person cheat they commit adultry. Their the ones that made the vows
Where does it say for better or for worse on a marriage license?
You wasnt at that wedding. Sit down and take notes.
@Yoshiyahu Yisrael Fact....
A man can have more than one woman.
Charles Merchant a man can have a million women but all parties must be in agreement.
The Wife, "I would do that" The Husband, "I all ready started"
lol
😂😂😂
Right
Exactly 😂
Ok then 🤣
We are definitely living in the last days. He's cheating, the wife suggests bring the creep home as the sister-wife? Clearly he wasn't willing to leave the creep alone she the wife has accepted this foolishness? How the creep had alot of feelings for you like she did for him? She was comfortable sexing your husband behind your back. Not acceptable.
Yes, we are definitely living in the last days. Good is evil & evil is good. Ass backwards if you ask me 😒
TD Wilson yeah should ask her permission or never cheated on her
Last days of what ... I heard that when I was 5 years old and I will be 44 years old this year
Y’all killing me with that last days rhetoric. We keep discovering the earth is older than we thought
djbmp i think she meant biblical sense that world is getting worst that Jesus eventually come back
I think the problem for me would be....The fact that he was already cheating with her & obviously they fell in love.... Its not like they met her together and brought her inn so that would be my only issue..
finally someone with sense in the comments
Right. All he did was cheat. There's a lot of manipulation going on here.
Yup me too I agree. If we stay together after infedelity, and decide to go to poly, it won't be with her
These other women doing all this talking like their the only 1. 🤷🏾♂️
Same!!!
I have to give Isiah credit for the way he conducted this interview as well as all interviews I've seen. He doesn't allow his personal feelings to interfere, whereas many interviewers interject their feelings, especially with regards to a controversial topic such as this.
The wife look so sad
Big 🧢
Well most women accept anything cause of self esteem issues fellas unfortunately it's only going to get worse stay single
I guess that I’m staying single until the day I die because I don’t like to share.....AT ALL LOL
Hell, you & I Both. I'm good😒😂
lol
This is true
Real talk
😁Well that proves that monogamy is just as toxic as polyamory.... And polyamory could be just as healthy as monogamy.... It all depends on who's involved.... Monogamy is nothing more than a form of jealousy and selfishness...lol
The oblivious husband is sitting there grinning like a Cheshire cat.
lmao!!
Exactly! Makes me sick 🤢
@@jatarabrw8103 mad or not?
I’m waiting to see a polyamory situation with a women having multiple men. This is just a chick settling for a dude cheating foh
It's this podcast called "no apologies podcast" and it's a black woman dating two white men and they all live together. Definitely confusing to me, but if they happy who am I to judge?
play.google.com/music/m/Iomh5ot4qbsy2e7edtkgsgxrkji?t=No_Apolygies
That's called running a train on a hoe smh....
Elohim Rules lol word
Darrell James yea she’s with white men most brothers not up for that
@@SystemChannel that chick is living the BWs dream lol. She's getting 2 white rods for the price of one😆😆. Most BW want WM acceptance so she probably feels fulfilled literally lol!
Good bye, he cheated and she accepted it. This is what it is point blank period.
Exactly. She has low self-worth...well they both do. He doesn't respect either one of them to degrade them like that and he never will have respect for them. They're sharing a whole clown🤡.
@@shayemoore not really…..polygome been going on for thousands of years
@@tti4919 I don't give two fcuks how long polygamy has been going on, what I said still stands. ANY woman who agrees to this wickedness has no self-worth. Her self esteem is in the toilet. Those "men" that existed back then didn't respect women. They were mere property and that's it. This woman should've left him. Women hold the power in relationships today but some choose to give it away to their trifling man.
He cheated, she accepted it but then she moved a step further to view the other woman as her sister wife & invite her into their home to parent their children….
@@shayemoore
Well said - it’s sickening
The wife lying about how the polyamorous relationship started concerns me. The fact that the side chick told the truth about infidelity lets me know who is living in reality and who is living a lie. If the three of them are not involved sexually, why do they all sleep in the same bed. They all are lying about this situation. I feel bad for the kids. Seeing this type of immorality at a young age will surely affect them mentally in the future.
FACTS!!!!!! Like really
It's nature
@@WARxxECONOMY what’s nature?
FACTS
Yeah they should’ve rehearsed this at home, because the mistress just busted the wife’s whole lie out! It makes the whole thing seem forced!
This is sad, this is the epitome of a woman settling for a cheating man... he was her husband of 20 years and b/c he cheated and couldn't leave the mistress alone, the wife lowered her standards to the gutter and settled for sharing him, just to keep him....
I think that's what's going on here, but to each their own, this is sad though...
Well maybe she came to the realization that some men are built for more than one wife Society of today tells us to be monogamous but you go through history it's a pretty common theme and they made it work well, now i do afgree cheating is cheating, it would have been different if they both knew from the start
Well your bfs all good side chicks so y’all sharing without even knowing so this can work it’s out in the open not behind closed doors.
Daizy Mone't / Kraizi Daizy Live it take 2 tangle.
It's sinful adultery
Agreed, he just cheated and moved her in and the wife accepted it. She even said that when she found out they were still seeing each other, she wanted to meet with her and have a chat.
Not a damn thing!! I don't give a damn how forward thinking you might feel you are in the beginning. One of them WILL get tired of sharing and ether start cheated (which introduces even more germs and STD's to the picture) or she will simply leave! No one likes to feel like a second fiddle.
As someone who is asexual, I am intrigued by all this. it is a great option for companionship. The odds of finding an asexual man are slim so this is an excellent alternative.
Facts
Its just a new thought process for you, but if it became normalized it would help make a dent in the 20:1 women to men ratio
EXACTLY!!!😎
EXACTLY. No matter how much they propaganize this. It never works out because it is outside of God's will and driven, by lust, self-centerness and possibly narcissism...
*They lying!!!*
My fiancé use to try to talk about poly stuff some time but not anymore I ruin that when I start saying I wanted another man in a relationship 😂😂😂🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
He is most likely cheating on you if he tried to talk to you about it and you rejected it. If my man tried to talk to me about this it would convey two things to me 1) that he's wicked, and 2) he doesn't respect me and he never will. If a man could even think about something so evil he's already disrespected the relationship and therefore I'm out.
@@shayemoore this was when we were first started dating... we been together 3 years this month.... he don’t have time to be cheating cuz he is too busy and too focus with our business that we got together.... i know cuz i does all the finances, dispatching on where he needs to go to give services. This man loves, respects me so much that he told me i earned this ring and his last name. Like i said i ruin it cuz he knows i would want another man if we do that and not only that we talks about poly and moly stuff with friends and like he said he used to do poly but once you get with a women who is a real partner and submissive you don’t need multiple women and plus that’s more money coming out of our savings if you dealing with others. We are saving money and not trying to be someone’s sugardaddies over here 😂😂😂😂
@@bosladijackie8691 If he really wanted to do poly he needed to have his stuff together on his own before getting serious with a woman because, he’d have options and would’ve been able to find a woman that would be fine with it. Not something you can do if you split bills.
MEN TAKE NOTES
A man can’t truly wear the pants in the relationship if his woman is his equal partner because as illustrated equal means you can be vetoed whenever they think it’s necessary. Which means he can only lead if you approve of his leadership aka he doesn’t really wear the pants.
You married this man young before he fully developed as a man and his growth as a leader has been arrested because you actually call the shots and he follows you because he’s used to it now.
Men need to build their own lives first and only then invite women into it, otherwise it’s constant unnecessary negotiation. Use your 20’s to develop yourself. If you want submission from a woman you “must” pay the cost to be the boss. Women only truly submit to men when they understand that he doesn’t need them to sustain his life and he has options with other quality women.
If women know they can replace you easier than you can replace them they leverage it in order to get men to submit to them. Look at the above example he wanted poly but, submitted to his woman because he felt that she had more leverage to leave and find a man equal or better than him relative to his ability to find a woman equal to or better than her. Her man is in a weaker position in their relationship you can tell because otherwise they’d be poly but, they’re monogamous because that’s what the person who is actually leading in this relationship wants.
@@statsy7979 i wonder what made you think he didn’t have himself together before we got together 🤔🤔🤔😂😂😂😂 luv he already had his stuff together, own place, car, nice savings, he was a senior director for a big roadside company making at at least $300,000 a year luv... and another thing he is turning 41 on valentines day and i be 39 on feb 18th we are not too young luv.. but he already had his stuff together... he just wanted to take a new route on opening up his own roadside business and we did awesome last year for our first year. He knows he got options and i know he got options but he is focus on something different this time and he is loving it and I’m all for it... just because a person says something three years ago doesn’t mean they still on that same level... like he just said again he is good he had been there and done that (poly)... all women comes with something... and he don’t have time for multiple women anymore cuz that’s more money coming out the pockets cuz he knows women are not free. But to clear things up he most definitely got himself together.
@@bosladijackie8691 I'm happy to hear about my people doing well assuming he's also black. I associate the management of the finances to be a responsibility of the head of the household. Financial management is one of the main ways a man protects his family and builds his empire. I understand being too busy to entertain women though, if you're truly busy you have to prioritize and especially if you have a good woman already I'd focus on my business first as well. My fiancé and I are going through a similar situation but, we're 10 years younger. I'm 31 and she's 29, I also run a business that she helps with. We've talked about being able to meet another woman and she's okay with it under certain conditions but, I can relate to not really desiring to make time for it right now. Perhaps when the business is more established.
So when he gets tired and decide to cheat with another woman then what is it called
LMAO
The family grows
lol he is a hot mess
@@trevorbekun7039 The "family" will grow when the women get tired of that dusty bum and decide to cheat and bring in other men. They'd be fools if they didn't.
I was thinking this too, he would move her in and they would be one happy family 👪 ❤️
So he was cheating on her emotionally, sexually etc. She did not want to leave so she accepted it ?!
YES .....unagreed upon poly
FATHERS PLEASE HUG YOUR DAUGHTERS 😞
MELO SINCE 87 do more than hug them be their first love as a man
Hug your sons and teach them to be MEN. even if you have to learn as you are teaching.
MELO SINCE 87 WORD
Well Said!!!
I brought it up.to.my man. People need to open their eyes to old traditions. Her case is different because he cheated.
This is the one question that lets you know if someone really wanted to do something: ask them if she really had a choice for it to just be her and her husband or the three of them what would she want? She IS settling! She only considered it because he was cheating! Now he sitting there like he the man!
Exactly why she holds on to ( with a death grip ) the title of “ wife “
Exactly! 💯
It's not what she wanted from the jump for sure. But she loves him and if she's willing to change their relationship to maintain their family, then it aint nobody elses business.
Most women have self esteem issues they love competition with other women then when they get older they complain where all the good men at 😂
I don't think people understand that when you are legally married adultery is AGAINST THE LAW. That's why people lose all their shit over it. Lmao
Explain please
@@daniellefennell3877 Because marriage is a legally binding contract. 18 states has their own adultery laws. If someone catches their husband or wife committing adultery and they can prove it. You can also be fined for it plus lose your assets and any type of prenuptial agreement will be thrown out if a divorce is filed in response to the adultery.
@@berlingray8058 that's not true. And cheating isn't against the law. You don't lose anything, it's called divorce. If the husband cheats and makes 20k a yr, and the wife was faithful making 100k yr, she would have to pay him alimony. Ex (Wendy wilkiams)
@@PCSPITTER4NY He wouldn't get alimony bc if the wife could prove that he had sexual intercourse with another woman or 'women' all financial obligations to him would be thrown out. It's the proving of sexual intercourse is what matters. Anyone can say they want to end a marriage bc of infidelity but in the eyes of the law infidelity isn't emotional cheating or catching a spouse out on a date at a restaurant. They have to be caught in the act of having sex (which is why some people hire private investigators or place hidden cameras around their house) Its the evidence that protects people from spousel support or alimony.
@@berlingray8058 nope you are wrong. Wendy Williams is a prime example.
Let that man bring another man into that relationship... Let's see how real his beliefs are
Yes
See but it’s weird because usually the man is doing stuff with both of them Nd one on one but the woman is supposed to do it with each other to that’s why in this case it’s weird
In poly she can
Its all about agreeing what type of relationship a person wants, and finding somone/people compatible with that relationship model.
No Man would do that Stop it!
The wife's face tells so much that is not being said. So sad for her, she settled for this.
Don’t be sad for a choice that was educated and thought out
She didn't have to she's chosen to settle for this is the sad part because obviously she doesn't look happy if you ask me but who am I they might be
@@thomasharris5151 it wasn't though... mistress spilled the truth that he was cheating. And by trying to be okay with taking the power that she's okay with it but it never happened until he cheated and then wouldn't stop contacting her.
@@MissBezy she could leave, she chose it….
She always looks that way... like most woman look pissed even when they should be happy.
Wife: I chose an open marriage, I brought it up from tv
Girlfriend: yah he stepped outside his marriage and cheated
Me: 😭😮
Isn’t Monique in a open relationship that she chose first, is this the default wifey answer for settling on a DUSTY?!
Yoshiyahu Yisrael 😂 nooo have hope❤️😅
What makes the man dusty?.... If that's the case the women are dusty as well for accepting it....lol....but wouldn't you rather people just be honest with themselves than continuing to lie? ....
@@zulu3274 low self esteem, if his wife is bisexual I get it.
@@j-emcee4420 who do you believe has low self-esteem..?... And why do you think that?...
Interesting 🤔 I've noticed most men that entertain this seem to have dealt with rejection from a woman where it seems like they have to compensate for.
These poor women always look so unhappy in every interview. Also, it's so sad for this father to display this behavior to his daughter and son.
MsRESPECT90 : What “behavior?” He’s not faking. He’s living the way men of color have traditionally lived. Monogamy is unnatural. Most people would prefer it, just like many people would like to engage in similar-age incest with cousins but don’t because of social norms. I’ve got a cousin who raised the topic of incest with me, and hinted that she would do it if I was down and could keep my mouth shut. Everybody has that one cousin or relative that they find sexually attractive. Most people will deny it.🤷🏽♂️
@@DeCurtaRican I was with you up until the incest part. Seek professional help, good brotha.
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@Chelle Chelle I respectfully disagree, their children appears to love the decision and their father being truthful about his relationship. Truth is needed
@Chelle Chelle what's functional for your family is functional for your family. Truth be told whether you want to acknowledge it or not every family has some dysfunctional characteristics. If you are suggesting the social norm is what defines what's functional then you would have to adapt to the shift in society every few years. What's consistent throughout all is the truth, which is functional
Sin is attractive and "feels" good. Our flesh wants blessings without order. Smh
@@kelvinblunt6051 It still was a wicked, selfish, and sinful practice started by men. Doesn't matter if it was in biblical times or now.
Oh my God I was just discussing this with a friend like sin is become the new normal. It’s crazy.
@@kelvinblunt6051 Boy there is a reason why we are called Christians and not jews get your facts right or keep quiet
Ewww... thats the facts that people don't wanna hear
@@shayemoore wow smh you people just cannot accept the truth how life should be...
Omg please Lord bless me with a husband but not like this one🗣️
Sis I just got out of relationship where my boyfriend wanted that. I had to bounce.
My current boyfriend whom is the love of my life and the father of my child brought this up and says he’s gonna act on it and that he would love for me to be apart. Says he wants for us to look for a wife together
Also has a “work husband” on the side. 😴
@@alenarice7855 well at least he’s letting you know and not just cheating on you.
I want one wife
Also notice how the mistress knew about the wife the entire time. Like honestly how do you trust this woman who knew about you! I could see if the mistress didn’t know he was married but she knew wtf?
They hate each other and he just eating it up.
Imma just say y’all need a better representation of polyamory. The infidelity and saving face spoils the understanding people can gain. How do the women have different accounts of her entry
Nidiraa Bingo
For all those who think this is cool just imagine if one of these girls was your daughter or mother. These kids are going to be seriously confused
Anthony Well if they going for it, life about you settle for, if you want better job apply for it, having one woman is Americanize way of thinking
How are they kids and they have been married 20 years?
Just like kidds involved in gay marriage... Whats your pointe!?
Facts
This is the weakest argument ... if that's the case don't get married or date black women cause that could be your sister or cousin.
Why are some women so desperate to have a man that they degrade themselves in this manner ? And make themselves look ridiculous. What do you achieve by doing this?
Mike Mushipe what’s degraded? Black people where living like this before white people came along and told us it was wrong!
@@talkwithqueentia9036 would you personally do this yes or no ?
Mike Mushipe yes, I would!
@@talkwithqueentia9036 I respect your point of view,but let me just tell you that love is so much better when its just two people.
@@mikemushipe6023 according to you
The demise of your self worth epitomized!!
I'm saying! That situation just seems awful.
A lil louder for the people in the back!!!
@@CrystalReneeMusic why do you suggest that?
A lot of Baby mamas have no self worth
Oh hell no. 17yrs years of marriage only to agree for your husband's side piece to move in? I just can't deal.
He would have to be super rich like Floyd mayweather for me to be down with this. This dude look broke
Backshot Barbie word lol MFs be average at best but want a female to put up with above average shit
Backshot Barbie better b Bill Gates rich lol
So basically you have a price on your morality. No surprise, every woman does.
@@mistahjay8598 Excuse you sir.. No not every woman does.
💪👏👏👏👏👏👏likes dones and meat
They lying tho cuz they did another interview on a radio station and said they are all physically intimate together and sleep together. Why lie 🤥
They sleep in the same bed… Of course they have 3somes.
Wow, this is crazy, so they settled. He cheated on her and she chose not to let it go both women deserve better!
How could she love you just as much as he does, when she was sleeping with and falling in love with your husband?
she means they get along.
But can his wife have a partner
Aisha Wynter-Horton nah that’s where it’s fucked up
I dont think she wants one she's fully invested in that man or quiet as kept she's been cheating on him and she feels guilty so thats why shes so accepting...
Aisha Wynter-Horton that’s what I want to know
No. She needs to remain faithful
Sweetheart woman are not the same as men! Woman can’t have multiple partners only men! A woman may have many options but she will get a attached to only to one man! Wake up out of the lies and fake ideas of doing what men are birthed to do! 💯
This is a codependent relationship. The wife resentment will eventually come to the surface when a bad argument arises. She is having a hard time identifying her true feelings. Codependency relationship eventually turn toxic, which will lead to violence. This is going to end bad, mark my words. This is not polyamory.
This is not a polyamorous relationship.
Christopher Catchings not at all. 🤦🏾♀️
The wife accepted her husband's cheating by "inviting" his mistress into their marriage. She would rather demean herself and confuse her children than to lose him. No love story here!!!! SMH!!
@Tasheri agreed!!!
@Yoshiyahu Yisrael I don't believe that. All men do not cheat.
@AKAT1980 It is a fact that there's so much cheating going on among couples. However, that doesn't mean that everyone cheats. There are people, both men and women, who value marital vows and family. Sadly, individuals who cheat outnumber those who don't. Again, everyone doesn't cheat.
@AKAT1980 ok, I see you're point now. Yes, I agree with that. It's quite sad.
this is a cringe fest lol. Even if I was interested in a polyamorous/polygamist relationship (i COULD NEVAAAA), it DAMN sure wouldnt be with him AND the woman my man was cheating with. She sounds confident but she doesnt look like she fully believes whats shes saying, I feel kinda bad.
The wife is really open and proud to be with all the messy stuff. Smh.
Didn't David have 4 Wives?
What in the love and hip hop 😂 to each it's own 🤷♀️
Most women have self esteem issues then they complain about where the good men at smh leave their a**for the streets where they belong to pookies and ray Ray's
You're not happy sis it's all over your face we feel your pain ❤️🙏🏾
I believe in the Poly system because it’s the most natural out of the many systems of Intimate relationships but like my ancestors I would have them in separate households just because I know how jealous & possessive women nature can be! P.s some of y’all commenting are single af or getting cheated on as we speak
Women are jealous? Yes like men certainly are ..
Facts. The judges be sitting home alone! But 1st thing out of their mouth is they are alone because they choose to be, homegirl chose not to be alone and do the 'til death do us part'. Yea.. that part.
So what if your wife wants another man would that be okay?
Winona Ryder During mating season A bird receives many offers but only settles in one nest built the most sturdy for her offspring comfort & safety by the strongest male. Peacocks are entertained by many males but only the strongest male w/ the prettiest display of feathers will get to reproduce w/ her at a time. Younger stronger (usually brothers) lions who are ready to mate; together kill off older Lions & their cubs so that they can sew their own seeds & will eventually separate to prevent commingling of cubs & wives & to take control of more territory. As viscous as this sounds... it natural! If every male lion started kissing & humping on each other it would make headlines because it’s unnatural & the species as we know it would go extinct w/o human intervention. Even if you wanted to use the queen bee example... yes she is the queen of the hive & yes she has multiple sex partners but her existence is that of mere subjugation than rulership! She is tended to by the worker bees fed by them, has her waste disposed of by them but she rarely leaves the hive & is subjugated to a life of pregnancy until she is killed by the male bees n replaced if she makes mistakes in the breeding process! I can go on for days! We purport to be the smartest species of the animal kingdom but unlike the others we go against nature! No other species have their 12 yr old boys saying they are girls or Women wanting to be Men or in YOUR case PLAY men! Nature not only provides us w/ what we need to survive but shows us what is natural! & in our selfish ignorance we turn a blind eye to the truth. A man & his sons in his village provided food shelter & protection from outsiders! Whatever his wives needed, when food supply was short, When the roof leaked he was responsible! Modern times has left most of the task of men of yesteryear to we fix it fast service companies, women working like men in fields manly fields & daddy government taking care of the majority of women. Although alot may have changed but some primitive biological things remain! Why do all men cheat? It’s not because he doesn’t love you. Want you. Care for you. Need you. It’s Because their practicing what’s innately in them since the dawn of time & Eurocentric Christian ideology which most black women have adopted opposes NATURE!. Your question alone proves that your frequency is unnatural & off balance! Our thought systems as melanin beings were always poly... never mono in nature from the appreciation of the spirits to the many forms of relationships we have in society. I could go on for days! Sorry for the novel... would had rather spoke to you in person. BlessUp
PressurebussPipes & makesDiamonds 💯 no lies here
So did the wife suggest this or was he cheating? Im confused...
Girl, she was trying to clean it up
I caught that too😲
the sidechick practically exposed the wife on her lies lmaooo that was pretty shady of her they've probably been fighting or something
He did not commit adultery because the 2nd wife wasnt someone else's wife already. Other than that, no such thing as a man "cheating." Thats based on the biblical understanding, not the Amerikkkan bullshit that you're brainwashed by
K Banks he was cheating instead of leaving, she suggested it that way he can be himself.
I love that we're now seeing more black folks talking about Polyamory out loud. It's a different family dynamic but different isn't always a bad thing.
Particularly when all involved are on the same page.
This is a good interview, love it.
Porn, basically... But it is pure sicknesses that they are teaching it to their own children!!!!😔
Really 🙄🙄this is Sad😪 the wife basically has a low self esteem and knew her Hasband wasn't gonna stop cheating with Judy and settled on this, shameful 🤦🏾♂️
Julius Barber both!
I disagree, what's for you is for you. Their relationship is for them, everyone judge other people's relationship while being unhappy with their own significant other
@@jamaal9911 im not a judge, so i cant bring condemnation on them, so its my opinion on what they openly put out here.
Sad even exposing kids to this..
To spread awareness about the life style most people are aready doing it but arnt in the know lol
Prettysmile Det she talking about she seen it on tv smdh she slowwww
@@backshotbarbie2035 🙄😒😂Ok... like WTH
Prettysmile Det they expose LGBTQ
That's your opinion
I call BS on the whole concept. You aren't in a relationship at all if you have multiple partners. I always question the mindset of people willing to put up with sharing their man or woman with another person. Is their self esteem so low that they feel like they don't deserve a true commitment from their partner? If you are giving all of yourself to someone you have a right to expect them to give all of themselves in return. Conversely, if you aren't able to commit to someone don't call it a relationship when it's not. Be honest about it. You can't have it both ways in the long term because there will always be someone feeling left out. Eventually, the man or woman being shared will gravitate towards one partner more than the other(s) and feeling will get hurt. If there are kids involved that complicates them even more and now you have little minds getting confused. Please, please, please stop perpetrating this lie that you can have your wife and mistress too and everyone is going to be good with it. This isn't evolved or even mature thinking or living. It's selfishness of the highest order. The only truly benefiting from this arrangement is the one being "shared." All their needs are being met while giving little to nothing in return. Don't be a fool. Get your own man or woman. You don't have to settle for someone else's scraps. You deserve better than that.
Well said!🎯
Or be in a poly relationship without knowing you’re in one! Most people in a poly relationship now but they don’t know about the other person! So how is it bs when you can be open and honest with each without having a sneaky link
The only way this would work for me is if everyone is bisexual. I tried the whole sister thing is just doesn’t work. If you are both with her it’s on a different level. It can work if you all love each other. Everyone does it different though. Props to the wife for turning it around in her favor and keeping her family together
Well said
I would kick the creep out and go after him for child support. It is completely depraved for a man to be screwing multiple women under the same roof. Any woman who accepts this is desperate and has very low self esteem.
Homegirl on the right is the only reason i clicked on this video. But technically you cant be mad everyone is on the same page and theirs no lying, theirs a clear cut understanding and communication. Some of yall in monogamous relationships and dont have that
I just wish they didn't have kids involved
@@anthonyrmoten ill give you that one. Kids should be left out of that type of ordeal
@Nyarlathotep im intrigued...tell me more
It's definitely THERE and not THEIRS bro....smh gotdamn pls learn how to use and place your words
There was betrayal and cheating at first, did u not hear the 2nd girl say that him and her were in an affair behind the wife's back?? They came out to her and then she accepted it.
The wife ruined her life and her home by allowing this!🤦🏾♀️
Facts
Disgusting, sad and heartbreaking. Im sorry beautiful women that you've resolved to this. Man in the middle, this is not God's will.
@Ron Price and if you understand the heart of God, btw, the point of reading the bible, you'll see this is not his will. These were traditions of men, recorded in the bible, not his will. The heart of God as it relates to relationships is spelled out with Adam and Eve, respectfully. God bless.
Intellectual Pimpin
Jemel Moore 😂
@Lift1One hey I'm with you whatever way you can rationalize this finesse that works out so well for men I'm all for it LOL.. so yeah I agree with whatever you said
@Lift1One if you want to be the advocate and the mouthpiece for this Lifestyle by all means convert as many as you can Lol... write a dissertation for all I care LOL 😂💀😏💀
I suggest you write a book and title it "It takes a village" 😂😂💀💀
@Lift1One Man U won lol Now write the Damn book and I'll see you in Barnes and Nobles.Go head now
Soooo they sleep in the same bed but the wife claims it's platonic...this is probably the most unbelievable thing out her mouth. I'm not even gonna entertain the rest of it. She like it being cheated on, I love it (for her)
The comments here are crazy. I have a poly relationship and I was open and honest from the jump and we are crazy about eachother. And we do EVERYTHING together. All about love.
That’s you! This man cheated on his wife than she settled. If all parties know from
The jump. Cool but come on this isn’t the case. Just saying.
@@ajlive6419 the thing is that girls on here are talking like she dumb as hell for allowing another woman to be involved. At the end of the day, no matter how it started, if she loves him and decides to to make that work, that's a good thing for them. 🙏
I'm Poly. However, I do NOT like The Porter Family and them being a face for Polyamory 🙄It started out unethically which is the opposite of what Poly represents 🤦🏾♀️He's Ashy asf, and his partners are "pick me's" 🤮
This ain’t nothing but a 3 some given a different name that have children living in the same house. Both females are bisexual so that’s why it’s acceptable. Im pretty sure there’s more to the story on how they meet than what their telling. They probably wanted to add another female in their sex life. Found the other woman on social media. Who would be down with it. She probably didn’t have her own place still living with mom probably not even a job and jump at the opportunity.
sounds like you have personal experience...
Yoshiyahu Yisrael yeah right believe that if you want to
Using pride to cover shame
Why are the comments so negative??? They're clearly making it work. The second wife or spouse is expecting a baby and shes going to be a mom. They have been on countless shows over the years speaking on polygamy and their relationships. Why so much bad energy and naysay? Goddamn 🤦🏾♂️ some off ya'll are lonely, cheating and or getting cheated on. What's wrong wit them being honest and bringing the shit togetha to move forward as one team and unit?
Very well said. Just got into the comment's and I expect to see a lot of people who don't understand. It's sad
The wife operates out of a lot of masculine energy even to down to how she dresses. The girlfriend has feminine energy even in how she dresses!
Having two women ain’t all what people think. But everybody good with it and happy family. God bless them
Surely ain't. Women have so many personalities and different needs. It takes a man to be able to deal justly and not be emotionally jarred with the mood swings, demands , and jealousy
This is normal in some cultures
We should all allow people to live their best lives and accept everybody's decisions because if one of them didn't want to be in the situation they wouldn't.
Why would she let a woman sleep with her husband that she wouldn’t want to sleep with.
Polyamory is not the same as swinging or threesomes. A lot of hetero women are poly.
I understand their connection. Love is a strong emotion and sometimes two people can love the same person very strongly and the other way around. Why should one go through the pain of a break up if the other parties are okay with the joint relationship? We can’t judge anyone and their choices. If they are happy, that’s okay. This isn’t desperation, it’s maturity. No “investigation discovery” episode; just love ❤️
Lift1One hypocrisy and illusion of grandeur! If nothing, your comments have definitely made me chuckle...
Lift1One thank you. I agree with you as well. Society try’s to put everything in a box. They like it when your not educated and aren’t confident in what you want in life.
Yea but is it love if the man is a simp.
Lift1One thanks. I'll check it out🙌
EVERYBODY AINT ABLE!! KEEP IT PIMPIN..PIMPIN!!!
Its not as bad as people think! And it happens. I understand and i dont judge
Kids this day in age are going to be screwed up. I wonder what would he say if they want two dudes in the beds with him
Screwed up...aka fu*ked up for generation to come smh
I don't think this is anyones business. Like why tell folks? Live your life and be happy.
Right
This guy is my hero! respect level rose when I saw he got the kids in on his shenanigans, brother really tamed the whole household
😂😂
No his dusty ass didn't tame shit, he just got with two empty-headed FOOLS with no self-worth. That shit wouldn't have went down like that with a woman who had sense. As a matter of fact a woman with sense wouldn't give him the time of day.
The way you described that is not what poly is about , this is no more that a wife accepting his side chick
This is normal in africa. It was very recent when Europeans made monogamy a compulsory life style.
Amin Jama and look at Africa...
@@nappyqueen86 Took the words out my mouth. lol.
@@nappyqueen86 the state of africa has nothing to do with polygamy. If there is one thing history taught us is no one fly high forever. This Anglo-Saxon order will come to an end just watch in next 50 years. How things turn up.
@@ashslay5558 you are looking things in the wrong glasses sis. Wear your own.
@Nyarlathotep What I am saying is. The way things started, him cheating first is unacceptable. He should have told the wife first then bring her home if she conceded then its ok. And it could've been better if he gave them two separate houses. May be neighbors.
People are wired differently, some by default, some by influence. Whenever we're confronted with something we're socially not familiar with by default, some of us panic and reject, some embrace because they're able to. Polygamy is not for everyone, just like monogamy is, deep down, not for everyone either, especially men. Many lead a false secret life just to conform, so to those who are brave enough to publicly bend the norms for their true happiness....my respect to you. As long as they're all genuinely happy and no one is hurting or getting hurt, it's their life.
He explained that well, I hope people get it now and don’t confuse what poly is
I’m TOTALLY against this ..... just because they are NOW being honest , doesn’t make it right!! And i really think when u have kids this is a SELFISH decision to make !
This has been the way societies have been for thousands of years. Women need to learn to share again.
Awesome!!!
So I am understanding that her husband is not her lover , he is just a man that she is married to. So if it works for them more power to them. I rather be single! The wife is t teaching his girlfriend how to be a wife. Then the pattern will continue his girlfriend will marry the husband then he will want to marry someone else then the cycle will continue.
This dude actually found a female unicorn wife. Theres hope for us men after all.
Poly is not a free cheat pass. That’s the only reason why I don’t like the ignorance Bx men think that it’s acceptable to be in the streets with multiple women
Most women have no self esteem especially black women then complain when they get older where the good men at 😂 leave them for the streets where they belong 🗑️ can
I don't think most of you realize that ALOT of people are in Polygamous relationship and DON'T EVEN KNOW IT!!!! 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤣😂🤣 Y'all this is completely natural it's nature!!! Look around!!! A woman is NOT weak because she accepts this!!! You're weak if you want a man to be exclusive to you only while not meeting all of his NEEDS! This goes for men and women!! I rather know than not know, but hey, that's just me!!!🤷🏾♀️
Good for them! No one has the right to dictate to someone else how their relationship "should" be. More than half of people are out there cheating anyway so if all parties consent to the way this is set up and it works for them, errbody else should mind their own business. Focus on those who are unhappy, being mistreated, abused emotionally/physically...blah blah blah. Love is Love; Live and let Live. IMHO
I agree.
If that’s all the values that the wife has for her self then it is what it is.
The way life is going polygamy is going to be a necessity to help save the black family!!
Yeah women with multiple men. That's the only way the shit will happen.
@@shayemoore won't work...who is the daddy with more than one husband??
@@larrylove5081 Both men. And it will work. A woman can organize her husbands any way she wants. Men are sharing nowadays anyway whether they know it or not. I know three side dudes right now. The women they are with are married. All corporate women. One of the guys has been with his married girlfriend for six years. Men don't have a choice, they'll either share knowingly or unknowingly.
This is a beautiful situation. Although the other woman isn't married to the brotha on paper yet, they are still married in the spirit.
Super Awesome show, u get a like and share my friends
We are going to HELL! Anything goes these days and nobody seems to care! Heaven help us! I don't know which is more DISGUSTING, the cheating unknowingly or the acceptance of it by the wife! LOW SELF- ESTEEM at its best!
This goes against what God made marriage too be which is one man and one woman. He can't truly love and honor his wife because the second relationship started because he stepped outside the covenant of his marriage smh......
Man idek what to say about this I swear. This is wild fr 😭😭😭💀
Can't wait to find my triad😍😍💯
Do you mean with another man and gf/wife?
Sounds like he gave her a ultimatum🤷🏼♂️ and she loved him enough to go through with it because the kids as well. I wonder where they are now
Wow, people can say what they want, these poly relationships are nothing new but they are just plain sinful
I love the wife her open mind brought this comfort to her family
Great video and very informative shalom