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...and while we're at it, ladies, always remember and never forget: If he cheated on her with you, he will surely cheat on you, too.
My mom told me that 50 years ago.. Also once a cheater always a cheater..and Time wounds all heels. 😊(heel was an old word for jerk, meaning he steps on a woman' s heart and crushes it) still true , these sayings . But rest assured what goes around comes around...when they are old and some little dainty thing takes ALL their money and laughs them out of bed.😊
Cheating isn't just "acting on it"...you're lying, deceiving and hiding a relationship with someone not your partner(s). Emotional cheating exists and it sometimes hurts worse from what I've seen
Thank you, nice to see folks actually have emotional intelligence, seems harder and harder to come by these days. Which is why I've always wondered why it isn't taught in schools.
@@ingGS always one bad egg. You go practice what you preach but not with me or over here. Personal choice
@@ingGS only cheaters and children think and say things like that, normal grownups are mindful how their behavior effect others. Which ever category you fit in, isn't a good look for your whole grown ass.
@@ingGS NO, you can argue polyamory is natural (having multiple partners) but cheating/lying is not "natural". If you want an open relationship, then have an open relationship! Don't lie!
@@ingGS I'm guessing you don't realize that your reaction shows you also use DARVO as a defense. Also illustrating your lack of emotional intelligence.
“Or you could just not cheat.” - Miss Charlotte
Sage advice from our Petty Potato Queen
Every time I open RUclips, my bf teases me by crying loudly ‘Hi everybody, welcome back’ - think I’ve been watching too many of your vids lol
A) that isn’t teasing, it’s jealousy and B) one can NEVER watch too much Miss Charlotte!
Lmaooooooo 😂😂😂😂
Lmao my husband has been doing this to me since I found charlotte a few months ago and became obsessed 😂😂
My ex cheated but regardless of how long we'd been together, I was officially done. Boxed all his tat and shipped it back to his mum, I refuse to forgive that behaviour (among other things) and will move on asap. I don't regret any decision I made, I deserve much better than him. Thank you for Charlotte for cheering up my day 💖
It’s going to be tough for a while. Inner pain will subside in due time.
Remember, that some ‘EssTeeDees’ are permanent and life threatening.
Stay safe and keep on thriving. ✨💫
Just hang in there. There are many good, faithful men out there. Yeah, I have been cheated on and it hurts like Hell. What really hurts is she turned my son against me and he still doesn't want anything to do with me after some 50 years.
Whatever you do do not move on asap. You need to heal whether you know it r not
@@woodworkingandepoxy643oh definitely no person lol, I haven't got the wherewithal to get into a relationship right now and wouldn't want to. Sorry if my comment was slightly vague in that regard but I'm doing what you suggested, taking time to be by myself, find my own confidence, my own self worth. Relationships can wait, I want to be happy in my own company first 🙂
@@robertkartechner5850I can't imagine the pain of that and losing your son to that manipulation, hopefully one day, just maybe, he'll see the light and you'll find one another again. All my blessings to you 💕
Okay.. the girl that plugged her business is a genius. Women will always support women when it comes to this so what a great way to make money off of it!!
My ex husband had multiple online affairs during our marriage (exchanging nudes, discussing our sex life, laughing about my flaws) and let me tell ya'll this: if you forgive them even once, you've just taught them that this behavior is acceptable as long as they apologize. Zero tolerance babes!
Wait, WHAT? They were discussing YOUR and his sex life and ridiculing YOUR flaws?? What disgusting behaviour. Sounds like both are projecting. So sorry that happened to you.
@@alexas-kitchen you never vent to friends or family about your partner? Same thing don't be a hypocrite haha it's like people who say they don't gossip and hate gossip... Thats at best less than 1% I'm sure
I'm also guessing it was an easy leave. It's a lot harder once you're married. Sharing everything. Have kids. I don't think cheating is the ultimate end in most cases which I understood as I got older and just watching friends family and my own marriage. Everyone's situations are dif and everyone is quick to not hold any blame on their part as to why they were cheated on (in particular long term and more commited relationships)
@@rubthesleep Never vent to your friends or family about your partner! It RUINS their perception of the person you've chosen to be with and makes them question how you value yourself. It's fine to discuss general concerns, but always in a supportive light. You're supposed to be a team, after all. Once you start ranting negatively about your partner to people who's business it definitely ISN'T, it's the beginning of the end.
@@rubthesleep did you really just try to compare venting to your family and friends vs cheating and ridiculing flaws and insecurities WITH the person you’re cheating with ???? It sounds like your husband cheated on your and you’re projecting the fact that you’re upset you stayed with him…
@@TheSpaceMomma yes because it's the same thing and actually venting to your family can be worse because family shouldn't know your business. They take sides and then hold grudges when they feel a family member is being treated badly even if they don't have the whole story. It can't be helped
I was newly single and decided to give Facebook dating a go. I didn't realize that it was connected to some of my other social media apps linked to my Facebook and so they could see my Instagram photos. One photo was of me breastfeeding my daughter when she was a newborn. This one guy stood out to me (for the wrong reasons.) after he decided to send me a four paragraph message explaining the importance and benefits of breastfeeding. So anyways, a few days later I noticed his photos were different and I checked out his profile. His bio was changed by his partner, explaining that while she was working AND taking care of their newborn, he was online trying to find local hookups. I felt really bad for her because her mansplaining boyfriend seemed like a total d bag.
My (now ex) husband pulled the same crap as the second story. He was texting (and emailing) 2 old girl “friends” and it was beyond spicy. He stupidly left one email up I went to use the computer and I saw it. He confessed after Valentines Day when one of these women sent roses to his work place. Nothing had happened, both of these women lived thousands of miles away.
18 years later-one day he asked if he could charge his phone where I was sitting because he couldn’t find his charger and went back outside to work on his car. I looked. He was texting another woman and they were confessing their love and joy to each other.
I confronted him and he was caught. We were married for 23 years and together for 25.
Cheaters are going to cheat. I should have left him when he was first texting the 2 women. Then I wouldn’t have wasted 18 more years with the douche.
Yep , shame you didn't . To many stay
Same babe. Just know that none of it was your fault- the accountability lies with him and him alone 💜
sorry
My condolences. I regret wasting the 2 that I did "Trying to get over it and make it work." but 18?? I hope that you're livin' your best life now.
I feel ya. Mine wasn’t that long but I dated two guys in a 10 year span And both of them cheated on me left and right and I would forgive them or wonder if they were cheating and basically wasted 10 years of my life on two pieces of crap human beings who sucked the life out of me.
I used to have a friend where her father cheated on her mom, her husband cheated on her and they got divorced... but then she started an affair with a married man and swore to me that he was going to leave his wife. I just laughed and said, "They don't leave their wives. Their wives kick them out once they find out and the men goes to the side piece afterwards". I love her but after a while, I questioned if she had brain damage.
If someone was to cheat on me that would be the end of the relationship, I also appreciate ladies who feel the same way. I might be able to forgive, but in truth I could never forget. I’m also well aware of the damage my father did, if you have children you’re cheating on your entire family.
Oh i feel you there.. my dad got caught two times and my mom forgave him both times. For years,I didn't know about the first incident because it had happened when I was just a kid. When my dad cheated again years later and with the same woman,my mom told me and my brother everything. I told her to kick the asshole to the curb but she couldn't do that. They're still together but that shit changed our family and I will never forgive my dad for destroying my mom's confidence.
My ex-husbands “cheating” started with messaging. That’s also how I caught him. He had had many, many affairs. I had a million reasons to stay but acted on the one reason to leave. I now have the respect of the one person who deserves it most. Me!
I love how you worded that.
I had to laugh at the one where the cheater sends the same generic message to everyone. My ex did that, you wanna know how I know? Because I catfished him multiple times - while we were married! While I was deeply hurting, a strange satisfaction came with it.
Hey, nice name!
My mom's name is Lynette! Lol
My ex was cheating after many years of marriage. I cracked the code on their cell phone, (easy, they used our zip code for every numeric code). They were on multiple dating sites and had "exclusive" relationships with a half dozen people. I bided my time for over a year. Met with a lawyer and protected all my own financial assets. Used our joint account for all my purchases, since they were using it to buy gifts for their lovers. On the day they got served with divorce papers, I got up at 4am and forwarded texts between the lovers, who had previously thought they were the only one, (except for a few who knew they were married, but cheating). Including some where they made fun of one lover to another lover. That morning, angry texts started arriving from everyone. By they time they left to meet with the guy serving the divorce papers (I tricked them into thinking it was a different meeting), many of the lovers had broken up with them.
Revenge is indeed a dish best served cold.
This was so incredibly satisfying to read.
I love this! You properly schooled him. Good on you! 👍
Oh wow, that's how you do it! Bravo!
@@judycroteau482 and here was me assuming the person getting schooled was a woman
@@tiggerpup_nz I just reread the original post and realized that the OP only used the “they/them” pronouns to describe the cheater in the post. My bad for not catching that on my initial first fast read of the post. Oops! I guess that it is my own personal internal bias showing for assuming that the cheater was a male as so many are in my experience.
I was just admiring that the OP was so clever for masterfully executing such a delicious revenge. Chef’s kiss! 😘
My ex-husband and I had only been married a few months when I physically caught him with a female friend of ours in her car with her in the floorboard "pleasuring him". I was SO infuriated that I hoisted an L shaped meat smoker on the hood of her car. That right there ended our marriage. Cheating is THE END.
I swear, I feel like cheating has completely gone out of control. I feel like every second person is a cheater these days, it's so messed up... even if no one ever found out, I couldn't bring myself to do something so foul to my partners' honour and emotional/mental well being behind their back... when you are NORMAL, your instinct is to protect the ones you love, NOT hurt them.
People are just more aware of it because of social media and cameras being everywhere now
Loved the dance party with the dog and cat. Made me snicker.
I just saw the title of this video and I have a story. A woman I know was finishing her degree and borrowed her husband’s laptop for an assignment. She began to type in a website she needed for an assignment; it autocompleted to a dating site.
Her first husband had cheated on her so she was going to make this marriage work. She confronted him; he said he was just curious since they’d been fighting (oh! And they had a toddler at the time) and swore he’d stop.
Thirteen years later, he went on a solo trip out of the country and while he was gone she discovered he’d been on at least two more sites. They ended up divorcing a few months later, and it turned out he’d been on a variety of sites for most of their marriage. He was also late coming home from work/the gym constantly.
She’s now with a guy who always is where he says he is, and treats her kindly and with respect.
I'm so glad this had a good ending
I'm starting to think this type of behavior never just stops.
If you've caught him out on one thing it's probably just the tip of an iceberg in reality.
As a wise person once said, "If you have to cheat, then you're in the wrong relationship"
No.
Plenty of people cheat even when their partners are good and caring.
Cheating is a decision of one and only one person- THE CHEATER.
@@annoyedshedevil yes, that's exactly what I meant!
Listen - I separated/divorced my ex. We went through our house and said, you want this? Yes no? That? Ok.
It’s doable. Also I was married for almost 25 years.
Edit : also when I left, I had little to nothing and started all over. Folks, don’t stay with someone you don’t want to be with.
Yup, I had nothing when I got divorced. I just needed out.
@@seppyq3672 Me too... wanted no ties to the ex. Got flack from family about not insisting on monthly $$ payments since I had a better paying job than him during our marriage, and had helped him pay off things like his vehicle and motorcycle. But I knew he would never follow through because he'd rather have "fun" than pay the bills. Imagine my "surprise" when a year after our divorce he declared bankruptcy.
Twice I’ve had to start over with nothing, less than nothing, really. It can be done. My advice from doing this part wrong: don’t let the hurt make you bitter because bitterness makes you weak, tired, and vulnerable to the next POS that inevitably comes along. Get stronger and wiser instead, and move on with grace and dignity. Took me a few years to get the hang of that.
@@crystalh450 Me too Crystal. I took 15 years to come to terms with feeling betrayed. And even longer to forgive myself for not being able to "fix" it. Still don't seem to trust enough to want to try dating. But I'm really enjoying being by myself... doing what I want when I want...lol!
Regarding cheaters (whether in person, on line, or on the phone): Can't believe I'm going to quote Dr. Phil, but this is really good advice - he says if you wouldn't do it in front of your partner, you shouldn't do it. Period.
"If you want an itch (you'll have to scratch for months), swipe right." LMAO
Charlotte you should start an agony aunt column cos you giving advice would be hilarious lol
Oh Yeah !! Maybe not all that serious but it'd sure be totally hilarious and probably . . . . wait for it . . . PETTY !!! Yipee!
Seriously - this also came to mind as she started reflecting on the stories!! “Hey, Charley!” or some such series with subscribers!
Yes
Guy I was actually in love with cheated on me. I confronted him with a yes/no question (are you having sexual contact of any kind with another person?). He went into this long excuse and I pointed out it was a yes or no question for a reason. He said "yes...but". I wished him the best of luck in his new relationship and ended it then and there.
Not gonna lie, I came very close to emotionally cheating on my now ex when I was in my late teens. We had just gotten back together (we dated briefly when we were 14, if you can even call it that) and I wasn't in a very good spot mental health wise. In all honesty I think that was the reason we got back together. I was taking every bit of attention I could from guys because I had gone through a traumatic event and was desperate to be validated and not feel as alone and broken. Then, an old guy friend from HS and I reconnected and started talking. I didn't really think much of it at the time, until it got flirty. Suddenly, my head was all over the place and I was confused. Who did I like? Did I ever really have feelings for either one? Or was I just depressed and getting too attached to anyone that showed the least bit of interest? It wasn't until I talked through the situation to my therapist and she kinda called me out (in the way that therapists do) that I realized that I was in the wrong. So, I broke up with my bf and stopped talking to the friend. I got more serious with my therapy to unpack why I did it . Feel bad for what I did to both of them and I'm not gonna make excuses. Just cause you're in a bad spot, doesn't give you the right to string people along. Sorry to the both of them. Hope they're happy and found someone who can treat them better than I did.
If you catch someone cheating , don't try talking to them . Just leave and block them . Move on
Some of these people just need to STOP. Why would you let yourself "love" someone who doesn't even respect you? Work on that. And stop making excuses for staying in crappy situations. You're just going to resent them for it later and then you'll be sorry you didn't get out way earlier. BTDT
Facts! I seriously don't get it. The men in my life have always treated me with the utmost love respect for they knew nothing less would be acceptable.
True. And they don’t love you if they’re cheating so it’s a one way relationship
Well said!
As someone who was IN a relationship like that, it's either often because you don't feel like you deserve any better version of love or that no one else would want to be in a relationship with you.
Both are severe self hatred or lack of self worth. I would rather be single
Yeah it hurts when you get another person involved I can't tell you how many times an partner left me for an ex that treated them so badly because they still loved them and the excuse of leaving me is that they've known them longer.
Being single is soooooo underrated!! 😌 I broke up with a cheating loser and I have never been happier and more at peace! Anxiety and stress just disappear and you actually have time to look after yourself 🥰
Decided to be forever single over 5 years ago after more cheating BS and I've never been happier!
You show people how to treat you. If they wrong you & you don't call it out OR you let them off the hook lightly for it, you teach them that walking all over you is okay. If you don't want them to do that, don't let them off lightly.
@@tiffanykim2773 Naw, Naw. She's got to kick his sorry a** to the curb.
That guy who found the texts on his girlfriend’s phone needs to grow a backbone. Life’s too short for that 💩
Yep. Reminds me of the torture a friend went through years ago. I didn’t advise him to leave her; I advised him to quit smoking the 🌱 and eat healthier. He started working out, got super healthy, and quitting the 🌱 gave him loads of clarity and motivation. He dumped her. She went on to cheat on the guy she had been cheating with. After that, I gratefully never heard of her again. My friend is married to a smart and sassy lady who I respect so much, and has two of the most gorgeous little girls now.
@Crystal H, oh yeah. She’s driving one of his two cars? He can sell that one and get deposit money for a new rental, or pay an attorney to LEGALLY disentangle that woman from him if she won’t split amicably. And that’s just one thing he can do. I went through nine long months of technical unemployment way back when, but during those months, I worked every odd job that came my way. There is money and satisfaction to be found in the hustle, not to mention wisdom and skill building.
The best revenge I saw came from a “girlfriend” of the guy who lived in the apartment across from me. He had many “girlfriends” and wasn’t shy about it. He drove a black Ford Expedition with nice rims, he took good care of it. One of the “girlfriends” either found out she wasn’t the only one or he gave her something bc she had bumper stickers made that said “I have herpes” and “I have a small d*ck”. She covered the entire suv and rims with the bumper stickers. When he came out the next morning he was screaming and cussing. I was sitting in my car letting it warm up and had tears coming down my face from laughter.
Daaaaaaamn!!! That’s cold to mess with the car but well deserved! 🤣🤣🤣 I’d be crying with laughter too. 💀💀💀
Please tell me you took pics....😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@@SonjaElizabethTeal unfortunately, I didn’t and I’ve been kicking myself over that missed opportunity. He tried pulling off some of the bumper stickers, but he was such a mess that all he did was cuss. He did have a lot of women coming over to his place, it was bound to happen one day.
@@J10969 I wish I had taken pictures of it bc when I say it was covered, there was no black paint showing. Our apartments were located near the back while our parking spots were in the front, so he had no idea what happened. He was cussing so loud people came out their apartments. 🤣🤣
@@marychoppins8140 that’s great! 😂😂😂 as someone who works on cars I can tell you that would have been a pain in the ass to take all those off. 💀
I worked with this guy who was married. He was nuts. He pursued me with some really crazy scenarios of how the three of us would work. It is cheating when they are emotionally invested in the other person. Emotional cheating is defiantly cheating. Fortunately, an incident ( not related) happened and the employer moved him from where I worked.
You always make my day so much better Charlotte even if it is listening to you talk about cheaters lol 😂 ❤️❤️❤️
EDIT: I wrote that before the 8:49 mark about Georgie, and it just reinforces my initial statement. Yup!
Whenever I think of the cheating, I just think of the venereal diseases they are all spreading around along with the mental and emotional damage it causes to the couple, kids that may be involved and the circle of people close to those who are both the cheater, the one being cheated on, and beyond.
To the guy who doesn't know what to do about his girlfriend sending messages to other dudes, and anyone in a similar situation. You already know what to do, you just haven't accepted it yet. But denying reality will get you nowhere and we will all happily give you a reality check if need be. If you're staying with someone only because of problems (accommodation, money, kids, marriage...) then you're staying for the wrong reasons and using those issues as excuses. Ask yourself this instead, if there were no problems at all, would you stay? If you could pack your things with the snap of your fingers and solve any issue that make you feel like you have to stay, then what? It's hard, it's annoying and you wish you could forget about it instead, I get it. Still, you can't procrastinate your own well-being, make a hard choice now, and make it easier for yourself later.
Prepare your exit, take your time to sort your feelings if you need, think on how you'll announce it to them, take precautions if need be to make sure you keep your stuff, find a new place to stay, etc, but DO IT. Taking what seems to be the "easy way" (staying) will only turn out to be the hardest path down the road. You can't get back the years you waste.
Well said. I'm glad that I read this, I'm currently in the same situation but he cheated with lots of pr********s online. Currently looking for work but no luck. I'm so stuck right now. Even if he says he's changed, I can never trust him ever again. We've been together for 4 years now and he's been cheating on me for 2 years until I confronted him. I want to live a better life because I know that I deserve it, but depression has been sucking the life out of me. I'm still hurt and I'm sure I will be until I move on from him. I can never forgive a cheater, nobody should.
Anyway, thank you so much for this, and I do hope that the guy has already made his decision to leave that girl. Nobody deserves to be cheated on. If you don't love your partner anymore, then just end the relationship. Don't cheat! Don't give us unnecessary trauma.
It’s just so sad and fucked up when you love someone. Cheating is the worst.
@@mikunico7144 It's such a shitty situation, I'm glad my words at least help if only a bit. It sounds like you're in somewhat a toxic relationship or at least with some manipulative guy. It is no wonder you are in a depression. And it's fine not to be fine. We're taught to fight depression, but sometimes it's better to just feel like shit for a while, and get your strength back by letting everything go. Crumble down and then, rebuild yourself better, stronger and healthier. If depression is like winter, then I'm sure you're working towards your spring
I met this guy on POF, we added each other on Playstation.. and we didn't really talk after that. Weeks later I get a message from him.. but it's not him it's his wife!! I guess she thought we were dating and I didn't even know the guys name. Lol. I didn't even recognize his username so I had no idea who she was talking about. She tried saying I was a home wrecker and whatnot. I had to explain to her that we met on a dating site! I even took a screen shot of his dating profile and sent it to her. It said he was single and looking for relationship.. . That was a really weird experience for me. Lol
Stalking YT at noon for a Charlotte video!!!
I met my boyfriend on tinder almost a year ago I was so shocked I met someone real🤣🤣
Yeaaaah that’s like digging in the garbage for a fresh burger…..
I was on tinder out of pure boredom when COVID hit, I was happy being single. The amount of abusive trashy guys on there was immeasurable. Then I started chatting to a guy who could actually hold an intellectual conversation. After a week of chatting decided to meet up just as pals for a drink. Just celebrated two amazing years together and planning on moving in together next year. There are a few good genuine ones on there but it’s like finding a needle in a haystack lol.
@@kerrysmith1385 absolutely!! I met my husband on Hinge, so I know it is possible!! It gets very disheartening unless you have very strict boundaries. Even then, I allowed my husband to convince me and I am so so glad I did. We are pregnant with our third little garbage burger baby 🤣🤣🤣
Going on 4 years with my boyfriend who i met on tinder!
A year ago my husband met a girl on Facebook, started texting and exchanging nudes with her on WhatsApp. It was going on for 6 weeks before I caught him. He was planning on hooking up with her while visiting his daughter. I called her, explained everything and blocked her numbers. I confronted him, he attempted suicide and spent a week in the hospital. We’ve been trying to work on all of this since then. Newsflash… I can’t trust him and still can’t erase the nudes from my mind. I’ve been in therapy since then also. It’s killing me.
So sorry 😢
It isn't worth staying if it's eating at your brain like that. Please do what you think is possible for you...if that means leaving him, do so. You are not obligated to stay
I sincerely hope you're in a much better place now, and dumped that POS.
Oh, how I love creative, petty people. Thanks Charlotte.
The editing on this video is on point today. Made me laugh. Good job Team Charlotte. (Of course, we love Charlotte, but needing to share the love)
Aaaah, just in time! I'm sick in bed today and it's always so awesome to see Charlotte released a new video! Perfect cheer up. 😭😍
Feel better
@@argrette Thank you. 💖💖💖🥰
Broke up with a fiance' because I found out he was *thinking about* the mere possibility of dating someone else. So glad I left him before it went further. It was an amicable breakup and he was very very sorry later, because the other chick was... well, she wasn't ME. 😎😂
I downloaded Tinder at one stage when I was single. After finding a recently married, new father I knew on there, I deleted the app as I didn't want any part of being with a cheater and didn't know how or who to trust.
So glad I never lived with a guy before my husband. Practically speaking, I wanted to be able to cleanly break from someone completely if they cheated.
I’m single and refuse to go on tinder. I just talk to ladies around me and see who is or might be interested, but I’m really picky. No alcoholics, no druggies, no pot smokers. And they have to have their life/finances together!
Same bro! I’d rather be alone the rest of my life than settle for any of this BS. 😅😂
I don't call that being picky. Those are good life choices to avoid. I agree with all those you've listed, but personally, I would add 'no smoking,' not just 'no pot smoking,' but that's me. 😉
@@lokicooper4690 I meant to add that, especially because I have SVT and nicotine severely exacerbates the condition to the point the just one breath walking behind a smoker usually starts and episode and I have to go to the ER.
I love how excited Charlotte is when she makes videos
Cheating starts in the head before it goes to the bed....
That to me is an emotional affair...in my opinion, that is way worse then physical cheating.
You are sharing your most deepest feelings with someone instead of your partner.
This has had to me before, my boyfriend was emotionally cheating on me. He was telling this woman his fantasy, and his dreams.
When I confronted him about it, he said he didn't have relations with her so he wasn't cheating. He felt like he couldn't talk to me about certain things which also hurt because we was together for 14 years and with 2 kids. Yes we wasn't married and I'm glad we never did. There was other things that was going on in our relationship that wasn't good either.
I'm the type of person who don't believe in a divorce.
I never got over the betrayal, and never got married to any one else.
I have been working on myself, finding myself and learning my worth. 💜💜
I say stay till you get another job and apartment then move out when she’s at work 😂
Don't forgive the cheater , or better yet , forgive and forget the cheater . 🙂 . And make sure to send your cheating partners texts to Charlotte so she can roast him or her in her next video . 😀
As someone who is at the tail end of a divorce I can verify, do NOT remain with a cheater. I remained because we had kids but I feel like my 30's were wasted staying with someone who obviously will never love me. I deserve better, my kids deserve better, and you deserve better. Don't waste your life, get out there and live it!
I once had a boyfriend leave his plenty of fish account open on MY computer. So naturally I sent all the women he had been communicating with an email saying so sorry but he had been cheating on his girlfriend and had herpes. LOLOL. Do not regret.
I absolutely LOVE the lady promoting her boutique, GET IT GIRL XD
😂😂 I literally said ‘people get divorced all the time’ at the same speed as you. My friend started laughing cos it was exactly in unison
Don't give your Beau a 'free pass' -- things will never be the same and they will think they can do it again...
I recently just broke up with my ex because i caught him cheating me. I have known him for 16 years and im currently 24. I was in a state where i had no family or friends. There was this girl i didnt like online, him and her talked alot and did alot of Roleplay for dungeons and dragons. Normally not a jealous person but he seemed more about her than me. Finally one day i asked him if he have feelings for her, he lied saying no. Well he had many messages with her talking about confessing love and shit. Never been an angry person but i was seeing red, i packed up my stuff and drove to my family while he called and texted me about him being sorry and he was drunk but he been texting this girl since the beginning of the year....
@@crystalh450 it was hard cause i loved him and all but i know if that girl was there physically he wouldve cheat. Thank you i do deserve better
I'm so sorry. Not everone who plays the game are like that. Believe it or not, there are plenty of people who play for the collaborative storytelling, not just to get into someone else's pants. It's stories like these that drag Dungeons and Dragons and other RPGs into the mud. Why can't people just keep DnD separate from other types of role-playing? Newsflash: Family-Friendly Dungeons and Dragons can be more fun and versatile. Sorry for the rant, but DnD has been on my mind a lot lately as I'm about to DM my first campaign. For prospective players out there, please don't let people like this influence your opinion of a game that has united Tolkien-style fantasy lovers for over 50 years. Thank you for coming to my TEDx Talk.
@@JCBug555 i actually play alot of dnd so i know its not always like that. When it was during sessions of rp it seemed that the girl roleplayed with him more than anyone else which is why i started to feel a bit ehh about it, but i didnt think anything about it since i didnt think he would.
@@havocgravedigger7278 and you will find better.
It hurts so badly and it's so hard not to go back and forgive but once you get to keep distance day per day.. it does get easier. Just need to stay strong and block them from contacting you.
After months or a year you might look back and realize other f-ed up stuff.
Sincerely, Been There, Done That
Was so in love and desperate to do anything. Now looking back I just want to vomit and forget
I found the fiancé of a girl I worked with on Tinder. 👀👀 I took a screenshot and sent it to her….. I didn’t see or hear about him after that. But it did make me feel bad. 😫😫😫
I would absolutely want to know, so don’t feel bad. You are not the cheater!!!
And here I was being a little gloomy about being single still after going to my brother's finances bridal shower. I was thinking "Well maybe I can try online dating again." After watching...NOPE I'm good! I'll stick to awkwardly talking to guys I meet at work and hope there paying attention (they usually arent).
I interpreted "Yes he is thanks" on the first one to be the fiance using his phone. Basically pretending to be him messaging that chick to see how she'd respond.
Guys, as a person who's been on both sides of the cheating spectrum:
1. If you cheat, there's something that's really lacking in your relationship: might be loss of feelings that was hard to stomach, might be loss of communication, might be loss of having activities with your partner that lefts you feeling misunderstood and undesirable / let alone if this partner was physically and emotionally abusive towards you.
2. If you get cheated on, it leads you to a whole different headspace, where you question everyhting that has happened in this relationship. You again feel unworthy and undeirable
So it's most likely two sides of the same coin. However, there are people who strain from their relationships due to their own satisfaction, regardless how good their partner is. I just came to give my unpopular opinion, that people who cheated, might change, because people are meant to change and evolve. So if you cheated, might be due to many reasosn, but that doesn't mean you're going to cheat for the rest of your life and that you're always going to cheat. People who cheated appearantly missed something and shall go to therapy, should heal adn should stive for change.
Can we talk about how immature it is for so-called adults to walk away whenever they are confronted for things they did wrong? What is that all about? If they were big and bold enough to do the crime they should be prepared to face the consequences right? So why it is so hard to face up to these conversations? I think more people should call them on their BS. If they expect to treated like adults they should first act like one, right? Is this not something we were taught way back in elementary school?
What I realized is that there is a chance you could end up being in a healthy relationship with your ex, that is ONLY if none of the parties have cheated on each other. If someone feels the need to cheat but then changes as a person, I still wouldn’t take the chances.
I've been there. My ex and I had been together over 7 years, were engaged, and had a child. A friend told me he was on Tinder. I made a secret profile quick to check, saw him and deleted it. When I confronted him, he tried to say it's not a dating app, it's for friends! Found out shortly after that he was cheating, which he'd started accusing me of. He met someone on Tinder and they were in a relationship. I've been cheated on by 3 partners that I know of and its heartbreaking how many people I know that have been cheated on too.
Yessss queen, the content 🤌
Although it can get extremely lonely being single, I'm SO much better off being single and lonely than being with someone and still feeling alone. My kids are the only thing that bring me actual happiness, and they're all I need.
You brighten up the day of many.
Love you Charlotte ♥️
I don't use dating apps. Any one can lie, so I make sure I get their picture, then ask 1 of my connections in law enforcement to run them, and make sure they are, who they say they are.
yup that happened to me i caught one of my friend's girlfriend on a dating app, i showed him of course! and they had a 4 months old baby at the time...and my friend is a good guy and hes very good looking so it was very dumb of her, he left her!
If there's an ongoing issue, leave. I'm dealing with the result of emotional neglect for over a decade and now I've also got the stress of feeling like I've wasted a whole decade. 🙃 small problems become big problems.
Love the editors, good job folks
Love the editing on this video !10/10 Good clips/timing
You would think that people in your town would let you know your SO is on a dating app, but it's shocking how many people have the mentally that "of course his wife already knows" or "she won't leave anyway".
They'll talk about it among themselves but very few people out there will actually tell you
I'm so excited for this
Love you Charlotte you’re the best 💜
The first one is that the fiance answered and said he is which is why it's hilarious. He got caught
I hope all of these ppl that have been cheated on learn AND believe in their value, especially the parents. Single and happy is so much better than attached and miserable
I've seen where ppl will delete the app before going home then redownload it later.
Gosh I love ❤️ this ish!!!!!
You won't have to date again Charlotte. He's a keeper! Happy for you
Loving the new editor/ editing style ❤️
I love your videos! So does my son, he calls you subscribe lol bc of hearing you say it! He also jams to your exit music lol. Thanks for giving me videos to look forward to!
Omg the disco dog and cat 😃. Best thing ever. Love your uploads Charlotte. Keep up the great work 👍 x
The editing on your vids is always so entertaining 😄
Oh boy; I cannot emphasize this enough. If you're not protected by a contract (marriage, domestic partnership or a specific property agreement witnessed by a notary) don't buy anything expensive with anyone or support them or their (only their) kids. Marriage etc. isn't perfect but you have legal proof of your general investment.
Pets. Don't buy pets with anyone. You buy the pet for you, your SO buys the pet for them, but it becomes a battlefield if you break up, and the pet is an "ours" thing.
@@lokicooper4690 I know it's not the point, but don't buy pets. Period
@@lucianacarvalho3136 even shelters have an adoption fee. Pets are great companions!
@@dawnchesbro4189 oh, I didn't know that! Thank you. Here in Brazil there's no fee for adoption.
@@lucianacarvalho3136 yeah, the adoption fee is to discourage people who aren't planning on taking care of the pet, or want to use the pet for bad situations, like dog fighting/ dog baiting. It's also a way to cover the cost of keeping the animals at the shelter. Most shelters spay and neuter the animals before they're adopted.
The edits are gold
Love your videos. Moral of the story good communication is very important in a relationship no matter the dynamics of said relationship.
i have been a cheater and proudly say that i am no more, because i have reflected on my self in therapy and know now how to not cheat and still get the affection i desire :)
Editing on point for this one!
10:08 Thanks Charlotte. You’re the reason that I spilled my drink 😂
This is horrible. This is where trust issues begin. Me and my hubby both know all each others passwords, and can unlock each other's phones. It's easy when you have nothing to hide ❤
I never could understand how somebody can love somebody that would betray them. I must be a different creature all together.
No one wants to be the one checking their partner's phone. They sure make it hard to trust when they hide apps and disguise phone numbers. Where are the good ones?
Some are single, and being cheated on, and others are married.
LOVE CHEATER VIDS!! More, Charlotte, MORE PLEASE!!!!!
Love the Pew Die Pie at 3:51. Have a fantastic Sunday!
The editing on this video, gold stars✨
Once again I literally was just watching another episode of yours when I saw your notification?!
If I ever get cheated on, idk how I'd react but I tend to go "blank" naturally, whether on purpose or not. I could either cry, possibly ruin your life or move on and act like your dead....I'm good at the last one and it seems (to others) that it is the most effective and hurtful so win-win ig
Yeah, definitely the "you're dead to me" is the way to go, imo. Don't give them the satisfaction of a big reaction LOL
Happy Sunday.
Of course there's always been cheating but does anyone think that these dating apps has made it ten times worse?
@@crystalh450 Slut shaming. Some women want casual sex not a date. Tinder was promoted as an app for single people to casually hookup. Not all casual sex involves deception. Don't shame it's users for people misusing the app. There are plenty of other reasons to criticize Tinder.
Fun fact: Most people would cheat with coworkers before online dating. Cheating was used as an argument to keep women out of the workforce.
Great video editing today.
Can’t remember the last time you straightened your hair… looks so pretty! 🧡