I haven't been intimate with anyone in over a year. I have no interest in sleeping with someone. I want a mental relationship before a physical relationship.
I'm 39 and a virgin. Hearing this I'm more grateful that i am still waiting. I've seen foolishness approach me by young men.They didn't want God's will.
I’m a 22 year old black man I appreciate this. I don’t want to connect soul ties with any woman & when I meet the woman of my dreams my future wife I want to be emotionally stable & childless with no baby mama drama. I’m in nursing school I currently work as a cna
I love this! 🩷 keep going I’m 23 and Its amazing that you 22 and have this mindset it’s not common. I love that for you. You will find her for sure. You give me hope for the future 🥰
Young man listen… I have a son that is not too far from your age and your standards, and your non-negotiables should be taken just as seriously as a woman being told to take her expectations seriously. Keep on what you’re doing and your desires will come true… I appreciate your transparency and vulnerability on this platform.
Some men have laughed at me for choosing to be celibate and most men try to persuade me that casual sex is fine. Having boundaries will filter out the wrong men. I’m choosing to only deal with a man that respects my body. ❤
This is so true. No matter how many times guys tried to seduce me kept my legs closed and they left. Which im grateful for becoz it shows they never truly liked me to begin with.ladies let us stay in prayer and remain pure. Dont be afraid to be single. Working on yourself and waiting on God for your partner. If you make a mistake get up and keep going.The most important thing is to take responsibility for your life.
Men wsnt sex. Th e y get bored fast also. Keep your head up to the sky your leg a closed and watch the devil go find someone else to devour, devalue, destroy ♥✨AMEN again
Been celibate for the past 9 months after a messy break up and it’s been the best decision. Focusing on myself and my healing. Sober now for nearly 4 years. These decisions have changed my life.
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (ESV), he asks, “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”
As a women you have more control when you not sleeping with them. Once they get it they treat you like you nothing and feel like they always can come back so keeping your legs close definitely does the trick! And if they get mad then yk they ain’t got you no way
OMG! I posted about this subject on Facebook and got attacked by the men mostly 🤦🏽♀️. They kept saying, all men want sex! Obviously, but you can exercise discipline and do things the right way to setup for success.
Yes… And all women want a new wardrobe every season. Do we go out and get one??? If we can keep our wallets closed, they can keep their pants closed!!!
I get all men want it. It's in their nature. But it's what you said that is key that men not looking at..."EXERCISING DISCIPLINE" They be so quick to go in attack mode if you speaking some truths because many be triggered. The same can go for females also...just stating facts period will have people mad.
Being a single black female, virgin in my late 40s, I chose to wait for God's chosen man for me . There are so many nuts out here, and they dont care what they infect you with. I love myself enough to choose me. In my childhood, i remember having some associates who were infected with HIV from a guy who was having sex with different females. They all knew one another. And now their lives have been ruined bc he didn't care about any of them.. You are preaching ,sir! Amen!! Thank you for your wisdom 🙏🏽
There is so much peace and freedom in abstinence. I just watched a video of a young lady with 3 kids that came on a viral dating show looking for a man, and had another man in her house claiming that she just slept with him that day. Ladies especially, we need to do better. More of us are raising children alone and need to be better examples for the next generation.
raising decent boys to become decent men. Men shouldn't be running around from woman to woman and then he wants a bloody virgin. We all need to raise standards.🙏🏾
this is why the world is crazy melting pot got multiple spirits living inside one person and people don't know why they are crazy lord jesus take the wheel
So true 24 years for me. As life goes on it's too scary. What God has for me will be for me. The husband God has for me and if not learn to be content with yourself and getting closer to God.
This year will make three years of no intimacy, and I mean NONE. I haven't even so much as kissed a guy in all this time. And I have to say it's honestly an incredible feeling. No having to worry about what someone's doing behind your back, no worrying about if someone is playing mind games, no confusion, feeling much more confident and happier all around. And of course, no worries of STDs or STIs! I definitely recommend doing so until you meet the right person. Stay strong ladies!🌸
That's so inspiring!!! Love it 🙌🏼❤ It's been a year for me, and I truly feel the same way. No stress at all. I haven't cried in a year(since my last relationship) that in itself is such a relief! Thanks for sharing.
It's been three years for me too...It's amazing how you find things to work on concerning yourself, different things to be interested in and different ways you'd like to save/invest your money.
Single & celibate for 7yrs now. I'm respecting myself and my future husband whenever he comes along. It's to many diseases out here I love and value my life to much. I kno my worth and it's not between my thighs. Giving it up won't make him like u more, it jus shows him u have no self control you're easily manipulated. He might want to keep u around for sex only or jus simply become uninterested but 1 things for sure he won't build with u.
If you've preserved yourself and worked hard as a man, plz avoid such women ☝️ claiming celibacy for whatever amount of years (it's trauma). If you can't get a virgin, get yourself a younger female that has preserved herself. I recognize they are changing for the better, but you deserve better as a man.
Energetic parasites can be acquired from intimacy with someone who hasn't done spiritual clearing work and cord cutting. When we have sex, we pick up whatever negative entities the other person has collected from previous partners too.
This is on point! I am celibate and content with being single and open to receiving my purpose partner when he arrives. I am learning more about Jesus and more about myself on the journey. I am joyful daily and trusting God strongly waiting patiently for God's expected end for me 😊
I'm working from home in the bed today and saw this caption and thought Tony was about to tear into me. Lol!! Glad I"m off the hook-- stay on them Tony!
Yes. This video is everything. Which is why I fell back from the dating scene. Folks out here these days don't care and don't want to get to know you. I had a guy get annoyed with me bc we were having discussion on something Steve Harvey said and I wanted to see what his response was. I said I like to get to know a person before anything else. He said I'm taking the organic out of getting to know and I gotta be in control. What?? I went ahead and cut him off and disappeared bc if you can get that annoyed over a topic and only chatted 3 days...that told me a lot. Another guy said why women think highly of themselves bc not all men want sex. I said a majority do. But sent a sex meme within 2-3 weeks of knowing him. And admitted to sleeping with someone in the getting to know phase...so these men tell on themselves. It's not one sided bc it's double standard. I just wish people would stop playing games. Go find someone looking for the same as you. Building friendship and something solid is where it's at...it's coming across someone that want the same as you that's hard.
Pray for my strength y'all! Ending a relationship with the wrong man... for my destiny and my daughter's proper emotional development. He's manipulative, but I keep reminding myself what's more important, and to recognize the reality of the situation versus the fantasy of what will never happen.
Father, may you grant your child the strength to move forward from this relationship. May she trust that you indeed have the BEST in store for her and her daughter: Give her peace, love, security and provision as she walks with you. Grant her daughter the proper emotional development. In Jesus’s name I pray. Amen.
Rely on God each day, he will pull you right out of it. Lord, I pray you uplift her and her baby with your victorious right hand. Grant her clarity and grace throughout this new transitional time in her life. Remind her that you are there and will NEVER leave nor forsake her. You are all she needs. Please speak to her and give her direction on her new path. In Jesus' name, Amen!✝️🙏
That's the trap of fornication. You can't separate yourself from the physical, sexual, emotional attachment to this person. Even when you know how bad the relationship is, it's still difficult to leave. But tbe bible also says.... I can do all things through CHRIST who strengthens me.
If you sleep casually with a man, you are telling him that you don’t love, respect, value, or honor yourself. Once he sees that, he reciprocates that treatment right back to you because people treat you how they see you treat yourself. They move with you according to how you move with yourself. So, if a man isn’t treating you well, that’s because he’s learned that from you because no one who is treating themselves well will EVER allow anyone else to treat them differently.
My late husband was a trucker he use to tell me keep your dress down, keep your pants zipped, keep your legs closed I heard him loud and clear single still follow that golden rule🙏💜
The question is was your late husband doing the same was he keeping his pants zipped and keeping his penis in his pants? but he wanted you to do it...Smh
Yup,met a guy, haven't had a connection in over 3yrs. Told him being physical too soon or making that the focus will push me away. He wanted to rush and thought I'd stay. I ran, will go back to being celibate. Dating is not wort the headache, doubt, risks, all of the above
Correct Tony, As a mature lady my desires are not less,nor suitors absent ,most of my relationships,lasted 6 years years and more, so not casual situations but still is classed as promiscuios, behaviour to me , my regrets giving self to people that were non deserving of me, since I learnt my real , value ,I can't imagine entertaining a man that does not see mine, When a woman knows her true worth she will preserve her crown jewels, However we need to also be transparent that many young girls that were violated, will not know their value,the rewiring needs to be put in place , life is learnt behaviour , I have never contracted no stds not about to put my self at risk to frivolous behaviour,even as important exchanging my spiritual energy ,with people trust which I don't really, have in men on that level, more important to me is my relationship with God Blessed day Tony Gaskins
The Bible says a good name is better than gold your reputation does precede you so act accordingly conduct yourself accordingly it's nothing wrong with being respectful of young ladies because they are somebody's sister mother Auntie Grandma cousin future wife so walk softly in the garden and select wisely don't use and abuse
Man when I was growing up I wished that these words were spoken to me guiding me the right way instead of the way that I did grow up I swear I wasn't taught about any of it, guess I went through life from what I had seen 💔
That’s the word right there… The problem is these younger people have a lot of issues with their families and aren’t being taught properly. The fact that we are celebrating some of the worst behavior in entertainment speaks volumes about the culture and our expectations as a people. We all know that person who claims that they met someone and slept with them on the first night and then got married but the question is, how often does that happen? How many healthy relationships have been built off of that mentality? This man right here is speaking fax
You’re absolutely correct! It will definitely make a man think less of you if you sleep with him before you really get to know him. It’s hard sometimes to keep a subconscious reminder of that especially if you really like the person. I didn’t sleep with this new guy I met but I sent him a sexual music video and he never responded. Now I’m beating myself up about that because I think I blew it😩
Amein! Some of the men that be coming to me and it's true, they want the cheek. I aint the one. Keep it moving. It's easy to find somebody to lade with but a god fearing husband or a virtue wife you must wait on Yah. Help us to be patient and wait. Seek Yah first, and He will give you the right person.
Add to this unity spiritual ties formed between partners. Emotions can ebb but a spiritual tattoo emerges and is created and formed. Difficult to be removed. Its referred by some as "emotional baggage" for lack of a better term. Baggage coming from the men from past sexual ties from previous females. Fornication is the housing of spiritual devils meant to destroy the body. They can party hardy in the soul of men and women.
I haven't been intimate with a man in two years and really have no desire either. This time I'm only giving to my future husband. Content with being by myself until then.
Yes and absolutely men need to start checking each other saying bro keep it zipped up get to know her before you just go all in take your time to get to know somebody everything that shiny ain't gold or keep it or worth taking off the market
Thanks Tony, it truly has come down to some folks needing basic self respect advice. The men are complaining about paying CS for children they didn't want like they don't know how children are made. So let them get mad.😒
This guy had took me out on ltwo maybe three dates and then he wanted to jump in the bed with me. Really didn't know nothing about me. He wasn't trying to get to know me. I'm not doing that.
We also have to address all of the trauma that’s going on in our communities with our young people. As a human service worker, I can’t tell you how many of our young men and young women are victims of sexual assault and sexual abuse. This type of behavior leads to further promiscuity and doubts about themselves and the instability of their self-confidence. It’s easy to tell someone else how to live, but trying to get them to reprogram themselves when they’ve been abused, is another monster all together, which leads to what this man is talking about right here.
Amen! I pray this goes viral and resonate with every mind, heart and spirit that comes across this short with clear understanding in Jesus name I pray. Amen. Right on, Right on. God bless us all.
I haven't been intimate with anyone in over a year. I have no interest in sleeping with someone. I want a mental relationship before a physical relationship.
Same, November will be a year for me! Trying to stay strong and remain obedient in what God says💯
@@RoyaltyK protect your energy
Yes ma’am!!
Amen! 3 years for me and I am just fine.
That's deep .met a guy once..but he was too young
I'm 39 and a virgin. Hearing this I'm more grateful that i am still waiting. I've seen foolishness approach me by young men.They didn't want God's will.
I commend you. Keep standing.😘👏🏾
@@SherriManuel-u9p I’m 35 and a virgin here. 🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️
I commend you as well
24 year old Virgin!!🙌🏾
I’m a 22 year old black man I appreciate this. I don’t want to connect soul ties with any woman & when I meet the woman of my dreams my future wife I want to be emotionally stable & childless with no baby mama drama. I’m in nursing school I currently work as a cna
Make sure you don't end up with a "reformed 304"
Dude it's called keeping/do our GOD'S laws and Commandments it tells you in our book..1611KING JAMES Bible
I love this! 🩷 keep going I’m 23 and Its amazing that you 22 and have this mindset it’s not common. I love that for you. You will find her for sure. You give me hope for the future 🥰
Young man listen… I have a son that is not too far from your age and your standards, and your non-negotiables should be taken just as seriously as a woman being told to take her expectations seriously. Keep on what you’re doing and your desires will come true… I appreciate your transparency and vulnerability on this platform.
God is your Keeper and Strength
Some men have laughed at me for choosing to be celibate and most men try to persuade me that casual sex is fine. Having boundaries will filter out the wrong men. I’m choosing to only deal with a man that respects my body. ❤
Stay strong it’s worth it
Amazing 🙌🌹
I bet your emotions are stable and you have peace in your mind.
Block men who don’t respect your boundaries. Please be careful out there.
I’ve been celibate for almost 4 years….I’m building my relationship with GOD and my wealth while waiting on the right man!
Hook-up culture comes with so much drama
This is so true. No matter how many times guys tried to seduce me kept my legs closed and they left. Which im grateful for becoz it shows they never truly liked me to begin with.ladies let us stay in prayer and remain pure. Dont be afraid to be single. Working on yourself and waiting on God for your partner. If you make a mistake get up and keep going.The most important thing is to take responsibility for your life.
Excellent advice!!!
Men wsnt sex. Th e y get bored fast also. Keep your head up to the sky your leg a closed and watch the devil go find someone else to devour, devalue, destroy ♥✨AMEN again
I needed to hear those encouraging words God Bless You 🙏❣
Yes !
Amen Amen🙏
Been celibate for the past 9 months after a messy break up and it’s been the best decision. Focusing on myself and my healing. Sober now for nearly 4 years. These decisions have changed my life.
I love your advice! Being celibate is the best feeling! 🧡
😆 the "BEST" feeling?..
It really is a good feeling. 3 years strong for me. Choosing me has been the best!
31 years strong. It feels great to be a rare virgin
It sure is and,
it's a clean feeling, mentally, physically and psychologically.
@@j-tenn226 amenn I’m 20 and I’m a virgin a proud one
MY GOODNESS!!! Let’s highlight Godly friendships PLEASE!!!! Thank you for this!!
Facts and I fully believe if we hold these standards then our men would conduct themselves better because they wouldn't have any other choice
Amen
Exactly
That part.
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So true
Exact reason why I have been practicing abstinence for 6 strong years. It quickly show you who's there to waste your time.
Stay out the bed, stay off ya byke! 🤣🤣🤭
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😂😂😂😂 love the way he says byke
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No singing on the microphone either 🤣
Exactly!!! 10 years and counting….no sex BEFORE marriage!!! Daters and/or Boyfriends do NOT get HUSBAND privileges!!! ❤
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1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (ESV), he asks, “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”
Amen
AMEN AMEN AMEN 💯 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤️
Yes!!
AMEN!!!!🙏🏽🕊🕊🕊
As a women you have more control when you not sleeping with them. Once they get it they treat you like you nothing and feel like they always can come back so keeping your legs close definitely does the trick! And if they get mad then yk they ain’t got you no way
Closed
A short message, that turned out too be a WHOLE SERMON 🙌🏾‼️
Yes truth
That's right tell em Tony! And it's ashamed that it's even had to be said! This generation has no sexual discipline.
Let the church say: “ AMEN”🙌🏽
AMEN 🙏
Oh please, the Pastor sleeping with half the congregation and the other half are sleeping together
Amen
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER 💯 🙏 🙌 ❤️ ♥️
Agreed my father taught me this advice in middle school 🔥
OMG! I posted about this subject on Facebook and got attacked by the men mostly 🤦🏽♀️. They kept saying, all men want sex! Obviously, but you can exercise discipline and do things the right way to setup for success.
Exactly. I desire a partner who has self-control.
@@1goldenbutterfly ¹1111111111¹1111
Yes…
And all women want a new wardrobe every season. Do we go out and get one???
If we can keep our wallets closed, they can keep their pants closed!!!
@@1goldenbutterfly 💯💯💯
I get all men want it. It's in their nature. But it's what you said that is key that men not looking at..."EXERCISING DISCIPLINE" They be so quick to go in attack mode if you speaking some truths because many be triggered. The same can go for females also...just stating facts period will have people mad.
Being a single black female, virgin in my late 40s, I chose to wait for God's chosen man for me . There are so many nuts out here, and they dont care what they infect you with. I love myself enough to choose me. In my childhood, i remember having some associates who were infected with HIV from a guy who was having sex with different females. They all knew one another. And now their lives have been ruined bc he didn't care about any of them.. You are preaching ,sir! Amen!! Thank you for your wisdom 🙏🏽
There is so much peace and freedom in abstinence. I just watched a video of a young lady with 3 kids that came on a viral dating show looking for a man, and had another man in her house claiming that she just slept with him that day. Ladies especially, we need to do better. More of us are raising children alone and need to be better examples for the next generation.
raising decent boys to become decent men. Men shouldn't be running around from woman to woman and then he wants a bloody virgin. We all need to raise standards.🙏🏾
this is why the world is crazy melting pot got multiple spirits living inside one person and people don't know why they are crazy lord jesus take the wheel
So true 24 years for me. As life goes on it's too scary. What God has for me will be for me. The husband God has for me and if not learn to be content with yourself and getting closer to God.
This year will make three years of no intimacy, and I mean NONE. I haven't even so much as kissed a guy in all this time. And I have to say it's honestly an incredible feeling.
No having to worry about what someone's doing behind your back, no worrying about if someone is playing mind games, no confusion, feeling much more confident and happier all around. And of course, no worries of STDs or STIs!
I definitely recommend doing so until you meet the right person. Stay strong ladies!🌸
So true!
That's so inspiring!!! Love it 🙌🏼❤ It's been a year for me, and I truly feel the same way. No stress at all. I haven't cried in a year(since my last relationship) that in itself is such a relief! Thanks for sharing.
It's been three years for me too...It's amazing how you find things to work on concerning yourself, different things to be interested in and different ways you'd like to save/invest your money.
Exactly I’m a virgin and I REFUSE to engage in none of these sexual acts until that man marries me PERIOD
3 years for me too!! 🙋🏾♀️
Single & celibate for 7yrs now. I'm respecting myself and my future husband whenever he comes along. It's to many diseases out here I love and value my life to much. I kno my worth and it's not between my thighs. Giving it up won't make him like u more, it jus shows him u have no self control you're easily manipulated. He might want to keep u around for sex only or jus simply become uninterested but 1 things for sure he won't build with u.
I'm with you sis it's going on 7 years for me ....I'm good.. there are alot of pretenders out here ..
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If you've preserved yourself and worked hard as a man, plz avoid such women ☝️ claiming celibacy for whatever amount of years (it's trauma). If you can't get a virgin, get yourself a younger female that has preserved herself. I recognize they are changing for the better, but you deserve better as a man.
Energetic parasites can be acquired from intimacy with someone who hasn't done spiritual clearing work and cord cutting. When we have sex, we pick up whatever negative entities the other person has collected from previous partners too.
@@MrGandoffbut sir.... Are you a virgin? No so shut up
Yes sir Mr Gaskins. Whenever I get the jezebel spirit creeping up on me, you tell me what I need to hear.
@Priscilla so true
What if he didn’t release this content? I’m tellin yall all these females cappin, they ain’t celibate for Sheeeeeet
@@cutedude13 I’m a virgin. Stfu
Girl! I’m working on exorcising her! Frfr!😂 Pray for my deliverance! In all seriousness! 🙏🏾💯
This is on point! I am celibate and content with being single and open to receiving my purpose partner when he arrives. I am learning more about Jesus and more about myself on the journey. I am joyful daily and trusting God strongly waiting patiently for God's expected end for me 😊
I'm working from home in the bed today and saw this caption and thought Tony was about to tear into me. Lol!! Glad I"m off the hook-- stay on them Tony!
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I was thinking the same thing I was like damn I’m still in the bed, lol but it’s MY bed by myself so I’m good 😭🤣
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Yes. This video is everything. Which is why I fell back from the dating scene. Folks out here these days don't care and don't want to get to know you. I had a guy get annoyed with me bc we were having discussion on something Steve Harvey said and I wanted to see what his response was. I said I like to get to know a person before anything else. He said I'm taking the organic out of getting to know and I gotta be in control. What?? I went ahead and cut him off and disappeared bc if you can get that annoyed over a topic and only chatted 3 days...that told me a lot. Another guy said why women think highly of themselves bc not all men want sex. I said a majority do. But sent a sex meme within 2-3 weeks of knowing him. And admitted to sleeping with someone in the getting to know phase...so these men tell on themselves. It's not one sided bc it's double standard. I just wish people would stop playing games. Go find someone looking for the same as you. Building friendship and something solid is where it's at...it's coming across someone that want the same as you that's hard.
I’m glad someone’s preaching this pastors are not!! They progressively still perpetuating the hate between women and men
Amen! I wish I had this when I was younger, but now I know, I do better. Im working on the 3 b’s not for a man but for God and myself.
Pray for my strength y'all! Ending a relationship with the wrong man... for my destiny and my daughter's proper emotional development. He's manipulative, but I keep reminding myself what's more important, and to recognize the reality of the situation versus the fantasy of what will never happen.
Father, may you grant your child the strength to move forward from this relationship. May she trust that you indeed have the BEST in store for her and her daughter: Give her peace, love, security and provision as she walks with you. Grant her daughter the proper emotional development. In Jesus’s name I pray. Amen.
Rely on God each day, he will pull you right out of it. Lord, I pray you uplift her and her baby with your victorious right hand. Grant her clarity and grace throughout this new transitional time in her life. Remind her that you are there and will NEVER leave nor forsake her. You are all she needs. Please speak to her and give her direction on her new path. In Jesus' name, Amen!✝️🙏
Praying for you and your daughter 🙏 ❤ God has the Man he designed for you
That's the trap of fornication. You can't separate yourself from the physical, sexual, emotional attachment to this person. Even when you know how bad the relationship is, it's still difficult to leave.
But tbe bible also says....
I can do all things through CHRIST who strengthens me.
PREACH!
If you sleep casually with a man, you are telling him that you don’t love, respect, value, or honor yourself. Once he sees that, he reciprocates that treatment right back to you because people treat you how they see you treat yourself. They move with you according to how you move with yourself. So, if a man isn’t treating you well, that’s because he’s learned that from you because no one who is treating themselves well will EVER allow anyone else to treat them differently.
3 years strong! This is easy. Thanks for keeping me on track.
AMEN AMEN, SISTER, #4 yrs for me(NOV21 2022!!!)🙏🙏🙏
@@KM-oy5yh yesssssss!!!! My 4 years will be oct 7, 2023. We gotta keep pushing until we find someone who loves themselves and then loves us back.
My late husband was a trucker he use to tell me keep your dress down, keep your pants zipped, keep your legs closed I heard him loud and clear single still follow that golden rule🙏💜
The question is was your late husband doing the same was he keeping his pants zipped and keeping his penis in his pants? but he wanted you to do it...Smh
Yup,met a guy, haven't had a connection in over 3yrs. Told him being physical too soon or making that the focus will push me away. He wanted to rush and thought I'd stay. I ran, will go back to being celibate. Dating is not wort the headache, doubt, risks, all of the above
Correct Tony,
As a mature lady my desires are not less,nor suitors absent ,most of my relationships,lasted 6 years years and more, so not casual situations but still is classed as promiscuios, behaviour to me ,
my regrets giving self to people that were non deserving of me,
since I learnt my real ,
value ,I can't imagine entertaining a man that does not see mine,
When a woman knows her true worth she will preserve her crown jewels,
However we need to also be transparent that many young girls that were violated, will not know their value,the rewiring needs to be put in place , life is learnt behaviour ,
I have never contracted no stds not about to put my self at risk to frivolous behaviour,even as important exchanging my spiritual energy ,with people
trust which I don't really, have in men on that level, more important to me is my relationship with God
Blessed day Tony Gaskins
Exactly! He is speaking the truth. Young people really have such difficulty with this.
Yes Tony! Self-control and self-respect are invaluable ❤
The Bible says a good name is better than gold your reputation does precede you so act accordingly conduct yourself accordingly it's nothing wrong with being respectful of young ladies because they are somebody's sister mother Auntie Grandma cousin future wife so walk softly in the garden and select wisely don't use and abuse
Facts! This Advice if taken can, eliminate so many problems! Im telling you people... smh nothing but truth. Wait till you married.
Waiting on the man the Lord intends, or single. Praise God✝️
Yes me also Dee.
@@tamitatangoto5134 me three
This is something our young ones need to hear. Thank you so much and God bless you !!!
Please say it AGAIN, again and AGAIN! Thanks Tony for being a real Man to say and live the TRUTH!
Love it!! It’s about preservation of the family! It’s about what is going to build healthy households!
You gonna mess around and help somebody, Mr. Gaskins! 💯
Thankyou Jesus!!! Amen!!!!🎉❤🎉❤🎉
This is so true! It’s been forbidden for a reason in so many cultures!
Man when I was growing up I wished that these words were spoken to me guiding me the right way instead of the way that I did grow up I swear I wasn't taught about any of it, guess I went through life from what I had seen 💔
AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER, ME 2💯💯💯💯
I just found you yesterday & I've been hooked ever since. Thank you for speaking 🗣️ the truth it's greatly appreciated.🥰
Your comments are on point. May you be blessed with a larger audience.Amen
The older and younger generations all need to hear this
That’s the word right there… The problem is these younger people have a lot of issues with their families and aren’t being taught properly. The fact that we are celebrating some of the worst behavior in entertainment speaks volumes about the culture and our expectations as a people. We all know that person who claims that they met someone and slept with them on the first night and then got married but the question is, how often does that happen? How many healthy relationships have been built off of that mentality? This man right here is speaking fax
Go ahead and speak truth ‼️💯❤️🎯 Bro Tony this is very well spoken.
Power to you brother, words from the wise for the wise 🙏🏿
Good word. Thank you Mr. Gaskins.
You’re absolutely correct! It will definitely make a man think less of you if you sleep with him before you really get to know him. It’s hard sometimes to keep a subconscious reminder of that especially if you really like the person. I didn’t sleep with this new guy I met but I sent him a sexual music video and he never responded. Now I’m beating myself up about that because I think I blew it😩
I needed this. Thank you so much.
I 100 percent approve this message!! It would change the tractectory of our community!!
I like this new format, important and concise message that's easy to share so it can reach hundreds of people😃👍
Preach!!! God help us to come up higher by redirecting the focus on changing the trajectory of our families
FACTS! Keep on spreading the word!🙏🏾
Excellent teaching. Thank you for sharing the Lord's holy word.
Best Advice ever.
ABSOLUTELY YES INDEED MESSAGE I AGREE 👍 THANK YOU FOR YOUR WORD
Amein! Some of the men that be coming to me and it's true, they want the cheek. I aint the one. Keep it moving. It's easy to find somebody to lade with but a god fearing husband or a virtue wife you must wait on Yah. Help us to be patient and wait. Seek Yah first, and He will give you the right person.
Add to this unity spiritual ties formed between partners. Emotions can ebb but a spiritual tattoo emerges and is created and formed. Difficult to be removed. Its referred by some as "emotional baggage" for lack of a better term. Baggage coming from the men from past sexual ties from previous females. Fornication is the housing of spiritual devils meant to destroy the body. They can party hardy in the soul of men and women.
True words indeed.
I love your open, honest,transparent, authenticity ! Love you Tony ❤
Thank you tony truly appreciate all tht you do ❤️
Amen!! God bless you Tony for showing how a godly man who is faithful to Jesus, behaves like✨
Amén 🙏🏽 go on Tony 🙌🏾💙🥰 No Fornicating people let’s get it together. Gods order and Decree💙
God bless the Man & his Message. Thank you for all the women who will read, receive & retain it. 🙏 ❤️
Amen! Thank you Tony!
Thank you for the message Tony. Going on 4 years and thriving
I haven't been intimate with a man in two years and really have no desire either. This time I'm only giving to my future husband. Content with being by myself until then.
Absolutely agree
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Tony Gaskins I appreciate a man of God like you because you are not afraid speak the truth
So true … everything you said. Glad to hear a man say it.
Yes and absolutely men need to start checking each other saying bro keep it zipped up get to know her before you just go all in take your time to get to know somebody everything that shiny ain't gold or keep it or worth taking off the market
Thanks Tony, it truly has come down to some folks needing basic self respect advice. The men are complaining about paying CS for children they didn't want like they don't know how children are made. So let them get mad.😒
Yes Tony this is so on point!!
The entire message 🙌🏾
Come on black 🤴🏾
Amen
Lol , stay out of the bed, off the pole, and offline lol
You are,absolutely right and I am surely heading that way
This guy had took me out on ltwo maybe three dates and then he wanted to jump in the bed with me. Really didn't know nothing about me. He wasn't trying to get to know me. I'm not doing that.
We also have to address all of the trauma that’s going on in our communities with our young people. As a human service worker, I can’t tell you how many of our young men and young women are victims of sexual assault and sexual abuse. This type of behavior leads to further promiscuity and doubts about themselves and the instability of their self-confidence. It’s easy to tell someone else how to live, but trying to get them to reprogram themselves when they’ve been abused, is another monster all together, which leads to what this man is talking about right here.
😂😂 CLOSE YOUR LEGSSS , in the holy name amen
THIS, ALL OF THIS! AMEN! Thank You Sir!!!
Finally a real grown man I respect and appreciate you
Thank you brother for this message in Jesus name amen 😇🙏💞 amen amen amen
CELIBATE IS SAFE!!! PLEASE TEACH MEN!!!
Im putting an Amen on this message. 🙏🏾💕
Amen!!
FAM YOU SPOKE ABSOLUTE FACTS 💯..
That wisdom was written in the Bible over 2000yrs. Ago.
Hmmm, imagine that 🤔
Amen! I pray this goes viral and resonate with every mind, heart and spirit that comes across this short with clear understanding in Jesus name I pray. Amen. Right on, Right on. God bless us all.
Bless you Mr Gaskins 🙏🏾
True👍✔️ !!!!!!! Speak On!!!!!!!!!
Amen to that!!!
You better tell it!Lord knows you hitting the nail on the head! PREACH!
DID Y'ALL HEAR WHAT HE SAID!!!??
LISTEN TO HIM,LADIES!!!!
HE WAS NOT LOUD AND HE WAS NOT SCREAMING NOR CALLING
YOU A NAME!!
VERY SIMPLY!!!