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  • @GrassFudge7
    @GrassFudge7 Год назад +10208

    The fact that she said if she has free time shed catch up on chores just screams that the husband doesnt do them, yet still has time for at least two trips a week

    • @dissipatedcloud
      @dissipatedcloud Год назад +158

      Exactly!

    • @requiemforameme1
      @requiemforameme1 Год назад +460

      I went from laughing to just feeling bad. Those kids are missing quality time with GreatValue Patrick Bateman.

    • @azarinevil
      @azarinevil Год назад +334

      Yeah, I was already thinking what a family neglecting POS at that point, and then the 7 kids came up.. he's a full on family neglecting sociopath POS and a primary example of the people who should not have ever had kids, clearly didn't want them at all.

    • @sidneysometimes2520
      @sidneysometimes2520 Год назад +103

      Dollars to doughnuts, this family is an evangelical Quiverfull movement clan.

    • @julieroode3731
      @julieroode3731 Год назад +121

      Right???? This hit me and made me so sad.... 7 freaking kids and he has alllllll this damn free time. So frustrating

  • @angelm33
    @angelm33 Год назад +6845

    The fact that the guy in the first story said he offered to hire a sitter so his wife could go out instead of he himself watching the kids is really telling

    • @JUNJYR
      @JUNJYR Год назад +356

      That's the first thing I noticed.

    • @MegDoesStuff0
      @MegDoesStuff0 Год назад +463

      Literally!! Like he’s the type of dad who refers to watching his own children as “babysitting” (that is, if he were even interested in watching them.. seems like this guy’s only interested in making more 😬)

    • @rsmith6425
      @rsmith6425 Год назад +213

      Also, as someone who was a babysitter years ago, if I was asked to do a job and told they have seven kids in a newborn I would have just said no for safety. Even if I did say yes my rate was ten bucks an hour, 5 for every extra kid, so that would be 40 bucks an hour.

    • @Opal_the_snow_rat
      @Opal_the_snow_rat Год назад +1

      @@MegDoesStuff0 nik kk mom m

    • @RankaZer0
      @RankaZer0 Год назад +1

      Is it armchair?

  • @tamaramaureirajimenez977
    @tamaramaureirajimenez977 10 месяцев назад +2854

    It's funny how the second lady said the SIL doesn't have an original thought in her life, like getting married and having kids it's the most original shit to do with your life 😂😂

    • @hopeless1617
      @hopeless1617 10 месяцев назад +151

      I never thought of that, but you're totally right 😂

    • @ChichiPee
      @ChichiPee 8 месяцев назад +195

      You MUST get a dead end job, get married, have two kids, and die miserable 😂

    • @tamaramaureirajimenez977
      @tamaramaureirajimenez977 8 месяцев назад +121

      @@ChichiPee and be bitter at other people's happiness 🤣🤣

    • @TheAdrift
      @TheAdrift 8 месяцев назад +57

      Well, I guess by “original” she means “the original thought that people used to have in the olden days, before we started thinking all DIFFERENT omg how dare you” lmao

    • @halatiny6537
      @halatiny6537 8 месяцев назад +20

      Fr like follow the same shit society expects every woman to do

  • @erroniousmcleese
    @erroniousmcleese 7 месяцев назад +954

    The Bride and Pebble story it was clarified in another video that the Bride had stated the venue strictly prohibits animals being on site; her brother put her wedding day at risk by bringing Pebble (despite Pebble being undeniably CUTE)

    • @frootsnacc6790
      @frootsnacc6790 5 месяцев назад +130

      I knew it; I had a hunch her main reason of being upset would be that she’d be the one taking the fall for Pebble and/or anything he’d do

    • @beatrice9473
      @beatrice9473 2 месяца назад +30

      yeah and that fact that she was like ‘some people might be allergic or scared’ and the OP still took pebble (who seemed adorable) to the wedding like what is wrong with OP?!

    • @Justwatchingyoutubeforfun
      @Justwatchingyoutubeforfun 2 месяца назад +21

      Also like in the story, OP did say some people were annoyed and tried to talk to the staff about it. I would want everyone attending my wedding to be happy and not annoyed nor do I want them to remember my wedding as the raccoon wedding or something else (even tho Pebble really is cute I still want everyone to be comfortable because not everyone would see Pebble as cute)

    • @ZoeWalser
      @ZoeWalser 2 месяца назад +8

      As someone who has a raccoon, they are not an animal to bring out to a WEDDING of all places. Like don’t get me wrong, my raccoon ain’t mean, in any way, but that don’t mean he hasn’t ripped all the stuffing out of a couch cushion and turned it into his bed. But that is his couch 😂and we have stuffed the cushion and stitched it many times, he just undoes it again. He doesn’t destroy anything else tho. He just wants to be inside that cushion. He also uses a litterbox like a cat😂😂. He’s almost a year old now. (We found him and another male in a ditch after a storm, no momma in sight, the other one sadly didn’t make it through the night😢

    • @MizuFujimori
      @MizuFujimori 12 дней назад +2

      Ugh pet owners are the worst.

  • @litterbox2010
    @litterbox2010 Год назад +6669

    Damn. Imagine being a single mum that has to take care of 7 kids AND a husband.

    • @_Vampyr
      @_Vampyr Год назад +355

      Basically 8 kids the way he’s talking 🤣🤣🤣

    • @chelseahowley8837
      @chelseahowley8837 Год назад +148

      Yeah, being a married single mom is just an extra stress no one needs. I hope she meets someone who actually loves and cares for her one day and leaves this ah.

    • @sarahshade4985
      @sarahshade4985 Год назад +108

      AND herself, because he’s obviously not taking care of a single one of her needs…

    • @Alter_Ego22
      @Alter_Ego22 Год назад +146

      ​@MamaWuf how does letting her kids play sports and have tutoring makes them "spoiled brats". It isn't the kids taking the mom for granted it's her inconsiderate husband who except her to watch the kids, do chores, and have time to socialize.

    • @jaqjynx
      @jaqjynx Год назад +30

      And husbands friends when it’s his turn to host

  • @signalohnine
    @signalohnine Год назад +3668

    “she makes being a mom her entire personality” because she is the only active parent, dude. + there are so many parents that become friends because they are parents.

    • @emmaearthling444
      @emmaearthling444 Год назад +170

      Yeah doesn’t sound like it’s a choice for her because of him not taking on enough responsibility

    • @noface3641
      @noface3641 Год назад +131

      also, even 1 child (especially when young) will take up most of your time. like, you have to fucking feed this thing and somehow keep it alive and out of harm. imagine 7!?!?! at some point of having children it WILL become more than two parents can handle. but she does it on her own... and one of them is a newborn baby as well!! WHAT? most parents with a newborn have their lives revolve around the baby... add 6 more kids to the mix, and chores of a 9 people household. how is his wife ALIVE?

    • @kayx3998
      @kayx3998 Год назад +49

      @@noface3641 Yep, I have a son who's my only child and my partner is an amazing father yet there are still times where I get frazzled and feel like I have no time to myself. I have no idea how this woman is caring for 7 children plus her man child husband and still pushing through. I would have gone insane omg

    • @yourlocalasshole352
      @yourlocalasshole352 Год назад +1

      Even if she’s a little shy about having social interactions, she CLEARLY doesn’t want the same for all of her kids. She has them involved in very social extracurricular stuff that I doubt the dad has any involvement in at all 💀💀

    • @turntapeover5749
      @turntapeover5749 Год назад +53

      She should make her personality being his ex-wife lol

  • @MovieTrollop
    @MovieTrollop 9 месяцев назад +874

    I can’t imagine teaching my child that their dead uncle was the grinch who stole birthdays.

    • @CassandraFae
      @CassandraFae 5 месяцев назад +75

      It’s not the uncles fault. The parents are the one who decided that birthdays could never be celebrated again. I can almost guarantee you the uncle would be furious if he knew they forbade birthday parties

    • @abieggleton7045
      @abieggleton7045 5 месяцев назад +112

      @@CassandraFaeyeah, but that's most likely how a little kid who never even met that uncle would see it

    • @audreyalltop9674
      @audreyalltop9674 2 месяца назад +5

      My mom passed in 2019 on New Years. Thats like me saying my kids won't be able to celebrate new years because it's for my mom

    • @pallyboy6005
      @pallyboy6005 Месяц назад

      If you teach them that, yes xD​@@abieggleton7045

    • @thetickedoffpianoplayer4193
      @thetickedoffpianoplayer4193 21 день назад +3

      Exactly. I would think as parents that they'd want their son to not be forgotten, but there has got to be a healthier way to remember him than taking birthdays away from future generations. It sounds like they're focusing on his death rather than his life.

  • @scottnunnemaker5209
    @scottnunnemaker5209 10 месяцев назад +675

    The guy who ruined his gf’s career as a teacher blamed his friend for being a gossip, right after explaining how he spread the gossip about his gf to his friends. He’s the gossip in his friend group.

    • @leiapedro933
      @leiapedro933 4 месяца назад +85

      Also, I don't believe he did anything accidentally. It sounds like he knew that if she lost her job, she'd be financially dependant on him, and he possibly wanted that because she was already thinking of breaking up with him? Just a thought. Something very suspicious about his version of the story, and him choosing to tell the "gossip" who immediately got in touch with her school? What kind of friend would do that to this guy's girlfriend if he hadn't asked them to?

    • @leeb5112
      @leeb5112 4 месяца назад +54

      and why is he showing them that account anyways? i would never in my life voluntarily show my friends naked and scantily clad pics of my gf and tell them the exact account they could find it at, especially if it was behind her back. like im all for venting to your friends but the existence of this page isn’t something to tell the boys about, doubly so knowing one of them can’t keep a secret for shit (like how’d he even know someone at the school to tell?).
      and it’s common sense this type of stuff puts her job at risk and she told him that as well, so why tell anyone even ignoring the first point? just careless and he’s lucky she still stayed with him.

    • @divyabadey5854
      @divyabadey5854 3 месяца назад +4

      I think it’s illegal for her to be working as a teacher if she didn’t disclose it beforehand

    • @Honest__Guy
      @Honest__Guy 2 месяца назад

      How is it illegal?​@@divyabadey5854

    • @mauirandall8176
      @mauirandall8176 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@divyabadey5854pretty sure the story takes place in America

  • @nathanieldickens2509
    @nathanieldickens2509 Год назад +12808

    Smosh has officially found a great use for Shayne’s psychology degree

    • @Shaima_I
      @Shaima_I Год назад +329

      LMAOO I thought the same thing!

    • @emmyvillaatchinson
      @emmyvillaatchinson Год назад +763

      shayne’s $50,000 are being put to good use helping him read reddit stories and figure out who slapped him

    • @kaitlyndiep9526
      @kaitlyndiep9526 Год назад +35

      Yesss

    • @blushandberries624
      @blushandberries624 Год назад +411

      Yeah, he is actually bringing some good analysis combined with personal opinions that gives this format both wisdom and empathy

    • @rodrigocortes5272
      @rodrigocortes5272 Год назад +129

      I never clocked that until now, true genius behavior

  • @ohkiwi296
    @ohkiwi296 Год назад +3541

    Just wanna mention that they didn’t notice he said “get a babysitter” on the first story. He didn’t even want to do it himself, he just HAD to PAY someone so his wife has more time…

    • @maveryriley
      @maveryriley Год назад +259

      I completely forgot about that part. He clearly does not care about the kids and would rather hire a babysitter than take care of his kids.

    • @dissipatedcloud
      @dissipatedcloud Год назад +178

      YUP I totally noticed that. Offered to get a babysitter, didn't offer to take care of his own damn kids and house so she could have time to herself.

    • @azarinevil
      @azarinevil Год назад +127

      ​​@@maveryriley Everything he said screams "I never wanted kids, and don't care about them". The trips, the disinterest in hearing about their lives, the babysitter, the whole idea of having his wife spend more time neglecting their kids to spend on her own life. Every time the kids came up, it was in a way showing how little he cared about the family.

    • @Kuchhh
      @Kuchhh Год назад

      @@maveryriley because they’re some rich asshole.

    • @sidneysometimes2520
      @sidneysometimes2520 Год назад +130

      @@azarinevil He absolutely wanted them (seven isn't a mistake number). He just wants all the glory of it and NONE of the responsibilities.

  • @emmiem6159
    @emmiem6159 11 месяцев назад +855

    Uhm skincare and workouts and going out for fun at notable places? Damn. She seems happy and growing and glowing. Goddamn.

    • @Chrissykat24
      @Chrissykat24 5 месяцев назад +28

      Yeah but OP is miserable so no one else can be happy. Whats hugely telling is how she keeps reiterating the other woman's age and the fact that she doesn't have kids. Just sounds like envy to me. Nothing the other lady was taking off TikTok seemed negative at all.

    • @taylorkeith4400
      @taylorkeith4400 5 месяцев назад +14

      I have no idea what a butter board is but I’d much rather be at her Easter meal than the OP’s.

    • @squirrelbugg99
      @squirrelbugg99 4 месяца назад +4

      Right?? Like she seems like the kinda gal I’d love to be friends with 😭😭

    • @nocte.animam
      @nocte.animam 4 месяца назад +4

      As if it was cringey and wrong for adults to do that ??? Why lol

    • @yeturs69420
      @yeturs69420 4 месяца назад

      No she's obviously a vapid tiktok user who hops on trends like "health" and "skincare" and worst of all "eating good food" how dare she

  • @thepineapplegal9099
    @thepineapplegal9099 6 месяцев назад +301

    The coffee one: the whole “anger is unproductive and I’m level headed therefore I’m being reasonable” is SUCH a red flag. A key component in a lot of toxic behavior is being super calm in tone while saying ridiculous things, and then blaming the other for being visibly angry about said ridiculous things. Being able to stay calm is a good thing in a lot of circumstances, but the way he said that just radiated a need to control arguments.

    • @constitutionalli7522
      @constitutionalli7522 3 месяца назад +7

      Sounds like you too have ridden the cluster B roller coaster ❤

    • @thepineapplegal9099
      @thepineapplegal9099 3 месяца назад +9

      @@constitutionalli7522 spot on, it’s a family member but luckily I’m not around him anymore. I hope you’re doing well now too!

    • @traditionalnative
      @traditionalnative 3 месяца назад +5

      Ugh. Yes, yes, yes. You explained it perfectly.

    • @cheyannegiles9772
      @cheyannegiles9772 3 месяца назад

      @@constitutionalli7522 bro I have cluster b personality disorder and i'm the one who usually gets angry. nice one implying all people with personality disorder that are all caused by abuse are automatically toxic people. cluster b people are the ones who usually get angry, we have bad emotional regulation. if they're able to stay chill in an argument they're probably not cluster b, the mental illness cluster notable for its lack of chill

    • @cheyannegiles9772
      @cheyannegiles9772 3 месяца назад

      @@thepineapplegal9099 okay, did they actually have a cluster b personality disorder or are they just an asshole and to you that meant they obviously must had this mental illness that's caused by trauma and really awful to have, because you think everybody who has the bad mental illnesses is an evil asshole by default? even if he did being a bad person isn't a symptom of any mental illness, it's really shitty to go "this one bad person has a mental illness therefore everybody who has it is a bad toxic persona automatically"

  • @kaylanovacek8973
    @kaylanovacek8973 Год назад +4098

    Ok but I love that Pebble’s owner thought they could just sneak a raccoon into a wedding without anyone noticing. Iconic.

    • @sliceofsparta8985
      @sliceofsparta8985 Год назад +343

      Having a racoon in a bowtie on a leash at a wedding would 100% take attention away from the couple. NEVER do anything at a wedding that takes attention away from the couple. The bride may have reacted a big strongly, both parties said things they regret, but she was 100% right to be upset about it.

    • @kaylanovacek8973
      @kaylanovacek8973 Год назад +196

      @@sliceofsparta8985 oh I totally agree, it’s just that this person’s thought process is absolutely wild 😂

    • @zozozilla
      @zozozilla Год назад +63

      I totally agree. How could anyone not notice that? Honestly, I get the bride being mad because it takes attention away from their special day (since that shit is adorable af-I mean, raccoon in a bow tie? Amazing). They both overreacted and said shit they shouldn’t have. I think the brother could have tried to find another way. I mean, there are pet hotels and stuff like that and he should probably have a way to keep the raccoon at home. I know that I have two dogs and I have lists of potential people to call if I need someone to house sit and be with them but I also know that they won’t wreck havoc if they had to be left alone for a couple of hours and I don’t know if this guy can do that since he literally brings the raccoon everywhere

    • @bubbletea9111
      @bubbletea9111 Год назад +35

      Tbh I would of been so happy as a bride to get a raccoon dressed up for my wedding. But I get why she's pissed off, cuz he didn't listen to her and exactly what she worried would happen, did happen. I would of forced my brother to put on a little talent show so I now have an excuse as to why he's there with a normally wild animal and to calm people down. I'm sure if they thought it was a trainer and his trained pet doing some performance for the wedding, like handing them their rings or something, a lot less people would of been angry. Like ok, now you made this a problem on my day, now you get to embarrass yourself like you embarrassed me so that people don't run from my wedding terrified. I would of been its Rocket from GOTG and he's here to hand us our rings. Give the raccoon a bubble gun and say it's Rocket. I wouldn't have disowned my brother over it, or made him leave. This did not have to ruin her wedding or take the spotlight off of her. She could of been like "Oh, the raccoon, well he's here for me on my day to hand us our rings and do tricks for us." If anything I'd make him put the raccoon in his car until the wedding was over.

    • @marlarinehart727
      @marlarinehart727 Год назад +17

      No fr, but I just don’t think any animal should be at a wedding so bro’s thought process crazy for that

  • @rachelharris2962
    @rachelharris2962 Год назад +2542

    The first guy saying he'd get his wife a babysitter for the kids. WATCH YOUR OWN KIDS, DUDE.

    • @emmaearthling444
      @emmaearthling444 Год назад +43

      FOR REAL

    • @randomenvelope
      @randomenvelope Год назад +147

      But he has a trip coming up :(

    • @princessadrigirl6774
      @princessadrigirl6774 Год назад +32

      Yup. I think we all know why she’s so busy while he has time to go to bars, have game nights, see friends, go to parties etc

    • @Ms.AllSunday930
      @Ms.AllSunday930 Год назад

      ​@@randomenvelope XDDD

    • @akirasewgambar2420
      @akirasewgambar2420 Год назад +47

      He's the type of guy to say he doesn't want to baby sit and I'm like it's not babysitting when it's your child????

  • @m00nrac00n
    @m00nrac00n 10 месяцев назад +399

    Love how whenever Ian appears he can be the most sarcastic clown one second and then drops a cold, focused, experience-based truthbomb that hits the nail on the head. Like, this is someone who has been in the game for such a long time, they just know their stuff, but dont feel the need to show it off all the time.

    • @ElianaRosalind
      @ElianaRosalind 21 день назад +3

      i love when he's in the 'reading reddit stories' videos, since he's one of the older members in smosh & an online personality for like two decades so he's seen & lived some stuff which means we sometimes get funny comments & sometimes valuable insights

  • @david4rancibia34
    @david4rancibia34 10 месяцев назад +513

    I finished the video but I'm still thinking on a raccoon with a bow tie being polite at a wedding and I'm just smiling like an idiot

    • @layladavis02
      @layladavis02 10 месяцев назад +66

      I imagine him just sitting being all cute and proper with his bow tie. While in the background is the sister and brother yelling. And he’s completely unbothered smiling.

    • @AnneOfKleeves
      @AnneOfKleeves 9 месяцев назад +46

      I know, right? If someone showed up at my wedding with a friendly, vaccinated pet raccoon I would be like “Oh my gosh is his company my present?!” and I’d be sure to take professional photos with him, too.

    • @justaloser6254
      @justaloser6254 4 месяца назад +9

      @@AnneOfKleevesThe comments confirmed that the venue had a strict no animal policy so that’s probably what the problem was

  • @survivorfortyseveral
    @survivorfortyseveral Год назад +3620

    I’m stuck on the sister saying “you’re no longer my brother” and then him saying Pebble was more family than she was…sounds like they have much deeper family issues than a raccoon

    • @randomenvelope
      @randomenvelope Год назад

      Sounds like overreaction, his family sounds like assholes

    • @MiracleCEde
      @MiracleCEde Год назад +249

      I know right…like leave pebbles out of your issue😂😂

    • @kendallt9248
      @kendallt9248 Год назад +111

      i wonder if the brother uses social media a little too much… especially since he’s exhibiting behavior so completely detached from reality. who genuinely expects they’ll be able to hide at a raccoon at a wedding? and then make zero effort to obscure what you’re trying to hide?
      i’d also guess this has been a repeated behavior from the brother towards his sister, based on how she reacted. i don’t have siblings, but i feel like going as low as saying your raccoon > sibling isn’t something you jump to without some sort of build-up. maybe she’s the older sister who was parentified and had to grow up dealing with his antics.

    • @thaloblue
      @thaloblue Год назад +38

      Yeah both of them have a screw loose

    • @aaronmontgomery2055
      @aaronmontgomery2055 Год назад

      ​@thaloblue I don't know about the sister having a screw loose. We don't know how inconsiderate he has been before but considering this he has definitely done many things before. He sounds autistic as can be.

  • @sonyamiller4853
    @sonyamiller4853 Год назад +1627

    That birthday party one is LITERALLY how generational trauma starts.

    • @bryanaperry8760
      @bryanaperry8760 Год назад +15

      My thoughts exactly!

    • @RaeDSJ8512
      @RaeDSJ8512 Год назад

      That is…not how that word works 💀💀💀

    • @RappingChipmunk
      @RappingChipmunk Год назад +81

      @@RaeDSJ8512 they are literally passing down trauma through generations. Even though most generational trauma isn’t like this, this still counts

    • @RaeDSJ8512
      @RaeDSJ8512 Год назад +8

      @@RappingChipmunk The situation is messed up. But trauma?? Babyyyy that is still noooot how that word works 😭 I beg of you all, please stop using psychology terms as sentence enhancers.

    • @postbunnie
      @postbunnie Год назад +61

      @@RaeDSJ8512what are you talking about? It started from the death of the 17-year-old brother on his birthday. Sure maybe after the parents die everyone will go back to celebrating birthdays, but still.
      Also, the guy with the glasses made the joke

  • @glupik1234
    @glupik1234 9 месяцев назад +133

    The first story truly made me see red. Oh my god. That poor woman must be exhausted. But also imagune what brilliant managing skills she has to pull all that off. What a mind she has to have. And that good for nothing dares to insult her and being smug about how he thinks he's better than her.

  • @heze2819
    @heze2819 9 месяцев назад +196

    People who gate keep adulthood and think you need to have x, y, and z to be mature actually show how immature they are by throwing a fit about other people’s lives

    • @daanachmad4032
      @daanachmad4032 4 месяца назад +12

      They are also coping because they bow down to societal expectations and regret some or all of them.

    • @J3nJ3nl0llip0p
      @J3nJ3nl0llip0p 21 день назад

      Imagine being angry at another person for not having kids.
      Imagine having 7 YOUNG kids and your husband complains that You're doing everything right, but not enough things to be perfect at.
      HOLY crap, Batman!

  • @JDoactive
    @JDoactive Год назад +2781

    Shayne hosting this series is the best choice because his inner psychologist comes out when he reads those stories

    • @katie18976
      @katie18976 Год назад +165

      Also he has a nice calm voice.

    • @tahlia03
      @tahlia03 Год назад +56

      @@katie18976I love how this accurately represents the ends of a spectrum with Shayne hosting this series

    • @kaitlyndiep9526
      @kaitlyndiep9526 Год назад +2

      Yesss

    • @davidfortier6976
      @davidfortier6976 11 месяцев назад +10

      I think he is also the most intelligent of the cast. You can really see it when they're doing any sort of improvising.

  • @oftheHowl
    @oftheHowl Год назад +3239

    Not allowing grandkids to have a birthday party because of a death in the family is absolutely psychotic

    • @gigimarie6465
      @gigimarie6465 Год назад +355

      Right it teaches the kids that they cant find moments of happiness during a sad time

    • @kaitlyndiep9526
      @kaitlyndiep9526 Год назад +8

      Fr

    • @blushandberries624
      @blushandberries624 Год назад +130

      It is clearly a trauma/PTSD reaction and they need trauma therapy asap

    • @sourwitch2340
      @sourwitch2340 Год назад +174

      @@gigimarie6465 and it teaches them that any sad moment should affect them for the rest of their lives, to never let go of the death of a relative that these kids probably didn't even know

    • @hilmilosnowball7740
      @hilmilosnowball7740 Год назад +30

      I can't be the only one who was thinking about the movie "Footloose" when hearing the birthday story...

  • @DragonbornMike-ym2er
    @DragonbornMike-ym2er 10 месяцев назад +259

    Easter story: I think a good idea going forward would be for OP and her partner to buy Easter eggs/candy, and have the partner hide them around and OP looks for them.

    • @sideways5153
      @sideways5153 7 месяцев назад +14

      That’d be a really cute thing for them to do together. I love that idea

  • @RandomCorvid
    @RandomCorvid 8 месяцев назад +124

    I would say that the "She would have nothing if she broke up with me" line in the 3rd story might be OPs own fear and guilt talking. He feels responsible for her losing her job so he might be scared for her if she did break up with him.

    • @jessicathornton3632
      @jessicathornton3632 28 дней назад +1

      Agreed, him feeling responsible over what happened. Even though had she not taken the pictures to begin with it wouldn’t have happened. He wasn’t right but she can’t ONLY blame him. It’s her own fault too.

  • @riverskyhaneul
    @riverskyhaneul Год назад +2715

    It's better to regret NOT having kids than to regret HAVING kids. Some people need to understand that kids aren't toys or just something cute to have. They're huge responsibilities that need to be cherished and taken seriously.

    • @user-fe8gx3ie5v
      @user-fe8gx3ie5v 11 месяцев назад +67

      Yeah, acting like not having kids is the better choice is just selfish and almost always ends badly.

    • @grace4882
      @grace4882 11 месяцев назад +147

      and like people forget adoptions a thing if you want to be a parent but physically cannot have one anymore.

    • @goblinguy3103
      @goblinguy3103 11 месяцев назад +162

      Absolutely. You can always have kids, but you can’t un-have kids.

    • @haikall5479
      @haikall5479 11 месяцев назад +26

      ​@@goblinguy3103i mean technically you can if you're the devil 😂

    • @chilltheheckoutwithava1454
      @chilltheheckoutwithava1454 10 месяцев назад +7

      Yes! THANK YOU.

  • @GooseEnthused
    @GooseEnthused 11 месяцев назад +831

    Cant get over “my wife has no friends because she wastes all her time taking care of our *seven* kids”

    • @Just1Nora
      @Just1Nora 4 месяца назад +22

      I don't even have kids and I was seeing red. Him and coffee guy must be buddies because they're such big man children. If he said that he made everyone healthy and tasty lunches once he got home, a 3 nights a week took the kids to the non-performance events, the music practice, soccer practice, etc, because hopefully the whole family will go to the games and recitals together, etc he might not seem as bad, but he sounds like he hit 18 said, "Welp, I'm an adult now. Time to do what I wanna do! Everyone else is a loser with no personality!" I question if he even keeps track of the names and birthdays of all of those kids without the help of his phone or laptop. He had them listed by age and letter. How disrespectful to both his wife and the kids. It doesn't sound like she wanted that many kids, so are they Catholics, or is it his morals? We have so many ways to prevent pregnancy these days and it's prevention, not termination, so seriously. Stop. He's still living the bachelor life and is let his wife grow up and do the "hard stuff". Do I think parents should have lives beyond just being parents? Yes, they're still people, but it shouldn't interfere in their parental duties, for either of them. She's burning out and he's hanging out. It doesn't sound like he cares about the kids, or his wife for that matter. "All you do is parent! You're lame!" Why on this blue marble is he still in their relationship? Obligations? Religious beliefs? I just don't understand....

    • @jaccat4336
      @jaccat4336 3 месяца назад +15

      Tempted to show this to my grandma. She would be fuming! She was one of 7 siblings with a father who was actually really active. But neither her or her siblings ever wanted more than 1- 2 kids. Even with both parents helping 7 is still a lot. 😬

  • @cheshirecat3845
    @cheshirecat3845 3 месяца назад +46

    One thing i have to mention about the story woth "sarah" losing her job cus of op, he mentions his friend is a gossip. He knows what he did. He is manipulating her. His clear speech at the beginning goes to show how much he knows she loves her job, then INTENTIONALLY spread it to his friend who HE KNOWS is a gossip. This screams to me manipulation and power play. Very much a "well, you cant leave me now that you're worth less than me" vibe.

    • @sparkichu
      @sparkichu 9 часов назад +1

      See, that's how I saw it ESPECIALLY after he said she has nothing if she breaks up with him. He said he feels obligated to help her which can very much show that he will be treating it as an inconvenience and possibly even hold this over her head in order to continue controlling her. He says he takes all accountability now, but some great manipulators (I think this story proves he very well could be one) know how to easily switch it right back around to "actually this was your fault because you didn't have a backup plan in case your job found those photos and now I have to take care of you".
      I say this having experience from past relationships where partners have treated me that exact same way except instead of financially ruining things for me, they would do little things to pick away at my mental health over the course of the relationship before treating me like a burden for needing mental help.
      This seems very similar in a financial case.

    • @sparkichu
      @sparkichu 9 часов назад

      Very sorry for how long this was 😭
      Didn't realize how much I had typed till I hit send

  • @oblivioussenpai8109
    @oblivioussenpai8109 5 месяцев назад +143

    For the Pebble story, it was clarified later elsewhere that the wedding venue was completely animal-free. Thus OP actually put his sister's whole wedding at risk of being kicked out by bringing Pebble (no matter how cute) to the venue against her wishes, on top of her frankly reasonable concerns of possible allergic reactions/guests being unnerved. He really should have communicated the sitter issue and I don't know much about owning racoons, but the fact that OP didn't leave Pebble alone for a few hours despite claiming Pebble is so well-trained makes me suspicious if this is about being *unable* to leave Pebble alone or just him not *wanting* to leave Pebble alone.

    • @empiregaming1343
      @empiregaming1343 4 месяца назад +19

      My cousin owns a pet raccoon and it is a necessity to keep an eye on him at all times as a raccoon gets very board and lonely and will just claw through walls and furniture to entertain itself. HOWEVER, my cousin has a designated system of raccoon watchers including some of his roommates so while leaving pebble at home would not be a good option, it's still OP's fault that he doesn't have a way to keep pebble at home.

    • @fucUninja
      @fucUninja 4 месяца назад

      it took me one second to google. One of the main reasons people keep racoons as pets is because they're hypoallergenic. Weird OP doesn't know that.

    • @Kayla-rd5jd
      @Kayla-rd5jd 3 месяца назад +8

      thank you!! like yeah i get pebbles cute & it seems fun but that doesn’t make op any less of an asshole. even if animals were allowed, his sister not wanting a pet there let alone a raccoon is non negotiable, it’s her damn wedding lmao

    • @seansoku67
      @seansoku67 Месяц назад +4

      I agree but personally I believe she overreacted by saying he was no longer her brother. She literally could have said animals are not allowed by the venue. That should have been enough. Him saying he sees his racoon as a family member more than her felt more of a response to her saying that to him. I don't think he was the asshole in the story just maybe an idiot.

    • @tomkelly00
      @tomkelly00 9 дней назад

      yeah, and it's really convenient that his planned pet-sitter JUST HAPPENED to fall thru

  • @Diddy007
    @Diddy007 Год назад +1426

    Shane said this a while ago " People who say they're brutally honest. They do it to be brutal" That 42 yr old depressed woman was trying to bring down her SIL. I hope that SIL lives her life and stays happy.

    • @ShelbyZealand
      @ShelbyZealand Год назад +15

      Did Shayne say that, or was it Damien?

    • @charlienovacastor5652
      @charlienovacastor5652 Год назад +32

      ​@@ShelbyZealand Damien

    • @khaleesireyna731
      @khaleesireyna731 Год назад

      My initial thoughts after that story was literally "this woman is a bitter b*tch who needs to cut others down to feel better about herself". Don't compare yourself to other people and you will be 100x happier.

    • @HinataElyonToph
      @HinataElyonToph Год назад +11

      Honestly the woman who posted that story needs counseling or something. The whole thing just screams resentment

    • @jesshelen2
      @jesshelen2 Год назад +11

      She's miserable 😂 & not enjoying her life, Mom or not
      Side Note: I was once told that I needed to grow up by a single kid-less, unhappy friend (I'm a Mom with a social life) Same friend now has a dog that she needed a break from within 3 days 😂😂 Unhappy is a state of mind, not matter what's on your plate

  • @dawnhapgood2907
    @dawnhapgood2907 Год назад +1013

    The fact that the "dad" in the first story suggested to get a sitter instead of, i dunno, taking care of his own kids, speaks volumes YATA

    • @galev3955
      @galev3955 8 месяцев назад +134

      For me it's the "ugh she talks so much about the children it annoys me, I can't imagine how annoying it is to others". Like can you imagine your own father says that about you?

    • @MasterMagikarp
      @MasterMagikarp 8 месяцев назад +16

      @@galev3955 oof 💀

    • @dosmart
      @dosmart 7 месяцев назад +62

      The spouse is effectively a single mon of 7 with an annoying roomate she has to take care of

    • @Chrissykat24
      @Chrissykat24 6 месяцев назад

      No thought to maybe since he's going out two nights a week an every weekend to do his socialization that that's maybe why she doesn't get a chance to do the same? What a neglectful, oblivious ahole.

  • @undeniablySomeGuy
    @undeniablySomeGuy 10 месяцев назад +34

    With last story, it's so fucking funny to think of how when she asked "can I participate in the hunt", she was imaging grabbing eggs as fast as possible, while the HOA was imagining her making sure kids aren't getting hurt and that everyone gets enough eggs to be happy.

  • @MorgaineRiddlePrince
    @MorgaineRiddlePrince 9 месяцев назад +21

    The teacher picture one is also blackmail to force her to stay. He knows if she finds a new job and she leaves, he can destroy her again.

  • @MindingMine257
    @MindingMine257 Год назад +2577

    Ian: “Is this how generational trauma happens?”
    Every child of trauma: “YES.” 33:23

    • @gabbymukwindidza6024
      @gabbymukwindidza6024 11 месяцев назад +48

      Literally!!!

    • @undeniablySomeGuy
      @undeniablySomeGuy 10 месяцев назад +86

      This is literally the plot of "Footloose" and it has me HOWLING

    • @rajwardhanghorpade2823
      @rajwardhanghorpade2823 10 месяцев назад +16

      ​@@undeniablySomeGuyi was thinking the same thing...

    • @davidhouser1523
      @davidhouser1523 9 месяцев назад +10

      Facts, specially when the "father" doesn't come around and when he does only talk trash about their mother, while smoking some "hard" substance Infront of you..... Damn guess I'm letting y'all know my life, where as my mother would only say the actual facts that were bad about my father and never trash talked him to me

    • @codzilla4825
      @codzilla4825 9 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@davidhouser1523 speak that shit dude. hope youre good

  • @Jah_LEASE_yah
    @Jah_LEASE_yah Год назад +1298

    The parents who lost their son and decided that they don't celebrate birthdays anymore are the biggest assholes in that story. They have trapped everyone in the family in their grief. They won't allow themselves to grieve and move one from their loss, so they have trapped everyone in the family in their inability to move on. Ian said it perfectly. This is how generational trauma is started. Because the parents experienced this huge trauma and never let themselves process it in a healthy way, they have passed on the trauma to their children and grandchildren. I pray the OP sides with her husband in the situation and they break the trauma cycle together.

    • @ronniebutterscotch1576
      @ronniebutterscotch1576 Год назад +123

      Yeah, that story was basically the plot of Coco.

    • @jaqjynx
      @jaqjynx Год назад +108

      My dad died on Christmas Day when I was a teenager. Christmas is the hardest part of the year for my family. But my siblings and I grew up, got married, had kids. My mum and us would never force that shit on our families. I’ve got nieces and nephews that we all adore and it makes us want to make Christmas extra special for them.

    • @christopherscotts5797
      @christopherscotts5797 Год назад +43

      That really is some Encanto shit

    • @taylorwong6966
      @taylorwong6966 Год назад +29

      This is legit the Rivera family from Coco

    • @ninaserafina823
      @ninaserafina823 Год назад +50

      my grandmother on my mother's side and I share a birthday. she passed a few weeks before I turned 3 and every year my family reminds me how we share a birthday and they say I have a guardian angel watching over me. What my family is doing is normal. what those parents are doing prove that they need some form of therapy.

  • @gay_styx
    @gay_styx 11 месяцев назад +121

    I want Pebble’s owner to know that Pebble is welcome at my future wedding, I would probably be delighted to meet such a dapper little man

  • @KitKatB83
    @KitKatB83 9 месяцев назад +49

    As a mom to four sons, the "Dad" clearly has no clue what it takes to run the household and care for SEVEN children! Including a newborn!!!! Omg!😢

    • @thetickedoffpianoplayer4193
      @thetickedoffpianoplayer4193 21 день назад

      Yup, sounds like Mom needs to take a vacation for about a week and leave dad with the kids. Maybe then he'll develop some dadgum empathy.

  • @Barla626
    @Barla626 Год назад +984

    Can’t believe Arasha’s “if they’ve met him” was just passed over it was hilarious 😂

  • @hearthrazer357
    @hearthrazer357 Год назад +2543

    Please never stop this series, it's GOLD (plus shayne you might actually get a chance to use that 10 year education for something 😉😘😋)

    • @queenchaeyeon
      @queenchaeyeon Год назад +6

      YES please

    • @Kitty-gf2dr
      @Kitty-gf2dr Год назад +3

      Absolutely!!

    • @emmabunch-benson4795
      @emmabunch-benson4795 Год назад +23

      YES there’s a lot of people who read Reddit stories but these are by far my favorite people who do it

    • @IO-pz3to
      @IO-pz3to Год назад +2

      You could say it's Reddit Gold

    • @electricwizardmf
      @electricwizardmf Год назад +3

      I only subbed for these vids tbh lol

  • @narwElle
    @narwElle 11 месяцев назад +95

    For the birthday one, I think it's important to consider that they came to a decision to keep it private and he posted it on social media behind op's back. Regardless of whether or not they really should celebrate birthdays or not

    • @AnyaKimochi
      @AnyaKimochi 5 месяцев назад

      Yeah the husband was stupid. He even twisted her words to say 'You inisted it to be a secret so that we don't invite family'. No. That's not the reason stupid 😮‍💨

    • @djdener5504
      @djdener5504 4 месяца назад +23

      I agree with you. The husband is TA for that, but considering that an entire family wants to withhold birthdays for a generation that didn't even know the uncle is more of ahole behavior. People need therapy 😕

    • @r.j.9822
      @r.j.9822 3 месяца назад +4

      ⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@djdener5504so the husband is an asshole for wanting to show people his child? Keeping it private was referring to the amount of people invited 🤦‍♂️

    • @djdener5504
      @djdener5504 3 месяца назад

      @@r.j.9822 no he is an ahole because he agreed with his wife to not post fotos. He broke the agreement. In comparison to the 'never having birthday' he is a smol ahole, but he is one.

    • @C0ttonEyes
      @C0ttonEyes 2 месяца назад +9

      @@r.j.9822 no he’s the asshole for posting online because his wife made it very clear her family couldn’t find out, he agreed to those terms, than posted photos without her knowing. He must have known his in-laws follow him. It was stupid to think they wouldn’t see it.

  • @hailtotheengineers
    @hailtotheengineers 9 месяцев назад +46

    Based on Ian's responses I now want to see him in a Smosh Easter egg hunt

  • @erinbaldwin5589
    @erinbaldwin5589 Год назад +1022

    The thing with Pebble:
    He sounds adorable and the vision of him in a bowtie is making me melt, but I wouldn't even let people's dogs at my wedding unless they were service dogs.

    • @blushandberries624
      @blushandberries624 Год назад +103

      The problem is also that the owner was more focused on him missing his sisters wedding not her experience of her wedding. It is giving main character vibes where you think you are the most important part of everything, even when it is something like their wedding where your presence obviously are not the most important one

    • @randomenvelope
      @randomenvelope Год назад +48

      I think she was an asshole about it tho, shane and gang saying him saying pebble is more of a family to me while the sister just disowned him as a brother.
      He shouldve called her tho saying the sitter cant make it so either pebbles comes with or ill stay at home.

    • @firelordoregano5632
      @firelordoregano5632 Год назад +25

      @@blushandberries624 okay but you act like she wouldn’t have lost her shit at him if he didn’t show up

    • @katrinascarlet5637
      @katrinascarlet5637 Год назад +33

      My question is how does this man exist and work if his racoon can't be left alone for any period of time? Like does he have to take the racoon to his dentist appointment? Does Pebble go on his dates? I'm glad he's trained and nice but there are just places not meant for pets and you don't always have a sitter. It's just concerning that Pebble can't be without a human at all. My cousin had a racoon and he was lovely but she built a large enclosure for him filled with toys and treat filled puzzles for when she had to leave him at home.

    • @randomenvelope
      @randomenvelope Год назад +9

      @@katrinascarlet5637 he would have to stay over for a few days, its not just a dentist appointment, they booked a hotel for guests so he would need someone to come over to feed it or whatever.

  • @spicymayo8950
    @spicymayo8950 Год назад +1243

    Story 2: she is so clearly NOT “looking out” for SIL. She’s envious because she didn’t take care of herself in the same way at her age and she’s terrified that SIL is going to be happier in life than she is because of it.

    • @mikusprout
      @mikusprout Год назад +113

      to add onto this, is a five step skincare so awful? i think it’s the perfect amount of steps/products that need to be used lol

    • @MissCaraMint
      @MissCaraMint 11 месяцев назад +19

      Yeah and five steps is not that much for a skincare routine. I’m assuming the SIL double cleanses, so that’s just two products right there, and then you have moisturizer and sunscreen. That only leaves one product. Maybe a serum or something. Or even an exfoliatior once a week. It’s not that much. Nor does it have to be expensive. There are so many affordable products that this is just a complete non issue.

    • @elwiwi4638
      @elwiwi4638 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@mikusprout id say 3 but 5 isn't a bad amount like there's no harm done in adding more steps

    • @michaelka3071
      @michaelka3071 9 месяцев назад +3

      you know what the best part is? if the person in question saw this video and heard all the things that shayne ian and arasha said they would be fuming like "thats not true! that wasnt what i meant!" and cant do anything about it and just accept the roasts in short shes just a karen that cant accept the fact that her sister in law is living a better life than she does

  • @maxicano25
    @maxicano25 11 месяцев назад +40

    Say your brother is the family favorite without saying he's the family favorite. 38:11

  • @vipernoodle
    @vipernoodle 10 месяцев назад +34

    Shayne is spitting hard facts- even my therapist talks about people falling into the mistake of focusing on other’s intentions (thinking “he is purposely ghosting me,” but that person is actually busy) and not enough on their own impact. The fact that shayne talked about impact and intentions as well impressed me bc I didn’t think I would her such critical thinking outside of my therapy sessions

  • @emmalenar6424
    @emmalenar6424 Год назад +1336

    What really bothers me about the “my wife has no friends” guys is that he said he would get a sitter so she can do stuff. THEY HAVE SEVEN KIDS. WHO IS GOING TO BABYSIT FOR THEM? Getting a babysitter you trust is hard enough but one that would take on SEVEN KIDS?????

    • @ItzRedd97
      @ItzRedd97 9 месяцев назад +37

      Right like go be the housewife you wanted to be. Don't kill her dreams

    • @AleshnaRam
      @AleshnaRam 9 месяцев назад +25

      Julie Andrews

    • @internetclown904
      @internetclown904 9 месяцев назад +18

      Right? This isnt Sound of Music🥲🥲

    • @v-ron7839
      @v-ron7839 9 месяцев назад +98

      Also, the fact that it wasn't "I'll take care of the kids for a day" but "I'll hire a sitter." 🤦

    • @junglejin3096
      @junglejin3096 8 месяцев назад +12

      Fr like you would either have to pay them like $100/hr or get multiple

  • @HoodwinkFalls
    @HoodwinkFalls Год назад +473

    The birthday story feels like the plot of coco. Except instead of the Grandma screaming "NO MUSIC" at a mariachi band Its her yelling across the street at a 10 year olds birthday party "NO BIRTHDAYS"

    • @shauna_tac
      @shauna_tac Год назад +30

      😂 I was literally thinking the exact same thing!!

  • @natashasanders9561
    @natashasanders9561 6 месяцев назад +4

    44:15 what's killing me is they forgot the this guy works from FREAKIN HOME and his GF drives to work. If anything he can get up and make his own coffee and breakfast for her she so she can sleep a bit longer

  • @binxwaxcap7832
    @binxwaxcap7832 9 месяцев назад +36

    Ive been binging this whole series lately and the amount of times I have genuinely screamed out or ran out of the room in shock is a concering amount. People really be out here with like 0 self-awareness

  • @somebody4952
    @somebody4952 Год назад +2222

    Guy: *tells someone he knows is a gossip about a very sensitive piece of info about his wife*
    Gossip: *speeads the sensitive info*
    Guy: *shocked face*

    • @friendofdragons763
      @friendofdragons763 Год назад +105

      If his friends are THAT big of assholes something about him probably needs reevaluated

    • @raimarulightning
      @raimarulightning 11 месяцев назад +91

      It sounds like so much is being left out, and the way he phrased them staying together makes me think she's better off without him.

    • @greysongotzmer4126
      @greysongotzmer4126 11 месяцев назад +13

      Maybe don’t make basically naked pictures if you’re planning on being a teacher. If this didn’t happen then one of her students would have found it which would be arguably worse

    • @greysongotzmer4126
      @greysongotzmer4126 11 месяцев назад +16

      @@raimarulightningshe’s clearly not that smart either posting those pictures while trying to become a teacher then continuing to leave them up 😭😭

    • @somebody4952
      @somebody4952 11 месяцев назад +103

      @@greysongotzmer4126 oh yeah, you're right. She should've "totally" foreseen this change of career. Or, better yet, she should've gone back in time to make sure she didn't do that sort of work so her photos wouldn't have gotten online in the first place
      Honestly, get bent

  • @heytheredemons
    @heytheredemons Год назад +1282

    My favorite thing about Shane hosting this is you can see little glimpses of his Psychology degree coming out. Coming from someone currently studying psych, its really fun to see him go therapist mode lol

    • @BCsenge97
      @BCsenge97 Год назад +21

      Yeees exactly what i was thinking (psych student as well)

    • @windraptor
      @windraptor Год назад +25

      I'm not a psych student (I'm thinking about it) but yea it really is awesome to see the psychology degree come out in these videos! I love it!

    • @luizaassis3567
      @luizaassis3567 Год назад +3

      Interesting 🤔

    • @gingerarab7693
      @gingerarab7693 Год назад +16

      Shayne is like hotsauce, he’s the best.

    • @shannaclankie184
      @shannaclankie184 Год назад +13

      As a person with a psych degree but not in the field (😭). I enjoy it, as well. It's neat he is using his knowledge even if it isn't in a normal way to go about it.
      Lol, for me I feel like I only get to use my degree for my friends and anxious coworkers.

  • @laurasaurus7399
    @laurasaurus7399 3 месяца назад +9

    The way i see the whole pebble situation is I love my dogs, theyre 100% part of the family. I would not bring them to someone's wedding especially not a family member's wedding

    • @thetickedoffpianoplayer4193
      @thetickedoffpianoplayer4193 21 день назад

      Exactly. There's a time and a place for everything. That seems to be a concept that isn't being taught as much today.

  • @AloneInTheCandyJar
    @AloneInTheCandyJar 10 месяцев назад +9

    My brother died on his 18th birthday. He would be pissed at us if we stopped celebrating birthdays because of that. Some people are so weird, you shouldn’t punish yourself because of your grief, you should try to find as much joy in life as you can, that’s what our loved ones that have passed would have wanted.

  • @m1l2000
    @m1l2000 Год назад +558

    it was only mentioned briefly, but i really appreciate that shayne said that teachers are held to such high standards, yet they are paid horribly. as someone who is going into teaching, i feel heard lmao

    • @kingkramer
      @kingkramer Год назад +4

      And with parents letting their kids get brought up by smart devices and the internet from a younger and younger age, this job isn't going to get any easier hahaha. We had a teacher strike in my country last year that went on for months (the government eventually had to step in because neither side was budging), and me looking to get into music pedagogy was just sitting there like "hoo boy 👀"

    • @impracticalnuke
      @impracticalnuke Год назад +3

      I don't even know what a teacher is supposed to be nowadays. Veteran teachers quitting earlier than their pension years, ever changing education systems and bullshit filler works that doesn't even contribute to our pay raise. I'm just sitting here trying to study being an English teacher and I'm afraid to be one because goddamn if a teacher job could ever be easier.

    • @Stop_It_Just_Stop
      @Stop_It_Just_Stop Год назад +6

      I think the school should be sued for wrongful termination. Teachers have lives outside of school and that was her JOB before she went into teaching.

    • @craigthomas7445
      @craigthomas7445 Год назад +2

      My thought was if it was so potentially damaging for her career why hadn't she taken down her alt account seeing as it was something she "used" to do

  • @awesome127ful
    @awesome127ful Год назад +1262

    I love how once the Easter story comes up Ian’s just like “FUCK THEM KIDS. EAT THAT CANDY.” Lmao

    • @quain5063
      @quain5063 Год назад +42

      that's why i love Ian

    • @Draygonessa
      @Draygonessa Год назад +62

      Honestly, I was on his side most of the time haha

  • @blanktester
    @blanktester 8 месяцев назад +9

    The "brutally honest" lady was me about 10 years ago. The fact of the matter is that being honest in that way, for me, was almost always just an excuse for me to not try to think through how I could word what I wanted to say in a way that was considerate of other people's feelings. The fact that her take away was that she shouldn't have been honest about her opinion is exactly the kind of petty response I would have had back then. Being quick to provide an opinion is not the same as being helpful with one's opinions. Carefully crafting a response, especially when you're delivering a message that may not be received well, is much more valuable.

    • @thetickedoffpianoplayer4193
      @thetickedoffpianoplayer4193 21 день назад

      This is true, but I believe that she should have absolutely kept that opinion to herself and maybe only said it out loud in the shower or something where no one would hear her. The lady deciding not to have kids has absolutely zero effect on the super judgy mom or anyone else for that matter.

  • @merrillsunderland8662
    @merrillsunderland8662 10 месяцев назад +9

    Shayne: Chimpanzees man, I can’t with chimpanzees
    Smosh Crew: WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN
    ***FORESHADOWING***

  • @Stop_It_Just_Stop
    @Stop_It_Just_Stop Год назад +678

    The whole lingerie/teacher thing: the school should be sued for wrongful termination. Teachers have lives outside of school, and by the sound of it, it was a long time ago BEFORE she got serious about teaching. Teachers are already treated so horribly without being fired for past work they did.

    • @rebeccaa.3121
      @rebeccaa.3121 11 месяцев назад

      She is an idiot for leaving these pics online for everyone to find. Very careless.

    • @MissCaraMint
      @MissCaraMint 11 месяцев назад +48

      Agreed. The boyfriend obviously didn’t help, but the real issue is that the school actually fired her for it. This is why we need unions. Protect the teachers. We don’t want to end up with the worst people doing such an important job.

    • @zacharydunn6577
      @zacharydunn6577 10 месяцев назад +19

      There's likely a clause in the contract that covered this type of behavior, so suing wouldn't get her anywhere, unfortunately.

    • @delnite5825
      @delnite5825 10 месяцев назад +8

      @@MissCaraMint yeah if anything the school is the asshole in this situation, the boyfriend was just incredibly stupid and rash from what it sounds like.

    • @islagurney3272
      @islagurney3272 10 месяцев назад +6

      Yeah that would be fully illegal here in australia

  • @emilyn9670
    @emilyn9670 Год назад +660

    Ian saying that he doesn’t care what people did before their current job just shows how great of a boss he is. He respects everyone and their life beyond or before smosh

    • @sourwitch2340
      @sourwitch2340 Год назад +20

      (tbf imagine if he was that judgemental, he'd have to fire half the cast for things they did during work for work)

    • @emilyn9670
      @emilyn9670 Год назад +47

      @@sourwitch2340 oh so true. i think he’s a great example of how a boss can create a warm, comfortable and fun work environment. i know with the old company they felt forced to do a lot and it was really stressful. i think its much better now

  • @SaralisaL
    @SaralisaL 7 месяцев назад +15

    For the birthday story one thing i'd also point out is denying their kids of birthdays would probably make them bitter towards their uncle...

  • @jenniferschroeder3086
    @jenniferschroeder3086 10 месяцев назад +12

    The birthday thing is absurd. My sister's baby passed away on my sisters birthday, and because of that, she doesn't celebrate her own birthday, but that's it.
    One of my triplet daughters passed away at 7 months old, which happens to be 8 years tomorrow, and it is 4 days before my birthday and my anniversary. We still celebrate my birthday and our anniversary, and we always celebrate all 3 of our triplets on their birthday.

  • @basementdwellercosplay
    @basementdwellercosplay Год назад +714

    I heard the first story and still though he was an idiot, but I didn't know about the 7 kids from 15 to infant... lord bless her soul she deserves so much more

    • @misterkayy
      @misterkayy Год назад +13

      but i was surprised when arasha said 7 is the ceiling number for her too. Ian and shayne shared my surprise it seemed lol but they were respectful about it

    • @pikekeke
      @pikekeke Год назад +17

      I thought they maybe had a couple kids of school going age. In which case maybe they were both working and sharing household duties but he was also doing this after hours ( some of it work related ) and she just preferred to stay in. But with 7 kids including a newborn there's no way one of them could be doing socialization 3 times a week and still contribute an equal amount.

    • @abbystarheart1
      @abbystarheart1 Год назад +6

      ​@@misterkayy no literally😭 2 is my max with an exception for 3 if the second pregnancy makes twins like. Being a sibling of 3 I can attest it is not easy, there aren't enough hours and dollars, and even being only 3 years older than my youngest sibling i was still the mini-mom

  • @joshuabarnett88
    @joshuabarnett88 Год назад +388

    The birthday one made me so mad. The emotional manipulation of that mother made me wish she never got to see her kids again. "you celebrated your daughters birthday so your brother meant nothing" is an absolute garbage human being stayement.

    • @McBehrer
      @McBehrer Год назад +27

      for real, absolutely psychotic mentality

    • @deltaloraine
      @deltaloraine Год назад +8

      Literally. I understand losing someone is hard, but they could have done so many other things to commemorate him without harming and judging the rest of the family.

  • @greenapple5255
    @greenapple5255 11 месяцев назад +19

    Ok i get that sister was mad about the raccon and stuff, but it being in a bow tie is fricking adorable. Would probably be a great memory for photo albums and family reunions as long as the raccon remained calm

  • @randomguy4939
    @randomguy4939 10 месяцев назад +5

    Surprised to hear a family “footloose” birthdays

  • @kaymarie0520
    @kaymarie0520 Год назад +1017

    To Ian’s point “teachers don’t get paid $h!t”, there has been a national teacher shortage since I was in college studying secondary ed almost 10 years ago. The fact that school boards and districts are so willing to fire good, or even mediocre, teachers over something that happened prior to their teaching career and hasn’t impacted their current professionalism astounds me.

    • @ethanh5553
      @ethanh5553 11 месяцев назад +135

      Desperate for workers, refusing to pay a decent wage, and demanding perfection is pretty much just the “employers of America” package.

    • @aurorajudd9241
      @aurorajudd9241 9 месяцев назад +27

      There was an actress in a Friday the 13th movie who got fired from two different teaching jobs because of the nudity in the movie which she was in before she even became a teacher

    • @anenemystand5582
      @anenemystand5582 7 месяцев назад +20

      Parents are the absolute worse. The amount of arrogance they have towards professionals who have literally studied to do what they do is mind boggling. You aren't an expert just cause you had sex once

    • @KierstonKxsh
      @KierstonKxsh 7 месяцев назад +10

      Not always. In my workplace, the woman running our payroll has an embezzlement felony from when she previously worked at a school in the early 2000s. Stole over $40,000 from their athletics program. This is public record, but she’s still running our money. And our entire company is shorted, from staff to office employees. Wonder why.

    • @ettinakitten5047
      @ettinakitten5047 6 месяцев назад

      @@anenemystand5582 Parents know their own children way better than teachers do. And people from all walks of life become parents. My teachers kept trying to lord over their teaching degrees on my parents even though my dad was an ex-teacher. Plus trying to lecture him about how I was doing math wrong when he had a math degree and was telling them what I was doing was mathematically sound. The amount of sheer utter incompetence I've seen from teachers is astounding, and they *always* seem to think they know better than any parent no matter the parent's background. This attitude is why I'm homeschooling my kid. Instead of firing teachers for random irrelevant stuff like a riske alt account on Instagram, they should be firing teachers for bullying kids and teaching subjects they don't understand and have no interest in learning about. But instead we have people who cheated their way through an Education degree thinking they can lecture a mathematician about math because they're the teacher and therefore they know everything.

  • @Imperius_Rex_753
    @Imperius_Rex_753 Год назад +582

    There should like an adult egg hunt, where it's just a bunch of 30 year-olds in a park looking for easter eggs. The objective is not to have fun, the objective is to absolutely crush the competition. And if someone is standing between you and an egg, you can tackle them

    • @ShelbyZealand
      @ShelbyZealand Год назад +34

      Video idea! Smosh Easter egg hunt!

    • @emilythomson418
      @emilythomson418 Год назад +26

      we do that now that my siblings and i have gotten older, my brother is the youngest at 15, and we go all out, sprinting around the yard and everything. we always do it at my grandparents farm, so there’s so many hilarious hiding spots, especially when some people had had a couple drinks beforehand every year. The fun doesn’t have to stop when the kids grow up 😂

    • @kingkramer
      @kingkramer Год назад +23

      I believe Suzanne Collins made a novel trilogy about this called "The Hunger Games"

    • @abbystarheart1
      @abbystarheart1 Год назад +13

      What is geocaching if not just an adult egg hunt

    • @alexia52118
      @alexia52118 Год назад +11

      My family does an egg hunt for the kids and then we decorate beer bottles and hide them around for the adults xD

  • @Lllll798
    @Lllll798 5 месяцев назад +8

    The first story is a prime example of weaponized incompetence. He knows the reality of what work his wife has to do, he's just WILLFULLY oblivious to avoid doing the work himself.

  • @margaretrazo8686
    @margaretrazo8686 7 месяцев назад +6

    We lost our dad on Christmas Eve. We still went through with Christmas morning for our kids. It was sad and so hard but we didn’t want the kids to associate Christmas with sadness. We did our best to follow through with tradition.

  • @ninny216
    @ninny216 Год назад +444

    The birthday story highkey reminded me of the movie Coco. Where his ancestors were traumatized over a music related death in the family and just banned music to cope, for several generations. Essentially what this family wanted to do with birthdays.

    • @elishaso
      @elishaso 9 месяцев назад +15

      I thought of that film as well

  • @cameronparchment2371
    @cameronparchment2371 Год назад +286

    From story 1: "My wife always uses our children as an excuse as to why she doesn't have 'real' friends"....Sir, you are outside of your goddamn mind.

  • @angelicakoutsouridakis5816
    @angelicakoutsouridakis5816 7 месяцев назад +10

    The birthday celebration thing hit too close to home for me. My mom had been fighting cancer for about 5 years and unfortunately losing the battle. I had to call my brother on his birthday to tell him that he must come ASAP if he wanted to see her one last time before her passing. He lives in a different country. He took the first flight of course but I bet it was hard for him that I had to call him on his birthday about that. Well. The next month she passed away. On my nephews 13th birthday. Aaaand to round it up, her funeral was on my dads birthday. That was 4 years ago. My nephew had his 17th birthday (it was this Sunday) and instead of having a party with his friends he went to light a candle on his grandmothers grave. Birthdays are hard in my family....

  • @estherderose127
    @estherderose127 5 месяцев назад +5

    My grandfather passed away December 05, my nan passed away new years. My mom never told us we werent allowed to celebrate christmas or new years, as we got older, she started to take time for herself on these occasions and we understood it. This year my uncle passed away the day before my birthday. (I live with my and uncle) despite her grieving, my aunt made sure that I still followed through with the plans I had for my bday. This family is extreme for banning all birthdays and basically enforcing it on everyone

  • @ange4154
    @ange4154 Год назад +629

    Story 2 really should've been called "AITA For Being Jealous that My 35 Y/O Sister-In-Law is Trying to Better Herself?"

    • @sourwitch2340
      @sourwitch2340 Год назад +11

      FOR REAL!

    • @sliceofsparta8985
      @sliceofsparta8985 Год назад +53

      I was expecting it to be about her doing stupid dances or challenges, not working out, cooking and generally working on herself.

    • @shauna_tac
      @shauna_tac Год назад +13

      ​@sliceofsparta8985 Right lol. I imagined she was doing the crate challenge and eating spoonfuls of cinnamon. Lol she's taking care of herself not smoking weed with 16 yr olds skaters under a bridge. 😂

  • @gortdingle
    @gortdingle Год назад +677

    tell me you’re trying to fix a toxic marriage by having more children without telling me you’re trying to fix a toxic marriage by have more children

    • @davidfortier6976
      @davidfortier6976 11 месяцев назад +46

      Or "tell me you're part of a cult (or another aggressively patriarchal subculture) without saying you're part of a cult".

    • @lisak603
      @lisak603 11 месяцев назад

      Who TF does that? 😣

    • @entirelybonkers8832
      @entirelybonkers8832 11 месяцев назад +22

      @@lisak603 sadly a lot of people

    • @MercenaryPine9
      @MercenaryPine9 11 месяцев назад +11

      @@lisak603 It’s more common than people think and it’s scary. Some people genuinely believe the way to fix a shitty relationship is marriage and children.
      Every couple I’ve seen with this mindset were still toxic, if not to each other then their children.

  • @TheAdrift
    @TheAdrift 8 месяцев назад +14

    That second story, oh my god 😂 “how dare you care about yourself! You are 35, it is past time to sacrifice your body upon the altar of childbearing!”

  • @Soon2BGhost
    @Soon2BGhost 10 месяцев назад +9

    With the raccoon one- there must be more to this sibling relationship that the sister went “you are no longer my brother” and he said basically that she’s never been a real sister to him.
    I wonder if he partly did it on purpose to piss her off. Because he could have just not gone.

    • @ToneyCrimson
      @ToneyCrimson 10 месяцев назад +4

      Tbh, if my sister said that i would probably say something similar in that moment. I think that story is really gray. Its a no win situation for him, he cant just leave the raccoon alone for who knows how long. Its irresponsible to leave your pet alone for long time. But i think the best thing would be to call his sister and tell her, he cant come. Im sure she would be equally pissed and tell him he is no longer her brother for chosing some animal over her. But i think than the story would be less gray and the sister would be the asshole.

    • @pinksnailgreenfrog5518
      @pinksnailgreenfrog5518 3 месяца назад +3

      ​@@ToneyCrimson in an update they said no pets or animals were allowed at the venue so he put his sister's entire wedding at rest because he wouldn't find someone else to watch peddles so he is the ah but I do also feel he is not putting some stuff in for obvious reasons

  • @Amy-kv2zw
    @Amy-kv2zw Год назад +932

    This is such a golden trio for a level-headed and thoughtful roundtable discussion

    • @xryxix
      @xryxix Год назад +26

      I really love listening to the thoughts people have on what's heard it's so interesting

    • @rboriginal5234
      @rboriginal5234 11 месяцев назад +6

      i was waiting for this comment 😃

  • @ragingoverwatch3052
    @ragingoverwatch3052 11 месяцев назад +397

    "I have kids, I don't have time to worry about wrinkles and aging"
    But you have enough time to worry about how someone else is living their life?
    From: My SIL Needs to Grow Up
    7:52

  • @kaycosette
    @kaycosette 11 месяцев назад +5

    That poor wife, despite taking care of their seven children pretty much by herself, is then told by her husband to shut up because he doesn’t even want to listen to her talk about her day. She can’t even talk to her husband about the kids.

  • @elfpowergripprimer
    @elfpowergripprimer 7 месяцев назад +6

    my boyfriend recently passed away and i'm still very sad about it occasionally (very very recent, only a couple weeks ago) but i can't imagine living in grief like that and bringing onto my family. in fact i do everything i can to remember him happily, i dyed my hair purple because it was his favorite color and named my new kitten after his specific favorite color (orchid is her name, orchid purple!). i don't want to live in sadness because of his death, i want to live to remember all the good things about him. i love dyeing my hair and if i get to dye it his favorite color that's just so special to me.

  • @orbajo
    @orbajo Год назад +560

    My favorite part of this series is that no one is playing a character or anything, just being genuine and reacting genuinely to these stories, showing how they are in real life outside of acting.

    • @zankudragon
      @zankudragon Год назад +30

      Their best series Imo are the ones where they can just be themselves like this.

    • @SakuraMoonflower
      @SakuraMoonflower Год назад +20

      It's such a fascinating look into their unique psychology. Shayne comes across so thoughtful and chill; Ian comes across so responsible but hilarious?! He gives off major Dad vibes. 😂 Arasha here comes across sincerely thoughtful and kind. What happened to the queen of lies?! But I do love watching the Character slip revealing she's legit a sweet, cool person. 😊

    • @HeyItzJenine
      @HeyItzJenine Год назад +23

      That's what Smosh Pit was intended for, I personally like this content more than the main channel sketches

    • @amywestlund
      @amywestlund Год назад +3

      Yess it’s such a good mix of the funny, chaotic stories and the cast’s meaningful, smart responses, and it’s a simple video concept but it can be done an endless amount of times and still be super entertaining and new each time :))

    • @laughoutloudbad
      @laughoutloudbad Год назад

      To me it kinda feels like one big ad read it feels like the most acting compared to there other series where they are chilling

  • @IBlackWidowI
    @IBlackWidowI Год назад +453

    The coffee story has me absolutely livid. The "grown man" works from home with time to get up and make coffee whenever needed. She wakes up EARLY incoperating time to make him breakfast and coffee every single morning and still having to go to work. That is a huge sign of love and care for him. Telling her that she doesnt care enough because the coffee is too hot for a few minutes is the biggest sign of manipulation I have ever seen. Poor girl needs to run

    • @thaloblue
      @thaloblue Год назад +48

      Starve him. That will teach him. Someone's clearly spoiled rotten about their DAILY prepared breakfast as soon as they wake up. So he can have nothing.

    • @ladymorrigan5950
      @ladymorrigan5950 Год назад +20

      Agreed. He goes on & on about how selfish she is or wtf ever. Wow.

    • @diphenhydreaming
      @diphenhydreaming 11 месяцев назад +10

      Who's gonna tell him that ice is a thing?

    • @FuuHouji
      @FuuHouji 11 месяцев назад +7

      Right? I work from home and my situation is this: My boyfriend gets up early in order to get ready and head to work. It’s my choice to wake up with him and make him lunch and breakfast for the day and I always make him his (and my own) coffee. He knows it’s hot sometimes but he always drinks it later and doesn’t mind. He never complains even on those days when I’m too tired to get up and make him food. He just pats me on the head and tells me he loves me and goes on his way. Talk about a true legend. ❤

    • @ethanh5553
      @ethanh5553 11 месяцев назад +8

      Seriously that’s the part that pisses me off. She already wakes up 2 hours before him so that she can make him breakfast. She’s setting aside 20+ minutes of her day so that this guy will wake up to the smell of bacon and start his day off with a hot breakfast, easily one of the best things ever, and he’s claiming she doesn’t care about him for changing her already tight schedule so the dude doesn’t have to wait 5-10 minutes for his coffee to cool down.
      Literally all he’d have to do is wake up 10-20 minutes earlier, or throw some ice cubes in, or stick the coffee in the fridge for a couple minutes, or literally just wait until after he’s finished breakfast with juice or water before he gets started on the coffee. There’s so many easy solutions to this “problem” and he’s claiming that she’s the uncaring one for only making his morning 95% perfect instead of flawless.

  • @Jamie_Jewel
    @Jamie_Jewel 9 месяцев назад +30

    All jokes aside tho I think it’d be really cute if you guys had an Easter egg hunt around the office! Daddy Ian could hide them

  • @MissMaddieHere
    @MissMaddieHere 7 месяцев назад +3

    forever thinking of mister pebble in his fancy bow tie 😭😭 he and op both sound so sweet

  • @saram3449
    @saram3449 Год назад +527

    Honestly the SIL in her 30s sounds like she’s living her life lmaooo good for her!

  • @abbyabbybobabby3117
    @abbyabbybobabby3117 Год назад +387

    In regards to the first story...if the husband is so adamant about the wife finding friends and not being so focused on the kids, then why doesn't he get his ass into gear and do his job as a dad to pick up some of the work???

    • @Stopthisrightnow560
      @Stopthisrightnow560 Год назад +45

      Why not start inviting coworkers and their missus' around to try and spark a friendship? I'd be widening my social circle to include her rather than forcing her to make her own.

    • @thespankmyfrank
      @thespankmyfrank Год назад +29

      Nah, he wants to "hire a babysitter" because apparently he can't take care of the kids either. He's basically the 8th child.

    • @camille0826
      @camille0826 Год назад +7

      I was waiting for the part where he said he stepped up with the kids and never happened

  • @juliacatherine9394
    @juliacatherine9394 9 месяцев назад +17

    Imagine being made that a woman without kids is living their best life. A five step skincare routine and a workout plan is a good thing! It’s not ‘unnecessary’ at all 😂

  • @lyndsycarson8302
    @lyndsycarson8302 3 месяца назад +6

    the coffee one… does he not know what ice is? I literally put 2 ice cubes in my coffee every morning and my husband and kids do the same when they make it for me.

    • @hexinthelilypond4213
      @hexinthelilypond4213 3 месяца назад +2

      My parents used to do that for me with soup. Literally one of the first things I learned in life was “hot liquid? Ice cube” dude is wild XD

  • @hardxan
    @hardxan Год назад +166

    Imagine going away once a MONTH when you have seven kids and saying your wife is "making excuses" when she says she'd rather sleep than socialise.

  • @platonicsimp
    @platonicsimp Год назад +460

    The way Ian immediately got annoyed with the first guy kinda warmed my heart.

    • @khaleesireyna731
      @khaleesireyna731 Год назад +39

      It's sad because it shouldn't. Good men who support and love their families and actually put the work in should be the norm, not the exception. But, alas, we live in a world with the dude from story 1, so let's keep praising these men until they become the norm.

    • @RankaZer0
      @RankaZer0 Год назад

      Jumping to conclusions

    • @trishasurangana2278
      @trishasurangana2278 Год назад +9

      @@RankaZer0 are you that man who knocked up the wife seven times and then bolted

    • @swatik2509
      @swatik2509 Год назад +1

      @@khaleesireyna731 go out more rather than being on your bed and watching tiktok and RUclips all day. That is definitely the norm not the exception. It feels like people learn one thing from some comment section and vomit that on the other.

    • @khaleesireyna731
      @khaleesireyna731 Год назад

      @Swatik I mean, I was citing both my own personal experience with watching men not picking up the slack, as well as several commenters' experiences, but yeah, it's definitely because I watch too much tiktok and not at all to do with familial expectations of men vs. women. Ya got me!

  • @coolteamblt
    @coolteamblt 10 месяцев назад +8

    1:02:49 Once my sister found out about the bunny, Easter got really fun. My parents would cook breakfast while my sister and I hid plastic eggs around the house. We would eat, then my parents would go full ham to get the most eggs. We would all laugh ourselves silly. Then my sister and I did the dishes while our parents rehid the eggs for us. Then we got to compete. 🎉

  • @Chadillac-wj3nw
    @Chadillac-wj3nw 4 месяца назад +4

    33:47 That family can gtf over it! On my 10th birth day,I was reer ended by a car going 80 miles per hour! The driver DID NOT hit the breaks until AFTER she hit me. I went through the windshield head first,got launched 20 feet in the air when the driver hit the breakes,landed on the pavement,bounced a bit,than slid on the grass until friction caused me to stop. I had ZERO chance of living. And I get the fact that I'm still alive while their son was not,but my situation was a tragic ordeal that NO 10 year old should have to experience on his birthday. But guess what cooky family,I still celebrate birth days and you should too. 🎉

  • @katiewong2051
    @katiewong2051 Год назад +559

    1st story: 2:13
    I legit did a Maria von Trapp "Seven Children?!" when I heard the story... Dude's a neglectful dad and should be ashamed of himself for not appreciating how his wife is essentially fulfilling his duty as a father for him...

    • @JayC1719
      @JayC1719 Год назад +18

      I'm 1 minute in and already got that takeaway lol she's gotta take care of the kids all the time because he doesn't

    • @dissipatedcloud
      @dissipatedcloud Год назад +68

      And when he said he "offered to get a babysitter" - bro, how about offer to TAKE CARE OF YOUR OWN CHILDREN AND HOME!

    • @dissipatedcloud
      @dissipatedcloud Год назад +2

      Some ass pic down below totally copy/pasted your comment wtf?

    • @dragonrider9051
      @dragonrider9051 Год назад +1

      It's a fake story.

    • @Kuchhh
      @Kuchhh Год назад +11

      @@dragonrider9051 At first I thought it was fake, but then I realized that this guy is probably filthy rich, and thus is extremely out of touch with the people around him.

  • @complimentsofanna
    @complimentsofanna Год назад +542

    I think Easter egg woman could repair the relationship with her neighbors on Halloween this year. Be the house that gives out full sized candy bars or that makes full-blown treat bags. You’ll quickly become a favorite among the kids and the parents will more than likely get on board too.

    • @heatherfeather7199
      @heatherfeather7199 Год назад +19

      Now you’re cooking with gas!

    • @ShogunThomsen
      @ShogunThomsen Год назад +3

      "hehehe lets give kids many candies!!" Not sus at all...

    • @Eve.with.a.Y
      @Eve.with.a.Y Год назад +21

      honestly if she really wanted to be self aware and repair things she could do treat bags with a single Easter egg in each and a little note in the eggs saying “hope this makes up for easter - OP, egg enthusiast”

    • @KeiranTrick
      @KeiranTrick Год назад +30

      ​@@ShogunThomsenwhat the fuck is sus about giving kids candy on Halloween?? 😂

    • @nickychasse1588
      @nickychasse1588 Год назад +19

      @@ShogunThomsen on halloween. not on a random day wtf lmfao

  • @aweckzs
    @aweckzs 10 месяцев назад +7

    the vibes were awesome this episode, i feel like we got a good range of opinions and everyone tried to be understanding and not take it too seriously.

  • @leahcompton2522
    @leahcompton2522 7 месяцев назад +3

    The coffee guy IS the precursor to the 7 child "dad" at the beginning.

  • @bettinaleah366
    @bettinaleah366 11 месяцев назад +845

    The thing is if he was having trouble getting a raccoon-sitter, he should've messaged his sister before going to the wedding and ask for the permission again and apologize

    • @Funware.mp3
      @Funware.mp3 10 месяцев назад +96

      Yes, he was most likely capable of getting in contact to her to be able to communicate that he was having trouble finding a sitter.

    • @junglejin3096
      @junglejin3096 8 месяцев назад +40

      That's what I was thinking like if he called/messaged and explained, I'm sure there's some other arrangement that they could have agreed on

    • @conwaytwittyer2667
      @conwaytwittyer2667 8 месяцев назад +43

      Yeah, but realistically, if i saw a raccoon at a wedding in a bow tie, and i can pet that raccoon, that’s the beat wedding ever. They get swans for weddings, and those things are way fucking scarier. I think she overreacted, but also it’s her wedding, so that’s all moot; just fuck those pointing and whispering bastards. I would of just assumed they hired them.

    • @neliaferreira9983
      @neliaferreira9983 8 месяцев назад +42

      ​​@@conwaytwittyer2667Yes, but the bride paid 6000$ for her dress and that raccoon in a 2$ bowtie would overshadow that. 😅
      But seriously, it would become the "raccoon wedding" and not "X and Y wedding". I think is also what she felt.

    • @AshlynnTaylorsVersion
      @AshlynnTaylorsVersion 8 месяцев назад +19

      What got me is her saying she never wanted to see him again. That was too far 🤔

  • @kaybart
    @kaybart Год назад +122

    Another sinister thing about the first one...she's probably in need of emotional support, and he's picked up on that, and HIS SOLUTION is to ALSO pawn off her emotional needs on these hypothetical friends. Nowhere in here did she ask "Why don't I have friends?!" So I definitely imagine her one day being really stressed out and needing a shoulder to cry on and he was like "Damn you need friends" cause he didn't want to deal with it.

    • @ameliawagus6248
      @ameliawagus6248 Год назад +9

      Good point, I hadn't considered that. What a useless jerk, I feel so bad for her.

  • @mossyraven6973
    @mossyraven6973 8 месяцев назад +4

    The coffee one upsets me to where I yelled at my screen that HE SHOULD JUST MAKE HIS OWN DAMN COFFEE OMFG

  • @mattijg
    @mattijg 10 месяцев назад +17

    I would pay to watch Ian vs some kids looking for easter eggs!!

    • @sideways5153
      @sideways5153 7 месяцев назад +2

      Give the kids a bunch of hints, put eggs in places difficult for Ian to fit into, and put some high stakes on the game like each loser gets sprayed once with a water gun by each winner or the loser pays for pizza for the winner lol. Loser eats something Garret cooked up for eat or yeet.
      It would be SO funny to watch Ian frantically struggling to collect more eggs than a team of like 4-8 little kids while the kids are crushing him