Most Men Are Not Attracted To Obese Women???

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
  • Nothing pisses me off more than someone who speaks on other peoples behalf. This is such an ignorant take, and the worst part is… There are plenty of people who think that he is right.
    The people who say “facts bro” “People just ignore the truth” “stop promoting obesity”.
    Everyone has a right to have their own preference when it comes to who they are attracted to.
    That’s not what we’re talking about here …
    Because we all know that if a woman went on record, saying that they can’t stand guys under 6 foot or not making six figures… A lot of men would be furious and feeling attacked .
    See what’s going on here?
    The same exact thing.
    And before you going to tell me that it’s different because you can’t help your height… Stop being so close minded.
    I’ve been in the fitness industry for over 17 years and I’ll tell you right now… Not every overweight person is sitting on their ass eating Twinkies.
    A lot of them live healthier lives than most thin people I know who smoke a pack a day and get blackout drunk every weekend .
    Yet they’re not discriminated against because they look the part .
    That’s what this comes down to… if people were so concerned about health then we wouldn’t have people on bone broth cleanses to reach an ideal body type.
    No one will attack you for having a preference, but it does not give you the right to attack others who don’t meet that preference.
    I think I made my point.
    #fatphobic #healthylifestyle #bodyimage #fitnesslifestyle #nutrition #obesity #womenshealth

Комментарии • 113

  • @emarakatau9292
    @emarakatau9292 Год назад +9

    I went looking for the original video and yours came up instead. Was like the universe telling me don't listen to that and gave me yours instead. Thankyou x

  • @hairfashion-n4j
    @hairfashion-n4j 2 месяца назад +6

    I agree with you mostly. People shouldn't mistreat plus size women.

  • @MithrilMagic
    @MithrilMagic 9 месяцев назад +11

    Thank you for posting this! I’ve been both under and overweight at different points in my life. I’ve struggled with ED since I was 11. I was a competitive swimmer until I was 22 when I broke my femur and hip. My swimming career was over (well the competitive party anyway) and I couldn’t heal properly because I had ruined my bones with my ED. I also have Crohn’s disease. When I gained weight very rapidly because of prednisone and being in the hospital for so long with my injury, I was a wreck. Physically, mentally, emotionally. No one has any idea what someone is struggling with by just looking at them. I got myself on track and started to finally feel good about myself and then 2 months ago I was at my annual gyno exam and was told that I am 35lbs overweight. I am now in my late 30’s and it is extremely hard for me to go on a diet and not let it get out of control. It’s very triggering. So you know what? I’m gonna stay 35lbs “overweight” and be “obese”. My husband loves me the way I am and at this point in my life I couldn’t care less about what some insecure man-child has to say about me.

  • @williamwade7059
    @williamwade7059 Год назад +53

    I married my wife, not her dress size.

    • @redheadredemption3
      @redheadredemption3 6 месяцев назад +4

      You sir, are a man ❤

    • @roninthesecond3600
      @roninthesecond3600 6 месяцев назад

      You gonna date a fat guy, bald, or short? Probably not!

    • @C4RYB34R
      @C4RYB34R 5 месяцев назад

      Was she obese when you married her? Likely not. You settled for a frumpy houseFrau,

    • @pawel1545
      @pawel1545 5 месяцев назад +3

      unless her dress size is a cow-size

    • @59FIFTYNEWERA1
      @59FIFTYNEWERA1 4 месяца назад +2

      @@pawel1545 😂

  • @ShootinTheBriez
    @ShootinTheBriez 3 месяца назад +3

    What helped me on my health journey is when I was able to finally stop caring about what society labeled me as...and started foxusing on how I wanted to see myself. Guess what Im down 90lbs, still a big girl and the men that tell me Im beautiful blows my mind everyday. It's important to encourage people where they are at and remind them of what makes them shine and radiate. I had one person in my corner telling me this and one day I woke up and believed it myself. I am happy, healthier and doing things at 40 I never thought my body could get back doing. I realized what men like the clip showed are just not what I need to be digesting.
    This was a great message! Thanks for sharing your perspective.

  • @nightwatchersentertainment1360
    @nightwatchersentertainment1360 Месяц назад +2

    Men that say they don’t care, it’s because you settled for less because it was your only option.

    • @TheSaltyAdmiral
      @TheSaltyAdmiral 21 день назад +4

      According to you there should be no fat porn models, because every man would choose to watch skinny women.
      Yet, they don't😂

  • @ArabianPrincess1998
    @ArabianPrincess1998 6 месяцев назад +19

    My friend she is fat and just got married. her husband loves her so much

    • @MrCaterpillar22
      @MrCaterpillar22 6 месяцев назад

      You call her Fat. That's rude.

    • @ArabianPrincess1998
      @ArabianPrincess1998 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@MrCaterpillar22 But she is 😐

    • @roninthesecond3600
      @roninthesecond3600 6 месяцев назад

      Very common he probably not fat. Or if he is they got fat together

    • @ArabianPrincess1998
      @ArabianPrincess1998 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@roninthesecond3600 He isn’t fat

    • @roninthesecond3600
      @roninthesecond3600 6 месяцев назад

      Of course he is not most women are not gonna give a fat man a chance.

  • @caitlincassandra
    @caitlincassandra 4 дня назад

    I literally came searching for videos like this after some really horrible videos had me in an awful mood. Thank you for making content like this!

  • @wheredastacksat
    @wheredastacksat 4 месяца назад +8

    Everyone chooses someone that they have some sort of physical attraction to. Damn homie, chill out 😂

  • @kjc7388
    @kjc7388 Месяц назад +2

    I was watching this guy saying how he prefered thick women and that lots of dudes are like this, but when I look on youtube, it's pretty much the opposite you see. Everyone who doesn't like Obese women (thick women, curvy women) is shouting how much they are disgusted with them. Its pretty discouraging. I used to go to the gym. I like the gym. But I do it for me. I don't want someone who will stop loving me the moment I am not feeling well and gaining a few pounds. People don't realize that words, especially hurtful ones, get stuck in your head. They can give you trauma. Especially as a child, when you are in your learning phase.

  • @flowersinthegarden457
    @flowersinthegarden457 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank you. You are a real men. ⚘
    Men like you make a difference in society and you are a good father figure.
    We women should love our bodies abd care for them. But not try to fit some fantasies in the heads of some people. I alwas say: Everybody gets older. So find someone with whom you can sit your last days together and enjoy the laughter, the company and the true love for the caracter of both.❤

  • @brett103
    @brett103 7 месяцев назад +5

    I used to be 360 pounds lost 170 pounds of weight. Look decent now. One thing I’ve found is as I’ve become fit I have stopped finding fat or more than a little chubby women attractive. I always used to. Now thin is the sexiest to me. Still huge tits though lol

    • @caitlincassandra
      @caitlincassandra 4 дня назад

      Did you ever find chubby women attractive or you just thought they were your only option? Your comment is gross.

  • @andresgarcia-rr4fj
    @andresgarcia-rr4fj Год назад +8

    I’m a very fit dude and work out a lot I’m currently dating a younger but way bigger girl. I honestly love her for who she is and I feel like we are best compatible, but to be honest I wish we can do activities like hiking or swimming or even walking all day in Disneyland without complaining and sweating their butts off.

  • @CRUELLANDER
    @CRUELLANDER 17 дней назад

    Everyone is not Everyone.
    We are all different and not a like, we have our own Originality in Personality, Perspectives, Preferences, and more.
    Some of us like big women, some of us don’t, some of us like blonde women, some of us like redheads.
    This internet culture needs to end.

  • @aymeeb
    @aymeeb 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow! Thank you for this.... that's honestly all I can say! Mind blown this is a real opinion of a real man!

  • @marst0n09
    @marst0n09 11 месяцев назад +3

    This guy is spitting facts right now

  • @fisha_dabloom
    @fisha_dabloom 4 месяца назад +1

    This is so true!! i wish more people could understand this

  • @AustikDiecutting
    @AustikDiecutting 5 месяцев назад +5

    Too bloody right mate! Most men my arse! When I first locked eyes on my wife, she was a size 18-20. She was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. I was so smitten physically, I had to get to know her better. She was beautiful as a woman and as a person. I was always the proudest man in a crowded room, to have such a goddess on my arm. There are plenty of guys that want a wife to suit what his mates will think of her. Me, give me a woman like one that Michelangelo would paint, voluptuous and curvaceous, like a woman is supposed to be.

    • @sachpoint6822
      @sachpoint6822 3 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @sachpoint6822
      @sachpoint6822 3 месяца назад

      My wife is lil fatty, i don't find her attractive in physical relationship, what should i do, whenever i say her to looose weight, she cry and get angry from me

  • @SephirothWaifu
    @SephirothWaifu 29 дней назад

    One of the reasons why solidly HATE racial stereotyping. Stereotypes do not add up an entire population. Stop presuming and think living is black and white.
    Its colorful. A rainbow!

  • @ДШикардос
    @ДШикардос 7 месяцев назад +6

    i was skinny with big butt before marige. Now, after years, child, depression an desises, i gained weight. My husband still adore me. It's not alwayes about "he cant afford other woman".

  • @danielaarebalo15
    @danielaarebalo15 Год назад +5

    Clearly u can’t accept the fact that men’s eyes fall out staring at attractive women .

    • @JustPaulThingslol
      @JustPaulThingslol 6 месяцев назад +3

      Real mature and grown men can control their gaze. Yes, they'd like what they see. But they won't salivate over it, moreover chase it. When his heart belongs to a certain woman, then he won't budge. Nothing can bother him.

    • @roninthesecond3600
      @roninthesecond3600 6 месяцев назад

      Women don't they can do the same damn thing and nobody cares screw that. Tired of this one sided equality

    • @DisfattBidge-i2x
      @DisfattBidge-i2x 4 месяца назад

      Most men like avg women

  • @your-username-here2308
    @your-username-here2308 5 месяцев назад +2

    Yeha no, if we would have shame back, alot of Problems would go away.

    • @caitlincassandra
      @caitlincassandra 4 дня назад

      Shame used to be more prevalent and society wasn't necessarily any better. Why should someone feel ashamed of something like their weight? If you wish that on people, you must be a pretty awful person, which is something way more worthy of feeling shame about.

  • @Eugenie13
    @Eugenie13 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you 🙏

  • @one-eyedsniper1025
    @one-eyedsniper1025 Год назад +4

    All that talking. That's all true btw. But it's also true that most guys don't find obesity attractive. A little more isn't a problem for most people. But that's not what the statement means. It means fat . Really fat. So what are we gonna do with this information?

  • @petermoss5919
    @petermoss5919 7 дней назад

    Let'em keep eating. We don't care anymore. I'd rather watch corn.

  • @rachelbailey-no2pp
    @rachelbailey-no2pp 4 месяца назад +2

    Message to all you men out there. I went from a beautiful brunette, size curvy 16 only to be used, played and dumped because I was seen as not good enough and too fat. I tried being the perfect woman for them but it didn't work. Fast forward 8 years and I'm now single, 52 and obese and guess what? I can't ever get a bloke. Well all I can say it I'm the happiest I've been in a long time, been single for 8 years. I'm still pretty but weigh 18 stone.

  • @teeem7493
    @teeem7493 5 часов назад

    I prefer thicker women. But I mean like Kim kardashian thick, not lizzo thick .

  • @maskofshy
    @maskofshy 2 месяца назад +1

    I love my fiancee, She's a wonderful girl on the big side. I love her inside beauty.. she has a beautiful soul. and sweet voice, lovely little eyes, Yes thats the most important thing.
    HOWEVER, LOVE HER BODY TOO,. because, its HER. Its not some separated entity, its all her, and all her large atributes, that surely may not be atractive for others, but SHE is SEXY to me. sure, she does like to eat healthy, she wants to lose some weight and to stay more active, and im happy for that. But thanks to my aprecciation she came to love her size too. and nothing makes me happier, that being in love with a beautiful big woman, that loves eating well, while we talk about a nice book or movie.
    we both expect body changes across our lives.. but happily, we aren't worried about any of that affecting the beauty internal AND EXTERNAL that we see on each other.
    Thanks for the video. ♥

  • @feesor
    @feesor 9 месяцев назад +20

    I don’t care about weight or age or looks!

    • @calixtrogoddess
      @calixtrogoddess 8 месяцев назад +7

      U are weird

    • @lionessprowess3581
      @lionessprowess3581 6 месяцев назад

      Yes! Love is hard to find. Life is too short to dismiss potential based on A, B, or C.

    • @wavestation999
      @wavestation999 6 месяцев назад +4

      So you have no standards?

    • @kefkapalazzo1
      @kefkapalazzo1 6 месяцев назад +1

      o youll jus too out with anything huh lmao

    • @guruitaliani1739
      @guruitaliani1739 6 месяцев назад

      U are a liar

  • @cilee8824
    @cilee8824 8 дней назад

    You ROCK!

  • @juliacyganek-dg1lb
    @juliacyganek-dg1lb 8 месяцев назад +3

    A same krąglosci/szczuplosci/sredniosci nie podniecaja tylko energia która się czuje od osoby co je ma no i uczucia które się czuje w interakcji i relacji z tą osobą a te się biorą się od interpretacji i skojarzen. im pozytywniejsze interpretacje i skojarzenia tym fajniejsze uczucia się czuje

  • @redheadredemption3
    @redheadredemption3 9 месяцев назад +1

    🤴 👑 This is pure gold!! Such a king!!👑🤴

    • @roninthesecond3600
      @roninthesecond3600 6 месяцев назад

      Nope he is a liar and a simp. Women are way more picker and it's okay. Stop your like the typical woman who thinks she is perfect and a 10.

  • @jaydenglass-r9i
    @jaydenglass-r9i Месяц назад

    im attracted to obese cheeks but obese belly hanging yeah im good

  • @createbje8627
    @createbje8627 15 дней назад

    Disgusting. Obsessed is lazy

  • @ETHANALLEN-zd1pf
    @ETHANALLEN-zd1pf 9 месяцев назад +3

    I think it’s the other way round

  • @bryanfrancisblair1
    @bryanfrancisblair1 9 месяцев назад +11

    100% Real men don't care about standards like this. Yes it's a good idea to try and get to a healthy weight but I've seen and been with gorgeous women that were on the heavy side but chubby doesn't mean unattractive at all it just a mind set and standard that society has set thinking that skinny means healthy and that just ain't true. Yes if you are overweight yes please take steps to get healthy for a better longer life but beauty is in the eye of the beholder and comes in many shapes and sizes. We are all beautiful but it's the standards we need to get past.

  • @kefkapalazzo1
    @kefkapalazzo1 6 месяцев назад

    they aren't and he's right. most people rent attracted to someone who's visibly sick, and most of the those men wish they could have something better, but most guys are boring and can't dress. most women? same thing. it is what it is

  • @ChickenRanler
    @ChickenRanler Месяц назад

    Preach

  • @angelabell7254
    @angelabell7254 6 месяцев назад

    Bwaaaaahhaaaa the plain ass man and blondini are ridiculous. You my man on the other hand, are truly awesome ❤

  • @watup425
    @watup425 2 месяца назад

    Thank you

  • @Twister_numba24
    @Twister_numba24 Месяц назад

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @RoyalCherryPeach
    @RoyalCherryPeach Год назад +2

    Facts

  • @dianaverano7878
    @dianaverano7878 5 месяцев назад

    Boys is not the reason why I do exercise daily. Health is the reason.
    I wouldnt date a guy who judges me that I gained weight in the past.
    I feel the pain after exercise from lifting dumbells, taekwondo kicks.
    To have Stronger muscles, stronger bones, for me. And yes, I can eat whatever I want, no calorie counting. And yet losing weight 😂

    • @animtres
      @animtres 4 месяца назад

      do you judge men based on their height?

    • @dianaverano7878
      @dianaverano7878 4 месяца назад +2

      @@animtres nope.
      Im 4 "7" petite asian woman. Who works out for exercise.
      It's not for me to judge guys at their height.

  • @ree3197
    @ree3197 2 дня назад

    ❤️✨

  •  5 месяцев назад +1

    i wood not date a fat women im fat too i don't want me so i stay by my self

  • @Patriarchyfightclub
    @Patriarchyfightclub Год назад +3

    What about short men getting discriminated by bigger chicks you won’t say nothing about that tho

    • @animtres
      @animtres 4 месяца назад

      he's just a stupid simp. Let him alone. If he's attracted to obese women, that's good for him but denying obvious statistics that most men don't prefer that is obviously childish and silly

  • @highwaykingpin
    @highwaykingpin Год назад +3

    explain why we have bbw and not bbm?

    • @elphie2390
      @elphie2390 10 месяцев назад +1

      Incel found!!

    • @caitlincassandra
      @caitlincassandra 4 дня назад

      Likely because there is not enough women watching corn frequently enough to warrant an entire sub category and because corn doesn't really focus on the men in videos. Women don't go on corn to look at the men specifically, it's more about situational arousal, whereas men are more aroused by the physicality of it and pay more attention to the women in it than women do to the men, if there is even men involved at all. The science on these differences is interesting.

  • @roninthesecond3600
    @roninthesecond3600 6 месяцев назад

    Dude stop dad bod's they a video what woman consider a dad bod. Bro most heavy women do not want to even date fat men. Women are way more critical on a dude's looks. Men work out alone no fan care but again we have to be so sensitive about their weight problem. Feel good about themselves no it's about being accountable! After busting my ass to 110 pound weight loss and loose skin surgery sorry not happening. They did not want me when I was fat or speak to me. That changed I realized I need to get more shredded and muscule as well. Looks and their bad boys is ALL they care about!

  • @stephanie1874
    @stephanie1874 Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @jaydenglass-r9i
    @jaydenglass-r9i Месяц назад

    then eat right

  • @benjaminbanks8195
    @benjaminbanks8195 9 месяцев назад

    Sounds like this man is talking out the side of his face and he's probably one of the people spoken of with insecurity problem telling and overweight person that they're okay and their current condition shows you have no care for their health given a woman a goal to do better in life is the most important thing to do for a woman yeah he said he dated bigger girls before but which one of them did he marry and raise a family with

    • @JustPaulThingslol
      @JustPaulThingslol 6 месяцев назад

      People date and people break up. Doesn't matter the body size.
      You can date the prettiest girl, yet still break up with her.

    • @caitlincassandra
      @caitlincassandra 4 дня назад

      As a bigger girl who is constantly trying to lose weight, being rude does not help. It makes us upset which, if you eat when you're emotional, actually does the opposite of help. You can encourage/support someone to lose weight without being demeaning. But you shouldn't date someone if it's conditional on them changing. Let people choose to lose weight because they want to, not because you make their life miserable if they don't.

  • @PKMichael-yi9cw
    @PKMichael-yi9cw 7 месяцев назад +1

    Women spend most of their lives on their phones.

  • @gerardoa9179
    @gerardoa9179 6 месяцев назад +2

    Simp

  • @PKMichael-yi9cw
    @PKMichael-yi9cw 7 месяцев назад

    Do a video on women with multiple baby daddies

  • @hairfashion-n4j
    @hairfashion-n4j 2 месяца назад +1

    I agree with you mostly. People shouldn't mistreat plus size women.

  • @hairfashion-n4j
    @hairfashion-n4j 2 месяца назад +1

    I agree with you mostly. People shouldn't mistreat plus size women.