Can a boy like me if I'm fat?
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- Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
- What do you guys think of the "Big Sister" videos? :)
I get a lot of requests for advice videos, so I thought it may be a good idea! Comment your advice questions below! xo
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I can't believe a guy can like me,
because if I were a guy...
I wouldn't like myself either. When there are so many pretty, slim girls around...
Who would go for the girl with a thirty cm-difference between waist and hip and a huge butt?
I gain weight easily. I mean, I do a lot of sports, but I just can't lose weight.
And I just can't be confident about it.
So I neither have a nice body, nor good confidence about it. Best combination to forever remain single and never have a requited love.
You have no idee how many boy/man like a bigger girl/woman. Butt it doesn't help if the girl not happy with her body. You need to have confidence in yourself.
same
Dennis Antonius That's the problem XD I'd like to, but I hate my body too much to be confident about it. I miss being skinny -.-
Yep me too 😔😔😔
crazyjenny42 same
i wish i started watching you , before i started starving myself
oh jesus! have you stopped? please tell me you have stopped, because I would NEVER want someone on this earth to do such a thing!! please don't do that to yourself, it would break my heart if something happened to you!! There's no reason why you should do that, I'm sure you're a beautiful person on the inside and out!). love ya💋💋✌✌
Aw don’t do that just fast 🥕☕️🍍
Don't starve yourself if people can't accept you for who you are. Then that's their problem, not yours. I'm not yours
Love yourself the way you are. Coming from a man a lot of men prefer a thicker woman. Stay healthy but know that its what's on the inside not the outside.
I met my man few months after I broke up with my ex. & you know we tend to binge eat a lot of junkfood when we are sad or angry... I gained about 30lbs after breaking up but thats also when I met my loml
I got asked to (slow) dance by this guy (who is thinner and taller and more "attractive" than me) and I thought he was joking so I literally asked "wait, you're being for real?" And then the song ended so we didn't end up dancing :) but yeah I was dumbfounded because I was like "ummm, I'm definitely not the prettiest or smallest girl here??"
how did it end?
EmanuelSnjder we ended up slow dancing at our next dance. It was nice. Me and him are good friends, although I kinda wish we were more than friends.
EmanuelSnjder thank you
you are welcome, is not easy but I hope the future to be like this for me too.
Emmaline Watson Nooo you are beautiful don't feel bad about your looks
These Big Sister videos are great for raising self-esteem. They're greatly appreciated.
In the olden times being bigger was a good thing because it meant the person is rich and can afford a healthy diet with a lot of nutrients and protein.
We aren't in olden times
Xforeverlove21 2010-2017 a.k.a anorexic girl years :( every girl on these days want to be anorexic because other girls are skinny:(
Xforeverlove21 yea but this isnt the olden times. Men dont give a shit about personality and heart now a days. Its all about ass to waist to tits ratio.
Xforeverlove21, thanks
Dear girls,
Your beautiful and perfect people who want to judge you are not wroth your time if someone doesn't like you its dose not me your not beautiful or there is something wrong with you
shut up
So someone who doesn't find a fatand greedy person attractive aren't worth anyone's time?
Please stop being delusional
Pink panther ENGLISH!!!
some people have conditions in which they cant control their weight, not all of them are greedy.
thx hun
Yes! There are men that is coming out and saying that they love big women.
of course, a lot
Some. Maybe 10%. Most don't
They're the real man who's gives guy's who's stereotypical loves skinny girl's a lesson in loving a big woman's👍👌👏😄😃😀I wished I can meet these guy's who's loves big woman bcos I'm be head over heels in love with him...I be happier with him too so will he be happier with me and all of me.I ain't chase guy's who's doesn't want me.anymore...I'm done with those guy's wants skinny girl.I'm be confident in myself now thanks living fearless😄😃😀!!!!
But I don't want a guy to like me just for my size... =\
You are absolutely gorgeous and beautiful I’m available
I don't think you should've stopped or changed God to "universe" God created everyone and that's that.You are a strong and beautiful person.God bless.
I've never been with a skinny girl that came anywhere close to the love and passion I got from a curvy girl that felt beautiful and confident and happy to be with me. The first time I got my world rocked by a plus size girl I was hooked, and was proud to have her by my side, like " ya Im man enough to handle all this, are you?"
Thanks for your comment. I'm almost crying. I'm in my 40s, my man is 52, he's 6 ft2, Fairly fit and very handsome. I'm 5 ft4 and weigh 76kg. So I'm.fat. overweight. Plus size..It doesn't matter how much he tells me I'm beautiful and that he loves my "beautiful" body, I just can't believe it. It's really ruining my happiness. Your comment has given me hope that he's being honest and not going to run off with the first skinny mole that crosses his path. So thank you!👍🙏
I love this video so much. When my boyfriend and I started dating I thought that he was just playing a prank on me or something by pretending he liked me and I never thought that he would actually really like me because of my weight and the fact that he's like 100 pounds less than me didn't help those horrible thoughts.
Now it's a year and a half later and we're still together and going strong.
I still get those moments where I don't feel good enough because of my weight but most of the time I realize that he loves me for me and he finds me attractive, "perfect" even and I've never been so happy.
And yes please make more of these Big Sister videos! 💕
"You were meant to be loved". That brings tears to my eyes - Thank you!
This video was great!
I'm 5'1 and have been overweight my whole life. As a teenager I never thought I'd find a guy to love me because of the fact I wasn't a skinny Barbie doll like the rest of the girls in my school. After I graduated I went on a website and started to talk to a couple guys, one day this guy messaged me and we just clicked, fast forward to now. That guy is 5'5 and is under weight for his age and he's my boyfriend. We've been together on and off for 4 yrs and are celebrating our official 2 yr anniversary this Aug. He loves me for me, he loves the fact that I'm over weight. For the longest time I'd ask him " how can you love me I'm fat" but to him that's what he loves most. He's shown me that not all white men like Barbie doll girls and that I don't have to change to have a relationship. I'm 22 yrs old and it took me all those yrs to learn to love who I am and I wouldn't change my self for nobody.
If being "fat" is what he loves about you the most, that can be a problem. He doesn't like you're personality or eyes the most? Sounds like a chubby chase, which you need to be careful about. You need to make sure if you ever decide that you want to lose weight that he would support you and not discourage you from making progress.
He loves me for is what I meant to say. He doesn't mind that I'm over weight. We've talked about me losing weight for when we want to start a family and he's totally on board for me to lose the weight to be healthy and to have a better chance to have kids as we get older. He loves all me, that's what's important. He meet me as an overweight person and he over looked that and got to know the real me. Out of everybody that knows me, he & my mom know the real me the one nobody has ever seen and that says a lot.
I'm overweight too and my boyfriend is under weight we've been together for 7years but i start not liking the fact of being overweight cuz recently some people told me that i can't have a baby because of my size it really makes me sad since i was 15 i always dreamed to have a baby with him but i start giving up on my dream and the worst part is that i blame myself everyday thinking that because of me he can't be happy wa can't have kids i'm really afraid can you please give me some advices i need to smile again
I got told the same thing when I was a junior in high school. I have PCOS for a couple of years now and it kinda scares me that I will never have a baby of my own with the man I love so much. You have to understand though, it's not your fault. I'd talk to my GYNO about it and see what she says. As much as I don't mind being over weight and I found a man that loves me for being like that. We both agreed for our relationship to last till we're a 100 I have to lose the weight to be healthy not just for me but for us to have a better future as a couple. He hates to see me sick because of it and it really worries him that we won't be able to have at lest one child. So my addivice to you is, talk to your boyfriend about it, go see your medical doctor and a GYNO. After that it's up to you if your willing to lose weight or not.
Thank you for your advice, my boyfriend and i are talking about this every day and he keeps telling me that he loves me for who i am and if i want to lose weight he will be supporting me as long as i do it for a good reason he's also so excited about having our first child and he promised me to be there for me in every step i make.
Thank you for this. I wish I had this video when I was still in Middle and High School. I'm almost 21 now, and I still struggle with this every day. I am still learning to love myself. Each part of me. I have some new friends on my stomach (hello stretch marks!) and that has been really hard to love. But I'm trying. And it's scary. And I have had a lot of heart break and it's hard. I'm just looking forward to finding someone who will love me for me.
You are my favorite youtuber right now. Thanks for being you and always advising self love!
Definitely thankful for your "big sister" videos considering I don't have anyone like that in my life. Its odd how whenever I'm scrolling through my subscriptions theres always a video there from you that is exactly what I need. It's been hard for me lately because I am an 18 year old girl who's never been on a date and never been kissed and at times that's really embarrassing and hard for me to admit to people but it is what it is. But of course the first thing to pop in my head is always "it's because you're fat" and I'm still working on that, but having you as a sort of "big sister" role model for me is really helpful for me so thank you Alex! Love you!
I'm almost nineteen and I've also never had a boyfriend/been kissed. Same for me, its incredibly embarrassing to be 'that' friend. I always think its because of my weight, and it probably is. Unfortunately all of the guys around me are interested in thinner/fitter girls, but that doesn't mean that all guys are. We're just stuck in the waiting game for right now. One day we'll find the right guy.
Loved this, such a great new series! So many people will be inspired. Love it 💙💚💛💜
spme can personaly rather shoot myself the go for girl over 125 it disgust me
Bigger girls are incredibly gorgeous and great to be around. I much prefer them over skinny girls. To me, skinny girls are nothing to even look twice at. Curvy girls are the best!
sjr341 I feel the same way. I don't hate skinny people and have nothing against them, but it makes me a bit worried when people are too skinny becuase they can get health problems quicker (In my opinion and theories)
😊
sjr341 Hmu?
I'm skinny but not rude
@@Cheiggle they didn't say they are
Hi Alex! I love these type of 'Big Sister' videos. I'm a very skinny girl and always have been, I see your videos as body positivity videos even though they're targeted towards more curvy women. I think the world puts pressure on everyone to look a certain way and puts people down if they don't meet the standard. Everything you say I can relate to. A lot of curvy girls get bullied as do thin girls. Bones or curves it doesn't matter were all insecure. Which is why your videos make such a difference to everyone. Sense I've started watching I've learned to love my body for all that it is. Thank you so much for making a difference in my life, your a true role model. I love you Alex!!!!!
You legit have such a beautiful, calm, soothing voice. Giving me Mandy Moore vibes! 😄😍
girl I'm 30! where he at? 👀 you are a great role model. loving ones self is the key! regardless of your relationship status. ❤️😘😃
As a teen i always felt that way cuz at my heaviest i was a size 18 and all the guys use to call me fat in class, now im a mom of three and have put the weight back on but obviously i found a man who loves me for me and hope that young girls watch this video so they dont have to go thru what i did! So thank u for addressing this issue! Ur my fav RUclipsr!
I try not to think about size because I shouldn't do it because I am 12! But i do because a lot of my classmates that are girls have a flat belly! But I just fell like I need to be like them but I try not to think about it.
+Darren Brown yes I have but it is a little bit hard to listen to a song that says you are beautiful + I don't like that song
i do not like your comments
me too
Elin Larsson there is so much I would like to tell you... you are 12! you should be thinking about other things. enjoy every day. do not compare yourself to anyone else. you are unique and beautiful
Omg me too!!!!
Definitely needed this. Stepped on the scale for the first time in a long time and I was so upset and disappointed with the name. Got really down on myself and kept thinking this number is why I've been single so long, but you have definitely boosted up my confidence a bit with this.
I definitely needed this. Thank you! Xoxoxo
Because of you, I woke up happier this morning. You’re absolutely right. It’s stupid to think someone doesn’t like me because I’m bigger. ❤️
I love this girl she has been brokenhearted all the time but she still stands tall I think we need more people like this girl she is confident and always stands tall always stay this way
Even with you being "younger in years" then me you always bring such joy and happy tears to my eyes! You are full of wisdom and radiate positivity! Plus your gorg! Whenever I'm in a situation that doesn't typically work out as envisioned I always remember when you reminded us that "God's rejection is your protection"...reminds me to realize everything happens for a reason! Thank you for being such an inspiration to young women and love ya girly! 💗
What I loved about this video- it was not only worded beautifully, but you spoke so sincerely. I felt like you were talking to me, and it really pulled out my emotions. Thank you so much for this video
I've been bullied throughout my whole life. I've always been a bigger size than the average girl for my age. Recently, I strayed away from my social life because of a few mean comments. You would think a junior in high school would know how to avoid and handle these types of problems. I turned into the biggest introverted person I've met in my life. This video made me subscribe to this channel. Thanks !
omg dame situation I totally understand
+Cali Gurl I'm glad I'm not alone. Usually, people don't understand or say that they do just to make you feel better about yourself. You can tell when someone actually know what you're going through.
I don't even know how to explain how much I related to this video. It's like everything that's on my mind for a while now. I would've cried if I hadn't forced myself not to of how true everything you said is.
I really loved this "Big Sister" video and I hope there's more coming :)
your video literally made me cry, you look gorgeous, i hope i will have a friend like you someday :)
I think 'Big sister' videos is a great name. And very needed. I am finally learning to be body confident now. Took me a while but it sure makes a difference in everyday living.
i'm 25 and my partner is 24, we've been together for 5 years now, i love her to bits and i know we're going to spend the rest of our lives together. she's a plus size girl but that doesn't matter to me at all, i love her for her intellect, her beliefs, her wit, how she can make me laugh, we think alike and we share so many interests and inside jokes, i feel so lucky to have her and it makes me sad to hear when guys are so judgmental and harsh, i hate that there are so many bad guys out there, all i can really say is keep searching for the right guy, we're not all bad ;/ ;p
I really wish you were my sister then I could tell you all my problems and I would tell you everything that happens and you will try your best to make me feel better but in my heart you are.☀️☀️❤️❤️❤️
I love these big sister advice videos! I was wondering if you could please do an advice video about bad friendships. Like it's my senior year of high school and I've been friends with these two girls pretty much all of high school but idk this year I kind of am starting to realize that I'm not as great of friends as they are with each other and it's making me feel like I don't have friends that actually like me or want to be around me. Also they are both getting boys attention left and right and I have never even has my first kiss yet. I don't feel like I can be myself around them because they relate more to each other than to me and also they make comments joking about that I'm just being being brought along as the "extra" or "the third wheel" and they say they're joking but I can't help but feel like they're not. I want to kind of just cut then out of my life because they make me feel bad about myself but I have most of my classes with them and we see each other everyday and they are really the only people that I hang out with and I know if I stop being friends with them I won't have any friends. I'm a really shy person and I never made a lot of friends during high school and the friends I did make in high school have already graduated and are at college. So I don't know what to do. Should I just stick it out for a couple more months till I graduate or what?
Yeees, big sister videos! I'm from Italy and I literally love you, you're so inspiring to me and such a great source of self confidence, thank you sooo much!
I'm a BBW and one of my BEST relationships was with this guy, he was happy with me, I was happy with me... The only reason we broke up was because we spent so much time together, and I had ended up having to move to the other side of the state, which was unbearable for us both. So.. the answer is yes! :) Ladies, keep your head up, I battle everyday myself on why people could like someone of our sizes but they do, and it feels absolutely amazing!
I watched this video when I was younger when a guy I liked rejected me and I wondered if it was true, that someday a guy would like me for me. Now 2 years later it's true. The right guy will come along. And he will love you for you and he will love everything about you. I'm so lucky I've met that person.
This video made me cry happy tears.
Thank you so much, your video gives me hope! :')
Smi ley You are right !:)
This one made me cry! I am a Christian, and I believe in God. Thank you for your words of wisdom, and God bless you sweetheart! 💖
I have always struggled with my self confidence as a child my father would always call me fat and deny me food.. As a adult I struggle even as a married woman getting naked with the lights on or having my husband even see me looking fat... It's a horrible struggle
J can see u
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! this video is perfect
I so wish we were friends in real life! I needed to be reminded of everything you just said. Big Sister videos would be so great! You’re such a beautiful person and so inspiring, love you girl!
I dont like wearing short bc I'm really self conscious about how my body looks so I try to really cover up my body so thank u for giving this talk to people bc I really needed this💗
You are so sweet, I wish I could just believe your words and start having self esteem..
It’s been four years yet this video is still so beautiful and so encouraging 💙💙
As a man who trains daily, thicker women always caught my attention. If the heart is big we're a match
I like your video but people cant help what they are attracted to, calling them douchey is judgmental. Physical intimacy is a big part of any relationship, and people cant fake into it. I admit dealing with rejection is hard, and that what I love abt your video, accepting yourself for who you are and not what others think abt you. I have so many short friends who never get any love from women, but calling those women bitchy is not correct I believe.
Maybe not so similar, but I'm a guy with a genetic physical handicap and as my experience tells me. There are enough people out there who do not fit your pot. (Sorry Dutch saying: For every pot there is a lid that fits). Even in school my teachers were telling me not to complain and leave my wheelchair and crutches at home. And yes, the world of dating isn't easy. But after a long while, I've found my girl. I'm aware of life looking bleak from time to time. But love can still happen to you!
well there's that guy that used to like me and I liked him a lot too. we never actually dated but we always talked and blushed and ppl used to tease us and say we're made for each other. one day he suddenly stops loving me and I get hurt. I of course talk to my bestie about it and she said he told her the only reason he left me and never dated me is because I'm chubby...
Just want to say you're amazing and inspirational, every time I see that you uploaded a new video, especially these sit down talk videos it makes me so happy. Thank you so much Alexandra for being so beautiful and creating such motivating videos you deserve all the happiness and success in the world, I cannot wait to see your channel grow and gain more popularity, because you deserve it so much :) xoxo
Big Sister concept is cool. Ran across your video while looking for another one. Good work.
I'm 5'2 and a size 10. I've never been asked out before and I'm 18... I'm so embarrassed of myself. But I'm working on my confidence every day.
+Natalie Olivia :( Aw. Everyone is beautiful. Interior beauty is worth more than exterior beauty. Everyone is going to get old one day and all you will have is what's on the inside. :) Hang in there.
More like it depends where you live. There are guys who hate bigger girls in certain states. If you give a guy an option of a bigger girl or a skinny girl in front of them I can gurantee you that more than half will choose the skinny girl. I was with my friend on vacation and she got more looks than me just because she is skinny and a blonde. So honestly totally wrong because I am confident but I am also picky about who I date.
DONT WORRY!! UR REALLY PRETTY AND I LIKE UR HAIR AND MAKE UP BUT DONT LISTEN TO THE HATERS UR GORGEOUS JUST BE YOUR SELF,AND U HAVE A BEAUTIFUL VOICE
I have SO MANY THINGS on my mind right now. So i'll just say: THANK YOU! 🙏
That's my favorite all time video ever! You are such a beautiful, good, warm person. 💖 I first watched your videos not a long time ago, like, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE⁉️ Just THANK YOU SO SO MUCH❗️I wish I could be your friend, sister, neighbor or something! Haha. Can we be sisters? ❤️ Love you so much!
Hell NO. This may be the video that I'm meant to find. I've dealt with this problem the whole time. Girl I SUBSCRIBED. I love you. Because I have a crush on a thin and tall boy and I thought the same thing. Love your videos.
You’re such an inspiration and I needed this ❤️ truly, thank you ❤️
You cannot expect someone to put effort into you unless you put effort into yourself.
It is so hard to tell people that, "you are beautiful the way you are," when it doesnt help.
The world needs more people like you
Really needed this today :)) thank you so much! Much love for you ❤️❤️
Here’s a note to all the big women out there
God created you the why you are for a reason he loves you and doesn’t want everyone to be the same just know that you’re loved and have worth in the planet don’t ever think that you are worthless or isn’t pretty or beautiful bc me along with many other people struggle through this and we have y’all backs if a boy doesn’t like you just know that you are too perfect for them love you all and continue to be great
I know a lot of people say "self love always comes first before anything else" and that "it's not possible for someone to love you fully if you don't love yourself first" but I feel like I'll only learn to love myself when a person (of the opposite sex) makes me feel loved. Cuz in my logic, how would I be able to love myself if I'm not even capable of being loved. Idk:/ that's me. did that make sense?
Joyce Arboleda same
Same
Such a great boost of encouragement from our big sister.
You’re such a great source of wisdom, love and understanding among other things.
Thank you for being such a caring soul!
I needed to hear this today, can't thank you enough!
Your videos are a blessing :)
Your personality is beauty and your courage to put your self out to us is brave. Thank you for being you! Your Inspiring!
oh my this hits me right in the feels! You have a lovely way of speaking that makes your video so thoughtful and inspiring.
It took me a really long time to realize this. I always thought that it was because I didn't look like all the other girls which is why I was always afraid to put myself out there. So i love this video! I'm so happy that I subscribed to you, you're an amazing person.
your words save my life every day...
im attracted to bigger girls btw, i am skinny af
that amazing
These videos are seriously what i live for, you are absolutely amazing. Thank you very much for doing this
This is coming from a guy, if you are a big girl then you are perfect, big is way more feminine and attractive for me, but if you're skinny u r still attractive for those who r attracted to skinny girls.All women r beautiful its down to the person liking you.Have a great day folks and keep happy
Happiness does not begin with dating. It begins with you. No self-respecting person should let theirself go. I do truly belieive that what is on the inside matters most, but should not be a free ticket to not taking care of yourself.
Thank You For This😓I’m More in The Chubbier Side is Hard to Find Someone That’s Loves Heavier Women😩😭
i seriously LOVE when you do this kind of videos! please keep doing them (: great advice and youre so beautiful
thank you for this. i never understood why my ex boyfriend loved me. the reason why we broke up was because i felt like i couldn’t trust it because i could not wrap my mind around how someone could find me beautiful. thank you
Thank you so much for this video! I've always been "bigger" then other girls and that makes me feel less confident about myself. But I'm working on it and I'm so glad that you talked about it. That it's not only about the way we look but who we are. Thanks so much, love your channel
Men as themselves the same question about women liking them.
You are beautiful. Don't worry what anybody says, especially women. They are far harder on each other. Continue to be a bright and shining star. Keep smiling
Your makeup is literally on point i like it SO MUCH !!!
DONT WORRY!! UR REALLY PRETTY AND I LIKE UR HAIR AND MAKE UP BUT DONT LISTEN TO THE HATERS UR GORGEOUS JUST BE YOUR SELF,AND U HAVE A BEAUTIFUL VOICE 😍💖💯💯😻
I must admit body image esp if youre a girl can be devastating. Theres alotta things to improve your looks and sexiness attractiveness. Size alone is not the main issue. If you are smart you will learn how to win in life. I had a 300 lb gf yrs ago. She was a total mess. But all of a sudden she stopped feeling sorry for herself and wow in one yr she just blossomed into a real winner. Amazing transformation. Any girl can do it actually.
I'm so sad that women would ask these questions.
Love you for you first then work on a partner in crime.
only 55 seconds in and my heart melted
Yes. Not only do some men like it, they prefer it.
I love your videos so much! You make me feel so good about myself
Yes please start doing more "big sister" video!!
I'm not skinny at size 8 and every time I have a crush on a guy I convince myself I'm not good enough for him because of my size. My goal is to ultimately change my body so I can be confident enough to get a guy. I've never had a boyfriend and I'm in my 20's...
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scottishflower74 lmao no such thing as a 5-3 barbie you 5-9 victoria's secret high fashion super model you
+scottishflower74 r u joking or serious? 😐 I think being barbie is an unhealthy level.
I can relate to you so much on a high level,youtube needs more people like you
I am 220 pounds I don't care about my weight I have Christ in my heart to not worry for your weight you are beautiful like this to love you and respect care about your life and your body people don't care about outside of you for me is to focus in your heart and life you are a beautiful woman to love and respect you who you are a real man need to love
Yes, there are good men out there who are not shallow, and will love your heart and your self confidence!!!, just be Confident and you will attract a mate , cause he sees you love yourself first !!!
I think you are adorable, and that you can give this kind of advice is fantastic, however I feel like it's easier to say and thus believe this stuff when people do give you the time of day. I'm invisible to guys (invisible in general but that's a whole other thing). I'm older than you, never had a boyfriend, date, kiss, nothing. And it's not for lack of trying. I've lost weight, gained weight, dressed cute, spent hours on my hair and makeup, am myself personality wise and nothing. It's a beat down. *shrug* For those of us who are continuously overlooked, this kind of advice is a hard pill to swallow because our experiences tell us otherwise. But that's just my opinion.
I think you are a wonderful person and I find you attractive in so many ways.
You seem matured and very kind.
yes definitely tbh at least for me even if you are not skinny if you show that you are confident and happy with yourself you could be as or even more attractive then a girl who is skinny
Thank you I really appreciate your words of wisdom. Young but wise beyond your years.
This video definitely made me tear up... But I love it!!! I want to see more of these videos. I think that this video should go out to ALL women out there, regardless if they're a size 00 or a size 18. Boys will be boys, but it all comes down to falling in love with yourself first. I'm glad you have this on youtube because this is something all women need to hear (and maybe some guys too).
Some of the most beautiful women in the world are plus size. Thank you all big gals for being you.
The real question is: Will a boy be shallow enough to judge only by my looks?
Ya a few months ago I was at this program thing at a hotel. There was this guy I had SOOO much in common with. He always was making me laugh and he would just understand my problems. Then my mom told me that he likes me and I instantly became nervous. I started avoiding him and pretending to always be talking to someone else. But before I found out he liked me, I was trying to help him stand up to his mom b cuz he wanted to move out of the city he was living in. I even screamed at his mom for him!!!!!! I regret never getting his email or anything b cuz I'm such a wimp. Now I have to wait 8 months until I see him at the place again. All I thought was "y does he even like me? He's a really good looking guy and there were such pretty girls there and I'm the one he went for?" People tell me all the time that I am gorgeous but I never can believe them because I have no confidence in myself. But maybe waiting these 8 months I will gain more confidence when I see him again.
Everyone is beautiful in their own way
I just started to see your videos today and you are amazing! I love the way you are and yes do more big sister videos!! I admire you so much!