I took him to the cops.. with all proof against him. He blocked me for the first time in 2 years and that's exactly what I've wanted from him all this while, to be left alone! that's the ultimate breaking of a narcissist!
It's definitely a childish thing to do. Like I understand people go off one another. Like just say if you are no longer interested or if you no longer want to be friends
So many times over the years. It was clearly meant as a punishment. And it worked🙈. In the end, I blocked her and I will never unblock her again. Not as a punishment, but for reasons of self preservation.
If they ever block you or hot 🔥 and cold 🥶 that's your sign to walk away and don't ever look back, real people don't do that, 👍 Dr Emily and survivors and thrivers 🙏🦋
After he was caught red-handed he blocked me because I confronted him. Telling me that I was crazy and if I said one more word about it he would block me. But honestly blocking me is allowing me to slowly move on if he had not blocked me I would have still been begging and compromising with him . When he was the one in the wrong
And that's the thing. I would tell mine that when he was actually saying disgusting things and then he would try to say that I am a terrible person for doing so when it's like no I'm not saying that because of something superficial, I'm saying because the way that you act and treat people/me is shitty and pathetic
My ex-BF and I had a trip planned two months in advance. He waited until the morning of to cancel on me. I told him to go to h-ll and never contact me again. He blocked me, I guess to punish me. He used to just say his name on a voicemail, now he has some happy-ass message on there. I guess that is supposed to punish me too. I gave him too many chances and now, there is no way he could ever get me back, no matter what he said or does. You can't fix a Narcissist.
There was one guy that blocked me whenever I didn't agree with everything he said. He used to say to me "you're not behaving" as though I'm some sort of pet or something.. I didn't know at the time why he behaved that way... Guess it's just a narc thing
I'm not sure if these people are narcisstic or just don't know how to control their emotions in the heat off the moment. Is usually that. Every person who ever blocked me,later on un-blocked me and apologized.
this recently happened to me. i began to express my needs for more reciprocal communication and that i cared for her and would be there for her. she became more distant and then blocked me. very confusing because a few days prior we were seemingly very intimate with each other and she appeared to be very happy in my presence. painful experience, and ngl, i miss her a lot and this hurts a lot.
he blocked me because I unfollowed him and removed him from my followers for my own well being. I noticed he kept looking at my stories and a few days later, once he realised I knew he purposely went into my profile...puff! he blocked me😂. Gently removing him gave me back my power. He now unblocked me, my profile is public and he can access to my info, but I won't change that for him. I am still tempted every now and then to sneak into his profile, but not interacting and not having the daily reminder on my feed has been such a medicine to my addiction.
Mine stormed out after coldly telling me “look me in the eyes because it’s the last time you’ll ever see me” and blocked me on WhatsApp but not on other social media, presumably because she expected me to see her and agonise over what I had lost. I blocked her on all of the social media platforms I know we both frequent. Their behaviour is truly monstrous and evil, these people are the dregs of humankind.
😮WOW! This was SO HELPFUL! THANK YOU! • My husband blocked me from texts, after I confronted him on a false accusation that he made about me. • I said about him writing,”The fact that a growing list of people don’t want anything to do with you..” • This is not a fact. • I talked with both Ben & Jack in the past few days :) • It’s FALSE. • It’s disrespectful & hurtful. • It was said in a moment of anger and that’s wrong. • He texted “delusional” “It is of no value to talk to you as you use every sentence to prop yourself up and play a victim.” (So this has been very confusing to me. He always circles back to all of my real or imaginary faults.) • I replied, You shouldn’t say things that aren’t true. • His text, “Blocked. See ya.” •That was 4 months ago. • He does get my emails when he’s away on his cycling trips. But after I confronted him about something else, he claims that he doesn’t read them. Although I think he does because I keep them very short & some are important documents.
It's so amazing how my ex used to try and force me to apologize for expressing my hurt when I caught him flirting with other other women online! When I refused to apologize, he blocked me as a form of punishment. He claimed that he was just a good person supporting others and that I'm crazy and jealous. Strange how he only supported attractive and often half naked women! Good riddance!😂😂😂
I am happy to hear he is your ex. They tend to blame you and shift things around so everything is your fault. They are so good at manipulating. I guess there is always going to be people who fall into that trap of being taken advantage of and being used.
He blocked my number after the worst discard, and I didn’t know much about narcissism then but boyyy did I learn after. Everything made sense, the confusion, love bombing, highs and lows, push and pull. He only blocked my number but didn’t block me on anything else and even still followed me on social media when I wasn’t even following him and I can’t understand why, was it to leave a door open, who knows.
Its been 2 years of torture, he wants me and our child to leave his house. And I refuse. This included: silent treatment, gaslighting, verbal abuse, ghosting, cheating, financial abuse, and now blocking me in all social media and on his mobile as well.
I THOUGHT we were friends and had recently reconnected. I called him out one day for not responding to my text. He became insanely angry over it even AFTER I apologized several times. He told me that it was "not ok that I had come back (when we reconnected). I said ok and apologized again and said that I would never reach out to him again. BLOCKED! I'm not sure why he felt the need to block me on everything after I had said that I would never reach out again, but it really doesn't matter. He showed me how he did NOT value me or the friendship, so it's done. Recently I noticed his FB business page popping up on my feed and I guess maybe he unblocked me on that, but I just went in and un liked it and un followed it. Once you push me out of your life, I'm done.
My husband blocked me after I confronted him for cheating on me. He’s given not one fuck about how this hurt me or my daughter… when I tried to civilly talk about our divorce to cut down on attorney costs, he literally just blocked me. It’s a game to him. He’ll block me and unblock me.
Mine blocked me on all social media and my phone number. But he has come at me with a fake profile! I knew it was HIM so I explained myself FULLY to him and his responses told on him. He wanted me to know it was him without admitting to it. CRAZY!!!
Yes I have. I said that I was mad that he didn't update his relationship status on Facebook when he was with me, that it was hurtful and he shouldn't do that to his next girlfriend. I was told "you just can't help yourself" and that I was pretending to make peace but really I wanted to fight. He said I was having a dig at him then threatened to block me. Next thing I was blocked. It's fine though, he's just showing me who he is over and over and confirming that I made the right decision in breaking up with him.
My husbands sister who has 2 kids (Our nephews) blocked me on all social media because I Posted "Why does everyone keep posting a single flower from their garden?" . She accused me of attacking her personally and then blocked us from ever seeing those kids again. Her husband was forced to block me as well. I feel sad for her, she has no coping skills at all. It's been almost a year, I kinda wonder if she'll keep us blocked forever over something soooo small and really stupid.. Best for us because I couldn't stand her, I just miss those kids :(
I hurt his feelings for calling him the predator that he is & then I blocked & unblocked me. I know he knew he was blocked so the first opportunity he got to block me, he did. Oh well lol
My wife and two kids have blocked me and shut me out for 8 years now. I'm at the point of wondering whether I even want them back. What's done is done. Finished. Over. All we ever did was fight and argue anyway. I'm more interested in what therapists like you can do for others - going forward. Like it is good to hear your clearly laid out presentations of what went wrong in the past, but I'm more interested in how I handle the future. I'm still working on the diagrammatical video I told you I would prepare to explain what happened to me. It's turning out way better than I ever imagined possible, but while doing it, it occurred to me that it could be turned into an infomercial to promote your professional services. Believe it or not, it would be so easy to show diagrammatically how you can actually help people.
He blocked me or “abandoned me” because I called him out in hiding his “friend” list on Venmo. That was it… I only asked! Tried to negotiated, lol! Forgot about the videos I watched that there is no responsibility on their end. He sort left slow and slowly like so I would get hit really hard that he was sort of gone but he was allowing me to still use his credit card for stuff???????? So that got me confused but hey i kept using it 😂! If I say something he responds sometimes. But he doesn’t initiate anything. I am joking 🙃 now because got tired of crying. He wants me to Hoover him like I did before… nah nah nah!!!!
Four weeks ago, my wife, whom I now recognize as a narcissist, got offended and blocked me when I expressed my anger and disappointment about her childish behavior, such as never apologizing, never being thankful, and being completely self-centered. At the time, I didn't realize she had narcissistic traits. After asking ChatGPT about her behaviors, it suggested she may have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). I researched it extensively, watching numerous videos on the topic for two weeks. Now, I have filed for divorce and am waiting for the court proceedings, after 4 years of marriage. I just can't stand her mouth and her attitude. She can change from A to Q, P or W at anytime. At one point, she seems like a bipolar as well.
Hahaha..i didnt know my friend was a narcissist .Before my friend blocked me , I throwing A BIG BLOW to her by doing exactly what she did to me for years. I made her felt dumb ,laughed at her logic & calling her names. Basically humiliating her just like she did to me by degrading & gaslighting me for years. Later i found out that she blocked me. Since i didnt know back then that she was a narcissist, i was just like wow..didnt know that would hurt her compared to what she did to me for years..so shocking to know that some people couldnt even taste their own medicine even just once. ONCE. So im just wondering why is she blocking me..is it because im hurting her ego? If so then great..
I've got blocked by a doctor after he malpracticed on me and I called the hospital asking for his nurse. Like, damn I didn't even report him, the beef was with his nurse and the L@s€r blocks me 🤦♀️🤡. Definetely a narcissist or a psychopath.
Yes , he blocked me . But I told him I blocked him first .. no , I don’t normally do that but , but I knew it was his next move . I caught him lying to me , I got depressed and hadn’t seen him for awhile , he never came to my house to see if I was ok ( He deteriorated my self esteem) 6 yrs he was with me and was not affectionate .. so I fell into depression, he didn’t want to hear it and said , you always have to blame someone . He called me names and said , don’t talk to me ever again , I’m blocking you , I said ok , but I blocked you first …
He never apologizes. I'm "getting another chance" if I don't blame him. Lmao he stabbed me in the back. Nobody made him do it and it looks how it looks. I can't erase his actions from reality. This last ghosting was created out of whole cloth lies. He's treated me as if I were dead. After 16 years. He has problems I can't fix.
I’ve been trying get repairs updates on the house husband/narcissist picks fights with contractors. He knows contractors don’t like conflict. He was a contortionist himself so he knows how to run contractor away. He’s critical of everything I try to accomplish in this area. I have to clean, cook etc. When he leaves. It’s hard because when I get friends or relatives do work on the house they go to him say they don’t wanna disrespect him by doing this work I just wanna break down in tears but won’t give him that satisfaction . I’m at the point now to ask other friends if they know of anyone that will stand up to him & get the work done. He tries be intimidating but he’s all of 5.3 ft with a deep voice. One contractor though. When husband asked what he was doing contractor said Ms--- hired me do this wirk HALLELUJAH! Lol he came inside saying contractor said that. He was quite miffed but I was extremely happy. Now I’m trying get work done while he’s at doc appt or something :( any suggestions on how get work done get around his narcissism 🤷🏽♀️
I got blocked because I called her out, and I called her out in public. I do not think this was an act of punishment. There was probably some narc injury involved. I could also sense cowardice.
After making a false statement about me. i was told by my narcissist in a not so kind way to leave me alone. Only to race to block/erase me. All this wasn't necessary. I took a mini getaway without her. She knew about its not the first time. My job and her were stressing me out. Needed to regroup. I sent her a smiling photo to show that I care about her and i thinking about her and she took it the wrong way. I wasn't able to express a possibility to resolve our problem. She wanted to go on vacation with me but she kept continue frustrating and confusing me. She wouldn't stop. Didn't want that on vacate. Within a 3-week span how do you deal with someone who told your a great guy I love u and I hate youin the third week? Hate is a very strong word to use.
I was blocked when I miscarried his child and accused of lying about the pregnancy all together. Left me in shambles, and he was on dating apps the very same day.
What if ( presumably vounerable covert narcistist...- but you not sure what she or he is) leave you ( marriage) after many years without any explanation closure with no to small reason. Just literally like " leaving room and turning light off " and dissappearing for 3 years, blocking you not contacting in any way at all. Not even trying to cooperate for divorce..No nothing..( and...you don't even know where she is) . And all the sudden...She first put papers to court for divorce. She meet you in front court doors . No explanation no closure. For my question : " why what happened "? She was like; :" We didn't see each other long time so all intimacy between us disappeared and I don't see reason to continue relationship."Literally...Nothing more... My jaw dropped down..😮 I heard people who leave long time relationship without explanation closure dissappear for years keeping you in confiusion , they have so called triad: "Narcistism Psychopaty Machiavellism "?
My narc ex blocked me immediately after I unfollowed him. All the privacy settings went up on all platforms..he is happy with his new supply.i can't see what his beef is
I went through the same around this time last year, blocked me for 6mons, and I have no clue why, hope all works out for you & your Son...and healing takes place in the relationship...
Oh my I’m living this it’s hurting cause I love him I know I gotta let him go it’s a process but I’m blocked then not then I am no contact then s3x me leave me block me ignore me 🙃💔
Got blocked by my ex narc a month ago and have been doing research and come across a doctor with the same last name as me which isn’t a common name. The Universe must’ve wanted me to see this for sure.
Many times over many years. He is constantly blocking me when he is mad at me. I married the psycho and it lasted 5 months. I do not know why I keep giving him so many more chances. He is impossible.
Th man I’m in a relationship blocks me all the time. Almost daily… basically anytime he isn’t getting his way or hearing exactly what he wants. The latest issue was us talking about a previous issue we were trying to resolve, where he abandoned and blocked me after flying out to see him…. I simply just stated that I’d like for “us to help each other by helping each other go see each other with expenses , planning ect and that I would never abandon him anywhere no matter how mad I was. He said F you several times hung up and blocked me. This is a very abnormally normal response from him… idk why I cont to allow him back… I don’t feel he cares that it’s so damageing heartbreaking💔
Blocked because she wants me to crawl back and regain control or at least not apologize for her wrong doings and have everything go back to normal just like nothing ever happened. Sure that ain't gonna happen, stay strong
He blocked me bcoz i asked answer of "where our relationship go" and question...."do you love me".....we was together 8 years......i am 40 years..and i want to put order my life with person who loves me and care about me. He had big emotional trauma from his childhood..,..i healed him lot of years.,....so hi put all his complexes on me ..and go away. Now i try to heal ...but its very difficult.
Yes I have been blocked via social media and text. However he still emails me and he said that is the only way to communicate with him other than face to face. I find this totally immature as I hate to have to email and I would rather text to get it over with as it’s short and sweet and not long and dragged out.
I have been 28 years with a narcistic wife,she blames me for everything wrong in her live,that i even tried to take my live,i still love her ,she blocked me everywhere in social media and pretends that she is happy now, We have been together since our teenage years and i really feel allot of pain, dont know what to do
My mother blocked me because I asked her if I showed tictok our text msgs would people think I was crazy. I said that because she was gaslighting me. She called me disrespectful and blocked me.
Why would they block you after 5 months post breakup and no contact? The last contact was 5 months ago. Why wait that long to block? We're not even friends on FB.
The narcissist never really makes sense - they only think of what benefits them - so it is hard to know why they do what they do. While the specific reason they blocked you 5 months later will never be known, we can confidently say it would have somehow benefited them in some way.
MY EX TOXIC COVERT NARCISSIST PSYCHOPATH... BLOCKED ME... EMOTIONAL IMMATURE.. SENSITIVE EGO INJURY 🤕... DON'T WANT TO HEAR ME CALL HIM OUT ABOUT THE TRUTH ABOUT HIS DELUSIONAL TOXIC BEHAVIORS.. THINK HE'S PUNISHING ME.. THINK HE'S CONTROLLING THE SITUATION AND ME..I RECOGNIZED HIM BEHIND HIS FALLEN MASKS 🎭🎭..
Last night my ex told me to shut the f****** after he asked me 3 × 2 stop speaking and I told him no.... As soon as I told him no he told me to shut the f****** and handed me my key and broke off our relationship... He has gone cold turkey has not spoken to me except for maybe a couple of Texas because he wants his material items that he left at my house which I told him is not a priority right now and I will contact him when I'm ready.... But yeah because I helped him out and he set his own expectation and did notried to hold him accountable for that he told me to shut the f****** and because I told him no now we are all done per his choice.... Total narcissist
He blocked me on Whatsapp and Facebook. I think it was because I could see him online all the time, even when he said he was busy and supposed to have counseling sessions with clients. I introduced him to a woman who recently had a broken marriage, and now he's having an affair with her. Poor woman is on cloud 9 . She thinks she has found the LOVE of her life. I feel so sorry for her, especially when I see her smiling at her phone. She is even wearing a ring I guess to signal she is in a committed relationship.
She blocked me three time in a month. I called her out. I found a supply and the last block was exposer to main and new source. Come to find out she cheated on her main supply 7 times. She cheated on me twice. The new supply doesn't even care. I don't think this covert is ever coming back after this last block. She said don't ever talk to me ever again and threatened a restraining order. That was my whole plan. Leave. She's completely injured. What do you think???
He has a new supply 2 months now but he never block me before until last week because the new supply beats him and tells him you AINT never talking to your baby mama again🤔🙄
That makes sense. When someone blocks you, which is a way of giving the silent treatment, it means they are protecting against feelings of shame and can't consider the words said to them as something which might be true.
I got blocked without warning. I just don't get it. Nothing nasty was said in our previous texts but then the next day he blocked my number on whatsapp and on the site I met him. We've already met several times before and we had planned on meeting on Friday (12th). I have no idea what changed from me falling asleep and waking up the next day.
I’m blocked on everything, it pisses me off! I have been so stupid I get apps with new phone numbers. I call on private. I feel like because he blocked me I went to call more. I know this is stupid. We had a very nice relationship. I love to move all my heart. One day he just left didn’t tell me anything he just left I was totally devastated I still Am eight months later But I have seen him I had to spend time with him We’ve been intimate. Even recently we spent a whole day together. We had a lot of fun we got our hotel room the next day he blocked me. It’s so hurtful and devastating and I feel so alone I don’t know what to do.
I want to write his letters I start writing and I throw it out He lived with me for four years Now he moved a mile down the road, but he won’t tell me where he lives He refuses to tell me where he lives For four years, we had a wonderful relationship and I don’t understand any of this. I did nothing wrong. I’ve been so good to him. I sit up and watch these videos He was such a sweetheart, and I don’t understand any of this. He tells his friends that were once both of our friends that I’m crazy Send me the ones that are still both our friends he won’t tell them where he lives, and he tells him because he’s afraid they’ll tell me. And the next day we’re together having dinner and spending time together. I miss him terribly. This is so hurtful. We got a puppy together he picked the puppy. We named puppy and he just left. I wouldn’t have got a dog if he wasn’t here. Now I have the dog. He’s a sweet dog and i love him. But I’m so hurt.
I thunk she blocked me cuz she used me to get back ar this other guy. Multiple times by the way. Now she is saying she wants divorce. So I think it’s this other guy she truly wanted and used me to get back at him. Seems that way to me. She always talked to him behind my back. But doesn’t talk to me behind his back.
He blocked me because I tried to explain myself after he accused me of cheating which I didn’t and didn’t allow him to go through my phone didn’t get his way 😮
My wife has blockwd me and it is now 1 year, i dont understand , why she is like this, if she want divorce , why she is not discussing with me , why chocking me from long time
@basicinfo2022 but tha guy was always umcomfortable around me. One time he ask me in front my close friend who was his girl at the time when i going to start having kids.. and my friend was like u need the woman first before he has a child. That just goes to show me he don't care about beein in a committed relationship with a woman cause he has women all over and 3 kids from 3 diff woman
@basicinfo2022 also most of his close friends are all undercover brothers, they will tense up when im around or they just bow their heads in shame all 4 of them
Give up? Probably not because to give up admits defeat. They might, however, change their focus if you are no longer helping boost their ego and refill their narcissistic supply.
Can somebody give me a clear answer please ill try explain the situation short because I am in need of help ; The last 4 weeks my ex co worker (female) suddenly reached out to me how everything was going a conversation started and it seemed fun like the beginning stages of getting to know somebody. During the conversation she suddenly left for a couple of hours just to respond randomly at 2 AM. A couple of days past and there where some issues aparantly portrait in a story she posted on whatsapp. I asked if there is anything wrong and offered my help or if she needed it she reacted quit cold and uninterested like ; No sweet of you boom thats's all. After 2 weeks again ( no contact I gues to give her some time perhaps ) I didn't hear anything from her so I messaged to ask if all was going oke but the conversation was quit boring short answer and no genuine how I was doing myself. Again she left me hanging with another reply untill the following day around 7 AM. I didn't want to react because for my feeling I was interrupting her space or being annoying I didn't know how to proceed further. Now a couple of days later she blocked me on whatsapp I noticed since I can't see her online anyway more or see the status. I feel like I am the bad guy or that I didn't give her a specific feeling back I ffed up prob with giving to much attention or boring in the conversation. How should I continou ? Ask her on Whatsapp ( even if it looks like she blocked me ) what I did wrong or tell her that my intensions where good and I didn't want to give her a crappy feeling or whatever I have been a mess for a couple of days since i held of my feeling for her for such a long time at work and now that i showed my feeling she just became cold and distant. Also after being on youtube I am actually doubting myself that I was the narcissist by acting to nice IDK anymore or maby i portrait that feeling
Comment below if you have been blocked by a narcissist and why you think they blocked you.
just last he blocked 😂😂😂😂 whn i didnt gv him the i phonev
Damn right!! Blocked because you called them out on their BS
Exactly!
Exactly!!!
I took him to the cops.. with all proof against him. He blocked me for the first time in 2 years and that's exactly what I've wanted from him all this while, to be left alone! that's the ultimate breaking of a narcissist!
It means that you’re dealing with an emotionally immature person who is stuck at the age between 8-12 years old.
Lol so true 😂
It's definitely a childish thing to do. Like I understand people go off one another. Like just say if you are no longer interested or if you no longer want to be friends
😂 lol
2 years old toddler.. immature.. covert narcissist psychopath I was dealing with.😅
This is the easiest way for them to hurt you in their minds. It’s like throwing rocks and hiding hands
So many times over the years. It was clearly meant as a punishment. And it worked🙈. In the end, I blocked her and I will never unblock her again. Not as a punishment, but for reasons of self preservation.
That is a healthy reason to block someone!
If they ever block you or hot 🔥 and cold 🥶 that's your sign to walk away and don't ever look back, real people don't do that, 👍 Dr Emily and survivors and thrivers 🙏🦋
Even children .
Hurts and shocking after love if mother and being there if needed as a parent.
Yet says haven't. Also lies truth .
Sad 🙏😓
After he was caught red-handed he blocked me because I confronted him. Telling me that I was crazy and if I said one more word about it he would block me. But honestly blocking me is allowing me to slowly move on if he had not blocked me I would have still been begging and compromising with him . When he was the one in the wrong
Wow did we date the same man?
@@nuggetsofchiken propably
It's relieving but so sad to know I am not the only one.
he got offended when i called him a looser.. then he blocked me 🙂😂
And that's the thing. I would tell mine that when he was actually saying disgusting things and then he would try to say that I am a terrible person for doing so when it's like no I'm not saying that because of something superficial, I'm saying because the way that you act and treat people/me is shitty and pathetic
My ex-BF and I had a trip planned two months in advance. He waited until the morning of to cancel on me. I told him to go to h-ll and never contact me again. He blocked me, I guess to punish me. He used to just say his name on a voicemail, now he has some happy-ass message on there. I guess that is supposed to punish me too. I gave him too many chances and now, there is no way he could ever get me back, no matter what he said or does. You can't fix a Narcissist.
There was one guy that blocked me whenever I didn't agree with everything he said. He used to say to me "you're not behaving" as though I'm some sort of pet or something.. I didn't know at the time why he behaved that way... Guess it's just a narc thing
It was so childish and disgusting
I believe I was blocked just to be tortured. Thank you so much for your videos they have helped me. God bless you and everyone reading this!
I'm not sure if these people are narcisstic or just don't know how to control their emotions in the heat off the moment. Is usually that. Every person who ever blocked me,later on un-blocked me and apologized.
I think I was blocked because I was hoping for an explanation by expressing how I felt and like you said they don’t care about our feelings
Very true...My ex actually said " I don't care about your feelings"
She blocked me when I tried to reconcile only to be gaslighted by her later
this recently happened to me. i began to express my needs for more reciprocal communication and that i cared for her and would be there for her. she became more distant and then blocked me. very confusing because a few days prior we were seemingly very intimate with each other and she appeared to be very happy in my presence. painful experience, and ngl, i miss her a lot and this hurts a lot.
he blocked me because I unfollowed him and removed him from my followers for my own well being. I noticed he kept looking at my stories and a few days later, once he realised I knew he purposely went into my profile...puff! he blocked me😂. Gently removing him gave me back my power. He now unblocked me, my profile is public and he can access to my info, but I won't change that for him. I am still tempted every now and then to sneak into his profile, but not interacting and not having the daily reminder on my feed has been such a medicine to my addiction.
Mine stormed out after coldly telling me “look me in the eyes because it’s the last time you’ll ever see me” and blocked me on WhatsApp but not on other social media, presumably because she expected me to see her and agonise over what I had lost. I blocked her on all of the social media platforms I know we both frequent. Their behaviour is truly monstrous and evil, these people are the dregs of humankind.
Today! I finally stood up to a “friend” and told her that her behavior felt manipulative! 🤣
😮WOW! This was SO HELPFUL! THANK YOU!
• My husband blocked me from texts, after I confronted him on a false accusation that he made about me.
• I said about him writing,”The fact that a growing list of people don’t want anything to do with you..”
• This is not a fact.
• I talked with both Ben & Jack in the past few days :)
• It’s FALSE.
• It’s disrespectful & hurtful.
• It was said in a moment of anger and that’s wrong.
• He texted “delusional” “It is of no value to talk to you as you use every sentence to prop yourself up and play a victim.”
(So this has been very confusing to me. He always circles back to all of my real or imaginary faults.)
• I replied, You shouldn’t say things that aren’t true.
• His text, “Blocked. See ya.”
•That was 4 months ago.
• He does get my emails when he’s away on his cycling trips. But after I confronted him about something else, he claims that he doesn’t read them. Although I think he does because I keep them very short & some are important documents.
It's so amazing how my ex used to try and force me to apologize for expressing my hurt when I caught him flirting with other other women online! When I refused to apologize, he blocked me as a form of punishment. He claimed that he was just a good person supporting others and that I'm crazy and jealous. Strange how he only supported attractive and often half naked women! Good riddance!😂😂😂
I am happy to hear he is your ex. They tend to blame you and shift things around so everything is your fault. They are so good at manipulating. I guess there is always going to be people who fall into that trap of being taken advantage of and being used.
Same for me. He said exactly the same! Only supportive - of course!
He blocked my number after the worst discard, and I didn’t know much about narcissism then but boyyy did I learn after. Everything made sense, the confusion, love bombing, highs and lows, push and pull. He only blocked my number but didn’t block me on anything else and even still followed me on social media when I wasn’t even following him and I can’t understand why, was it to leave a door open, who knows.
Its been 2 years of torture, he wants me and our child to leave his house. And I refuse. This included: silent treatment, gaslighting, verbal abuse, ghosting, cheating, financial abuse, and now blocking me in all social media and on his mobile as well.
I THOUGHT we were friends and had recently reconnected. I called him out one day for not responding to my text. He became insanely angry over it even AFTER I apologized several times. He told me that it was "not ok that I had come back (when we reconnected). I said ok and apologized again and said that I would never reach out to him again.
BLOCKED! I'm not sure why he felt the need to block me on everything after I had said that I would never reach out again, but it really doesn't matter. He showed me how he did NOT value me or the friendship, so it's done. Recently I noticed his FB business page popping up on my feed and I guess maybe he unblocked me on that, but I just went in and un liked it and un followed it. Once you push me out of your life, I'm done.
Currently I am blocked by Narc.
My husband blocked me after I confronted him for cheating on me. He’s given not one fuck about how this hurt me or my daughter… when I tried to civilly talk about our divorce to cut down on attorney costs, he literally just blocked me. It’s a game to him. He’ll block me and unblock me.
Your content and messages are simple, clean, straightforward and easy to implement. Love it.
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Mine blocked me on all social media and my phone number.
But he has come at me with a fake profile! I knew it was HIM so I explained myself FULLY to him and his responses told on him. He wanted me to know it was him without admitting to it.
CRAZY!!!
Yes I have. I said that I was mad that he didn't update his relationship status on Facebook when he was with me, that it was hurtful and he shouldn't do that to his next girlfriend. I was told "you just can't help yourself" and that I was pretending to make peace but really I wanted to fight. He said I was having a dig at him then threatened to block me. Next thing I was blocked. It's fine though, he's just showing me who he is over and over and confirming that I made the right decision in breaking up with him.
its punishment she knows i am hurting.
My husbands sister who has 2 kids (Our nephews) blocked me on all social media because I Posted "Why does everyone keep posting a single flower from their garden?" . She accused me of attacking her personally and then blocked us from ever seeing those kids again.
Her husband was forced to block me as well. I feel sad for her, she has no coping skills at all. It's been almost a year, I kinda wonder if she'll keep us blocked forever over something soooo small and really stupid.. Best for us because I couldn't stand her, I just miss those kids :(
I’ve just been blocked after a row that happened two weeks ago. I haven’t reached out but now I’m blocked !!
I hurt his feelings for calling him the predator that he is & then I blocked & unblocked me. I know he knew he was blocked so the first opportunity he got to block me, he did. Oh well lol
My wife and two kids have blocked me and shut me out for 8 years now. I'm at the point of wondering whether I even want them back. What's done is done. Finished. Over. All we ever did was fight and argue anyway.
I'm more interested in what therapists like you can do for others - going forward. Like it is good to hear your clearly laid out presentations of what went wrong in the past, but I'm more interested in how I handle the future. I'm still working on the diagrammatical video I told you I would prepare to explain what happened to me. It's turning out way better than I ever imagined possible, but while doing it, it occurred to me that it could be turned into an infomercial to promote your professional services. Believe it or not, it would be so easy to show diagrammatically how you can actually help people.
They don't unblock me. They're extra mean to girls like me. But I be thankful anyway. I'm too nice, so they see themselves out
He blocked me or “abandoned me” because I called him out in hiding his “friend” list on Venmo. That was it… I only asked! Tried to negotiated, lol! Forgot about the videos I watched that there is no responsibility on their end. He sort left slow and slowly like so I would get hit really hard that he was sort of gone but he was allowing me to still use his credit card for stuff???????? So that got me confused but hey i kept using it 😂! If I say something he responds sometimes. But he doesn’t initiate anything. I am joking 🙃 now because got tired of crying. He wants me to Hoover him like I did before… nah nah nah!!!!
Four weeks ago, my wife, whom I now recognize as a narcissist, got offended and blocked me when I expressed my anger and disappointment about her childish behavior, such as never apologizing, never being thankful, and being completely self-centered. At the time, I didn't realize she had narcissistic traits. After asking ChatGPT about her behaviors, it suggested she may have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). I researched it extensively, watching numerous videos on the topic for two weeks. Now, I have filed for divorce and am waiting for the court proceedings, after 4 years of marriage. I just can't stand her mouth and her attitude. She can change from A to Q, P or W at anytime. At one point, she seems like a bipolar as well.
I was blocked by a friend who is a Narcs she got angry with me for not helping her.
Hahaha..i didnt know my friend was a narcissist .Before my friend blocked me , I throwing A BIG BLOW to her by doing exactly what she did to me for years. I made her felt dumb ,laughed at her logic & calling her names. Basically humiliating her just like she did to me by degrading & gaslighting me for years.
Later i found out that she blocked me. Since i didnt know back then that she was a narcissist, i was just like wow..didnt know that would hurt her compared to what she did to me for years..so shocking to know that some people couldnt even taste their own medicine even just once. ONCE.
So im just wondering why is she blocking me..is it because im hurting her ego? If so then great..
She just showed you what you were supposed to do when she was treating you that way. Walk away!
I just blocked them on social media. It felt liberating.
I've got blocked by a doctor after he malpracticed on me and I called the hospital asking for his nurse. Like, damn I didn't even report him, the beef was with his nurse and the L@s€r blocks me 🤦♀️🤡. Definetely a narcissist or a psychopath.
Yes , he blocked me . But I told him I blocked him first .. no , I don’t normally do that but , but I knew it was his next move . I caught him lying to me , I got depressed and hadn’t seen him for awhile , he never came to my house to see if I was ok ( He deteriorated my self esteem) 6 yrs he was with me and was not affectionate .. so I fell into depression, he didn’t want to hear it and said , you always have to blame someone . He called me names and said , don’t talk to me ever again , I’m blocking you , I said ok , but I blocked you first …
7 years this side, I hope someday we heal
He never apologizes. I'm "getting another chance" if I don't blame him. Lmao he stabbed me in the back. Nobody made him do it and it looks how it looks. I can't erase his actions from reality. This last ghosting was created out of whole cloth lies. He's treated me as if I were dead. After 16 years. He has problems I can't fix.
I’ve been trying get repairs updates on the house husband/narcissist picks fights with contractors. He knows contractors don’t like conflict. He was a contortionist himself so he knows how to run contractor away. He’s critical of everything I try to accomplish in this area. I have to clean, cook etc. When he leaves. It’s hard because when I get friends or relatives do work on the house they go to him say they don’t wanna disrespect him by doing this work I just wanna break down in tears but won’t give him that satisfaction . I’m at the point now to ask other friends if they know of anyone that will stand up to him & get the work done. He tries be intimidating but he’s all of 5.3 ft with a deep voice. One contractor though. When husband asked what he was doing contractor said Ms--- hired me do this wirk HALLELUJAH! Lol he came inside saying contractor said that. He was quite miffed but I was extremely happy. Now I’m trying get work done while he’s at doc appt or something :( any suggestions on how get work done get around his narcissism 🤷🏽♀️
He was contractor himself not contorionist😢
Excellent and perfectly explained 👏 👌
Thank you!
I got blocked because I called her out, and I called her out in public. I do not think this was an act of punishment. There was probably some narc injury involved. I could also sense cowardice.
After making a false statement about me. i was told by my narcissist in a not so kind way to leave me alone. Only to race to block/erase me. All this wasn't necessary. I took a mini getaway without her. She knew about its not the first time. My job and her were stressing me out. Needed to regroup. I sent her a smiling photo to show that I care about her and i thinking about her and she took it the wrong way. I wasn't able to express a possibility to resolve our problem. She wanted to go on vacation with me but she kept continue frustrating and confusing me. She wouldn't stop. Didn't want that on vacate. Within a 3-week span how do you deal with someone who told your a great guy I love u and I hate youin the third week? Hate is a very strong word to use.
I was blocked when I miscarried his child and accused of lying about the pregnancy all together. Left me in shambles, and he was on dating apps the very same day.
Girl , you can't even say he is narc he is purely an evil person ... I hope you are doing okay and moved on from him ❤
Explained perfectly
If they block you, block them back and dont go back either
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I threatened to expose him.
What if ( presumably vounerable covert narcistist...- but you not sure what she or he is) leave you ( marriage) after many years without any explanation closure with no to small reason. Just literally like " leaving room and turning light off " and dissappearing for 3 years, blocking you not contacting in any way at all. Not even trying to cooperate for divorce..No nothing..( and...you don't even know where she is) . And all the sudden...She first put papers to court for divorce. She meet you in front court doors . No explanation no closure. For my question : " why what happened "? She was like; :" We didn't see each other long time so all intimacy between us disappeared and I don't see reason to continue relationship."Literally...Nothing more... My jaw dropped down..😮 I heard people who leave long time relationship without explanation closure dissappear for years keeping you in confiusion , they have so called triad: "Narcistism Psychopaty Machiavellism "?
My narc ex blocked me immediately after I unfollowed him. All the privacy settings went up on all platforms..he is happy with his new supply.i can't see what his beef is
My son does this to me to hurt me.
Sad
Prayers🙏♥️🤗
I went through the same around this time last year, blocked me for 6mons, and I have no clue why, hope all works out for you & your Son...and healing takes place in the relationship...
Great content, and super helpful information. Thank you very much for this video⭐️
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Beautifully explained each and every word..♥️
Oh my I’m living this it’s hurting cause I love him I know I gotta let him go it’s a process but I’m blocked then not then I am no contact then s3x me leave me block me ignore me 🙃💔
Got blocked by my ex narc a month ago and have been doing research and come across a doctor with the same last name as me which isn’t a common name. The Universe must’ve wanted me to see this for sure.
Thanks for watching! 🙂
Many times over many years. He is constantly blocking me when he is mad at me. I married the psycho and it lasted 5 months. I do not know why I keep giving him so many more chances. He is impossible.
Th man I’m in a relationship blocks me all the time. Almost daily… basically anytime he isn’t getting his way or hearing exactly what he wants. The latest issue was us talking about a previous issue we were trying to resolve, where he abandoned and blocked me after flying out to see him…. I simply just stated that I’d like for “us to help each other by helping each other go see each other with expenses , planning ect and that I would never abandon him anywhere no matter how mad I was. He said F you several times hung up and blocked me. This is a very abnormally normal response from him… idk why I cont to allow him back… I don’t feel he cares that it’s so damageing heartbreaking💔
How did it end?
How did it end ?
My ex leave me because she getting married with her ex. She blocked me, after I revealed all her lies within our 2 years of relationship.
Blocked because she wants me to crawl back and regain control or at least not apologize for her wrong doings and have everything go back to normal just like nothing ever happened. Sure that ain't gonna happen, stay strong
He blocked me bcoz i asked answer of "where our relationship go" and question...."do you love me".....we was together 8 years......i am 40 years..and i want to put order my life with person who loves me and care about me.
He had big emotional trauma from his childhood..,..i healed him lot of years.,....so hi put all his complexes on me ..and go away.
Now i try to heal ...but its very difficult.
I ignored him and didn't read his messages because he was being demanding and rude so he blocked me
Yes I have been blocked via social media and text. However he still emails me and he said that is the only way to communicate with him other than face to face. I find this totally immature as I hate to have to email and I would rather text to get it over with as it’s short and sweet and not long and dragged out.
I have been 28 years with a narcistic wife,she blames me for everything wrong in her live,that i even tried to take my live,i still love her ,she blocked me everywhere in social media and pretends that she is happy now,
We have been together since our teenage years and i really feel allot of pain, dont know what to do
My mother blocked me because I asked her if I showed tictok our text msgs would people think I was crazy. I said that because she was gaslighting me. She called me disrespectful and blocked me.
Dr Emily does this apply to Covert Narcissists also?
Why would they block you after 5 months post breakup and no contact? The last contact was 5 months ago. Why wait that long to block? We're not even friends on FB.
The narcissist never really makes sense - they only think of what benefits them - so it is hard to know why they do what they do. While the specific reason they blocked you 5 months later will never be known, we can confidently say it would have somehow benefited them in some way.
The narc lost control and couldn't stop stalking you. ;) had to block you. You are welcome. :P
MY EX TOXIC COVERT NARCISSIST PSYCHOPATH... BLOCKED ME... EMOTIONAL IMMATURE.. SENSITIVE EGO INJURY 🤕... DON'T WANT TO HEAR ME CALL HIM OUT ABOUT THE TRUTH ABOUT HIS DELUSIONAL TOXIC BEHAVIORS.. THINK HE'S PUNISHING ME.. THINK HE'S CONTROLLING THE SITUATION AND ME..I RECOGNIZED HIM BEHIND HIS FALLEN MASKS 🎭🎭..
I'm blocked right now bc I broke up with him n spoke to his ex girlfriend after showing up to his n he had another girl there.
Last night my ex told me to shut the f****** after he asked me 3 × 2 stop speaking and I told him no.... As soon as I told him no he told me to shut the f****** and handed me my key and broke off our relationship...
He has gone cold turkey has not spoken to me except for maybe a couple of Texas because he wants his material items that he left at my house which I told him is not a priority right now and I will contact him when I'm ready....
But yeah because I helped him out and he set his own expectation and did notried to hold him accountable for that he told me to shut the f****** and because I told him no now we are all done per his choice.... Total narcissist
Mine only blocked me couple times over petty arguments then he unblocked me next day, I always ask him to block me he says No.
He blocked me on Whatsapp and Facebook. I think it was because I could see him online all the time, even when he said he was busy and supposed to have counseling sessions with clients. I introduced him to a woman who recently had a broken marriage, and now he's having an affair with her. Poor woman is on cloud 9 . She thinks she has found the LOVE of her life. I feel so sorry for her, especially when I see her smiling at her phone. She is even wearing a ring I guess to signal she is in a committed relationship.
She blocked me three time in a month. I called her out. I found a supply and the last block was exposer to main and new source. Come to find out she cheated on her main supply 7 times. She cheated on me twice. The new supply doesn't even care. I don't think this covert is ever coming back after this last block. She said don't ever talk to me ever again and threatened a restraining order. That was my whole plan. Leave. She's completely injured. What do you think???
He has a new supply 2 months now but he never block me before until last week because the new supply beats him and tells him you AINT never talking to your baby mama again🤔🙄
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Blocked, when I said he is cruel
That makes sense. When someone blocks you, which is a way of giving the silent treatment, it means they are protecting against feelings of shame and can't consider the words said to them as something which might be true.
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I got blocked without warning. I just don't get it. Nothing nasty was said in our previous texts but then the next day he blocked my number on whatsapp and on the site I met him. We've already met several times before and we had planned on meeting on Friday (12th). I have no idea what changed from me falling asleep and waking up the next day.
He had somone else on the go and sided with them
What about when they block you because you blocked them?
I’m blocked on everything, it pisses me off! I have been so stupid I get apps with new phone numbers. I call on private. I feel like because he blocked me I went to call more. I know this is stupid. We had a very nice relationship. I love to move all my heart.
One day he just left didn’t tell me anything he just left
I was totally devastated I still Am eight months later
But I have seen him I had to spend time with him We’ve been intimate. Even recently we spent a whole day together. We had a lot of fun we got our hotel room the next day he blocked me.
It’s so hurtful and devastating and I feel so alone I don’t know what to do.
I want to write his letters
I start writing and I throw it out
He lived with me for four years
Now he moved a mile down the road, but he won’t tell me where he lives
He refuses to tell me where he lives
For four years, we had a wonderful relationship and I don’t understand any of this. I did nothing wrong. I’ve been so good to him.
I sit up and watch these videos
He was such a sweetheart, and I don’t understand any of this.
He tells his friends that were once both of our friends that I’m crazy
Send me the ones that are still both our friends he won’t tell them where he lives, and he tells him because he’s afraid they’ll tell me. And the next day we’re together having dinner and spending time together.
I miss him terribly. This is so hurtful.
We got a puppy together he picked the puppy. We named puppy and he just left.
I wouldn’t have got a dog if he wasn’t here. Now I have the dog.
He’s a sweet dog and i love him.
But I’m so hurt.
I resonate with this so strongly.....
I thunk she blocked me cuz she used me to get back ar this other guy. Multiple times by the way. Now she is saying she wants divorce. So I think it’s this other guy she truly wanted and used me to get back at him. Seems that way to me. She always talked to him behind my back. But doesn’t talk to me behind his back.
He blocked me because I tried to explain myself after he accused me of cheating which I didn’t and didn’t allow him to go through my phone didn’t get his way 😮
Looks like there was blame-shifting and silent treatment as a way to punish you to do as he wanted. I'm sorry you experienced that.
I'm 13 weeks blocked and he is telling everyone he can't stand me and I stalk him. Is he likely never to bother me again
hes a physcho n he wants to degrade you infront of all those people who knew you were in a relationship together .
Why would a narcissist block me after posting vacation pics that I went on with my family (and he knew about the vacation )?
Jealousy! Narcs aren't on your team, they're competitors!
same thing happened to me! it’s pure jealousy and anger that they cannot control you and your every move and post anymore. it’s a mind game
Dead on.
My wife has blockwd me and it is now 1 year, i dont understand , why she is like this, if she want divorce , why she is not discussing with me , why chocking me from long time
To keep you in limbo. My ex wife was like this… she called it “making him sweat”. They know your personality and know it will affect you daily
He blocked me bc he can’t control me
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Because I blocked him first
He block me cause i question hid sexuality
I did the same too because he has a few gay friends.
@basicinfo2022 but tha guy was always umcomfortable around me. One time he ask me in front my close friend who was his girl at the time when i going to start having kids.. and my friend was like u need the woman first before he has a child. That just goes to show me he don't care about beein in a committed relationship with a woman cause he has women all over and 3 kids from 3 diff woman
@basicinfo2022 also most of his close friends are all undercover brothers, they will tense up when im around or they just bow their heads in shame all 4 of them
Will a narc ever give up
Give up? Probably not because to give up admits defeat. They might, however, change their focus if you are no longer helping boost their ego and refill their narcissistic supply.
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Awesome!
great content
He blocked me on viber, whats upp, telefon call, but he left opet masinger and facebook? Why?
Block
Can somebody give me a clear answer please ill try explain the situation short because I am in need of help ; The last 4 weeks my ex co worker (female) suddenly reached out to me how everything was going a conversation started and it seemed fun like the beginning stages of getting to know somebody. During the conversation she suddenly left for a couple of hours just to respond randomly at 2 AM. A couple of days past and there where some issues aparantly portrait in a story she posted on whatsapp. I asked if there is anything wrong and offered my help or if she needed it she reacted quit cold and uninterested like ; No sweet of you boom thats's all. After 2 weeks again ( no contact I gues to give her some time perhaps ) I didn't hear anything from her so I messaged to ask if all was going oke but the conversation was quit boring short answer and no genuine how I was doing myself. Again she left me hanging with another reply untill the following day around 7 AM. I didn't want to react because for my feeling I was interrupting her space or being annoying I didn't know how to proceed further. Now a couple of days later she blocked me on whatsapp I noticed since I can't see her online anyway more or see the status. I feel like I am the bad guy or that I didn't give her a specific feeling back I ffed up prob with giving to much attention or boring in the conversation. How should I continou ? Ask her on Whatsapp ( even if it looks like she blocked me ) what I did wrong or tell her that my intensions where good and I didn't want to give her a crappy feeling or whatever I have been a mess for a couple of days since i held of my feeling for her for such a long time at work and now that i showed my feeling she just became cold and distant. Also after being on youtube I am actually doubting myself that I was the narcissist by acting to nice IDK anymore or maby i portrait that feeling