letting go of your victim mentality

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024
  • instagram: @inayah0
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    Runway Rose by Judith Ripka- sbird.co/4d1mh9b
    thanks for watching

Комментарии • 72

  • @inayah0
    @inayah0  Месяц назад +9

    Click here sbird.co/4ehABeE and use my code INAYAH to get 55% OFF your first month at Scentbird. What’s your favorite fragrance? Comment below!

    • @suryamurari
      @suryamurari Месяц назад

      I really really fallen in your word or ❤❤ from INDIA

  • @starryamity33
    @starryamity33 Месяц назад +50

    _"Cynicism isn't wisdom, it's a lazy way to say that you've been burned. It seems, if anything, you'd be less certain after everything you ever learned." - Nana Grizol, Cynicism._

  • @s0_men
    @s0_men Месяц назад +102

    This just arrived at the perfect time…

  • @Mystic_Paths
    @Mystic_Paths Месяц назад +44

    Moving away from a victim mentality allows us to reclaim our power and take proactive steps toward creating the life we want.

  • @rain2646
    @rain2646 Месяц назад +40

    Being the hopeful lamb with the swords hovering over it

  • @leannecampbell4551
    @leannecampbell4551 Месяц назад +18

    There are no victims, only creators!

  • @wadecodez
    @wadecodez Месяц назад +8

    Part of me forgot what it was like to be grateful, and I think this video actually lifted my spirits. Cheers!

  • @noahgutierrez8433
    @noahgutierrez8433 Месяц назад +4

    beautiful message coming at the perfect time. A nice reminder that the bad things that happen to us are opportunities to learn and grow and its our own responsibility to save ourselves.

  • @ionageman
    @ionageman Месяц назад +17

    You are neither victim or predator .. you are what you choose to be .. be neither is my recommendation

    • @starryamity33
      @starryamity33 Месяц назад +3

      Yeah, both are positions of ignorance that deny the other half of reality.

  • @mearii.chaan99
    @mearii.chaan99 19 дней назад +3

    i love the energy of your friend 💗✨

    • @ansebin111
      @ansebin111 13 дней назад

      그녀는 다른 친구를 의식하고 그 또다른 사람들하고만 어울리고 또 다른 사함을 이렇게 판단합니다

  • @najaaredzuan
    @najaaredzuan Месяц назад +5

    i need u on spotify podcast

  • @charmedprince
    @charmedprince Месяц назад +11

    Imma tell y'all's future kids that this is Reverend Mother Lady Jessica arranging flowers in Caladan.

    • @biteofdog
      @biteofdog Месяц назад

      Wasn't she that Lady who exploited decades of prophecy propaganda that the Bene Gesserit have planted on Arrakis to exploit the Fremen?

  • @RougeBlisters
    @RougeBlisters Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful message and video. This arrived to me at the right time. I left an abusive relationship, and got arrested all in 1 year and it’s been a tough ride but I know I’m strong and will continue to live an amazing life of love and magic

  • @thomasklock3r
    @thomasklock3r Месяц назад +7

    idk how this got on my feed but you’re incredible and I’m obsessed with your energy. down to the fucking font choice :0

  • @chrukfux
    @chrukfux Месяц назад +4

    Really love the long ending with the jazzyness and black background... bravo!

  • @AZERTY7152
    @AZERTY7152 Месяц назад +1

    I just had that conversation with myself yesterday and I arrived at the same conclusion, can't wait to listen to your perspective

  • @issaayoo
    @issaayoo 22 дня назад +1

    ill watch this as many times as i need to

  • @rqseblood
    @rqseblood Месяц назад +6

    ugh I hope you accomplish many things in life, which you will and it will all be deserved. It’s really scary putting your emotions, notions and thoughts out there for others to look upon and I would feel so reluctant doing it so major props to you. I’m as well working on writing and poetry (I read yours too) but it’s so scary just showing it and putting it out there lol. I’m still trying but your videos bring life to my confidence in having my work be seen. Thanks a ton 🖤

    • @wadecodez
      @wadecodez Месяц назад +1

      feelings of revision are the worst! recently I've been intentionally posting more incomplete work because I'm tired of wrestling with those thoughts.

    • @rqseblood
      @rqseblood Месяц назад +1

      @@wadecodez aww, I hope it passes as soon as possible for you 😖 it is the worst

    • @karleyj9706
      @karleyj9706 28 дней назад +1

      I'm not very eloquent, but I'd like to share a thought. One of my favorite people (who I can't imagine would ever make bad art) once shared this meme on how to be an artist:
      Step one: make art
      Step two: stare at it until I hate it
      I think this can be applied to any kind of artist lol, we are always our own worst critic. Good luck with everything ✨️

    • @rqseblood
      @rqseblood 28 дней назад +1

      @@karleyj9706 I really love this and it really makes so much sense lol. Thank you by the way!

    • @wadecodez
      @wadecodez 27 дней назад

      great. a conversation. you Must hate your art lol

  • @ajaoneal6499
    @ajaoneal6499 Месяц назад +13

    wow I've been watching your vids all day as i clean my depression room I can't believe I'm this early!

  • @supportcanadian126
    @supportcanadian126 Месяц назад +2

    I dont know if you've talked about this already, but I would love to hear you talk about fault vs responsibility because it's something I struggle with so much. Hearing your different perspective would help a lot.

  • @AngPMira
    @AngPMira Месяц назад +1

    You have no idea how badly I needed to hear this. Thank you so much, Inayah.

  • @Fiedhaj
    @Fiedhaj Месяц назад

    YOUR POSTS ARE ALWAYS SO ON TIME!

  • @makicasanova
    @makicasanova Месяц назад

    thank you so much for this, i REALLY needed to hear it all

  • @hibakami6303
    @hibakami6303 Месяц назад

    I love this video so much! My heart and eyes are happy and so greatful ❤

  • @jzzlynmay5787
    @jzzlynmay5787 Месяц назад

    I absolutely love you inayah!!💕 You've been my big sister for awhile😊

  • @johndoe-rq1pu
    @johndoe-rq1pu Месяц назад +2

    Oh gosh, they're even coming for my mentality now.

  • @BamBamPewPew
    @BamBamPewPew Месяц назад

    needed. this. thank you!

  • @India-tt2pr
    @India-tt2pr Месяц назад

    I love you, thank you for this

  • @Dionysius-s6s
    @Dionysius-s6s Месяц назад

    Inayahh makes me happyyyy

  • @mcthejeanjeanie
    @mcthejeanjeanie Месяц назад +2

    I’m kinda curious about both of yalls take on toxic positivity

  • @jeniLee5
    @jeniLee5 Месяц назад

    Babe how you make the audio sound so gooooood?💗😭

  • @fairyfarms
    @fairyfarms Месяц назад +2

    how dare you assume i have a victim mentality?

    • @fairyfarms
      @fairyfarms Месяц назад

      this is a joke btw! ^_^

  • @Lauraselinaz
    @Lauraselinaz Месяц назад

    What a wonderful video !!

  • @mcthejeanjeanie
    @mcthejeanjeanie Месяц назад

    Also yall should do podcasts! Just an idea. Thanks for the video😊

  • @mauritsbol4806
    @mauritsbol4806 Месяц назад +2

    Therefore I believe I'm Cheesus. It is the non-lactose free version of Jesus.

  • @SyfyKnightKoi
    @SyfyKnightKoi Месяц назад +2

    Have fun with the vtubers girls cheers 🍺

  • @Jijujujimom09
    @Jijujujimom09 Месяц назад +1

    You and your sister are born to help people!! The mindset of you guys are marvelous. Thank you❤

    • @vatsalaykhobragade
      @vatsalaykhobragade Месяц назад

      Her sister?

    • @Elah8888
      @Elah8888 25 дней назад +1

      They're not actually sisters lol they're best friends. But yes

  • @EleanorRoseKreamer
    @EleanorRoseKreamer 29 дней назад

    I have been influenced to make a scentbird purchase

  • @the-comments-poet
    @the-comments-poet Месяц назад

    Broken chains
    I remember the warden and the lock and the keys
    I remember the chains
    I’ll give you my time if you feed me
    I’ll give you my soul if you give me hope
    And I’ll forgo friends and family
    While you make merry with yours
    And I will not sleep
    And I will not laugh
    And I will not ask when and why
    For I know my place
    These chains I have broken
    I’m free now, but I remember
    I remember your hold
    And your rules and your ways and your authority
    And I remember how I bowed obediently
    But now I’m free
    The keys are mine and the chains broken
    Am I then to become a prisoner of my own freedom
    As this you once foretold
    I remember the warden and the lock and the keys
    So today I will sing and not be quiet
    So today I will dance and be silly
    I will laugh with friends
    Share tears of joy and pain with the ones I love
    And if one day I should forget
    If I forget the warden and the lock and the keys
    I pray I never forget my chains
    My freedom was born of these broken chains

  • @witchcraft222
    @witchcraft222 Месяц назад +2

    hello !!

  • @Hrissle
    @Hrissle Месяц назад +2

    Good evening

  • @arabianqueen603
    @arabianqueen603 Месяц назад

    Where can I find these type of video aesthetic?

  • @billkenz4371
    @billkenz4371 20 дней назад

    what kind of camera that you used in vlog? tks

  • @Anni-vx3pd
    @Anni-vx3pd Месяц назад

    Could you let me know which model of camcorder you’re using to shoot videos?😊

  • @moooiemoo
    @moooiemoo Месяц назад +1

    Hello

  • @trixieybanez1994
    @trixieybanez1994 Месяц назад

    I love your voice. Your mouth looks like lady gaga's. 🥰

  • @ansebin111
    @ansebin111 13 дней назад

    너도 피해의식 갖고있는거 같아

  • @bewitchedbylena
    @bewitchedbylena Месяц назад

  • @فاطمهناصر-ح6ب
    @فاطمهناصر-ح6ب 27 дней назад

    How old are you.❤

  • @babyblueskyexo
    @babyblueskyexo Месяц назад

    you and your sis are such a light , made me wanna cry

  • @kdtumaoti
    @kdtumaoti Месяц назад

    shared joy

  • @seduless
    @seduless Месяц назад

    just yesterday i was doubting myself about what i can achieve in this life and had a little nervous breakdown so this really came out at the perfect time 🤍 thank you.