Schellea, you're such a gem. I always had a tiny waist - until I hit my 50's and I still haven't reconciled myself to this thickening middle. I love all these ideas, and most of all, I love and appreciate your attitude. You've started my day off right once again! Thank you.
Patricia Terrell I totally agree....always had a skinny middle until 50’s. Even sucking it in doesn’t help anymore 😭. Thanks for the tips! BTW, if my legs were as thin as yours, I would totally suffer with the small pouch. 😊
Just hit 50, gained a belly and seem to have lost everything in my wardrobe overnight, I have been struggling with clothing which I have never had to think about before. Thank god I found you channel, such simple advice I love it!!! and you use real life examples so much better than someone telling you using a size 0 model.
You are right on!!!! I am built EXACTLY like you ( I'm 71 now ) and my lower pouch has been my nemesis all my life! Most of these tips I've known or worked out on my own...except the 1 about belts high up. I just stay away from belts all together, but like you I have the big breasts and since being a back sleeper my chest has no wrinkles , so I look younger because my neck/chest area have few wrinkles. Your peplum w/ a high waisted belt idea is great , along w/ a cropped top to accentuate a nice bust line. Thank you for doing this video!!!!
Due to watching your videos my wardrobe as change and so have I. I'm 58, got a menopause belly and feel great now following ALL your advice. Get comments wherever I go - great confidence booster. Big thanks from Denton UK
Hi Schellea Ive been watching all your video clips im not 50 or over but ive been struggling with everything that you talk about. Ive been struggling with underactive thyroid for 18 years and my body has been ageing more than it should my body fights against itself. Watching your videos made me realise that ive been doing all the wrong things doctors say go on a diet take these pills move more. Yes exercise is a must but there are days where you have no energy at all no matter how hard you try. Im 43 and have 5 kids 2 of them being 7 and 1 so my health needs to get on track big time. I have found your videos helpful theres so much marketing gimmicks out there that suck us all in and yes i have tried many and they've always failed. Thankyou for your videos you are a treasure to all us women who just need an honest person to give us powerful information that we can keep going back to.
I'm only just 42 but I hope you won't throw me out! If it helps, I'm apple-shaped, and postmenopausal. So I kind of fit in! I wanted to thank you for making such a well-thought-out, and super nice, and KIND video about this thing that we all hate about ourselves. I think you are spot-on about all of your design and fitting recommendations. You don't look like a person who should be worrying about this but as a person who absolutely is worried about this particular issue, I can tell you that all of this works like a charm. And when you incorporate different parts of this together, not only will you be hiding your tummy from the world, but you'll forget you we're even worried to begin with. And there really is nothing like confidence and a smile to hide your flaws. I don't share very many videos, because I find that to be rather obnoxious, but I'm sharing this one because it's actually helpful. Spot-on. Just absolutely spot-on. Thanks!
Oh my, you're just kids, if was thanksgiving both of ypu 42 year olds would be eating at card table in the basement not with grown ups. Hahaha... love your comments
I love all your videos. My only concern is, the writing caption gets in the way of certain videos, one is your makeup videos. But, I love your informative videos...thank you!
"When you're giving them that much energy they won't even notice your belly" 🤣🤣🤣 So true!!! Shelley you're wonderful, I'm going to start listening to others more, I needed to hear that, I was so busy with the things going on in my own life.
You rock, Shellea!! I'm 66, really care about taking care of myself...Most people think I'm in my 40's, though I never push that impression. I just FEEL better if I exercise, and keep myself no more than 100 pounds. I am not obsessed!! I just don't have problems with arthritis, if I keep my weight down. I still have rolls and a tummy, but i just keep trying to keep feeling well. I have tiny bones and severe osteoporosis, and I'm short--just 5 feet tall. I also use shapewear, thank you for bringing that out and make it okay... I'm so grateful for you...
What a beautiful person you are! I recently turned 50 and I am still struggling with the fact lol It’s nice to see you looking amazing and thank you for the encouragement!
Thank you so much for this video, Schellea! I am starting a new job with the Census in a month or two. I have been working at home for the last 20+ years. I have always had a bigger tummy than I would like, but now that I have turned 60 this year it is even bigger. I shopped recently using your guidelines in this video and I am so excited to wear my new clothes that do not accent my belly. You are a lifesaver!
Thank you for your honesty and for showing that you have a belly!! You're a beautiful woman & I thought "Oh sure, how to hide a belly - on this petite lady?" Well, I've watched quite a few of your videos now - very helpful for sure. Going to be going into this spring and summer revamping my makeup and wardrobe. I've subscribed and looking forward to more tips to show off my 'good bits'.
I needed this. Years of being size 2-4 I was spoiled but now I’m lost after age 50 I got a tummy😳 not even after two kids but listening to your tips was better then a good girlfriend advise. Thank you💖 keep it up-
You are right on the head with these tips. I have a curvy body and sometimes I forget which clothes goes great with my shape. Thanks so much for doing this! Didn't know about activewear Spanxs.
Awesome tip. I so agree so many of us are wearing the straight line shirts. It makes us look top heavy if we have larger busts. It makes us appear the same size all the way down. For some reason cheaper tops tend to be cut straight down with no definition.
I Love these tips. I’ve ordered some waterfall cardigans today. The belly fat thing is horrid but your tips have empowered me to style them away! You are fab Schellea xxx
last minute was so great. When I hear someone thinks I'm sexy I think about what was I wearing when I talked to this person or how was my hair? Then I realize it was nothing special but I actually listened to the person and engaged in them. It's powerful stuff. I am a new subscriber, I enjoy your content, thank you!
Just found you. Thank you. I am 59 and am in a place where I am looking to update but want to avoid looking frumpy but do not want to dress too young. I really enjoyed your video. I have always been very short waisted and with aging I have more tummy. Tops are so hard to shop for. Like most short waisted women I am rather busty too.
Hi Helen Milchling and a warm welcome to fabulous50s! I'm happy you are here...I will make a video very shortly on how to dress for short waist.. have an amazing week 💕
Hi Schellea, I found your video after googling how to dress with a big midsection. Your tips were EXCELLENT. I am 52 surgically induced into menopause. I am post menopausal now but with so many surgeries on my stomach I will never be flat again. Needless to say it's depressing at times. Clothes now a days are geared towards the smaller waist women. Thank you so much for your tips and tricks and please keep them coming.
I have been hiding my belly since I had triplets when I was 39 (in 1989 LOL!!) and I thought I knew every trick. But you have shown me some new great ones!! thanks so so much! this is wonderful! And I would like to add to #10 - be confident. Not annoying so but people react well to a quiet confidence. It makes you seem happy with your self - which we all work for. Thanks again for great ideas!
Awesome video. Your ideas are right on. I am actually petite with a tummy I can’t flatten. Lol ! Having a smile and being a kind person is so important! Love your videos
Thank you so much for all these amazing tips. I’m 55 and lately I feel like I have lost all control on what to wear or what looks good on me🤦🏻♀️. This helped a lot especially fascinated by the A-line shirt and omg the spans workout clothes which I’m definitely going to look into it👍🏻. Thanks again. Your beautiful and encouraging. Much love 💗
Schellea, as a 66 year old woman, I just want to tell you how much I appreciate your videos. The belly fat thing is real and I struggle everyday with hiding it on my own petite body. Thank you so much for all the tips. My smallest part is also right under my bust, so I can’t wait to try your suggestions! Just because we are older doesn’t mean that we don’t want to look our best . Thank you!,
I absolutely love the light weight cardigan over the black mesh vest. You helped me so much with styling my Mom for Mother's Day. My Mom is a second-shift custodian, so she usually doesn't have the chance to dress up for family reunions and special events.
I'm going through menopause and I suddenly find bumps where I never had them before!! I implement most of your tips anyway except for no 10 which as you said is THE most important!!! I have great legs, petite, but great shape legs!! I need to focus on the good and not the bad!!! Thank you for reminding me of that!!!
Super esp your conclusion. Re posture...I have curvature of the spine in my neck from a disc replacement so that my head thrusts forward. I used to wear very short hair..now at 70 I have let it grow shoulder blade length and it is the color more or less of yours. I always read older women should not wear long hair...well for ME it camouflages that spine issue no one knows, it is easier for me to care for as I leave it natural not curled and the color carries the day. People tell me I look ten to fifteen years younger than I am. I no longer wear black near my face as it is too aging for me. My neutral base colors are now tones of warm brown and navy. They go with my warm blonde hair and warm skin coloring and turquoise eyes best. Then I wear either turquoise, teal or coral as accent colors..the blues make my eyes my standout feature, while the coral gives me a natural glow.I dont wear them together except in scarves. I have found Retin A to be the BEST for exfoliating top layers of skin and making my skin look FAR less sun damaged and almost zero wrinkling after a year of nightly use. It is a Rx most places but unlike all the cosmetics and creams it actually WORKS . Can't go in the sun using it though as those rough wrinkly outer layers of skin help protect from the sun so I would burn if I sunned. At 70 I am beyond sunning now.
I think hair length after 50 depends on face shape and the style in which you wear your hair. Longer hair on older women can look wonderful, it all depends. Schellea's hair is gorgeous!!
I turned 55 this year and I’m struggling with arthritis in my knees. I’m not able to exercise as much as I need to due to pain, so these tips are very helpful, and yes, your smile is your best accessory. People would rather be with a smiler! 😀
I was always very thin until I had my second baby and then hit perimenopause. I have really struggled shopping for clothes and it's no longer fun. Thank you for all your tips about clothes and makeup.
I'm under 40 yet am still loving your videos for me and friends as they can apply to all ages! The advice all seems excellent and your energy is soothing and caring. You also look confident and gorgeous!
This was great and truth in all you shared .. I am 71 and told all the time that I down look my age thankful to god for the more youthful genes but yes weight has settled here n there I have always worked out and will continue to ! I find myself doing the tops with the flare but I love my shoulders ! I keep myself standing tall and confident!! I love the halter top because I like my shoulders but!! I have some little wrinkles on my arms:-( I try to do weights but can’t lift lots I don’t like my neck to get soar!! Sorry for sharing too much lol Your a sweetheart thanks again be blessed
I have fallen in love with your videos! THANK YOU for sharing the pics of your belly! I always had a small waist, but menopause has wreaked havoc and I constantly focus on how fat I look -- your videos help me not only with hiding the fat, but making me feel less embarrassed that this has happened!
Shellea your genuine words of wisdom and sincere advice are priceless. I feel so confident and happy when watching your amazing workout and grooming videos. Watch u daily and besides doing Pilates 3 x a week do at least 1 workout video of yours. U're such a special lady. Thank you🥰
This is great! I like to wear a stretchy layering cami with those Pink brand stretchy yoga leggings because both hold you in like a teenager & then layer something of a top shirt over it. It’s not “shapewear” but it does the trick better than actual spanx or shapewear I’ve bought.
Thanks for making me feel better about my expanding waistline now I'm part of the over 50's. One trick I do is still wear my tight top but put something sheer over it (eg a flowy see-through blouse) as this can hide the details but be quite flattering
Hi there! I just discovered you today, and I'm hooked. You're beautiful, awesome, and have great tips. I've been in a real "funk" lately, and you've already helped me immensely. Thank you so much!!!
I love everything you said. Be present and the people you care about won't notice your imperfections. I love watching you. I totally changed my eye makeup from you. My best friend noticed how good I looked!!
Thank you. I have had 6 major abdominal operations and this is a real issue. Hint- don't leave broken appendix in for 5-6 days. Need all the information I can get.
I know I'm cheesy sounding but you are so Awesome! I don't even search for anything beauty/health or exercise anymore! I just look for Fab50 b/c you make me feel so great! You're an angel! Thank you for your uplifting advice! God Bless! Devotely Yours, Mallory in Mississippi
At 60 so much has changed about my body, it’s frustrating. These are excellent tips! I think all the time…I don’t even know what to wear anymore! Now that I’m retired I don’t like to spend a lot of money on clothes, I don’t go out as much. I do enjoy wearing leggings more now and will check out the spanx workout line.
I think you are great and have enjoyed several of your exercise and health videos. However, this issue is individual taste. I can’t imagine wearing anything ripped. Also, some of the “A lines” make me look heavier, not thinner. I don’t particularly care for the puffy ruffles over the tummy look. I think it looks like you are trying to hide something. I appreciate your trying to help, and if you love it, go for it! I do like what you said about highlighting the parts you love about your body, that is positive, and being present!
I accept all your points around layering and foundation wear, but I live in a subtropical climate that is very warm to downright hot 9 months of the year! The last thing I can handle is more layers, do you have any tips for those of us that need to keep cool? I wonder if having a top that has different colours at the top and bottom where the top stops under my bust as you suggest would be a good alternative?
Thanks for sharing these great tips Schellea. I live in A line tops, they're my go to! I also love Iayering tops, short top over a longer top underneath but I've never tried a short fitted top over an A line top. Must give this a go. You look gorgeous as always. Cheers xoxo
I so appreciated your first side view photo. You are so good at concealing your belly fat I did not really know! This made me feel so much better about my own belly fat. I have a dream of being able to wear a belt and have a few really cool ones but was trying to fashion them around my midsection. I am super slim under the breast pre belly and with the right skirt, a belt at that place really works!!! Thank you, Doll! xo
Firstly u have hardly a tummy!! I'm 62 done with Spanx I may check out the exercise ones. Alot of this doesn't work on a short round body layers can add bulk thanks for almost the info☺
I just found your videos. Thanks for being real. I'm 67, but these tips are helping me look at things differently. I am also short, so I appreciate the heads up for the not so tall.
Your tips will work, depending on ones body type. A pear shape cannot/shouldn't wear anything with fullness @ the lower stomach/hips- it emphasizes the extra lbs. This is an ongoing problem for me, particularly with skirts & dresses.
Thank you😊 A lot of your suggestions took me a while to figure out on my own. But thank you for the new ones. Keeping in shape, as you say after 50 is so hard, and a womans shape will change even if she keeps her weight down. I always wear make-up, do my hair, get dressed, whether I am going out or not. I do it for me..... I will never stop trying to look my best, tbank you for your channel♡
Thanks so much for the help in hiding my belly. I love your tips and you're so sweet you went to the trouble of creating all thos wonderful links. God bless you and have a wonderful week. Love your chanel. 😍❤💕
Thank you for this video. I’m 48 but I’m noticing my body is changing and very frustrated that my current clothes do not fit like before😤. So your tips are so helpful and I’m starting to feel more hopeful. First thing I’m gonna do is buy shapeware !!
Layering for me is out of the question as I'm sooo hot all the time, which makes my hair constantly wet at the roots and make up slides off my face leaving me a hot sweaty mess as you can imagine ! Oh the trials of being a woman of 50yrs! And menapause!
A lot of us can relate to this. I live in Houston, a very hot & humid climate. I was thinking if I added all those layers, I’d die of heat stroke or dehydration! We do the best we can😊💖
Nikkie, my hot flashes went away completely when I went Keto. Sugar and carbohydrates will spike your insulin and aggravate your menopausal symptoms. You need to check out Dr. Berg’s videos. It has completely been a game changer. Edit: I’m 53, live in Florida, and layer every day. 🙂
Lol! For real! This age definitely brings some new challenges! We have to get more strategic! (I actually found a small fan than is square shaped & can be worn around the neck. I LOVE it! It's not exactly stylish but awesome when those hot flashes (aka power surges! 😁) hit!
Schellea, I'm so glad to find you, and your cheerful, loving nature and helpful information! Could you make a video on loving one's self in the buff, when there are no tummy-hiding clothes to turn to? I went from a model hourglass shape (professional dancer) to an extra-round tummy shape after menopause, and having a challenge to feel good naked around my partner. And I have always liked feeling natural and comfortable, not like I'm bound up in a corset. Your suggestions would be so valuable.
Thank you thank you thank you so much lovely lady, I owe you for this one BIG time lol I was always skinny and could eat whatever I wanted then all the sudden it's like somebody flicked the switch......how dare they! 😉
I'm the same, always been tiny with a small waist! I'm 60 years old and am still trying hard to lose the thick waist........now I know, it's not going away. Oh well, I just have to go shopping for a new style of clothes. Thank you for a beautiful video.
I've always had a tummy even when I was skinny and 50kgs with a short waistline and short legs. This is how I've been dressing so at least I know I'm on the right track. Thanks! I'm 50 next year so I think it's good to be prepared.
One thing I found super helpful was a good fitting bra. Pulling the girls up from where they'd sagged over the years, made me look like I'd lost 15lbs instantly! Everything looked more proportional and balanced and I could see the slimmer part of my body (my ribs). I went to a specialty bra shop and got fitted instead of going to a chain lingerie store where their fitters tried to put me in the sizes that they carried rather than the size that actually fit.
Schellea, you're such a gem. I always had a tiny waist - until I hit my 50's and I still haven't reconciled myself to this thickening middle. I love all these ideas, and most of all, I love and appreciate your attitude. You've started my day off right once again! Thank you.
Thanks beautiful Patricia Terrell! I love and appreciate your comment...Have an amazing day ❤️
Any hints how to legit get rid of belly fat?
Patricia Terrell I totally agree....always had a skinny middle until 50’s. Even sucking it in doesn’t help anymore 😭. Thanks for the tips! BTW, if my legs were as thin as yours, I would totally suffer with the small pouch. 😊
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Just hit 50, gained a belly and seem to have lost everything in my wardrobe overnight, I have been struggling with clothing which I have never had to think about before. Thank god I found you channel, such simple advice I love it!!! and you use real life examples so much better than someone telling you using a size 0 model.
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You are right on!!!! I am built EXACTLY like you ( I'm 71 now ) and my lower pouch has been my nemesis all my life! Most of these tips I've known or worked out on my own...except the 1 about belts high up. I just stay away from belts all together, but like you I have the big breasts and since being a back sleeper my chest has no wrinkles , so I look younger because my neck/chest area have few wrinkles. Your peplum w/ a high waisted belt idea is great , along w/ a cropped top to accentuate a nice bust line. Thank you for doing this video!!!!
Due to watching your videos my wardrobe as change and so have I. I'm 58, got a menopause belly and feel great now following ALL your advice. Get comments wherever I go - great confidence booster. Big thanks from Denton UK
Hi Schellea
Ive been watching all your video clips im not 50 or over but ive been struggling with everything that you talk about. Ive been struggling with underactive thyroid for 18 years and my body has been ageing more than it should my body fights against itself. Watching your videos made me realise that ive been doing all the wrong things doctors say go on a diet take these pills move more. Yes exercise is a must but there are days where you have no energy at all no matter how hard you try. Im 43 and have 5 kids 2 of them being 7 and 1 so my health needs to get on track big time. I have found your videos helpful theres so much marketing gimmicks out there that suck us all in and yes i have tried many and they've always failed. Thankyou for your videos you are a treasure to all us women who just need an honest person to give us powerful information that we can keep going back to.
AMEN TO THAT ! ! !
What a "feel good" video. And, you're right. Number 10 was the best and most important of all. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!
Hey Eileen Coste! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Have an amazing day 🤗
Although I m not in my 50's but still I love your videos. I think your videos are for all ages women. Nice work, you are an inspiration for all women.
Hi neel sh! Thank you so much for watching...I appreciate your lovely comment...Have a beautiful weekend❤️
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I'm only just 42 but I hope you won't throw me out! If it helps, I'm apple-shaped, and postmenopausal.
So I kind of fit in!
I wanted to thank you for making such a well-thought-out, and super nice, and KIND video about this thing that we all hate about ourselves.
I think you are spot-on about all of your design and fitting recommendations. You don't look like a person who should be worrying about this but as a person who absolutely is worried about this particular issue, I can tell you that all of this works like a charm. And when you incorporate different parts of this together, not only will you be hiding your tummy from the world, but you'll forget you we're even worried to begin with.
And there really is nothing like confidence and a smile to hide your flaws.
I don't share very many videos, because I find that to be rather obnoxious, but I'm sharing this one because it's actually helpful.
Spot-on. Just absolutely spot-on.
Thanks!
im 42!
Oh my, you're just kids, if was thanksgiving both of ypu 42 year olds would be eating at card table in the basement not with grown ups. Hahaha... love your comments
Pfft. Im 23. But these tips are very helppful so thats why im here too
Be present, listen, be interested in others- best beauty advice 👏🏻👏🏻🥰
Have a great day Jessica Rabbit 🦋
I love all your videos. My only concern is, the writing caption gets in the way of certain videos, one is your makeup videos. But, I love your informative videos...thank you!
"When you're giving them that much energy they won't even notice your belly" 🤣🤣🤣 So true!!! Shelley you're wonderful, I'm going to start listening to others more, I needed to hear that, I was so busy with the things going on in my own life.
Stay fabulous Krisztina _GOOGLE ❤️
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Shellie is showing us how to look good, and quite likely, most of us are not as gorgeous as she is
I love your hairstyle. Especially, the highlight in front.
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You are like a fashion guru! Thank you, "Oh wise one"! 😂
You are such a beautiful, natural woman. Thank you for the tips
Thanks for your comment Ilse Wenzel 🙏 Have a great day ❤️
Hello Ilse
You rock, Shellea!! I'm 66, really care about taking care of myself...Most people think I'm in my 40's, though I never push that impression. I just FEEL better if I exercise, and keep myself no more than 100 pounds. I am not obsessed!! I just don't have problems with arthritis, if I keep my weight down. I still have rolls and a tummy, but i just keep trying to keep feeling well. I have tiny bones and severe osteoporosis, and I'm short--just 5 feet tall. I also use shapewear, thank you for bringing that out and make it okay... I'm so grateful for you...
What a beautiful person you are! I recently turned 50 and I am still struggling with the fact lol It’s nice to see you looking amazing and thank you for the encouragement!
I turned 50 this year, as well. A tough one to come to terms with.
@Chelle Bright ❤️☺️ Thank you!
Thank you so much for this video, Schellea! I am starting a new job with the Census in a month or two. I have been working at home for the last 20+ years. I have always had a bigger tummy than I would like, but now that I have turned 60 this year it is even bigger. I shopped recently using your guidelines in this video and I am so excited to wear my new clothes that do not accent my belly. You are a lifesaver!
I loved reading your comment Lynne Buchanan! Stay fabulous ❤️
@@fabulous50s Thank you!
Thank you for your honesty and for showing that you have a belly!! You're a beautiful woman & I thought "Oh sure, how to hide a belly - on this petite lady?" Well, I've watched quite a few of your videos now - very helpful for sure. Going to be going into this spring and summer revamping my makeup and wardrobe. I've subscribed and looking forward to more tips to show off my 'good bits'.
I needed this. Years of being size 2-4 I was spoiled but now I’m lost after age 50 I got a tummy😳 not even after two kids but listening to your tips was better then a good girlfriend advise. Thank you💖 keep it up-
Thanks so much Marina Fossey! Its not fair is it 🙃 Have a fantastic weekend 🌸
Perfect timing. My 40th class reunion is tomorrow and all your tips were real good, but my favorite was #10. That’s exactly what I plan to do.
Love it MeLu B! Have a great night at your reunion...Thanks so much for watching and have a beautiful weekend 💕
For me....I own quite a few wrap dresses and dresses with rouching to one side of my body....It Works!!!
You are right on the head with these tips. I have a curvy body and sometimes I forget which clothes goes great with my shape. Thanks so much for doing this! Didn't know about activewear Spanxs.
Thanks beautiful SweetGaLady JL! Try on some Spanks...I think you will love them...Have an amazing day ❤️
Awesome tip. I so agree so many of us are wearing the straight line shirts. It makes us look top heavy if we have larger busts. It makes us appear the same size all the way down. For some reason cheaper tops tend to be cut straight down with no definition.
I Love these tips. I’ve ordered some waterfall cardigans today. The belly fat thing is horrid but your tips have empowered me to style them away! You are fab Schellea xxx
Thats awesome Adele Taylor 👍 Thanks for your comment ❤️
last minute was so great. When I hear someone thinks I'm sexy I think about what was I wearing when I talked to this person or how was my hair? Then I realize it was nothing special but I actually listened to the person and engaged in them. It's powerful stuff. I am a new subscriber, I enjoy your content, thank you!
Just found you. Thank you.
I am 59 and am in a place where I am looking to update but want to avoid looking frumpy but do not want to dress too young.
I really enjoyed your video.
I have always been very short waisted and with aging I have more tummy. Tops are so hard to shop for. Like most short waisted women I am rather busty too.
Hi Helen Milchling and a warm welcome to fabulous50s! I'm happy you are here...I will make a video very shortly on how to dress for short waist.. have an amazing week 💕
My menopause began in my early thirties, now I'm 55 so pleased to find you.
Wait I have good bits? I love her! She makes great sense and is delightful!
Hi Beautiful Crfishinmom !! Stay fabulous ❤️
Hi Schellea, I found your video after googling how to dress with a big midsection. Your tips were EXCELLENT. I am 52 surgically induced into menopause. I am post menopausal now but with so many surgeries on my stomach I will never be flat again. Needless to say it's depressing at times. Clothes now a days are geared towards the smaller waist women. Thank you so much for your tips and tricks and please keep them coming.
I have been hiding my belly since I had triplets when I was 39 (in 1989 LOL!!) and I thought I knew every trick. But you have shown me some new great ones!! thanks so so much! this is wonderful! And I would like to add to #10 - be confident. Not annoying so but people react well to a quiet confidence. It makes you seem happy with your self - which we all work for. Thanks again for great ideas!
Thanks A Sassy Senior! Great addition from you for tip 10...Thank you xx Have an amazing weekend 🌸
Hello A Sassy
Awesome video. Your ideas are right on. I am actually petite with a tummy I can’t flatten. Lol ! Having a smile and being a kind person is so important! Love your videos
Thank you so much for all these amazing tips. I’m 55 and lately I feel like I have lost all control on what to wear or what looks good on me🤦🏻♀️. This helped a lot especially fascinated by the A-line shirt and omg the spans workout clothes which I’m definitely going to look into it👍🏻. Thanks again. Your beautiful and encouraging. Much love 💗
Hello Nancy
Schellea, as a 66 year old woman, I just want to tell you how much I appreciate your videos. The belly fat thing is real and I struggle everyday with hiding it on my own petite body. Thank you so much for all the tips. My smallest part is also right under my bust, so I can’t wait to try your suggestions! Just because we are older doesn’t mean that we don’t want to look our best . Thank you!,
Thanks for taking the time to comment Teri Sabah! Have a great day 🌸
Thank you for your wonderful, supportive and inspirational words. Your positive outlook is so encouraging and helping women of all ages.
You're amazing ails j! I Really appreciate your feedback...Thanks for taking the time ❤️
Thank you for teaching me to shift from negative to positive thinking wrg to my body 💯
I would so appreciate knowing which stores are most likely to carry the type of clothing you are recommending
I absolutely love the light weight cardigan over the black mesh vest. You helped me so much with styling my Mom for Mother's Day. My Mom is a second-shift custodian, so she usually doesn't have the chance to dress up for family reunions and special events.
I'm going through menopause and I suddenly find bumps where I never had them before!! I implement most of your tips anyway except for no 10 which as you said is THE most important!!! I have great legs, petite, but great shape legs!! I need to focus on the good and not the bad!!! Thank you for reminding me of that!!!
Hi Anastasia Anastasia! Your so lucky to have great legs so YES show them off...Thanks so much for watching and have a beautiful weekend 💕
Hello Anastasia
True we have got to embrace our looks , and love ourselves.
Super esp your conclusion. Re posture...I have curvature of the spine in my neck from a disc replacement so that my head thrusts forward. I used to wear very short hair..now at 70 I have let it grow shoulder blade length and it is the color more or less of yours. I always read older women should not wear long hair...well for ME it camouflages that spine issue no one knows, it is easier for me to care for as I leave it natural not curled and the color carries the day. People tell me I look ten to fifteen years younger than I am. I no longer wear black near my face as it is too aging for me. My neutral base colors are now tones of warm brown and navy. They go with my warm blonde hair and warm skin coloring and turquoise eyes best. Then I wear either turquoise, teal or coral as accent colors..the blues make my eyes my standout feature, while the coral gives me a natural glow.I dont wear them together except in scarves. I have found Retin A to be the BEST for exfoliating top layers of skin and making my skin look FAR less sun damaged and almost zero wrinkling after a year of nightly use. It is a Rx most places but unlike all the cosmetics and creams it actually WORKS . Can't go in the sun using it though as those rough wrinkly outer layers of skin help protect from the sun so I would burn if I sunned. At 70 I am beyond sunning now.
I think hair length after 50 depends on face shape and the style in which you wear your hair. Longer hair on older women can look wonderful, it all depends. Schellea's hair is gorgeous!!
Sybil Francis I am glad you do what works for you. Heck with the rules others define for us! 👍🏻❤️
Sybil you rock! Excellent post. 👍...
I turned 55 this year and I’m struggling with arthritis in my knees. I’m not able to exercise as much as I need to due to pain, so these tips are very helpful, and yes, your smile is your best accessory. People would rather be with a smiler! 😀
Thanks for your comment Mrs Windsor 😁
Struggling with the same issue. Life!
I am learning so many fabulous hints front you. Thanks for sharing 🌹🌸🌹🌸🌹🌸🌹
Hi Joyceann Barton! Thanks so much for watching and have a beautiful week 💕
I was always very thin until I had my second baby and then hit perimenopause. I have really struggled shopping for clothes and it's no longer fun. Thank you for all your tips about clothes and makeup.
I’m 44 but I’ve subscribed (hope that’s okay), as I’ve started menopause around a year ago. And I love your tips. 😊
Hi Ronda Herriott and a warm welcome to fabulous50s! I'm happy you are here...Thanks so much for watching and have an amazing week 💕
Hello Ronda
I'm under 40 yet am still loving your videos for me and friends as they can apply to all ages! The advice all seems excellent and your energy is soothing and caring. You also look confident and gorgeous!
I'm so glad you like them! Thanks for taking the time to comment Flower! Have a great day 🌸
I like how you made me feel. The advice you gave was on point, and I feel like I can seize the day. Thank you.
Hello Debbie
A great smile and sense of humor go a very long way!
I'm 33 and am loving your vids! Fantastic advice! I can't wait to try them out. :) thank you for passing on this great knowledge!
Thanks Turtle Girl! Have a fabulous day 🌸
This was great and truth in all you shared .. I am 71 and told all the time that I down look my age thankful to god for the more youthful genes but yes weight has settled here n there I have always worked out and will continue to ! I find myself doing the tops with the flare but I love my shoulders ! I keep myself standing tall and confident!! I love the halter top because I like my shoulders but!! I have some little wrinkles on my arms:-( I try to do weights but can’t lift lots I don’t like my neck to get soar!! Sorry for sharing too much lol
Your a sweetheart thanks again be blessed
I have fallen in love with your videos! THANK YOU for sharing the pics of your belly! I always had a small waist, but menopause has wreaked havoc and I constantly focus on how fat I look -- your videos help me not only with hiding the fat, but making me feel less embarrassed that this has happened!
Hi Cheryl Thomas! Thanks so much for watching and stay fabulous 💕
Shellea your genuine words of wisdom and sincere advice are priceless.
I feel so confident and happy when watching your amazing workout and grooming videos.
Watch u daily and besides doing Pilates 3 x a week do at least 1 workout video of yours.
U're such a special lady.
Thank you🥰
I loved reading your comment Welcom Welcom! Have an amazing day and Stay fabulous ❤️
This is great! I like to wear a stretchy layering cami with those Pink brand stretchy yoga leggings because both hold you in like a teenager & then layer something of a top shirt over it. It’s not “shapewear” but it does the trick better than actual spanx or shapewear I’ve bought.
Thanks for making me feel better about my expanding waistline now I'm part of the over 50's. One trick I do is still wear my tight top but put something sheer over it (eg a flowy see-through blouse) as this can hide the details but be quite flattering
Hi Fiona Howatson! Perfect tip ...Adding a sheer over garment 👍Thanks so much for watching and have a beautiful weekend 💕
Hi there! I just discovered you today, and I'm hooked. You're beautiful, awesome, and have great tips. I've been in a real "funk" lately, and you've already helped me immensely. Thank you so much!!!
Hi Betsy Tull and a warm welcome to fabulous50s! I'm happy you are here...Thanks so much for watching and have an amazing week 💕
I love everything you said. Be present and the people you care about won't notice your imperfections. I love watching you. I totally changed my eye makeup from you. My best friend noticed how good I looked!!
Wonderful tips! You’re so beautiful and love your accent!
Hello Martha
Thank you. I have had 6 major abdominal operations and this is a real issue. Hint- don't leave broken appendix in for 5-6 days. Need all the information I can get.
Thank you for the tip on Spanx exercise wear 😊I had no idea it existed!
Hello Shara
I know I'm cheesy sounding but you are so Awesome! I don't even search for anything beauty/health or exercise anymore! I just look for Fab50 b/c you make me feel so great! You're an angel! Thank you for your uplifting advice! God Bless! Devotely Yours, Mallory in Mississippi
Thank you so much!! Sending you a big hug from Australia Mallory 🤗
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I love all these tips ❤️ my tummy is my biggest problem. Please keep your videos coming , very educational on fashion tips ❤️🙏🏻
Hi Angie Blackmon! Thank you so much for watching...I appreciate your comment...Have a beautiful weekend ❤️
At 60 so much has changed about my body, it’s frustrating. These are excellent tips!
I think all the time…I don’t even know what to wear anymore! Now that I’m retired I don’t like to spend a lot of money on clothes, I don’t go out as much. I do enjoy wearing leggings more now and will check out the spanx workout line.
I think you are great and have enjoyed several of your exercise and health videos. However, this issue is individual taste. I can’t imagine wearing anything ripped. Also, some of the “A lines” make me look heavier, not thinner. I don’t particularly care for the puffy ruffles over the tummy look. I think it looks like you are trying to hide something.
I appreciate your trying to help, and if you love it, go for it!
I do like what you said about highlighting the parts you love about your body, that is positive, and being present!
Hi Trisha Whitehouse! Thanks for sharing your thoughts 👍 Have a great day 🌸
Yes, Yes, Yes! Even though I am petite... when I turn to the side... you can see my belly so clearly! YOU NAILED IT!!!! Thank you for the tips!
Hi marshafisch! Thanks so much for watching and have a beautiful week 💕
I accept all your points around layering and foundation wear, but I live in a subtropical climate that is very warm to downright hot 9 months of the year! The last thing I can handle is more layers, do you have any tips for those of us that need to keep cool? I wonder if having a top that has different colours at the top and bottom where the top stops under my bust as you suggest would be a good alternative?
Im even in singapore where its always hot weather
Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you!!!!! I sure didn’t know Menopause would change my body in this way.
Very good tips,thank you! And in the end,the best- smile, be happy and enjoy your company and yourself!
Have a great day Rintin Tin 🦋
Thanks for all of your helpful tips! You're so thoughtful in your expression, I enjoy all your videos. 🥰
Thanks for sharing these great tips Schellea. I live in A line tops, they're my go to! I also love Iayering tops, short top over a longer top underneath but I've never tried a short fitted top over an A line top. Must give this a go. You look gorgeous as always. Cheers xoxo
Hi Toula K! So much freedom in the A line 😁 Thanks so much for watching and have a beautiful weekend 💕
I'm 32 and I totally needed this video!
I love tip no 10 the best💕. They’re all really good tips but that last one....just beautiful. Thank you for making this video. 💋
Hey Pamela Rosa! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Have an amazing day 🤗
I so appreciated your first side view photo. You are so good at concealing your belly fat I did not really know! This made me feel so much better about my own belly fat. I have a dream of being able to wear a belt and have a few really cool ones but was trying to fashion them around my midsection. I am super slim under the breast pre belly and with the right skirt, a belt at that place really works!!! Thank you, Doll! xo
Schellea I wear also” 90 degrees “ they hold you in and fit gorgeous!
Stephanie Alexander ❤️
Hello Stephanie
I am so glad I found you! I 100% agree about posture--it can take 5-10 lbs off you when you are standing straight.
Thanks so much for watching Simar Song! I can still hear my Mum telling me to stand up straight! Have a great weekend ❤️
Hello Brenda
Firstly u have hardly a tummy!! I'm 62 done with Spanx I may check out the exercise ones. Alot of this doesn't work on a short round body layers can add bulk thanks for almost the info☺
Thanks for watching Denise Younger 😁
I just found your videos. Thanks for being real. I'm 67, but these tips are helping me look at things differently. I am also short, so I appreciate the heads up for the not so tall.
Hi Vickie Durham and a warm welcome to fabulous50s! I'm happy you are here...Thanks so much for watching and have an amazing week 💕
Hello Vickie
I love wearing swing style tops and dresses then I feel carefree. I enjoyed listening to your fab tips! oxox
Hi Robin Maki-Fox! See too! Thanks so much for watching and have a beautiful weekend 💕
Hello Robin
Useful tips.Worth watching!
You make quality videos whether its styling,looks or work outs!
Your tips will work, depending on ones body type. A pear shape cannot/shouldn't wear anything with fullness @ the lower stomach/hips- it emphasizes the extra lbs. This is an ongoing problem for me, particularly with skirts & dresses.
Thanks so much for watching T. Girl! I know it can be difficult and I will make a video on dressing for a pear shape...Have a great weekend ❤️
fabulous50s OMG- that would be FANTASTIC!!! Thank U!!
I'm pear shaped too. I do think we can wear A line skirts, dresses and tunics well but would be interested in learning other tips too
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Thank you😊 A lot of your suggestions took me a while to figure out on my own. But thank you for the new ones. Keeping in shape, as you say after 50 is so hard, and a womans shape will change even if she keeps her weight down. I always wear make-up, do my hair, get dressed, whether I am going out or not. I do it for me..... I will never stop trying to look my best, tbank you for your channel♡
Hi Rhonda Britt! Thanks so much for watching and for sharing your comment...Stay fabulous 💕
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Phew !! i'm feeling sooo hot wearing all those layers !!
I'm in my late 40's and I love your channel! You just nail it all the time! Thank you!!!!!
Just found you
I need to throw out everything, & start over.
Hi slsawrc and a warm welcome to fabulous50s! I'm happy you are here...Thanks so much for watching and have an amazing weekend 💕
I'm with you on that!! 😁
I love your honesty!
super fabulous, thank you. Number 10 is frankly NUMBER ONE.
Hi Nicole Crabtree! Thanks so much for watching and sharing your comment...Have a great day 💕
Spanx 😱😱😱
Sweat wear in humid Florida
Love your tips
Thanks Nina Klein! Have an amazing week 🌸
Hello Nina
Love how supportive you are
Thanks so much for the help in hiding my belly. I love your tips and you're so sweet you went to the trouble of creating all thos wonderful links. God bless you and have a wonderful week. Love your chanel. 😍❤💕
Hi Marlene Marken! Thanks so much for the blessing and have a beautiful weekend 💕
Can I wear this even if I have athletic shoulder?
Love ALL of ur videos they are so helpful I really enjoy them! Keep them coming😃
Thanks for the tips! You’re so refreshing and encouraging. Totally adorable!
Hi P Mo! Thanks so much for watching and have a beautiful week 💕
I'm halfway to my 50s but this priceless advice needs to be heard.
"Fit and flare" dresses look great to hide a tummy.
The last bit of advice, is indeed the best,🌱
Hi Laurie Paris ❤️ Stay fabulous 🌸
Another great helpful video! ❤️
Thanks melissa pintone! Have an amazing weekend 🌸
Thank you for this video. I’m 48 but I’m noticing my body is changing and very frustrated that my current clothes do not fit like before😤. So your tips are so helpful and I’m starting to feel more hopeful. First thing I’m gonna do is buy shapeware !!
Hello Anna
Layering for me is out of the question as I'm sooo hot all the time, which makes my hair constantly wet at the roots and make up slides off my face leaving me a hot sweaty mess as you can imagine ! Oh the trials of being a woman of 50yrs! And menapause!
Oh Nikkie Jones Im sorry that your heat is so severe! I hope you get some relief soon 🤗
A lot of us can relate to this. I live in Houston, a very hot & humid climate. I was thinking if I added all those layers, I’d die of heat stroke or dehydration! We do the best we can😊💖
Nikkie, my hot flashes went away completely when I went Keto. Sugar and carbohydrates will spike your insulin and aggravate your menopausal symptoms. You need to check out Dr. Berg’s videos. It has completely been a game changer.
Edit: I’m 53, live in Florida, and layer every day. 🙂
Lol! For real! This age definitely brings some new challenges! We have to get more strategic! (I actually found a small fan than is square shaped & can be worn around the neck. I LOVE it! It's not exactly stylish but awesome when those hot flashes (aka power surges! 😁) hit!
@@t.brooks5082 Hi Im 53 and Im hot all the time, Im miserable. Where did u find that wonderful lifesaving fan of yours? Lol. I need one fast!!!
Schellea, I'm so glad to find you, and your cheerful, loving nature and helpful information! Could you make a video on loving one's self in the buff, when there are no tummy-hiding clothes to turn to? I went from a model hourglass shape (professional dancer) to an extra-round tummy shape after menopause, and having a challenge to feel good naked around my partner. And I have always liked feeling natural and comfortable, not like I'm bound up in a corset. Your suggestions would be so valuable.
Thank you thank you thank you so much lovely lady, I owe you for this one BIG time lol
I was always skinny and could eat whatever I wanted then all the sudden it's like somebody flicked the switch......how dare they! 😉
I'm the same, always been tiny with a small waist! I'm 60 years old and am still trying hard to lose the thick waist........now I know, it's not going away. Oh well, I just have to go shopping for a new style of clothes. Thank you for a beautiful video.
Hi Cheryl-ann Peters-Richards! Thanks so much for watching...Stay fabulous 💕
Hi Andrea L.! I'm happy you enjoyed the video and shopping is always fun...Have an amazing day 🤗
For real. It's so discouraging. 😕
I've always had a tummy even when I was skinny and 50kgs with a short waistline and short legs. This is how I've been dressing so at least I know I'm on the right track. Thanks! I'm 50 next year so I think it's good to be prepared.
Thanks for taking the time to comment chrissie hopkins Have a great day 🌸
Hi Chrissie
thank you for sharing the secret of Spanx work out wear!!! (screaming) your awesome
You're so welcome Joann Perez! They really are amazing...Thanks for taking the time to say hi ❤️
Excellent video! Precious information!
Love your videos ! 💕
Love the swing tops as I call them , I live in them as I’ve long thin legs but a tummy
Love your hair today btw 😊
You're awesome Pixie Girl 👍 Thanks for being the very first to comment ❤️
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One thing I found super helpful was a good fitting bra. Pulling the girls up from where they'd sagged over the years, made me look like I'd lost 15lbs instantly! Everything looked more proportional and balanced and I could see the slimmer part of my body (my ribs). I went to a specialty bra shop and got fitted instead of going to a chain lingerie store where their fitters tried to put me in the sizes that they carried rather than the size that actually fit.