HOW TO RESTORE YOUR DAMAGED HAIR BACK TO HEALTH. NO BIG CHOP NEEDED + BEFORE & AFTER PICs

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @tanujashanti2
    @tanujashanti2 Год назад +354

    Some things that actually helped to control my hairfall include: (1) I discontinued wearing ponytails because it causes tension damage. (2) I started massaging my hair and scalp twice a week with liitleextra cocoonnion hair oil while leaning forward & holding my head upside down to allow blood flow to the scalp. (3) Protecting my head while moving out to shield my hair from pollution. (4) Using gentle shampoo again from liittleextra only to wash my hair.

    • @sherrisolomon8673
      @sherrisolomon8673 7 месяцев назад

      @tanujashanti2, Where can you buy the colonial oil?

    • @kuldeepddlj2064
      @kuldeepddlj2064 3 месяца назад

      This Cocoonion shampoo and conditioner is being nominated by me for its awesome quality and natural ingredients and above all for its effectiveness in improving hair health. I can see the results which justify my recommendation.

  • @finallyanaccount
    @finallyanaccount 2 года назад +1012

    People will say it’s “only hair”. It’s not only hair when a wash day is ACTUALLY A DAY! It’s an investment. The products and the process aren’t cheap.

    • @penneyfonville5166
      @penneyfonville5166 2 года назад +76

      People who say that just don’t understand the work we put in and how upset we get when we fail. But we will dust ourselves off and get back on track. It’s NOT JUST HAIR TO US! It’s our crown and glory. ❤️

    • @latoyatacker8749
      @latoyatacker8749 2 года назад +12

      Truth!

    • @finallyanaccount
      @finallyanaccount 2 года назад +4

      @@penneyfonville5166 Amen!

    • @Shalayah2010
      @Shalayah2010 2 года назад +29

      I hate when ppl say that to black girls. our hair genetically grows the slowest and more prone to breakage so we retain length alot slower than other races. It is JUST hair to us and we cherish it. nothing wrong with that.

    • @josephj4097
      @josephj4097 2 года назад +2

      We have to also look at how we are taking care of our bodies as well. We have to start from the inside and what we eat that takes care of the outside. I am a person that has said it's only hair before because I look at our hair as a plant that has to be nourished to grow , now sometimes we do fall off and things happen. I've had to do a big chop before and I loved it and within 8 months it was already back to the length it was before the big chop. I think we have been conditioned to believe that long hair is better when in reality healthy hair is better no matter the length. Blessings.

  • @chidenisee
    @chidenisee 2 года назад +195

    I think the last 2 years did something to us and now it's time for growth, health, wealth, and happiness. I had to big chop mine because even after cutting 4 inches off it was still breaking every time I ran my fingers through it. I'm no longer stressing over it and I am just on the journey to good health, happiness, and being my best self. I'm here with you on this journey.

    • @camille121
      @camille121 2 года назад +7

      Chi denise. True those two years have been very stressful

    • @JesusisHazelsSavior
      @JesusisHazelsSavior 2 года назад +9

      Oh my God girl my mom got covid and the side effects caused her hair shed so much that you could stand and see through her hair...her scalp was bald in some areas, she had tons of breakage and a lot of greying... She would look in the mirror and cry about her hair but I didn't know she recently told me about the crying.... I felt so sad and I went to God about it I would just pray about her hair and talk to God about her hair....then He put it in my spirit to get some specific herbs and blend them together in the blender with oil and then I put it on low heat to evaporate any liquid in the oil... I started to use it on my mom's hair two- three times per week... And I continued praying for the good health of my mom's hair and girl let me tell you God is bringing my mom's hair back rapidly!!!!!! I've never seen her hair grow so fast...not only that but what I realize is that God isn't letting her hair shed... Her once bald edges are no longer bald...and God fixed that in just 4 weeks!!!! Keep in mind that my mom is 55 years old...when I researched the benefits of the herbs my God told me to make in oil they were mega growth ingredients they are so powerful it really slows down hair shed, stimulates a ton of growth, it helped in retaining length on her hair her scalp no longer has dandruff, she no longer has dry itchy irritated scalp, her edges are growing like wild bushes with just 4 weeks they feel so full but they are still growing back... Girl this is just a testimony of my mom the main point of this is that God is AMAZING and their is nothing he can't do... I just prayed for your hair and mercy hair...I declared growth, thickness, good health, healthy scalp etc....in Jesus name...now you just watch out for that hair blessing girl....I also decided to tell you this testimony for you to be motivated to take good care of your hair....May God bless and keep you

    • @adrienneyt2250
      @adrienneyt2250 2 года назад +1

      @@JesusisHazelsSavior Hi Gabrielle M. Thank you for your prayer! Please share the ingredients for your oil and pray for my granddaughter to have healthy, thick, waist-length hair. I have been trying different methods( have prayed, also), but she is going on 9 y o and has not reached past neck length.... TYSM🙏🏽

    • @augustvirgo6773
      @augustvirgo6773 2 года назад

      Me too I had to get a trim, wasn't happy but I definitely see a pattern. A lot of people are trimming.

    • @JesusisHazelsSavior
      @JesusisHazelsSavior 2 года назад +5

      @@adrienneyt2250 I used cloves, lemon grass, guava leaves, ginger, cinnamon leaves, pimento seeds, rosemary, french thyme (oregano) the fresh one, nutmeg, aloe vera, orange skin, soursop leaves, add some onion like 1 or so, use some she butter(this is optional but I put in in mom's oil, I also added some mango seed oil to her mix(to make the mango seed oil crack the mango seed take out what's in the shell and grate it....add some oil preferably penetrating oils like avocado oil, olive oil there are also other penetrating oils you can choose from....pour the oil over the grated mango seeds and let it sit for 10 days or you can just put it in a pot on low heat then strain it... Use some tuna plant (this is optional too but I'm used it their is another name for the plant but I can't remember you can google it

  • @tashanasmith4207
    @tashanasmith4207 2 года назад +378

    I bet by the end of the year, ur hair is going to be longer and thicker than before, keep courage mama I believe in u!! I love and appreciate u so much mercy... U r such a sweet heart, u r so fair and honest u will reach very far.... One love Tashana Smith frm Jamaica

    • @valmarie198942
      @valmarie198942 2 года назад +13

      I said the same thing earlier today. She was on my heart. ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @dapebkulekchenz1434
    @dapebkulekchenz1434 2 года назад +188

    Little sister, please don't be saddened. I know exactly what you're going through as I went through this same thing about 10 months ago. What we failed to realize is how tied our hair is to our emotions. My hair totally fell out. I looked like someone who had alopecia, no disrespect to anyone here. Since I've been developing my own natural hair care line over the past couple of years, my fiancé was really amazing in getting me out of my hair depression. I wasn't as brave as you are to Chronicle my journey back to healthy hair. I was way too ashamed. So please, I know life can be impossibly stressful but always remember that God will always have your back sis. Hugs and kisses to my beautiful niece, Nadia.

    • @baritunde
      @baritunde 2 года назад +8

      I went thru the same thing with my hair falling out & recently found out it was from covid. It has finally stopped, thank God, & I'm praying & visualizing it thickening back up. Wishing you & everyone the same.

    • @njroyalty
      @njroyalty 9 месяцев назад

      On point, but I'd like to add that it's way deeper than just our emotions. Our hair is tied to us spiritually & when we're off in the spiritual realm, so the flesh/hair follows. In a worldly sense, it could be our overall health, too. But everythang will be completely off if our spirits ain't aligned right w TMH.

    • @Naveensmummy
      @Naveensmummy 3 месяца назад

      In tears this is !y exact life RN except I'm in the depression stage cause I'm looking like I'm sick or something no disrespect

    • @Naveensmummy
      @Naveensmummy 3 месяца назад

      In tears this is !y exact life RN except I'm in the depression stage cause I'm looking like I'm sick or something no disrespect

  • @deairalashante
    @deairalashante 2 года назад +2

    You are not alone dear. Thanks for being transparent. I did the big chop last week and cut off all of my relaxed hair because I had damaged hair as well. You are so still so beautiful. Sending LOVE!

  • @lbu9542
    @lbu9542 2 года назад +175

    We're starting our regrowth journey at the same time! I look forward to the restoration process and what we have by the end of this year. Blessings and stay strong, Sister!

    • @lisacollins1277
      @lisacollins1277 2 года назад +4

      I'm hopping on this journey with you 😘

    • @lbu9542
      @lbu9542 2 года назад +3

      @@lisacollins1277 awesome, let's grow some healthy hair!

  • @preztjuswoman
    @preztjuswoman 2 года назад +10

    So much respect. Thanks for being transparent, genuine and vulnerable. Hair was mid back, decided to get braids and Im traumatized. Stylist did jumbo twists, didnt ratio the hair correctly and it was a bit tight. Used small sections of hair with large amounts of braiding hair. Hair kept twisting at the roots. Ended up loosing 3 inches, scalp became inflamed and hair started falling out. Ive been nursing my crown back to health and am uncomfortable with anyone else touching my hair.
    We are on this journey together and the encouragement is golden. Continued blessings Mercy, every dissapointment is an apointment in disguise. You're best is just starting! 💌

  • @ashleybrooks5820
    @ashleybrooks5820 2 года назад +11

    The reality is with our hair type it is soo fragile and a lot of us go through a time where we suffer severe damage whether its from not knowing what our hair is missing, stress or sickness so this content only makes you more relatable! Excited for all of our progress 💕

  • @hisbabygirl893
    @hisbabygirl893 2 года назад +142

    I had to cut ALOT of my daughter’s hair because she had tremendous damage. She wasn’t happy, but we’re going to go through this journey with you and get her hair healthy and beautiful again!
    Thanks for the transparency and the video!

  • @chrissyabundantlife
    @chrissyabundantlife 2 года назад +4

    I lost a lot of my hair during the pandemic while I was pregnant. I ended up pregnant with twins, abandoned, and homeless with my other children. We lived in a shelter then transitional housing for a year. I had my twins in this environment and faced a lot of stress and depression. Also had my oldest graduating high school and was supporting her and just remaining strong for my other kids while I was internally struggling. Things have turned around now but anything that interrupts your routine and throws your life into imbalance will absolutely ruin your hair! Good to see you’re getting back to you!! I’m getting back to me also if you’re wondering. ☺️

  • @PhoenixEchoesAudio
    @PhoenixEchoesAudio 2 года назад +155

    I'm battling with the effects of anemia and crown breakage and this video is so motivating. Not because "Oh, misery loves company" but "Hey, I have others on this regrowth journey with me!" By years end, we will all FLOURISH!

    • @niqueb6395
      @niqueb6395 2 года назад +3

      Me 2!! same area and i just went through this two yrs ago and dats wat made me go natural after 15 yrs of being relaxed all natural products and aloe vera leaf and braids grew it back but now I have damage i have to regain control of again. I wish u da best

    • @nanaaddae8623
      @nanaaddae8623 2 года назад +1

      Love this!

    • @LRH1
      @LRH1 2 года назад +6

      For anemia- start incorporating green leafy veggies like spinach, kale watercress into smoothies. Start drinking more water too, this misturizes one from the inside out. What we eat & dri k affects our hair & overall health. Research msm if you choose 1 scoop into daily routine will add in hair journey along with rosemary, rosemary , rosemary to control hair shedding. Rosemary tea rinses, rosemary into hair spritzes & by all cost avoid heat on your strands. Your pantry will help rebuild your hair stronger, better & you control these things better than store bought hair products. If DIY is not your desire, even the smallest tweaks to store bought goods will build your hair.
      Meaning on wash day boil hot water then either add fresh or dry rosemary to steep. The longer the steeping process the more concentrated. 1 cup as a spritz, add some glycerin as a humectant, a few drops of an essential oil (tea tree) for healthy scalp & peppermint to stimulate scalp & a few drops of an oil of your choice store in fridge. As a hair final rinse & do not rinse out. One can use the plain steeped water or add an essential oil etc.
      Fyi.. research both coffee & green tea. Our strands like both. Can be brewed as a rinse, spritz & blended into hair masks too. Happy healthy hair journey.

    • @fin4008
      @fin4008 2 года назад +1

      Yes we will😌❤️❤️

    • @ashleywright4817
      @ashleywright4817 2 года назад +1

      @@niqueb6395 Hi, what caused the damage?

  • @elisalevy8004
    @elisalevy8004 Год назад +6

    I had beautiful length and messed up my own hair and now I'm starting from zero...back to 2inches! I'm literally crying! Compared to Mercy's current status, mine was ZERO! HER hair is still long and beautiful!

  • @michelledestinyroad2162
    @michelledestinyroad2162 2 года назад +12

    The saying goes- A set back is just a set up for a come back. I’ve been with you since the beginning of your hair journey and it has encouraged me greatly. You’re in a different place now and you’re not starting from scratch- just stay with it - I will too - thanks for being honest 🙌🏾💐🙏 it will happen again!

  • @valerieanderson4864
    @valerieanderson4864 2 года назад +1

    God has you. Continue to stand in your faith and trust and believe you will be stronger then your were before. Look at it as a new beginning and new hair. You are strong and your hair will be to. Continue on!

  • @aprilbrown3719
    @aprilbrown3719 2 года назад +33

    I will be going through this journey with you Mercy. Can’t wait for what we will see at the end of this. Thank you for caring enough to share this with us. Keep being great, just know I am someone that truly appreciates it.

  • @nancybreaux9684
    @nancybreaux9684 2 года назад +1

    I know it's not what you are use to, but it does not look that bad. You know what to do to get back on track and you are doing it. It's your first day of things looking up. Your on your way stay positive.

  • @ItsKrysty
    @ItsKrysty 2 года назад +39

    I’m in on this hair growth journey with you. I just cut my hair yesterday and decided to let go and start off fresh. Currently at NL, but I’m excited for the new journey, as I know my hair will be even better than before. Looking forward to tips and tricks from you that I can apply to my own regimen. By end of 2022, all of us on this journey will come out on top as this hair growth journey will most likely turn into an overall wellness journey.

  • @savebygrace2004
    @savebygrace2004 2 года назад +1

    I was going through divorce when one of my twin daughters die 2016 it was very hard on me I lost so much hair and since then my hair hasn’t recovered,I have watching your videos for so many year through your pain but let me tell you something I learn to lean on Jesus,my mother she is from Africa as well. I am with you in this journey you have inspired me thank you for sharing your knowledge with all of us🥰

  • @mariel9379
    @mariel9379 2 года назад +118

    I had protein overload and my once healthy hair broke off especially in the back. I felt so broken and angry with myself. I started my hair journey over again about 2 weeks ago. It's great that I can draw strength and encouragement from you and everyone else who have to start their hair journey over.

    • @Shauna.J
      @Shauna.J 2 года назад +5

      Girl I started over last week. You got this

    • @heykristen6024
      @heykristen6024 2 года назад +8

      Omg I had protein overload after using aphogee 2step treatment 3months ago. My hair fell out! Used it correctly but didn’t take in mind that I was a henna head. I’m guessing the reaction didn’t work. My hair is so thin and it went from down my back all the way to under my ears.

    • @lifeofnelle9644
      @lifeofnelle9644 2 года назад +3

      What were the signs of the protein overload

    • @heykristen6024
      @heykristen6024 2 года назад +2

      @@lifeofnelle9644 super tangled like I was growing out a perm going natural and the two textures were mixing. It was very dry like straw…my hair was shedding and falling out all day everyday. My texture is still totally different than what it was before.

    • @TriciaBims
      @TriciaBims 2 года назад +8

      I got protein overload also from doing rice water and use using products with protein already in it. I found trick where you can put salt in a deep conditioner. It worked my hair didn’t break off when I did that. Salt breaks down protein bonds.

  • @Dr.Sharron
    @Dr.Sharron 2 года назад +14

    Greetings sister, you went through some stress. That stress took its toll on your hair health. I am grateful you were able to maintain the thickness. My hair thinned. You hair is where my hair was before thinning. Now that you are blessed with a beautiful family and support, we all will just go through this journey with you. Shalom.

  • @danedanes1
    @danedanes1 2 года назад +26

    I'm so glad you're documenting this process and not hiding it because alot of people can relate to this. We've all been there before and had this type of set back. I know your hair will be back to it's healthy state in no time. God bless!

  • @CharShuKirk
    @CharShuKirk 2 года назад +1

    I did the big chop and the stylist was VERY scissor happy!!! I should have tried your technique first!!!
    Love your genuine spirit!!

  • @msm5887
    @msm5887 2 года назад +192

    Your hair still looks super long and healthy to me. Yes, maybe not as full - but it really really is far from being bad and hopeless. All the best, you will be back to your beautiful mane in no time ♥️

    • @sciencemageTV
      @sciencemageTV 2 года назад +1

      See, the thing about hair is that it's so personal. When I went through what Mercy went through, I was coming from 30 inches of 4c hair and went to 24...I was devastated, despite people around me saying "Oh no, I would kill for your hair!". Now that it is 26 inches again, I am starting to feel better. I know that you meant well and meant no harm to Mercy, but the "still looks super long and healthy" part is not the best to tell someone when they feel the most beautiful with their hair much longer/thicker and *actually* long and healthy *to them* . My hair was still huge and long to *other people* at 24 inches (I keep it stretched to avoid breakage), but an entire 6 inches went poof and it took actual work and extra time to nurse it back to the 26 that I have now. What is beautiful to you on someone else when they are used to feeling even more beautiful to themselves, could be devastating to them to show others. We should maybe focus on encouraging her to maintain her good haircare practices so that she grows it back rather than trying to get her to feel good about something horrible that happened to her hair.

    • @msm5887
      @msm5887 2 года назад +9

      @@sciencemageTV totally agree with you, hence the “… to me”. Also acknowledging the space she is in, I wished her all the best and went further to encourage her by reminding her that her beautiful mane will be back in no time, because she said she is in a better space and will focus on investing in growing her hair again. Her hair is still beautiful and long to me, that does not invalidate how she feels, also does not stop her from investing in growing her hair, and I will be right here learning from her because I am on a journey to growing mine. Well done to you for getting your hair to 26 inches, may it continue growing longer and healthier.

    • @sciencemageTV
      @sciencemageTV 2 года назад +7

      @@msm5887 You're probably one of 5 people in my 12 year tenure on RUclips (I'm 22, haha) that has actually made the decision to give a civil response to a simple disagreement. You're awesome, and I wish every comment section was filled with people like you!

    • @Newskinned
      @Newskinned 2 года назад +3

      @@msm5887 I'mma need you to hold a class on how to respectfully disagree and respond to people on the internet. Superb response.

    • @wisdomjabs5842
      @wisdomjabs5842 2 года назад +1

      My feelings exactly... It will soon "bodify"😊

  • @lesegoyv
    @lesegoyv 2 года назад +7

    😍😍😍 My hair ain't damaged but everything you do is always worth it

  • @ussfreedom4422
    @ussfreedom4422 2 года назад +6

    Same thing happened to me last year. I was so stressed out from work that my hair started falling out badly. Top that off with going to school full time and trying to pay off debt - the only thing that kept me mentally stable was spending time with Jesus and reading the Word. I’m slowly reforming my hair and getting it back to its health but stress will definitely take a toll on your strands. I’m definitely gonna be re-doing my journey with you. Also, your hair still looks absolutely beautiful and full. I love your hair.

  • @litchielitch0323
    @litchielitch0323 2 года назад +8

    Im going through this after being stressed out, reckless with my hair in December and doing crochet braids knowing the damage it does for me. It resonated with me the smiling not to cry. Whew. It grows back. That’s what’s I keep telling myself.

  • @becomingauthentic_ke
    @becomingauthentic_ke 2 года назад +7

    It's the honesty for me. Go girl Mercy, we're right behind you! Much love!

  • @shannonh2291
    @shannonh2291 2 года назад +53

    I went through this like 6months into the pandemic and I loss a lot of my hair and now I’m better. I had a bob and now my hair is laying on my shoulders and down my back. It’s not as long as it was prepandemic but it’s getting there. The most important thing is it’s healthy and strong again! So ladies don’t worry about length..... I’m happy your in a better place Mercy!!🙏🏾👠

    • @shirlstarg4477
      @shirlstarg4477 2 года назад +1

      @Shannon H , I so agree with you. Healthy Hair is the Key. 👍🏾 . I think if we just focus on its health - the length will come. I get tired of seeing videos with titles like “How to get Mega/Super Hair Growth” Why not just say “healthy hair”? 😃

    • @shannonh2291
      @shannonh2291 2 года назад +2

      @@shirlstarg4477 This is so true. Everyone can have healthy hair we just have to do the work. It’s just easier for some, and that’s okay. Health is wealth in my book!!🥰🙏🏾👠

    • @shirlstarg4477
      @shirlstarg4477 2 года назад +1

      Amen @@shannonh2291🙏🏾 😀👍🏾

    • @shannonh2291
      @shannonh2291 2 года назад

      @@shirlstarg4477 thanks sis

  • @oliviabulanda9715
    @oliviabulanda9715 2 года назад +10

    Girl, you are speaking to me because I know what this feels like, but being able to just stand back up and put that good foot forward. We all will push through. God bless you and Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @Cocochantelle
    @Cocochantelle 2 года назад +6

    My hair has thinned out as well and it was my own fault, going to hair stylist and letting them rip my thick hair out for a silk press. I’m just happy I came to my senses before my hair became severely damaged. I’m also on a hair health journey. No silk press, unless done by me and my patient self, for at least a year. More deep conditioning, more detangling, more moisturizing mid week, more protective styles. I have no excuse.

  • @penneyfonville5166
    @penneyfonville5166 2 года назад +3

    I’m going through a regrowth journey too. I put a chemical in my hair after being almost 6 years natural thinking it would be easier to manage my hair. But much to my surprise the Wave Nouveau just made my hair thin. After my 3rd application I said no more. So I’m transitioning this time and I’m 3 months in. I will keep watching your videos because you inspire me!! ❤️

  • @natashadoris8913
    @natashadoris8913 2 года назад +13

    Some parts of your hair is still very long. I'm sorry you've experienced this but we're all confident that you got this!

  • @brooklynborn35
    @brooklynborn35 2 года назад +69

    This is literally exactly what I’m going through with my hair right now! I’m have anemia and I went through a spell of not taking my iron supplements like I should and then I caught Covid and barely ate for almost 3 weeks. My hair was shedding in handfuls! I’m back to taking care of my body and I’m doing what you said you’re doing which is washing, protective styling, and cutting. Hoping my hair gets back right soon enough🤞🏽🤞🏽

    • @VeeShay1
      @VeeShay1 2 года назад +2

      There is so much your body needs in order for you to be healthy and produce healthy hair. For example, when you take your iron, make sure that your supplement includes suphur and you should also take vitamin C. Those 2 work with the iron to make it bioavailable to your bloodstream and body. You also need zinc, but you shouldn't take zinc when you take iron because they counteract with one another. You need a good high quality B complex, as well. Do some research to find out which vitamins, minerals and amino acids are necessary for healthy hair. You will certainly come across informative articles online. Then find out which foods contain what you need and try to eat organic foods as much as possible. Pesticides and bad chemicals in our food do more damage to the human system than we realize. I don't eat out as much any more because restaurants often go for quantity over quality and the patrons unwittingly suffer.

    • @Ateliereudaé
      @Ateliereudaé 2 года назад

      This exactly what im going through with the anemia / not taking my supplements and covid . Has there been any improvements in your hair since then ? ♥️

  • @user-ej3nj5kd3j
    @user-ej3nj5kd3j 2 года назад +1

    this is so helpful! my hair is going through the same thing, and its overwhelmingly sad. But your transparency is giving me hope, thank you!

  • @mlempolk
    @mlempolk 2 года назад +4

    Hi Mercy, like you I experienced hair damage by the way of heat and felt totally deflated. I too decided to transition as opposed to doing a big chop! Long story short, I am now 5 years since the damage and my hair is more healthier now than ever!!! Please keep your head up, and remind yourself every day if need be, that your natural hair journey is just that a journey. Be blessed!!!!

  • @spicynomad
    @spicynomad 2 года назад +1

    im not really family but im glad you are back on your grind. you are resilient, chica.

  • @MsLeah777_
    @MsLeah777_ 2 года назад +98

    Let's get it Ladies!! we are all here in this together! Let's face it Life happens! I just big chopped I'm ready y'all ready Let go!!!!!!! 💯

    • @camillecovington9623
      @camillecovington9623 2 года назад +7

      I definitely respect your good spirit and positive energy girl, very very uplifting and we need a lot of that during times like these

    • @itsjustaudie
      @itsjustaudie 2 года назад +2

      I just big chapped on the 20th whoooooo hoo! Good luck to you baby girl

    • @fin4008
      @fin4008 2 года назад +4

      Wooohh!!😅😅y’all got me hyped

  • @chinablue1280
    @chinablue1280 2 года назад +1

    Wow! That was some serious shrinkage! It looked so extremely short, so I didn't expected to see she actually still had retained her length which was great. But you could see her hair only thinned out some. After the trim, it will definitely grow back very nicely.
    To me, it still looks very nice, healthy, and beautiful.

  • @sheerlylavendar
    @sheerlylavendar 2 года назад +11

    I actually think it makes you more authentic to share difficulties and hair growth/style set backs because they do occur throughout life to all of us. We're on the healthy hair/growth journey with you. It may not seem like it right now...but consider that a comeback journey can be just as inspiring and powerful as an initial transition to natural. Take care!

  • @perkinst2
    @perkinst2 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for being vulnerable. We all go through stress in our lives, and understand the toll it takes on our bodies. Please be gentle with yourself. We are here with understanding and are inspired with your story that we can always start again. Much love!

  • @letonyawilliams2627
    @letonyawilliams2627 2 года назад +6

    Your video is a God send!! I've been experiencing hair loss in the past 3 weeks. Since the middle of November, I've had Covid twice, and my mother had a stroke December 19th and passed on January 10th....can we say STRESS!! I'll be watching and following along. Thank you beautiful Queen for your transparency...We're in this together ❤

    • @adrienneyt2250
      @adrienneyt2250 2 года назад +2

      So sorry about your Mom. God bless.

    • @letonyawilliams2627
      @letonyawilliams2627 2 года назад +1

      @@adrienneyt2250 Thank you ❤

    • @jduce68
      @jduce68 2 года назад

      I lost my mom 2 yrs ago in April. It is a long hard road, but you'll get through, eventually. I will pray for your peace of mind and to uplift your spirit during this time. I am so sorry for your profound loss, love. Plz try not to let yourself get lost in the depression of it all. That makes it so much harder to get out of. (Easier said than done, I know!) Take care of yourself and stay strong.

    • @letonyawilliams2627
      @letonyawilliams2627 2 года назад

      @@jduce68 Thank you ❤, very much! My dad passed in March 2020, so it hasn't been quite 2 years of his passing. It's a lot, and I'm just taking every thing a moment at a time. It's sad when siblings aren't much help in the process, though.

    • @jduce68
      @jduce68 2 года назад +2

      @@letonyawilliams2627 My God! I'm sorry about the loss of your dad too. You took the words right out of my mouth! The lack of support from my siblings is almost as upsetting as the loss. We are all we have now, but we aren't treating each other with the support that we should. I chalk it up to grief. We (and you all) are processing it differently, I guess. I'm gonna try harder to get mine together and you do the same! You are not alone. Be blessed, love.

  • @breal9176
    @breal9176 2 года назад +2

    I’ve been in your position Mercy it’s traumatic but you’ll your mane back 💪🏾👏🏾

  • @feliciadunn644
    @feliciadunn644 2 года назад +29

    Everyone has a set back. You’re still my hair goals. Next try and find a hair stylist that you can explain how you want your hair to be trimmed.

  • @FRIENDOFGOD25
    @FRIENDOFGOD25 2 года назад +1

    Mercy your hair does not look so damaged. I am praying for hair restoration just like your life is getting restored and healthy so will your hair. Have faith pray over your hair I do everyday! Love you it’s going to be a great blessing for me to get my hair in shape

  • @ChocoBerriExcluzive
    @ChocoBerriExcluzive 2 года назад +11

    You know we're here to support you, and we ALL know your hair will be stronger and longer before you know it!!!!!!!

  • @blackandwhitelove6477
    @blackandwhitelove6477 2 года назад +2

    I’m in the same boat Mercy. I haven’t been on here for awhile because of work but I lost my baby brother a few weeks ago from stage 4 bone cancer. We found out about it last year around June and he was gone January 4th. My hair has come out in many places. Thank you for doing this video. I washed my hair yesterday and cried because of the breakage and hair lose. I’m going to start my journey today. Good luck hun!

  • @RS-cz4rq
    @RS-cz4rq 2 года назад +3

    God bless you and I can relate. I'm in my fifties and had long hair all my life. I went through a stressful time caring for my elderly parents and was too exhausted to care for my hair. It got so tangled and the natural hair stylist said it had to be cut. I shed many tears, but it is growing back.

  • @rejoizree6293
    @rejoizree6293 2 года назад +1

    Hi Mercy, we are having a blessed day. Please keep up the good work. Your hair will grow again... Your sisters out here are rooting for you.!!!

  • @hafsatidris1722
    @hafsatidris1722 2 года назад +14

    I am so excited she's back and she's going to take us through her hair journey. This isn't a setback it's a blessing to appreciate your hair even more! I'm currently going through the same thing and I was lost but seeing you talking about it and helping made me cry. Cause its normal and valid and allowed

  • @sandytx7661
    @sandytx7661 2 года назад +1

    Hello Mercy, Thank you for being transparent. You still have a lot of Beautiful hair. GOD bless🙏🏼.

  • @gracedavidson6934
    @gracedavidson6934 2 года назад +6

    Hi Mercy, This is an older RN supporting a younger RN. I am in the business of mentoring and supporting nurses. I admire your transparency and willingness to push through
    your personal pain. I will do this journey with you. I will also share everything I learn with my daughter, she just did a big chop and I am doing the transition. Let's grow some hair together. Nurse Grace.

  • @omaimaschembri759
    @omaimaschembri759 2 года назад

    your hair will grow back mercy don't give up 🙏🥺

  • @chrissyd2275
    @chrissyd2275 2 года назад +4

    This video couldn't have come at a better time. I have the same issue as yours some parts healthy some parts need a trim and I have been thinking about a big chop again. But Mercy you give me. Thank you for being real and honest.

  • @paulac875
    @paulac875 2 года назад +1

    Mercy, you look gorgeous and your hair is not bad to me. Don't stress and worry about it.

  • @kwmccabe
    @kwmccabe 2 года назад +16

    Girl, I'm with you. I'm so glad you're showing your process of healing. I'm going to use the same technique to heal my hair too.💯💕

  • @simonegrant3367
    @simonegrant3367 2 года назад +1

    Stress plays a huge factor in hair loss. I had to do a big chop last November. My hair just kept breaking and wouldn't stop. I tried everything for breakage and nothing helped . I don't know if I'm going to regrow it as yet. I'm rocking the short boy cut and I'm kinda liking it for now. Mercy if it's one thing I know is that you know how to get your hair back to health. Very soon we will all be like 😙 👍 🥰 ☺ 😍 👌 😙

  • @beverlygilbert9553
    @beverlygilbert9553 2 года назад +3

    Hello Mercy and God bless you! Your hair journey is only the beginning of your new life. God has blessed you with a beautiful husband, a beautiful home and your adorable daughter. I know it was hard for you to make the video but with God grace you did it and I love your transparency and honesty. I too wear my hair natural and thanks for the tips😊

  • @Keepinupwithshona
    @Keepinupwithshona 2 года назад +1

    Omg! I needed this video today! I flat ironed my hair a month ago. I used grease after my hair got puffy and braided it back. When I took out my braids last week my hair was falling out, I almost cried. I was so frustrated and I almost cut it off. I’m so glad I found your page because now I see that it happens to the best of us. Thank you ❤️ I’m going through this journey with you!

  • @shantellove4133
    @shantellove4133 2 года назад +17

    Stay encouraged gorgeous, you got this I'm happy to go on this journey with you and others you look amazing 💜💚💙💕💛🧡🧡❤💖💗💞💓💚💜💝👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @judyoduor7005
    @judyoduor7005 2 года назад +1

    My hair is slowly taking shape after a very bad damage...I feel you on this

  • @Ivereéwiththetwoees
    @Ivereéwiththetwoees 2 года назад +19

    Thank you so much for sharing your story! Going through this process is so sensitive. I did a big chop. So, I hope that some of your tips and tricks help me on my journey to get to waist length hair.

  • @MadraBell
    @MadraBell 2 года назад +2

    It is good to see you back!!! I know you will continue to bless and inspire everyone with your strength and encouragement ❤️✝️🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @gigisun6148
    @gigisun6148 2 года назад +5

    ❤ So glad to see you in your element. You're so good at natural hair care. I'm gonna take this journey with you. Love you Mercy!

  • @SnapszDuhh
    @SnapszDuhh 2 года назад +1

    I love seeing people trim their own hair for some reason. You included. In a few months your hair will thank you for it. Can’t wait to see the progress ☺️👏🏾

  • @tenucharityafefa5245
    @tenucharityafefa5245 2 года назад +4

    It's gonna be alright Mercy, I'm going through the same thing but I'm super convinced that the hair is going to bounce back in a magnificent way. Trust the process

  • @mamabear2142
    @mamabear2142 2 года назад +1

    I am so happy you created this video my hair has been damaged for a year now and I’ve been wigging it and I’m tired !!!sis so grateful your so transparent

  • @racheloluwaseun7470
    @racheloluwaseun7470 2 года назад +3

    This is a prayer answered, am so prepared for the journey

  • @chocolatesunshine4360
    @chocolatesunshine4360 2 года назад

    Be encouraged knowing that All things work together for your good. Your honesty and transparency is a bright light

  • @lindavenable3475
    @lindavenable3475 2 года назад +3

    You’re hair is still long and Beautiful♥️
    This is how I clip my hair once in a while, that is when I have the time.

  • @latoyasinspirationalcorner
    @latoyasinspirationalcorner 2 года назад +1

    Mercy your the reason why I cut off my relaxer did the big chop and went natural through the pandemic, your the other reason why my hair is so healthy. Your videos has been my saving Grace. I don’t have breakage and damage but I’ll be following your journey of regrowth, thank you!

  • @Ukversuskenya
    @Ukversuskenya 2 года назад +6

    Yes Mercy, let's do this. 👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Melodybandam
    @Melodybandam 2 года назад +1

    I recently lost most of my hair and am happy to be on this journey with you. I hope to regrow my hair too.

  • @curlybella6225
    @curlybella6225 2 года назад +16

    I’m currently transitioning back to natural hair after a relaxer I did in November. It’s been nearly 2 months and I have a good bit of new growth now! I’m trying an oil blend I mixed just started it last week using castor oil vitamin e oil and peppermint and tea tree essential oils. Wish me luck! I’m on the journey with you and others as well!!! Much love to y’all!!!!💕💕😘

    • @penneyfonville5166
      @penneyfonville5166 2 года назад

      You got my vote sis! I’m going through the same thing after putting a Wave Nouveau in my hair. I started my regrowth Journey in October. We can do this!!❤️

    • @chickwitthagoodies
      @chickwitthagoodies 2 года назад

      Good luck sis

  • @tinamorris7982
    @tinamorris7982 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your hair struggles and how you are treatjng and repairing your hair... keep at it.

  • @faithlikecaleb
    @faithlikecaleb 2 года назад +4

    Mercy, you are just so BEAUTIFUL, child. Long hair or in between...your beauty radiates! Hugs💕

  • @HenriettaOkan
    @HenriettaOkan 2 года назад +1

    You have no problem I still admire your hair

  • @sciencemageTV
    @sciencemageTV 2 года назад +2

    I posted my 26 inches of 4c natural hair on Reddit a few days ago. Mercy, you did EXACTLY what I recommend doing, and I know from personal experience! I am not sure what caused you hair to thin at the ends like that as yet (haven't watched earlier videos), but for me it was the Revlon One-Step Paddle brush dryer. It ripped my fine strands apart after only 6 total uses within 2 years! I am glad that you found out what was causing yours and knew how to fix it without a drastic big chop. We love to see it!

  • @anrarmstr
    @anrarmstr 2 года назад +2

    I just started watching your aloe vera videos to help naturally strengthen my hair because of breakage due to birth control 😔 So to see this video makes me feel closer to you as a woman and friend 🥰 I was so heartbroken when my hair started falling out because it started in the front! So depressing and overwhelming. My edges literally disappeared and my hair was just as healthy and long as yours was until the BC. I've stopped using the BC and the shedding has finally stopped (Thank God! 🙌) So I am right here with you on the regrowth journey! ❤ Thank you so much for sharing! Sincerely, your new subscriber! 😁

  • @preciousav4451
    @preciousav4451 2 года назад +3

    You're most welcome dear Mercy❤️❤️❤️

  • @tinocaroline1061
    @tinocaroline1061 2 года назад

    Be strong Mercy. Am one of those who learnt a lot from you about natural hair. My advice to you for now is avoid heat. I've grown my hair for two years and two months without any heat and it's okay.

  • @annaowens4912
    @annaowens4912 2 года назад +4

    Hi MERCY. Thanks for doing a natural hair video. Miss it very much. Going to follow you through this procedure again thanks ❤

  • @chrissymaree3899
    @chrissymaree3899 2 года назад

    My hair was extremely damaged as well. However I did the exact same thing with my hair; that you are doing with yours. “NO BIG CHOP”. Simply take care of & restore the hair. Cut off what is needed. My results in less than 2 month. My hair is almost 1 inch from being back to the middle of my back. Keep pushing out content. Which debunks the myth of the Big Chop. In order to go natural or repair damaged hair. Earned a sub with this one. 🙂 Take care & God bless!.

  • @SimplyShev_hair
    @SimplyShev_hair 2 года назад +8

    Yes girl let's get it back our hair is very similar and I'll be following your journey as I also restore mine 😘🤗

  • @kiml5626
    @kiml5626 2 года назад +1

    That shrinkage was telling all sort of lies! Your crown is long and beautiful. I understand that you can see the damage so I'm not discrediting your pain. Btw... I love your content. Its always dignified and inspiring.

  • @RaeRockyy
    @RaeRockyy 2 года назад +10

    My hair is in the exact same state; length is there, but the breakage 😖. The only difference is my breakage happened after recovering from COVID (apparently hair loss is a rare side effect of the virus). I'm definitely going to follow your journey because I'm right here with you! Thank you for sharing 🤍

    • @nataliewalters2759
      @nataliewalters2759 2 года назад +2

      It is I had this happened but not as bad as bad as some . However , my poor friend had to cut her long hair above her shoulders do to Covid and stress. I had know idea that sometimes is a side effect from Covid .

    • @sabrinaalston1243
      @sabrinaalston1243 2 года назад +1

      Ugo glad you are feeling better.

  • @tanishaforbes51
    @tanishaforbes51 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for being transparent I’m going through the same thing my hair started falling off in clumps I ran to the doctor thinking something was wrong turns out it’s just stress. I also don’t want to cut my hair so I’ll be going on this journey with you.. peace and blessings

  • @mzjazzyj3571
    @mzjazzyj3571 2 года назад +3

    Hi Mercy, thanks for sharing your video and I’m looking forward to the natural hair journey with you🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @TrinasMotivation
    @TrinasMotivation 2 года назад +1

    It's not as bad I know in a few months it will come back. Thanks for the honesty

  • @nyankaphillips3722
    @nyankaphillips3722 2 года назад +4

    We are with you through this journey Mercy ❤

  • @janphillipps2367
    @janphillipps2367 2 года назад +1

    I just am amazed at how you are able to braid and cut your hair, without seeing it. I know you have been doing it forever, so practice helps. I can barely do what I can see. 🤪I am loosing a lot of hair. Age and stress related. It was just my edges, at first, that started me watching your videos and others, for hair growth advice. It was doing well, edges are coming back slowly, but my crown is getting more and more see through.

  • @mariaperry9193
    @mariaperry9193 2 года назад +13

    That STRESS can be a game changer. Kinda going thru the same right now. Gr8 video. Thanks. 😊

  • @labelleessa3880
    @labelleessa3880 2 года назад +1

    Hey Mercy,
    Am so sad your hair is thin but also glad you the courageous lady i've ever known!! Pretty sure that your beautiful hair will come back in no time. Am with you

  • @nosillaxoc
    @nosillaxoc 2 года назад +6

    I was in a car accident last June and with everything I had, I didn’t stress. I was grateful to walk away unharmed. Yet and still, three months later, my hair started to shed…a lot. Last week was the first week that my shed ball wasn’t as big as my palm.
    I so understand the trauma of hair loss and having to begin again. I too chose to trim away and not do a big chop. My hair is noticeably thinner but I’m working to get back what God gave me.
    I am going to go on the journey with you. It’s better to have support than to go alone. I’m pray you are fully restored and blessed beyond what you had. 💙

  • @taitraveler5751
    @taitraveler5751 2 года назад

    I don’t think you realize how many ppl you are helping!! I too have suffered some severe breakage and my hair is uneven. I was so close to getting a big chop. Your video has reaffirmed me that I should not give up on my hair. I've worked so hard to get it to shoulder length. I too don’t have a trustworthy stylist so I will be trimming my own ends. Thankful that I'm not on this hair journey alone!!

  • @cameliamoodie4928
    @cameliamoodie4928 2 года назад +3

    I understand your frustration and how you feel cause I felt the same way with my natural hair.
    I didn't go to the salon to cut my hair either , I did it myself.
    I'm excited to see new and improved methods of hair growth, hair thickness and hair strengthen videos from you.
    I didn't get a chance to buy your aloe Vera oil but hope to in time to come .
    Please share hair tips for hair care when wearing protective styles.
    Please share night time routine for hair care .
    Please share products you've used over period of time and see results with hair.
    Please share any new head bonnets that's cute to wear out and about while deep conditions your hair underneath ( done that a few times )
    I put all my deep conditioning products in my hair put two shower cap , then cut Healthcare cap over it with my scrubs went to work ( Got so many compliments head cap no one know I was deep conditioning my hair underneath) .
    Please share things you eat / drink benefits health of your hair as well.
    God bless 🙌
    Everything will be better ! Keep being real , genuine and authentic 💯

  • @twalls8870
    @twalls8870 2 года назад +1

    I truly appreciate your honesty, vulnerability and courage. You are truly beautiful, gifted, and talented. I loved watching your videos before, but I have mad respect for you been more now. May God bless you beyond measure.

  • @tracyhowell3409
    @tracyhowell3409 2 года назад +6

    Hi! Mercy 🤗 Thanks for the healthy hair advice 🙏🏽

  • @TallGirlSlay
    @TallGirlSlay 2 года назад +1

    I kept saying "oh my God!" but I was so proud of you for showing your vulnerability. You got this!!