ആണിനെ പുരുഷനാക്കുന്ന മൂന്ന് നിലപാടുകള്‍! 3 male attitudes which determine his manhood!
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- ജന്മം കൊണ്ട് ആണായാല്‍ മാത്രം ഉത്തമ പുരുഷനാകില്ല; ജന്മം കൊണ്ട് മാത്രം ഉത്തമ സ്ത്രീയും. ഒരു ആണിനെ പുരുഷനാക്കുന്ന മൂന്ന് നിലപാടുകള്‍!
Very Good observation.
Verigoodsajactionthankyou
Dear sir I may say that I am not so
perfect.But I will not cheat anybody.
I fully agree with with your statements. Thanks.
You do have a great quality. And you do have an additional great quality that is very rare to find nowadays. God bless you
Very good message
Sir,
Your advises help me a lot.
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Excellent video
ഞാൻ സാദിയിലായിരിന്നും അവിടെ യൂറോപ്പ്കാർ കമ്പനിയിൽ മേനേജറായി വന്നാൽ തൊഴിലാളികൾക് അർഹതപെട്ട എല്ലാ കാര്യവും കിട്ടും
Very good sir ❤️👍
Well said about the topic
Very correct.manushyan marikonde irikkunnu shriyum purushanum.anubhavangaleludeyum chindakalilueyum.athinal nam oruvathi ingane yani ennu parayan pattilla oru nimishathe chindayo anubhavamo thottaduthathe nimishathil ayale mattunnu.chindikkukayum pravarthikkukayum cheyunna manushyan marikondeyirikkum vyakthithongal marum
Yes,I like gentleman(my husband)
Lucky you 😂
If your happiness comes from your job and high socioeconomic status, retirement will change it. You will not have those friends any more. But if your happiness comes from being a kindhearted good person, retirement will not make much difference. You will have the same friends and social network. Be good to others during your working years. Be a good person all the time.
Golden words ❤️ something that everyone of us carry in our minds always
True. Observed from farmer elders having no retirement life but excellent healthy long life.
Exact 100%
Kindness makes a man... Human
Unkindness makes a man...
................................................ Demon
Sir thank U very much U are the grate
Thanks brother
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Super
A perfect man is only a wish. We see great people only outwardly . Perfect men may be living in our land without our knowledge.
Thank you!
Absolutely right 💯
Study Jesus Christ's character and your wish to be an 'uthama purushan' will become true.
@@easowmathai7625 Only study of Jesus won't make one perfect. When one follows Jesus with His cross makes him perfect.
@@TKV007 Yes, that was my point. Studying something and reading something are different. Reading has a superficial influence, but studying is far more deeper.
When you study something (Note: studying is a time consuming process, as you will go behind it till you understand it well), there will be some points that will influence you automatically. This will directly influence you without your even knowing it. You will only realise it when you are faced with real life situations. Eg: As a kid, you learn to count and calculate the maths. What is the use of it for you at that point of your life. Nothing. But when your father asks you to buy something and bring the change, then this is when you realise the point of studying Maths. That was my point.
If you study something, it does not mean immediate application, but appropriate application. It can be intentional or unintentional process.
@@easowmathai7625 Whether it is studying or reading one should apply it in practical life in order to say that the result has been obtained..I am aware of the difference between reading and studying. Studying doesn't necessarily make one implement what he studied in his practical life. Special will is required for that.
Super video
Excellent word..great
ശെരിയാണ്
Wellsaid
True to the core. At your workplace !?
പ്രക്രുതിയുടെ നിയമം പുരുഷന് സ്ത്രീയെ തിരയുന്നതാണ് സാറെ. എന്നാല് ഇന്നത് തലതിരിന്ഞിരിക്കുന്നു ( ഉള്ട്ടാ ഹോഗയാ). എന്റെ ഒരു സുഹ്രുത്ത് എന്നോടു പറന്ഞത് ഓറ്ക്കുന്നു, “അവളു കാരണമാ എന്നെ പറുദീസായിലു നിന്നും ഔട്ടടിച്ചത്. ഇനി ഇവിടെ നിന്നും എന്നെ ഔട്ടടിക്കുമെന്നെനിക്കറിയാം. കാരണം അവളെ കൂട്ടിയാ എന്നെ ഇന്ഗോട്ടു വിട്ടിരിക്കുന്നത്.”
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ഇതു 2021 ആണ്. ഡെഡ് ബോഡി വാങ്ങണമെങ്കിൽ പോലും ആദ്യം ബില്ല് അടയ്ക്കണം. പണമുള്ളവർ ബുദ്ധി ഉള്ളവർ. പണത്തിനു മേലെ കാക്ക പോലും പറക്കില്ല.
Correct
Thanks sir absolutely correct you are words thanks again
Correct 100%
You are right 👍 polichu sir
Great message. Everyday in real life we can see prople of these traits. You just need to identify
I know one and only perfect man the Immanuel. All virtues perfectly preserved in Him by natural. And He is my hero the Son of God.
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Same here. This is why we believe in Him and moving according to His will.
Good..
It is a mixed bag for me.
1) I know the value of money. It is important in my life. I will be faking if I say it is not important. But I won't touch others money or property...
2) When it comes to ladies, I never misbehaved with any. ( my wife might be thinking otherwise 😊 )
3) I am a powermonger. But no wish to get into a position which I don't deserve. I never show attitude to my subordinates though at times I show it to my bosses when they mistreat me.. Even a fresher joining under me, I treat friendly. In fact the people with whom I have good relationship in company are mostly my subordinates and not my equals or higher officials. I know one needs to suck up to higher ones. But what to do? Not in my blood.
Excellent 👌
Earning money the right way and using it for the right reasons is fine. But you should not work for it at the cost of your health which spoils the purpose of earning it in the first place. Also, you should not use it to overpower others.
If you are able to accept the partner that God gave you and love her whole heartedly (make sure she feels your love) and are flexible to accommodate the ups and downs that life throws at you from time to time, it is fine. Many untoward happenings occur in life and if you hold your wife's hand in the most difficult time of her life, she will never look elsewhere for love.
If you are in a powerful position, you have a moral responsibility to help those who are unable to help themselves. So, being in a powerful position to do something good is not a bad thing, as it may be God's decision to use you to help the people that come your way. You should be able to identify the person who really needs help and those who pretend that they need help.
As Mr. Samuel George said, none of these points should not be your master. Then, the rest that are connected with it will fall into its own place.
ഇപ്പോൾ ജീവിച്ചു പോണമെങ്കിൽ അടിമയായി ജീവിക്കുന്നതാണ് ബുദ്ധി
Good topic.. Sir, Good video ❤️
ഏഴു ലഹരികൾ - കള്ള് ' കഞ്ചാവ് ( drugs) പെണ്ണ് പണം അധികാരം പദവി പ്രശസ്തി
വെരി ഗുഡ്
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Excellent sir
വിഡിയോ പൊളി
Very very right sir
Thank you ❣️
ലോകത്ത് ഉത്തമനായ ഒരു പുരുഷന്റെ പേര്
താൻ ഒന്ന് പറഞ്ഞു തരുമോ. എല്ലാവർക്കും എല്ലാവിധ പോസ്റ്റിവും, നെഗറ്റീ വും ഉണ്ട്.
I didn't say that. I just narrated the attributes
ഉത്തമനായ പുരുഷൻ മോഹൻലാൽ ആണെന്ന് മോഹൻലാൽ ഫാൻസ് പറയുന്നു .......
അല്ല...
മമ്മൂട്ടി ആണ് എന്ന് മമ്മൂട്ടി ഫാൻസ് പറയുന്നു ......!!
No one is perfect, but the Bible says that we have to try to achieve perfection by following the rules. The Holy Bible gives an in depth insight to being a true man. Those who would like to achieve the status of a respectable man should read the Bible and understand the real message of God. Then you will see 'uthama purushan' in this world.
This habit has to be instilled and inculcated from childhood. The Bible is not restricted to Christian reading. Anyone who wants to rectify himself and achieve true peace of mind can read it. This does not mean that I am against other religions. With all due respect to all of them, if you find your answers there, you are free to follow. I saw the truth in the Holy Bible and fully believe in it and was only speaking from my experience This is why I was referring to it.
The basic idea in any religion is to love one another to create a positive environment of peace and harmony. But due to miscreants that are increasing in numbers, it becomes very difficult to follow, but it is not impossible. That is the power of reading The Holy Bible.
By the way, we all saw the real faces of Mohanlal in Bigg Boss and Mammotty in Swapna Suresh gold smuggling case. The cinema field has hyped their images as uthama purushan, not because of their character, but for their glamorous faces, which both of them apply makeup to maintain their images. As makeup covers up their ugliness, they use it regularly when standing in the public.
An 'uthama purushan' does not fear what others says about him, as he has understood the real meaning of what it is to be a man and knows that others can't beat him when it comes to analysing the character and are jealous of him. So others will try to bring him down. But he still stands up strong against all odds.
It is the immature people who considers Mammotty and Mohanlal as uthama purushan.
@@antonylawrence8278 Only in their acting.
താങ്കൾ പറഞ്ഞതിൽ മൂന്നാമത്തെ വസ്തുതയിൽ പെട്ട ഒരു വ്യക്തി 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄🐄ആണ് ഇപ്പോൾ നമ്മുടെ രാജ്യത്തിൻറെ പരമോന്നതയിലുള്ളത് ആർക്കെങ്കിലും പറയാൻ പറ്റുമോ അതാരാണെന്ന്😎😎😎🙏🙏🙏
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True
Excellent...why most of people born with out any bank balance dies in the
Same way...why some people born
With some bank balance dies with
Lots of asset.............this because of
The attitude.... An intelligent man
Gives more importance to time
Than money...give more importance
To responsibility...have faith
In society and in God....
Takes all assets in the world
As my assets ..caring and sharing...
If a person in find to be
Usefull to the society.,
There will be millions of people to take care of him
...90 percentage of the people
Are honest. We get bad experience
Due to remaining 10Percentage...
.,
.due to lack of unity society
Is suffering....
We should place humanity at first
Place than money.....money
Which is made indirect way Will
Go in some other way that even
Don't imagine... like unexpected
Hospital cases etc...most of the
People may have this experience...
If you start taking social responsibility..money will come
Your. Way..
.it must come
Otherwise it is Not
Money😜🙏🏻😁..money
Knows where it wants to go
..
Money Is intelligent...
Supreme is intelligent
....if anyone have doubt
....
Take list of people who got
Lottery...and check
..
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പെട്ടന്ന് പണം വന്ന ശേഷം അതു വരെയുള്ള സൗഹൃതം മറക്കന്നവരെ പുരുഷനായ് കണക്കാക്കാമോ
Never. He is not even a human
Thirumanagal edukkukayum adu nadapilakukayum cheyyunavan arano abananu purushan.
Areyum asrayikade lokathe adijeevikkan kazhiyunavan arano abanane purushan
Good
ഉത്തമനായ പുരുഷൻ ധീരനും നീതിമാനും ബുദ്ധിമാനും ആയിരിയ്ക്കും.
Added qualities..of course sir
Yes, you are absolutely right.
A God fearing man will have attained complete maturity and possess all these qualities, as his soul or spirit automatically guides him throughout life.
Crt, thank U sir
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ജോർജേട്ടാ മുത്തേ..: കലക്കി: യാഥാർത്ഥ്യം ഇനിയുo പച്ചക്ക് പറയണം
അങ്ങനെയുള്ളവർ ഒന്നാംസ്ഥാനത്ത് അധികാര സ്ഥലത്തേക്ക് എത്തുന്നുണ്ടോ?
Not necessary. But their minds will be powerful and in perfect happiness
Well said sir
പോയിന്റുകൾ മാത്രം ഒടുവിൽ ഒന്നുകൂടി പറഞ്ഞാൽ കൊള്ളാമായിരുന്നു
എന്റെ വീടിനടുത്ത് ഒരു പെണ്ണ് ഒരു മഹാഅലവലാതിയുടെ പിന്നാലെ പോയി അവ൯ അവളെ ശരിക്ക് മുതലാക്കി ഉപയോഗിച്ചു.അവളുടെ സെലക്ഷ൯ എങ്ങനെ തെറ്റി പോയി ?
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👍👍👌👌😍😍Bro
Polichallo sir😂
You are absolutely right.
For this, a man who is God fearing will know how to handle the three things that you mentioned.
If you analyse this situation properly, I have the following points which I believe are the reason for the stupidity that exists in our society.
1. TABOO - Priests do not have the guts to preach and teach the right way of reading the Word of God, as most of them are not genuine in their teachings. They preach to please people, not to reform them. It is just a job for them like any other professions. They are the false preachers who teaches and encourages the wrong things in the society. Eg: The priest visits the house of the rich people many times who gives them money, but visits a poor man or those who do give money to them just one or twice in the tenure of 3 years service. They pretend to care and comes only when there is a need for donations. This has inculcated egoism in the rich (and resentment in the poor) that they are above everyone else, as the priests and speak highly of them publicly. This makes them want more and they do anything in their power to gain a position.. (Please note I am not referring to all priests, but the majority of them are that way in today's world).
2. FAMILY BACKGROUND - Today's parents teach their children how to be crooked minded into to gain publicity, money, social status, not being helpful and kind, etc.. In fact, the older generation points at their neighbours house to their son and trains him to be better than them. Society is filled with dirty people and unless the dirt isn't cleaned, we will still see such 'aanum pennum kettavan' types in our society.
3. MAJORITY ARE IDIOTS (both educated and uneducated) AND LAZY TO WORK - People find ways to squeeze other peoples' hard earned money by exploiting their weaknesses. Eg: Merin and Uthara's cases. Basically, these so called men arena shame for the real man.
It is very rare to find hard working good men who knows what it is to be a man and it is nice to know that you are one of it. Your videos has a lot of meaningful messages which men should watch and rectify themselves. Unfortunately, you will not find many viewers to understand your point, as they are basically fools and are looking for vulgarity. Such indecent ones are plenty in this world.
So, all I have to say here is that unless a man is mature enough to know what it is to be one, the useless so called men should not get married. This is only possible if the father of the girl is smart enough to identify a suitable spouse for his daughter.
Truly wise observations
ഫന്റാസ്റ്റിക്
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But most rich people are greedy, miserly, crooked and dishonest.
ഇതെല്ലാം സ്ത്രീകൾക്കും ബാധകമല്ലേ....???
When a man is a real man, you will automatically see a good woman, as he would have selected the right partner for himself and knows how to handle his life. As a man is considered to be the head of the house, it is very important that he has the maturity and understanding to run his family life properly. Please note age, colour, dowry, education or family status will not be his priority, but the character of his wife matters to him. If a man is really good, only a foolish woman will leave him for another fool.
As per the Bible, Christ is the head of man and a husband is the head of his wife. If a man has Christ's qualities, his home will be equivalent to heaven.
(Note: Man is the head, Head consists of the brain, Brain should function properly in a man, as this is the only identification that differentiates him from the monkeys. In a man, the brain function the right way, which normally you don't see in the general population. Thiz is why, so many problems are there in the society). The Bible gives a lot of insight to being a true man provided , the person reading it understand the real meaning of the message in it.
@@easowmathai7625 Are you afraid of woman who are independent, resourceful, and resilient....???
@@antonylawrence8278 Definitely not. As I mentioned in my message, a true man appreciates a woman and he has the ability to manage his household according to his circumstances. A woman should be independent, resourceful and resilient. Read Proverbs 31 to know more details. This is what is mentioned in the Bible. Man should learn to respect his wife as his own body. It means a dirty man will trash his wife, as he does not know how to handle himself, whereas a real man is just the opposite. Due to the tough circumstances in today's world, a man also have to share household work. It is not below his dignity to help his wife, but it will increase his bond with her. That is why I mentioned the Bible give full insight to being a proper man. It is not to degrade any man or woman, as both have their own roles to play in the building up of society. I was only referring to the man's ability to recognise the right woman for him, as all married people know that it is very difficult for a woman to work and take care of the house on her own, since she used that energy to work for someone. Woman can work if she wants but it should not be forced on her, as it is not her responsibility to earn for the family. When a man chooses a working woman as his wife, he should be willing to share all the responsibility 50%. He should also involve her in all the decision that he makes as she is also earning for the family Men should not be like Merin or Uthara or Koodathayi Jolly's husband.
If both the man and woman are working, the stamina of a woman is always lower than a man. It is her mental strength that pulls her through and this is only possible if her husband supports her. The majority of men forget it and sees them as money making machine, whether it is in the form of dowry, or her salary.
A father marries off his daughter to ensure that she is safe and will be cared after his death. Living on the woman's wealth shows he is incapable of this responsibility, and the woman was better off living with her father without any baggage, burden and harassment from the man's family. The money that her father gives is to his daughter. A man has no right to waste it away as it is the woman right that she received from her father. Then it is the turn of her husband to give her rights and arrange for her future's security after marrying him. A man who does not do it isn't a man. Woman started working as man was unable to handle this financial requirements on his own. So she is only a support system, not a man's means of making money.
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You are wrong about European managers, it is not true.
I said what I saw in UAE
@@SamuelGeorge I said what I experienced in The UAE
Well, at least both of you will agree that the English people are much better than any Arab nationals. This is from my experience in the UAE.
But I would like to add one thing here, it does not matter which nationality, caste, creed, race, gender or colour you belong to, but where you come from.
I mean whether you were raised by proper and intelligent parents who believed in values (moral / ethical) and raised you as a human being should be or as an inhuman. Parents who are religious would ensure that their children are brought up religiously. This will cover everything..
Christians believe in the Bible which is the rule book for the right way of living. Those who have read and understood the true meaning knows where and how to apply it effectively.
@@easowmathai7625 , Whatever, u can't generalise good and bad based on Nationality
Yes I agree. That is the point of my message. It is how you were raised that matters, either by your parents, teachers or elders of the society.
The Holy Bible, is also called the Book of Life. Books gives us knowledge and Life gives us experience. A wholesome man gains maturity when this combination of knowledge and experience teaches him the true destination of man. It is up to him to manage the difficulties of life through the rule book called 'The Bible'.
Just look at it this way. Imagine there is a bridge. The starting point of the bridge is YOUR BIRTH, ending point of the bridge is DEATH. The bridge is shaky in nature which keeps swinging when you put each step forward. But it is only those who have the ability to balance on the bridge that keeps them moving forward. If he falls from it, he fails. Those who are emotionally strong will keep trying till they succeed, as they do not give up easily. Now imagine another situation. This shaky bridge can handle only 2 people at a time. But 10 people jumped on it. What do you expect? But if all the 10 people are co-operative, they can move forward through mutual understanding even if it slow. But what if 1 person is a fighter cock, who doesn't have the reasoning ability to balance along with others and he is the first person to cross the bridge. Neither he nor anyone can move forward. Everyone will fail. Unless you have the management ability to silence him, you will not be able to move forward. This is why the head or the leader should be sensible, understanding, co-operative, supportive and flexible in nature. Otherwise, the people below him should have unfathomable patience to bear him. Otherwise, they should move out or move the leader out. Whichever is workable, that path can be chosen. But to know this, you have to understand the real situation through your reasoning ability.
Athikam samsaram illa eannath kondaano pennungal pirake verunnath 🤒
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Very very good message
Super
True