Macgyver de Quadros forget them and leave them. Never align oneself to those that only bring one down and not elegate one up. Like you.. all my life Ive been brought down and disappointed even by family (both the giving side: dad side and the self centered side: mom side). Being too kind has it's bad side (smothering and limiting) as well as the truth and fact of a tyranic and overbearing side (you do what I want or you'll die trying to live the way you wish and are). Trust me.. I've been defeated and lost many times.. but I won't allow it no more.. and distance myself from those who don't support nor understand the least even if I have to be alone and by myself. It is better to be by oneself than in the company of those who limit and bring us down. There is always a way.. no matter how little you can stary. It is time to take and align ourselves to what makes us feel fortunate than to stick ourselves to those that makes us feel unfortanate, a curse, bad, as well as use us..
Macgyver de Quadros sociopaths have a history of abuse and verbal abuse from the environment they live in, such as a school young kids trying to fit in with the popularity society. And also violent parents who likes to child abuse. The shooters are gun aficionados.
The three pillars of leadership development are being, knowing, and doing. I have become a better leader by applying each of these in my life. The doing part has been more difficult for me because I am so set in my ways that its hard sometimes to practice something else. Many business leaders today are disconnected with the employees they mentor. Part of the issue is that our main technique of developing leaders is averse to the kind of leadership we want. Therefore, leadership development needs to inspire being-level dimensions, the learning skill needs to propose stillness and space for deliberate observation. It’s tough to teach how to be. Training individuals with tools and representations is very diverse from just holding a space for leaders to be. I have found that giving contributors experiences, such as attentively walking outside in nature or sitting soundlessly in peer groups to listen to classmates share their lives allows leaders to go into their inward world as a powerful tool for educating the vigorous skills of purpose and self-awareness discipline.
I disagree. Extroverts are great communicators? Really. Think again. Introvert are much better communicators which requires both Listening and Talking. Extroverts are horrible at listening !! Listening is actually far more essential skill as a leader than speaking.
I find a great deal of energy in solitude, however I also really enjoy and need to be around people...I guess I would be considered an ambivert. It is pretty uncomfortable for me to talk about my own accomplishments, but I do like to boast about the wonderful accomplishments of those around me! I love how you transitioned over to the importance of creating a safe space that allows people to be themselves, and let the magic happen organically! Great TedTalk - thank you for sharing Angela Hucles!
I got the 96% of leaders are extrovert statistic and that we could possibly use more introvert leaders, but it was never really explained why an introvert would make a great leader
@@ashyaura Personally, I can change & go back to Introvert style, but majority Introverts can't change in to Extroverts, this change can lead to some mental health issues to Introverts!
had to go for a walk a couple days ago because I felt stifled by all the stimuli in my classroom...i felt like my entire body was charged (overexerted) and i needed to relax or i could collapse and pass out. i didn't even realize that it was part of my introvertness...i just needed space to breathe.
Nikhiyang I have that same feeling often at school. People are so loud in some classes that I can literally feel like I'm going crazy, or wonder how everyone else is even tolerating this much noise. I've always been this way, very sensitive to sensory stimulation. I'm an introvert but I also think I'm a highly sensitive person (HSP). You might be as well, it's worth looking up!
Introverts are the inventors of a product that extroverts are responsible for selling. Amazon, Microsoft, Apple, Google, Code, Cisco, Intel, Amd, Nvidia etc. Extroverts dominate employment, Introverts rule the world.
My inclination....Introverts internalize introspects intuitively Extroverts exhibit as excessive, exuberant extremists, excelling externally ,exceeding in expectations expediently, existing while insisting, exemplifying existence inclusively but excluding introverts as incapable, incompetent and incoherent, yet we are in tune,intelligent and internally and externally in-sync. Exactly ....
She is saying that there are a lot of extroverted leaders in the world even though they make up a small percentage of the population. In her example of subbing for a bold extroverted leader, she was still able to lead and guide her team in a different way than the extroverted leader but still helped and led her team to win gold at the Olympics. Given her example, introverts should be filling up more leadership roles because they are still able to lead but in a different way than extroverts. There is no need to bring negativity to someones speech just because you do not understand their message. Take the time to understand and listen.....
ted does a good job of kinda naturally having a nice niveau. pretty much 99% of what u click here is totally worth it and Im amazed by nearly every talk every time.
Extroverts = kings, Introverts = king makers.... Not fair... I wanna change that.. But how... All introverts question from Einstein to Emma Watson... Introverts have given and giving their lifeless life to this extroverted world.. Not fair just not fair.. Sorry if I offended..
dineshkumar chawre you could easily reframe that introverts are puppet masters and extroverts replaceable frontmen, most government, banking, entertainment and business shareholders probably actually operate closer to tha
I know I'm a year late, but by that logic, I see nothing wrong with woth being a king maker. Influencing someone in power is as powerful if not more than being in power yourself. That's my theory at least.
we are busy playing games in our room so you dont see us alot. we work in the day go home play same cycle everyday. i remembered in collage when they called me anti social.
extroverts = money and self interest, introverts = humanity and self improvement. since extroverts love all those $, they don't want introverts to take over.
What about the language learning? In Toefl I always get good scores but speaking.Because of that I've never get my license, even I had a deep knowledge in special field ...
When you're alone, do you feel relaxed, or do you feel lonely? When you're in a group, do you prefer to talk, or to listen? Ask yourself questions like that. Or just google it. (Since it's been six days, I suppose that if you _really_ wanted an answer, you've already googled it.)
I feel like I missed something. I heard a lot of emotionally manipulative non-verbal communication, and some ramblings about not being pushed to be something she wasn't. Where was the leadership? Where is the persuasive arguments that introvert leaders are a good thing?
I actually clicked off this video right after the first sentence when she said everybody can be a good leader, this is blatantly untrue. There’s people who are brilliant that would make terrible leaders.
Being an introverted leader can be super exhausting, but it is rewarding work when you see the people around you grow.
Extroverts are often charismatic and can bring people together. Introverts are the creative minds that give insights toward revolutionary futures.
Great leaders only step up in times that it is really necesarry.
Good talk.
Extroverts sing the song and Introverts write the song.
Yo this comment!!!!
Not really there’s a lot of introvert performers as well
Yasssss
@@stayswervin554 with red cheeks
Well said
This introvert thanks you Angela!
And this one as well!
So great to see Angela Hucles leading in her quiet, strong way off the field!
Introverts would rule the world...if we could get out of the house.
True
@@yvettewilliams8901 true
😂😂😂 lol that's so true
Felt this in my soul
Lol😂
I am an introvert, but believe that in our world we need both extroverts and introverts; neither is better than the other.
They are both needed. Everyone cannot all speak at the same time. Everyone cannot listen always. I am thankful for the mix.
"Imagine a world full of introverts."
They laugh.
Me: What an amazing world!
like japan
Is Japan mostly introvert people?
As one of those 'introverted leaders' I felt very inspired listening to Angela share her story and journey. Great TED talk.
Sadly, I'm living in a culture where introverts are associated with sociopaths.
Macgyver De Quadros and the irony is that the actual sociopaths by term are the most extorveted people on the scale
Where is this, please??
I seriously would like too know?
Thanks!0
Macgyver de Quadros forget them and leave them. Never align oneself to those that only bring one down and not elegate one up.
Like you.. all my life Ive been brought down and disappointed even by family (both the giving side: dad side and the self centered side: mom side).
Being too kind has it's bad side (smothering and limiting) as well as the truth and fact of a tyranic and overbearing side (you do what I want or you'll die trying to live the way you wish and are). Trust me.. I've been defeated and lost many times.. but I won't allow it no more.. and distance myself from those who don't support nor understand the least even if I have to be alone and by myself.
It is better to be by oneself than in the company of those who limit and bring us down.
There is always a way.. no matter how little you can stary. It is time to take and align ourselves to what makes us feel fortunate than to stick ourselves to those that makes us feel unfortanate, a curse, bad, as well as use us..
Macgyver de Quadros sociopaths have a history of abuse and verbal abuse from the environment they live in, such as a school young kids trying to fit in with the popularity society. And also violent parents who likes to child abuse. The shooters are gun aficionados.
Macgyver de Quadros What culture is that?? It’s exactly the opposite!!
The three pillars of leadership development are being, knowing, and doing. I have become a better leader by applying each of these in my life. The doing part has been more difficult for me because I am so set in my ways that its hard sometimes to practice something else. Many business leaders today are disconnected with the employees they mentor. Part of the issue is that our main technique of developing leaders is averse to the kind of leadership we want. Therefore, leadership development needs to inspire being-level dimensions, the learning skill needs to propose stillness and space for deliberate observation. It’s tough to teach how to be. Training individuals with tools and representations is very diverse from just holding a space for leaders to be. I have found that giving contributors experiences, such as attentively walking outside in nature or sitting soundlessly in peer groups to listen to classmates share their lives allows leaders to go into their inward world as a powerful tool for educating the vigorous skills of purpose and self-awareness discipline.
Introverts should lead, and do lead often times, but behind the scenes. Extroverts are great at communicating ideas that introverts created.
I disagree. Extroverts are great communicators? Really. Think again. Introvert are much better communicators which requires both Listening and Talking. Extroverts are horrible at listening !! Listening is actually far more essential skill as a leader than speaking.
I also disagree ...
Totally agree!!!
Maybe it is because we think before we act.
I find a great deal of energy in solitude, however I also really enjoy and need to be around people...I guess I would be considered an ambivert. It is pretty uncomfortable for me to talk about my own accomplishments, but I do like to boast about the wonderful accomplishments of those around me! I love how you transitioned over to the importance of creating a safe space that allows people to be themselves, and let the magic happen organically! Great TedTalk - thank you for sharing Angela Hucles!
I got the 96% of leaders are extrovert statistic and that we could possibly use more introvert leaders, but it was never really explained why an introvert would make a great leader
You can google to find the answers. There are studies on it.
I really realized my leadership potential with creative insights to conquer our extremely extroverted world.
Extroverts are like stage actors, Introverts are like the technicians behind the working of that play!!
Is there middle ground? Can you make a transition from an introvert to an extrovert?
@@ashyaura
Personally, I can change & go back to Introvert style, but majority Introverts can't change in to Extroverts, this change can lead to some mental health issues to Introverts!
and the ambiverts are directors
@@ish-shv4475
Ya May be!😊
Who would of thought that I, 26 as of the 13th, could still feel as happy as a kid in a candy store, hearing something. Thank you.
Yes, the quiet times help in regaining strength! I also believe that leadership is all about service, team work - introverts have that in them!
Excellent leadership skills. Excellent Ted talk.
I understand and I’m more sensitive to introverts now. Thanks 🙏 for the lesson!!!
A true leader speaking the truth.
Excellent speech.
It's depend basically.
This is a great speech! Loved it.
There are no extroverts without introverts
had to go for a walk a couple days ago because I felt stifled by all the stimuli in my classroom...i felt like my entire body was charged (overexerted) and i needed to relax or i could collapse and pass out. i didn't even realize that it was part of my introvertness...i just needed space to breathe.
Nikhiyang I have that same feeling often at school. People are so loud in some classes that I can literally feel like I'm going crazy, or wonder how everyone else is even tolerating this much noise. I've always been this way, very sensitive to sensory stimulation. I'm an introvert but I also think I'm a highly sensitive person (HSP). You might be as well, it's worth looking up!
Sounds like stress
Introverts are the inventors of a product that extroverts are responsible for selling. Amazon, Microsoft, Apple, Google, Code, Cisco, Intel, Amd, Nvidia etc. Extroverts dominate employment, Introverts rule the world.
Who would we be without all these theaters?
Inspiring, thank you for sharing!
My inclination....Introverts internalize introspects intuitively Extroverts exhibit as excessive, exuberant extremists, excelling externally ,exceeding in expectations expediently, existing while insisting, exemplifying existence inclusively but excluding
introverts as incapable, incompetent and incoherent, yet we are in tune,intelligent and internally and externally in-sync. Exactly ....
a shame this has no likes.
Nice alliteration 😊
THank you and needed to hear this.
Yes, its not the matter of personality but, it is the matter of right decision making. Well said!👏👏👍💙
One of the best TED talks ever.
We need Plato’s philosopher kings.
Tbh what was the point of this TED talk? Like am I missing something? She's saying so much but not giving the actual WHY we need introvert leaders.
Exactly why I’m in the comments lol
She is saying that there are a lot of extroverted leaders in the world even though they make up a small percentage of the population. In her example of subbing for a bold extroverted leader, she was still able to lead and guide her team in a different way than the extroverted leader but still helped and led her team to win gold at the Olympics. Given her example, introverts should be filling up more leadership roles because they are still able to lead but in a different way than extroverts. There is no need to bring negativity to someones speech just because you do not understand their message. Take the time to understand and listen.....
thanks Angela excellent talk
Awesome! I love it! 🙌💖😌
I need to watch more videos from here.
ted does a good job of kinda naturally having a nice niveau. pretty much 99% of what u click here is totally worth it and Im amazed by nearly every talk every time.
I’m an introvert named Ben so the thumbnail freaked me out
Extroverts = kings,
Introverts = king makers.... Not fair... I wanna change that.. But how... All introverts question from Einstein to Emma Watson... Introverts have given and giving their lifeless life to this extroverted world.. Not fair just not fair.. Sorry if I offended..
dineshkumar chawre you could easily reframe that introverts are puppet masters and extroverts replaceable frontmen, most government, banking, entertainment and business shareholders probably actually operate closer to tha
I know I'm a year late, but by that logic, I see nothing wrong with woth being a king maker. Influencing someone in power is as powerful if not more than being in power yourself. That's my theory at least.
Inspiring 💯
Anyone know the opening intro track/song please 🥺
Shazam has failed me 😭
And I am very glad I did that now!!!😊
I’m an ambivert and i want to be a leader some day. 🙈💕
Me either, i want to become neither entrepreneur or CEO.
we are busy playing games in our room so you dont see us alot. we work in the day go home play same cycle everyday. i remembered in collage when they called me anti social.
its introverted intution not introvertes intj entj infj enfj are the leaders we need to have the ofreisgiht.
extroverts = money and self interest, introverts = humanity and self improvement. since extroverts love all those $, they don't want introverts to take over.
What if I want to be rich, and care for my self interest, and at the same, want to become a better person and to make this world a better one?
Well said mam
What about the language learning? In Toefl I always get good scores but speaking.Because of that I've never get my license, even I had a deep knowledge in special field ...
There's a moral code for me, argue less listen more.
below the stage,, Is that lady talking to deaf people?
yes
You forgot about ambivert
3:34..MOST of my entire Career hard work efforts...⛩🛫🛬
How do you know whether you are introverted or extroverted?
When you're alone, do you feel relaxed, or do you feel lonely? When you're in a group, do you prefer to talk, or to listen? Ask yourself questions like that. Or just google it. (Since it's been six days, I suppose that if you _really_ wanted an answer, you've already googled it.)
you go and talk to a stranger
Read Susan Cain's QUIET.
@@linahnanziri You are a social introvert like myself. It's a few tiers of introverts but we're a rare combo of balance 😉
How about ambivert
Most people don`t like me too be myself, but screw that, then they wouldn`t like me no matter what I waz like, know what I mean?
I feel like I missed something. I heard a lot of emotionally manipulative non-verbal communication, and some ramblings about not being pushed to be something she wasn't. Where was the leadership? Where is the persuasive arguments that introvert leaders are a good thing?
Honestly I really thought I was missing something too idk the point was not driven or something😩..
But they confuse introverts with shy extroverts.
I actually clicked off this video right after the first sentence when she said everybody can be a good leader, this is blatantly untrue. There’s people who are brilliant that would make terrible leaders.
We have introvert leaders like Vladamir Putin.
How about lil uzi vert
young viet 😂😂😂😂 i just burst out laughing here. Thanks
Genius 🧠
Did only the introverts watch this?
CHUCK BASHER G4P MR. LIMPIA BAP BAP BAP what's there to be silly
Am lost in her bla bla
2020 lol
A lot of bla bla, bla bla and blabla...
yea yea yea american dream story, cliche
hm.. this is the worst TED talk i have ever heard.
Why
Anna Jolie Because she never actually said why introverts are needed and just there’s 96% extroverts
@@elwind762 i think, her talk was great. She said what 4 billion people, who don't usually speak up, wanted to say. Only the title was wrong🤷♀️