Want to sound like a leader? Start by saying your name right | Laura Sicola | TEDxPenn
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How do we sound credible? Dr. Sicola (vocalimpactproductions.com/about/) shows how your vocal delivery influences how your message is received, and how to use it to your advantage.
Watch Laura Sicola's talk to learn how to hone your "vocal executive presence" and make your desired vocal impact!
*For more information, check out Vocal Impact Productions
(vocalimpactproductions.com) and Dr. Sicola's RUclips
( / laurasicola ) channel*.
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Key Points:
1. Balance content and delivery.
2. Train aspects of your voice that relate best to chosen audience.
3. Up-speak undermines authority.
4. Weave inflection around key points.
5. Change your inflection pattern to fit into context (this is strategic, not inauthentic).
6. Dark Side of the Moon.
7. Lozanges
Thx
@@roleye a
I read this comment, watched the video and then laughed out loud when I got to the ending with the prism slide 🤣
Dark side of the moon? Lozanges? Maybe lozenges; maybe Loz Angeles. I saw/heard neither.
instaBlaster.
I can't stop watching these ted talks. I click one, and there's 5+ more in the suggestions that look interesting
@AZIA SEITCHER-HAMEL 3 months later am same
true
My name is hard to say like that.
Oseburuwachukwu Abumchukwu Ezekwesili tough luck XD
not really.
yes i see
*AYOOO...HOL UP*
Oseburuwachukwu Abumchukwu Ezekwesili Hahahahaha bruh
Long story short: min 8:20 to 8:43. Welcome.
thanks
Thx
bless you
You will have a place in heaven...
Thx a bunch
How do you speak in front of the audience without stuttering and deliver your message so clearly? I feel like that's such an underrated talent
Toastmasters did wonders for my public speaking. Highly recommend it.
@@jimarigmailcom thanks!
With practice with an audience. I have access to a place with a business support audience for you if you are interested.
Do you have a feedback loop to optimise your delivery?
Check out speeches by Frank Abagnale, on whom Catch Me if You Can is based. He gives speeches on his life story, some an hour long with no, stutter, stammers, uhs, or errs. He must have practiced enough it is word for word memorized.
I've thumbed this up just because she spoke out properly against the question intonation/up-speak rubbish.
StartabandRoxy I wish she or someone would also speak against this irritating tendency to act like you are a stand-up comic. Public speakers are rarely, very rarely funny and even most stand-up's are annoying than funny. It should be left to the best comedians.
Love her comments on uptalk. I've met so many professionals that sabotage their message by delivering their presentation by sounding doubtful of themselves and almost needing approval or agreement from the audience. Great piece. Thank you.
I agree. They'll have all these disclaimers like what they're trying to do or not trying to do. Some spend a good 10 minutes explaining how "I don't mean to do this" or that. I say, just get on with it!
Selam❤❤❤❤
give her a round of applause. and that person in the audience a cough drop, please.
YESSSSS
Hello
Why did you just tickle me like that
Content starts at 8:08
I wish she had gone on more about sentence tonality and more examples versus the negative things we do in sentence building......
I wish I was. I just want to get better at sounding like I'm in control. I never yell at people but I would like to have a tone that would get me to stop repeating myself. That, or I actually do have a strong tone and I'm over-looking how stupid people can be and just defy me anyways. This helped a little, I wish it had helped more is all. She was a good teacher but she did mention she teaches powerful people. So of course she doesn't want to give away the secret for free :p
Zayashuku Balance being/saying positive or a positive tone - like the book "how to win friends and influence people" with breaking report (pronounced rap-or) Which basically means at the end of the sentence/statement your voice goes down. If it goes up - it is unconfident or a suggestion or a question. Try saying, "sit down" with your pitch going down and then do it with your pitch going up. You do not need to yell. If you break report hard people will listen to you. Must stand confidently and be grounded too. Elliot hulse is an excellent example. Tyler from RSD is also good.
lifeisgood070 I think the word you're looking for is rapport, not report.
Chuck Wagner Yes it is. Thank you. :)
Mrs. Sicola doesn't sound like a leader, just a typical bossy transvestite.
She is an excellent speaker and gives a perfect example of her tonality by elucidating what "up speak" is.
I’m so impressed by the way Laura Sicola weaves through the various tonal and rhythmic distinctions she’s discussing, providing examples as she defines them. This is a very polished and effective presentation. I also learned that the last “note” of my last name has not been the best, and I will change my pronunciation moving forward. Thank you!
say her name . . . SAY HER NAME!!!!!!!! . . . . . kidding
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She sounds like the kind of seagull manager* who made me involuntarily clench up and go hide in my cube whenever she was on-site.
* Seagull manager: flies in, squawks noisily, shits all over everything, flies out.
+jackal59 LOL
+jackal59 So agree. She grates on me, big time.
+jackal59 exactly. I instantly tell these folks where they can go. Yes, I stay employed. As she would say...It's all about the delivery
+jackal59 She has that "Can I speak to your Manager?" type of face and voice tone.
Source: I'm a Manager for a Verizon store.
+jackal59 I's be arrested for battery and assault if this bitch was my manager...
it's taken me almost 38 years - right up to watching this video - to find out he wasn't actually saying, "dogs say goodnight"!!! i honestly thought that was the correct line. in fact, when Laura said, "bright blessed days, dark sacred night", i actually went, "huh?! when does he say that??" hahahahahahaha!! thanks for setting me straight, Laura!
WOW!!! Finally someone tells it like it is about UPSPEAK. I have been annoyed with this for YEARS and whenever I go on a rant about it people look at me funny. Please, everyone make note of her message beginning around 9:00.
This held my attention, I understood everything she was explaining, and her speech patterns and choice of words, as well as her demeanor, reinforced what she was teaching. As someone who introduces herself often at work, I will try this out.
Always love these types of TED Talks videos. Very motivational.
She has a strong personality and delievered a very useful topic so stop making unnecessary notes about how she looks like.
Great presentation!
The beauty of youtube is the anyone can speak their mind, in a perfect world, we would all be respectful. Having said that, unfortunately, something about the way she carries herself ( or dare i say it, the way she is dressed? ) made me lose interest in her talk, not even half way through, or maybe it is way the stage is set? The thing is, I have seen better ted talks than this, her message might be important, execution needs improvement...in my opinion...
+capubecks I respect your opinion, but some people were not commenting about how she was dressed, they were making notes about her voice and shape which was unnecessary. I agree that appearances do matter for a better representation to the content but that should be criticized in a nice way for better results in the future.
+Usama Raed just ignore the comments about her appearance... when people say these things, it means they have no other argument
joe young You are right.
That ending was profound. I found this TEDx Talk to be very informative, and the message was well conveyed.
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I had read her book about presentation. And I fought this video and watch this. It's so impressive and wonderful how she used her 3C rules: Command - Connect - Close and her body language, intonation, ect. and the most of these things is how she gives her loved and labor of her work to the presentation have maken a huge respect from me.
down with up-speak! Get a good nights sleep, have breakfast, be strongly committed and well-versed, prepared, speak with clarity and honesty. Maintain focus, enjoy the moment.
Ironically, she looks and sounds very artificial and insecure. To me at least. I did not really enjoy her performance, but I still watched all of the video for the content. Shows that the content does matter most, doesn't it? (At least it should!)
Harry Silver Spot on. I'd cut her some slack as the topic itself directs our attention to her own intonations and tempo. That being said, her halting, flat delivery caused me to expend more mental effort parsing the message, which was one of the points she made about poor vocal delivery.
***** Except she is presenting on how vocal delivery affects the way your message is received by an audience. She's the presenter, We're the audience, we are constructively criticizing her vocal delivery... We have literally sat through the experience that gives us the right to comment on how her message was received. Where's the ignorance?
By the way, there's a word that describes what you're doing, too. It's called white knighting.
***** What she was talking about was mostly about how one would appear to others. She did not appear to me as someone, who I'd consider to be a very charismatic or 'leader-type' person. This creates a discrepancy between her words and how she acts. She herself said, that's a bad thing. So, I think that criticism is quite valid?
Also, I do respect her, and am always grateful for free information. I just don't see how you then suddenly can't criticize anymore.
I agree. She also places way too much value on social roles IMO.
well you know it is the age old struggle of theory and practice I guess being a leader is natural skill you are born with it you don't just acquire it but really great leaders don't only rely on their natural leadership qualities but strive for more, more knowledge more insight etc
The way she slightly leans toward the audience is awesome and her hand gestures really bring the message across however top speakers suggest lowering your voice to bring the listeners closer to you and this forces them to listen closely and really brings home the message and your listeners drop there walls and allow the message to sink in because it's only your soft tone they appreciate I know I'm a team leader and have been for 17 years and all of my team strive to achieve in every aspect. She is a awesome speaker
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If it makes the listener think, it's a winner in my book.
Honestly, I feel that this speaker is performing. There is distance between her and her audience, and it doesn't feel as if she is having a conversation with people who are in the same room. And a lot of this actually comes from pitch that is raised to be "more professional." But you can tell the difference when someone speaks more openly and more directly.
Pretty much my impression as well.
Her presentation was really impressive. Her context were simple, but everything was delivered appropriately and made sense to me.
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An indeed fantastic TED talk focused on the visceral and cognitive aspects and influence of one's voice and that one on " prismatic voice" is amazing !!
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Agreed about the name - when introducing yourself the delivery/tone of your first and last name speaks volumes on how you feel about yourself.
Laura, I really appreciate your explanation, thank you so much
Laura, I loved your presentation. Just letting you know that I tried to introduce myself to my wife, utilizing the correct intonation, and I was met with, "Can we do this later, I am working on my presentation". lol She knows me too well!!!
Not only does she put on a very well thought out presentation, she also has a very pleasant delivery. Well Done, Young Lady, FR
I hate all the negative comments on here. She is a good speaker and this is a good topic, beyond just what the title addresses. Plus I thought she was funny.
fabulous presentation, quite simple but reminded me of some of my lost skills, More power to you Dr. Sicola
This will help me with my interview tomorrow, something so simple can be yet so powerful.
Up Speak ! So thats what we are calling it. Love it ! And she is right , its painful. Thank you Laura !
Excellent! So, easy to listen to and understand because she speaks the way she explains how we should SPEAK!
She is awesome! And her speech is translatable!!! Fantastic Course for me!
This was very interesting to hear. I've been introducing myself as such for many years already. I also use a similar approach when saying my cell phone number, especially over a voice mail
As an aspiring actor I actually found this talk very helpfull and noteworthy!
But being authenthic is actually a great part of captivating your audience and being perceived as credible by them. Thank you Dr. Sicola for the great inspiration and usefull lessons!
Selam❤❤❤❤
Wow, this was amazing. One of the best Ted talks I've ever seen. 👏👏👏
That last comment about the prism is so powerful. Wow! Thank you for your words Laura. I always forget names by the way.
A leader is not made; a leader is trained
Gabriel Isaac a leader is plopped.
Amen. Look at Obama.
A leader is a way to move up and down one storey to another. It is not born, it is made. Hahahaa!
Leaders are born
@@RK-ev6dw puppets aren't leaders
I enjoyed the talk. Well presented and some good points. I listened recently to several actors and paid particular attention to patterns in tone and volume. Then I watched leaders at work in meetings and have started imitating the ones I feel are more successful. They have either learned this skill or are naturally great speakers. I think the talk was right on target for what it intended to communicate (content) and delivery.
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Excellent video, I learned quite a bit from this video. I never realized how powerful these strategies are.
Happy I watched till the end, she highlights some key points.
The best part of this video is definitely the Lawn Boy vinyl sitting in the background for some reason.
Dude. I swear, whenever I was a Ted talk with a female speaker the comments are almost always about their physical appearance, and critiquing and shortening their speeches. She has some very interesting points if only people would listen, and not obsess over her looks or that her talk is "too long"
Well presented. Very informative. Thanks so much for the useful practical content of your message.
Great speech! Thank you, Laura
Very good talk. Laura seems to know what she is talking about and can put it across well.
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good talk tough crowd
Laura, I loved your presentation. Honestly, it is right on target. Rich Henkle, US Army Retired.
Love this. I was told the key is tone patterns, stories, gestures.
My name is Albus Percival Wulfric Brian Dumbledore.
P. S. He actually pronounced it impressively at the court scene in Phoenix
My God! I love you for that comment (and the fact that you know his full name by heart)! I always thought the exact same in that scene!
this was an awesome talk🔥👌
Another great TED. A easy way of explaining visual vocal verbal communication.
Excelente! what Laura talks about is Not "just plain common sense ". it is a craft to be mastered and it's consciously done. effective communication requires using our out-put channels correctly. this art and science is indeed very profound. Neuro - Linguistic-Programing deals with this stuff. Thank you Laura :)
Lawn boy is one of my favorite albums:D
This was great, although as someone who studied linguistics at university I never judge someone for their accent or dialect since linguistics helps you to appreciate certain styles of talking.
Absolutely relate. This talk is missing out on cultural perceptions of humility vs bragging, etc
This talk wasn't about accents or dialects ...
@@kayumochi you're not about accents or dialects.
@@kasturikhanna7403 That wasn't the subject of the talk so why would it include "humility vs bragging, etc?"
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One of my favorite TED talks ever.
Great Ted Talk, It makes alot of sense that our voice tone should match our environment. I never looked at it that way before. I've said my name wrong several times because I was probably intimidated at the time but now I will say it with more confidence.
Excellent presentation Laura! All the helpful hints, starting with your suggestion on how to say one's name, made this well worth the listen. Thanks!
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What a beneficial and inspiring video! Great content, and I don’t usually laugh out loud at the jokes the speakers make but the one about Elmo had me absolutely lmao. Cant wait to do an introduction now so I can use these techniques!
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Great presentation on organised speech! Glad to know, understand and relate voice flow to light passing through a glass prism. Bravo to the presenter!
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Dr. Sicola, thanks for highlighting the three main ingredients to creating an executive presence. We look forward to having leaders that can groom themselves to be AND sound sincere. As a matter of fact, the delivery of a message is just as important, if not more so, than the message itself.
Your approach to this by starting with the way people pronounce their name during an introduction, is actually really interesting.
My dog grooms himself....... pretty gross if you ask me. Good leaders should keep wtheir lipstick away, I think. He goes for the postman as well, so I guess you're right about the delivery of a message being more important
You know what people really need a lesson in? Telling you their phone number. Everyone seems to assume that because it's familiar to them, it's somehow also familiar to the person they're giving it to. They slur, speed through it, and generally it is next to impossible to catch the whole number. Just because you're reciting something boring is no reason to rush it. SLOW THE FUCK DOWN when you're giving me your number. Ok? Got it? Good.
WalterLiddy I used to panic and tried to give people info quickly because I thought I was being too slow for the people on the other end xD
not any more though
+Persona people may or may not care about any random thing you or anyone else decides to share with the world by posting in a public place online. you aren't in a position to judge... not any more or less than anyone else, that is. but you should know that a negative comment carries many times the weight of a positive one.
your comment speaks for you, and you alone. "no one cares" should have been "I don't care", since you obviously have no way of knowing what strangers care about. so your comment has only as much validity as theirs, but with the added pointless attitude.
so basically, you don't have to be a dick about it. posting an opinion is fine, but please, take your issues elsewhere. putting others down for no reason is what is truly pointless. people will always have opinions. if you don't care, don't comment. your taking the time to try to make a stranger feel bad needlessly spreads negativity. I felt a tiny bit cynical just reading it, even though I don't know either of you at all(obviously), nor do I care about what was being talked about in particular. but your horrible attitude was enough to make me comment. sure, it won't make my mood plummet. but it may effect another person that much - you don't know. so save others the frustration, and save everyone(including yourself) the time; next time, remember the old anecdote:
if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all.
the average small child knows this. surely you know it, too. just try to keep it in mind, assuming you have the good sense to.
...just another stranger's opinion, though. good luck to you both, in any case.
+Persona the point of the paragraph was: "fuck off, no 1 cares about negative opinions phrazed in a dickish way"
+Bonnie Dunmire-- Bravo!
***** not sure if you mean nobody cares if someone talks too slow, or nobody cares that I worried about that
Easiest thing to do - find fault. Hardest? be genuine. Thanks, Laura.
I've been listening for little more than 2 minutes and this woman is intelligent awesome and beautiful we need more people like her🤸♂️😁
Very good talk. Communicating is not so much SAYING the words but IMPARTING the thought.
She is very articulate and I love this talk.
She also has very strong arms :)
Good presentation. She explained the issues well and gave easily understood solutions.
I found her engaging to listen to. Later in the presentation, her jokes do get a laugh, once the audience has warmed-up. TBH, I am hopeless at delivering jokes, so I just don't. I really recognise the name mumbling thing both by me and from other people during introductions. Her suggestion on tonal emphasis is something I am going to try, though I need to not include her American accent!
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EVERY SINGLE DAY, I LISTEN TO THUS VIDEO!!!! Every day!! Laura Sicola YOU ARE AMAZING!!!!!!!
I liked her presentation. I did not rely on visuals or great graphics. She was doing what she preached ie just using her voice. Whilst it had its sight imperfections she came across as sincere, honest and genuine which surely is what anyone would hope to do
Great Tips! Love this information. Perfect timing in my life...!!!! Thanks Laura!
This is so interesting! I work in call centre and most clients I call always have to repeat my name. Most of them call me Selina. My na me isAlinah... Lol. Thank you for this :)
Great talk. I listened to this while driving and she was talking the talk lol
Good tonality, really enjoyed this
Bravo!well communicated! Thank you!
How to sound like a leader - My name is bond. James bond
Eivmor De Guzman
Jep, and he also high pitches his first name.
My name is Bread Provider. Garlic Bread Provider.
I love to say my name like that 😂 "my name is Noor, Noor Salam"
🤣🤣
Legend has it the woman in the audience is still coughing to death.
I should not have laughed this much at this
This cracked me up. It was really hard to focus. I felt bad for the presenter.
Thats so COVID
😄😄
Laura Sicola have compassion for all of us not invited to the executive's party... We know not what we do...
Thank you so much for these helpful tools. I nailed a job interview today using them.
Let's learn how to control others being classist and inauthentic!
You know what? I normally enjoy these talks, but I agree with your sentiment.
Lol stfu
Chris O'Rourke The locally organized TEDx events are generally hit-or-miss. This was definitely a miss for me. The standards seem to vary greatly for the local events compared to the actual TED events in CA.
Gopher Yourself True. For the TED California talks, you've got to have a very entertaining lie and/or dog and pony show.
Chris O'Rourke It has nothing to do with control. It's about learning how not to let your message be disregarded for the wrong reasons. Nothing she suggests imparts any kind of 'control' over others.
I couldn't take my mind off the woman dying in the audience. Is she ok? She coughed like 50 times!
OMG hahahaha same! :D
So annoying, that person in the audience coughing all the time….
Seriously. A little distracting. -_-
She's probably a smoker. yuk!!
*****
Maybe, she is a rude person, who will sit through a presentation, coughing all the time and ruining it for everyone else. Maybe, if she is that ill, she shouldn't be there to start with. Maybe, you are a 'know it all' who, as usual with 'know it all' types, knows nothing. Should I go on? I can use my IMAGINATION too. IF she is that ill, she should stay out of auditoriums. Most likely, she is just a smoker, too weak-willed to quit. Also, why haven't you said anything to any of the others, who are talking about her coughing being annoying, etc? Hmm?
Great job Laura, thank you!
I can't imagine anyone in their right mind, giving a thumbs down to this video!! Laura Is amazing!!! This presentation is Brilliant!!!! 🤗🤗🤗
she aint skippin arm day
They're just fat
Guys it was sarcasm ;)
knowledge_n_power i saw that too 😂😂😂
Reece Hayden I scrolled through the comments just to see if someone else noticed it.
Dude ain't nothing wrong with women lifting. She's mesomorph type.
Finally gets to the title line at 7:49
Thank you! I wanted to learn more about this topic.
😊
By this video i learn a lot about speaking
and how can i deliver my words more effectvely. Thank you so much..
and keep working in this topics.
What if your name is Tikki tikki Tembo-no Sa Rembo- Chari Bari Ruchi-pip Peri Pembo
Use a nickname
Is it bad I memorize that name because I learned about that story in 3rd grade.
I remember this from Reading Rainbow, but you don't have to take my word for it.
I remember this story :D It's so funny for me :D
Your comment makes me want to be a dick and and answer it seriously.
what if you are speaking chinese. (In the sense that tonality matters for context rather than ‘executive presence’
Watch some Chinese movies and you'll get how to do it... or at least the cinematic version of how a leader should sound.
Cha ma set chung hen, se deh po changun nikso ma chan nih kso ha chun. I'm joking... I've just written in orc language.
***** Your picture made that so much funnier.
***** it obviously doesn't work for Chinese. I'm sick of people who doesn't speak the language only make fun of it. Make you seem like a racist.
Great question! This talk did cover many contextual diversity, but it did not account for different language and cultural differences. I think you can still take her tips and apply it to Chinese. Most of this presentation talks about knowing how to speak in the certain situation and too be authentic!
100% didn't need this one but it is appreciated
Excellent! Helping me as a leader of a Not-for-Profit and a radio host. Thanks.
Thatcher wasn't the first woman in the British Parliament, Nancy Astor was. Thatcher employed a voice coach, and sounded phoney ever after.
9:42 "deep seeded need for constant validation"
5/10 talk slow your roll.
I really liked when she stated that if you wanted to be seen as a leader, you have to sound like one because no leader would just wing it or hope what they do is just good enough, she's right that it would undermine the leader's objective. Very well said!
Love the overall message 👍🏽 thanks
It's ironic how, in a speech about the use of your vocal skills in certain contexts, you had so much difficulty using humor, in my opinion, precisely because of the tone you were using. You see, your tone and posture reflected that you were talking about something serious and when you tried to make jokes, the audience seemed to fail to realize that you were in fact joking. Other than that, I found the video quite interesting and educational since I myself usually struggle with this kind of things in my job.
We should all go to the self help section of the bookstore and buy books about how the majority of language doesn't matter on the words you use, but instead is based about tonality and body expression. That will be a great book to read ...
I can't tell if you're being facetious or not.
Excellent talk. Thank you!
The Prism analogy is the best! Sums it up well!