@@MrMisterChiliPepper88I don’t think so. At point point he mentioned the intonation was a bit off on the guitar which I doubt would be an issue for one of his personal guitars
@tremblence GnR as well with Apetite for Destruction, they might slightly be a hair metal band but prioritized their music, not about makeup, getting girls and glamorous lifestyle.. they embraced dirt
Those years were amazing; so much incredible music was released almost weekly. I am so happy I was alive during the 90s. Nirvana inspired me to grab a guitar and start bands with my friends, and John Frusciante is one of my most admired players. What a great video, thanks for sharing it!
Great guy. I loved the way he recognized he used ho hide his fanatism towards Nirvana, because he was ashamed of being influenced by a band of his time, contemporary. Now that he´s older and all that ´´fear´´ of being judged is gone, he can say openly how much Kurt and his simple, yet emotional and very effective approach to guitar playing left a mark on him. I guess there are tons of artist, even very popular ones, who were also inspired by the most unthinkable musician, but they still hide that, keep it for themselves.
It’s awesome and so clear how even in his youth inspired the chorus. You can hear the chords being the same when he played them side by side but it’s so different it doesn’t sound the same at all.
It’s weird Rick saying a lot of the time the things we love doesn’t hit us right away. That’s actually deep. Like, the red hot chili peppers are my favourite band but for YEARS before I couldn’t stand them. I thought it was all just noise. RHCP used to be my friends favourite band and I’d always have to listen to it. I hated it. But then 2019 I actually sat down and listened to them, and it took some learning to love them but now the RHCP are by far my favourite band ever and it is just weird how accurate that was.
I felt the same way about Nirvana when they first came out, it wasn't until much later in life I developed a sincere appreciation of their music. Looking back I don't know what I was thinking. Cheers. :)
I’m the same with RHCP. It was rewatching them play at their induction into the hall of fame that did it for me. Something clicked and I’ve been listening to them non stop.
2:35 Haha John is such a Moody bitch. I'm glad he can be upfront about it and admit it and that he doesn't seem to mind Rubin openly laughing about it- seems Frusciante is possibly even laughing at it himself too. THIS of course is one of the big reasons we can all love him so much and find him so relatable. That someone in such a great esteemed position who can wrap themselves with pretention and denial, instead does just about the exact opposite. It's such a breath of fresh air, and like i said, makes him all the more relatable imo
@@featheryfemme not disagreeing. i feel like most of my circle (now and in the past) who touted Nirvana as a favorite probably wouldn't recognize it. it's easier to nerd out with the internet nowadays.
i listen to with the lights out playlist in youtube, its so much people can say, thats too much, but too bad im a nirvana song addict and litterally jump on it, it was amazing
@@The_Crow78.So I’m guessing you think he’s playing the intro/verse to Sappy? John only strums the second chord once, whereas Kurt strums it three times. So it’s the chorus of Parallel Universe.
Fun fact : John Frusciante has actually play lounge act live, and when he started playing he accidentally first try to play even in his youth, here's the video ruclips.net/video/BWsER91JTb0/видео.html
Except when it comes to past chillis guitarists I love John but you can’t tell me he’s not somewhat of a bitter person when it comes to art that’s not his
When you think both John and Kurt have no idea of any music theory. That’s just pure genius, there is no other word. And think about that concert in 1991 with RHCP, Pearl Jam and Nirvana back to back!
I think I felt extremely dark feelings for a period of time when I was between 7-9 years old, and then I touched a guitar, played some sounds with it and I felt I found a lovely hobby,
This is what happend to me, if U are depressed and think U would like playing guitar even if U think U tried and didn't like it (starting is really stressful and unfun because it's a completely different language n U have no clue what the fuck to do with the instrument infront of you) take this as a sign to try it again. I picked up a guitar tons of times n got so frustrated I "couldn't learn" then I realised it's all in my head. Also once U pass that stage U enter the self doubt stage of "oh I'm a shit guitarist everything I play sounds bad" but music is a form of expression it's not a matter of being good or bad, if U want my advice on how to get into it search on RUclips justin guitar grade 1 and watch that or even just the first 5 videos to wrap Ur head around the guitar a little bit, then RUclips how to play tabs then download an app on Ur phone to play tabs, Google the most basic songs (smoke on the water is an example) then search their tabs on Ur app and get playing, remember to have fun with it because if U make it miserable U simply won't play. Edit:also its nothing to do with the equipment that Ur bad because I learned nearly every nirvana song on an right handed acoustic guitar I restrung left handed, and that cost me 5 dollars off some guy online. I would recommend starting on a cheap electric and getting cheap amp tho, you'll figure out why it's better that way yourself.
Oh totally. Josh hommes trick to writing is / was playing the riffs backwards for chorus or verse or for other songs and it's a totally awesome method.
@@marissac870 I never heard him say this! He's my second fav guitarist behind John, where did you find out about this? And when you say the riffs do you mean his own riffs, riffs specifically from that song or other artists' riffs?
Feel lasts. People knocked Cobain for being derivative, not a real punk or not a "great" player. His music connects in a way that transcends categories or coloring inside the lines. Frusciante is real, he digs Can, Michael Rother and anything that has honest energy and feel.
Theres this unreleased Kurt Cobain song called ''Opinion'' which uses the exact same chord progression as Parallel Universes chorus. You should check it out. Its definetly interesting comparing the two.
He says in the podcast with Rick that he actually did like them at the time but didn’t want to admit that out of pride because he considered them be one of their peers as a band.
i love nirvana but like, objectively the music is kind of awful... dont get me wrong, i love their music with my whole being but its not "good" do you kind of know what i mean?
It was just the dark period he was in. He hated all things of beauty unless he saw it fit as art in his eyes. Anything on a Label was bogus and fake to him. It was a sad dark time.
@@megs3003 If you love it, then it's good. That's the ONLY thing that makes music good. There's nothing objective about it. There is literally no such thing as music that's objectively good.
I wish all musician interviews would let the musicians play a little, its so fing cool and inspiring for wanna be musicians ! from a wanna be musician :)
A lot of people refused to lke Nirvana simply because they came from genres that aren't hugely popular, and then GOT popular. And a lot of the people who claim to like that type of music, only do so because it's not popular. A lot of Nirvana haters were people who wear their underpants backwards, just because everyone else wears them forwards. Metallica got a lot of the same hate from the metal communty, just because the black album sold well. If Dream Theatre started showing up in the top 10 all the time, they'd lose a lot of their original fanbase. And a lot of beginner guitarists absolutely refuse to like anything they don't deem technically difficult enough to play. It's a sad fact of life. You're not a good guitarist, and never will be, until you get over that part of the Dunning Kruger curve and can stop rushing out to buy and deciding to like - without even having heard it yet - some album, just because an article in a guitar magazine mentioned the technical difficulty.
Funny in another interview, he said liked Nirvana when he saw them in 88 and loved Bleach but didn't like Nevermind when it came out (even said he's in a Nirvana photo supposedly in the Insecticide booklet). But here he says he got into Nirvana in rehab after Kurt died with In Utero. But hated Nirvana when he was on strung out on drugs, but cried when Kurt died. Get your stories right John lol
I remember that because I tried and tried to find John in that picture from the booklet. I remember for a fact him saying he was a fan of early Nirvana... Maybe he's getting forgetful? I already am and I'm half as old and haven't done a fraction of the substances he has 😅
It is also always surprising to me how much my musical taste as a young person, without an ulterior motive, ran in similar formative ways. Starting from the first Beatles songs that my father heard, to pop music on the radio in the 80s. Up to my Salad Days and Coming of age times with the Peppers, Nirvana, Green Day, Faith No More aso. (a long List).
He was on stern and Anthony said “you know who was really good? Nirvana.” John agreed. Referring to when they played shows together. Now, he’s saying he wasn’t even listening to Nirvana’s show at that time?
He had his teeth all redone it changed his voice his mouth was full of tooth sores and all kinds of special person that can stop and let the rot set in just to see what happens as a experimental lesson to teach himself a lesson he took it all they way to a few hart beats away from death then the ghosts told him John how do feel John if you live we will make sure you become amazing that's why he's like that he's also semi autistic I think hypersensitivity or just a random huanted creative genius
"it took time for the Peppers to turn into anything we like" Wow, rude. The Peppers hasn't been good since the 80's. And Mr. Bungle blows them out of the water in any decade.
pretty wild to have had A BAND OPEN FOR YOUR BAND and not get into them until after the singer dies? 😳🫠 😬 like I get not getting into a band until the right moment, we've all been there but they freakin OPENED FOR YOU haha
I can’t believe he played even in his youth I love that song so much
Yeah, me too, great song 👍
seeing is believing..👀
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you are not the only one!
and he play it wrong
My man really inspired one of his best songs out of a Nirvana B-side. He really is a big fan.
to be fair Even In His Youth is good as f
That acoustic sounds beautiful!
If you gave John a napkin it would sound beautiful, the man IS music.
@@romulo353 fax
@@marissac870 telex
Playing one of his Martin guitars
@@MrMisterChiliPepper88I don’t think so. At point point he mentioned the intonation was a bit off on the guitar which I doubt would be an issue for one of his personal guitars
A Nirvana reunion with John on guitar would be amazing 😍
Great idea but it will never happen.
GREAT IDEA!
Setlist:
0:18 Even In His Youth
0:39 Lounge Act
1:01 Parallel Universe (RHCP)
@@pedrolotti45 No that is the Nirvana song called Sappy
@@The_Crow78. nevermind
@@pedrolotti45 Nevermind is one of the best albums ever !
@@The_Crow78. actually I’m glad you suggest sappy, I added to my playlists.
It’s no secret that nirvana changed the world and inspired many bands
That’s right he’s the one that killed the hair metal bands and started grunge rock.
Mudhoney sound garden >
@@MrMisterChiliPepper88 Metallica also killed hair metal, starting in 1983
Love the nirvana sound, but can't give them all the credit
Hair/Glam Metal was dying anyway, everyone was just waiting for something new like Nirvana to come in
@tremblence GnR as well with Apetite for Destruction, they might slightly be a hair metal band but prioritized their music, not about makeup, getting girls and glamorous lifestyle.. they embraced dirt
Even in his youth...underrated
Theres footage of john doing nirvana's moist vagina live. Weird he didnt get into nirvana till after Kurt's death.
Those years were amazing; so much incredible music was released almost weekly. I am so happy I was alive during the 90s.
Nirvana inspired me to grab a guitar and start bands with my friends, and John Frusciante is one of my most admired players.
What a great video, thanks for sharing it!
Love John doing lounge act I saw this grainy video of John jumped on stage after being spotted and now I really appreciate that song
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Great guy. I loved the way he recognized he used ho hide his fanatism towards Nirvana, because he was ashamed of being influenced by a band of his time, contemporary. Now that he´s older and all that ´´fear´´ of being judged is gone, he can say openly how much Kurt and his simple, yet emotional and very effective approach to guitar playing left a mark on him. I guess there are tons of artist, even very popular ones, who were also inspired by the most unthinkable musician, but they still hide that, keep it for themselves.
I agree with John: Nirvana's best album is _In Utero._
It’s awesome and so clear how even in his youth inspired the chorus. You can hear the chords being the same when he played them side by side but it’s so different it doesn’t sound the same at all.
It’s weird Rick saying a lot of the time the things we love doesn’t hit us right away. That’s actually deep. Like, the red hot chili peppers are my favourite band but for YEARS before I couldn’t stand them. I thought it was all just noise. RHCP used to be my friends favourite band and I’d always have to listen to it. I hated it. But then 2019 I actually sat down and listened to them, and it took some learning to love them but now the RHCP are by far my favourite band ever and it is just weird how accurate that was.
I felt the same way about Nirvana when they first came out, it wasn't until much later in life I developed a sincere appreciation of their music. Looking back I don't know what I was thinking. Cheers. :)
As soon as I heard those words resonated with me so well also
I’m the same with RHCP. It was rewatching them play at their induction into the hall of fame that did it for me. Something clicked and I’ve been listening to them non stop.
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The Van Halen pfp oh the irony, jk!:)
They brought a voice to the voiceless ....I was just a little kid when I heard nirvana..and still listening to them from time to time ...
2:35 Haha John is such a Moody bitch. I'm glad he can be upfront about it and admit it and that he doesn't seem to mind Rubin openly laughing about it- seems Frusciante is possibly even laughing at it himself too. THIS of course is one of the big reasons we can all love him so much and find him so relatable. That someone in such a great esteemed position who can wrap themselves with pretention and denial, instead does just about the exact opposite. It's such a breath of fresh air, and like i said, makes him all the more relatable imo
I adore both of them
They really know playing music
Even In His Youth and Opinion are definitely in my top 5 Kurt Songs. Always heard that influence in John’s solo work.
those 2 along with lounge act and old age... they hit different.
I adore Nirvana, I love Lounge Act it's in my top 3, maybe even 1.
I adore Nirvana. I love all their songs, they are all number 1.
yes Drain you,Lounge act are best their songs, of course Smells like teen spirit.
Was surprised he played Even in his Youth. Need to be hardcore for that one haha
Eh, that's kinda middle of the iceberg, I'd say. Not to put down how into Nirvana that John is, though, because he is a hardcore fan for sure.
true that.....he listened to all the bootlegs n b sides
@@featheryfemme not disagreeing. i feel like most of my circle (now and in the past) who touted Nirvana as a favorite probably wouldn't recognize it. it's easier to nerd out with the internet nowadays.
He also covered “Moist Vagina” so he’s all about the deep cuts.
i listen to with the lights out playlist in youtube, its so much people can say, thats too much, but too bad im a nirvana song addict and litterally jump on it, it was amazing
1:02 John played parallel universe
you mean Sappy by Nirvana
@@The_Crow78.definitely parallel universe…
@@saterra7501 definitely Sappy by Nirvana.
@@The_Crow78.So I’m guessing you think he’s playing the intro/verse to Sappy? John only strums the second chord once, whereas Kurt strums it three times. So it’s the chorus of Parallel Universe.
LOL John plays all guitar parts perfectly I love it
it warms my heart and my soul.
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Fun fact : John Frusciante has actually play lounge act live, and when he started playing he accidentally first try to play even in his youth, here's the video ruclips.net/video/BWsER91JTb0/видео.html
I can’t understand why people do not listen to ‘lounge act’
@@rosebud1021 are there people that do not listen to 'lounge act'..?
His voice is so similar to Flea 😮
“For somebody to combine pop and punk as well as they did” Exactly.
John is so humble
How
@@nicosstereo he thinks everyone else is better than him
@@trent3902 except for Dave Navarro or Josh Klinghoffer I guess lol
Except when it comes to past chillis guitarists I love John but you can’t tell me he’s not somewhat of a bitter person when it comes to art that’s not his
@@das0ul177 , he likes Hillel's stuff, just not the stuff that replaced him.
Thanks for posting this !
I love Nirvana too!
Very interesting to hear JF speaks about music and what influences him. When he talks we just know he's very knowledgeable about his instrument
John’s got a great ‘lounge act’, easy the best cover of it I’ve heard.
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When you think both John and Kurt have no idea of any music theory. That’s just pure genius, there is no other word.
And think about that concert in 1991 with RHCP, Pearl Jam and Nirvana back to back!
John knows alot of music theory... Kurt way less but he played alot of Beatles and you learn alot by that, even if you dont know the chords names :)
John study music ajdjjesjjs
Completely idiotic comment boo
I thought John studied a lot of music theory actually
@@matejzizanovic7959 should i grind beatles songs as a beginner guitarist who wants to play simple but sick rhythm guitar like kurt?
0:40 Lounge Act Riff
Was wondering if anybody caught that he was playing lounge act. good job.
i love listening to how much JF loves music. always inspiring.
I agree with Frusciante. Those riffs sound great to me too.
I think I felt extremely dark feelings for a period of time when I was between 7-9 years old, and then I touched a guitar, played some sounds with it and I felt I found a lovely hobby,
same with me except when i was 15. Music is so powerful
@@christianm2946 😭☀️
It saves from depression me. I mean low low deep depression.
This is what happend to me, if U are depressed and think U would like playing guitar even if U think U tried and didn't like it (starting is really stressful and unfun because it's a completely different language n U have no clue what the fuck to do with the instrument infront of you) take this as a sign to try it again. I picked up a guitar tons of times n got so frustrated I "couldn't learn" then I realised it's all in my head. Also once U pass that stage U enter the self doubt stage of "oh I'm a shit guitarist everything I play sounds bad" but music is a form of expression it's not a matter of being good or bad, if U want my advice on how to get into it search on RUclips justin guitar grade 1 and watch that or even just the first 5 videos to wrap Ur head around the guitar a little bit, then RUclips how to play tabs then download an app on Ur phone to play tabs, Google the most basic songs (smoke on the water is an example) then search their tabs on Ur app and get playing, remember to have fun with it because if U make it miserable U simply won't play.
Edit:also its nothing to do with the equipment that Ur bad because I learned nearly every nirvana song on an right handed acoustic guitar I restrung left handed, and that cost me 5 dollars off some guy online. I would recommend starting on a cheap electric and getting cheap amp tho, you'll figure out why it's better that way yourself.
even in his youth, lounge act - and what he plays himself sounds a little like Sappy
I thought the same
Oh totally. Josh hommes trick to writing is / was playing the riffs backwards for chorus or verse or for other songs and it's a totally awesome method.
@@marissac870 I never heard him say this! He's my second fav guitarist behind John, where did you find out about this? And when you say the riffs do you mean his own riffs, riffs specifically from that song or other artists' riffs?
Dude, I never noticed how close Parallel Universe and Sappy are, that's crazy!
Sappy is so great. That song exploded in my head when i heard it the first time.
quite honest and touching... thanks
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Feel lasts. People knocked Cobain for being derivative, not a real punk or not a "great" player. His music connects in a way that transcends categories or coloring inside the lines. Frusciante is real, he digs Can, Michael Rother and anything that has honest energy and feel.
Both bands I love. We all have influencies. He mentioned Darby Crash from Germs band. Flea talked a lot of him too.
The 2nd song, apparently Parallel Universe, is so like Sappy, I actually thought that was what he started playing
Theres this unreleased Kurt Cobain song called ''Opinion'' which uses the exact same chord progression as Parallel Universes chorus. You should check it out. Its definetly interesting comparing the two.
Agreed, I’m Utero was their best album 3:15
Fucking Christmas just will not end and it's a week into the new year.
i always heard a bit of kurt in Jon's playing all along
Same here. Even his distorted guitar tone in Parallel Universe mimics that of Nirvana’s Nevermind.
@@OtavioFesoares yeah sure......coz of these two, i had to get that Boss DS-2...
Nerve Flip sounds a lot like I hate myself and I want to die
so did I haha. Too bad I sold it, though...
John and flea has the same voice.
"Oh its called opinion"
Finally someone who gets it
Kurt respected the Germs. I suspect John does too.
yes I believe John is a huge fan of The Germs
John has said that pat smear was his favourite guitar player when he was a kid
Nirvana and The Germs shared literally THE SAME rhythm guitar player lol
He said that Darby was his favorite singer when he was a kid.
I thought that was the voice of Flea until I realized that nobody else was joining in on the conversation. I guess he rubbed off a little
That sounded like sappy
Yep. Sappy indeed.
Rock music has arguably not recovered since we lost Nirvana
Frusciante talking with the Postal Dude,Epic
I wonder why he described Nirvana's music as "awful" in that heroin era interview....
He says in the podcast with Rick that he actually did like them at the time but didn’t want to admit that out of pride because he considered them be one of their peers as a band.
i love nirvana but like, objectively the music is kind of awful... dont get me wrong, i love their music with my whole being but its not "good" do you kind of know what i mean?
It was just the dark period he was in. He hated all things of beauty unless he saw it fit as art in his eyes.
Anything on a Label was bogus and fake to him. It was a sad dark time.
@@megs3003 If you love it, then it's good. That's the ONLY thing that makes music good. There's nothing objective about it. There is literally no such thing as music that's objectively good.
@@megs3003 how is music objectively awful
I wish all musician interviews would let the musicians play a little, its so fing cool and inspiring for wanna be musicians ! from a wanna be musician :)
Sounds like What I Saw from the album Inside Of Emptiness
I love john, he was my inspiration to my guitar..he is a pure musician ❤️
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In utero is incredible
Nirvana is very inspiring 👍👍
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Amén ❤
Amin 💕
A lot of people refused to lke Nirvana simply because they came from genres that aren't hugely popular, and then GOT popular. And a lot of the people who claim to like that type of music, only do so because it's not popular. A lot of Nirvana haters were people who wear their underpants backwards, just because everyone else wears them forwards. Metallica got a lot of the same hate from the metal communty, just because the black album sold well. If Dream Theatre started showing up in the top 10 all the time, they'd lose a lot of their original fanbase. And a lot of beginner guitarists absolutely refuse to like anything they don't deem technically difficult enough to play. It's a sad fact of life. You're not a good guitarist, and never will be, until you get over that part of the Dunning Kruger curve and can stop rushing out to buy and deciding to like - without even having heard it yet - some album, just because an article in a guitar magazine mentioned the technical difficulty.
Disagree on Metallica, the backlash was because their music drastically changed for the worse
There will always be people who hate things simply because they're popular. There are people who hate The Beatles.
Funny in another interview, he said liked Nirvana when he saw them in 88 and loved Bleach but didn't like Nevermind when it came out (even said he's in a Nirvana photo supposedly in the Insecticide booklet). But here he says he got into Nirvana in rehab after Kurt died with In Utero. But hated Nirvana when he was on strung out on drugs, but cried when Kurt died. Get your stories right John lol
*Incesticide
I remember that because I tried and tried to find John in that picture from the booklet. I remember for a fact him saying he was a fan of early Nirvana... Maybe he's getting forgetful? I already am and I'm half as old and haven't done a fraction of the substances he has 😅
There's a lot of people who were into Bleach, who aren't into Nevermind.
Strange how he sounds like flee
It is also always surprising to me how much my musical taste as a young person, without an ulterior motive, ran in similar formative ways. Starting from the first Beatles songs that my father heard, to pop music on the radio in the 80s. Up to my Salad Days and Coming of age times with the Peppers, Nirvana, Green Day, Faith No More aso. (a long List).
He was on stern and Anthony said “you know who was really good? Nirvana.” John agreed. Referring to when they played shows together. Now, he’s saying he wasn’t even listening to Nirvana’s show at that time?
Despite both examples, I legit thought he was playing Sappy at 1:02
Just take another hit and everything's gonna be fine, Johnnie..
Oh snap this is entertaining.
To me the parallel universe chorus sounds alot more like "verse chorus verse" but that's just me...
amzing
Weird I just saw a video of him saying how much he hated them and this was after Kurt had died
Feels more like sappy. Wrong chords but the vibe
I bet John regrets not seeing Nirvana when they played together lol.
Why does he wear a Cheech & Chong shirt? I mean...
*_...hE go† nUThiN' t0 Do wiTH DrOØgs, or doEs HE?!_* 🥴
😏🤭😉
Did he really just say "it took time before it turned in to anything we liked?" 🤦♂️🤔🤦♂️
i hear Sappy
you hear correct.
Parallel Universe
Maluko-
☆♡♡☆
It‘s the same chord progression like in „opinion“
Why he sound like flea?
#justiceforkurt
Kurt wrote those chords a lot possibly is where is voice would fit better….
BAHAHAHAHAH the interviewer is SPED
...fugazi...
John frusciante and Justin hawkes look really similar
All the same to you? Ffs man open your ears
Why is he whining ?
He had his teeth all redone it changed his voice his mouth was full of tooth sores and all kinds of special person that can stop and let the rot set in just to see what happens as a experimental lesson to teach himself a lesson he took it all they way to a few hart beats away from death then the ghosts told him John how do feel John if you live we will make sure you become amazing that's why he's like that he's also semi autistic I think hypersensitivity or just a random huanted creative genius
How the fuck is he whining?
How is he whining? He's praising Nirvana, from what I can hear.
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My two idols Kurt and Jhon
love John and Kurt but John kinda shit on Kurt saying he had no guts but he was full blown at the time
"it took time for the Peppers to turn into anything we like"
Wow, rude. The Peppers hasn't been good since the 80's. And Mr. Bungle blows them out of the water in any decade.
So what
tranquilamente la podria haber quedado en el 94, pero esta vivo y tocando, digno de admirar.
pretty wild to have had A BAND OPEN FOR YOUR BAND and not get into them until after the singer dies? 😳🫠 😬 like I get not getting into a band until the right moment, we've all been there but they freakin OPENED FOR YOU haha