Men & Women Are VERY Different, And That's Okay
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Absolutely lethal info….thanks Rich 🙏🏼💪🏼
Fantastic book!
(7:42) "A rich man will change a broke woman's life, a rich woman won't even look a broke man's way."
That's deep!
A king can turn a girl from the streets into a queen, however a queen won't even go near a peasant.
@@mahabla2578 Deep!
@@mahabla2578 Ive heard it put like this… A king can promote any woman into a queen… the highest rank she can attain. However, the reverse is not true. A queen cannot promote any man into a king. He is just considered the husband of the queen.
@@NkrumahMorgan That analogy works too. In most cases however, due to female hypergamy, a woman will not willingly marry someone beneath her. Women always look for men that are higher in power and status than them.
@@NkrumahMorgan or like patrice said, he's the queens bitch lol
When a man tells his friends that he has a girlfriend .... he is asked "is she pretty?" ... when a woman tells her friends that she has a boyfriend ... she is asked "what does he do for a living'? .. these two questions summarize relationships ....
Hey there Mario
u smart man
Lol true
If the boyfriend has a skilled trade certification that is in high demand and makes darn near close to a 6 figure income....say 80 or 90k as a master craftsman.....his status will bring down her status in the eyes of her friends....because he is not a white collar professional job, office worker type....not an executive or management, who wears a suit and gucci loafers lol.
@@bensanders7392 Hey! I'm the button up office type and they don't pay me as much as a plumber lol. But telling girls what I do is very impressive to them because I'm a "boss" at work. It's all perception.
If every woman deserves to be loved even when they’re fat, old or ugly, how come theres tons of unloved broke guys?
Please don't try to rationalise with women's tantrums and double standards
Because the broke guys didn't work on themselves and chose to be where they're at based on their own actions.
Because those broke guys were conned into loving women before they became fat, old, and ugly.
The world does not care about men. Get use to it. "Deserves" is only use by women even they do so little most of the time to be slim, attractive, and fun to be with.
Because women can have standards but men can't. Didn't you listen to society? Geeze man, get with the program. You should really consume some blue pill content :-)
It is amazing the: “rules for thee but not for me” mentality. When they spout out the “list” of what they want in a man (and they all have a list) I listen and then interject “I am glad you have standards, because I do too” then I list a few benchmarks I set for the person I want to be with. The fun part is watching them try and figure out how to tell me I am wrong for having standards when they just tipped their cards. Cognitive dissonance is a real thing. And fun to watch.
The irony is, the bigger the ‘list’ they have for men to meet, the bigger the bum and loser they are.
It reminds me of strippers and OF girls looking down their noses at most men.
It sure is brother!
@@briandam8126 it is something we see across the board. Entitlement knows no bounds.
Looks like a high value man, likely a man that has all the 6 sixes that all women want. Women need to learn to listen to what the high value man wants. There never think about "what does he want" because they dont give a crap, it never crosses their mind.
Who on earth actually trots out their list verbally in person?! I'd probably just walk away when I hear a sniff of some ludicrous list coming.
When I used to use dating apps, I recall seeing tons of women putting their list up front, so long it probably didn't fit on the fking profile! I'd ignore those morons 100%.
I tried talking to my sister about this stuff because she "needs space" from her husband lol. I said "so you're breaking up then..." she denied that statement. She got mad and said that people do that all the time. She is keeping him on the line to go back to when other things don't work out and the poor smuck is so blue pill he should be on the blue pill poster. If a woman ever "needs space" with me then her wishes will be granted, perminatly.
Yup it’s impossible to red pill women don’t do it although I see your attempt cause it’s your sister but they don’t have accountability and they’ll be in denial
@@Dan-ei2be I tried to redpill my mother. What do you think she did? She blamed my father lmao...
No one deserves anything, it must be earned
well fuckin said
This notion of equality is the greatest myth perpetuated in society. Every political/social movement and ideology that has embraced innate equality have been the most destructive historically. The Central Dogma of Molecular Biology is centered around the differences in the genetic code is what gives rise to evolution. Somehow society has been duped to think that equality is a good thing. Equality only exists in numbers and at the quantum realm. We're all different and that's the greatest thing we can all embrace. Not being equal does not mean someone is better. There a multitude of things I'm better than most people at and there a multitude of things a lot of other people are better than me at.
Equality is a necessary fiction, like treating every gun like it's loaded. Imagine what society would look like if people were told they have unequal worth before the law. It wouldn't take long before many forms of inequality could become justified (slavery, racism, sexism etc.)
@@CanoeToNewOrleans no, respectfully, you're making a grave mistake that I made in my original statement. Not being equal doesn't equate to being better. Human beings are too varied over a multitude of metrics. In evolution, being better doesn't cause a better lineage. The ability to adapt to environment is the driver. Secondly, the notion of equal application under the law keeps slavery, sexisms, and so forth from being the driver in today's society. However, this forced equality is having the opposite effect in society. Universities are more sexists than ever that favor woman in terms of enrollment, degree offerings, and scholarships. Lowering standards in the military to allow woman in combat units has not only destroyed morale but it's escalated the differences between men and woman. Woman even with the lower standards are failing more due to physical standards that a large majority of woman can not comply with. I've yet to meet a woman who can run 5 miles per day, due a 2 hour workout at my intensity level at the gym, and I'm 38. I'm past my prime but it doesn't make me better than a woman. It make me stronger but strength is the final arbiter in defining an individual. No where is this more apparent in countries that push this agenda like Scandinavian countries.
Hiring people on meeting metrics is now seen as offensive. Instead hiring on gender, race, and so forth is the very definition of racism and sexism.
I'm a college professor in physics and chemistry. This forced equality has lowered standards in education and are producing a generation of students that are less capable in today's more complex society. Go to Tulane, U.N.O., L.S.U., and so forth. Go to the chemistry and physics departments. They're all foreigners in their Ph.D programs because our social experiment have failed the STEM fields greatly. We're having to import our scientists now. Equality is now a religion.
Ignoring reality doesn't make reality go away. Lying of reality is the greatest and last bastion of failing institutions who promote deceivement.
@@ErwinSchrodinger64 What I'm wondering is if you support equality before the law and equality in terms human dignity and worth?
Admitting people to university based on gender, race etc. isn't equality, it's equity. It's also poison.
@@CanoeToNewOrleans I completely agree. Equity is an absurdity. It's unnatural and can only be promoted via force constantly.
Striving for equality, under the law, is necessary. However, under our current system, to some degree, it's not what happens. However, equality in terms of human dignity and worth... honestly, I'm not understanding what you're saying here. Do I value a human's life, yes, of course. However, it's impossible to define equality of life. Is one person more important than another individual is impossible. If you're asking does a janitor and CEO have the same rights as humans, then, yes. I completely understand that isn't how society or the laws are applied.
@@ErwinSchrodinger64 Thank you for clarifying. Yes, while equality before the law isn't always applied, it's important to strive for it.
My mom found your book I bought the other day and she and my sister where pissed after reading about 2 pages lol.
A friend of mine took his book to work and a Woman found the book on the table, she wasnt impressed shortly after either!! Women that get angry over that are just in denial
@@MattBerrymotorsport or its because we realize this man only seeks out vulnerable men and feeds them BS while they fund his lifestyle.......
The truth is ugly ancient saying.
@@avapilsen What have you found to be BS from him?
@@elonmusk9727 Nice try.
Fellas we are on the winning side of this equation: success lasts longer than beauty, play your cards right and you'll maintain a high SMV for multiple decades.
Caring about “SMV” means you’ve already lost
@@hayleylamb1417 false.
@@Anonymous-wu4rw people who make real connections and have worthwhile relationships don’t spend time in their day calculating “SMV” like an incel. But If that’s not what you’re looking for then lucky for u
I bought the Kindle version some time ago. After reading it, I knew that my 17 year old son had to read it. He is now addicted to you and Rolo. He told me the world makes more sense now.
Thanks Rich.
Young men arent supposed to have this knowledge and the power it represents at a young age. It would change the world as we know it, flip the world upside down if young males get this at college age. They arent ready to comprehend it yet.
@@bensanders7392 If I knew all this information at 17, my life would be easier. I think it's better to learn this at a young age
Everyone has the potential to be loveable but not the potential to be desirable.
I get way better dating advice from
Mens channels, thank you!!
Me too! Way better
My ex-wife got a promotion, after that we got diverced. What a coincidence?!
Yes, but you got your priceless freedom
Thank you for the message Richard. Much appreciated the day after making a decision to chase excellence. Was embarrassed that it took me 52 years to get there, but no longer. Leaving the embarrassment and shame behind. Listened to this while paying my dues this morning. Onward and upward!
Took me slightly longer than that, and I'm not exactly an idiot. You'd be surprised how many grown men are discovering this stuff. Better late than never, my friend.
Her higher education degrees are for herself and her children because I don't care. Women's dating profiles talk about their education, their entrepreneurship and their International travels. However, it rarely talks about how they would treat a man.
A woman caught me off guard & asked me, what I do for fun? I answered, making money.. making money makes me happy it's the most fun I have; spending for fun is not a concept I'm familiar with.
Did you nod suggestively at your crotch and say:
"That is not a wad of hundreds, down there!"
@@CEWIII9873 hahaha.. coincidently her question came after I did twice & her being 20 did cost me a wad of hundreds !)
Also, who the hell wants to be in a relationship where you cant ever relax?
Exactly!
@@ThatDoesntWorkForMeBrother Red pill is such non sense. No wonder Rich is bald, he must be stressed all the time
@@icenesINC There’s always the blue pill.
“There are two types of people, those who want to know and those who want to believe.
You can state an amoral, factual statements to people and they go into moral statements that support their belief system. Using words like, “deserve” and “fairness” to argue against your facts. Some people don’t want the truth they just want to keep believing in lies and you can’t change that.
“You can avoid reality but you can’t avoid the consequences of avoiding reality”, let these people suffer the consequences of their belief system, it will either force them to change or they will double down on their delusions
Superbly perfectly utterly truthfully stated and your explanation can not be improved upon or bested.
I deal with people constantly that refuse utterly refuse to accept the realities of reality
Glad to see the content you’re making these days is actively guiding men away from being blackpilled. Good stuff man.
Hello Rich, I dont usually comment but this video was exactly on point! You spoke so much truth. Every single word. Men and women are DESIGNED to be different and to bring different but complimentary things to a relationship. Feminists are miserable people bc they're trying to be superior to men, trying to subsume men, and trying to BE men. Which is impossible so they're frustrated and infuriated all the time with everyone, feminine women included but that's a separate convo entirely.
I do wish more RP guys (not Rich specifically) made the distinction between WOMEN and FEMINISTS. A lot of the awful behavior men describe is due to toxic Feminism. And healthy, feminine women don't ascribe to that mess.
Well
What work have you done to reform divorce laws?
Also, there's no toxic version of feminism. It's all terrible.
Pretty sure women being raped and not allowed an education would disagree
Yep including first wave. It was all bad.
@@mikeygrey9855 you would have to go to a third world shytehole to ask those questions though.
@@mikeygrey9855 They shouldn't call what you are referring to as feminism then. It is an outdated term since women have been legally equal to men for decades. Feminism no longer refers to equal rights. Now it is an attitude and worldview.
Have fun being alone and miserable forever
Got an idea: if anyone is in a conversation on this topic and is asked that question, answer: "doesn't a man deserve love and respect even if he is 40, still living with his parents, with no job, smoking weed and playing games everyday?". Broke man is equivalent to an ugly woman when it comes to SMV. Tell them to find their "love" with Discord mods xD
Sure, why not?
Lots of ugly women are in relationships.
When I meet a woman, the asset interview starts almost straight away… work, home ownership, home location, car, years at work and progression, investments…
I make a silent bet with myself about how long it’ll take before they walk away. When they ask about work, I start with some history. I tell them “I used to be a gum-boner at the abattoir…” (which was true as a summer holiday job while at university). I almost never manage to finish the story, which would end with owning my own consulting business. I almost always get interrupted after the word ‘abattoir’, then I watch as they screw up their face in disgust, say something derogatory and abruptly walk away.
I have no interest in that kind of arrogance. I’m so appreciative that these women demonstrate so quickly that they’re not the kind of person I’d wish to spend any time and energy with.
Life is good 😎
I usually just tell her what she wants to hear : Yes, I'm rich, yes I own 2 homes, yes I have 8 figures in the bank, I own 3 cars. I'd love to show them to you on a 2nd date...
...and then set up a 2nd date just to stand her up. That's how you treat a gold digger lol
Looks matter first, for both men and women. Anything like intelligence, confidence and superficial status enter the picture only after a minimum looks threshold is passed.
Absolutely true
If she's a smoking hot babe her subconscious controls won't allow her consciousness self to consider you as a mate if you first aren't just as if not better looking than her.
Once she's physically attracted to you then your other traits matter
Rich I agree with everything you’ve said in this video, I really appreciate it. Keep up the good work, the internet needs more content like yours
The problem with the discussion with the ladies is, in my opinion, in the word "deserve". What does it mean to "deserve" love in the first place? By someone? By everyone? By someone who meets certain standards?
Love (or attention, attarction...) is something you either get or you don't from someone. Whether you or someone else thinks you "deserve" it matters ZERO.
Translation: why dont chads still love me as much as they did when i was 21. While my own standars have even INCREASED AND ENRICHED as i aged.
No one "deserves" ANYTHING in life. You get what you negotiate. Kevin S.
Men and Women are more different than they are alike.
Men and Women have different Soul.
No it's the opposite according to science
In my experience men and women are as different as Fire and ice and these days men and women coexist about as well as fire and ice
@@avapilsen "science" lol.
The extremes are what make them so different.
As an add-on to the books you've referred to, you may want to pay attention to Arthur Schopenhauer. I haven't read him in English so I cannot recommend a title but I can give some quotes that might interest you.
"As most things are controlled by men, women must rely on an indirect control of things, meaning via a man. Therefore her first aim is always to control the man."
"Since women cannot rely on physical strength or rational logic, of which they posess less, they must rely on more deceptive tactics in order to further their cause."
And '' their cause '' always ends up being evil.
I re-read “The Unplugged Alpha” like 5 times.. I need to meet this legend!
Just finished your book on audible. Really great information. Thanks Rich . Your channel has made me see some of the mistakes I made during my previous LTR
Shared on FB, All great points. Keep up the good work Rich
Start with a man...take away reason and accountability and boom...you got a woman
My friends gf or wives demonise me for speak truths. They also dont like their bf or husband hanging out with me because i speak truths they dont want their bf or husbands to hear. Can be quite frustrating to deal with the rest of the world when your eyes are open
@J Your friends are who need to get a grip on reality but, I know where you're coming from!
BRILLIANT -- this segment is BEYOND refute.
Richard keeps blowing my mind with those priceless videos. Your videos are filled with contents that cannot be found anywhere on this planet. Can't wait to purchase your book.
Liked your book .... enjoyed hearing you’re interactions. Real discussions are great learning tools.
I just can thank the Heavens to have avoided me 3-5 catasthrophic divorces. I congratulate for having explained things which I knew since I was 7 years old. Good job!!
Great video Rich 👍
100% agree. Now I'm 30, my gf is also 30. I would say I'm more attractive than she is, but she's pretty attractive in my book. She's real smart and makes decent money, but I made it clear to her that I don't really care much about her money cuz I know she won't share it with me in the long run, plus what keeps me interested in her is her beauty, her submissiveness and her looks. She's Russian so she gets it, but I could never be this open with most other women without them losing their minds. She obviously views me in her feminine hypergamous way, which isn't the same as the way I view her. This is what all women should know, instead of the BS they keep getting fed by society.
I recently got into a coaching training, there is a bit of a blue pill for women in which they tell them it doesn't matter if they're old or fat or ugly. They're beautiful as they are, so when I say “well, not exactly“ they don't take don't take it well. Don't try to reason with them, I told them they shouldn't look for a man imposible for their standards.
I'm attracted to smart women because I'm a reasonably intelligent man, but definitely agree that intelligence can't replace or make up for a lack of physical attractiveness. That's probably why I haven't found what I'm after yet. Anecdotally most of the women I've dated who were 8 or higher had become accustomed to getting by on their looks alone and never felt a need to develop a good personality or sharp mind.
Brutal facts about pretty females
This is exactly the case. I like witty and sharp women with at least decent looks. Unfortunately the physically attractive women often have a personality of a fridge magnet, while those who have a great personality aren't physically attractive at all.
Then stop going after attractive women who are idiots....
@@avapilsen I did, 10 years ago. Happiest and most productive years of my life so far.
Is true men and women are different. You keep real, even if it hurts 💯. Thanks 😊 Rich. Keep that great information coming!
Excellent vdeo, accurate and concise
THANK YOU !
Till the Bigger Better Deal due us part.
And you have just put in basics ways what is meant by the saying "G's up, ho's down".
Great posting, thank you.
This man is doing the Lord’s work
I was listening to a bit of an interview Dr. Warren Farrell had on the Valuetainment channel.
Interesting talk!
Ready for your next book
Excellent video..so spot on true...those young gals needed to hear every word you spoke..sure, those modern gals thinking they are so untitled wouldn't agree..but trust me they will think about it later! Good job!
Whoever thinks we are the same has a major problem with perception and needs a reality check.
I wish more men could realize how easy it is to become more successful and have lot's of money in the bank if they eliminate vvomen from the equation
Im a monk. I work 70 hours a week. And im broke. So that's an utter lie for most people. Especially non westerners
@@stocothedude if i had a relative in usa, germany etc i would. alone and without recommendations im not going anywhere.
@@keylanoslokj1806 your financially illiterate my friend. don't worry most are because they don't teach people about money in school. only teach how to be a slave employee in the matrix. start doing your homework. study accounting, finance and investments on your spare time. invest in stocks and crypto. purchase a rental properties. Read "Rich Dad/Poor Dad? if you haven't already. Free your mind my friend and get to work. Good luck
@@Monk_Mode_Master dude are you serious purchase properties? I barely pay the rent. I make 700 euros and my expences are 700 euros. I live month to month. Your recommendations would require me to make several thousands of euros per month
Joan Rivers said it best, “ no man has ever lifted a woman’s skirt looking for their degree”
Preach uncle Rich
It really baffles me that people do what they can say that they’re the same. I am completely blind and have been so for six years yet that’s a difference that most people will never experience they can but it’s highly ever to be exactly like my case. So it doesn’t bother me than men and women are different but good luck getting someone to understand that in this day and age
Perhaps the idea of unconditional love is best left for the dogs.
Thank you, I really needed to hear this information in a big way. Going through a divorce myself and surprise surprise I was unemployed for 6 months. Won't fall into ignorance ever again.
I could hear and feel that surface. The difference was noticable in the audio.
The only people that can expand on relationships and how they work, are those that are in long term relationships, they know the level of compromise it takes and the levels of acceptance. It’s a beautiful thing. Love your channel. I get your message. Love to all.
another great video. love the truth bombs
A new LFA video and a new Entrepreneurs in Cars video? Today is a great day!
Most women want the minimum four 6's in men:
6ft tall, 6 figure income, 6 pack abs and a 6 inch Johnson.
Most men want the four F's in women:
Feminine, Fit, Friendly and F*^kable!
And women are born with all of those 4
We men have to grind for most of our 6s
I think its nearer a 8" johnson. . . .i could be wrong. : (
@@Sohelanthropus That's WHY God created US to oversee the world! Our problem is, we've ALLOWED women to behave the way they do! 1st Corinthians 11:9 tells us that God created women for men, NOT the other way around!
@@thomasshort1784 🔥
@@planet_69 Hey, if a woman (and I DON'T mean one who MIGHT remotely be marriageable) has something against the size of your pecker, why would you want to be with her, anyway?! To me, such women not only act "entitled" (I can't stand such nonsense, by the way) but, are downright snooty and shallow!
I'm finding it fun to introduce these concepts to women. For one thing you quickly find out how agreeable they are, whether they're in your frame, and whether they can be honest with themselves.
I'm grateful that I met my now husband when I was 27, about to turn 28. I've always been thin and eat well & exercise. I've never been overweight. I would rather walk in my shoes and live in my body than be a high earner / have extensive career.
We Back for a Car Ride! Go Rich!
Great video 👍
100% agree, men and women are different.
Straight facts. 100%
I read a lot of David Buss (sp.?) in college actually - long time ago- great stuff xo
Great video
Yes its true we are clearly different in our way of thinking...
Hypergamy exists for both genders. When both genders are seeking a mate, they both look for the best they can and the data from the dating profiles is pretty solid. But there is a distinction between desire and what works in a relationship. The data on that is solid as well. Whilst men may become more attractive to women as they get older and more successful, the probability of a relationship being successful decreases exponentially with an increasing age gap. The stats are that fewer than 5% of age gap relationships succeed when the age gap is greater than 20 years.
As a guy you might be more attracted to women in their 20s, the chance of you having a successful relationship with them is very low. Similarly for women, older men are much more attractive in many cultures but those relationships typically don't work. What works appears to be people trying to find the most attractive partner they can from the available candidates who are within 3-5 years in age gap between them.
Both men and women are hypergamous. But that doesn't operate all the time. A lot of time men and women, once they get into a long term relationship will more or less turn off their hypergamy and try and make the relationship work, is spite of how attractive their partner is. I can say this because I'm currently working full time as a couples and relationship counsellor. I've seen over 200 couples this year. And I'm in your mens community.
The problem with the red pill argument is that it provides a blanket non nuanced position that all women do this and all men do that, when I see a lot of couples sitting in front of me who don't.
Does hypergamy exist? yes. It kicks in when women check out of the relationship. But not before hand.
A lot of the time they will fight like hell to make a bad relationship with a total arsehole work, FIRST.
Maybe I have a skewed sample and maybe I've arrived at the same position as Dr Shaun T Smith because I'm seeing a lot of couples and the blanket theory of all women do this, just doesn't fit into the experience of most of my clients. The red pill gets a bunch of stuff right.. but it isn't always right.
We want prime looks and femininity. They want prime everything. So our hypergamies are mostly non-compareable
Bro women are hypergamous and my parents are living proof of that. Poverty mom picked up by rich dad cause she was young and pretty. Mom was into him cause he was tall broad handsome and smart. It's literally hypergamy and now they have smart sexy kids
Yes, but only certain types of couples go to therapy in the first place. You aren't seeing the broad spectrum.
When a couple, generally speaking, goes to "therapy" its already over. I wouldn't waste my time or effort.
thanks for the more balanced view …
A bomber only get flaked when its over the target! My new favorite line...
Rich toning it down a bit with "intimacy objects"
Going into consult mode is the perfect excuse. Thanks, Rich for breaking some rules to educate the clan; we appreciate you! Talking about Red pill stuff to women is a mistake; however, if you mess up again and can't hold back, please get consent and record the convo. That would make some great content and reveal a lot of truth in a way that can't be explained.
Both men and women should be chasing excellence in all areas of life. Once that happens, the right person comes along.
It depends what you mean when you say women should be chasing excellence. If it's the feminist definition of success, i.e. climbing the corporate ladder and trying to prove that you can do anything a man can do- that's a recipe for disaster. There isn't always a "right person" that comes along for a woman who chooses the feminist path of chasing excellence.
I’ve never met a woman who is actually happy in a relationship where she out-earns her partner. Women do not like lazy men. We men simply want pretty, submissive(allowing us as men to lead, aka the natural order), and desires to be a support system for our life purpose. There can only be one chief in a tribe, and if the order gets screwed up/reversed, things go wrong pretty quick.
Excellence for women is not the same excellence for men
To me, a woman who chased excellence is the one who didn't give up her femininity, one who is agreeable and has learned to be supportive and friendly towards his man
It’s amazing to see what some people believe…the can only think that way if they are supported by someone or something.
When I hold a belief I try to find someone who believes the opposite who can articulate their beliefs in a way that I can understand where they are coming from then keep my mouth shut and listen. You are that man. I’ve been married for 40 years, came up working in automotive industry 22 years and trying to be as “male” as possible. It broke my mind, body and spirit eventually. At almost 63 I realize by listening to you and Jordan Peterson I spent a lifetime trying to get over being born female. When I turned 60 I made the decision to know the woman I buried. I’m on an ongoing journey to wholeness. It’s painful to listen to you and your guests; however, you are not wrong.
We should be comfortable with the truth. 😀
I think I am an exception to your rules as I had been married for years and my wife have always made more than me and it's never been an issue. Now we are not struggling financially as we are both high earners in our own fields. So as long as money is not am issue, difference doesn't seem to be an deal breaker.
Men love with there feelings, women love our money 😅
Ho'z B Trippin 24/7
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You know what, I recently had a mindset shift in that regard after something that I experienced first hand.
My mom broke up with my step father a few months ago (they had been together for 25 years).
She's an older woman, doesn't exercise, obviously not a 23yo hottie.
However she quickly met a decent guy who's a bit older than her, who also has adult sons, and they form a great couple.
He's definitely not a chad or an alpha, but he treats her well and she treats him with respect. They make each other company and both look super happy.
So while I 100% agree that women are objects of beauty, I think these rules don't apply to older/very low SMV people.
After a certain age, I guess you just want someone who's nice to be around to make you company.
So if a 50yo woman wants a chad, she's dellusional. Not gonna happen. But if she legitimately wants a guy who loves her and will be there for her, she won't have any problems with that as long as she is a nice agreeable person.
There are too many people in the world. You'll only die alone if you're an a**hole!
you're talking about two old people with slim options and an old school(healthier) mindset. it is completely irrelevant to today's dating world.
@@FLCLimaxxx yep, that's the whole point of my comment: 'these rules don't apply to old/very low SMV people'.
Not a major breakthrough, just an observation.
True. I agree.
Glad for you your Mpther is happy now
She sounds like a lovely lady
I have a bromance with this dude. Who can give an entire lecture while driving and have it all make perfect sense! Good job brother
Men and women are different in a complimentary way.
Don't believe the equality fanatics.
equality fanatics are dumb AF because they are picking and choosing which situations are equal.
I would only add that when she starts with 'deserves love,' to point out that attraction comes first.
Goat!!
Straight facts.
"look at the degree on that chick" lol. say no more.
So true.
Yes, yes, yes!! Thank you for saying things as they are..men and women are different and thar's the beauty of it! Viva la diferencia! People might not like it but this is nature and we cannot alter nature unless we becone hypocrites. Men want sex and praise, women want money and babies. There is nothing wrong with that...it's the way we are made. I am a woman...it took me some time to understand this but I am older and wiser now. Let's stop the competition between the sexes, there shouldn't be any. Thanks for this Rich...more videos like this, please. Peace! 💜
Men want children, VV@m3n want power which is achieved by having children.
There is no competition between the sexes. There is a rigged game in place. And it isn't for the benefit of either sex. It's for the benefit of the satanic one world order government. They've rigged the system against men, then use women as a blunt object against men. But in the end, this destroys both genders and gives them absolute power.
@@proudgary2228 '' Bla bla bla bla, the Devil did this '' , what a weak argument.
@@proudgary2228 Absolute truth!! So pleased to find another alive, well-informed, and thinking person!! Peace brother!! ✌✌✌✌✌
@@olympusentertainment2638 you're absolutely entitled to see it however you want. But there's a reason why women are at their all time unhappiest. There's a reason why millions upon millions, tens of millions of women are on anti depressants. And there's a reason women march in almost zombie like fashion towards this ideology, even though the negatives are blatantly obvious to society. Imo it's a spiritual issue. It takes some powerful influence to continuously have people touch the hot stove over n over n over.
"Don't try to teach these things to women" Never argue
100% facts
In so many ways....still learning...🥴
Look at the degree on that chick LOL.
Everybody has the potential to be loved and desired if they believe they can. True love is more than just a matter of physical appearance, youth & money. It's a connection of the soul and that goes beyond everything else!!!...
word!
There is someone for everyone. As long as you don't give up and are a good person. Pay attention to the signs. I do agree with the marketplace though!