what they don't tell you about university | dealing with loneliness, comparison and making friends

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 36

  • @Calvbread
    @Calvbread 2 года назад +18

    Very relatable :33
    I'm not an introvert but I've never been able to make true friends...i feel distant with my current ones.

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  2 года назад

      Thank you I’m glad u found it relateable❤️

    • @carcharias5240
      @carcharias5240 2 года назад

      I feel the same too, I found a girl who I connected with but I didn't get her number which I regret deeply.

  • @shermanechou2837
    @shermanechou2837 4 года назад +17

    Omg I’m so glad that I found someone who has a similar experience and thoughts with me thank you for this video it’s very helpful for me when I go back to uni again🙈🥰

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  4 года назад

      Hehe ofc sis always here for u we’re getting through it together☺️💖

  • @SamuelGulas-qg9ul
    @SamuelGulas-qg9ul 2 года назад +3

    This video is underrated as fuck, mandatory watch for every introvertish freshman

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  2 года назад

      Thank you sm glad it resonated with you!!

    • @SamuelGulas-qg9ul
      @SamuelGulas-qg9ul 2 года назад +2

      @@cathjcanlas It seriously did, experiencing everything you said, especially about loneliness and how it's supposed to be the "best part of your life" and also the people clubbing 24/7 only way to socialize, that hit deep

  • @kyletiago
    @kyletiago 4 года назад +7

    amazing video! i've gone through some of these experiences during my first year as well and i wish i took these tips before we started uni:))

  • @adalyasencio2702
    @adalyasencio2702 4 года назад +6

    making friends is something im nervous and excited about haha. this video was so helpful thank you girl!

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  4 года назад +1

      Adaly Asencio aw that means so much to me that u found it helpful☺️💖

  • @punamgurung71
    @punamgurung71 4 года назад +2

    This is one of my favourite RUclips videos 🥺, I don't think Uni can be explained better than this imo

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  4 года назад +1

      Punam Gurung huhuhu ily❤️❤️😭

  • @kathalianza3705
    @kathalianza3705 4 года назад

    Girrrrl your skin is glowing!!! 🤩 still, enjoy uni! Sure it has a lot struggles but you'll definitely miss it after you graduate :(

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  4 года назад

      Yehh it’s crazy how fast it goes😭🤍

  • @karencanlas4236
    @karencanlas4236 4 года назад

    nice one nak love you❤️❤️❤️

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  4 года назад

      karen Canlas love u mum❤️❤️

  • @HashChampShorts
    @HashChampShorts 4 года назад

    Hey! I love the videos, what do you record your face with? And do you use any artificial lighting?

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  4 года назад +1

      Hash Nasim lmao hi hash I use my iPhone X and natural sunlight😂

  • @jonathanalindao5038
    @jonathanalindao5038 4 года назад +2

    Your talenlted person and improud of you

  • @abolajideborah2906
    @abolajideborah2906 Год назад

    Thank you so much

  • @marthagurlvlogs543
    @marthagurlvlogs543 4 года назад

    Ganda naman CJ❤❤❤ kilala mo pa ba ko be hehe.

  • @MirelleKristine
    @MirelleKristine 4 года назад +1

    ah i just finished my first year of uni too! and i definitely agree with all your points! I've experienced a lot of this last year

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  4 года назад

      Mirelle Kristine aww I’m glad u relate🥺❤️

  • @snehar101
    @snehar101 4 года назад

    Omg I’m in first year uni and it being online stopped me from making friends 😭

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  4 года назад

      Sneha Ramakrishnan that sucks:(( but u can always connect w ppl online and I’m sure it will all work out when u meet in person💖🥺

  • @BOYRAIDEROFFICIAL
    @BOYRAIDEROFFICIAL 4 года назад

    Hi new friends here sending my full support po,,,stay connected keep safe and god bless din po,,,

  • @premsunwar5271
    @premsunwar5271 4 года назад

    So pretty and intelligent girl 😘

  • @katrinacoronel1486
    @katrinacoronel1486 4 года назад

    Scared for uni🤣

    • @cathjcanlas
      @cathjcanlas  4 года назад

      Hiii lexine😂 and I was too