feeling lost and lonely at uni...
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- Опубликовано: 27 апр 2024
- I am sure I am not alone in feeling lost and lonely and like I don't know what I am doing anymore. I wanted to be a little more vulnerable and just talk about how I've been feeling about University, my course, living alone, youtube and life in general. I hope if you too are feeling this way, that it makes you feel a little less alone.
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🌱 How old are you? 19
🌍 Where do you live? The UK
📚 What year of education are you in? My 1st year at the University of Bath!
🧠 What do you study? Psychology
📖 A-Level subjects? English Literature, History and Psychology
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As someone who is planning on going to bath next academic year i hope to meet people who are like me, feeling alone is something that has always seemed natural, the subjects i like, the people i connect and connected with, everything seems to change like the wind, everyday is different, thanks for showing me that i am not the only one. :)
yep these feelings are so common! but don’t worry about coming to Bath; worst case senario if you don’t find “your people” or feel like you don’t have a place for you, just create one. I’m planning on setting up a creative writing society next year which I’m hoping will bring like minded people to me and create a space for me 😌
Hey! I’m going to bath too this year
i’ve firmed bath this year too
hey! im going to bath too:)
“The good things in life tend to come in waves and the bad things also come in waves. So it’s really easy when you’re in either peak to forget the other exists” - Jeta
Jeta, you will always be my role model (despite me being older!) ❤
Lea this is so so sweet 🥹 You’ve always been mine
Thank you for sharing and being honest about how you’re feeling, Jeta. University can be incredibly lonely (I have felt like that for the majority of my degree) :(( it does feel strange if your grades are not yet where you would like them to be, but university is completely different and it takes a while to get used to how things are marked and learning how everything works from referencing to academic writing, but you will get there.
I also relate to feeling lost. I only have 2 weeks left of my entire psychology undergraduate and I have no idea what I am wanting to do afterwards (which is so scary to me).
Thank you for sharing that; it’s nice to know I’m not alone in feeling this way. I also have no idea what I am going to do after uni but ofc you are in final year so I can only imagine how stressful that must feel. I hope you are looking after yourself, everything usually works itself out xx
@@Jeta_ It is no problem and you are definitely not alone in feeling like this. Yeah, I am feeling really stressed at the moment with the unknown of what will be next, but I’ll get there :)
Jeta I'm really inspired by your vulnerability and honesty in this vlog! I can't imagine how hard it must be to navigate uni life in an entirely unfamiliar atmosphere! I'm really proud of you and truly believe that you have to give yourself grace! Please never add unnecessary self inflicted pressures onto yourself especially to conform to people's "hyper productive" expectations for your life! You should embrace the creative control you have over your channel! Lots of love and positive energy ❤️🩹
I'm watching this after a really long day
this is just so comforting..
thanks Jeta
You seem like a lovely, sensitive person. You are proactive and have lots of good coping and self care strategies. If you struggle badly, talking to someone like eg a counsellor can help, getting support from someone who understands and is there for you. I do hope things improve for you. University can be a challenging place for a lot of people. Hang in there.
Thank you SO MUCH for posting this. You have described exactly how I’ve felt lately at uni. I too have felt burnt out and like academics is no longer fully in control, and I am trying to let go of the guilt that comes with that as I used to study all the time. I’ve not found many people I connect with either, so it can be lonely and I’m always comparing myself and thinking I should be doing uni a certain way. But what you said about doing the little things is so good, like I’ve been trying to get out on walks and do what I enjoy to get through these last few weeks. People change and grow at uni and that’s ok. I wish I’d seen a video like this when I started as I didn’t know what to expect x
i love you and miss you lots, cant wait to see you again
I miss you too ebba 🥺❤️
I also really struggled especially in first year and have not enjoyed the course as much as I thought I would. It has got a lot better though x
glad it’s gotten better!
Jeta, we respect you so much for putting yourself in a vulnerable and scary situation, by posting a video like this!! Honesty is nerve wracking, it’s hard to know how to piece the things in your mind into words exactly like you said, and whether people can relate. But people will DEFINITELY relate to this!!! (And really benefit 🫶🏻). Although I’m not in your position yet, I can understand why you’re feeling the way you are - but you will get through this! 🦋
University is sort of like a whole new universe (ironically it’s like most of the name😅) - pretty much everything in your life changes at once, and it’s hard to keep up with it all. I’m sorry to hear that you lost yourself a bit and that you felt lonely, but im keeping my fingers crossed that it will get better, and it’s reassuring to know it has been so far, even if slowly! x
Im so happy you’re staying on here, but whatever you want to film and whenever you want to film sounds amazing - do what’s best for you!! We all love your channel for the person behind it mostly I’m sure ☺️
Take care of yourself, and I’m wishing you positivity for this last stretch of first year xx
It gets better! Thank you for your vulnerability.
yes it always does 😌
dear jeta, i am just a year below you and picking my offers atm (one of which is bath!) for biology. honestly i've really enjoyed this video and loved your honesty, from one new beginning to the next, gcses, sixth form, i always though i would find 'my people' yet i simply feel disconnected and lonely. the bit about connecting with non-stem people really struck me as i've always made friends with creative people and managed to find a bit of magic in everything. have you heard of the fig tree analogy by sylvia plath? the beginning of this video with the narration was beautiful by the way
Hi Jeta! I'm currently watching this video from the opposite part of the world, about to do my GCSEs in a week, but I couldn't relate more with you. The idea of failure really makes you feel so "lost and lonely", even though I'm at home with my family. I wish you the best and I'm sure you'll adapt to this change or any other change soon enough!
Where else in the world do they do GCSEs?
@@KtT-sn8cy Pretty much anywhere! I personally live in Dubai but there are British curriculum schools that provide GCSEs and A-Levels all around the globe.
@@wasiqnabeel999 oh that’s interesting, I thought every country just had their own system, outside of IB
@@KtT-sn8cy Every country does have their own system, my parents just chose to put me in a British school. Also IB is actually from Switzerland, but it's popular around the world just like the British system and the American system.
@@wasiqnabeel999 Oh I thought IB was just some international standard, because it has international in the name lol. didn’t know it was originally swiss lol. I’m aware every country has its own system; I just wasn’t aware it is a common thing to use other countries systems depending on schools
My name in Kosovo means 'in the forest' and the intro of the forest was really beautiful but also i'm sorry you feel lonely!
Maybe you should hang out the the Bristol students they are more fun in my opinion
You don’t always need to be productive.
nope you don’t, sometimes just existing is more than enough 😌
You don't have to feel lonely/lost, You can have JESUS ❤
He saves, I used to feel depressed, sad, lonely, etc. But when I accepted Jesus Christ into my life, I felt this unusual peace in my heart. I felt joy and I felt God's devine presence. Accept God in your life, surrender your self to him. MATTHEW 7:7 says, "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you." Amen 🙏🏾 ❤ God loves you all.