I literally cried while watching this video- I just left a toxic friend group and am now alone in the school bathrooms half the time like a stereotypical teen movie. I watched this video and it made me shed a tear- Tam, you’ve given me hope and made me genuinely start to feel comfortable with being alone.
as someone who's been through the exact same situation - trust me, it gets better. you'll either find a lovely, energetically positive friend group, or you'll be content by yourself. much love
been there for a long time like this as i moved to so many schools, but trust me its for your good. maybe rn it doesnt feel right but it gets better, either u learn to do things by ur own and u have yourself or you will get good people later. hoping for positive things and love for you 💗
Everything happens for a reason guys. Hard periods of loneliness (it can be positive for many btw) teaches you, that you only got yourself at the end of the day. Everything whats meant for you will find you, but you have to find and know yourself first, without other people influences.
Everything does NOT happen for a reason. Think about it--do you think a three-year-old is raped for a reason, because of some cosmic master plan? I DO think we can learn from what happens to us, but only if it doesn't destroy us, and destruction does happen.
"What was I made for" always makes me emotional. Having it play in the background along with this topic really hits deep. Thank you for a great video 💛
i’m so glad i watched this wow. turned 23 today living in a completely new state with no friends and felt super alone. thank you. i feel so much better!
Needed this. I left my fiancé of 5 years, my home, my friends and my town all in one weekend. It’s been so lonely but it’s amazing to be reminded it’s for my higher self. Thank you so much for everything you do, Tam!!
Felt so alone today and this really helped. I have been single and living on my own all year but today made me feel incredibly sad that I still don't have someone that aligns with me but I know that this is a part of the journey and finding someone is not all life is about. I took myself to the Farmers market today, bought myself flowers, went thrifting, watched my favorite shows, cooked food, and read a lot. I know I can do this even in those moments of extreme quiet when that scary loneliness creeps in. trying to rmr Loneliness can be a blessing and room for self development.
@@Marwonderful i hope youre doing well! know that im very proud of you and its such a big step to do something nice for yourself. i know i struggle with that. may the rest of your days be wonderful 🤍
I am just 17 years old and the thought of being alone, having no partner, being judged beacuse of some past mistakes.... i was feeling lonely and not understood by anyone.. cause of this i began overthinking too... really needed this at the time. THANK YOU ❤
"to people in their twenties" meanwhile here I am, turning 33 in a month, 2 years ago I realised I have cptsd, so I'm literally only now figuring out who I am, what I want for myself, after a breakup, temporarily living at my mom's place, paying off old debts and basically isolated from the world and possibilities of meeting new people like a hermit. Guys, it's never too late to figure out your life and everyone has a different timeline, there's no expiry date on that. Thank you Tam for this video, it was much needed as recently I often have this thought that I'm wasting the best years of my life and I needed a reminder that in fact, I'm preparing for the best years of my life 💖
@@lazybooklover8167 I hope it gets better for u🫶🏻🫶🏻, when I commented that, it was 2 months ago, and now I feel sm better!! I feel loved by the ppl in my life and I’m so grateful. I rlly hope u stop feeling this way, and I hope yk how amazing u are💕Have a great day
yep. i have amazing friends and have a supportive family. yet i feel so lonely and like im falling behind. all my friends have great relationships & i sometimes feel envious of them. sometimes i also realize that i tend to suffer in silence and i never share my burdens with my friends because i don’t want to overwhelm them. after watching this video it made me feel a lot better though. they’re my friends for a reason and i’ve realized that they’re there for me even when i don’t seek it out
this video made me emotional. i understand myself, i learn from my past, my experiences, my intentions and how i seek to change my mindset, my lifestyle, how i treat myself with self-love, with the motivation to move on and work through our pains and struggles. we have the power to change our lives by accepting ourselves for who we are.
This got me hugging and apologizing to myself for the shit I put myself through this week 💔 I’ve been on a self love journey for the past couple of months and this week has been rough and I acted like a hurt little child and that was coming from a place of trauma and insecurity and I dont blame her for showing up every once in a while she’s been through a lot and expecting her to heal completely with a few months of inner work would be unfair. I’ll be there for her forever. Thanks Tam.❤
the way i manifested a ''watch this when'' video from you a few days ago and u actually uploaded it. u have no clue how much i needed this. thanks for such comforting videos tam!
being 15 an already being lonley an had an experience ALREADY about friends an just being cute an happy on my own because im loving my own vibe atm friends or not i like just staying an keeping to myself. Ily tam
I read most of the comments and that people are sad and lonely. And for them, i'll say it will get better, it always does. But today, i'm so so grateful that i'm happy.. I have felt lonely in past but rn i have myself and some of the best people. I actually lost a very healthy friendship 2weeks ago but bcs of tam i have put it in past and is healing very fast! ❤ I just wanted to express my gratitude and gratefulness for the happy moments i have in life today❤ Even though i'm so sick today and haven't been productive this week, i'm still happy and grateful❤
This video made me cry, ugly cry. I really needed this. Ever since my breakup, I have been feeling so alone and like my life is falling apart. This was such a comfort. I stopped and took a moment to appreciate all of the things I already achieved, all the progress I have made. Ive been good with being alone in the past, but this loneliness is even stronger now and more intense, which only means my life will become even BETTER than in the past. If you're reading this, you are not alone in being alone. Lets all take this period of our life to become the most strongest version of ourselves
I am 28 years old and I took a massive change last year by removing friends who I have been friends with for 10 + in my life who know longer align with me. I am currently in transition period and it feels so good and I have never felt so much peace and I am so excited to have done all of this before I am 30.
omg literally perfect timing 😭 I had just broken up with one of my friends, I thought I was feeling fine with it, but today I was sitting in a class with 2 popular girls who were talking about their friends, it reminded me that I still hadn’t “fit in” and that i never will anywhere, this video popped up right after school today and Im feeling so much more at peace right now.
i used to wonder why bad situations would happen to me, but realised that there is a reason for everything. You just ave to dig deeper. Everything a person does, is literally a reflection of their internal reality, (because your thoughts/brain is a collection of past memories and experiences), so what you put out in the world reflects what you think about yourself. Joe Dispenza talks a lot about this too!
At first I didn't even realize how much I needed to hear these words. I'm a freshman in college, 300 km away from home and it all hit me SO hard that now I feel like I know NOTHING. And this hurts so bad and now it seems that everyone expects me to just read in stars how to solve problems I wasn't really aware of/didn't think might be problems (if that makes sense) and that made me isolate and feel more lonely than ever and the thing is it wasn't even the "productive" isolation/loneliness. I'm a bit relieved that I'm clearly not alone in this and hopeful that I'll be able to make use of your inspiring words
It's EXACTLY the RIGHT VIDEO at the RIGHT TIME . I was literally feeling lonely and I noticed how much I called other people and then I thought to myself I need to do some inner working and to learn how to love myself again and feel comfortable with myself and take myself out on a date or try new things or learn something new. And I take this video as a sign.
2 days I talked to the universe, saying how lonely I recently feel and that I need help and a sign that I am not lonely and I saw this video. I feel really grateful for these amazing advices, I actually love myself, however I think that I forgot about it and that's why I feel like this. Now I won't see loneliness as something full of sadness and if I do, I am going to rewatch this video even thousand times
you're right about being by yourself is a beautiful thing, i used to be such an extroverted person like not even extroverted just mad crazy, then i started working on myself and my goals, it distanced me from people, from my friends, but it's a good feeling, knowing you can work on your goals without anyone bringing you down constantly, is a great feeling but a great sacrifice.
still i'm just 16, i miss going out with friends, ik it's mostly superficial but when i see people with their friends on social media it makes me yearn for it too
I actually started taking care of myself & spend time with myself thanks to you! Tam you truly changed my life. Thank you so much & sending love to you❤
I just wanna thank you with all my heart Tam❤ This video saved me today and in the insidious toxicity outside, I found myself-inside. It reminded me of how I always have 'me', and that it's imperative that I show up for myself, and give myself that strength, love, comfort, support and compassion. In the dark storm of tears, I could bring the rainbow to light... Your words alleviated my gruesome loneliness and made me appreciate the greatness of the moment as it was, as blissful peace. I could fill the void, and find and befriend my inner self. Thank you! Lots of loveee, Deethi ♡
I was writing a letter to my younger self who went through so many heartbreak and was lonely her whole teenage but i was struggling what to write and how to comfort her and then i saw this notification, i am crying right now this is what i needed the most thank u so much for this and i love u sooo much ❤
Thank you so much for this video, I was thinking for a long time, that there is something wrong with me, when I realized that I am not anyone favorite... I am just an option when someone can't... And now, I am trying to see myself as my favorite, thanks to your videos 🥰
Wow this came at the perfect time! Thank you for articulating realistic perspectives of loneliness, I have been having a tough time trying to find ways to soothe & coach myself through this period of my life! Being someone in their 30's and finding myself without friends or a partner has made me acutely aware of my loneliness but I know it is just a season, not a permanency.
I clicked soo quickly I need this badly. Lately I’ve been feeling so lonley I keep seeing people in relationships and I just really want a companion and not just any but a actual good person who actually cares abt me . From hearing the intro I started crying thank you Tam for making me feel seen . I’ve been feeling like I’m the only one who feels lonely seeing the comments I don’t feel that way anymore ❤
It's nothing bad to be alone, but honestly it would be nice to have just one friend with whom I could go out and do girly things. I have never experienced such friendship and I would love to have a bestie like a sister 🎀
8:14 i wish i found this 2 years back 😭 when i was severely depressed due to loneliness 11:13 now i realise it was all worth it even though it was the hard way ❤
I just started a new job that I really wanted, but I'm really struggling with loneliness- and I don't really understand why. I'm having a lot harder time adjusting than I thought I would. I'm still new, so of course they're not going to know me well enough yet to truly "see me". I'm a firm believer that things always get better, especially with a self-aware and self-loving mindset. Be gentle on myself. I'm leaving this comment here so I can come back in a few months and see how much things changed. I'm wishing everyone else the best on their journeys as well!
Thank you. I have been moving frequently between different countries in the past few years and it has been great, it did a huge impact on my professional life and self growth. However, it has been socially difficult at times. It is hard to make friends with this lifestyle. I could not count how many times I felt the weakness of loneliness and I thought about reaching out to my ex-friends because I knew they would reconnect with me but I always would remind myself the reason why I moved on from them. I am so glad I never slipped and only kept these ideas in my thoughts. I did not have standards when I was younger, it was a huge lesson, I met all kinds of people and some of them taught me why I shouldn't be friends with just anyone. I'm fine alone, I travelled alone a lot. I learned to talk with my family, I used to never talk about my life with them, I would look for strangers to tell about myself. It was not easy to open up to family, but it surprised me that they were actually supportive even thought I never in my life would have thought they would be.
i cry while watching ur video - today i feel of low,wasted my time ,insecure,and feel like im not their were i want to be but when u said im feeling live for first time and still growing and that im just a teenage and its ok to do things worng its my firts time to try somthing new and every thing is for my better ----- thank u tam sis i wish u get more love , happens,success in ur life
Just what i needed. After a failed dating experience, living alone and thinking i’m not good enough, I am now accepting my present life. Sometimes I feel lonely living in solitude but maybe this season is needed for growth. As what the beautiful Ariana Grande says “so for now, it’s only me and maybe that’s what I need.” 😊 what a beautiful life - good and bad experiences. 😊
This video is like a warm big hug, thank you so much i feel better💘💘💋 ilysm u help me so much, im still a teenager trying to make friends and trying to boost my low self esteem.
thank you so much, I'm a girl in my early teens and your videos have helped me gain so much more confidence in myself but I can't help but have these thoughts sometimes. This video was so reassuring to me and really helped me, although I've only been watching your videos for a short time your videos have had such a big impact on me, you might be my favorite self improvement creator so far. You really are like the big sister I never had
Hey Tam, I'm a med student and I just wanted to say, I had gone through a breakup, had lost alot of friend group friends due to the breakup, was living alone and truly would go to school, come home and be alone. I was so shocked that my life became this way. I would listen to your videos and just keep manifesting that things will get better. Eventually (in a year) I found friends through the effort of putting myself out there and eventually moved into an amazing home (like the kind in the show Friends). I don't think I would have been able to get here, if I didn't have to turn inward when I was living alone. You are the one who always kept me going.
Hi sis I'm a high school girl from India.... And i was feeling so depressed and lonely in class coz I seat alone and eat lunch alone I really needed it Thank you so much sis❤ Love yaa!!
Hi queen I know this message wasn't meant for me, but just remind you that diamonds weren't shaped in sunlight and gold, but in shadow and dirt. Yet they are the most treasured, most beautiful, most loved. This will be your destiny, and you may be lonely now, but that's because you are a sun surrounded by planets. Just because you are alone, doesn't mean you aren't needed or loved. Remember this❤
It's my fault for my own loneliness I pushed everyone away and now I'm unable to put myself into reality to be there for others, I'm stuck in my own selfish head. Its my fault for putting myself in this position. I have sat with the company of loneliness for as long as I can remember it's so familiar to me
Hey Tam! This video, is my reality, especially the fact 6:36-6:49. Last year, when I was a 7th former, I was in my toxic girl era, like I would literally overthink the dumbest things, I'd procrastinate things, I used to be an attention-seeker, I used to chase people for their attention and love and what not! But now, after a year, when I'm an 8th former, I'VE COMPLETELY CHANGED! I'm the opposite now, I love myself so much that I don't need anyone now, I enjoy my own company and honestly, it's been MONTHS since I've overthink ANYTHING! Like I don't even remember the last time I over-thought ANYTHING! (Credit goes to you, girl! THANK YOU!!) ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ~EsHaL💖
tysm youve helped me a lot💕💕 everytime i go to school i feel so embarrassed abt being usually alone + i see everyone hanging out it makes me feel so hopeless and when i get home i rarely hang out with anyone cuz i got no close friends but youve made me realize so many things i couldn’t before :)
@@onetowardslove as a child i was always like this tho,people are unnecessary mean and then act as if religion or skin color is the problem (I'm white lol). So yea it's still happening but it hurts more.
@@Urstrulycatwoman Do you feel rejected still? And if so how come? I don’t reject you. No one should be judging you for your background, what we look like means nothing, it’s what’s in our hearts.
@@onetowardslove i guess alot of people assume I'm rich just because I try to act kinda decent and try to dress up. So then alot of girls are jealous and say mean things out of their curious nature. But you know I try to keep my head up.
Thank you so much for making this video! I'm going through a huge transition in my life and loneliness is something I've been struggling with. You're amazing and inspiring me to be the best version of myself💓
Thanks,Tam. Watching this is 2024 and I love myself. I have a long path to cover but I love my growth. I do not seek external validation because I know at the end of the day I love myself fully knowing how I have evolved. I will pray for everything I get. I get it all. I am grateful.
You’re the best, Tam. Your videos helped me so much after a horrible experience in my personal life. I’m 35 years old, but I wish I had had the insight and wisdom you have when I was in my 20s. You have taught me so much. Thank you for being such a positive influence. ❤
omg the timing i just had a heartwrenching breakdown an hour ago idk how i am still alive and you......thankyou tam iloveyousomuch😭😭😭😭 its because of you i have reached this level where i wanna live for myself if not anyone but for me to live for my dream self I'm yet to be thankyou tam you're saving a life
Thanks a lot. I started my solitude phase a bit more than half a year before and I am learning so much about myself and what is more important: learn how to love and accept me. You are helping me a lot. I see you every week looking for inspiration and motivation. As you said in one of the videos, you are part of my closest five people. Thanks for everything
You’ve changed my life. The way you express your advice and the around overall just ENERGY, that you channel and video give has changed my entire life. I’ve moved out , I’m living on my own for the very first time, and the anxiety that’s controlled SO MUCH of my life is settling down and I 1000% believe that you have a been a huge part of that. Thank you very much for your content ❤️
I really want to thank you for all of your content. It has helped me grow so much. I'm in my twenties now and I'm slowly becoming the woman I want to be with the help of your videos. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
Although I don't feel lonely right now, what you said is 100% what I experienced. After watching this video I realized how much I did learn about myself and my passions and hobbies during that time. A lot of my favourite things now I discovered during that lonely period which I now realize was a blessing, and I didn't even realize this until this video. You're always spot on
After watching this I came to know that I always kept others before me, I was so shy that if others did anything bad to me I would not act on it that made them control "my" life I don't want it that way, from now on I would like to keep a promise to myself that I would keep myself before anybody else and appreciate only my loved ones, I am going to speak for myself, and I will try to do things out of my comfort zone ,it's my life one day everybody is gonna die anyways why not do ur best and die. Thanks to you Tam after watching your videos I always feel that I am the best version of myself, whenever my energy goes down and I need motivation I will always look up to you. I have never commented my heart out in any social media platform this is my first and I think I did the right thing ❤
Thank you so much for creating this video, it means a lot, I’ve been working on myself a lot lately, I’ve been through some heavy stuff lately and I’m taking the time to work on myself and to grow as a person and I’ve always felt alone, but I think now I feel like I can finally love myself, it may not be perfect but I’m trying and I’m proud of myself for doing so and being the one there for me, I appreciate you making this, it means the world!
Tam, I have alr turned into a young adult, 18y/o. And I've learned so many things from you, this has boost into loving myself much more and believing that there're more to come for me. As a Kaur myself, I'm so glad you're willingly sharing these motivation videos for us all. Thank youuu 💓✨
Literally needed this Tam!!! Ive been single now, almost a year after break up - raised my standards a lot but feels a bit lonely kus my future mans havent found me yet 😂❤
Thank you so much for this Tam. I cried so much listening to your words, it trully felt like a hug. I feel myself spiraling back into depression again and it feels lonelier than before, because on the outside it looks like I have everything figgured out and I'm really happy. The reality is that I feel more lost than ever. And I also have this feeling like I should be able to get through this by myself, because my friends are too busy with their own lives. But your videos make me realize I am not alone, I am with myself and I get so much help from you. Thank you Tam. Thank you so much ❤
@@tamkaur Tam, do you have telegram or something because I keep getting notifications from a non verified acc to converse with them about a request that i made,
"What was I made for?" such a perfect song for this ahhh!! I wish this came out last year when i was at my peak loneliest, but better late than never. And as a 20 year old going on 21, 13 is *chef's kiss* tysm!!
I'm literally crying right now, because of your words that touched me so deeply. Thank you so much, Tam for all of the effort you put into helping others. You're angel ❤
I just can say THANK YOU! Your words helped me out in the moment I needed the most. Maybe you didn't know but your words are really impacting on people helping them get through hard times. THANK YOU!
The last fact made me realise that I AM actually living an answered prayer now. Because yesterday while I was planning my daily routine I looked back on some rules that I had made for myself one of which was to not chase people and I literally am not doing that only because I left one friend. Thanks Tam ❤.
Stop. I am literally laying unmotivated and sad about how alone I feel AND THEN I SEE THIS NOTIFICATION wow I needed this.
same
You too?😭😭😭😭
I just searched exact videos like this today and then she posts this😮
We’re all together in this rn?🤝🏼
@@FirstName-xt1gkYeah😭😭😭
I literally cried while watching this video- I just left a toxic friend group and am now alone in the school bathrooms half the time like a stereotypical teen movie. I watched this video and it made me shed a tear- Tam, you’ve given me hope and made me genuinely start to feel comfortable with being alone.
as someone who's been through the exact same situation - trust me, it gets better. you'll either find a lovely, energetically positive friend group, or you'll be content by yourself. much love
I've been there. It'll get better. Keep to yourself and work on you. Weight lifting kept me sane during a similar experience.
I m literally dealing w the same situation trust me it is just for good!
been there for a long time like this as i moved to so many schools, but trust me its for your good. maybe rn it doesnt feel right but it gets better, either u learn to do things by ur own and u have yourself or you will get good people later. hoping for positive things and love for you 💗
I spent half of my year alone too. 🫂🫂
Everything happens for a reason guys. Hard periods of loneliness (it can be positive for many btw) teaches you, that you only got yourself at the end of the day. Everything whats meant for you will find you, but you have to find and know yourself first, without other people influences.
You can say that a thousand times, being alone makes us re-discover our purpose in life even though it hurts sometimes.
I've never seen wiser comment. It really shifted my reality. Like reaaally. Tysm i hope every good thing in life finds you
Everything does NOT happen for a reason. Think about it--do you think a three-year-old is raped for a reason, because of some cosmic master plan? I DO think we can learn from what happens to us, but only if it doesn't destroy us, and destruction does happen.
I was feeling alone today but instead of staying in bawling my eyes out about it i went out with my own self
Proud of you ❤
The "living in one of your answered prayers" resonated with me the most.
"What was I made for" always makes me emotional. Having it play in the background along with this topic really hits deep. Thank you for a great video 💛
As I huge billie fan I can approve 🫶🏻
omg I was literally crying at the beginning of the video, but then I didn't realize when I started to feel calmer than ever
THE ELDER SISTER EVEREYBODY NEEDS
i’m so glad i watched this wow. turned 23 today living in a completely new state with no friends and felt super alone. thank you. i feel so much better!
Needed this. I left my fiancé of 5 years, my home, my friends and my town all in one weekend. It’s been so lonely but it’s amazing to be reminded it’s for my higher self. Thank you so much for everything you do, Tam!!
I remember this was me 3-4 years ago.
wow ur so strong ❤
how are you now???
More and more power to you girl!💙
Felt so alone today and this really helped. I have been single and living on my own all year but today made me feel incredibly sad that I still don't have someone that aligns with me but I know that this is a part of the journey and finding someone is not all life is about. I took myself to the Farmers market today, bought myself flowers, went thrifting, watched my favorite shows, cooked food, and read a lot. I know I can do this even in those moments of extreme quiet when that scary loneliness creeps in. trying to rmr Loneliness can be a blessing and room for self development.
@@Marwonderful i hope youre doing well! know that im very proud of you and its such a big step to do something nice for yourself. i know i struggle with that. may the rest of your days be wonderful 🤍
@ thank you 🥹
I am just 17 years old and the thought of being alone, having no partner, being judged beacuse of some past mistakes.... i was feeling lonely and not understood by anyone.. cause of this i began overthinking too... really needed this at the time. THANK YOU ❤
"to people in their twenties" meanwhile here I am, turning 33 in a month, 2 years ago I realised I have cptsd, so I'm literally only now figuring out who I am, what I want for myself, after a breakup, temporarily living at my mom's place, paying off old debts and basically isolated from the world and possibilities of meeting new people like a hermit. Guys, it's never too late to figure out your life and everyone has a different timeline, there's no expiry date on that. Thank you Tam for this video, it was much needed as recently I often have this thought that I'm wasting the best years of my life and I needed a reminder that in fact, I'm preparing for the best years of my life 💖
more power to you, you absolute amazing:)
yes there’s other lessons youve learned in your 20s though that others in their 20s haven’t. now’s your time for this one!
Exactly in the same boat as you. Thanks for helping me feel like I’m not alone ❤
37. Same here. Don't discount the arrested development from trauma. You were trying to keep yourself alive. Sending love.
33 here myself. I'd like to say it's not too late for us
this video feels like a big sis hug
i'm tired of being by myself. it's not about not feeling good with myself i'm just fed up with only being with my own self
Am I the only one that feels lonely rn even tho I have so many amazing friends and family ?
me too sometimes I just feel so disconnected with reality
Yes so true I have friends but I feel lonely like no one is here for me
@@lazybooklover8167 I hope it gets better for u🫶🏻🫶🏻, when I commented that, it was 2 months ago, and now I feel sm better!! I feel loved by the ppl in my life and I’m so grateful. I rlly hope u stop feeling this way, and I hope yk how amazing u are💕Have a great day
yep. i have amazing friends and have a supportive family. yet i feel so lonely and like im falling behind. all my friends have great relationships & i sometimes feel envious of them. sometimes i also realize that i tend to suffer in silence and i never share my burdens with my friends because i don’t want to overwhelm them. after watching this video it made me feel a lot better though. they’re my friends for a reason and i’ve realized that they’re there for me even when i don’t seek it out
Same with me😅
I feel like the longer I wait, the bigger the blessing that I’ll get ❤
this video made me emotional. i understand myself, i learn from my past, my experiences, my intentions and how i seek to change my mindset, my lifestyle, how i treat myself with self-love, with the motivation to move on and work through our pains and struggles. we have the power to change our lives by accepting ourselves for who we are.
This got me hugging and apologizing to myself for the shit I put myself through this week 💔 I’ve been on a self love journey for the past couple of months and this week has been rough and I acted like a hurt little child and that was coming from a place of trauma and insecurity and I dont blame her for showing up every once in a while she’s been through a lot and expecting her to heal completely with a few months of inner work would be unfair. I’ll be there for her forever. Thanks Tam.❤
طبيعي اني دمعت؟ 🥹 يا الله هالحكي اشقدّه مطمئن ومُريح ومنطقي🥹🩷🩷 شكراً من قلبي وممتنة لوجودك🫶🏽
مرحبا ❤😊
عندك انستا؟❤@@rosemary5989
the way i manifested a ''watch this when'' video from you a few days ago and u actually uploaded it. u have no clue how much i needed this. thanks for such comforting videos tam!
I needed this....just a divine timing ❤
being 15 an already being lonley an had an experience ALREADY about friends an just being cute an happy on my own because im loving my own vibe atm friends or not i like just staying an keeping to myself. Ily tam
I read most of the comments and that people are sad and lonely. And for them, i'll say it will get better, it always does. But today, i'm so so grateful that i'm happy.. I have felt lonely in past but rn i have myself and some of the best people. I actually lost a very healthy friendship 2weeks ago but bcs of tam i have put it in past and is healing very fast! ❤ I just wanted to express my gratitude and gratefulness for the happy moments i have in life today❤ Even though i'm so sick today and haven't been productive this week, i'm still happy and grateful❤
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This video made me cry, ugly cry. I really needed this. Ever since my breakup, I have been feeling so alone and like my life is falling apart. This was such a comfort. I stopped and took a moment to appreciate all of the things I already achieved, all the progress I have made. Ive been good with being alone in the past, but this loneliness is even stronger now and more intense, which only means my life will become even BETTER than in the past. If you're reading this, you are not alone in being alone. Lets all take this period of our life to become the most strongest version of ourselves
I am 28 years old and I took a massive change last year by removing friends who I have been friends with for 10 + in my life who know longer align with me. I am currently in transition period and it feels so good and I have never felt so much peace and I am so excited to have done all of this before I am 30.
I'm on my healing phase. My inner child and out growing friendship and being secure with myself. This video is so overwhelming and amazing. Luv yuh ❤
omg literally perfect timing 😭 I had just broken up with one of my friends, I thought I was feeling fine with it, but today I was sitting in a class with 2 popular girls who were talking about their friends, it reminded me that I still hadn’t “fit in” and that i never will anywhere, this video popped up right after school today and Im feeling so much more at peace right now.
i used to wonder why bad situations would happen to me, but realised that there is a reason for everything. You just ave to dig deeper. Everything a person does, is literally a reflection of their internal reality, (because your thoughts/brain is a collection of past memories and experiences), so what you put out in the world reflects what you think about yourself. Joe Dispenza talks a lot about this too!
this sucks, I'm crying so bad trying to figure everything out. I cannot only this videos give me hopes on living as the best version of myself
At first I didn't even realize how much I needed to hear these words. I'm a freshman in college, 300 km away from home and it all hit me SO hard that now I feel like I know NOTHING. And this hurts so bad and now it seems that everyone expects me to just read in stars how to solve problems I wasn't really aware of/didn't think might be problems (if that makes sense) and that made me isolate and feel more lonely than ever and the thing is it wasn't even the "productive" isolation/loneliness. I'm a bit relieved that I'm clearly not alone in this and hopeful that I'll be able to make use of your inspiring words
divine timing so real
It's EXACTLY the RIGHT VIDEO at the RIGHT TIME . I was literally feeling lonely and I noticed how much I called other people and then I thought to myself I need to do some inner working and to learn how to love myself again and feel comfortable with myself and take myself out on a date or try new things or learn something new. And I take this video as a sign.
2 days I talked to the universe, saying how lonely I recently feel and that I need help and a sign that I am not lonely and I saw this video. I feel really grateful for these amazing advices, I actually love myself, however I think that I forgot about it and that's why I feel like this. Now I won't see loneliness as something full of sadness and if I do, I am going to rewatch this video even thousand times
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you're right about being by yourself is a beautiful thing, i used to be such an extroverted person like not even extroverted just mad crazy, then i started working on myself and my goals, it distanced me from people, from my friends, but it's a good feeling, knowing you can work on your goals without anyone bringing you down constantly, is a great feeling but a great sacrifice.
still i'm just 16, i miss going out with friends, ik it's mostly superficial but when i see people with their friends on social media it makes me yearn for it too
I actually started taking care of myself & spend time with myself thanks to you! Tam you truly changed my life. Thank you so much & sending love to you❤
I just wanna thank you with all my heart Tam❤
This video saved me today and in the insidious toxicity outside, I found myself-inside.
It reminded me of how I always have 'me', and that it's imperative that I show up for myself, and give myself that strength, love, comfort, support and compassion.
In the dark storm of tears, I could bring the rainbow to light...
Your words alleviated my gruesome loneliness and made me appreciate the greatness of the moment as it was, as blissful peace. I could fill the void, and find and befriend my inner self.
Thank you!
Lots of loveee,
Deethi ♡
I was writing a letter to my younger self who went through so many heartbreak and was lonely her whole teenage but i was struggling what to write and how to comfort her and then i saw this notification, i am crying right now this is what i needed the most thank u so much for this and i love u sooo much ❤
Her timing is unmatched ❤
Thank you so much for this video, I was thinking for a long time, that there is something wrong with me, when I realized that I am not anyone favorite... I am just an option when someone can't... And now, I am trying to see myself as my favorite, thanks to your videos 🥰
Wow this came at the perfect time! Thank you for articulating realistic perspectives of loneliness, I have been having a tough time trying to find ways to soothe & coach myself through this period of my life! Being someone in their 30's and finding myself without friends or a partner has made me acutely aware of my loneliness but I know it is just a season, not a permanency.
I honestly started watching this video not really thinking it was super necessary for me, and now i'm finishing it with tears in my eyes
I clicked soo quickly I need this badly. Lately I’ve been feeling so lonley I keep seeing people in relationships and I just really want a companion and not just any but a actual good person who actually cares abt me . From hearing the intro I started crying thank you Tam for making me feel seen . I’ve been feeling like I’m the only one who feels lonely seeing the comments I don’t feel that way anymore ❤
It's nothing bad to be alone, but honestly it would be nice to have just one friend with whom I could go out and do girly things. I have never experienced such friendship and I would love to have a bestie like a sister 🎀
girl--I would've LOVED to be your friend but I'm sure you're probably a globe away, no one should ever feel lonely hope you found your soulsister
I feel the same!!
Same here +1
In the same stage, hopefully people like us can find each other and make each other feel more important❤
Same 😭
8:14 i wish i found this 2 years
back 😭 when i was severely depressed due to loneliness
11:13 now i realise it was all worth it even though it was the hard way ❤
I just started a new job that I really wanted, but I'm really struggling with loneliness- and I don't really understand why. I'm having a lot harder time adjusting than I thought I would. I'm still new, so of course they're not going to know me well enough yet to truly "see me". I'm a firm believer that things always get better, especially with a self-aware and self-loving mindset. Be gentle on myself. I'm leaving this comment here so I can come back in a few months and see how much things changed. I'm wishing everyone else the best on their journeys as well!
thank you i was crying during this enire video, your vibe was so caring i really needed that.
I was just watching your video on "feeling sad" one and than you posted this you're always at the right time ❤❤
Thank you.
I have been moving frequently between different countries in the past few years and it has been great, it did a huge impact on my professional life and self growth. However, it has been socially difficult at times. It is hard to make friends with this lifestyle. I could not count how many times I felt the weakness of loneliness and I thought about reaching out to my ex-friends because I knew they would reconnect with me but I always would remind myself the reason why I moved on from them. I am so glad I never slipped and only kept these ideas in my thoughts. I did not have standards when I was younger, it was a huge lesson, I met all kinds of people and some of them taught me why I shouldn't be friends with just anyone. I'm fine alone, I travelled alone a lot. I learned to talk with my family, I used to never talk about my life with them, I would look for strangers to tell about myself. It was not easy to open up to family, but it surprised me that they were actually supportive even thought I never in my life would have thought they would be.
i cry while watching ur video - today i feel of low,wasted my time ,insecure,and feel like im not their were i want to be but when u said im feeling live for first time and still growing and that im just a teenage and its ok to do things worng its my firts time to try somthing new and every thing is for my better ----- thank u tam sis i wish u get more love , happens,success in ur life
I'm re-watching this video after 3 months but this time it hit me differently I almost cried. Love you Tam.
She’s saved many lives. Including mine.
Just what i needed. After a failed dating experience, living alone and thinking i’m not good enough, I am now accepting my present life. Sometimes I feel lonely living in solitude but maybe this season is needed for growth. As what the beautiful Ariana Grande says “so for now, it’s only me and maybe that’s what I need.” 😊 what a beautiful life - good and bad experiences. 😊
This video is like a warm big hug, thank you so much i feel better💘💘💋 ilysm u help me so much, im still a teenager trying to make friends and trying to boost my low self esteem.
thank you so much, I'm a girl in my early teens and your videos have helped me gain so much more confidence in myself but I can't help but have these thoughts sometimes. This video was so reassuring to me and really helped me, although I've only been watching your videos for a short time your videos have had such a big impact on me, you might be my favorite self improvement creator so far. You really are like the big sister I never had
i literally needed this right now
Hey Tam, I'm a med student and I just wanted to say, I had gone through a breakup, had lost alot of friend group friends due to the breakup, was living alone and truly would go to school, come home and be alone. I was so shocked that my life became this way. I would listen to your videos and just keep manifesting that things will get better. Eventually (in a year) I found friends through the effort of putting myself out there and eventually moved into an amazing home (like the kind in the show Friends). I don't think I would have been able to get here, if I didn't have to turn inward when I was living alone. You are the one who always kept me going.
Hi sis I'm a high school girl from India.... And i was feeling so depressed and lonely in class coz I seat alone and eat lunch alone
I really needed it
Thank you so much sis❤
Love yaa!!
me too- if I saw u sitting alone I would definitely come say hi. You seem rlly sweet, i’m sorry we’re both alone; it’s not forever
Hi queen I know this message wasn't meant for me, but just remind you that diamonds weren't shaped in sunlight and gold, but in shadow and dirt. Yet they are the most treasured, most beautiful, most loved. This will be your destiny, and you may be lonely now, but that's because you are a sun surrounded by planets. Just because you are alone, doesn't mean you aren't needed or loved. Remember this❤
@@Luccccccccccci oh my that was good...
@@dhayapooranee.s1401 thank you🤍
@@avareadssI sometimes wish I was gone even when you try to talk to family your still alone I basically stay in my room everyday
It's my fault for my own loneliness I pushed everyone away and now I'm unable to put myself into reality to be there for others, I'm stuck in my own selfish head. Its my fault for putting myself in this position. I have sat with the company of loneliness for as long as I can remember it's so familiar to me
Hey Tam! This video, is my reality, especially the fact 6:36-6:49. Last year, when I was a 7th former, I was in my toxic girl era, like I would literally overthink the dumbest things, I'd procrastinate things, I used to be an attention-seeker, I used to chase people for their attention and love and what not! But now, after a year, when I'm an 8th former, I'VE COMPLETELY CHANGED! I'm the opposite now, I love myself so much that I don't need anyone now, I enjoy my own company and honestly, it's been MONTHS since I've overthink ANYTHING! Like I don't even remember the last time I over-thought ANYTHING!
(Credit goes to you, girl! THANK YOU!!)
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~EsHaL💖
tysm youve helped me a lot💕💕 everytime i go to school i feel so embarrassed abt being usually alone + i see everyone hanging out it makes me feel so hopeless and when i get home i rarely hang out with anyone cuz i got no close friends but youve made me realize so many things i couldn’t before :)
We can be friends if you like :). Are you on social media?
@@UrstrulycatwomanPeace to you for even attempting to reach out like this. You’re setting a great example
@@onetowardslove as a child i was always like this tho,people are unnecessary mean and then act as if religion or skin color is the problem (I'm white lol). So yea it's still happening but it hurts more.
@@Urstrulycatwoman Do you feel rejected still? And if so how come? I don’t reject you. No one should be judging you for your background, what we look like means nothing, it’s what’s in our hearts.
@@onetowardslove i guess alot of people assume I'm rich just because I try to act kinda decent and try to dress up. So then alot of girls are jealous and say mean things out of their curious nature. But you know I try to keep my head up.
Thank you so much for making this video! I'm going through a huge transition in my life and loneliness is something I've been struggling with. You're amazing and inspiring me to be the best version of myself💓
Tam ILY so much you're like my sister that always gives me the best advices ❤
I can't thank you enough and I was amazed how you posted this right when i needed it.
crying watching this
Thanks,Tam. Watching this is 2024 and I love myself. I have a long path to cover but I love my growth. I do not seek external validation because I know at the end of the day I love myself fully knowing how I have evolved. I will pray for everything I get. I get it all. I am grateful.
You’re the best, Tam. Your videos helped me so much after a horrible experience in my personal life. I’m 35 years old, but I wish I had had the insight and wisdom you have when I was in my 20s. You have taught me so much. Thank you for being such a positive influence. ❤
omg the timing i just had a heartwrenching breakdown an hour ago idk how i am still alive and you......thankyou tam iloveyousomuch😭😭😭😭
its because of you i have reached this level where i wanna live for myself if not anyone but for me to live for my dream self I'm yet to be thankyou tam you're saving a life
Hey… just hang in there please. You will get out of this tunnel sooner than you imagine ❤
how do her videos always perfectly align with my life!!
Thanks a lot. I started my solitude phase a bit more than half a year before and I am learning so much about myself and what is more important: learn how to love and accept me. You are helping me a lot. I see you every week looking for inspiration and motivation. As you said in one of the videos, you are part of my closest five people. Thanks for everything
You’ve changed my life. The way you express your advice and the around overall just ENERGY, that you channel and video give has changed my entire life. I’ve moved out , I’m living on my own for the very first time, and the anxiety that’s controlled SO MUCH of my life is settling down and I 1000% believe that you have a been a huge part of that. Thank you very much for your content ❤️
This video feels like a hug, thank you!
I really want to thank you for all of your content. It has helped me grow so much. I'm in my twenties now and I'm slowly becoming the woman I want to be with the help of your videos. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
You're so welcome!
This video is actually very comforting❤️
Although I don't feel lonely right now, what you said is 100% what I experienced. After watching this video I realized how much I did learn about myself and my passions and hobbies during that time. A lot of my favourite things now I discovered during that lonely period which I now realize was a blessing, and I didn't even realize this until this video. You're always spot on
After watching this I came to know that I always kept others before me, I was so shy that if others did anything bad to me I would not act on it that made them control "my" life I don't want it that way, from now on I would like to keep a promise to myself that I would keep myself before anybody else and appreciate only my loved ones, I am going to speak for myself, and I will try to do things out of my comfort zone ,it's my life one day everybody is gonna die anyways why not do ur best and die. Thanks to you Tam after watching your videos I always feel that I am the best version of myself, whenever my energy goes down and I need motivation I will always look up to you. I have never commented my heart out in any social media platform this is my first and I think I did the right thing ❤
You’re such a beautiful person inside and out. This video helped me so much. I love your content
the timing is so perfect tam! Love you!
Thank you so much for creating this video, it means a lot, I’ve been working on myself a lot lately, I’ve been through some heavy stuff lately and I’m taking the time to work on myself and to grow as a person and I’ve always felt alone, but I think now I feel like I can finally love myself, it may not be perfect but I’m trying and I’m proud of myself for doing so and being the one there for me, I appreciate you making this, it means the world!
Tam, I'm literally 31 years old and I learn SO much from you. Thank you my love. I am rooting for you! 🥰
Same!
am turning 30 this year too and feel like am only just learning the tools to live my best life now >.< :)
Tam, I have alr turned into a young adult, 18y/o. And I've learned so many things from you, this has boost into loving myself much more and believing that there're more to come for me. As a Kaur myself, I'm so glad you're willingly sharing these motivation videos for us all. Thank youuu 💓✨
Still waiting for when you reach 1 million subs fr (you're a gem, Tam, you have no idea how much you have helped me)
This video made me excited about living life again, thank you
Tam! You’re like a sister I never had. Thank you for giving a beautiful perspective towards life 🤍
Literally needed this Tam!!! Ive been single now, almost a year after break up - raised my standards a lot but feels a bit lonely kus my future mans havent found me yet 😂❤
Thank you so much for this Tam. I cried so much listening to your words, it trully felt like a hug.
I feel myself spiraling back into depression again and it feels lonelier than before, because on the outside it looks like I have everything figgured out and I'm really happy. The reality is that I feel more lost than ever. And I also have this feeling like I should be able to get through this by myself, because my friends are too busy with their own lives. But your videos make me realize I am not alone, I am with myself and I get so much help from you. Thank you Tam. Thank you so much ❤
I noticed a calmer energy in you with this specific video message ❤
i needed this more than ever right now & im so thankful for the day you started posting bc you’ve truly changed my life & so many others ❤️
Literally clicked so quickly that my screen froze
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DAYUM 😮😂
@@tamkaur Tam, do you have telegram or something because I keep getting notifications from a non verified acc to converse with them about a request that i made,
you are special. hope you’re getting all of the blessings that are meant for you in this world. thank you.
"What was I made for?" such a perfect song for this ahhh!! I wish this came out last year when i was at my peak loneliest, but better late than never. And as a 20 year old going on 21, 13 is *chef's kiss* tysm!!
how did it get better? 🤗
I'm literally crying right now, because of your words that touched me so deeply. Thank you so much, Tam for all of the effort you put into helping others. You're angel ❤
You’re my safe space 🫂🥹
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literally!
Fr
“You self educate because you are so determined to take control of the way you live and the way you think❤❤❤ thank you
just when I needed this the most, thank you♥
you're so kind... i hope all the good things happen to you and god makes your life better, thankyou so much really.
Divine timing Tam ❤
I just can say THANK YOU! Your words helped me out in the moment I needed the most. Maybe you didn't know but your words are really impacting on people helping them get through hard times. THANK YOU!
TAM YOURE ALMOST AT ONE MIL I'M SO PROUD
The last fact made me realise that I AM actually living an answered prayer now. Because yesterday while I was planning my daily routine I looked back on some rules that I had made for myself one of which was to not chase people and I literally am not doing that only because I left one friend. Thanks Tam ❤.
I'm 13 yet i still am grateful to learn so quickly for my future
@@shin-fs2fs you have no idea how cool of a 13 yr old you are, my past self wouldve benefited from this as well! sending lots of love :)