Please keep in mind that everyone's experience is different. There's no right or wrong way to feel lonely. If you feel lonely, you are lonely. And that's okay. Would love to read about your experience and feel free to share some tips. Hope you enjoyed the video.
I liked your video👍👍. In my case I was always accompanied by my classmates but with the passage of time, although I was with them, I felt that I did not exist or was taken into account in the same way as my other friends, that was because I was different as they were (I have a different way of expressing myself or thinking than normal people) and that's why they started to get away from me, that made me feel like I was alone in life, I felt I had to act and speak just like them to be accepted and deny myself or I would always be alone.
I get depressed when I see everyone having the best time with their friends and I'm just staying here doing nothing. Everyday I wake up and I don't even have a message. Its just horrible.
Been that long sence had hug I given up ever being happy I try my best I was nice with my lady friend s. My problems only ever meant one nice lady in my life she die the other use me and dominant me I just can't win. I have given up trying love. Hug would be nice or even friend but seem to much ask for. Must be destiny be on my own. Give any thing be happy and get hug . It been nearly year on my own then break my cruse I meant a women in lockdown by chance we got on well but only texs me she would t speak on phone I except that. Then kept saying wanted me have dinner coffee I thought that nice . But every time ranger meet she never came . Didt Tex me. Only heard from her late that day after 10 night. Allway had excuse . Then one day ask me do her fav and lent her money she said Def give you back like fool did and never got it back . It got strage she wanted laptop computers for college and other stuff . She only wanted me when wanted things of me. I didt buy her that stuff . So I gave her up it kill me do that . If did hug me just once wood took that or even kiss once wild. You see now how hard it is me. You have nice day. Mica.
@@sreenathgs6422 do you have any menlth health problems like me like axtiety dresspression . At min the lockdown is spolie me I can't mixed what might help you if when we get back to normal. You can get referral of doctor and he sent you to day center and different ones they have keyworker like support worker. And get you classes and groups so don't feel alone . So when on your own feel down like do they come out to see you. See if they can help you. That my problems at min not mixed any one and it hurts. I am here to listen I can try cheer you up. Me been on my own now for 10 monlth. And live on my own 16 year in my flat . Me had lot of bad luck. Lost my mum of late and lost dear lady friend to. Cover 19. I don't no if wanted here my story it bit sad. Best advice give you love. You dresve be happy your not on your own I understand how you feel I have been they love.
Its strange how I literally know a lot ( I mean a lot ) of people but no one knows me. Even the people who know me doesn’t know I exist. I’ve tried to text people and start a conversation with them but every time it feels like I’m forcing the relationship. Now I don’t even reply to any texts, I’ve switched my phone number so that no one calls me. The only reason I’m using social media is because of my online classes.
I want to share. About Jesus. John 6: 35 And Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst. Philippians 4: 8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things. 9 The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He spoke of the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 21: 24 This is the disciple who is testifying to these things and wrote these things, and we know that his testimony is true. 25 And there are also many other things which Jesus did, which if they *were written in detail, I suppose that even the world itself *would not contain the books that *would be written. ruclips.net/video/NPoQIVi4T1k/видео.html Where can one start reading The Bible? In The New Testament: The Gospel of John and/or Acts.
@@TheLibraryOfEmotions that me hurt more talk about it have menlth health problems but did give heart soul into my relilship women wast nough woodt be they you listen my pain . I want reach out . I try best I been nice people but still get hurt I don't no ware going wrong. Maybe should nasty but that not me. Take care .
@@Riley015z not alone often say to myself why . I cry lot. It painful. Hope you find happiness . Take care. Woodt be fare me to broad you with my problems.
I obviously don't know you but stay strong. I too am going through a very tough time myself. But let's hope Time will change and Nothing is constant in this world including sadness .
I am sorry you were feeling that way. I hope you are better now. If I may make a suggestion, see if you can find something near you where you can volunteer or help out.
I want a friendgroup like in the movies, I want to be able to send a text in a groupchat and then have them come over, I want to feel included. But I’m just sitting here, in my room, alone, every day edit: 1 year later and I can proudly say that I now have the best friends ever!!!! please everyone, just know that your people will come! just keep on smiling, everyone could be your new best friend!!
@@smurk6951 :)) We just gotta remember that there are better times to come! We will get people in our lives that we can do these with!! right now just isn’t the right time yet
Sometimes, I wish my birthday never came, because usually for all my friends' birthdays, there would be a group of friends who get together and organise a surprise party or something for them, but no one does it for me. I try to console myself saying they must've forgot, but it hurts, because I always try to make their birthdays special in my own little way, but no one else does it for me
Omg I perfectly relate. I always cry and feel awful on my birthday because no one remembered or wished me a good birthday, but on their birthdays I get them something...
I skipped school because I’m crying from extreme loneliness. The reason I gave my classmates was that I missed by mom. It’s the first time I’ve felt this. I’ve always been alone but seeing other people going in pairs with their friends, have someone to accompany you at all times and not having someone to talk to has made me reach my limits. Hope this is the last time I pity myself for being alone
Your feelings are temporary and it's ok to feel this way practice embracing the feeling and embracing the feeling. and there's no need to feel guilty. Your going to make amazing friends and for now it's important to focus and make yourself a priority casue you matter.
The worst part about loneliness is getting comfortable with it. Deep inside you want to socialize and have friends but at the same time you feel comfortable alone all day.
i dont know why but im alone and i dont really care. ive had some toxic friends that i got rid of and im feeling much better even when im alone. i feel like im at ease
I feel like I'm in this sort of paradox where I want to socialize and hang out with a lot of friends, but quickly my social battery gets empty and I need to be alone. And then if I'm just a bit tiny more alone than I needed, I start feeling lonely again. It's weird. I also can barely find people who actually enjoy deep, meaningful conversations. But maybe I'm just not looking in the right places. Anyone feels the same?
Oh yea. I can relate. I've been on a journey, and interested in many things. I don't meet too many that want to get real about some things. Come see a silly old man dealing with it. Stay strong.
FUCK you described it perfectly! It fucking sucks. I feel the struggle in my head, heart, soul..it hurts so bad. I don't know which way to turn when it all seems to lead to disappointment and further heartbreak. Because I just don't fucking fit in anywhere. My interests aren't like others. I'm too monogamous for most people. It just sucks dude. My life is going to be filled with loneliness unless something kills us all soon lol. My pessimistic side helps deal with it. 😅
Feeling alone in a room full of people is when i realized i don’t matter to anyone. I don’t know why because i’m always there for others but no one is here for me
you describe me completely! Loneliness make me hate so much my life and myself. I also make a video to tell the worst aspects of loneliness so no one feels alone in this fight!
The worst part of being isolated is that you may never have a hug or a conversation again. I was looking to see if others where going through the same & found this page . I’ve been on my own all my life and yes most of the time you can handle it but sometimes you can’t - it’s a killer.
Damn bruh, this brought me to tears because i think about what you just said constantly. There’s not a day that goes by that I wish I wasn’t spending my best years of my life alone.
Same.. I feel like I’ve already wasted all my 20’s. Turning 30 soon and I feel so lonely. My bf left me 4 months ago. And everything just went downhill again and it’s the worst feeling.. it’s a beautiful Saturday and I’m in bed wishing I was out
I do have friends but i'm always the second choice. Everyone seems to have that one closest friend whom they feel comfortable telling every secret or whatsoever. Even when i'm surrounded by others, i feel like i'm not wanted and like i dont belong there at all
... it's largely a discrepancy between met social needs and unmet social needs being actually fulfilled ... bonding skills ... mine is clinical due to prolonged state of isolation due to relocation and lack of strong bonds ... and poorly understood ... you're easily confused between "lonely" and "loneliness" which are not the same ... there is no scientific evidence religion mitigates loneliness ... but there is evidence it's a condition that shortens life and risks cancer like smoking ...
Yep, this is the new millennial digital Tech Society. Me too... And feminism! Low birth output... cuz no relationships! Everybody it's like some sort of snowflakes walking around! They have sex robots 4 10 grand! Now they want to get rid of trump... And put some democrat snowflake who will continue making things worse for the masculine side! Trump can try to change some of this. We are all going to hell in a handbasket!!
this comment section feels like home, im happy im not the only one and there’s actually people who relate to me. it sucks being no ones favorite person.
Yes! It hits bad i know the feeling. Also having two or three friends that never make the first move to plan something with you but with others. It's awful!
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone." - Robin Williams
This is very true. I feel so lonely now, but nothing is as lonely as living with someone who is supposed to be your partner and never wants to spend time with you.
Even if someone is somehow spending time with you still they don't share that nice positive feel which can make other feel toghter Happens in relationships
luckily im not....I might be in case of rarely to others...but not even with me..I Love myself and that's relief..having other ideas and my mind with me that's enough weapons
@@lucithomas9666 what happened you love not nice people treat use bad it very lonely did you read my story . Still hurts . Even harder can't mixed anyone . At min
Exactly and they won’t respond for so long even though they’re so active on social media and if they did, they would reply with one word.. oh and if I don’t text first, literally no one will ask about me, but they would still interact with each other.. I usually don’t care but I keep getting ignored, it hurts especially since we were “friends” for years.. it hurts, but I’m trying to learn new things and it’s getting my mood up.. and I want you to know that you’re beautiful inside out and they’re the ones who are losing a gem, so don’t think about them too much!
i do agree for the most part, a wrong company often makes you suffer more. but there are times when you might need a bit of conversation, even with wrong people.
Most people are not perfect, if you don't actually value your "friends", just don't have too much expectation with them if you are going to stay with them because you know it's not a deep connections.｡◕ v ◕｡
@@TheLibraryOfEmotions A normal person who is not perfect is different from a toxic person. A toxic person purposely chooses to act that way with you. It’s hard to let go of them because you feel like it’s better to be with them rather than be lonely. I have had friends like that. But luckily now I have let go of them but it can be very hard to move on when your not very social.
@@Ksjsj408 yea I understand most of my friends are not toxic but just that they have better friends than me so if I have to be with them I just hope they don't have any other plans
I totally agree...I spend most of my time on my own now other than when I'm at work..its getting harder to start up a conversation with people..its so much easier to text..
yeah it's like a habit, it doesn't really bother me anymore though, at least not on small scales, but the scale gets bigger and you get used to it more
this quarantine made me realize that i don't have friends. im an introvert,,and i have been very independent in that area, ialways tell myself that im fine, that i love my own company, and yes i do, but... it's just..sad lately. the amount of times i refresh my phone messages everyday to see if anyone wanna talk, is embarrassing. i forgot what happiness feel like.
You are right...i am also feeling this...and i also want to talk bt nobady is here... When message notification come i think it's my frndz msz bt it's not... thats Worst feeling.....i really want to talk...
Omg i relate to this so much. During this quarantine, everything that i used to enjoy seems to slowly became « boring ». I forgot what real happiness feels like. Hugs ❤️
True. Like I have a sister and a couple “friends” and I feel like I can talk to them about everything. It’s just loneliness does creep in when everyone is always busy and the only thing that you have to look forward to is RUclips...
Moved to another country, being an introvert I am having a really hard time to make new friends, afraid of people but wanting to connect with people at the same time. Living thousand miles away from family and friends, feel like drifted apart from them and no one can understand me anymore.
Take a deep breath, and then go with a broad smile to your place of work or study, and do not be careful and afraid of mistakes and the bad first impression. If we do not make a mistake, how will we learn? There are relationships that are destined to fail and relationships that live for a long time, so decide whether you will go through an experience in which you will live failure and success, or will you remain afraid and regretful? To be frank with you, I was wary of all kinds of relationships and I was afraid in my last year at school because I had just moved, so I did not talk to anyone because I was afraid of what they would say about me or what their impression of me would be, and here I am, regretting that I did not take the first step.
@@athen3 Thank you for the reply! It resonates with me that being too careful and afraid of making mistakes part. I am taking baby steps to break through, I hope you are too :)
I want to share. About Jesus. John 6: 35 And Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst. Philippians 4: 8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things. 9 The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He spoke of the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 21: 24 This is the disciple who is testifying to these things and wrote these things, and we know that his testimony is true. 25 And there are also many other things which Jesus did, which if they *were written in detail, I suppose that even the world itself *would not contain the books that *would be written. ruclips.net/video/NPoQIVi4T1k/видео.html Where can one start reading The Bible? In The New Testament: The Gospel of John and/or Acts.
ever know the feeling of wanting to talk to someone, you don't even care who, but no one will ever listen or make u feel like they are even listening to you. quarantine has been real tough time.
It's weird. I like being alone: spending time reading, gaming, running, drawing or such things. But when I see people on social media having fun on big parties, spending time with friends everyday and having a huge social life I still feel sad and lonely. That I'm never there where the "fun stuff" is. Just had to delete instagram for a while to find the good balance between spending quality time with both myself and the few friends I have. Spending more time reflecting on myself without social media really helped me to overcome that feeling of loniless.
Rozemarijn I felt that way too, but I soon realised after joining in these activities that it may look like the best night ever, but in reality it was pretty meh.
Ever have a group of friends that make you feel more lonely when you are around them? Took me a while to learn that surrounding yourself with the wrong people can make you feel more alone than being actually alone.
Simply just there for numbers, I'm in that current situation right now. Since I only have a friend group if I break the connection I'll have no one, don't know what decision to do at this point
I feel lonely, i have friends but sometimes i feel like i dont fit. I am scared of talking to people and I’m scared of telling them how i feel. I am still very young and I feel like my life is boring. There are so many things I want to try but I’m scared to. Every night before sleeping, I cry because I remember about how lonely I am.
You are lucky you are knowing this when young ! ! You can start by trying to read the bible & know God . Don't be upset ! This is a start . Then confide in God at night , get strength to find good people to talk to .Good people , not people that will get you in trouble . Wish you well
I know the feeling. The good news is you are still young, and you have it within you to turn it around. Some people go their entire lives without admitting this to themselves, even more people go their entire lives without doing anything about it. The fact that you're watching this video proves you aren't one of them. My best advice is to ask yourself if the reason you're afraid to speak up really is that you're scared, or if it's that you just don't feel comfortable around those specific people. Not everybody is for us, and that's okay and normal. My other advice is to realize that maybe the reason you are afraid of opening up to others is because you are afraid of rejection, or afraid that whatever you have to say doesn't matter. It does and by not speaking up you might be preventing somebody from hearing something that they really need to hear, even if it seems like it doesn't matter. If somebody rejects what you have to say, then at least you'll know in your heart that you tried and instead of being hard on yourself, just realize that person isn't really somebody you click with. I hope this helps :)
It’s been 6 years since I last hung out with anyone. After graduating from high school I started losing touch with my friends little by little. I graduated from college almost a year ago and although I met a lot of nice people I couldn’t make any new friends or stay in touch with them and that became much harder during the pandemic. There are so many conversations I’d like to have, so many things I want to say but I don’t have anyone to talk to. I’ve been applying to jobs for 6 months and so far I haven’t gotten hired. I wanna have my own money so I can buy my own stuff and don’t have to ask anyone for anything. I have the desire of reuniting with my closest friends, catch up with them and have fun like I used to when I was a teenager. However, I learned during the pandemic that I have to let go of people who at some point I got along with but now things changed. I only miss my friends who only treated me right the whole time and always respected my boundaries.
I just want a genuine friend. Someone who wouldn't make me feel inferior and pressure me to fit in with everyone. Just someone who genuinely wants to be friends with me. I'm just exhausted trying to fit in and trying to pretend like someone I'm not.
hi ❤ I want a genuine friend too.. 100% relate, I'm sick of pretending to be the person everyone wants to be friends with. I just wanna be me. tell me something about yourself.. im 14, my name is Pavi 😊 why can't we just create a friendgroup, all the lonely ones?
@@coco-and-co Hi! I am Manashvi. I am 14. Can we be friends?... No one is there for me. I have to just pretend to fit in in the group. I am just tired of pretending of being someone else whom I am not! Just want a genuine friend ❣️who respect my feeling and boundaries.... A type of friend in which befor I don't have to pretend...😔😖😖
Omg i relate to this a lot! I have been in a group of introverts like me, but they always left me behind cuz i didn't have similar interests like them. They only remembered me when they needed my help but the rest of the time they left me out. And now they are leaving me behind. It sucks but i hope i get over it..
... it's largely a discrepancy between met social needs and unmet social needs being actually fulfilled ... bonding skills ... mine is clinical due to prolonged state of isolation due to relocation and lack of strong bonds ... and poorly understood ... you're easily confused between "lonely" and "loneliness" which are not the same ... there is no scientific evidence religion mitigates loneliness ... but there is evidence it's a condition that shortens life and risks cancer like smoking ...
i have “friends” but they’re basically school friends who i don’t see out of school and we only keep it touch by sending random pictures on snapchat. i just don’t feel like i really connect with any of them and i’m pretty sure they don’t know the real me at all... only what i let them see cuz i don’t want to be open to people i don’t feel connected with if that makes sense
Nothing more lonely than needing someone, needing to talk and needing to hug, but NO ONE is there, just a wall and a world full of people that don't care about what this stranger is going through
That’s true. I have “friends”. At school, I sit with them (because I don’t have anyone else, and I don’t like sitting alone - it’s just embarrassing and I’ve been having to do that all my primary school life, and I’m in year 7 right now, almost year 8). Those “friends” I sit with rarely really talk to me. They just ignore my existence and find someone else to talk to within the group. BUT, unless, if it’s something important, they will come up to me and be friendly and ask me. Ok but honestly, to be clear, those “friends” I sit with, there are about 6-8 in total, only 1-2 of them talk to me, but that’s very occasional. Otherwise they just shove me out of the way.
I feel lonely, especially during this time when I spend my days at home. No friends who wants to talk. Every morning I wake up I feel sick of the feeling that I dont have any plans or people to talk with. I just start and end my day on the internet watching video's and I feel just tired of that. I realised how long a day is when you have nothing to do or to spend time with someone. I wish to find someone who want to spend just as much time with me as I want with them. Having meaningful conversations and sharing each other's thoughts. Hanging out and doing fun activities. Sticking around during the bad and good times and not letting each other down. 😔
first i thought my loneliness came from having bad experiences with other people, having spent my whole life bullied at school and then never being able to trust people or think they would be gentle and really care about me. that is part of it, but not the whole point. now i realize my loneliness also comes from the fact that i happen to have two rare deseases and no matter how much i try to explain how terrible and painful it is, no one will never truly know what i mean. many times i don't even feel like i belong to this earth, not recognize myself as a human being.
Oh wow. I relate to this so much. I’ve been bullied and torn down all my life. I understand this. I understand creating a wall of trust issues but wanting more than anything to have friends. It’s difficult. I don’t know what it’s like to have a disease but I’m praying for u. U are just as worthy if not more than worthy to have at least one good friend. Don’t ever stop. This pain feels never ending. Im not gonna sit here and tell u it gets better bc i cant say that. Idk that for sure… if i did i would be lying. Maybe it doesn’t get better but when u start loving yourself in the smallest way life loves u back. That’s a quote that’s been keeping me going. Probably the only thing on earth that’s keeping me going. Find something in ur life that u believe in
@@isabelahoward i am so sorry for all pain that you've been through. i'm in tears with your words and support. i can't sag how much this saved my day, and i truly hope you can keep going and getting better. i'm sending all my kind and grateful energy to you. i'll carry your message in my heart 🌹
Sad thing about introverts: Most of the time we are happy alone, but when we do need a friend, we don't have one, because we don't have connection with other people. We can't be friends with extraverts because they seem to need a company all the time, so we need to be friends with the ones like us, but other introverts are not around and probably avoiding people. Its so hard to find a friend being an introvert!
I’ve been lonely for most of my life, everyone who knows me is nice to me when they see me but never hang out with me, I assume most people avoid me because they think I’m crazy or a bit off, I struggle with mental health issues that affect my everyday life and I’ve had a traumatic childhood because of family issues, my mood shifts up and down and can be unpredictable at times and students at my college have called me autistic, bipolar and druggy, I know deep down that there are good people out there who would love my company and are mature and understanding but the negative people I’m surrounded by at the moment are not helping and don’t understand my struggles or my issues, to anyone else out there struggling with mental illness know that your not alone and I care about you, we can beat this together, put the past behind us and make a future for ourselves so special that we will never look back ❤️❤️
Hey bro don't let nothing get you down and you are blessed and there's people out who loves you for you. Bro it be great if we spoke to each oher and remember you're not alone. Never give up on yourself, you are a strong individual and you arw brave for sharing your story and experience in the comment section
I've become so lonely to the point where now everytime i talk to people i feel my energy gradually draining. I can feel myself feeling tired inside and this comes up with annoyed face making people think that i don't want to interact with them. But it's not true, compared to other people i need a lot of time to be able to be comfortable, to talk, to communicate. But people always give up and tbh i can't blame them. They can't talk to someone who is always awkward and boring. Atp in my life im convinced that im not going to make any friends. As days have passed i feel better even without friends
@manya1118 I am going through the same. I have friends but they are all casual and mostly act like they dont care about me as much as I care about them and so I am not able to share anything with them. Keeping things in your heart sucks and I know exactly how you feel like🙁🙁
I can also relate to that. The willingness to join the others is there but too many things are holding me back. It takes a lot of courage to socialize. At first I blame myself for turning my circle of friends into almost none, but acceptance is the key. People come and go. Priorities evolve. Change is envitable. What I'm focusing now is the positive side of having that peace of mind over loneliness. It is priceless. Even some of the richest people cannot buy that.
i always have the feeling, that I am the one that GIVES all the time and the people around me are just taking it, without giving anything back and it just makes me feel so empty inside
@@Lea-ov8vq I don't think it's only about compliments. It's about showing support, being there for them, genuinely listening to what they have to say, remembering small details, spending time, making effort, investing in a friendship. When you do all of that and realize it's all one sided, it really hurts.
I literally, honestly have zero friends that I talk to on a regular basis. The only friends I have are casual, I only see them in classes and we just say hi every once a month or so. That's it. I dont have any friends. :/
I understand .Its more common than you think . Personally I think it is something that is goofed up about our society today . You have a lot to offer as a friend , it's just not being seen .
I had just one friend and she was toxic.. still I tried to help her with her problems but she started to blame me for her problems :( I don't know how people can ignore what we've done for them so easily
@@dinimasharma3549 Yes. I spent years & years doing nearly everything for a bunch of people ! It seemed to just get taken for granted & they acted as if it did not matter ! So many people are messed up that way ! It's on them , not you .
Loneliness really made me hate my life there is no excitement at all, i just wanna lay on bed all day and think about my lonely life, sometimes even cry then sleep all over again.
I wish they made like a special day for introverts and lonely people to gather and make friends with each other cause only someone who is in the same situation will truly understand them and they can talk about hard times.
To everyone in the comments I’m really sorry , I’m in the exact situation. I’ve noticed so many people feel lonely these days :( or have no friends or family. If anyone is reading this I love you ❤️
Been like this for me all of high school, I’m a senior now & nothing has changed. Joined clubs & extra circulars but never felt like I belonged or wasn’t “cool” enough for my peers..
I have read through several comments here and I love how honest people are. I also feel like I am the loneliest person in the world and it is not easy to cope with this situation. I wonder why I am the one to initiate a conversation to my so called "friends", sometimes I wonder why I care so much, at other times I wonder whether I am soft-hearted. Many thanks to Lana Blakely for this very video. I believe she has helped many lives. Thank you for the community here. I deeply love you all. I wish I could get your contacts to break that feeling of loneliness. Hugs everyone. Feel loved.
I feel the same. My friend literally used me throughout school journey and i helped her selflessly later she ended everything :( said I am the cause to her problems...how do ppl forget that we've done so much for them
@@wren3346 i was trying to help that person with their problems but they took it for granted and ended everything saying I was the cause to their problems:(
I just want to be someone’s first choice, today my “friends” asked if I want to hangout but “something came up” so whatever but then I see them all hanging out on their stories I just want to feel wanted
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@@johncathy4086 if she did something like that to you, you should never want her back. It's not a healthy relationship for someone to cheat on you and constantly fight, and then later have her begging on your feet and proposing to you. Nobody should ever want that in a relationship. I hope that people who have their lover cheat on them to never want to see them again, let alone win them back, because truthfully, you should never have to "win" or "get back" that person. If they truly loved you they would never have cheated on you in the first place. Sorry, but it's the truth. Find someone worth while
Ayo same except i dont talk to my family to many issues with parents my brother ignores me and my cousins never talk to me. I got no one except my dog to talk to and i go online and i still cant make friends lmao.
The more I think about it the worse it gets. Crazy how many people I have met but never got to know and hangout with. I distract myself with music, games and hobbies which helps a lot.
As a 32 yr old grown man, you feel internally embarrassed to even look up content like this, forget about actually talking to someone about mental health. But I’m glad I came across this video and especially this comment section. I cannot describe my feelings in a single comment, but seeing that there are so many others who are sort of in a similar boat gives me that strange sense of belonging. Y’all are amazing people and I’m sure you’ll find that inner peace
Nothing to be embarrassed about it's a very common feeling beileve it or not loneliness isn't just lack of friends it's when your social needs aren't met
i hope things get better for you too. no one’s immunized from that, so don’t feel embarrassed or stupid (though i understand you for feeling like this, i feel this way often too)
... it's largely a discrepancy between met social needs and unmet social needs being actually fulfilled ... bonding skills ... mine is clinical due to prolonged state of isolation due to relocation and lack of strong bonds ... and poorly understood ... you're easily confused between "lonely" and "loneliness" which are not the same ...
It feels the worst when you are surrounded by alot of people but still feel alone. It feels like only I am trying to converse and keep the relationship with people around me, and they aren't interested in reciprocating the same. For a long time I have struggled to deal with this... Only recently I have come to terms with it... I am much happier now. I have learnt to make peace with my lonliness🌸
I haven't had friends in years...I'm 20 and all the other girls around me are focused on men when all i want is a true friend...a ride or die a bestie and im watching the years go by as i get more and more socially awkward being so alone all the time and live with the fact that the best years of my life are flying by being helplessly lonely... I'm not yet interested in a romantic relationship and i know it's weird considering my age but i can't help it...i just want to feel alive and have fun
I feel you I would do anything for my girlfriends, I always take care of them But when I feel lonely no one is there for me, they are just saying that they care for me, it's diffrent Even when I need them, they prefer to stay with their bfs
Sitting down with a good friend or even a stranger and having a conversation that dives beneath the surface is probably the most under-rated but most valuable exchange in our lives.
I’ve been scrolling through hashtags, google, and other RUclips videos trying to see if I wasn’t the only one feeling this way. I felt even more alone and like an alien to this world. Thank you for this video and these comments really helping me :)
I have it worse. I Think. Though a lot of people comment how lonely they are, they mostly have a love life/family. I never had any friends or a girlfriend. People always rejected me, from a friendship point and romantic. Today I am 30 years old and always alone in my appartment. Whats the fucking point of this?
Hello i hope things have picked up for you, its interesting that there are other people out there feeling the same way. Its just strange that we can often feel like its only happening to us.
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 The point is the hope for a better tomorrow and even the slightest chance of having a meaningful connection with someone in the future. Never forget that!
I think this is the first-ever RUclips video that I am commenting on in the past 7-8 years. A big heart to you from me who really wanted to watch something like this to give me some comfort in this lonely phase of life. Thank you!
I have friends, but I don't really feel them like actual "friends". It's really painful not sincerely loving your close friends, it makes me feel constant loneliness. I at least hope that some day I will find those people I will actually consider friends..
In my case, I feel like I'm being used, people only need me to like, help them in classes and homework and stuff, but if I reach out to them, they'll step away. I know they're not here for me. I have no one to talk to. I wanna share things, but I'm not comfortable with anyone around. Still, when I find someone who actually cares about me, when they do something sweet, I don't know how to retribute, since I spent most of my life "on my own", and I get scared of losing them. That's why 100% of my friendships are "fake" at some point.
This comment section is awesome, they all just kind of read my thoughts and I’m so glad others feel like this. I only wish there were others I knew felt like this. This is me.
Same, I have internet friends because I don’t have any in real life, but I don’t feel connected at all to anyone...and I’m the type of person who doesn’t talk and is dry at texting..ugh I’m sooo lame..and the friends that I have..have other ones so I rarely ever talk to them. Life sucks.
I know what you meann. I don't see my 'friends' outside of school and they all love kpop. which is fine but I don't and its sometimes all they talk about.
When people in their mid twenties still value themselves based on how many friends they have and laugh at others or even at their "friends" for having fewer friends than temselves. Pathetic
@@officialbismah same, so they always make fun of me, i mean i don't want them to talk about kpop, i never say anything about it too. But just seeing a photo of kpop group in my phone is enough for them 🙄
Well.. at least you have friends (im assuming) I'm not going to see mine for at least another year. This school year I'm going to be completely alone and I'm so anxious
I've just had the worst day of my week, exactly because of feeling extremely lonely. I have friends, but still I feel no one is a close friend....that's painful. I just want someone to connect with, I want someone that makes me feel I'm genuinely close to them
Don't chase popularity or recognition. Once you be yourself you will be in the right crowd as the people will want you for you unless they are shallow like alot of ppl. In short be yourself and find people with substance
I thought I would be the popular kid liked by everyone, but.....people just forgot about me. My mom thinks I talk to my friends all day on my phone but that's not what happens. I don't have anyone to talk to, I just distract myself with my phone and the internet. I talk to myself, and I have imaginary friends. It sounds pathetic but it makes me feel better that atleast they are there for me, even if they are not real.
Im grateful that people are vulnerable. I feel that sometimes it’s easier for me to be alone than around others I can’t connect to. It makes me question my worth. I know I’m not meant to connect with everyone and that’s ok. Still hard. I feel like acceptance of loneliness at least is a stepping stone. I ignored it for a long time. Things don’t last forever. I know that. Everyone is worthy and deserving. Of love, friends, self love, and connection. Sending hugs to anyone who is struggling.💛
I'm like an ambivert who's more towards introversion, so it's like I've always wanted to have a lot of friends and be outgoing as possible but no matter how hard I tried I could never stay connected with my friends and they just ended up fading away from me or just leaving me.
I think it makes me even more sad knowing all of those people that think just like me will never be friends with me lol.... a true friend is all I'm looking for
"Sending so much love to everyone who feels like they’re never chosen as the best friend, as the partner, as the favorite. sending love to all of you who have been treated and felt like second best. sending love to all of you who have felt rejected and unwanted. to all of you who have had to try really hard to fit in because you felt like you never will. you are so loved. you will be seen and heard by the right people. you can trust that you are valuable and not defined by other people’s perceptions of you. if someone doesn’t see your worth, it doesn’t mean it isn’t there."
im always the third friend , you know? my whole life, whenever i was in a group of friends with 3 people, it was always A and B , then there was c (me).
Then you are with wrong people mate. dont settle with wrong just because you can be alone. Be yourself , express your true self and atlast you'll find someone who's first choice will be you..
Aww that’s so sad, I feel like that sometimes aswell but not anymore , you have to make a lot of effort and talk more that’s what people like, don’t just be the quite one
@@gabrielle2003 :( honestly it's just how it is sometimes you know? And now I'm stuck in a friendship group which I am uncomfortable in , but I can't get out because they are all in my classes. I'm just hoping university will be better ☹️
@@HarryStyles_01 I feel like I replied to you but I don't think it sent... Thank you ,that means a lot💘 Maybe one day I'll be able to find someone who I'll be first choice to , but for now, I'm trying to focus on myself, being okay with my own company and overall loving myself you know?
I’m home ever day by myself. Doing the same day every day. I get up. Eat clean the house and lay around waiting for the day to be over just to get up do it all again. It’s been going on for 2 months now and I feel so trapped and brain washes and useless
@@l7rb do some extracurricular activities, it honestly helps, like bycling or join a club... even travel and find new places in your own city and go by yourself or with someone else
I am so happy you wrote this comment. This is exactly how I feel. I am happy that I am not the only one that currently isn’t happy with the same boring routine.
I’m still young but I want to spend time enjoying my life with friends. I’ve tried to make friends, but I’ve had a different past than most people and that’s what makes it hard to connect, I also have zero confidence, I wasn’t even going to post this comment. But I want to put myself out there, it’s just that I’m afraid of people judging me :(
I know how you’re feeling i really want to enjoy the rest of high school but I feel like I don’t have any connection with my friends and I don’t have any confidence so I don’t make new friends quarantine isn’t helping either none of my friends have reached out to me I’m always first to contact
I have it worse. I Think. Though a lot of people comment how lonely they are, they mostly have a love life/family. I never had any friends or a girlfriend. People always rejected me, from a friendship point and romantic. Today I am 30 years old and always alone in my appartment. Whats the fucking point of this?
I felt that way growing up. I was taught that what people thought about me was more important than my emotional well being. So, I spent so much energy getting people to like me. I ended up holding on to toxic people which just left me feeling lonelier. Know that you are enough just as you are. Acceptance and compassion for yourself are the most important things and are precursors to self confidence. Have patience with yourself and learn accept and learn from your mistakes. When you are true to and are there for yourself, you can find the truest connection to others. Focus first on your relationship with yourself, let those who truly accept you in, and don't hold on to those who only want you there to serve their own needs.
Worst thing, when you have to remind yourself again, that there is nobody you can call to spend time together because you aren‘t someones choice. Everything else is more important.
I came here tonight after stopping myself from taking anymore pills, lying in bed hysterically crying because of how lonely I feel. I am someone who will stop what I’m doing to help someone, even when I feel so low I never mention how I’m feeling and focus solely on them. To my friends and family I am the strong one who’s always laughing and has good advice. No one ever asks how I am. I struggle every day feeling like I have no one close to talk to. Whenever I’ve spoken up in the past it’s been shrugged off. How is this fair? Why should good people have to feel this way? What is the way out? This is the only video I have came across where I have took away new information and coping mechanisms. Thank you so much😊
Also can’t believe how many relatable comments there are. What a lovely community this is. So refreshing to see with all the online hate that usually occurs.
Whenever you will feel alone just remember that there are 7 billion people on this planet and that you might go through the same thing every day with them and you will definately feel better:)))
you describe me completely! Loneliness make me hate so much my life and myself. I also make a video to tell the worst aspects of loneliness so no one feels alone in this fight!
Few people are so lucky. They are blessed with everything in life good looks, good friends, they are talented and what not.. and when you see such people you automatically lose the confidence in yourself… you feel so lonely even though there are people around you. Sometimes life is so unfair to some of us..
Please keep in mind that everyone's experience is different. There's no right or wrong way to feel lonely. If you feel lonely, you are lonely. And that's okay. Would love to read about your experience and feel free to share some tips. Hope you enjoyed the video.
This video came right at the moment when I needed the most
Amazing video
I m not lonely.. I m just self-partnered 😁
Your videos always clear my head and make me cheerful! Thank you so much for doing these videos.
I liked your video👍👍. In my case I was always accompanied by my classmates but with the passage of time, although I was with them, I felt that I did not exist or was taken into account in the same way as my other friends, that was because I was different as they were (I have a different way of expressing myself or thinking than normal people) and that's why they started to get away from me, that made me feel like I was alone in life, I felt I had to act and speak just like them to be accepted and deny myself or I would always be alone.
For me, loneliness is when for once, I want to be around people and then I realize that there’s nobody to be around
Could you find someone who share the same hobby as you do?｡◕ v ◕｡
Omg I relate to this so badly 💔💔
I feel you.
I feel that too
There there ❤️ you'll get through
I get depressed when I see everyone having the best time with their friends and I'm just staying here doing nothing. Everyday I wake up and I don't even have a message. Its just horrible.
same ..
Hey sera, do you have any hobby you wanna explore? Maybe you don't share the same value as those people? I'm sorry that you feel depressed.
Same😢
Totally relatable 😔💜
I'm so sorry 💔 I hope things get better, I have same situation and it hurts a lot 😞
Hugs for everyone who feels alone.
Been that long sence had hug I given up ever being happy I try my best I was nice with my lady friend s. My problems only ever meant one nice lady in my life she die the other use me and dominant me I just can't win. I have given up trying love. Hug would be nice or even friend but seem to much ask for. Must be destiny be on my own. Give any thing be happy and get hug . It been nearly year on my own then break my cruse I meant a women in lockdown by chance we got on well but only texs me she would t speak on phone I except that. Then kept saying wanted me have dinner coffee I thought that nice . But every time ranger meet she never came . Didt Tex me. Only heard from her late that day after 10 night. Allway had excuse . Then one day ask me do her fav and lent her money she said Def give you back like fool did and never got it back . It got strage she wanted laptop computers for college and other stuff . She only wanted me when wanted things of me. I didt buy her that stuff . So I gave her up it kill me do that . If did hug me just once wood took that or even kiss once wild. You see now how hard it is me. You have nice day. Mica.
Thanks. The feeling is slowly killing me. I don't know how to overcome this😔
@@sreenathgs6422 do you have any menlth health problems like me like axtiety dresspression . At min the lockdown is spolie me I can't mixed what might help you if when we get back to normal. You can get referral of doctor and he sent you to day center and different ones they have keyworker like support worker. And get you classes and groups so don't feel alone . So when on your own feel down like do they come out to see you. See if they can help you. That my problems at min not mixed any one and it hurts. I am here to listen I can try cheer you up. Me been on my own now for 10 monlth. And live on my own 16 year in my flat . Me had lot of bad luck. Lost my mum of late and lost dear lady friend to. Cover 19. I don't no if wanted here my story it bit sad. Best advice give you love. You dresve be happy your not on your own I understand how you feel I have been they love.
@@sreenathgs6422 if need get out what upsetting you I am here to listen .
ty hugs for u too
People are lucky to get friends to spend the time with to share their feelings ,thoughts. Feel so lonely sometimes
It's okay you are not alone ❤️ And one day you will find true friends too. So don't worry enjoy your life❤️ BTW are you from India
This comment sums up
Hey if you NEED a friend,I'm always here ,a fellow loner. I'm ready to hear your story,talk anytime.
Hi
I feel this way too eyes watering now bcs I feel this sooooooo strongly
I don’t have friends, I just know people tbh.
Me too, in a way quarantine helped me realise that. feelsbadman :/
I feel the same way...
Its strange how I literally know a lot ( I mean a lot ) of people but no one knows me. Even the people who know me doesn’t know I exist. I’ve tried to text people and start a conversation with them but every time it feels like I’m forcing the relationship. Now I don’t even reply to any texts, I’ve switched my phone number so that no one calls me. The only reason I’m using social media is because of my online classes.
@@z.anaser woah I'm the same. There's so many people around us yet no one clicks or understands how you work
@@z.anaser I have some friends, they only contact me when they need me for something :(
i wake up everyday with 0 notifications. having no friends is heart breaking man
Get closer to ALLAH you will never feel lonely
I LOVE YOUR USERNAME
Same, we can be friends
I want to share. About Jesus.
John 6: 35 And Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst.
Philippians 4: 8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things. 9 The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He spoke of the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 21: 24 This is the disciple who is testifying to these things and wrote these things, and we know that his testimony is true. 25 And there are also many other things which Jesus did, which if they *were written in detail, I suppose that even the world itself *would not contain the books that *would be written.
ruclips.net/video/NPoQIVi4T1k/видео.html
Where can one start reading The Bible?
In The New Testament: The Gospel of John and/or Acts.
@@fullhd8721 i’m a religious person and i pray all the time but it just gets worse
my eyes teary while watching the comments section, no one deserve to be left alone.
I know, I feel so bad and want to be friends with everyone:(
Maybe everyone feels scared to open and to reach out.
Inanimatemist be my friend pls i have no one
@@TheLibraryOfEmotions that me hurt more talk about it have menlth health problems but did give heart soul into my relilship women wast nough woodt be they you listen my pain . I want reach out . I try best I been nice people but still get hurt I don't no ware going wrong. Maybe should nasty but that not me. Take care .
@@Riley015z not alone often say to myself why . I cry lot. It painful. Hope you find happiness . Take care. Woodt be fare me to broad you with my problems.
This loneliness is eating me up from inside. Came here after crying, don’t want to live like this anymore!😭
I get it
@@kelseymathias3881 it's okey
I obviously don't know you but stay strong. I too am going through a very tough time myself. But let's hope Time will change and Nothing is constant in this world including sadness .
I am sorry you were feeling that way. I hope you are better now. If I may make a suggestion, see if you can find something near you where you can volunteer or help out.
hey girl! wanna talk?
I want a friendgroup like in the movies, I want to be able to send a text in a groupchat and then have them come over, I want to feel included. But I’m just sitting here, in my room, alone, every day
edit: 1 year later and I can proudly say that I now have the best friends ever!!!! please everyone, just know that your people will come! just keep on smiling, everyone could be your new best friend!!
Literally me everyday ur not alone
Makes me wanna die
@@smurk6951 :)) We just gotta remember that there are better times to come! We will get people in our lives that we can do these with!! right now just isn’t the right time yet
You're supporter here...
I don't think that really exists. And if it does its rare. Smfh
Sometimes, I wish my birthday never came, because usually for all my friends' birthdays, there would be a group of friends who get together and organise a surprise party or something for them, but no one does it for me. I try to console myself saying they must've forgot, but it hurts, because I always try to make their birthdays special in my own little way, but no one else does it for me
Omg I perfectly relate. I always cry and feel awful on my birthday because no one remembered or wished me a good birthday, but on their birthdays I get them something...
You are not alone because I am in same situation with you.
Hey, Happy birthday to you in advance!😊😊
Really I cry my whole bday Month becoz no one cares n no one remembers I wish I don't exist
The last time I celebrated my birthday and received a present was when I was 8-9.
..I feel you
reading the comments really made me sad, so many people feeling alone, including myself. depression and anxiety suck.
+1
I know. It sucks. I hope the pain eases
I wish we could all meet each other and silently hang out hahaha
@@cparada106 yeah that would be great
I had to press Like because then I became Nr 666.
Sorry.
I skipped school because I’m crying from extreme loneliness. The reason I gave my classmates was that I missed by mom. It’s the first time I’ve felt this. I’ve always been alone but seeing other people going in pairs with their friends, have someone to accompany you at all times and not having someone to talk to has made me reach my limits. Hope this is the last time I pity myself for being alone
Relatable.....hope u will get good friends as time passes
Relatable...lots of love to you! You are worthy and lovable 💞
So am I 🥹
Your feelings are temporary and it's ok to feel this way practice embracing the feeling and embracing the feeling. and there's no need to feel guilty. Your going to make amazing friends and for now it's important to focus and make yourself a priority casue you matter.
I’m going through the same. Don’t worry you’re not alone.
The worst part about loneliness is getting comfortable with it. Deep inside you want to socialize and have friends but at the same time you feel comfortable alone all day.
Man... said right.. It's kind of wierd..but it's true
totally me
Yeah whenever I want to go out and talk with people anxiety kicks in and I go back to my room
i dont know why but im alone and i dont really care. ive had some toxic friends that i got rid of and im feeling much better even when im alone. i feel like im at ease
@@kpotato2617 so relatable!! Infact its worse when others put you to blame because you are the one leaving
I feel like I'm in this sort of paradox where I want to socialize and hang out with a lot of friends, but quickly my social battery gets empty and I need to be alone. And then if I'm just a bit tiny more alone than I needed, I start feeling lonely again. It's weird. I also can barely find people who actually enjoy deep, meaningful conversations. But maybe I'm just not looking in the right places.
Anyone feels the same?
Oh yea. I can relate. I've been on a journey, and interested in many things. I don't meet too many that want to get real about some things. Come see a silly old man dealing with it. Stay strong.
Yeah, that's me guurl, I feel yaa :/
Same here :(
FUCK you described it perfectly! It fucking sucks. I feel the struggle in my head, heart, soul..it hurts so bad. I don't know which way to turn when it all seems to lead to disappointment and further heartbreak. Because I just don't fucking fit in anywhere. My interests aren't like others. I'm too monogamous for most people. It just sucks dude. My life is going to be filled with loneliness unless something kills us all soon lol. My pessimistic side helps deal with it. 😅
Omg you just spoke my mind girl. I feel ditto.
Feeling alone in a room full of people is when i realized i don’t matter to anyone. I don’t know why because i’m always there for others but no one is here for me
@@brandon556 dead inside. you?
you describe me completely! Loneliness make me hate so much my life and myself. I also make a video to tell the worst aspects of loneliness so no one feels alone in this fight!
I’m here for you
Oh dude u put how I feel perfectly into words.
I feel panicked and lonely in school hallways. So many people. Laughing together in grps.. they look so happy.
The worst part of being isolated is that you may never have a hug or a conversation again.
I was looking to see if others where going through the same & found this page .
I’ve been on my own all my life and yes most of the time you can handle it but sometimes you can’t - it’s a killer.
I wanna be friends ❤️❤️❤️
@Manya111 I thought so too
He must have made lotta friends by now😊
Oh my gosh I. So lonely
@@Alexandraalexxaaa I am lonely and creative and full of ideas i hope you a relate
@@blaketipewan4030
I go and sit In McDonald’s just too see and hear people talking .
I just don't want to spend the best years of my life alone
Damn bruh, this brought me to tears because i think about what you just said constantly. There’s not a day that goes by that I wish I wasn’t spending my best years of my life alone.
same and that's all i can think about, i feel so alone every single day
Nate_the_Great83 Rainy clouds would you want to create a discord to talk every week/other week? Just a thought to create a place to talk
Same.. I feel like I’ve already wasted all my 20’s. Turning 30 soon and I feel so lonely. My bf left me 4 months ago. And everything just went downhill again and it’s the worst feeling.. it’s a beautiful Saturday and I’m in bed wishing I was out
When your going to school it is not the best years of your life smh. Ya need to stop spreading myths.
I do have friends but i'm always the second choice. Everyone seems to have that one closest friend whom they feel comfortable telling every secret or whatsoever. Even when i'm surrounded by others, i feel like i'm not wanted and like i dont belong there at all
Same, I don’t think I’ve ever really had a best friend, and if I did, it didn’t last :/
This is me
wanna be friends ?😟
same :(
So relatable :) people say college friends are the best but for me they definately weren't maybe I chose the wrong one
In the most connected time in our history, people are at their loneliest.
its crazy to read this. its so eerie to me how true this is.
Yuppppp.... Alassss... *sigh*..
We do it to ourselves.
... it's largely a discrepancy between met social needs and unmet social needs being actually fulfilled ... bonding skills ... mine is clinical due to prolonged state of isolation due to relocation and lack of strong bonds ... and poorly understood ... you're easily confused between "lonely" and "loneliness" which are not the same ... there is no scientific evidence religion mitigates loneliness ... but there is evidence it's a condition that shortens life and risks cancer like smoking ...
Yep, this is the new millennial digital Tech Society. Me too... And feminism! Low birth output... cuz no relationships! Everybody it's like some sort of snowflakes walking around! They have sex robots 4 10 grand! Now they want to get rid of trump... And put some democrat snowflake who will continue making things worse for the masculine side! Trump can try to change some of this. We are all going to hell in a handbasket!!
There's absolutely no one to talk to no family no friends , it feels like you're having a war that no one knows anything about but you.
Hi , how r u doing?
@@nilofersafriya8738Hi will you be my friend
this comment section feels like home, im happy im not the only one and there’s actually people who relate to me. it sucks being no ones favorite person.
Yes me, too!
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Where are you from?
This comment feels 💯
@@davidlafleche1142 netherlands
Watching your "friends" have a good time without you on their Story
Wow I felt that on another level
Bastards
felt
I'm always alone and I'm getting sick of it.
Me rn:(
Having no friends hits different on the weekend 😭
Yes! It hits bad i know the feeling. Also having two or three friends that never make the first move to plan something with you but with others. It's awful!
@benjamin ramsey It's truly terrible that people feel like that. What's the point i don't get it...
Lol forreal
I do have friends they are all busy
Kell K I don’t want to be negative but they are not that busy.. trust me people make time for what they truly want 🙁
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone."
- Robin Williams
Felt Experience every possible way
True ...even if u have frds u can be alone
This is very true. I feel so lonely now, but nothing is as lonely as living with someone who is supposed to be your partner and never wants to spend time with you.
Even if someone is somehow spending time with you still they don't share that nice positive feel which can make other feel toghter
Happens in relationships
Every day goes by experiencing exactly this
with quarantine i haven’t really talked to anyone so i don’t even know if i have any friends honestly
Same here 🥺🤧
I would like to be your friend too... If you want too...😊
we can be friends
:( same here
I have hanged out once with someone
“The worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with yourself.”
― Mark Twain
That hit me harder 😢
I am uncomfortable with myself cuz i am alone, how i am bad and boring guy that i csnt have anyone to spoke too
@@michaj9286 same
Im too comfortable with myself and viciously uncomfortable around others…
luckily im not....I might be in case of rarely to others...but not even with me..I Love myself and that's relief..having other ideas and my mind with me that's enough weapons
My goal in life is to find someone that considers me their first choice
Everyone deserves it tbh. Everyone is special and deserves to be loved
Consider yourself your first choice and your reality will match how you feel inside. You’ll attract it.
Yes!!!! It's been so hard for me to always get pushed aside and never thought of first. I really just need someone who cares.
Same 🥺
@@lucithomas9666 what happened you love not nice people treat use bad it very lonely did you read my story . Still hurts . Even harder can't mixed anyone . At min
The worst Loneliness is try to please others and then coming back to the reality that you couldn’t please everyone…😢
To me rejection is helpful it tells you whether you and another person are compatible you need to stop seeking approval from others
Hey
@@jyotipanwar1698 how are you doing ☺️
@@migueldasilva8772 m doing good...
What about u ?
@@jyotipanwar1698 all good thank you I sent you a message on instagram😊
Ever since quarantine started, I've realised im always the one who has to text first with people. I just feel like im not wanted. It sucks :/
❤you matter
Same...they probably feel the same way. But I doubt that for me
Exactly and they won’t respond for so long even though they’re so active on social media and if they did, they would reply with one word.. oh and if I don’t text first, literally no one will ask about me, but they would still interact with each other.. I usually don’t care but I keep getting ignored, it hurts especially since we were “friends” for years.. it hurts, but I’m trying to learn new things and it’s getting my mood up.. and I want you to know that you’re beautiful inside out and they’re the ones who are losing a gem, so don’t think about them too much!
Yes.. thats what makes me give up on “friends” because its just feels one sided and I dont deal with BS.. life is to short.
I feel you...
Don’t forget: *It’s better to be alone, than in a wrong company.*
Yes I agree... But still sucks being alone for a very long time
i do agree for the most part, a wrong company often makes you suffer more. but there are times when you might need a bit of conversation, even with wrong people.
why is this the most liked comment? atm
I enjoy being alone (even if still around people), even if it's for a long time.
disagree
You know when people say , “cut them off because they are toxic for you.” I don’t think they realize that those are your only “friends”. 💩
true
Most people are not perfect, if you don't actually value your "friends", just don't have too much expectation with them if you are going to stay with them because you know it's not a deep connections.｡◕ v ◕｡
@@TheLibraryOfEmotions A normal person who is not perfect is different from a toxic person. A toxic person purposely chooses to act that way with you. It’s hard to let go of them because you feel like it’s better to be with them rather than be lonely. I have had friends like that. But luckily now I have let go of them but it can be very hard to move on when your not very social.
@@Ksjsj408 It must be really hard for you to move on. I feel happy for you.
@@Ksjsj408 yea I understand most of my friends are not toxic but just that they have better friends than me so if I have to be with them I just hope they don't have any other plans
From my experience, I believe that over a period of time, constantly being lonely is not just what you feel, it’s what you become.
I totally agree...I spend most of my time on my own now other than when I'm at work..its getting harder to start up a conversation with people..its so much easier to text..
yeah it's like a habit, it doesn't really bother me anymore though, at least not on small scales, but the scale gets bigger and you get used to it more
Exactly
this quarantine made me realize that i don't have friends. im an introvert,,and i have been very independent in that area, ialways tell myself that im fine, that i love my own company, and yes i do, but... it's just..sad lately.
the amount of times i refresh my phone messages everyday to see if anyone wanna talk, is embarrassing.
i forgot what happiness feel like.
I'll talk to you Alyanna, do you have an email, snap, etc?
i can totally relate right now. i so miss the hugs from loving people
You are right...i am also feeling this...and i also want to talk bt nobady is here... When message notification come i think it's my frndz msz bt it's not... thats Worst feeling.....i really want to talk...
Hi! I feel exactly the same.... I am pretty young, I know (13), but maybe wanna talk on discord? My username is koorikloom#8610.
Omg i relate to this so much. During this quarantine, everything that i used to enjoy seems to slowly became « boring ». I forgot what real happiness feels like. Hugs ❤️
Sometimes loneliness turns into anxiety when u have no one to talk about your emotions
That's me
True. Like I have a sister and a couple “friends” and I feel like I can talk to them about everything. It’s just loneliness does creep in when everyone is always busy and the only thing that you have to look forward to is RUclips...
Journaling has been a godsend for me ever since childhood
my grandma passed away today and i just realized how freaking lonely i am because i have to go through this all by myself
Yess and its sucks😭
Moved to another country, being an introvert I am having a really hard time to make new friends, afraid of people but wanting to connect with people at the same time. Living thousand miles away from family and friends, feel like drifted apart from them and no one can understand me anymore.
Take a deep breath, and then go with a broad smile to your place of work or study, and do not be careful and afraid of mistakes and the bad first impression. If we do not make a mistake, how will we learn? There are relationships that are destined to fail and relationships that live for a long time, so decide whether you will go through an experience in which you will live failure and success, or will you remain afraid and regretful? To be frank with you, I was wary of all kinds of relationships and I was afraid in my last year at school because I had just moved, so I did not talk to anyone because I was afraid of what they would say about me or what their impression of me would be, and here I am, regretting that I did not take the first step.
@@athen3 Thank you for the reply! It resonates with me that being too careful and afraid of making mistakes part. I am taking baby steps to break through, I hope you are too :)
Me too.
@@athen3 aatheena?
Hi! I'm in the same situation, even though I've been 6 years in my new country. Where did you move to? How old are you?
It’s crazy how some ppl online understands u more than ur “ friends “ who you’ve been with for years don’t understands u like them
It's also crazy when
they make you feel unique loved and everything then out of a sudden they jutst block you for no reason :)
I want to share. About Jesus.
John 6: 35 And Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst.
Philippians 4: 8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things. 9 The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He spoke of the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 21: 24 This is the disciple who is testifying to these things and wrote these things, and we know that his testimony is true. 25 And there are also many other things which Jesus did, which if they *were written in detail, I suppose that even the world itself *would not contain the books that *would be written.
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Where can one start reading The Bible?
In The New Testament: The Gospel of John and/or Acts.
IKR
@@asyayldz2852 yeaah it kinda hurts and you just feel worse after that
ever know the feeling of wanting to talk to someone, you don't even care who, but no one will ever listen or make u feel like they are even listening to you. quarantine has been real tough time.
@Pusteblume good insight. Weigh that carefully as one of those possibilities is usually the result.
Write it to me in comments
That's why I spend alot of time in social media
It's weird. I like being alone: spending time reading, gaming, running, drawing or such things. But when I see people on social media having fun on big parties, spending time with friends everyday and having a huge social life I still feel sad and lonely. That I'm never there where the "fun stuff" is. Just had to delete instagram for a while to find the good balance between spending quality time with both myself and the few friends I have. Spending more time reflecting on myself without social media really helped me to overcome that feeling of loniless.
Rozemarijn I felt that way too, but I soon realised after joining in these activities that it may look like the best night ever, but in reality it was pretty meh.
My thoughts precisely
@@teacherista8319 for real!
Exactly
Me 2
Nothing worse than always being there for people when they need you and them never showing up when you need them
Fr though:(
Exactly
Ever have a group of friends that make you feel more lonely when you are around them?
Took me a while to learn that surrounding yourself with the wrong people can make you feel more alone than being actually alone.
So how do u feel right now,are you still feel like alone?
this is the worst
Simply just there for numbers, I'm in that current situation right now. Since I only have a friend group if I break the connection I'll have no one, don't know what decision to do at this point
i realised that and just distanced myself from it, but now im equally alone, however i just feel emptiness and loneliness, nothing more like before
@@Lhanie exactly my case too….i’m afraid of breaking out cause that’s again going to lead me to loneliness
when the teacher says:
get into pairs everyone
I'm the only one who wants the teacher to pick the
Partners
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Hey Peter. Hope you enjoy this song :)
Omg sameeeeeeeeeeee
Same ")
Me
This is me
I feel lonely, i have friends but sometimes i feel like i dont fit. I am scared of talking to people and I’m scared of telling them how i feel. I am still very young and I feel like my life is boring. There are so many things I want to try but I’m scared to. Every night before sleeping, I cry because I remember about how lonely I am.
You are lucky you are knowing this when young ! ! You can start by trying to read the bible & know God . Don't be upset ! This is a start . Then confide in God at night , get strength to find good people to talk to .Good people , not people that will get you in trouble . Wish you well
I feel the same, you aren’t alone. Maybe we can be friends. :)
Relatable:(
@@tati7526 I feel the same :(
I know the feeling. The good news is you are still young, and you have it within you to turn it around. Some people go their entire lives without admitting this to themselves, even more people go their entire lives without doing anything about it. The fact that you're watching this video proves you aren't one of them. My best advice is to ask yourself if the reason you're afraid to speak up really is that you're scared, or if it's that you just don't feel comfortable around those specific people. Not everybody is for us, and that's okay and normal. My other advice is to realize that maybe the reason you are afraid of opening up to others is because you are afraid of rejection, or afraid that whatever you have to say doesn't matter. It does and by not speaking up you might be preventing somebody from hearing something that they really need to hear, even if it seems like it doesn't matter. If somebody rejects what you have to say, then at least you'll know in your heart that you tried and instead of being hard on yourself, just realize that person isn't really somebody you click with. I hope this helps :)
It’s been 6 years since I last hung out with anyone. After graduating from high school I started losing touch with my friends little by little. I graduated from college almost a year ago and although I met a lot of nice people I couldn’t make any new friends or stay in touch with them and that became much harder during the pandemic. There are so many conversations I’d like to have, so many things I want to say but I don’t have anyone to talk to. I’ve been applying to jobs for 6 months and so far I haven’t gotten hired. I wanna have my own money so I can buy my own stuff and don’t have to ask anyone for anything. I have the desire of reuniting with my closest friends, catch up with them and have fun like I used to when I was a teenager. However, I learned during the pandemic that I have to let go of people who at some point I got along with but now things changed. I only miss my friends who only treated me right the whole time and always respected my boundaries.
This is legit me in college right now ..I'm literally joining an institution after covid..n I don't know wht to expect .. socializing drains my energy
I just want a genuine friend. Someone who wouldn't make me feel inferior and pressure me to fit in with everyone. Just someone who genuinely wants to be friends with me. I'm just exhausted trying to fit in and trying to pretend like someone I'm not.
hi ❤ I want a genuine friend too.. 100% relate, I'm sick of pretending to be the person everyone wants to be friends with. I just wanna be me. tell me something about yourself.. im 14, my name is Pavi 😊 why can't we just create a friendgroup, all the lonely ones?
@@coco-and-co Hi! I am Manashvi. I am 14. Can we be friends?... No one is there for me. I have to just pretend to fit in in the group. I am just tired of pretending of being someone else whom I am not! Just want a genuine friend ❣️who respect my feeling and boundaries.... A type of friend in which befor I don't have to pretend...😔😖😖
where are you from?
Omg i relate to this a lot! I have been in a group of introverts like me, but they always left me behind cuz i didn't have similar interests like them. They only remembered me when they needed my help but the rest of the time they left me out. And now they are leaving me behind. It sucks but i hope i get over it..
I actually feel like you. Know that you are not alone in this 💓
I've noticed how much my social skills suffer when trying to have a normal interaction with another after spending so much time alone. It's tragic.
... it's largely a discrepancy between met social needs and unmet social needs being actually fulfilled ... bonding skills ... mine is clinical due to prolonged state of isolation due to relocation and lack of strong bonds ... and poorly understood ... you're easily confused between "lonely" and "loneliness" which are not the same ... there is no scientific evidence religion mitigates loneliness ... but there is evidence it's a condition that shortens life and risks cancer like smoking ...
Crisfilms bro 2020 better treat us better than 2019 did
Same here
THIS ! Thank you for putting words behind this reality O__O !!
Crisfilms that’s what happens to me I’m not funny anymore than I used too and one of my friends aren’t that close with me anymore.
i have “friends” but they’re basically school friends who i don’t see out of school and we only keep it touch by sending random pictures on snapchat. i just don’t feel like i really connect with any of them and i’m pretty sure they don’t know the real me at all... only what i let them see cuz i don’t want to be open to people i don’t feel connected with if that makes sense
I know exactly what you mean. I was the same way in school.
^ struggled in school too kinda
Yeah i also only have school friends
felt this one heavy
i hope each and everyone of us find our people don’t give up ! :))
8 billion people in the world, but still lonely
Crazy
its sad
that's so fucking depressing to think about
yepp😣🥺
you have 8 billion chances. how is it possible to die alone, then?
Nothing more lonely than needing someone, needing to talk and needing to hug, but NO ONE is there, just a wall and a world full of people that don't care about what this stranger is going through
I m alone 👧👧❤❤😍🌷🌷🌷
Fr
You are describing exactly what I'm going through right now. You are not alone!
I feel the same. I will pray for comfort for you and those who replied to you here
Yess
Fun Fact: They are only friendly when they need you, I don't have real friends at all since I was born.
That’s true. I have “friends”. At school, I sit with them (because I don’t have anyone else, and I don’t like sitting alone - it’s just embarrassing and I’ve been having to do that all my primary school life, and I’m in year 7 right now, almost year 8). Those “friends” I sit with rarely really talk to me. They just ignore my existence and find someone else to talk to within the group. BUT, unless, if it’s something important, they will come up to me and be friendly and ask me.
Ok but honestly, to be clear, those “friends” I sit with, there are about 6-8 in total, only 1-2 of them talk to me, but that’s very occasional. Otherwise they just shove me out of the way.
Maybe they are real friends but they are not perfect people ｡◕ v ◕｡
Maybe you are not perfect neither
@@TheLibraryOfEmotions Well all humans are not perfect in the 1st place
i have friends but i don't need them lol you should learn how to enjoy being lonely.
I feel lonely, especially during this time when I spend my days at home. No friends who wants to talk. Every morning I wake up I feel sick of the feeling that I dont have any plans or people to talk with. I just start and end my day on the internet watching video's and I feel just tired of that. I realised how long a day is when you have nothing to do or to spend time with someone.
I wish to find someone who want to spend just as much time with me as I want with them. Having meaningful conversations and sharing each other's thoughts. Hanging out and doing fun activities. Sticking around during the bad and good times and not letting each other down. 😔
stersara wanna talk?
You literally described me 😭 you’re not alone girl x
Felt this
This is exactly how I feel, please let’s talk people
No but seriously hit me up on my insta if you ever feel like talking to someone who doesn’t have a prejudice about you @ karla_.war
first i thought my loneliness came from having bad experiences with other people, having spent my whole life bullied at school and then never being able to trust people or think they would be gentle and really care about me. that is part of it, but not the whole point. now i realize my loneliness also comes from the fact that i happen to have two rare deseases and no matter how much i try to explain how terrible and painful it is, no one will never truly know what i mean. many times i don't even feel like i belong to this earth, not recognize myself as a human being.
nor*
Oh, dear God bless you! Hugs to you and much love ❤️.
Oh wow. I relate to this so much. I’ve been bullied and torn down all my life. I understand this. I understand creating a wall of trust issues but wanting more than anything to have friends. It’s difficult. I don’t know what it’s like to have a disease but I’m praying for u. U are just as worthy if not more than worthy to have at least one good friend. Don’t ever stop. This pain feels never ending. Im not gonna sit here and tell u it gets better bc i cant say that. Idk that for sure… if i did i would be lying. Maybe it doesn’t get better but when u start loving yourself in the smallest way life loves u back. That’s a quote that’s been keeping me going. Probably the only thing on earth that’s keeping me going. Find something in ur life that u believe in
@@biancahotca3244 that means so much 🌹 thank you
@@isabelahoward i am so sorry for all pain that you've been through. i'm in tears with your words and support. i can't sag how much this saved my day, and i truly hope you can keep going and getting better. i'm sending all my kind and grateful energy to you. i'll carry your message in my heart 🌹
I've isolated myself thinking I'd feel better but when I reach out now..there's no one there..
@@igncrj hii do you have snap?
I know how you feel..
Omg same
@@umchileanywaysso9674 sorry for the late reply but nope :(
I have trouble finding someone nice
Sad thing about introverts:
Most of the time we are happy alone, but when we do need a friend, we don't have one, because we don't have connection with other people. We can't be friends with extraverts because they seem to need a company all the time, so we need to be friends with the ones like us, but other introverts are not around and probably avoiding people. Its so hard to find a friend being an introvert!
You just described my life perfectly
So true...
You described it so perfect.
@world peace needed asap I send you a big big hug! Please know that you are not alone!🙏
Also, extroverts want you to speak all the time which is not possible...
I’ve been lonely for most of my life, everyone who knows me is nice to me when they see me but never hang out with me, I assume most people avoid me because they think I’m crazy or a bit off, I struggle with mental health issues that affect my everyday life and I’ve had a traumatic childhood because of family issues, my mood shifts up and down and can be unpredictable at times and students at my college have called me autistic, bipolar and druggy, I know deep down that there are good people out there who would love my company and are mature and understanding but the negative people I’m surrounded by at the moment are not helping and don’t understand my struggles or my issues, to anyone else out there struggling with mental illness know that your not alone and I care about you, we can beat this together, put the past behind us and make a future for ourselves so special that we will never look back ❤️❤️
Oh I’m sorry :( I wish you the best 💕
I struggle with almost the same issues, and i want you to know that you're not alone. We're not alone
You are not alone and wish you well :)
Virtual 🤗
Hey bro don't let nothing get you down and you are blessed and there's people out who loves you for you. Bro it be great if we spoke to each oher and remember you're not alone. Never give up on yourself, you are a strong individual and you arw brave for sharing your story and experience in the comment section
I've become so lonely to the point where now everytime i talk to people i feel my energy gradually draining. I can feel myself feeling tired inside and this comes up with annoyed face making people think that i don't want to interact with them. But it's not true, compared to other people i need a lot of time to be able to be comfortable, to talk, to communicate. But people always give up and tbh i can't blame them. They can't talk to someone who is always awkward and boring. Atp in my life im convinced that im not going to make any friends. As days have passed i feel better even without friends
@manya1118 I am going through the same. I have friends but they are all casual and mostly act like they dont care about me as much as I care about them and so I am not able to share anything with them. Keeping things in your heart sucks and I know exactly how you feel like🙁🙁
@manya1118 You are Indian right?? I am Indian too😃😃
I can also relate to that. The willingness to join the others is there but too many things are holding me back. It takes a lot of courage to socialize. At first I blame myself for turning my circle of friends into almost none, but acceptance is the key. People come and go. Priorities evolve. Change is envitable. What I'm focusing now is the positive side of having that peace of mind over loneliness. It is priceless. Even some of the richest people cannot buy that.
i always have the feeling, that I am the one that GIVES all the time and the people around me are just taking it, without giving anything back and it just makes me feel so empty inside
Mhm.. come *hugs tight* ❤
My problem is I don't know how to GIVE, I just recieve compliments awkwardly...I have no idea how to be friendly
@@Lea-ov8vq I don't think it's only about compliments. It's about showing support, being there for them, genuinely listening to what they have to say, remembering small details, spending time, making effort, investing in a friendship. When you do all of that and realize it's all one sided, it really hurts.
@@apricot7488 Yeah I'm working on it...thanks for reminding me though, it's not that easy for me
@Coley Awakend oh my God you explained it perfectly
I literally, honestly have zero friends that I talk to on a regular basis. The only friends I have are casual, I only see them in classes and we just say hi every once a month or so. That's it. I dont have any friends. :/
Now you have a new goal to search for one ｡◕ v ◕｡
I understand .Its more common than you think . Personally I think it is something that is goofed up about
our society today . You have a lot to offer as a friend , it's just not being seen .
To see how many people are lonely breaks my heart, and not many things breaks my heart...
I had just one friend and she was toxic.. still I tried to help her with her problems but she started to blame me for her problems :( I don't know how people can ignore what we've done for them so easily
@@dinimasharma3549 Yes. I spent years & years doing nearly everything for a bunch of people ! It seemed to just get taken for granted & they acted as if it did not matter ! So many people are messed up that way ! It's on them , not you .
Loneliness really made me hate my life there is no excitement at all, i just wanna lay on bed all day and think about my lonely life, sometimes even cry then sleep all over again.
I feel the same... İ just really want to die ...
i feel you 😢
Me too :( and I'm just so sick of it anymore. I literally have no one and I have no self esteem or energy left to try.
Don't feel lonely. No one cares
Volunteer, help a senior neighbor, try a hobby, read out in public, walk on trails. Smile!
Seeing others in school having fun and enjoying with their friends make me feel so lonelyy😢
*"Instead of letting life lead you, you should be the leader of your life."* _- Lana Blakely_
Don't know what to do
Same here, for introverts it is not as easy as "Being leader of your life"
I wish they made like a special day for introverts and lonely people to gather and make friends with each other cause only someone who is in the same situation will truly understand them and they can talk about hard times.
Yes! That would be great!
OMG that's a brilliant idea i've ever heard lol
A lonely people club, That may actually work?
so true
@@yatooxx9316 yeah. i wish that could happen :(
I feel like Lana would be that friend that just knows exactly how you feel and is there for you when you need that support the most.
She looks like and has mannerisms of a girl I used to be friends with: and this gal gave the best hugs!
Lana, can we be friends?
and she is beautiful too
💪
By watching Lana’s videos, I realize that I no longer feel that lonely. 😘 🤗
To everyone in the comments I’m really sorry , I’m in the exact situation. I’ve noticed so many people feel lonely these days :( or have no friends or family.
If anyone is reading this I love you ❤️
I love you to ma frnd... Me to I have no one
@@Mshhhaaa Yus :( don’t worry , we will all be ok 🙏🏼🙏🏼💕💖
I love you too❤
Been like this for me all of high school, I’m a senior now & nothing has changed. Joined clubs & extra circulars but never felt like I belonged or wasn’t “cool” enough for my peers..
I have read through several comments here and I love how honest people are. I also feel like I am the loneliest person in the world and it is not easy to cope with this situation. I wonder why I am the one to initiate a conversation to my so called "friends", sometimes I wonder why I care so much, at other times I wonder whether I am soft-hearted. Many thanks to Lana Blakely for this very video. I believe she has helped many lives. Thank you for the community here. I deeply love you all. I wish I could get your contacts to break that feeling of loneliness. Hugs everyone. Feel loved.
❤️ To you too.
I feel the same way I have lost all my friends and people keep acting weird around me.
I feel the same way. I’m always the one to initiate hang outs with friends and it gets old
I feel the same. My friend literally used me throughout school journey and i helped her selflessly later she ended everything :( said I am the cause to her problems...how do ppl forget that we've done so much for them
Mbuthia uhoro waku? Wí mwena uriku wa kenya?
I’ve always thought it was easier for guys but of course that’s not the case.
It’s like being in a room full of people and somehow I still feel alone.
same
Because most people are boring or shallow.
That's what it's called loneliness
Me too today at my class room ..i felt i was lonely.. eventhough class was full of students 🥲🥲
I miss waking up and being happy to have that one person I get to talk to
Same
I miss them so much and yet they seem unaffected
That one person to me, she's depressed.. And i miss her so much..
@@wren3346 i was trying to help that person with their problems but they took it for granted and ended everything saying I was the cause to their problems:(
wow i am in this situation.@@dinimasharma3549
For about 4 years without friends, I was suffering from loneliness and accumulations, but I got used to this situation "don't need no body"
Same but when I watch smth like this I get sad
I'm always such a good friend and worry about others feelings, I feel lonely/sad when nobody worries about me...
same
+1
wanna be friendss
honestly same
Samee
I just want to be someone’s first choice, today my “friends” asked if I want to hangout but “something came up” so whatever but then I see them all hanging out on their stories I just want to feel wanted
Cut them off !!!
It's okay, *hugs*
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@@johncathy4086 if she did something like that to you, you should never want her back. It's not a healthy relationship for someone to cheat on you and constantly fight, and then later have her begging on your feet and proposing to you. Nobody should ever want that in a relationship. I hope that people who have their lover cheat on them to never want to see them again, let alone win them back, because truthfully, you should never have to "win" or "get back" that person. If they truly loved you they would never have cheated on you in the first place. Sorry, but it's the truth. Find someone worth while
@@joydasko5171 people change
I literally have no friends... at all. I don’t talk to anyone except for my family. It sucks having to keep everything to yourself.
I see I understand same for me but we can be friends if u like :D
Its not easy
@@moonstars_rina damn i wish, but i try to stay away from social media these days
@@ngndnd whats ur snap x
Ayo same except i dont talk to my family to many issues with parents my brother ignores me and my cousins never talk to me. I got no one except my dog to talk to and i go online and i still cant make friends lmao.
The more I think about it the worse it gets. Crazy how many people I have met but never got to know and hangout with. I distract myself with music, games and hobbies which helps a lot.
As a 32 yr old grown man, you feel internally embarrassed to even look up content like this, forget about actually talking to someone about mental health. But I’m glad I came across this video and especially this comment section. I cannot describe my feelings in a single comment, but seeing that there are so many others who are sort of in a similar boat gives me that strange sense of belonging. Y’all are amazing people and I’m sure you’ll find that inner peace
I have that same feeling as a 25 year old man
Thank you for being vulnerable! Sending support 💛
Nothing to be embarrassed about it's a very common feeling beileve it or not loneliness isn't just lack of friends it's when your social needs aren't met
i hope things get better for you too. no one’s immunized from that, so don’t feel embarrassed or stupid (though i understand you for feeling like this, i feel this way often too)
Im 23 and I feel the same.
when khalid said ''i never had someone to call my own i'm so used to sharing..'' i really felt that
I feel you, luckily you could share more stuffs on the internet now ｡◕ v ◕｡
Am alone
I need gf ❤❤😍😍🌷
Girl same
Being alone is OK, being isolated is painful.
When they need something out of you, they will contact you.
... it's largely a discrepancy between met social needs and unmet social needs being actually fulfilled ... bonding skills ... mine is clinical due to prolonged state of isolation due to relocation and lack of strong bonds ... and poorly understood ... you're easily confused between "lonely" and "loneliness" which are not the same ...
nypala what if some one who makes you in isolation
It feels the worst when you are surrounded by alot of people but still feel alone. It feels like only I am trying to converse and keep the relationship with people around me, and they aren't interested in reciprocating the same. For a long time I have struggled to deal with this... Only recently I have come to terms with it... I am much happier now. I have learnt to make peace with my lonliness🌸
I haven't had friends in years...I'm 20 and all the other girls around me are focused on men when all i want is a true friend...a ride or die a bestie and im watching the years go by as i get more and more socially awkward being so alone all the time and live with the fact that the best years of my life are flying by being helplessly lonely... I'm not yet interested in a romantic relationship and i know it's weird considering my age but i can't help it...i just want to feel alive and have fun
I totally understand you, same thing with me 🙋♀️
Just like me
Me too I just need a true friend.
I feel you
I would do anything for my girlfriends, I always take care of them
But when I feel lonely no one is there for me, they are just saying that they care for me, it's diffrent
Even when I need them, they prefer to stay with their bfs
i'm not willing to spend my time with people who can forget me easily more than anything. its better to not know me ever.
Sitting down with a good friend or even a stranger and having a conversation that dives beneath the surface is probably the most under-rated but most valuable exchange in our lives.
YES
Yess need this😊😊
Sucks that when you try to do that and the other person makes it their mission to keep it strictly superficial.
I’ve been scrolling through hashtags, google, and other RUclips videos trying to see if I wasn’t the only one feeling this way. I felt even more alone and like an alien to this world. Thank you for this video and these comments really helping me :)
I have it worse. I Think.
Though a lot of people comment how lonely they are, they mostly have a love life/family.
I never had any friends or a girlfriend. People always rejected me, from a friendship point and romantic.
Today I am 30 years old and always alone in my appartment. Whats the fucking point of this?
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Hello i hope things have picked up for you, its interesting that there are other people out there feeling the same way. Its just strange that we can often feel like its only happening to us.
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 The point is the hope for a better tomorrow and even the slightest chance of having a meaningful connection with someone in the future. Never forget that!
I love u
I like u am alone ❤❤😍😍😍
I think this is the first-ever RUclips video that I am commenting on in the past 7-8 years. A big heart to you from me who really wanted to watch something like this to give me some comfort in this lonely phase of life. Thank you!
I have friends, but I don't really feel them like actual "friends". It's really painful not sincerely loving your close friends, it makes me feel constant loneliness. I at least hope that some day I will find those people I will actually consider friends..
In my case, I feel like I'm being used, people only need me to like, help them in classes and homework and stuff, but if I reach out to them, they'll step away. I know they're not here for me. I have no one to talk to. I wanna share things, but I'm not comfortable with anyone around.
Still, when I find someone who actually cares about me, when they do something sweet, I don't know how to retribute, since I spent most of my life "on my own", and I get scared of losing them.
That's why 100% of my friendships are "fake" at some point.
@@yamiart6149 same
This comment section is awesome, they all just kind of read my thoughts and I’m so glad others feel like this. I only wish there were others I knew felt like this. This is me.
Same
Same, I have internet friends because I don’t have any in real life, but I don’t feel connected at all to anyone...and I’m the type of person who doesn’t talk and is dry at texting..ugh I’m sooo lame..and the friends that I have..have other ones so I rarely ever talk to them. Life sucks.
When your 'friends' are only friends because you see them 5 times a week
I know what you meann. I don't see my 'friends' outside of school and they all love kpop. which is fine but I don't and its sometimes all they talk about.
When people in their mid twenties still value themselves based on how many friends they have and laugh at others or even at their "friends" for having fewer friends than temselves. Pathetic
@@Samira-sb3lv mines the opposite, I am the only one who likes k-pop. From my friends
@@officialbismah same, so they always make fun of me, i mean i don't want them to talk about kpop, i never say anything about it too. But just seeing a photo of kpop group in my phone is enough for them 🙄
@@officialbismah same here
It's summer and I don't have friends to hang out with😢. I usually spend my days alone in my room or with my family.
Én is. :(
Anita Márton i feel u 😔
Same here...
Feel you, when someone wants to talk @lovet0talk on instagram
Well.. at least you have friends (im assuming)
I'm not going to see mine for at least another year. This school year I'm going to be completely alone and I'm so anxious
I've just had the worst day of my week, exactly because of feeling extremely lonely. I have friends, but still I feel no one is a close friend....that's painful. I just want someone to connect with, I want someone that makes me feel I'm genuinely close to them
I love this comment section, I can relate to almost every comment I read in here
ME TOO!!!!
And that is sad...
I can't relate to the people that all have friends but are lonely for a different reasons I have no friends at all
Samd
I’m okay with being lonely, I just hate feeling alone.
Hang in there!
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It's the opposite for me. Being alone is like having my own time for myself, but feeling lonely is just.. realizing nobody wants to be my friend
you can be alone and still feel happy and enjoy your own company, its when you cant enjoy your solitude and feel the need of somebody you feel lonely
@@deen_771 same
I'm the opposite. I love being alone and by myself but feeling lonely is the worst knowing I have no one
When I was a little girl I always thought I'd be so cool in high school. I never could have imagined I'd be...well, me.
Don't chase popularity or recognition. Once you be yourself you will be in the right crowd as the people will want you for you unless they are shallow like alot of ppl. In short be yourself and find people with substance
So did I
Hate how loneliness is intertwined with being a nerd
@@romarioreid6310 easier said than done. People with “substance” are hard to come by.
I thought I would be the popular kid liked by everyone, but.....people just forgot about me. My mom thinks I talk to my friends all day on my phone but that's not what happens. I don't have anyone to talk to, I just distract myself with my phone and the internet. I talk to myself, and I have imaginary friends. It sounds pathetic but it makes me feel better that atleast they are there for me, even if they are not real.
Im grateful that people are vulnerable. I feel that sometimes it’s easier for me to be alone than around others I can’t connect to. It makes me question my worth. I know I’m not meant to connect with everyone and that’s ok. Still hard. I feel like acceptance of loneliness at least is a stepping stone. I ignored it for a long time. Things don’t last forever. I know that.
Everyone is worthy and deserving. Of love, friends, self love, and connection. Sending hugs to anyone who is struggling.💛
I'm like an ambivert who's more towards introversion, so it's like I've always wanted to have a lot of friends and be outgoing as possible but no matter how hard I tried I could never stay connected with my friends and they just ended up fading away from me or just leaving me.
This iso how it is for me as Well
yeah me too
Same here I have one friend whos been with me this whole time but thats it. And its hard to talk to them without thinking i’ll push them away
this comment. is exactly how i felt
Ah heck! I found my soulmate XD
This comment section made me realise I'm not the only one who's going through this! It's a little bit consoling.
Ikr it’s good to know that other people also feel like that
I think it makes me even more sad knowing all of those people that think just like me will never be friends with me lol.... a true friend is all I'm looking for
It's even more sad cuz alot of people feeling same way the way you're feeling but still we all are alone.
Literally a free therapy session 🤧
yes,we gonna survive this together,wherever we are,we share the same problem and strength to go through all the hardship
"Sending so much love to everyone who feels like they’re never chosen as the best friend, as the partner, as the favorite. sending love to all of you who have been treated and felt like second best. sending love to all of you who have felt rejected and unwanted. to all of you who have had to try really hard to fit in because you felt like you never will.
you are so loved. you will be seen and heard by the right people. you can trust that you are valuable and not defined by other people’s perceptions of you. if someone doesn’t see your worth, it doesn’t mean it isn’t there."
Thank you ❤️
dang i need a tissue now, thank you :(
Frr
I am not second. I am last choice
I want to go out with my friends like others,sometimes chat in groups and so on I want to be happy, I want to enjoy my boring life:))
Same
So let's just create a group? :D
@@marriedtocuriosity put me in !
im always the third friend , you know? my whole life, whenever i was in a group of friends with 3 people, it was always A and B , then there was c (me).
Then you are with wrong people mate. dont settle with wrong just because you can be alone. Be yourself , express your true self and atlast you'll find someone who's first choice will be you..
Aww that’s so sad, I feel like that sometimes aswell but not anymore , you have to make a lot of effort and talk more that’s what people like, don’t just be the quite one
@@gabrielle2003 :( honestly it's just how it is sometimes you know? And now I'm stuck in a friendship group which I am uncomfortable in , but I can't get out because they are all in my classes. I'm just hoping university will be better ☹️
@@HarryStyles_01 I feel like I replied to you but I don't think it sent... Thank you ,that means a lot💘 Maybe one day I'll be able to find someone who I'll be first choice to , but for now, I'm trying to focus on myself, being okay with my own company and overall loving myself you know?
@@nicole-vz7xx ahh no, why don’t u like the people ur with ?
I’m home ever day by myself. Doing the same day every day. I get up. Eat clean the house and lay around waiting for the day to be over just to get up do it all again. It’s been going on for 2 months now and I feel so trapped and brain washes and useless
Same here but for almost 3 years..and it's killing me slowly.
@@l7rb do some extracurricular activities, it honestly helps, like bycling or join a club... even travel and find new places in your own city and go by yourself or with someone else
Same. Then I start baking and gardening.
go to the gym man and take nice walks outside it helps alot
I am so happy you wrote this comment. This is exactly how I feel. I am happy that I am not the only one that currently isn’t happy with the same boring routine.
I’m still young but I want to spend time enjoying my life with friends. I’ve tried to make friends, but I’ve had a different past than most people and that’s what makes it hard to connect, I also have zero confidence, I wasn’t even going to post this comment. But I want to put myself out there, it’s just that I’m afraid of people judging me :(
I know how you’re feeling i really want to enjoy the rest of high school but I feel like I don’t have any connection with my friends and I don’t have any confidence so I don’t make new friends quarantine isn’t helping either none of my friends have reached out to me I’m always first to contact
I have it worse. I Think.
Though a lot of people comment how lonely they are, they mostly have a love life/family.
I never had any friends or a girlfriend. People always rejected me, from a friendship point and romantic.
Today I am 30 years old and always alone in my appartment. Whats the fucking point of this?
I felt that way growing up. I was taught that what people thought about me was more important than my emotional well being. So, I spent so much energy getting people to like me. I ended up holding on to toxic people which just left me feeling lonelier. Know that you are enough just as you are. Acceptance and compassion for yourself are the most important things and are precursors to self confidence. Have patience with yourself and learn accept and learn from your mistakes. When you are true to and are there for yourself, you can find the truest connection to others. Focus first on your relationship with yourself, let those who truly accept you in, and don't hold on to those who only want you there to serve their own needs.
I feel you bro
Annie West sameeee I feel you
Worst thing, when you have to remind yourself again, that there is nobody you can call to spend time together because you aren‘t someones choice. Everything else is more important.
She speaks so fluently with no pause or „ummm“
BebiiSaysRaaawr : that’s because she’s so awkward and lonely. Oh and unattractive?
😒
If I did videos I would definitely write down what I should say in the video
I'm guessing that's JBP'S influence.
Rhabdo B are you kidding she's gorgeous
I came here tonight after stopping myself from taking anymore pills, lying in bed hysterically crying because of how lonely I feel. I am someone who will stop what I’m doing to help someone, even when I feel so low I never mention how I’m feeling and focus solely on them. To my friends and family I am the strong one who’s always laughing and has good advice. No one ever asks how I am. I struggle every day feeling like I have no one close to talk to. Whenever I’ve spoken up in the past it’s been shrugged off. How is this fair? Why should good people have to feel this way? What is the way out? This is the only video I have came across where I have took away new information and coping mechanisms. Thank you so much😊
Also can’t believe how many relatable comments there are. What a lovely community this is. So refreshing to see with all the online hate that usually occurs.
hope you’re doing okay now ❤️
I can relate Kirbs. Feel hugged!
maybe good people got youtube :)
hey, do you wanna talk ?
these comment section showed me that im not the only one, at least im not alone about that
Edit: thanks guys🥺🤍 I’m feeling way better(after 2 months)
Yeah! It actually made me sad and happy at the same time
Whenever you will feel alone just remember that there are 7 billion people on this planet and that you might go through the same thing every day with them and you will definately feel better:)))
I was thinking the same thing! :)
you describe me completely! Loneliness make me hate so much my life and myself. I also make a video to tell the worst aspects of loneliness so no one feels alone in this fight!
Few people are so lucky. They are blessed with everything in life good looks, good friends, they are talented and what not.. and when you see such people you automatically lose the confidence in yourself… you feel so lonely even though there are people around you. Sometimes life is so unfair to some of us..