Say it again! So many people don't understand that, that as well can mean ANYBODY U CALL FAMILY! TOXIC IS TOXIC NO MATTER WHO IT COMES FROM BOTTOM LINE!
Classics example of a parent not wanting their son/daughter to “out do” them in life. Constantly putting them down. How bout good job son. I’m proud of you.
@@ChanelsRantHe was jealous Marvin didn't understand why his father was dressing like a women and his father saw that Marvin wasn't down with that and his father hated him for it that's what I got out of it.
But if you listen to his song Everyone needs love from here my dear, he clearly wails a line about his father needing love and to come back and know this story, that line in that song is so much more heartbreaking
Wait! Was that a WIG?! Omg you lie "n" to me! Nooooo you saying that grown a** man on camera with his celebrity star son. Wearing a damn wig? Huh. Was he gay with that wig on and mamma's family shirt on.
Marvin Sr. was a Pastor during the day and a cross dresser while at home with his children and wife. Marvin Sr. would put on his wife clothing and walk through the family home as a woman. Marvin Jr let him know that he was preaching the word to his children and wife. But secretly living his life as a woman and his father didn’t like being called out. (Hypocrite) Also Marvin Sr. was very cruel to his Marvin Jr. through out his whole life. Marvin Jr was beat more than any child in the household. Marvin Sr. wasn’t very supportive of his Marvin Jr. If you look at the way Marvin Sr talk verbally and the movements of his body and hands there’s no doubt he has homosexual tendencies. There’s a documentary on RUclips called (Marvin Gaye: The story of the last 24 hours) full documentary that will explain everything Marvin Jr. endured as a child.
@@Da_Publick who the blank is Jenn? Marvin didn't NEED him🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾we knew Marvin but Jenn seems to not be that important, I'm just saying 😉❤️🖤💚✊🏾❤️🖤💚
Yep, he dressed up into some of his wives clothing and wore his head gear outside. One of the neighbors said that they laughed and when they would notice that it was their neighbor they would then say.. "Oh...that's just Mr Gaye outside," just like it was no big deal.
@Oworks oh I didnt know that. Thank you for the info. Its really tragic. I cant imagin what the parents of Marvin had to go trough as mother and father having your son charging at you...so sad, so so sad.
This video haunts you. Just like anytime you see a picture of Roger and Larry Troutman together. It be those closest to you that will bring you down. Rest on Marvin🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Trell Watz76 I thought it was good to see his Dad saying good things about his son. I don't think it was uncomfortable at all. And I think Marvin accepted his Dad for who he was at that moment. Or else he wouldn't have done a public interview like that with him.
@Mr. O I know Sir. I did say "at the moment" and most children love their parents no matter what. I saw something positive there and I stand by what I said.
@Nubiamancy No Joe wasn't he might've been stern with them and dicplined them that's because he wanted the best for them but Marvin Sr is one of those jealous narcissistic fathers who couldn't stand to see his son succeed so he had to put him down in order to feel important. Rest in Peace Marvin Jr
My favorite singer of all time 💯 I remember my dad and mom dancing to Marvin on their anniversaries. When I got older my dad and I would get beer, grill, listen to Marvin, and talk. My dad passed in 2016 but I still have many great memories and I still listen to his music 🎶
Prince and Marvin Gaye are tied for number 1. 2. Otis Redding 3. Barry White 4. Michael Jackson 5. George Michael 6. Phil Collins 7. R. Kelly 8. Usher 9. Johnnie Taylor 10. Rod Stewart
His father was so afraid he’d be greater than him and he was right because he was one of the greatest vocalists of all time. Rest in Peace Marvin, thank you for such beautiful timeless music
The self soothing hold he had on himself next to his father was telling he experienced abuse at this mans hands and eventually death... His dad was clearly a man battling his sexual identity and his anger was directed at his masculine son.
I believe Marvin Gaye father was very jealous of Marvin's success because his father didn't amount to anything in life but Marvin Gaye conquered the whole world with his music
@@lllewis2506 His father was a nobody. Being a pastor doesn't make you a good person or accomplished especially he didn't believe in anything he was preaching. Marvin was much more talented and charismatic than his father. Just because he taught his son about music doesn't mean he was not jealous of his son, because he was. Marvin jr was everything Marvin wanted to be but couldn't
@@lllewis2506 how can he preach the word of God honestly yet be a closeted homosexual dressing in woman's clothing. Sounds like mental gymnastics coming from a agnostic.
If people dont believe you when you tell them about a close family member being jealous of you just share this clip with them. A damn shame what he stole from us😥 RIP MARVIN.
My late mother had a sister that was jealous of her. She even tried to sleep with my father. And so much more even did wickedness towards me. Its like she despised my mother and anything from her. She is disgusting.
Did not want to see him "broken up on a stretcher".....but had no problem in putting him " shot up in a casket".Makes me sad to this day,you can tell Marvin is a gentle soul.You will never be forgotten Marvin❤
Bottom line is Marvin’s dad had a couple of hidden secrets. One was open, but done late in the evening/night. The other hidden only to those who were and got close to him. Nonetheless. As you can see, Marvin absolutely loved his dad. And was deeply encouraged by him when he approved of him. However, Marvin’s dad was very jealous of his musical success and didn’t want him to pursue music from the get go. Parents and Guardians beware!
@@canival317isback Definitely. You heard the rumor Marvin came home and caught his dad wearing his mother's night gown. I know someone who went to high school with him and he said he always seemed to be ashamed of his father but loved him and always wanted to impress him.
I remember being a kid, riding in the car listening to music with my father and the DJ announced that Marvin had passed... i couldnt understand it. After growing older amd learning that hia father was responsible for his death, i was completley confused! Just witnessing the dynamics between this father and son explains alot regarding the respect that Marvin Gaye had for his father regardless of his own success! You reach a certain level in life, a certain level of accomplishment and it's not even about money, its about maturity. Sometimes you can become defensive to protect your position when people seem to try to undermine and down-play what you've established. This video shows that Marvin continued to express humility! Rest in Peace Marvin Gaye
I was a little girl when I heard he was gone, on the car radio also. I never forgot it because it was April 1 & my cousin & I thought it was an April Fool's joke until we saw my aunt crying
Marvin definitely was one of the coolest cats ever. Very smart articulate guy. And who could actually rock a toboggan, but Marvin Gaye!!!! Rest in peace, my brother.
@@bvictorian12”I ain’t no bandleader, yeah, I heard that story.” Sounds like some Godfather stuff. Where did you get that serial killer stuff about Marvin Gaye?
@@keithknox5829im not OP and ik its almost a year later but; a website named “crazydaysandnights” reported a cover up story in regards to a 50s midwestern string of killings that sounds like American Psycho tbh. The only reason this is relevent is because that website was correct in outing hollyweird before it ever became public. Weinstein, kevin spacey, and more. Tbh its not far fetched BUT i do NOT think it was Marvin. 50s too early.
Father was a cross dresser .. Marvin Gaye was so soft spoking and seemed so sensitive. All he wanted was a father's love. No matter how old we are we all want our parents love.. Unfortunately his dad couldn't give it to him
You hit it . Even as a grown man, you still got the sense his father was hugely important to him. You almost could feel the tension & hurt. & yes, the abuse surely was the worst part, but him cross dressing with no discussion certainly didn't help matters. A very sad, sad end, to a truly gifted & sensitive artist.
It's absolutely heartbreaking and to know he lived to see 84 only shoves the knife deeper. straight up jealousy I wish marvin had better friends and family.
I think when i first turned on this video was the way the dad was dressed.He murdered his son out of insane jealousy pure and simple contrary to the media narrative.
He wanted his father kill him though, thats the tragic part. He wanted suicide, he wanted to die and he wanted his father away from his mother. In the shooting he got all of his wishes, he got to die and his father was away from his mother.
Creepy is a good word for his father and to think he was a preacher too. A gay pastor named Gaye who may have actually been proud but also clearly jealous of his son's success ........
From what I’ve heard many people F Gary grey, Dr Dre, even spike lee have been trying to get a bio pic about Marvin in the works for a while but the ideas on the direction of the film and the topics surrounding it is what has it on hold, I feel like with the right actor and if they go all out it could have the potential to be what the movie “Ray” was
I can't stand to think that this talented, loving, creative being who shared his talent in such a loving way would get murdered. Much less by his own father. Marvin had such a loving, peaceful heart. 😢❤🙏
And this is why they are called “Stars”… so many of these talented people had to go through so much and yet they were able to rise & shine so brightly above it all. Marvin Gaye was definitely a beautiful 🌟
Wow! My my dad would tell me stories about his father growing up in DC in northeast. Said he was flamboyantly gay and extremely jealous of his son. RIP MG!
Those words meant a lot to Marvin to hear his Father say those things . Even if they were a lie all children wanna know they are loved by their parents..Aww this hurts my heart his life was cut short and it all traced back to his daddy’s own dysfunction.We gotta break these cycles of pain amongst families so another generation does not go misinformed on what family and love is ☀️
It's a bittersweet memory. Marvin Gaye was the first artist I heard when I was around 4 or 5 years old. I recall a relative visiting, playing "Sexual Healing" by Marvin Gaye loudly. He was a truly exceptional musician. It's unfortunate that the person who is supposed to be your protector, your own father, can take your life. This is heartbreaking.
That hug and kiss. I saw lil boy in a grown man's body getting confirmation from his father that he'd been missing. Adults have to do better with children. I pray and work at not damaging my daughter with my BS
I also almost didn't watch it. I love Marvin Gaye and my idea of his father was was of a masculine, but overly religious, so-called preacher! But it was totally opposite. It is so ironic I read some ancient texts this morning for my spiritual nourishment and the part that stood out to me the most was about envy and jealousy and being able to recognize it and be aware of it, even if it is your so called family! It was evident that Marvin just wanted his father to love him but as I am typing this, it was impossible because his dad didn't love himself!!!
+AHAYAH LIVES you wat I think they would still be here!His soul went when she died!That's when the stupid ass drugs started coming in his life!!!I miss Mr Gaye!Marvin Jr that is😖
@@tashagotit7747 I'm sure you can find the story of Marvin Gaye on RUclips. His daughter is Nona Gaye she played in the Matrix. She looks just like her dad.
Father, father We don't need to escalate You see, war is not the answer For only love can conquer hate You know we've got to find a way To bring some lovin' here today, oh, oh, oh...
I think family relationships are the most complicated. Marvin seemed like such a sensitive soul like anyone who has and will I think he struggled with himself. Rest his soul.
Father narcissist all about him. Every time his son speaks he claims his sons hopes, emotions etc and makes them his own. His father is obviously gay as well and his conflict inside he projected onto his son. "Im gonna give that to you" the one compliment he squeezes out he needs to make a communal declaration of HIS pride in his sons achievements. Poor Marvin had it all but nothing at all as so damaged by his father.. You can be the most talented person but if you don't have authentic love and a supportive home life and a narcissistic parent, its toxicity stains a child's life forever. Marvin is one of the greatest musicians and singers of all time.... We are all still in love with Marvin, so sad his father was so twisted
Marvin gay's dad was gay,and also used drugs. he was a hater...he couldn't stand Marvin,he was a jealous azz man. marvins mom was afraid of him. I hate he had to leave this world by the hand of his dad...his soul was weary and trouble. I hope the Lord has given him wonderful rest. Miss you Marvin.
You can feel that controlling vibe in this video that his father had over him and the jealousy, his father was so religious he didn't see his own sins, rest in peace Marvin Gaye .
I will stand on the hill of PEOPLE should NOT have kids unless they're emotionally, mentally and financially ready. Additionally, love and patience. MG Jr was so soft spoken. Reminds me of Marlon Brando Jr. Their fathers hated them. RIP to MG Jr.
Marvin Gaye's father dressed in women's clothing even outside and the children used to tease Marvin. Marvin's father was a cross dress and a Preacher. I don't know how Marvin's mother stayed with that man especially with the way he treated her son Marvin she should've protected him. Marvin died protecting his mother.
@@TW-mg3ldunfortunately mother's stand on the side and say nothing while their husband runs wild hurting the children and other family members Etc it's really sad how the mothers see all of this happening but yet keep a tight lip SMH speaking from my own personal experience my mom would sit there watching my dad do all of this crazy s*** and would not speak up to him to stop his ego filled nonsense
Of course. Other people would have been the same way. His father abused him mentally and physically throughout his childhood and they completely despised each other even though it looked like they loved each other.
@Pamelafountain60 jones IKR? How do you do that? I was lucky to have a good father in my life. But, it’s sad that Marvin did not have that. I have a feeling he had thoughts throughout life thinking about why his father whipped him, why he hated him, and why he was jealous of him.
And so did my deceased mother,So do I and So does my daughter. 3 generations of Marvin Fans. There was a recent play (Pride and Joy) about he and Annas relationship, Zeola's play many years back, several docs, books about his life ...like Jan Gayes book but no big screen movie about all of the candid details. They must make it soon before all of the real players pass away. Anna and Gwen are gone.
Narcissists can be jealous of anyone who isn’t them and has what they want. Heart breaking. Please folks, learn more about Narcissistic abuse within the family, the knowledge will help break your trauma bonds. Much love to you all ❤️
Body language NEVER LIES. Marvin is guarded....legs/arms crossed with little to eye contact. He shut his father off mentally. The love doesn’t change but the tolerance does.
@Bubbub2020 Topps Sorry to hear that. If resolution is possible; you'd might want to try it; if you absolutely can't, few would blame you for going ahead saving *yourself* .
Wow! This "man" never financially supported his family or even had income, but dressed in female attire wore pink curlers in the neighborhood! Embarrassed the family then beat the shit out of poor Marvin! Had a separate bedroom and had church women in and out in front of his family! Reality TV has nothing on this trick! Smh!!!
yeah his dad was jealous of him smdh.. Marvin Gaye the only dude in teh world probably who did not turn out to be like his dad. Most of the time the boys endup gay like their dad
You can see how Marvin has his arms crossed and no real eye contact from Marvin to his dad. You can sense the tension he had towards his dad. Marvin will always be the Smoothest R&B Balladeer. 🌹 His dad was a trip!
I love how his father didn't want to see him on a stretcher because of football. But had no problem seeing him in a casket, so sad🤔
Exactly...
Right or wrong his father told him what would happen if he hit him
R.i.p to a legend
Marvin was on coke the day he died according to autopsy reports. He wasnt on coke playing football. That's why we say no to drugs kids
@@DJReeRee But what did that have to do with his father killing him? But I agree with no to drugs. "Drugs are bad!"
Dude was a cross dresser too! Look it up
People please stay far away from toxic, negative people ! No matter who they are !!!!
Say it again! So many people don't understand that, that as well can mean ANYBODY U CALL FAMILY! TOXIC IS TOXIC NO MATTER WHO IT COMES FROM BOTTOM LINE!
@@breezeway3410 WORD!! FACTS!! TRUTH!!
Wow I really needed this comment
I was just reassuring myself that I did the right thing by cutting my toxic family off. Thank you!
@@breezeway3410 facts all day!!!!
Truth I am dealing with this now
Classics example of a parent not wanting their son/daughter to “out do” them in life. Constantly putting them down. How bout good job son. I’m proud of you.
Exactly 💯
A classic example of I brought you into this world and I'll take you out if you put your hands on me, which is what Marvin Jr did to his father!
His dad was super jealous of his own son. R.I.P. Marvin Gaye🙏🏽
This new generation is so annoying. Yall don't do any research.
@@ChanelsRantHe was jealous Marvin didn't understand why his father was dressing like a women and his father saw that Marvin wasn't down with that and his father hated him for it that's what I got out of it.
@gworsham6865 because you're idiot. That literally doesn't make sense. You just came up with a story to justify you're narrative.
Like Cissy with Whitney smh.
narcicist are all bisexuall@@gworsham32290
"father father, we don't need to escalate...war is not the answer, for only love can conquer hate" .... Can't help but notice the irony...
When I first heard the song I knew it could relate and be talking about his relationship with his father.
Rell T no he was talking about fathers as a whole
But if you listen to his song Everyone needs love from here my dear, he clearly wails a line about his father needing love and to come back and know this story, that line in that song is so much more heartbreaking
@og it can have a double meaning genius.
Yes, Marvin was talking to his actual father.
Marvin Sr. Sitting there looking like a real auntie with that wig on 😂😂😂
99,000 likes is what this comment should have.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💯👏🏾
Wait! Was that a WIG?! Omg you lie "n" to me! Nooooo you saying that grown a** man on camera with his celebrity star son. Wearing a damn wig? Huh. Was he gay with that wig on and mamma's family shirt on.
😭😭
@@supercalifragilistic2380 He was a cross dresser
Marvin Sr. was a Pastor during the day and a cross dresser while at home with his children and wife. Marvin Sr. would put on his wife clothing and walk through the family home as a woman. Marvin Jr let him know that he was preaching the word to his children and wife. But secretly living his life as a woman and his father didn’t like being called out. (Hypocrite) Also Marvin Sr. was very cruel to his Marvin Jr. through out his whole life. Marvin Jr was beat more than any child in the household. Marvin Sr. wasn’t very supportive of his Marvin Jr.
If you look at the way Marvin Sr talk verbally and the movements of his body and hands there’s no doubt he has homosexual tendencies.
There’s a documentary on RUclips called (Marvin Gaye: The story of the last 24 hours) full documentary that will explain everything Marvin Jr. endured as a child.
Never seen him not singing, what an articulate soft spoken person.
Yes just like Smokey Robinson said a Dear Soul❤️🖤💚🙏🏽❤️🖤💚😘bless his soul🙏🏽😘
Tell that to Jenn Wienerschnitzel. He didn't think Marvin was a master, and so didn't interview him.
@@Da_Publick who the blank is Jenn? Marvin didn't NEED him🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾we knew Marvin but Jenn seems to not be that important, I'm just saying 😉❤️🖤💚✊🏾❤️🖤💚
@@Da_PublickNobody knows who that is, nor does anybody care about his opinion. Basically, f--- that person, whoever it is.
Damn his dad was a SUPER QUEEN 😂
An UGLY one at that too!
he used drees like a girl i dont know if for work or something like that
Yep, he dressed up into some of his wives clothing and wore his head gear outside. One of the neighbors said that they laughed and when they would
notice that it was their
neighbor they would then say.. "Oh...that's just Mr Gaye outside," just like it was no big deal.
Super creepy 😳
I'm so shocked ...poor Marvin
Am I the only one that notices how uncomfortable Marvin looks next to his father? So sad.
I did too.
I peeped that
So Sad indeed...
No ,its obviuous indeed. The question is why did he killed his own son?
@Oworks oh I didnt know that. Thank you for the info. Its really tragic. I cant imagin what the parents of Marvin had to go trough as mother and father having your son charging at you...so sad, so so sad.
Marvin Gaye was fine as hell.
YOU BETTER ADD JR
Damn sho was...
Yes ma’am!
New Account But *Sr* tho...
Yes he was so handsome
Who ever dug this up well-done. Ive only ever heard about how he died. Seeing them together, slight chills.
It does gives chills,
His dad was not a very loving man.
Yea....this is eery
Who gives af about the good few moments when he murdered his own child. Grow tf up
@@blazee3895 Maybe but I doubt if he wanted to take his son’s life. Marvin was smoking crack, he was probably tweaking tf out🤷🏻♀️
This video haunts you. Just like anytime you see a picture of Roger and Larry Troutman together. It be those closest to you that will bring you down. Rest on Marvin🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
My fucking thoughts exactly
That part 🎯💯
Zapp
Seeing him kiss his father's cheek is so heartbreaking :( He deserved so much better in a father
desertflwrs Your love for them is always there deep down.
I agree desertflwrs!
Marvin's interpretation of "The Star-Spangled Banner" is one of the best and most original ever. It's breathtaking and beautiful.
I'm crying just watching this
It really was😔
His father was a complete weirdo. He was jealous of Marvin at an early age. The only good thing the man did was make a legend. Smh
I since untreated mental illness.
True that. Marvin was soooooo talented and beautiful. I remember when he died. It was awful. Now I see who his dad is. Jealous of all god gave Marvin
@Trell Watz76 Everyone Knows that the Daddy KILLED Marvin
@Trell Watz76 I thought it was good to see his Dad saying good things about his son. I don't think it was uncomfortable at all. And I think Marvin accepted his Dad for who he was at that moment. Or else he wouldn't have done a public interview like that with him.
@Mr. O I know Sir. I did say "at the moment" and most children love their parents no matter what. I saw something positive there and I stand by what I said.
I really hope a biopic is made about Marvin Gaye’s life ! I love him !! His voice is like no other !!
Barry White Too
@@dr.grinch9530 oh yes !!
true but his family probably wont let it happen
@@562LA2THEBAY he’s before my time but I adore his voice
jesse l. martin should play him.
Marvin… and Sam could change the world with their voices ❤. I could listen to their voices and meditate 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️🏹🏹🏹
Shadiest father I have ever seen
@Nubiamancy I don't know about that. I mean after all, Joe didn't kill his son.
Gotta meet mine...same bs..it's just as heartbreaking and deflating to watch it happen to someone else...
@Nubiamancy No Joe whooped perfection and integrity in his kid's
Marvin Sr whooped depression and confusion the stats don't lie
@Nubiamancy No Joe wasn't he might've been stern with them and dicplined them that's because he wanted the best for them but Marvin Sr is one of those jealous narcissistic fathers who couldn't stand to see his son succeed so he had to put him down in order to feel important. Rest in Peace Marvin Jr
@@EricBrownBey True, but he put a gun to all his children's head. Sad.
I can clearly see that Marvin is uncomfortable around his Dad.
Kissing his Dad on the Jaw is very uncomfortable
How could he no
I thought that person was his mother😅
Well of course, Marvin Sr was wearing his wife's best wig on TV!!
Yup!
That man was laying down singing and sounded Amazing..there will never be another Marvin Gaye😢😢😢RIP
It's so chilling to watch them two together
Marvin had such a beautiful voice even when he spoke.
I find that the best singers have lovely speaking voices.
His father was a hater!
yes he was I never Marvin Sr
He was a snake
@RAW Anime HE DIED 14 YEARS AFTER MARVIN 1984-/-1998
@@majik31401 Karma had a receipt for Marvin Sr.'s ass.
He'll yeah...I fukin jive Turkey... fuk up a mfers chances of making it period
My favorite singer of all time 💯 I remember my dad and mom dancing to Marvin on their anniversaries. When I got older my dad and I would get beer, grill, listen to Marvin, and talk. My dad passed in 2016 but I still have many great memories and I still listen to his music 🎶
Yes, he's my favorite singer also..😊
@@michellemann6362 Good taste. Nice pic too. I bet you got a nice smile 😊
Prince and Marvin Gaye are tied for number 1.
2. Otis Redding
3. Barry White
4. Michael Jackson
5. George Michael
6. Phil Collins
7. R. Kelly
8. Usher
9. Johnnie Taylor
10. Rod Stewart
@@RacyReecie Nice list 👍🏾👍🏾
He wasn’t scared of his Father ….He respected him no matter what
His father was so afraid he’d be greater than him and he was right because he was one of the greatest vocalists of all time. Rest in Peace Marvin, thank you for such beautiful timeless music
The self soothing hold he had on himself next to his father was telling he experienced abuse at this mans hands and eventually death... His dad was clearly a man battling his sexual identity and his anger was directed at his masculine son.
Very true
Exactly 😂😂😂
I have to agree with your observation
@Lacquer Black Why are you yelling? 😕
True..smh
I believe Marvin Gaye father was very jealous of Marvin's success because his father didn't amount to anything in life but Marvin Gaye conquered the whole world with his music
... and jealous of his raw God-given talents (he had the “it” factor, good looks, and musical and athletic ability).
True, and his father by the looks of it was a closeted Homosexual.
Thats not true. He was a pastor and gifted marvin jr got his talent from his father who molded him
@@lllewis2506 His father was a nobody. Being a pastor doesn't make you a good person or accomplished especially he didn't believe in anything he was preaching. Marvin was much more talented and charismatic than his father. Just because he taught his son about music doesn't mean he was not jealous of his son, because he was. Marvin jr was everything Marvin wanted to be but couldn't
@@lllewis2506 how can he preach the word of God honestly yet be a closeted homosexual dressing in woman's clothing. Sounds like mental gymnastics coming from a agnostic.
Distant Lover has dug deep my soul as I healed, now it hits not grieving deep but just soothing. Thank you Lord. Marvin ❤
Marvin sr looks like the crazy aunt nobody wants at the cookout🤷♂️
LOL
Very feminine for man also
FOR REAL!
FOR REAL!
Hahahahaha! For real.
If people dont believe you when you tell them about a close family member being jealous of you just share this clip with them. A damn shame what he stole from us😥 RIP MARVIN.
My late mother had a sister that was jealous of her. She even tried to sleep with my father. And so much more even did wickedness towards me. Its like she despised my mother and anything from her. She is disgusting.
Mother, father, sister, brother are descriptive titles that have nothing to do with what’s in the hearts of MFSBs.
Yes I would never forget that Easter Sunday morning was a sad day. And where do the monster hide inside the child home
So true
I hope the dad realized what he did
Did not want to see him "broken up on a stretcher".....but had no problem in putting him " shot up in a casket".Makes me sad to this day,you can tell Marvin is a gentle soul.You will never be forgotten Marvin❤
Bottom line is Marvin’s dad had a couple of hidden secrets. One was open, but done late in the evening/night. The other hidden only to those who were and got close to him.
Nonetheless. As you can see, Marvin absolutely loved his dad. And was deeply encouraged by him when he approved of him. However, Marvin’s dad was very jealous of his musical success and didn’t want him to pursue music from the get go. Parents and Guardians beware!
💯💯💯💯
Tell me bout if my own father is jealous of me as well
Dont want me doing better than him its sad how much he fucked up my life
Unfortunately there are many parents that don't want there child to do better than them.
What was the other secret you talk about?
@@isaz597Did you see the wig?
notice how every word out of marvin sr.'s mouth is negative and belittling.
asante amin angry at life.
asante amin ikr he wasnt shit
Feminine behavior
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@@canival317isback Definitely. You heard the rumor Marvin came home and caught his dad wearing his mother's night gown. I know someone who went to high school with him and he said he always seemed to be ashamed of his father but loved him and always wanted to impress him.
Wow that kiss he gave his father came from his soul . All he wanted was his Dad to be proud of him. God bless his soul.
I remember being a kid, riding in the car listening to music with my father and the DJ announced that Marvin had passed... i couldnt understand it. After growing older amd learning that hia father was responsible for his death, i was completley confused! Just witnessing the dynamics between this father and son explains alot regarding the respect that Marvin Gaye had for his father regardless of his own success! You reach a certain level in life, a certain level of accomplishment and it's not even about money, its about maturity. Sometimes you can become defensive to protect your position when people seem to try to undermine and down-play what you've established. This video shows that Marvin continued to express humility! Rest in Peace Marvin Gaye
I was a little girl when I heard he was gone, on the car radio also. I never forgot it because it was April 1 & my cousin & I thought it was an April Fool's joke until we saw my aunt crying
Marvin definitely was one of the coolest cats ever. Very smart articulate guy. And who could actually rock a toboggan, but Marvin Gaye!!!! Rest in peace, my brother.
Her that boy was a serial killer too. I think the killings went done wen he got in the industry
@@bvictorian12”I ain’t no bandleader, yeah, I heard that story.” Sounds like some Godfather stuff. Where did you get that serial killer stuff about Marvin Gaye?
@@bvictorian12well???
@@keithknox5829im not OP and ik its almost a year later but; a website named “crazydaysandnights” reported a cover up story in regards to a 50s midwestern string of killings that sounds like American Psycho tbh.
The only reason this is relevent is because that website was correct in outing hollyweird before it ever became public. Weinstein, kevin spacey, and more. Tbh its not far fetched BUT i do NOT think it was Marvin. 50s too early.
@@yallgonlearntodaysee my comment
Father was a cross dresser .. Marvin Gaye was so soft spoking and seemed so sensitive. All he wanted was a father's love. No matter how old we are we all want our parents love.. Unfortunately his dad couldn't give it to him
"...No matter how old we are we all want our parents love.."...that is precious and sweet what you said.
Thank you
You hit it . Even as a grown man, you still got the sense his father was hugely important to him. You almost could feel the tension & hurt. & yes, the abuse surely was the worst part, but him cross dressing with no discussion certainly didn't help matters. A very sad, sad end, to a truly gifted & sensitive artist.
Philip Hennen heartbreaking
please remove his dad's wig in the name of sweet baby Jesus.....
What a selfish father! Basking in his son's glory, only to later rob the world of so much beauty. ...Smh.
love this comment : )
It's absolutely heartbreaking and to know he lived to see 84 only shoves the knife deeper. straight up jealousy I wish marvin had better friends and family.
I think when i first turned on this video was the way the dad was dressed.He murdered his son out of insane jealousy pure and simple contrary to the media narrative.
He wanted his father kill him though, thats the tragic part. He wanted suicide, he wanted to die and he wanted his father away from his mother. In the shooting he got all of his wishes, he got to die and his father was away from his mother.
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He was so articulate and kind. He is truly missed.
October London is a tribute to Marvin Gaye.
Yes he is!!💯 The closet thing to Marvin's voice!!
Wow! Sitting by a man who would eventually take his life. The sad part is that he loved his father so much and admired him. RIP Marvin ❤
Pitiful 😮😢
Creepy is a good word for his father and to think he was a preacher too. A gay pastor named Gaye who may have actually been proud but also clearly jealous of his son's success ........
"Gay" is his dad's last name and "Gaye" is Marvin's last name. He changed it
Khufu AmenRa their last name is Gay but he added the “e” when he blew up so it would be no homo lol nah but that’s facts tho
... & looks!
Actually the name was GAY,,Marvin only added the E bcos he was catching hell from having that name...
Ive always wondered why this story hasnt been made into a movie.
Trust me the movie will win an oscar
From what I’ve heard many people F Gary grey, Dr Dre, even spike lee have been trying to get a bio pic about Marvin in the works for a while but the ideas on the direction of the film and the topics surrounding it is what has it on hold, I feel like with the right actor and if they go all out it could have the potential to be what the movie “Ray” was
kay Cee...It was made in to a play, Now They focusing on the movie
@@jollybabe7994 Agreed!!! With the right actor/director/script
It would be great as long as they don't do what they did with "All Eyez On Me"
Marvin Gaye was so soft spoken. I love hearing his interviews and of course his music! ❤
November 2023...Still loving Marvin. He made a mark that can never be erased. Thanks for posting this.❤
He is so mean to Marvin, omg. “You didn’t make the team,” then tells Marvin he didn’t pray for him to make the team. He’s sick.
Them the awkward laugh
Jealous
Ashley sent me here!! Man she was right... He looked so uncomfortable and embarrassed.
Just when I thought I had problems 🙄 YT is like nah! and recommends this.!! RIP Marvin Jnr. Your star still shines Bright.
Me too. This is just terrible! Poor Marvin. And shame on his mom. Remind me of the Debarge story. How she stayed in the abuse.
I can't stand to think that this talented, loving, creative being who shared his talent in such a loving way would get murdered. Much less by his own father. Marvin had such a loving, peaceful heart. 😢❤🙏
And this is why they are called “Stars”… so many of these talented people had to go through so much and yet they were able to rise & shine so brightly above it all. Marvin Gaye was definitely a beautiful 🌟
😢❤
HE LOOK LIKE AUNT ESTHER!
lol
sad😂
LEWIS JONES u guys gotta stop🤣🤣🤣
Good Analogy
LEWIS JONES LMFAO! 🤣
Wow! My my dad would tell me stories about his father growing up in DC in northeast. Said he was flamboyantly gay and extremely jealous of his son. RIP MG!
I'm from WDC and now I'm a bus Operator here, the stories my family would share well all the elders made me sad, such a sad story 😢
I’m from DC i never knew this 😳🥺
Those words meant a lot to Marvin to hear his Father say those things . Even if they were a lie all children wanna know they are loved by their parents..Aww this hurts my heart his life was cut short and it all traced back to his daddy’s own dysfunction.We gotta break these cycles of pain amongst families so another generation does not go misinformed on what family and love is ☀️
It's a bittersweet memory. Marvin Gaye was the first artist I heard when I was around 4 or 5 years old. I recall a relative visiting, playing "Sexual Healing" by Marvin Gaye loudly. He was a truly exceptional musician. It's unfortunate that the person who is supposed to be your protector, your own father, can take your life. This is heartbreaking.
Seems inappropriate for a family get-together...
You were listening to that song at 4 or 5? 🤔
That hug and kiss. I saw lil boy in a grown man's body getting confirmation from his father that he'd been missing.
Adults have to do better with children.
I pray and work at not damaging my daughter with my BS
Killing his own son, Judgment is all I can say. He sounded so phony in this video. R.I.P Marvin Gaye
Tony Knight
Tony Knight
Yes he did sound so fake I rolled my eyes the entire time he had his mouth open saying all that fake shit child bye!
@@Ebonyqueen-ul7pg exactly 🙄
@Brenda Lee who else was gay
This is my first time seeing his father. It expalins everything now.. Many thanks
I also almost didn't watch it. I love Marvin Gaye and my idea of his father was was of a masculine, but overly religious, so-called preacher! But it was totally opposite.
It is so ironic I read some ancient texts this morning for my spiritual nourishment and the part that stood out to me the most was about envy and jealousy and being able to recognize it and be aware of it, even if it is your so called family! It was evident that Marvin just wanted his father to love him but as I am typing this, it was impossible because his dad didn't love himself!!!
Hes the coldest singer his words just close your eyes and listen to his divorce album still have me in tears Marvin Gaye the greatest whoever done it
Marvin had a beautiful persona and his talking voice was very soft. 😢
I think he was very jealous of his son. I guess they were scared to tell him how bad that wig looked!
Yes he was jealous I wish him and tammi terrell would have hooked up. Maybe both of them would still be alive.
+AHAYAH LIVES you wat I think they would still be here!His soul went when she died!That's when the stupid ass drugs started coming in his life!!!I miss Mr Gaye!Marvin Jr that is😖
Cedric Bigby your sick dude
honour they father and mother you live by the sword you die by the sword
tell them bitches that if they kbw you
Continues to be one of the saddest and tragic relationships in world history.
Too many Are!!! Especially in the Black race
What happened
@@tashagotit7747 Marvin Gaye's dad shot and killed him. Their father, son relationship.
@@orettasmith6871 omg! What happened??
@@tashagotit7747 I'm sure you can find the story of Marvin Gaye on RUclips. His daughter is Nona Gaye she played in the Matrix. She looks just like her dad.
Father, father
We don't need to escalate
You see, war is not the answer
For only love can conquer hate
You know we've got to find a way
To bring some lovin' here today, oh, oh, oh...
Amen.
Im thoroughly intrigued by his dad…so many layers, another story untold
marvin was so fine, damn
Yes he was umm umm umm
I feel sorry for Marvin Gaye. His father is a trip.
His father was a dope fiend.
Marvin described his father as a "cruel king". - a hellfire preacher.
His father looks like such a weakling. Could have bought a better wig too. He looks rediculous
+clarkewi not a preacher a creature
Thanks Kendra. That's brilliant!
I think family relationships are the most complicated. Marvin seemed like such a sensitive soul like anyone who has and will I think he struggled with himself. Rest his soul.
I've lived over half a century 😱 and I have never heard anyone that had a voice quite like Marvin. The word special doesn't even come close.
Marvin was such a beautiful man.
I'll tell you what....that was one fine man right there...There will never be another like Marvin.
Yes god he was fine as wine
That was the only thing I concentrated on when watching this.
I grew up with a young man who favored Marvin Gaye a little, I'm still kinda crushing on him to this day lol
He never really got over losing
Tammi Terrell who was the true love of his life. RIP Marvin 🙏
Father narcissist all about him. Every time his son speaks he claims his sons hopes, emotions etc and makes them his own. His father is obviously gay as well and his conflict inside he projected onto his son. "Im gonna give that to you" the one compliment he squeezes out he needs to make a communal declaration of HIS pride in his sons achievements. Poor Marvin had it all but nothing at all as so damaged by his father.. You can be the most talented person but if you don't have authentic love and a supportive home life and a narcissistic parent, its toxicity stains a child's life forever. Marvin is one of the greatest musicians and singers of all time.... We are all still in love with Marvin, so sad his father was so twisted
Marvin gay's dad was gay,and also used drugs. he was a hater...he couldn't stand Marvin,he was a jealous azz man. marvins mom
was afraid of him. I hate he had to leave this world by the hand of his dad...his soul was weary and trouble. I hope the Lord has given him wonderful rest. Miss you Marvin.
You can feel that controlling vibe in this video that his father had over him and the jealousy, his father was so religious he didn't see his own sins, rest in peace Marvin Gaye .
May they both continue to rest peacefully away from the trials and tribulations of this earth 💜
I will stand on the hill of PEOPLE should NOT have kids unless they're emotionally, mentally and financially ready. Additionally, love and patience.
MG Jr was so soft spoken. Reminds me of Marlon Brando Jr. Their fathers hated them.
RIP to MG Jr.
Here, even as an adult you can see Marvin is guarded and afraid of his father.
Marvin Gaye's father dressed in women's clothing even outside and the children used to tease Marvin. Marvin's father was a cross dress and a Preacher. I don't know how Marvin's mother stayed with that man especially with the way he treated her son Marvin she should've protected him. Marvin died protecting his mother.
@@TW-mg3ldunfortunately mother's stand on the side and say nothing while their husband runs wild hurting the children and other family members Etc it's really sad how the mothers see all of this happening but yet keep a tight lip SMH speaking from my own personal experience my mom would sit there watching my dad do all of this crazy s*** and would not speak up to him to stop his ego filled nonsense
@@ziganometryYes, it’s very sad…all for the sake of keeping a man while the children are traumatized for life.
Fear? I see respect. Earned or not.
@@JimiBegbaajirespect? As an abused child, now adult just like Marvin. That’s fear and discomfort. Masking as respect.
That kiss he gives to his future killer breaks my heart.
Chilling 🤦🏿♂️
He loves his dad even tho he knew in heart 😭😭🤣 his dad was a real hater awwww man
Powerful.
No the Mobb killed Marvin and put his father on the chopping block his sister knows the truth , Detroit music mafia "
@@barnabasisrael2396 wow are you for real
Haunting. Kissing the man who helped bring him to this world and who took him out of it. His own father. RIP, Marvin.
Marvin was equally handsome as talented ❤❤❤
It seems Marvin could hardly look his Father in the eyes while talking to him says a whole lot! Marvin looks embarrassed and uneasy,
Probably embarrassed that his daddy slipped on Mrs. Gaye usher board meeting wig for a televised interview..
@@malikagrant6157 😂💀
Of course. Other people would have been the same way. His father abused him mentally and physically throughout his childhood and they completely despised each other even though it looked like they loved each other.
@Pamelafountain60 jones IKR? How do you do that? I was lucky to have a good father in my life. But, it’s sad that Marvin did not have that. I have a feeling he had thoughts throughout life thinking about why his father whipped him, why he hated him, and why he was jealous of him.
@@malikagrant6157 Its definitely the wig 😂
When Marvin Gaye sings, he still gives me chills in 2021! No singer has come even close to him to this day! Peace
I absolutely agree with you 100%!!❤️
I feel same
And so did my deceased mother,So do I and So does my daughter. 3 generations of Marvin Fans. There was a recent play (Pride and Joy) about he and Annas relationship, Zeola's play many years back, several docs, books about his life ...like Jan Gayes book but no big screen movie about all of the candid details. They must make it soon before all of the real players pass away. Anna and Gwen are gone.
Well, hmm Frankie Beverly sings love ballads that stand the test of time quite similar to Marvin! The closet I've seen yet 💜🙏🏾💜
Yes!
He was loved and adored by millions world wide. Still looked for his fathers approval and validation. 😢
All he ever wanted was his father approval and exceptance. And it killed him trying 🙏🏾rip great one 🙏🏾
Marvin Gaye was fine as f ....he must've took after his mother because surely not his father
He did take after his mom's looks.
What does that matter? Real talk.
You need glasses girl
@@Chillednfunked What're you saying?
Ikr😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Narcissists can be jealous of anyone who isn’t them and has what they want. Heart breaking. Please folks, learn more about Narcissistic abuse within the family, the knowledge will help break your trauma bonds. Much love to you all ❤️
True
Yes. We must be careful with family. Narcs are dangerous .
Narcissists are dangerous when they feel they cannot OWN you & have lost you
I learn something new every single day. I would have loved to watch him play 🏈. 🎙🎤
Marvin was truly a troubled Man. A great talent taken from us too soon.
The sadness in his eyes so evident!
Noemi Figueroa exactly man! those eyes seem to say it all
but what an awesome and talented brurhA!
Body language NEVER LIES. Marvin is guarded....legs/arms crossed with little to eye contact.
He shut his father off mentally. The love doesn’t change but the tolerance does.
You and i have a damn GOOD EYE OF reading people!!!👍👍👍✌
First thing I noticed 💯
@TheKnow: Deep and true
@Bubbub2020 Topps
Sorry to hear that. If resolution is possible; you'd might want to try it; if you absolutely can't, few would blame you for going ahead saving *yourself* .
Marvin Jr.' s body language DOES speak volumes!
I can see the pain in Marvin's
Face he's tense and has his hands crossed . His pops deeply scarred him .
Thank you So Much for those Songs you left for us Thank you Threw these hard Times for me TRAVEL WELL....MARVIN GAYE...‼️‼️‼️
Marvin Gaye was fine
Indeed indeed
Yes he’s very handsome
Wow! This "man" never financially supported his family or even had income, but dressed in female attire wore pink curlers in the neighborhood! Embarrassed the family then beat the shit out of poor Marvin! Had a separate bedroom and had church women in and out in front of his family! Reality TV has nothing on this trick! Smh!!!
Wow.. Marvin was so charming❤❤❤
Just so sad, you can see the dynamics of the father always talking down, poor Marvin Gaye jr. he deserved better, a gentleman.
His father may have killed him but his music will live on forever.
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❤️🙏
THIS interview is a reminder to me that I need to stay away from my jealous father/family & I’m not crazy!, I will not honor hatred & end up dead!
Pray for your enemies to be blessed...from a safe distance (Matthew 5).
Say that !!!!🙌🏽
He was so emotional in his singing ❤
His dad was really flamboyant
No wonder Marvin numbed himself with drugs.
Actually his drug use escalated when Tammi Terrell died
@@tyliekinc. Yes it did!
yeah his dad was jealous of him smdh.. Marvin Gaye the only dude in teh world probably who did not turn out to be like his dad. Most of the time the boys endup gay like their dad
@@beauttty072 mj didn’t end up mean like Joe
It got worse when Tammi Terrell died he went into a depression state between 1969-1970
You can see how Marvin has his arms crossed and no real eye contact from Marvin to his dad. You can sense the tension he had towards his dad. Marvin will always be the Smoothest R&B Balladeer. 🌹 His dad was a trip!
Amazing thank you so much for sharing this great man's music. All the very best frm England
I love this man ❤