NARCISSISTIC ABUSE 🚩 (RED FLAGS!)
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- Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2021
- Living with a #narcissist.
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"You apologize and take the blame, you keep quiet and try even harder to please them. They slowly take control of your life by forcing you to obey a set of double standards. They won't respect your boundaries and will make you feel guilty for having any."
I was in a relationship with a narcissist for over a year - and during that year, I’ve completely lost myself. Recovering from that narcissistic abuse is so hard, especially when you’ve been manipulated into thinking you’re the insane, emotional, unstable one. The feeling of regret, confusion, guilt takes over. You think it was your fault. And then you see ‘they not only broke your heart, but soul, spirit’. I feel like discovering myself again. Learning how to live again. Yet, the narcissistic abuse is not being discussed enough. Thank you Kate for bringing that up, I can finally forward it to my friends, who don’t understand how much of a burden, the feeling of grief and soul crashing that relationship was. I hope everyone who survived it, found themselves again.
Sending you love
Damnn how many people are going through this ..the community is getting bigger n it's sad ..but atleast the awareness is 📈📈📈📈
As somebody who grew up in a loving home and has had good relationships, I feel really sorry for people who have to deal with this on a daily basis. You have my respect and love
Falling in love with a narcissist is literally a traumatic experience. It isn't like a normal heartbreak, it leaves you totally rock bottom
Been through every single thing you talk about here. Luckily I am free now. Good job, hope it helps somebody open their eyes.
My ex was like this, I'm glad it's finally over.
part of me is scared to watch this…😔
It’s hard when they’re your family
For me its been years of abuse, starting when I was a child. You don't realise it at that age, it is your normal. I got out, escaped, but it haunts me to this day.
I tried to get help but it is really difficult to explain what happend.
And instead of listening, people keep dismissing it, because I never got hurt physically.
So extremely accurate. And the exercise at the end was very helpful thank you.
Hey kat I just want to say that I really appreciate your efforts and your determination you have no idea how your videos helped me realize so many things and change them and I really don't wish you to stop unless you want to of course thank you so for everything you do and just for existing really . ❤
Growing up with my narcissistic mother wasn't easy. Even if I wanted to hate her for what she had put me through, I couldn't. No matter what I still love her, cuz sometimes she can show her more nice side. I cant even tell if she really has got this disorder or I am just exaggerating...
No you are not exaggerating. This is called cognitive dissonance
Powerful message 💕 this is so true and I’m sure that many of us has been in a relationship like this 🥺
Such a calming voice sooth my soul
Wartościowy, naprawdę wspaniały materiał Kasiu. Myślę, że dzięki Twojej twórczości wiele osób otrzymuje potrzebne wsparcie. Sam też swego czasu skorzystałem za co bardzo Ci dziękuję
you put it into words really well
Came on youtube to look for some inspiration and found this channel and it has besowed a new perspective onto how I'll structure this content i'm working on. Keep on making great content Kat!
Currently trying to get free, to be out of a 7 year relationship. It's been hell. Yes there were good times other wise why wouldn't have I left sooner? They disguise the abuse. For a little while. But the fear of starting over and living alone sometimes is greater than the fear of staying. But I know what I deserve. Now.
Thankyou so much for this video
I love this kinda videos, and i love your voice its very calming ❤
I have tears in my eyes im now in that kind of relationship
Run! Talk to friends and family if you can. Leave them and go no contact. That's the only way. I went through this as well.
I've been there so please believe me: You deserve better. You will find someone who will love you for who you are. You don't need this person in your life. Sending hugs and strength to fight for your well being ❤️
*_Not often I watch a video about myself; I never acted or pretended. I've never planned for anything to go bad. Whenever I'm wrong I own up to it, I apologize and learn. I always cared, I did judge her often but only because she was so non chalant and did questionable things, like hang out with her 50 guy friends instead of me whenever I asked, I always encourage her and was proud when she did something she enjoyed... I tried gradually changing and slowly began some kind of healing process through constant reassurance from her... I did go into panic mode when she left but I had such high hopes that we would be together forever. I loved her unconditionally... Too bad from my side she abandoned me anyways... The most traumatic experiences I've ever had. But I'm giving up soon, a bulb flickering across infinity... I have a heart disease due to overwhelming trauma like this takotsubo cardiomyopathy and as I relapse and text, now... I am in unbearable pain remembering all the people I have loss. If my heart doesn't stop working._*
i promise you things can get so much better. i’ve been there, thought i would never feel better but things change i promise sending you love and light
@@Leah-in7jh *_Thank you, that means so much more than you know._*
i really needed this
Thank u so much for this, he made me think I was crazy and I believed him.
I see you and think how strong you are..how you survived all these things..and it all makes you stronger..I am 22 years old and I see my friends and some people go through things and everything changes them and makes them better or stronger and looking at myself I can't even Getting out of my house without hours of thinking.. my anxiety makes me a weak, lonely, soft and harmless person living in a world of pain...don't have any experiences in life.. and someone like this will suffer the hell in the world.. thinking what life will do to me??
i was crying cause i miss my narcisst, he dumb me in 5min after told me he care about me, about us.... still missing this lovebomb... can i ever meet my soulmate without having nothing in my heart, no trust for anyone..
Thanks, i needed it
I was raised in this kind of environment, now I wonder how much I am.
I care about him so much though :( it's so hard to completely walk away but I have to at one point.
The damage these people cause may be irreversible. Leave immediately, they’re not who you think they are. It’s all a show, a fake, if you don’t discard them for good they will discard you and in return also break your soul and never stop until you’re unrecognizable to yourself.
So beautifully made
I could not understand what is happening with me for the last 10 years with him.... until I found information about narcissism
My story: as a men, I was within such a relationship for almost 10 years. It all started back then when I was 19, starting college. I met a girl, who became my girlfriend for few months. Tried to broke up with her but she was ABLE TO DO ANYTHING to keep me up close, so then we became 'friends'. She threatened to kill herself A LOT, each time I wanted to end this mess 4ever. In public, it was always my fault, always I was this bad guy. There never was any sort of physical abuse, but I had strong anger issues whilst put into fight with her. All my friends were trying to talk to my mind she is not good for me. Finally, all my friends stepped back and left. I didn't graduate, so didn't she. I was in few relationships, all of them were destroyed with her in the background. It was all a long-term process and I couldn't see this poison up until I became... alone. Suddenly, she found a boyfriend and left me in a month-time. Now I'm 29, feel unable to build any relation and feel like a total mess. If I was able to travel back in time, never meeting her would be at the top of my list. Lessen learned, life feels damaged.
This does remind me of my ex a lot. Not in every single point but in a lot if them. He even once said that he thinks he once had a bit of narcissism, well I think he actually still has it quite much. He hurt me so much with his words and when I told him that this is hurtful to hear and it destroys all my confidence he turned everything around and it was my fault because I didn't have enough confidence from the beginning and I would have incorrect perception (that was clearly gaslighting) and he also tried to seperate me from my family (and friends) a lot, like he would complain whenever I spent time with them or skyped with them that I would spend to much time with them, that I wouldn't be supposed to spend so much time with my parents in my age and so forth.
Sounds more like my entire family: mother, father, and sister. I don’t want to live here longer than I have to. I don’t want to be like them, how do I make sure I don’t become like those people?
Love u kat ❤️
Oooh I'm so happy I can't relate to this one
Why am I sobbing
Great 👍.
Спасибо
When they don't crack up at my jokes, or make me laugh. I leave. After all the sex and everything else. Two people need to have ability to laugh together.
Hello there. After watching this video I got scared that I am that narcissistic person hungry for love. Can you help me? Cause watching this reminds me of the way I treated my ex girlfriend.
My father is like this
holy shit my grandpa acts like this towards my grandma
💖💖💖
2:23 damn she really dates kurt cobain😳
Not with him anymore, still can't forget and so fucking miss him
My sister is narcissist
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hello 👋
I have a sincere question: if we apply the "the best way to win this game is not play" formula, does that mean narcissist people will never get love?
Well, they have to want to change through therapy. Otherwise - they can only blame themselves.
@@KatAmarie Thank you for the answer. You are right. They can change and I hope they will. Thank you for these videos as well. Thank you for explaining all of this in everyday terms. You are very lovely
Why do you think a narcissist will never heal?
none of this is your fault. none of this is my fault.
the jokes are never funny.
couldn't help but notice that all the narcissists in the video were males, & all the victims were females.
I know it's annoying