I think uncertainty in the face of attraction is indicative of the developmental stage in one's life. A mature person would know why they are attracted to someone else.
@@vaidehiranade3046 Haha. That's okay. Try practicing it even more and also try calming your anxiety by taking a few deep breaths or drinking a glass of water.
@@shivamnow Yeah Thanks...have been struggling with social anxiety for a few months....still trying :) I wish there were more understanding people like you in this world :)
@@vaidehiranade3046 It's okay. To be honest, I have been there too and I now do public speaking, workshops to hundreds and thousands of people and have written two best selling books. Understanding our self and slowly stepping up helps a lot. You can also subscribe to my RUclips channel as well, it should help.
3:40 yes, kindness does matter. This guy I had a crush on told me that he finds my kindness incredibly attractive... well I'll keep this in mind ahahah
@@bruh4196 I am emotionally unstable and he's immature, quite the combo huh? Most importantly, he's not as interested in me as he is in other people. We had a roll in the hay, but the thing didn't go any further :( He's dating another girl now
You forgot one important thing. Confidence! Not caring about other people's opinions too much makes you seem like a society yourself! You don't give in easily and you're not a coward! Edit: I said confidence, not selfishness! To those of you replying to me saying being self-centered makes you seem arrogant, I never said that! Yes, you should always respect other people's opinions and beliefs, but your opinion will not be respected if it disrespects someone else's existence. If you're thinking others should change themselves to please you, then stop running around like the Titanic making your family name sink. If your opinion is different, but doesn't disrespect me or anyone else in any way, then it will be accepted.
@@beanthealien2090 I get that. You shouldn't be 100% selfish. You just have to be a normal person without giving in to other people's expectations. You should still play your role in society, but don't change your opinion just because other people think or feel differently. It will make you look like a wannabe. If all that's too hard for you, just stay single. Staying single is actually much healthier than getting into a relationship. Besides, you'll end up wasting so much money, resources, and time anyways. #NATUREFIRST
“Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet.” ― Plato
OMG I love this! I'm currently writing a book about Heartmates and I talk about Heartsongs and I define them like this: When two hearts long for one another, they sing a song that only the other recognizes in order to be found; every Heartsong is unique to each pair and cannot be replicated by another that isn’t a Heartmate. When one heart sings, the other responds in kind; but the two people have to either be thinking about eachother or they have to be nearby. The closer Heartmates are to eachother, the louder and stronger the Heartsong is. In a way, it’s like two hearts beating but not in sync, but rather separately but on the off-beat. I’m sure the “beats” would sync up at some point, though. It’s like two birds duetting. The physical manifestation of a Heartsong is a warm, rocky feeling in your chest where your heart is. I feel it quite often.
1. Your smell 2. Your chemistry 3. Your diet ( having a healthy diet make you more attractive ) 4. Body ratios 5. Your proximity 6. Your kindness 7. Your personalities mash well 8. You take care of yourself Bonus : projecting self love and self care make you more attractive Thank you for 146 likes. I never had this much likes. Thank you all
thank you for posting this, i have been told by people that they think i’m pretty, and i’ve never understood why. i personally don’t think i’m attractive and this helps
Thank you much! This is such a valuable feedback. I will share it to our writers team. I think it's important to briefly mention it in the video. Most often we do reference them in the description in case if we missed out on it in the script.
Embrace being ugly. Honestly its not that bad. It keeps the foolish humans away and allows you to see the world for what it is. Pathetic and pointless. Better to be ugly and alone forever then then to be with the used up trash that inhabits this rock.
@@BansheeKing22 you shouldn’t encourage someone in thinking bad about themselves. Being ugly is super subjective and I know for a fact that the majority of people are attractive in the world.
@@k-popfan8824 it's freaking confusing man. I can't understand how people smell good. That's another thing that they bath daily unlike me who do it once a week 😂
Hey beautiful being. This is a reminder that you are enough, worthy, & whole. You are beautiful & attractive already. Your beauty is more than skin deep. May your vibe attract your tribe. 💗 #DrLizListens
Omg thank u so much. I needed to hear this. I realize i have to move on from my past and avoid evil people cause it only ruins me. Im gonna forgive my enemies and just stay happy cause im grateful that i have somebody who loves me which is my mother
I looked at my subscriptions page 5 seconds too late! This was a very helpful and infomative video, as usual! I love the people who talk in these videos, their voices are so soothing.
@@Psych2go Well my favorite so far is the one on maladaptive daydreaming disorder because it helped me personally realize that I was going crazy or have some schizoid disorder but that's just a personal thing
Back when there's no Corona yet me and my crush had a talk about my feelings towards him he said *"You have an attractive personality. You're jolly side makes many people happy. But I don't like you the way you like me. I like you as a friend, and as a person. Maybe there are other guys who will like you and love you. I'm sorry but friendship is all I can offer."* not the exact words but the same thoughts. It hurts of course, but hearing those words makes me like him more. But now we are just friends and we'll stay just like that. I'm still waiting for that person who will tell me that he love all this 8 signs about me.
Your voice combined with how you chose to draw certain animations are so so calming to me! Especially the "self-love" part had a healing effect on hehe.
Sorry to burst your bubble but saying that everyone is attractive has caviats: 1. it defeats the purpose of definition: if you can't make a distinction, the word no longer makes sense 2. claiming that everyone is attractive in general is utterly wrong since it is a subjective value, never objective.
I can not express how very much I adore this channel, and their devotion to helping and informing people! All the while employing absolutely adorable animations and characters! Love you guys!
I don’t think proximity has an effect. If you click with someone you’ll be in their mind (maybe heart too) even if you had to go away for periods of time. Yes the other person might meet other people during that, but it’s pretty rare that they will get those butterflies & chemistry with everyone they meet just like they did with the one. Thanks for the sweet video and art!
3:10 If there are traits and physical things that are considered more attractive by science, you're scientifically beautiful. Then you say, Oh but not having these traits doesn't make you less attractive. Hello?? Of course it does. You're making a comparison there. LESS. Definetly you're less attractive if you don't fit into those standards. So that intent of not being politically incorrect went the wrong way. Yes, we have to assume and accept that some of us are ugly or less attractive. The thing is that we see that as a bad thing. That's why everyone tries not to say that. BUT IT'S FINE. I'M TIRED OF A FAKE INSTAGRAM SOCIETY. Real people are UGLY. and it's okay, and it's not a bad thing.
As a person who seems to attract different types of human parasites because of my incurable kindness, I can confirm that kindness really is technically attractive
Your kindness will feel like a curse until you develop strong & healthy BOUNDARIES. Make it a top priority. Every empath who regularly attracts narcs will have to learn this. Once you DO have boundaries, your can ENERGETICALLY repel narcs, and for those who still approach you, you’ll know how to handle them. TRUST your gut feelings and other bodily sensations about people. If you feel that parasitic energy drain, don’t invite them into your personal bubble. You’re gonna have to learn how to say “no.” If you know that people are just using you for your kindness and generosity, channel the scenario where you’re at the checkout line at a store, and the cashier asks you, “And would you like to open a store credit card today to save 5% on your purchase?”, and whether it’s because you don’t need any additional credit cards or don’t ever shop at this store (like when I went to Petco to buy activated carbon cuz it’s cheaper to buy in bulk, but I don’t have any pets, and so I wasn’t gonna go back there, either ever or for YEARS afterwards), it’s easy for you to decline the offer. You can respond, “No thank you,” w/o any guilt or hesitation. You don’t have to explain yourself. PRACTICE THIS in your mind AND mind’s body, so you develop MUSCLE MEMORY. When you’ve practiced an imaginary scenario in your head enough times, what’s amazing is that your body recognizes it as ACTUAL experiences, so that when you finally do something for the first time in the PHYSICAL world, you’ll feel like you’ve already done it before. Rehearse any and all scenarios where you need to stand your ground. Do it NONCHALANTLY. Narcs don’t know what to do w/ you when you’re stoic, and they won’t continue to bother you. If you want to annoy or repel a narc, be INQUISITIVE, like a curious 5 yr old. They hate curiosity because they don’t like being asked questions, since they can’t ever answer anything truthfully, and lying requires thinking, which they’ll only invest energy into if there’s a worthwhile reward. Otherwise, they’d rather run away than deal with you.
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I adore this style of animation! Its unbelivabe how quickly you can produce quality content- I am truly amazed and hope that you´ll grow even more, cause you deserve it!
You're the best! I think Psych Fam is just patiently waiting for our next video! 💕 Lets try to reach over 1million ;D I think this video deserve that! LOVE YOU TOO!
Definitely...my family and friends are not so into psychology...but I bet they will be after they see your channel 😁 I'll share this video as much as I can 😁 MISSION 1M
I'd say the same for women. No deep voiced women especially since in this day and age you can't really tell anymore. But for me personally virginity matters, if she isn't one then i walk away.
@@Psych2go Make her the main narrator, her voice is therapeutic and suits the channel. Narrators play a great role in making people continue watching documentaries and RUclips vids.
Is it a metall problem if I keep having the same black and white scary dreams every single day? I have been seeing the same nightmare for nearly a year now (Please I need help)
Repeating dreams are often related to an "unresolved issue" and your mind's efforts to subconsciously sort it out... I'm not a dreams expert, but that's long been the consensus on the matter. Nightmares are usually (though not always) related to conflict, and sometimes something of the future that is doubtful or that you're afraid of... The trick would be figuring out whatever the issue or conflict is, even if it's psychological dissonance, and find a resolve for it. If it's just something anxiety inducing or uncertain, facing the danger head-on tends to help. That's not to say that you should blithely go out and do something even potentially stupid... BUT to be direct in your approach to resolve the problem or conflict or for your anxiety(ies) so you're no longer so afraid of them. ;o)
Number 3: Your diet. "People who eat more fruits and vegetables have a healthier lifestyle and a better scent." Now I'm happy I'm whole-food, plant-based. and vegan. :0
@@funnyguy6110 The US? What are you referring to when you say vegan food? Vegan food isn't just meat substitutes or other premium foods.. you can eat staples like rice, beans, lentils, vegetables which are generally pretty cheap..
When you consider someone as attractive, you base your opinion on subjective value. That doesn't mean this person is actually attractive. The thing is, some people are way more often consider attractive. But it's not really because they are inherantly attractive. They just have caracteristics that make them seem attractive. But they can be unattricive to others. We share some value, but our value aren't universal. A lot of people will consider someone attractive while most don't. It doesn't mean they are unattractive.
Um... Perfumes actually disguise or even obliterate your natural pheromones. They rarely actually add anything to your attractiveness... As a guy, so long as she doesn't let the grime cake up and go rancid, a sweaty woman smells like EXCITEMENT! No perfume or funky aromas needed. As an allergy sufferer, the stink of florals, especially lilac and lavender, smell like a migraine coming on... so there's that, too. ;o)
meanwhile people tell me someone who doesn't wear perfumes and rarely takes showers and sweats like a waterfall 24/7, that I smell extremely good and are asking what kinda soaps I am using ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@Emil-lf3no I was once approached by a girl who practically had pulsating hearts in her eyes, and she leaned in and asked right next to my ear what I was wearing that smelled like that... "About a 50/50 blend of neatsfoot and linseed oil" I told her. "Unless you're talking about the gun oil I got on my hands earlier." I use the neatsfoot and linseed to nourish and then seal leather in things like hats, jackets, vests and outer wear... stuff that sees a lot of elements... SO that was the only thing I could tell that she'd smell... The conversation wasn't terribly downhill, but there was a definite look of disappointment in her eyes. ;o)
1. Smell: mmm… apple pie… 2. Chemistry: mmm… chemicals… 3. Diet: mmm… healthy apple pie… 4. Body Ratio… I’m not ratio-ly intolerant! 5. Proximity… The guy in the cell next to me is hitting on me... Now I know why. 6. Kindness… I am *$ing KIND! Lol. 7. Personalities mesh well… great, another megaloniac… (that can't spell megalomaniac) 8. You take care of yourself… mmm… more apple pie… Your channels voice-over talent is like a room full of puppies ... (and a whole apple pie...)
My mom always said that I would never find love until i loved myself. I was a pessimistic child so I thought that everyone will always hate me because of my insecurities
Somehow, loving and seeing others as amazing is easier than doing it for yourself. Also, when you love someone, it transforms them. You know those questions where people ask if you would like and love your sibling if they were not your sibling? I think if i went the things with anyone else, that I went through with _my_ sibling, i would love them just as much. You love them, they love you back, you've seen them at their worst, they've seen you at your worst- i think this is why you love family like you love no one else.
I spy with my little eyes… how many characters do you recognize in this video?!
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Psych2Go hii ily
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Idk haven’t watched yet lol
You guys help eo much and deserve a break whenever you want !
46281093933030330 just a guess
Hello! Thanks for these vids uwu
This art style is so cute!
Should we make more of this animation? ;D
Psych2Go yes u should
@@Psych2go Yeah please do it's so cute! 😉
@@Psych2go Yes please!
Psych2Go yes
“You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.”
― Oscar Wilde
Deeeep.....
I love that👏👏
That's bullshit lol
how tf could Wilde know what a car is
@@helloworld7818 Maybe, but no need to project your toxicity on others ☺
When you're insecure u click faster
How did you know
LostX13 💔😂😂
Soooo true 😅
@@helenamusic260 😏
What do you mean
Amanda’s voice is so soothing
Agree 100%
Kind of an ASMR
Ikr
It annoys me lmao
It's like an audible hug 🥺
“The very essence of romance is uncertainty.”
― Oscar Wilde
We meet again!
It's always so good to hear your favourite quotes. How are you doing?
-Psych2Go Monica
@@Psych2go I guess, seeing your name makes everything fine. Hope you're doing great too! 😊
How much uncertainty is good😶
I think uncertainty in the face of attraction is indicative of the developmental stage in one's life. A mature person would know why they are attracted to someone else.
I love when people have a passion for something. Super attractive
Lol suuuuuuuuuuure...
@@GoldenMushroom64 why not
yyeesssss
@@GoldenMushroom64 I’ve seen many other people say that, she’s not a weirdo saying she has a furry fetish or something
A Positive mind generates Positive vibes that leads to a Positive Life. Be such a dope soul that people crave your vibes 🖖
Wow.. this- this wholesome commentory here actually blew my whole mind on the reason why Iv not been positive most of the time🤯💖
nothing worse than attracting vampires...better off to not signal you got fresh blood!
Ffffuc
@@MGTOWPsyche HAHAHA EXACTLY!! So many toxic people stick to positive folks lmao
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An open body language and a good listening ear matters a lot.
Yeah along with a good speaking mouth...which I don't have...In public, I struggle to form sentences way to much 🙄
@@vaidehiranade3046 Haha. That's okay. Try practicing it even more and also try calming your anxiety by taking a few deep breaths or drinking a glass of water.
@@shivamnow Yeah Thanks...have been struggling with social anxiety for a few months....still trying :) I wish there were more understanding people like you in this world :)
Oh great, im extremely socialy awkward and i have ADD, im screwed lol.
@@vaidehiranade3046 It's okay. To be honest, I have been there too and I now do public speaking, workshops to hundreds and thousands of people and have written two best selling books. Understanding our self and slowly stepping up helps a lot. You can also subscribe to my RUclips channel as well, it should help.
3:40 yes, kindness does matter. This guy I had a crush on told me that he finds my kindness incredibly attractive... well I'll keep this in mind ahahah
So are you guys now together? ;)
@@yosephsamuel9610 sadly not.
@@TheFuschiaDragonfly why?
@@bruh4196 I am emotionally unstable and he's immature, quite the combo huh? Most importantly, he's not as interested in me as he is in other people. We had a roll in the hay, but the thing didn't go any further :(
He's dating another girl now
@@TheFuschiaDragonfly Then how you got a crush on a personality which doesn't get along with yours.
We are often must more attractive than we give ourselves credit for. Comparison can make us feel unworthy.
Very true nena
Nikko Le ♥️🙏
Comparison is double edge sword it can either help you find motivation to be a better person or bring you down deeper than anything else.
Would you be offended if I said that I genuinely think your widow's peak is beautiful? I wish people were less judgemental of foreheads, honestly.
so true
You forgot one important thing. Confidence! Not caring about other people's opinions too much makes you seem like a society yourself! You don't give in easily and you're not a coward!
Edit: I said confidence, not selfishness! To those of you replying to me saying being self-centered makes you seem arrogant, I never said that! Yes, you should always respect other people's opinions and beliefs, but your opinion will not be respected if it disrespects someone else's existence. If you're thinking others should change themselves to please you, then stop running around like the Titanic making your family name sink. If your opinion is different, but doesn't disrespect me or anyone else in any way, then it will be accepted.
Gyum 2353 Overconfidence can just make you seem self centered though
Confidence is something I really need 😔
@@maddiemon7231 Same. ;-;
@@beanthealien2090 I get that. You shouldn't be 100% selfish. You just have to be a normal person without giving in to other people's expectations. You should still play your role in society, but don't change your opinion just because other people think or feel differently. It will make you look like a wannabe. If all that's too hard for you, just stay single. Staying single is actually much healthier than getting into a relationship. Besides, you'll end up wasting so much money, resources, and time anyways. #NATUREFIRST
@Gyum 2353 HAHAHHAHAH YOU SOUND LIKE RUSSELL HARTLEY
“Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet.”
― Plato
OMG I love this! I'm currently writing a book about Heartmates and I talk about Heartsongs and I define them like this: When two hearts long for one another, they sing a song that only the other recognizes in order to be found; every Heartsong is unique to each pair and cannot be replicated by another that isn’t a Heartmate. When one heart sings, the other responds in kind; but the two people have to either be thinking about eachother or they have to be nearby. The closer Heartmates are to eachother, the louder and stronger the Heartsong is. In a way, it’s like two hearts beating but not in sync, but rather separately but on the off-beat. I’m sure the “beats” would sync up at some point, though. It’s like two birds duetting. The physical manifestation of a Heartsong is a warm, rocky feeling in your chest where your heart is. I feel it quite often.
that's beautiful
@@remusinwater_ Agreed!
Bravo!
I really liked what u wrote,but I swear, first time when I read Plato I thought it was written potato 🤣🤣
1. Your smell
2. Your chemistry
3. Your diet ( having a healthy diet make you more attractive )
4. Body ratios
5. Your proximity
6. Your kindness
7. Your personalities mash well
8. You take care of yourself
Bonus : projecting self love and self care make you more attractive
Thank you for 146 likes. I never had this much likes. Thank you all
Thank you ✨✨
@@reyna1558 you're welcome
I smell like trash, that is attractive ? I will keep doing it :D
@@jasiabu you’re doing amazing sweetie!
Thanks for summerizing
Summary with timelines
1.Your Smell----00:39
2.Your Chemistry----1:23
3.Your Diet----1:56
4.Body Ratios----2:39
5.Your Proximity----3:12
6.Your Kindness----3:39
7.Your personality mashes well---4:02
8.You take care about yourself----4:39
I was going to do this... but thank you !!
thank you for posting this, i have been told by people that they think i’m pretty, and i’ve never understood why. i personally don’t think i’m attractive and this helps
Let us know if you find these reasons help you ;D
Psych2Go they really do, thank you for making this!!
Who else finds this video super duper relaxing?😍
Meeeee😁
Thanks! What was your favourite part of this video?
-Psych2Go Monica
@@Psych2go The art style and animations is very cute. Good job to the animators and of course to people who did research on the topic😁
One thing for sure that is NOT attractive:
Unskippable ads.
Frr
They are trying to make money while you are here fussing. Smh.
Lee Steal Well yeah but the _unskippable_ ones are truly painful.
trumpets
Ha, watching this on vance
*Let you, be you* --- ♥♥
*Wherever you go, carry happiness with you*
This animation is so cute :(
Thank you so much! Do you recognize any of the characters?!
AVATAR !!!!
I’m going full vegan.
@Shirley Ci am vegan since the day i was born iam fat af
Is your pic Jacksepticeye?
@@katherineconcio250 yes it is.
@@jimhalpert8365 Y E S
@@kkkkkk-fx2oo I can relate
I’m not first
Im not last
But when you post..
*i click fast*
Good one LMAO :)
This is actually true for once. XD
Nice one lol
"I'm not last"
Or are you?
*plays Vsauce music*
😏😏😏
I love how you say the sources of the studies you mention! Many just say "according to a study" without adding which study they're talking about.
Thank you much! This is such a valuable feedback. I will share it to our writers team. I think it's important to briefly mention it in the video. Most often we do reference them in the description in case if we missed out on it in the script.
Psych2Go I think it could also help if you provided a link to all of your sources
This channel is just the best and can teach psychology better than any teacher i have
Also the art is beautiful
You are so awesome for saying that! Thank you so much from the bottom of our hearts! We worked so hard on them! Don't forget to share these videos! 💕
funfact: no one in the comments rn watched the whole video yet haha
Haha! We sense that! Don't forget to watch the entire video!
LOL...So true
@@Psych2go i did! and i loved it thank you so much psych2go!!!
Dude haven't even reach 0:07 and im already commenting🤣
I am looking at the comment section
1: Smell
2: Diet
Me: damn im ugly
(Damn cool 80 likes. Thats nice also dont take this comment seriously lol)
Embrace being ugly. Honestly its not that bad. It keeps the foolish humans away and allows you to see the world for what it is. Pathetic and pointless. Better to be ugly and alone forever then then to be with the used up trash that inhabits this rock.
@@BansheeKing22 oh you're one of those
@@elgekok560 one of what?
This comment was big brain then he edited made him into a 7yr old getting likes for the first time.
@@BansheeKing22 you shouldn’t encourage someone in thinking bad about themselves. Being ugly is super subjective and I know for a fact that the majority of people are attractive in the world.
I am seeing this date stuff just to help my friend lol
Send this video to your friend! :D
You hero. The world needs more people like you.
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Tittle: ........ reasons that makes you attractive
Me : *crying* are you making fun of me .
This channel is one of the best and non-toxic channel
Periodt ✨
"Have you ever taken your partner's jacket?"
Me: umm...for that i need to have one first...
Sighs in single
bruh, same. one day, comrade, one day
He He 😂😂 same...
And about my smell. I have only sweat and sweat and even I can't figure out myself how I smell. Confusing.
@@mohanshankar2214 Lol same
@@k-popfan8824 it's freaking confusing man. I can't understand how people smell good. That's another thing that they bath daily unlike me who do it once a week 😂
8 psychological signs that makes you attactive
Me: I should have one of these
*Me after the video* : I am ugly
No, you're not
😂😂😂
@Twinkle F that like doing half the job and getting a full smile....
Cool, we have something in common
This art style is AMAZING! so is the background music!!!
So happy you enjoyed the art style and background music. Tris is awesome at that! 💕
9 minutes
9 MINIUTES
AND THIS VIDEO HAS SO MANY DAMN VIEWS
Well played
You deserved it
Edit: HOW THE HELL ARE THERE SO MANY COMEN-
HAHA! I love your thought process. Share this video! We worked very hard on this one! :D
:) thanks, i found this really helpful!
How is this 11 hours ago
this came out 30 seconds ago but aight
wait how did you post this 11 hours ago
ok whatever
Laurie bruh how is ur comment 11 hours ago
this was posted one minute ago..
@@emilyjsw I thought the same thing 😂😂😂😂
Hey beautiful being.
This is a reminder that you are enough, worthy, & whole. You are beautiful & attractive already. Your beauty is more than skin deep. May your vibe attract your tribe.
💗 #DrLizListens
❤
Omg thank u so much. I needed to hear this. I realize i have to move on from my past and avoid evil people cause it only ruins me. Im gonna forgive my enemies and just stay happy cause im grateful that i have somebody who loves me which is my mother
You guys are genuinely few of the best things about RUclips.
Me: I can be attractive not based on my looks
Depression: No❤
exactly what i was thinking
You will be attractive by personally
"If you can't love youserlf how in a hell you can love somebody else?
Can I get an amen up in here?" Miss Rupaul Charles
I looked at my subscriptions page 5 seconds too late! This was a very helpful and infomative video, as usual! I love the people who talk in these videos, their voices are so soothing.
I really love how calming these videos
Thank you! I agree 100%. Which video is your favorite so far?
@@Psych2go Well my favorite so far is the one on maladaptive daydreaming disorder because it helped me personally realize that I was going crazy or have some schizoid disorder but that's just a personal thing
Back when there's no Corona yet me and my crush had a talk about my feelings towards him he said *"You have an attractive personality. You're jolly side makes many people happy. But I don't like you the way you like me. I like you as a friend, and as a person. Maybe there are other guys who will like you and love you. I'm sorry but friendship is all I can offer."* not the exact words but the same thoughts. It hurts of course, but hearing those words makes me like him more. But now we are just friends and we'll stay just like that. I'm still waiting for that person who will tell me that he love all this 8 signs about me.
The same thing happened to me!! It’s always nice to know that I’m not alone 😊
He grabbed me , kissed me And then he said these words...and it was my first kiss.
Some people are so deeply depressed that they want to be wanted !
I am some people. 🙅🏻♀️
Very true.
I love this soft art style, filled me with warmth and softness. like I am cuddling with my plushies
Your voice combined with how you chose to draw certain animations are so so calming to me! Especially the "self-love" part had a healing effect on hehe.
time to boost my self-esteem again
Sorry to burst your bubble but saying that everyone is attractive has caviats:
1. it defeats the purpose of definition: if you can't make a distinction, the word no longer makes sense
2. claiming that everyone is attractive in general is utterly wrong since it is a subjective value, never objective.
I can not express how very much I adore this channel, and their devotion to helping and informing people! All the while employing absolutely adorable animations and characters! Love you guys!
I don’t think proximity has an effect. If you click with someone you’ll be in their mind (maybe heart too) even if you had to go away for periods of time. Yes the other person might meet other people during that, but it’s pretty rare that they will get those butterflies & chemistry with everyone they meet just like they did with the one.
Thanks for the sweet video and art!
3:10 If there are traits and physical things that are considered more attractive by science, you're scientifically beautiful.
Then you say, Oh but not having these traits doesn't make you less attractive.
Hello?? Of course it does. You're making a comparison there. LESS. Definetly you're less attractive if you don't fit into those standards. So that intent of not being politically incorrect went the wrong way. Yes, we have to assume and accept that some of us are ugly or less attractive. The thing is that we see that as a bad thing. That's why everyone tries not to say that. BUT IT'S FINE. I'M TIRED OF A FAKE INSTAGRAM SOCIETY. Real people are UGLY. and it's okay, and it's not a bad thing.
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0:38 your smell
1:23 your chemistry
1:56 your diet
2:40 body ratios
3:12 your proximity
3:38 your kindness
4:39 you take care of yourself
Omg the characters you drew are so adorable!
U have such a great voice...ur facts are really genuine and great....the cartoons u used in ur video are super cute and lovely😍
As a person who seems to attract different types of human parasites because of my incurable kindness, I can confirm that kindness really is technically attractive
There are occasions, I like to look up at the sky and thank God for making me just a bit of an asshole. ;o)
Awwwe, that's kinda sad.... hope you start meeting better people soon
I can attest to that. It’s attractive in the worst way possible.
Your kindness will feel like a curse until you develop strong & healthy BOUNDARIES. Make it a top priority. Every empath who regularly attracts narcs will have to learn this. Once you DO have boundaries, your can ENERGETICALLY repel narcs, and for those who still approach you, you’ll know how to handle them.
TRUST your gut feelings and other bodily sensations about people. If you feel that parasitic energy drain, don’t invite them into your personal bubble. You’re gonna have to learn how to say “no.” If you know that people are just using you for your kindness and generosity, channel the scenario where you’re at the checkout line at a store, and the cashier asks you, “And would you like to open a store credit card today to save 5% on your purchase?”, and whether it’s because you don’t need any additional credit cards or don’t ever shop at this store (like when I went to Petco to buy activated carbon cuz it’s cheaper to buy in bulk, but I don’t have any pets, and so I wasn’t gonna go back there, either ever or for YEARS afterwards), it’s easy for you to decline the offer. You can respond, “No thank you,” w/o any guilt or hesitation. You don’t have to explain yourself. PRACTICE THIS in your mind AND mind’s body, so you develop MUSCLE MEMORY. When you’ve practiced an imaginary scenario in your head enough times, what’s amazing is that your body recognizes it as ACTUAL experiences, so that when you finally do something for the first time in the PHYSICAL world, you’ll feel like you’ve already done it before.
Rehearse any and all scenarios where you need to stand your ground. Do it NONCHALANTLY. Narcs don’t know what to do w/ you when you’re stoic, and they won’t continue to bother you.
If you want to annoy or repel a narc, be INQUISITIVE, like a curious 5 yr old. They hate curiosity because they don’t like being asked questions, since they can’t ever answer anything truthfully, and lying requires thinking, which they’ll only invest energy into if there’s a worthwhile reward. Otherwise, they’d rather run away than deal with you.
@@MoPoppins Amen! ;o)
Great video guys/gals. Another video full of great information. Thankyou for bringing this video to us.
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for your comment! It really tells us if we are on the right track etc. Don't forget to share this video, we worked so hard on them!
This videos are everythingg. Can we stop for a minute to appreciate the illustrations and the narrative?? ✨💕✨
I am extremely attractive, folks always stare everywhere I go. You can't get much better than blue skin, and pitch black eyes.
i love you
Who else is here to boost their self esteem?
Me 😔
Wink :)
@@Psych2go omg its you
I adore this style of animation! Its unbelivabe how quickly you can produce quality content- I am truly amazed and hope that you´ll grow even more, cause you deserve it!
Wow new videos almost every hour and 1.1K views in 3 mins...you guys are on a roll!
Seriously you teach so much! Love you ❤️😘
You're the best! I think Psych Fam is just patiently waiting for our next video! 💕 Lets try to reach over 1million ;D I think this video deserve that! LOVE YOU TOO!
Definitely...my family and friends are not so into psychology...but I bet they will be after they see your channel 😁 I'll share this video as much as I can 😁
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LETS DO THIS TOGETHER! They will be once they see this video hahah! :P
Voice matters too! If a tall, good looking muscular guy approaches me and he has a high pitched voice I'd run away haha 🤣
I'd say the same for women. No deep voiced women especially since in this day and age you can't really tell anymore. But for me personally virginity matters, if she isn't one then i walk away.
agree lol
Oh my gosh SO TRUEEEEEEEEEEE😭😔
@The Darkness hahahahah wtfff
@@BansheeKing22 but i have a lower voice than an average girl. Sooooo... ama just head out(jk🤣😭)
POV: you're clicking on all these types of videos to tell yourself that people like you
Found psych2go randomly and now became a fan of this channel and every video
The videos are just so relaxing😍😘
This is one of the greatest comments I’ve seen!
@@Psych2go love you really
Great VO by Amanda Silvera!
Agree 100%! We even posted her singing cover on this channel. Super awesome!
@@Psych2go Make her the main narrator, her voice is therapeutic and suits the channel. Narrators play a great role in making people continue watching documentaries and RUclips vids.
*I'M WORKING ON MY CHANNEL VERY HARD TO REACH AS MANY PEOPLE AS YOU AND INSPIRE THEM BY MY CREATIVITY. Thanks for showing the example* ♥♥
Cool! Me too 😉
My slurred speaking voice is my best quality and my hunchback is my most defining feature 🥴👍
I have a feeling, my serotonin and dopamine level is increasing through this channel. You guys are the best!
Yay I'm finally early
These make sense
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These characters are c u t e
Keep up the good work!! :>
I love to see your thought process! This comment is the best :P Don't forget to share this video! We worked hard on this one!
@@Psych2go Omg you replieddddd I shared this owo
Of course! :D
them : yur chemistry.
me: i got 99 in chemistry, so.... yeah i am attractive people .
Is it a metall problem if I keep having the same black and white scary dreams every single day?
I have been seeing the same nightmare for nearly a year now
(Please I need help)
Repeating dreams are often related to an "unresolved issue" and your mind's efforts to subconsciously sort it out... I'm not a dreams expert, but that's long been the consensus on the matter. Nightmares are usually (though not always) related to conflict, and sometimes something of the future that is doubtful or that you're afraid of...
The trick would be figuring out whatever the issue or conflict is, even if it's psychological dissonance, and find a resolve for it. If it's just something anxiety inducing or uncertain, facing the danger head-on tends to help. That's not to say that you should blithely go out and do something even potentially stupid... BUT to be direct in your approach to resolve the problem or conflict or for your anxiety(ies) so you're no longer so afraid of them. ;o)
i love this channel so much idk why but the way she talks is like a free therapy love you guys
This animation/art style is my favourite so far
I want to believe but we all know that if you're not pretty none of these will work...
Facts bro
Number 3: Your diet. "People who eat more fruits and vegetables have a healthier lifestyle and a better scent."
Now I'm happy I'm whole-food, plant-based. and vegan. :0
You can AFFORD that?????????
L U C K Y-
@@funnyguy6110 vegan food can be very affordable
@@mpmedia6735 Where tf do you live??????
@@funnyguy6110 The US? What are you referring to when you say vegan food? Vegan food isn't just meat substitutes or other premium foods.. you can eat staples like rice, beans, lentils, vegetables which are generally pretty cheap..
@@mpmedia6735 Oh i was referring to the stuff that's marketed as “uwu vegan whole grain natural 100% organic ”
I am seriously starting to fall for this Amanda person because of her soothing voice. One can only imagine what she looks like.
Physical attraction is common, but a deep connection is unique.
“reasons that make you attractive”
U mean reasons you are attractive?
Not really... it doesn’t really mean you’re attractive right out the bat...
Yes! I was thinking and saying the wording is a bit confusing
When you consider someone as attractive, you base your opinion on subjective value. That doesn't mean this person is actually attractive.
The thing is, some people are way more often consider attractive. But it's not really because they are inherantly attractive. They just have caracteristics that make them seem attractive.
But they can be unattricive to others. We share some value, but our value aren't universal. A lot of people will consider someone attractive while most don't. It doesn't mean they are unattractive.
Gabey playing the flute I agree... the title was meant to imply that it can make you attractive but it doesn’t mean that you are attractive
"Have you ever taken your partner's favorite jacket?"
Me: *21 years single* Ha!
I'm living for this soft sweet art style
Ur art way and colours and voice and everything is ....no words can explain how satisfying this channel is for me
Thank you so much 😀 Is this your favorite animation so far?
@@Psych2go yep , it's such a cool and colourful way of relaxation and at the same time giving information
one: your ✨smell ✨
me only buying cheap perfumes that ain’t last long because i can’t afford more expensive: 😞💔
Um... Perfumes actually disguise or even obliterate your natural pheromones. They rarely actually add anything to your attractiveness...
As a guy, so long as she doesn't let the grime cake up and go rancid, a sweaty woman smells like EXCITEMENT! No perfume or funky aromas needed.
As an allergy sufferer, the stink of florals, especially lilac and lavender, smell like a migraine coming on... so there's that, too. ;o)
meanwhile people tell me someone who doesn't wear perfumes and rarely takes showers and sweats like a waterfall 24/7, that I smell extremely good and are asking what kinda soaps I am using ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@Emil-lf3no I was once approached by a girl who practically had pulsating hearts in her eyes, and she leaned in and asked right next to my ear what I was wearing that smelled like that...
"About a 50/50 blend of neatsfoot and linseed oil" I told her. "Unless you're talking about the gun oil I got on my hands earlier."
I use the neatsfoot and linseed to nourish and then seal leather in things like hats, jackets, vests and outer wear... stuff that sees a lot of elements... SO that was the only thing I could tell that she'd smell...
The conversation wasn't terribly downhill, but there was a definite look of disappointment in her eyes. ;o)
You forgot number 9
They do it naturally and they don't watch videos like these
I love the art anf how soothing the voice of the speaker. It's like she's telling a story to children
The voice and animation are therapeutic ❤
...Eat your broccoli to appear more attractive.
Sure. Everyone stops farting.
This helped my self esteem a lot :)
You haven't even watched jet..
I love this cute animation, it's so flawless and adorable
Thank you so much! Will share this over to our animator? ;D Did you recognize any of these characters in the video? If so, which one is your fav?
Body ratios? Smells? How is that psychological? This channel has become ridiculous
what
This explains why I like the smell of my partner’s armpits... I thought I was just weird haha
Your voice is sooo soothing and this is really helpful
Kindness and chemistry matter THE MOST out of this list because it's the first thing people catch onto
100%!
1. Smell: mmm… apple pie…
2. Chemistry: mmm… chemicals…
3. Diet: mmm… healthy apple pie…
4. Body Ratio… I’m not ratio-ly intolerant!
5. Proximity… The guy in the cell next to me is hitting on me... Now I know why.
6. Kindness… I am *$ing KIND! Lol.
7. Personalities mesh well… great, another megaloniac… (that can't spell megalomaniac)
8. You take care of yourself… mmm… more apple pie…
Your channels voice-over talent is like a room full of puppies ... (and a whole apple pie...)
Wow! The art style on this one is incredible!
Thank you! Shall we do more of this animation style?
@@Psych2go Sure!
Thanks for this! This is so positive and it makes people feel better about themselves and definately made me feel better about myself! 🤗
My mom always said that I would never find love until i loved myself. I was a pessimistic child so I thought that everyone will always hate me because of my insecurities
Somehow, loving and seeing others as amazing is easier than doing it for yourself. Also, when you love someone, it transforms them. You know those questions where people ask if you would like and love your sibling if they were not your sibling? I think if i went the things with anyone else, that I went through with _my_ sibling, i would love them just as much. You love them, they love you back, you've seen them at their worst, they've seen you at your worst- i think this is why you love family like you love no one else.
if you don’t love you, who else will? 1000% agree. so grateful for this channel 💖 blessings
Exactly! You got to love yourself first. Thank you for watching this video! Don't forget to share this video!
Tris Canimo your illustrations are awesome! Congrats 👏
Definitely need to work on the healthy living stuff! Very interesting 😎
Your voice is so sweet and relaxing