9 Traits That Make You More Attractive To Others
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- Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
- Have you ever wondered why some people can attract others to them? It is because they have magnetic personalities. Not everyone has a magnetic personality but we can acquire it with a little practice. If you want to know how they do it, here are a few common traits that magnetic people have developed that help you in your relationships and everyday life.
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1. Being present
2. Vulnerability
3. Genuineness
4. Good sense of humor
5. Creativeness
6. Natural curiosity
7. Optimism
8. Good communicators
9. Knowledgeable
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@hecker A rickroll right?
Oh thnx for simplefying it. That really helps
So, they are simply idiots
These atractive people
@@lukascisar6740 what do you mean by attractive trait meaning they are just idiots?
Here are the timestamps for you:
0:27 They are present
1:04 They are vulnerable
1:33 They are genuine and authentic
2:20 They have a good sense of humor
2:52 They are creative
3:29 They are naturally curious
3:53 Healthy optimism
4:35 Good communicators
5:08 Well-versed & knowledgeable
Thanks, that was very helpful :)
So, they are basicaly dummies
You know something’s not right up there when you read “curious,” “well versed,” and “knowledgeable” as “dummies” 🤨
Thanks☑️
Damn i kinda have all of these, i make people feel appreciated and comfortable around me although no-one does that to me (╥﹏╥)
I feel like I have a magnetic personality. When I look back and see, I have to many friends. Idk why, I see my self as a weird stupid person. How do I have these friends when others way better than me don't? This thought runs through my head every day. This video has helped me understand why these things happened. . Now, I am encouraged to help and connect with people who aren't as lucky. Thanks!
i think is just ur self esteem, work on that more then on other people
I can relate to your words, it's almost like you were talking about me..
aww so cute
Sorry but if ur magnetic u wouldn't think so low of urself, ur popular for other reasons, not magnetivity
You a nigga with an anime pfp so first of all you aren't magnetic😭
Without watching I know I will not have any of these traits whatsoever
PFFT SAME 😭✋
Lol mines on the side where the magnets push away from eachother
Whatever, I don't need them to make people discuss me and my actions.
And after watching?
I think you do ! You are just not seeing your ouwn shine yet
"One is not loved accidentally; one’s own power to love produces love - just as being interested makes one interesting. People are concerned with the question of whether they are attractive while they forget that the essence of attractiveness is their own capacity to love."
- Erich Fromm
This is so beautiful! I really needed this, thank you so much :)
@@juliaw glad you liked it! I love this quote because it's such a true reminder. It's easy to get lost when trying to be liked or loved but this really puts things in perspective.
You need to love yourself before you can love someone else. But having good qualities will make you more attractive to someone. It all starts from within - because when you feel good on the inside, you will radiate that on the outside.
YESSSS EXACTLY
SPEAK LOUDER
Take care 💓
Luv yaa
So when you don't like yourself because you see the causality the world and your past both caused on you as a person, what do you need to do?
9 Personality Traits that makes you Magnetic.
1. They are present - 0:27
2. They are vulnerable - 1:04
3. They are genuine and authentic - 1:34
4. They have a good sense of humor - 2:23
5. They are creative - 2:54
6. They are naturally curious 3:31
7. Healthy optimism - 3:53
8. Good communicators - 4:34
9. Well versed and knowledgeable - 5:10
Looks like I've got a whole hell of a lot of work to do
I'm so pleased to know I have all these traits and for a long time I wondered why lots of people wanted to hang with me. It was difficult to avoid certain people since I'm an introvert.
Exactly..Getting over whelmed with too many people adoring me😅
As somebody who wants to study psychology when she's older, specifically to become a therapist, this channel is a godsend. It's also a place to re affirm the positive traits I have and focus on improving in my flaws. I've learned a lot from a healthier mindset, my studies, this channel, and trial and error. I may only be in tenth grade, and I'd say my ambition is high, but I have hope things will go well. Thank you for this amazing resource and eye-opener, Psych2Go. From the entirety of my heart. ♥️
Sounds like things will go well 😊
Kinda not eye-opener but heart-warmer yeah
OctolingKayla- We have enough female therapists. Besides, it's a headache field, and you really need a personal issue that drives you to want to 'know' what makes you tick the way you do.
Well I wish you the best in your journey ❤️
@@m2pozad enough females in a job field is a kind of stupid logic ngl. Like, sorry we can’t have another woman in the field? I’m sorry I just don’t think gender even makes a difference in this field especially. You don’t need a personal issue to be a therapist. Though many have had personal issues before, it’s not a criteria. Yes, maybe it’ll help you have better understanding of the true feeling but it’s not needed. I’m sorry your logic is just really flawed tbh.
i dont have a magnetic personality, but im not gonna let that bring me down. im gonna try to improve myself with this knowledge
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Me too
1. They are present - 0:28
2. They are vulnerable - 1:03
3. They are genuine and authentic - 1:32
4. They have a good sense of humour - 2:21
5. They're creative - 2:53
7. Healthy optimism - 3:52
8. Good communications - 4:34
9. Well-versed and knowledgeable - 5:07
For you!
Hey Psych2Go! I’ve used some of your tips on making yourself more attractive/likeable etc, (like this video) in the past…and they work! You’ve made it easier to become more confident and I thank you wholeheartedly for that. You guys are the best 🥰😘
all i need is some goddamn entertainment after a long day of voice acting, & archeology studies for school. this video definitely cured me. thank you for taking the time to make this video. the funniest thing about me watching your videos is that I always have sushi with me. i look forward to watching your videos everyday! i love you!
I'm an Introvert
I barely have 3 of these traits
I observe people a lot cuz I like to know their perspectives.
I'm not as magnetic as you think I am
But I don't know why, people tend towards me
I have so many friends that it is annoying watching my extraverted friends, envious about me -_-
I'm not boasting about it, but seriously I observe.
I found out that, even though I don't strike the conversation first (cuz duuuh I'm a mufqin introvert and they said I give "Don't talk to me, you Peasant" vibe at the first glance😂)
People find me comfortable and trustable, cuz I smile and respect them for who they are.
That's all it takes, a smile and the Respect:)
It is integral with everything
Cuz when you do that you are intellectually smart and heartily humble.
That's happened to me where I wasn't sure if a friend was just being a borderline insulting or really envious. I would test their response based on two things that happened in my life, preferably something that has an impact in my life. What I chose was to see what their response was from me moving houses.
They knew were I lived before wasn't close to being a peaceful area. Everytime they were reminded of it they would make jokes about the place, have a couple of laughs, haha's and move on. Then I've recently moved to a new city where let's say the life style here is above average especially from someone that came from the ghettos. They didn't know I moved until they asked and I mentioned it.
Every since I mentioned it, they keep making references as if I somehow built s superiority complex. This was confirmed what one friend said, "white people town". That became a really red flag especially when the topic went from food to basically just shunning the new area I moved towards. It's like they laughed at my misery in the old city, and as long as I remained their for the rest of my life rotting, all was good, right? But the moment I moved to a better place, it makes them through random jabs out of nowhere to make me feel like I "abandoned" my past (miserable) life.
@@s1nb4d86 Honestly, you should rather limit your interaction with them.
I mean according to me that is really not the right crowd for you or anyone to hang out with.
I'm from a legit middle class typical Indian family.
And yeah my best friends are from similar background too
And in the future if any of us really do make it big.
Everyone would be happy about it cuz we all know our struggles and individual differences in our own passion.
I don't know where I'd be without my friends.
The emotional support they give is seriously underrated.
Im respectfully attracted to all you share..its so positive and uplifting.. theres no negative talk.. its sincerely awesome to me..
I love to learn different things.. especially this stuff..it helps find out what makes us tick..how we see ourselves with intent to truly know..i love this stuff..thank you so much..
Welp, i never understood why ppl enjoy being around me so much, but these all make sense of that. Glad i make others feel nice and even more that I have a better idea of why now. 😊
It sucks though at time to have a magnetic personality because I swear your meet some people that might be a bad influence. Although you get to learn so much by having a personality like this because you can learn the deeper parts of social interaction. When you can transverse though all the social status meaning from outcasts to popularity and get respected at all levels it’s pretty incredible. I think it’s a definite rare trait to have if you can do that. Sometimes I like it and sometimes I’m like “why am I always in these situations with these people”? Sometimes it’s a curse than a blessing because you can meet some people that you might later regret. Although you can meet some really cool people and vibe with pretty much everyone except a few. I think if you can also communicate with humility other than arrogance that can be very attractive to a lot of people. It seems like you are more relatable and realistic I feel. It’s just a thought at the end of the day. Just thought hey I might as well share my thoughts. Great video though always interesting seeing different perspectives and experiences. :)
As a good personality, it's your duty to help those who "might have a bad influence" Because they have a bad personality. It's your given gift, your mission. Why avoiding them?
Ur video style never offends me even if I don't match a lot of listed qualities. Such positive vibes
I appreciate the information and advice you have shared.
Thank you for that video! I now feel a lot better about myself as it made me realise, that I'm actually not too bad as a person / I have a healthy set of decent (or magnetic) traits.
Lmao I'm magnetic af. I didn't even understand why it has always been so easy for me to make friends. I got diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety with panic attacks and agoraphobia when I was 15, and I had lost my willingness to make new friends and even lost some, but now I'm 19 and getting better, and I got surprised because now it's easy again to make new friends even after those years. I thought I had lost that part of me, but it seems it was only waiting for me to get better to appear again!
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Can you guys make a video on relationship between Sociology and Psychology!!
Found it a bit hard to understand the lecture!!😕
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As an introvert, my magnetic personality has frequently frustrated me, though I've found it most helpful whenever help is needed, whether by me or someone in my circle. I frequently say, "It's nice to know people!" because so many humans have skills that can help other humans on occasion. I like connecting the dots when I can; it doesn't always work out as I envision things, though it's satisfying to feel that I've opened doors that might have otherwise stayed shut.
I love your channel
Idk why I never feel secure around anyone, I always start thinking that probably that person is thinking that I'm pity able that's why they're around me, in a second they'll gonna hurt me, they'll leave me, they think I'm weird and etc etc like there is no end in my overthinking and insecurities. I'm always afraid of all people and this society, even sometimes I just get afraid of myself
Wow, I never thought about myself this way but when you put it "the information" of traits. I see what's going on and how others see me, I've always had others asking for my ideas or answers to questions this happens to alot, I wonder why they want my thoughts on things. Don't usually get 1uped and told I am so wise, I don't think so, I've been told that I should write a book of my experiences in my life. I'm 66yo and have gotten some real life experiences that people find interesting.
My list would be so long as I've never been afraid of failure and have not failed much in my endeavors. I thought it was just part of life. I'll stop before it is like I'm great. I thought everyone was doing the same things to get experience with life. Okey Bye. Dave FLA
The style was pretty well!!
I clearly don't have the magnetic personality, but I hope that this video does come useful to develop one.
The claw machine at the start was adorable🥺
Most the things you said here implies to my lifestyle and now i believe why am so magnetic. Thanks
I’m loving the bgm. It makes the video a lot more uplifting ✨✨
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️. Become magnetic.
I disagree with the vulnerable part. As a man, it only led me to mistreatement, being judged and cast out. Being seen as weak.
I'm genuinely an outgoing person and I interest myself in people but people don't have interest in me.
I think I had enough if I'm honest. I just wish the pain of loneliness to go away.
I understand that being vulnerable while being a man can have bad outcomes but u need to look out for the people who are actually worth being vulnerable with.
Yeah, I agree with the other comment. Just look out for the red flags and don’t give out your friendship to people who don’t deserve it. There are men who explore emotional side in their male friendships, you just didn’t find your people.
But I get you. Sorry you feel that way.
why do you care about being judged?! so what if they judge you?! you are weak
This is just a tip, try to confidently embraced your vulnerability and flaws.. if you're confident with that side of yours, you can bounce their negative judgments.. and just like the other comment said, always be wise to whom and how you show your vulnerability, make sure they are reliable..
@@fnataliie_ yep, good advice dude! Because if we're confident in ourselves nobody can tell us otherwise
Wow these are all my personality traits..no wonder why I have so many friends and people like me so much
This video made me feel more confident about myself!✨thank you so much!
Month I'm born in is March!🏳️⚧️✨
Yep, got it all. So blessed!
Love the videos!!
Your channel have helped me so much!
Born in January, had my birthday very recently ❤️ I do have a magnetic personality, as well as being very intimidating, with a golden, empathetic heart 💖
The art in this video is really good!
I asked my friends if I showed any of these qualities and they said I showed all of them-
Needless to say, I’m quite surprised.
Thanks to this channel you always make my day!❤
Wow your animation is improving, also good vid topic. Very interesting
Thanks! Is this your favorite one so far?
I’m so grateful to have been blessed like this
Creative people have perspective
Productive people have perception
Perception - Perspective - Situation - Experience
I can relate with every point and i'm surrounded by many people but i like to be alone
Love all this videos of psych2go💙💙💙 I'm really getting better and better in understanding human psychology, decision making & it also helps me to become a more better person. This is my most fev. RUclips channel 💙💙💙
Here's something I have learned that I think Winch left out: one of the reasons that people are attracted to genuine people is that the they can see the genuine person is for real. Why and how? The genuine, legit person isn't trying to prove that they are and it's obvious. Even if not right away, it is in time because of the consistency of the genuine person's behaviors. I'm not a psychologist but I do study knowledge of all sorts every day and have a half century experience now. I'm pretty certain that my thoughts are accurate on this. Thanks for this video, I love this channel. Even though it's geared a bit more to the younger crowd, I Really enjoy the light-hearted and calm presentation. And as an artist I also appreciate the sweet animation.
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1.They are present
2.They are vulnerable
3.They are genuine and authentic
4.They have a good sense of humour
5.They're creative
6.They're naturally curious
7.Healthy optimism
8.Good commumicators
9.Well-versed and knowledgeable
Indeed I AM
Mixture of background musics are bit uneasy to hear, and unable to hear the actual content, creating distractions. I don't know I am the only one who is getting the issue or not.
But I love your contents. And looking forward for more.
Excellent ! Superb video 👍🙌💛🙌
Love this!
As this comment is being made, I would be Optimistic about life if weren’t for all the SELF-ISOLATION! Sometimes being positive all the time is bloody exhausting 😔
I'm part of those here who list little to none of these qualities, yet crave some intimacy and tenderness. I guess I now know why I've always seemed to repel people or turn their defenses up in the long run...
I'm sorry for my past traumas. I'm sorry for the behaviors I expose as a self-defense mechanism. I'm sorry for feeling I have to compensate for my shortcomings.
got em all thanks!
Gosh, I so seriously needed to train to have this... But once I mastered it was awesome!
Hey, could you make a video on whether something is just a phase or not? As a growing teen I’m never sure what’s a phase and what will stick with me through my adulthood. It would help out a ton!
what?
@@AllEnigmas don't call that number m8
I cant even understand a word they're saying sooo
If you're magnetic you might have friends but if you're not you've got something even more valuable, that is to say, time.
Aside from not knowing my humor, I think all of these work for me and I've never been without friends, though they tend to vanish often
The first day of school this year, everyone was new to each other because it's a trade school with 14 partner schools.
While everyone is class was extremely quiet, my friend and I were sitting there laughing our butts off. We ended up befriending half the class in the first 2 weeks.
You know this I'm having problem sleeping but listening to the narrating makes my brain relax
1. They are present
2. They are vulnerable
3. They are genuine and authentic
4. They have a good sense of humor
5. They are creative
6. They are naturally curious
7. Healthy optimism
8. Good communicators
9. Well versed and knowledgeable
Off topic but yesss I'm so happy Psych2go choose to go with option 3
I really need to work on all of this. A little difficult when you struggle with depression and social angsty
I identified with several, that's nice
Thank You for this video.
Thank you for the great meaningful content, I love your work :) I was born in September.
I’ve always been told that I have a weird magnetism about me. Ive actually overheard people talking to each other and commenting on what is it about that woman??? She just draws you in.
Good to know this, thanks Psych2Go, love your channel so so much! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
These videos always make my day!!
An enthusiastic greeting, eye to eye contact, an authentic smile, say the persons name, in general be authentic - a phony is easily spotted and kills the whole intro
If I would be fine emotionally I would have my attractive personality back.
People was used to feel so comfortable with me and being thankful.
Althought I havent been long so stable.
I've allways been in a self conflict, defeated...
I right now am diagnosed with distimia.
I'm hopeless and I see no point on trying.
I would really like to be fine.
But It's not close, not yet.
If someday I get to pass all my traumas. Or most expecifically, be stable. I know I can be someone attractive.
It's not ego stuff, It's just, I've been told so, and I Heard those personality stuff are attractive.
But first I must deal with my personal issues.
I don't think I was that magnetic but this video basically described me 😂
Thank you love these as always. I do find music track is a bit loud over your voice. and at 0:16 having 2 music tracks overlap had be looking for another open youtube window.
It's interesting. I didn't expect to have any, I was just looking on things to improve, but I actually have a couple. Maybe I'm not as crabby as I thought...
6/9 match with my personality.thx psych2go ❤️
0:06
*Pink:* Extrovert "Come to a party with me!"
*White:* Introvert "Well... You know... I have a lot of stuff to do and... No, wait! What are you doing? Don't drag me out! 😭"
I have or can do all these just I feel lazy to do such moreso if I know the character of the people around. In the group I am in, there’s like only 30% whose genuine that’s why I would just prefer to listen and react quietly in a graceful manner😊
Dang, it surprised me that this is me in my interactions with people. Nice.
Guys, check out music in the background. There are two different sounds that are not okay being together. Sometimes it seems like there are three sounds!
Yes. I'm very lucky.
I feel like I have a lot of these qualities, yet I intimidate others so much that I accidentally make it so people have to choose how they feel about me.
Just take time out to learn who you are and be yourself
The month I was born in August!
I have all of these things, including a sense of humor.
thanks for this
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it would be really cool if you could put subtitles in portuguese/brazil, I love your videos but without subtitles I can't understand much, and I think it would be good for you to extend the channel to other places. Apart from that, your content is amazing and very well done, I love the delicate way of each video.
thanks for the videos, and congratulations for the channel, bye bye
February !!!
Found that the music was slightly too loud but loved the content anyways :)
The first trait… I’m not creative because I’m often in the here and now. I’m creative because I’m often in my own worlds.
I usually wonder why or hoe do I attract people to be friends with me when Im around my cool friends. Im friwnds with the smartest person in my grade, the most creative person in my grade, the trouble maker of my class, the gentlemans of my class, the popular kids of my class, the introverts and the people who always need help. Im especially confused of why the popular nice girls genuinely likes bejng friends with me or how Im friends with the smartest people I know, the three of them had all get the first place in my grade atleast once and I always have introverts as my closest friends since a young age when Im an extrovert. So when psych2go posted this I think maybe I'll find the answer and gladly I did. Most oftenly, Im the energetic and cheerful, weird and curious of things sometimes Im really vulnerable and quiet it depends on my mood and the weather. Im glad I have a magnetic personality, my only problem is Im quite sensitive. Hope psych2go post on how to not be sensitive one day :)
I clicked on this video, interested to see if my best friend, who I feel has a magnetic personality, could relate, yet here I am relating to the video as well XD
Well ladies, gentlemen and everything inbetween, we've come full circle
Thanks and love you so much
Thank you! This explains some things about me and why others gravitate towards me in certain situations.
I use to mostly attribute it to my Gemini personality lol especially after meeting other Gemini’s. We like to help and make others feel at ease and this seems to help with building trust. I feel a greater responsibility now to extend myself more to others.
Thanks for sharing!
Me 💯 of all these personality traits.
Omg i just got an esteem boost with this video i have all of it hihi yeyyy 😁🥰
I’ve been described as a chameleon no matter how where you put me I can adapt and survive
I say that I relate to most of this