A Quick Update... Yes, We Are Still Alive!
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- Опубликовано: 11 фев 2023
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We are Brian & Jessica, a married couple who started on a life-changing whole food, plant-based weight loss journey back in June 2018. In June 2022, our lives were flipped upside-down when Jessica was diagnosed with Stage 3 (possibly 4) ovarian cancer. We continue to share our adventures (highs, lows, struggles & everything in between) in following a plant-based diet while keeping you up-to-date on Jessica's cancer treatment.
Follow along with our "Adventure":
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Jessica & Brian Krock
1720 Market St # 771902
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Praying for both of you. Your dad raised a wonderful man in you Brian.
It takes two to raise a child. If the man isn’t interested in his relationship with his sons, the mother has to figure out how to be a builder and teach her children too. It is not about maleness nor femaleness, it is about filling those needs and children see that. Brian loves Jessica because he must have had a mother who was worth loving too. It takes both parents to make an exceptional man.
I apologize for not including Brian’s mom. I went to school w Brian’s dad and I see so much of his dad in him. Of course I should have included his mom in my post and for that I apologize.
Thank you for the further explanation, @bethprokopf5173. Now I understand your comment better. Brian is a kind and thoughtful person and superb caregiver. My thoughts and prayers are with both Brian & Jessica. They are a fabulous team! ❤️❤️
I got a good mix of my parents. But the side that most people see comes from my dad. He's the outgoing social butterfly of my parents. My mom is the type to sit and read a book. 😀😀
Jessica is so lucky to have you and that attitude. Prayers and best wishes for you both 🙏❤️🙏
You are a good man, Brian, you are an example to us of what a loving husband really is all about. Continued prayers for you both 🙏 ❤️
@jk Sampley I agree. I wish I had someone like him when I had my mastectomy. My husband, now ex made me get up and pack our son's lunch the second day after surgery because he didn't know how to. The only thing he was concerned about was when we would have sex again. Brian is a saint.
@@stacydavis1682 I wish I had someone like him anytime. I'm technically married, but he's a narcissist and has never been a companion. We are only together in our old age because it's cheaper than trying to go it alone separately, but sometime I think it's worse than actually being alone.
@@CharGC123 I am 57 and have been alone for over 20 years. It's really, really tough financially, but I gave up on men and decided I am better off alone.
@@lisesolberg5301 I think you're right!
@@lisesolberg5301 Same here, 20 years sans man. It just reorganising of attitude, of expectations, of finances, and learning to love one's self, be proud of your achievements. Women are not weaklings.
You are such a sweet man, Brian. Jessica is lucky to have you. You are lucky to have Jessica. My prayer is that you will come through this time and that you can move on with your lives. I hope that Jessica is getting stronger every day. Love to both of you and thanks for the update. 👋❤️🇨🇦
Thank you for taking the time to jump on. Don't beat yourself up. There are so many high priority conflicts that are making demands on your physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional health. God will provide what you need when you need it. No, we don't understand the why's. But I know you trust in God, whatever may come. Sending you hugs of strength and courage. You are loved.
I don’t know if you follow Jenny Apple, but her husband, Kyle, has his own RUclips channel where he gives his thoughts on being a caregiver for a spouse going through cancer treatment . Glad you’re “ok”. Thank you for the update x
I follow them as well.. Kyle is a wonderful husband, father of two and so so good to Jenny. Prayers to all who are touched by this horrible disease 🙏❤️
Yes i follow them also,,, Praying for not only them but all of us ❤
We love Jenny & Kyle too! They are such an inspiration!
Me too, love them.
I love Jenny and Kyle! Such a beautiful couple!
I get it. As a caregiver it sometimes feels as though we're walking through a mine field, or just waiting for another shoe to drop. Maybe it's something akin to battle fatigue. Anyway, I send my very best wishes to you both for good outcomes and simply the peace of mind that can be hard to come by when facing a cancer diagnosis. Know that many people are pulling for you!
Oliver looked stuffed! Still praying for you guys. Appreciate the update.
Ikr?? 🤣🤣
I thought he was a soft toy! 🫢
It's real? 🙃
Thank you for the update Brian. I’m glad you’re doing okay.
Dude. I saw both my sister and my husband through cancer treatment about 18 months apart. People said the same things to me, worried for my well-being.
They shouldn't have worried, I had my Cancer Suit on. Like superman, but different. Caring for them was the absolutely best thing I could have done for myself at the time.
Yes, I tried to take walks, eat healthy, drink water... all the things. But really I was doing the best thing I could do at the time, take care of them.
After the worst of it was done I got a good therapist and dealt with any unresolved issues.
Take this with a grain of salt, because you shouldn't take advice from strangers on the internet, but I think you're doing just fine. Just keep doing what you're doing. You got this. Stay strong.
Janell, I think this is about the best description! 😀Thank you for this. I truly appreciate it. 😀
Love and prayers to both of you and the pups. Thank you for taking the time to give us an update.
I have been following pretty much from the start. I feel like we are close friends, even though we've never met. I think a lot of followers feel the same way. I want you to know so many of us are praying for both of you. Take care of yourselves first. ♥️
My spouse is my caregiver and I’m so INCREDIBLY grateful to him. You are focused on Jessica, not yourself, which is lovely. Wishing you all the best. Truly. 💜
Thank u for taking the time out of your busy schedule and thinking of us with the update. Love and peace and all good wishes.🥰😇
Bless your sweet heart!! My grown daughter has Stage 4 colorectal cancer and has been on every-other-week chemo since March 2019….I can’t tell you how much I admire the ones going through the cancer and you spouses having to deal with this…..I’m grateful for the amazing strength of my daughter and the heartfelt loving care of my son-in-law!!!! Sending healing hugs to. you both…❤
Brian, you just now hit LEGENDARY status. Right now that's the highest level, but they are working on DLC that will introduce new levels to the Game of Life. Well done.
Brian, you and Jessica remain in my prayers. I get the whole enjoying the caregiver role. Being useful in a crisis is the thing that gets me through it. I was there for my mom first, and then my husband. One word of warning, when the crisis passes, be ready for a flood of emotions. My husband is doing remarkably well, and I am so grateful. But once he got to a place where he didn’t need me as much, all the feelings I’d been stuffing away came in like a storm. It was time for me to take care of myself. I’m much better of taking care of other people. Don’t be like me. 🙏🏼
Same here !! You are spot on !!
That is so wise! You've given me a lot of new insight into how I was when my husband got through cancer treatments 10 years ago and then I perceived him as ignoring me. And then he had a stroke and it was hospitals being caregivers for two weeks until he died. I'm glad to see my frustration was normal.
I totally agree. When my beloved mommy was diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer it absolutely consumed me. When she was lost I was lost. I had no idea who I was and where I was going anymore. I lost my dad a couple of years later and even though he had been in a nursing home and didn’t need me as much I felt , and still do, totally bereft and lost
Prayers still going up for you both.
Doctors don’t really talk about it, but exercise does wonders for cancer prevention. I wish more people knew this
Wow, it’s been a long two weeks!!!!.
When you’re under extreme stress, food is the last thing to worry about! Comfort is comfort! You are young enough that when things are better at home for you and Jessica, you can get back to healthy eating. But beating yourself up will do no good!!!! So stop!!! You have other concerns at the moment!
If you are not kind to yourself you will have other heath issues. PLEASE TRUST ME!
My precious husband died two weeks after my last chemo. Heart attack at barely 56. I’m still here, 15 yrs later! Cut yourself some slack, eat a baked potato and Spring is around the corner. Time to walk puppies and enjoy your garden!
Find a way for you to de-stress, please!
I’m not on instagram or other social media, so without these updates, I would not know HOW you are.
Please let Jessica know, there are many many many people not on Instagrams that are praying for you both. So we are in the DARK.
Much love and support to you both!! 8:00 8:20
Dear, darling Brian and Jessica .. I was thinking to myself while going through some 'stuff' of my own, how blessed I am to still be breathing. I remembered that, while I may not have any shoes, the other guy may not have any feet .. so I just have to pull myself up, dust myself off and carry on carrying on. To quote my mother's last words to me: "God gave me what he wanted me to have" .. and so it is. Be blessed you two. 💜🙏🕊
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The word Cancer wakes you up to what is important in life. Things are just things. Say what you need to say every day .I have been through this and I never expected my hubby to die so it was a shock when I got the call he had hours to live. Everyday I want more time. So spend time together and enjoy life.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Dear Brian, being a caregiver is the hardest thing you will ever do and if you could take some of Jessica's pain away I know you would. We can all tell that you love her from the bottom of your heart and she loves you. Take care of you both. Xxx
Also to add. Brian I think it’s important you speak to someone so you can express how you are really feeling. You will feel better being able to get it out !
I think at times like this, if there is a bright side, is that you appreciate the little things a lot more, like the sun setting on a snow covered landscape.♥
Thanks Brian for the update. You and Jessica are in my prayers.
Missing you both, you are both in my daily prayers 🙏🙏🙏take care of each other 🥰
I hope Jessica continues to recover and well done Brian for being the best husband that you can be. Look after yourself too.
I’m soooo glad you put something on today. I was getting worried about you guys. Love and light to you.
My sister in law was diagnosed with lung cancer in December. So when you say I'm OK I understand exactly. Being a caretaker is hard. Glad you there for Jessica. I know I try to encourage and sometimes it's hard.
Oliver is adorable. Wishes for recovery.
Brian, just a word of advice re weight regulation: Don't try to do sports, that plan will fail as you are going through stressful times and have other priorities. I'd suggest you modify one thing only; WALK everywhere, even if it means 10 or 20 miles of walking (provided it's not an emergency). If you have to go to the grocery store, walk there. Pharmacy: walk there. I know distances are greater in US than Europe, but I also walk 10, 15 km a day to do chores. This works wonders. Don't cut down on food as you need energy. Just walk instead of driving. You'll see, in 2 months you'll be pretty slimmed down and fit on top of it! Only the first week will be tough to get used to the routine. All the best!
Glad you are okay and I’m sure I don’t need to tell you that if Jessica is sleeping/resting, a quick walk or bike ride each day does wonders for body AND mental health. Also, it will help her to see you caring for yourself. I am a caregiver… it’s a must!
One day at a time, a little each day. Start small & try to add a few minutes each day, for no other reason than to move forward, feel better & take what little control you can take at this time. Physical movement, meditation, simple games that take you mind away for a minute & holding tightly to each other & to all of the support around you will help you get through this each day. We are all praying for you both.
Thanks for the update.
I think most of us on here are supportive in whatever you two decide to do. We're not here to tell you to get out there and move or eat this way or that etc.
You two are going through alot. The most important is Jessica getting the medical taken care of(which she is doing) and you two taking care of your mental health! It's alot to deal with.
We support you guys! ❤️
Amen!!!
The stress of what you both have been thru is so exhausting and depressing. Being constantly in and out of hospitals seeing so many sick people you realise how lucky you are to be able to obtain great health back. You both have it in you to be your best. Spring is here. A month from now the light will be even brighter. Cheers
Are those new glasses Brian? Love them if so. Love and prayers for both of you❤️
Yep, they absolutely are. You are the first person to say anything about them. 😀
@@KrocksInTheKitchen Yay!!!!
Was just about to say, love the glasses!
@@KrocksInTheKitchen what kind are they?? I want some !!!
Oh my gosh, Oliver's little mouth, so cute!
Take care of yourself, Brian. I have been a caregiver, and you give the best care when you take care of yourself. Jessica is so lucky to have you. Sending healing energy to Jessica!
Brian, you are a kind gentle soul! Jessica is so blessed to have you! Praying for both of you. 🙏 ❤
What a lovely guy you are. Please give Jessica our love. Both of you hang in there and give yourselves all the grace in the world for everything you have been through and are still going through. Sending you both healing wishes and prayers
My hometown is Collinsville (Lived there for 50 yrs - just retired to TN) so it warmed my heart to hear you speak about Fairview Heights. Thanks for keeping us in the loop, Brian. You’re a good man. Continued prayers for you both.
Yep, I was born and raised in Collinsville. I love it here. 🙂
Thanks for updating us on YOU Brian : ) Prayers for you both. Keep your Faith !
I was a caregiver. Taking care of my husband was the most meaningful thing I ever did in my life. I know that feeling of not being able to catch your breath. When it happens, slow down, take some deep breaths. It will be OK. Sending hopeful and loving thoughts.
Such a calming voice for Jessica
You two are doing an exceptional job with all that has been happening. Thank you for taking the time to do an update. You guys continue to do the things that work for you and how you feel. Taking care of yourselves, whatever that may be, you need to do as you two are the number one priority! Positive energy being sent to you!
🥰🥰"I don't know.. I kinda.. I kind of.. I like taking care of her.. I can't explain it.. I don't know I just do" ❤ The essence of Love ❤ You two are lovely to watch. Happy Valentines Day ❣💞
You and Jessica are so perfect together. It's difficult times such as these when you realize it. I'm happy to hear you both feel confident it sitting back a bit and taking big breaths and planning activities to welcome Spring. I was my husbands caregiver for 7 years before the cancer he had took him (his was rare and not much knowledge on how to treat it). I did not know how to take care of myself , never once thought I should consider taking a bit of care of myself so I got sick. I'm so glad you are aware that you count too and doing your best to put yourself first now and again. Keep up the good care Brian. I know Jessica must be so grateful you're standing strong beside her. God bless you both.
thank you for sharing your feelings with us. Your eyes look optimistic with hope mixed with sadness, exhaustion, grief and 'things to do'. It is understandable that the changes in routine, potato diet, gave you a goal... a positive one that kept it going no matter how ehh it was for you both LOL. I couldn't do it alone, but with positive reinforcement and humor. My heart is breaking and I am still in shock from the very first "Hi, I'm Jessica in the car. I have this pain that is not going away and i thought I would share". Please always share...because it helps a whole community of people who isolate themselves because of fear. I am one of them. I have been a subscriber of your channel since 'potatoes'. There are no words to describe how a loyal subscriber feels and how they react. Prayers upon prayers surround you and Jessica and no matter what, YOU ARE GOING TO BE OKAY.
Thanks for the update, Brian. I know sometimes it must seem that posting is just another thing you "have to" do. If you need a break, take it! We love updates, but put yourself and Jessica first. As a former marathon runner (former because I'm old now!!), I can attest that exercise is a great stress reliever. Taking the dogs for a walk, riding your bike, whatever your enjoy doing, the exercise will help with stress relief. I know you love Jessica and want to take care of her, but don't feel guilty if you take a little time for yourself. If you take a little time for yourself, you'll be better able to help and take care of Jessica. I'm certainly not going to think you "selfish" if you take a little time to relieve your stress and anxiety so you can take better care of Jessica. If someone thinks that's "selfish", that person has never been in a position of great stress. And no one is going to beat you up over your diet or gaining weight at this time. If they do, they need to take stock of their morals and humanity. So I'm glad you're not beating yourself up over it. Don't. Keep us updated as you can, but consider yourselves first.
Prayers for you guys.
It doesn't sound like much, but sometimes "fine" or "ok" is actually super good. You sound good Brian. Love to you both.
Thank you very much. I'm actually reminded of a quote from the band Radiohead. "You can try the best you can. The best you can is good enough." 🙂
NOT watching that "Big Event" & Instead Watching Krocks in the Car☆☆~Sending Lotsa LUV, Big Hugs, & Daily PRAYERS from Here in Surprise, Arizona♡♡...Blessings, Holly!!
Thank you so much for this update. I have been wondering and watching this site for updates. Prayers
So glad to see you - sending hugs to you both💕
So much LOVE to you both. Xxxxxxx
Thank you for keeping us updated. We are all praying for you both ❤
Continued prayers for you both. ❤️🙏
Prayers ❤
Praying for both of you!
I must have missed all the dog episodes. That dog looked stuffed. LOL Glad that everyone is alive and well.
I agree! Not real looking at all, LOL!!
Thank you for the update!!!!
Praying for you two! ❤
Love you both! I am praying. Thank you for updating us. ❤️
All the best to you both!
Glad you guys are hanging in there. Sending love and hugs!!
I'm so happy that you and Jessica are doing ok❤️ thank you for the update. Lots of love and prayers from NYC❤️
Thank you so much for the update!!!!
Thanks for taking time out of your busy schedule to give us an update. Continuing to pray for a complete healing for Jessica.
Thanks for the update! Glad things are going “ok”. Love seeing your sweet dog. Have a great week ahead❤ happy (early) Valentines Day.
You both are so loved ❤
Prayers and blessings to you and Jessica.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both
Praying for you both.
I'm praying for you guys. ❤
Ty so much Brian for the update. Prayers and hugs to you both always. I hope her recovery goes smooth here on out and that she will be cancer free now
So good to hear from you guys❣️ You are constantly in my prayers🙏🏼
Thanks so much for the latest report. I think about you two often. Glad things are going well.
You must have known I was thinking about you guys. Thanks for the update. 🙏🏾❤🙏🏾
Thanks for the update. Continuing to pray for you both.❤
Sending prayers for you both from Wisconsin 🙏🙏 I hope this spring gives you a glorious new beginning.
So good to see you! Thank you for the update. Healing seems to set its own pace. I’ve had to learn to be patient and positive-not as easy as you’d think it is.
So glad you’re embracing the good and planning for good things. I love your partnership! I’ve felt so blessed getting to know you through your videos. Sending love to you both ❤
Thank you so much for the update, Brian. Praying for you guys!! It’s so nice to see you.
Thank you for the update~ Prayers and lots of thoughts on your journeys!!
So glad to hear Brian that you and Jessica are doing ok. Thanks for keeping us updated.
Wonderful update, so glad to hear Jessica is healing and on the mend. Remember to take it one day at a time Brian.🦋
Thank you for the update. I’m praying for both of you, and so glad that you’re ok. 😊
Thank you for the update. Recovery takes time for sure.
I'm so glad you popped up to update us. Continued prayers to you both. 😘❤️
Thanks so much for the update sweet B!
Good vibes from Michigan. Keeping you both in my thoughts.
Thanks for sharing. Sounds very hopeful. Looking forward to the full update. Sounds like you all are enjoying each day. That’s awesome. As always, sending love and prayers for continued healing.
Praying for you all! 🙏🙏❤️❤️🎚🎚✝️✝️
Thanks for the update. I've been wondering, and I know I'm not the only one. I'm glad you're ok.
Thx for the update
Thanks for the update.
❤ Thank you for the update. I've been concerned about you guys. Praying for you both.
Was beginning to worry so it was wonderful to hear from you!!!
Thank you for the update, God bless and heal Jessica and strengthen you!!
You two are awesome and lucky to have one another. Saying prayers for continuing healing.
Thank you for the update, Brian. 😊You guys have been on my mind, so I'm glad to hear you're both doing OK. I'll be looking forward to another live stream, whenever Jessica feels up to it!
Thanks for the update Brian. You are one of the good ones. Jessica is very fortunate. Continued thoughts, and prayers for both of you