MARRIAGE "UPGRADES" A WOMAN? *LET'S BE HONEST HERE*

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  • Опубликовано: 2 мар 2024
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  • @arewahaircaretv8718
    @arewahaircaretv8718 3 месяца назад +22

    Honestly I wanted to marry because I thought that’s just what people do. Now when I think of marriage I feel exhausted and burdened.🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Deekomolafe
      @Deekomolafe 3 месяца назад

      Don’t. Till u understand y

  • @bintokiria5338
    @bintokiria5338 3 месяца назад +22

    Am okay with anything, either married or not ,, will still live my best life🎉🎉❤❤

    • @brownie3401
      @brownie3401 3 месяца назад +5

      That’s the right mindset to have ❤

  • @lindasrealitytv6894
    @lindasrealitytv6894 3 месяца назад +15

    Most friends these days are unfriendly friends,they are envious and jealous and pretending.i pray God sends me true friends that can be closer than brothers,that can sacrifice for one another,can do gals trip,can pray together

  • @marvannie
    @marvannie 3 месяца назад +16

    Please, if you don't want to get married, let it not come from a place of pain or trauma from the bad marriages you've seen.

    • @user-do1qf8rm7b
      @user-do1qf8rm7b 3 месяца назад +2

      Why not?

    • @marvannie
      @marvannie 3 месяца назад +5

      @@user-do1qf8rm7b Because choices made out of hurt and pain are usually not the best and people end up regretting them. Anyone with this mindset need to heal, know they great and beautiful marriages exists, marriage is an institution ordained by God. Anything ordained by God is good. So the person must first know that no matter the amount of bad marriages out there, marriage itself is still good and very beautiful, beautiful and peaceful marriages exist, they themselves can have a blissful home. So if then know all these and GENUINELY believe it can happen for them also and still chose not to get married based on other reasons, then it's okay.

    • @cynthiahoyi3925
      @cynthiahoyi3925 3 месяца назад +1

      @@user-do1qf8rm7bbecause that’s not healthy. It doesn’t just apply to marriage. It’s like not driving because some people have had accidents and died.

  • @enoblee3152
    @enoblee3152 3 месяца назад +5

    Like I said in one of my videos, singlehood is a gift, let’s learn to maximize it before the man comes. Marriage won’t complete an incomplete person! Nice one ❤️

  • @lyndaihechimerenwaimo7395
    @lyndaihechimerenwaimo7395 4 месяца назад +64

    Finding friends who have like minds is kinda the hard part. I pray God sends me friends even as an introvert.

    • @marvannie
      @marvannie 3 месяца назад +1

      I think open (and also sensitive) and friendly can also be an avenue to get friends, or course while also discerning.

  • @omololaakanki669
    @omololaakanki669 4 месяца назад +6

    This is inspiring! I seriously felt the need to comment as I rarely comment on people’s posts. BTW, I watch your videos all the time and you have never disappointed. Keep up the great work 👏🏽

  • @Thisisbisola
    @Thisisbisola 4 месяца назад +2

    You’ve leveled up 🆙 love how crisp this video quality is!! Well done Tolu❤❤❤❤

  • @NuRsE_Keith
    @NuRsE_Keith 4 месяца назад +3

    WOMAN OF GOD, THANKS FOR THESE NUGGETS!! IT HITS DIFFERENTLY.... THANK YOU MA'AM.

  • @iamsosasmama
    @iamsosasmama 4 месяца назад +7

    The best teacher is indeed other people's experiences. It takes a wise mind to have this mindset. Gorgeous I thank God silently for you, and I respect your God given wisdom. God bless you and yours.

  • @NessaEyeson
    @NessaEyeson 4 месяца назад +2

    You’re indeed living the name, Solutions 🔥🔥🔥

  • @chineloochonma4821
    @chineloochonma4821 4 месяца назад +2

    God bless you for sharing this. A lot of single ladies need to hear this.
    Also, for finding your purpose, ask God and he will tell you.🙏🏾

  • @solacederby
    @solacederby 4 месяца назад +13

    Hi, Solutions, hearing you from right here clamped in my chair in the office, I feel so tired of everything. I have been suicidal and have no interest in marriage, not anymore. I have seen too much from my parents and been too often disappointed to trust. But thank you for this message. It is intentional for me. Bless you

  • @lightedtalkwithvivian2845
    @lightedtalkwithvivian2845 4 месяца назад +6

    God bless you sis. Your mindset is above your age. I am rooting for you. I love you.

  • @Gladd.
    @Gladd. 4 месяца назад +1

    I totally enjoy your sit-down chats❤❤❤

  • @mulengakabwe8265
    @mulengakabwe8265 4 месяца назад +3

    Tolulope Solutions, you are what this generation needs.

  • @mosunmolamorenikeji2073
    @mosunmolamorenikeji2073 4 месяца назад +2

    This is filled with all the right words ❤❤❤ thank you solutions mama 😍

  • @omowunmiolufayo2994
    @omowunmiolufayo2994 4 месяца назад +2

    Where i am is a good place that sinked in❤ thank you for your timely content

  • @Lizziezmm
    @Lizziezmm 3 месяца назад +4

    This video had a lot of beautiful nuggets. Thank you for sharing such beautiful information 🎉🎉

  • @Cynthia_Nayram_Vieira
    @Cynthia_Nayram_Vieira 3 месяца назад +2

    Am soooooooooo happy meeting u. U have no idea how u have impacted my life

  • @victoriaowoeye
    @victoriaowoeye 4 месяца назад +4

    This is really depth-full ma. I wrote down a lot to meditate on and review with my friends too. May God continue to bless your wealth of wisdom in Jesus name. Amen.

  • @aydejimusic
    @aydejimusic 4 месяца назад

    Love the intentionality of this video and the editing🔥
    Thank you for the advice💕

    • @DoofanHiikyaa
      @DoofanHiikyaa 4 месяца назад

      The beautiful wise woman. That part of freezing your eggs is an option I never thought of. Makes a lot of sense.

  • @Agnes.shines
    @Agnes.shines 4 месяца назад +4

    Video 600!!!🎉🎉Congratulations Aunty Teeeee❤

  • @shelovesgod4060
    @shelovesgod4060 4 месяца назад +2

    Legit feels like i’m seating in a therapy room with Mama Solutions ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰

  • @selawoka
    @selawoka 4 месяца назад

    This is wisdom Tolulope!!
    God bless you.

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 4 месяца назад +2

    Thanks so much for this wonderful message❤❤❤

  • @rarosueblessing3319
    @rarosueblessing3319 4 месяца назад +1

    Mama Solutions is really out here dishing out solutions. God bless you ma

  • @ketutitih7254
    @ketutitih7254 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks soomuch mama ur indeed a Solution to this generation

  • @Fine_mama
    @Fine_mama 4 месяца назад +2

    I felt like this video was speaking directly to me. Thank you ma

  • @linamabitor522
    @linamabitor522 4 месяца назад

    Preach sis! So love this video ❤

  • @adenijiayomide5328
    @adenijiayomide5328 4 месяца назад +1

    Some hard truths right here!!!!🤯🔥🔥
    Okay, now I need to go back to check my motive😆😆
    Thank you mama🔥🥹❤️❤️, a well of wisdom!❤

  • @onyinyechiihe8965
    @onyinyechiihe8965 4 месяца назад +3

    So so beautiful and profound. Thanks for sharing, mama Solutions❤. GOD bless you.

  • @sakinamoji
    @sakinamoji 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much. This comes in timely as I prepare to get married this year.

  • @___oreoluwa
    @___oreoluwa 4 месяца назад

    This came in time! Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @Tuoyoede
    @Tuoyoede 4 месяца назад +2

    Very insightful video! I like how it felt like a big sister talking to me😊.

  • @itoroonuoha4961
    @itoroonuoha4961 4 месяца назад

    Love to see the pettiness once in a while 😂
    Thank you for this Solutions ♥

  • @olutayoositelu769
    @olutayoositelu769 4 месяца назад +2

    Yes, that's it. purpose will be intertwined. I peg on that. It keeps both of us going when in thick and thin.

  • @hyelniyalma22
    @hyelniyalma22 4 месяца назад +4

    I was just watching this casually but at this point 😂 i need to get my journal 📝..
    This is humbly enlightening..
    Thank you ma'am ❤️

  • @funmilayoolukanni3338
    @funmilayoolukanni3338 4 месяца назад

    Thank you Tsolutions. God bless you.❤

  • @adewoyesharon
    @adewoyesharon 3 месяца назад +1

    No lies told ❤❤

  • @sandiesjoyfulspace
    @sandiesjoyfulspace 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful and powerful message🙏👏👏👌

  • @priscillafumadorh7186
    @priscillafumadorh7186 4 месяца назад

    So much value❤️❤️. Thank you

  • @moranike1
    @moranike1 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you so much for this very, it was very insightful! ❤️❤️

  • @tijesunimi_
    @tijesunimi_ 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank youuuu Mama Sols for sharing from your wealth of wisdom. O deep gannn...❤

  • @senibirhoda5586
    @senibirhoda5586 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much, this has really blessed me.

  • @winifred2155
    @winifred2155 4 месяца назад +2

    My everyday woman. THE SOLUTIONS. ❤❤❤

  • @nyonhoedjatougbe6703
    @nyonhoedjatougbe6703 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Tolulokpe. God bless you.

  • @Royalty_t
    @Royalty_t 4 месяца назад +1

    So true, thank you so much for your advice

  • @adeyemijumoke6
    @adeyemijumoke6 4 месяца назад

    Thank you so much Ma'am for this. I also must commend the editing of this video👏

  • @omolaraageloye8298
    @omolaraageloye8298 4 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤.. Thank you Tolu. I needed this.

  • @alabiolamide7127
    @alabiolamide7127 4 месяца назад +1

    This message 🤭🥰
    God bless you Solutions mama ❤

  • @kelechiitiba7799
    @kelechiitiba7799 4 месяца назад

    This message is 🔥 God bless you

  • @EatwithEdem
    @EatwithEdem 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this nugget mama Sols.

  • @guidedarrows7078
    @guidedarrows7078 4 месяца назад +1

    Yeah...i like do do those 😂. Like you a lot.... you're so vulnerable,open,relatable

  • @EyramTornye
    @EyramTornye 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing this Tolu❤❤

  • @user-tv9vb7si4w
    @user-tv9vb7si4w 28 дней назад

    This was really edifying and taught me a lot. Thanks mama solutions 😊❤

  • @Abimbolacoker
    @Abimbolacoker 4 месяца назад +1

    Such a great video 😊
    I celebrate you, ma

  • @berniceofori7199
    @berniceofori7199 4 месяца назад +1

    it is well.... Thank you Mama SOLUTIONS ....so encouraging.

  • @busayofajinmi3194
    @busayofajinmi3194 4 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this message 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Heavenly_PepTalk
    @Heavenly_PepTalk 4 месяца назад +1

    Very insightful 👏🏾
    Thank you

  • @malusisarahmulola
    @malusisarahmulola 4 месяца назад +3

    The place of Surrender 🙌🙌🙌

  • @shaneyg25
    @shaneyg25 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this video. I needed this

  • @godgirl_masterpiece
    @godgirl_masterpiece 4 месяца назад +2

    Okay final comment😂..You look really beautiful Mama 🥰❤

  • @foluthebridge5269
    @foluthebridge5269 4 месяца назад +5

    First off, I’m going to compliment the quality of this video. It got me glued!
    Secondly, mama this beauty is beauty’ing!!!!!❤
    It’s the fact that some of the things you shared are things people are beginning to become aware of and are sharing with the world. Take for instance, the series SGIT (Skinny Girl in Transit) S7.
    It’s okay to not want to be married, (but thanks for saying there must be a valid reason for it not that it’s your Trauma that is speaking). People should learn to keep quiet and not put unnecessary pressure on women when it come to marriage and kids!!!
    Truly, I picked what I actually need in this season of my life. Thank youuuuu very much ma, for always always wanting to pour into us and share from your wealth of wisdom. I pray the Lord continues to keep your heart and cause you to grow much more in wisdom…Amen
    I love you ma❤❤

  • @anthonyanu7635
    @anthonyanu7635 4 месяца назад +2

    No, mama, you came to speak to me. I was and I am blessed

  • @abena_sheshe
    @abena_sheshe 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing this perspective🙏😘

  • @jumokebabatope
    @jumokebabatope 4 месяца назад +2

    Whoa... thank you, SOLUTIONS!!!

  • @akinolaolamide517
    @akinolaolamide517 4 месяца назад

    I'm blessed with this, thank you so much ma

  • @toluwalopeoshungbohun298
    @toluwalopeoshungbohun298 4 месяца назад

    Beautiful, impactful video!

  • @Abimbola.Abioye
    @Abimbola.Abioye 4 месяца назад +1

    So good!!!!! Thank you, Solutions.

  • @user-qb6dh6gi7w
    @user-qb6dh6gi7w 4 месяца назад

    Insightful🥰🥰
    God bless you Ma

  • @abiolaolubanke
    @abiolaolubanke 4 месяца назад

    This was a good watch
    Thanks for sharing ma'am ☺️

  • @anitaike9031
    @anitaike9031 4 месяца назад

    Do do does...love it❤
    The Lord is our combined strength

  • @ijoseph4276
    @ijoseph4276 4 месяца назад

    I needed this❤❤❤❤

  • @TheAdenikeOye
    @TheAdenikeOye 4 месяца назад +2

    This video really addresses one of societal issues,Mama Solutions thank You for always bringing solutions and Godly truths to the table on matters that do matter 🤍🤍🤍

  • @happinessnyajon2478
    @happinessnyajon2478 4 месяца назад +2

    God bless you ma. More insight. This is a timely message for me

  • @shonibaremaryolajumoke882
    @shonibaremaryolajumoke882 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this Tsolutions ❤

  • @amaranextdoor
    @amaranextdoor 4 месяца назад +2

    This video is giving me joy

  • @inspirationaltalkswithpats7755
    @inspirationaltalkswithpats7755 19 дней назад

    Thank you Sister ❤

  • @Favourite_blacky
    @Favourite_blacky 4 месяца назад +3

    This video deserves 20k Likes .....
    Thank you solutions mama in your Husband's voice 😅

  • @popoolaabosede4346
    @popoolaabosede4346 4 месяца назад +1

    I so much love this video ❤
    Thank you ma

  • @oyindamolaademolaa
    @oyindamolaademolaa 4 месяца назад

    If you have nothing good to say. Zip it!!!Thank you Mama Solutions, this is beautiful!

  • @nanaaddae8623
    @nanaaddae8623 4 месяца назад +10

    Hello mama Tolu, on fleek with the germs! So in my own case, I'm in the category of you're of age and you're dating and moving to the next step of building a home. I thought through before deciding to marry my spouse. What i didn't think through or work on was me, my relationship with God, my purpose as a wife and mother ,those im learning on the job unfortunately. It's been a lot of learning curves i dare say! Wish i were more prepared. And also wished i enjoyed my singleness a little more 😂😂😂😂😂. But my daughter's will make better decisions because of it, am grateful for the lessons ❤

  • @Lamide_0
    @Lamide_0 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video❤❤❤❤

  • @jillkoech3111
    @jillkoech3111 4 месяца назад

    I still want my life to bring you glory !!🔥🔥

  • @somtovivian5567
    @somtovivian5567 4 месяца назад

    Thank you ma for this video, very inspiring ❤️

  • @godgirl_masterpiece
    @godgirl_masterpiece 4 месяца назад +1

    The place of surrender 💯❤

  • @Ivygifted
    @Ivygifted 3 месяца назад +2

    Mama T, Jisike! I do love you to do more of this line of video..jisike nne!

  • @tariromachingauta9294
    @tariromachingauta9294 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you!

  • @stelia-ladye7090
    @stelia-ladye7090 4 месяца назад

    Thank you so much ma For the word God bless you so much ❤❤❤.

  • @LudolapoAjayi
    @LudolapoAjayi 4 месяца назад +1

    This came in time!

  • @akinbinuadebunmi4490
    @akinbinuadebunmi4490 4 месяца назад +2

    Well said!!!!

  • @Doctor-Chinenye001
    @Doctor-Chinenye001 3 месяца назад +2

    I really appreciate this video...thank u 🙏

  • @preciousmbah5616
    @preciousmbah5616 4 месяца назад

    Solutions indeed thanks for always inspiring m❤

  • @elizabethmotunrayo2060
    @elizabethmotunrayo2060 3 месяца назад

    God bless you so much Tolulope. I love you 🎉🎉🎉

  • @opeyemiadeosun8552
    @opeyemiadeosun8552 4 месяца назад +1

    Best marriage advice

  • @thesitoutwithkimberly
    @thesitoutwithkimberly 4 месяца назад +2

    Video quality 🔥🔥
    Thank you so much for these points, so timely, how can one find such ladies with like minds
    Who truly love God and want to excel so much in life.

  • @Ehmunah
    @Ehmunah 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you ma!!!!

  • @user-dr8yo5jh6p
    @user-dr8yo5jh6p 4 месяца назад

    I love you Big sis... tanks alot
    Dis really came on time

  • @faithnoricah.2283
    @faithnoricah.2283 4 месяца назад

    Very insightful 👏🏿