WHY WE INITIALLY KEPT OUR RELATIONSHIP PRIVATE

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  • WHY WE INITIALLY KEPT OUR RELATIONSHIP PRIVATE
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  • @Agnes.shines
    @Agnes.shines 10 месяцев назад +24

    This is my 100th comment on this channel ❤️😭.
    Y’all need to clap for me as a top commenter who has received one of the highest numbers of hearts from Aunty Tee on this channel 😂.
    My takedown from this video.
    *Cynosure-I think that is such a cool name
    *Your outlook must reflect your reality if not it could lead to destruction
    *When you look at purpose also look at profit and pick a balance.
    *You have to put coal in your engine so that it will work if not it would be doing fikifaka”💀😂19:00
    *Last but not the least ,PG is so full of wisdom, I appreciate you Sir!❤️
    Auntie Tee🥰I love you Ma❤️

    • @ojoesther474
      @ojoesther474 10 месяцев назад +2

      PG's sense of humour is everything 😂

  • @Joyful802
    @Joyful802 10 месяцев назад +12

    My relationship was so private that when i got engaged a lot were shocked. I only showed my engagement ring on social media. Then i finally showed hubby's face when we got married 😄. I just didnt feel like posting much, i love privacy. I'm not against people posting i guess its a balance of not allowing every aspect of your relationship to become content for views because it can lead to performance and take the natural buzz of just "being". In all things as believers being spirit led is key.

  • @extypresh5856
    @extypresh5856 10 месяцев назад +7

    Team private but not secret, is easily keeps you both on a pedestal of right knowledge of each other and also can easily call it a quit when is not working without so many questions on air.

  • @temychrismusings9501
    @temychrismusings9501 10 месяцев назад +7

    The love is still doing PG gish gish.🥰🥰🥰 It's so beautiful to see.

  • @winifred2155
    @winifred2155 10 месяцев назад +6

    Every influencer should hear this cos alot of people are carried away by fame n they forget core values that brought them to this point. Thanks as always guys, quite engaging. Intentional!!!❤

  • @Juliet__aa
    @Juliet__aa 10 месяцев назад +7

    Outlook must reflect reality! That's some deep stuff. Thank you PG for gracing us with your presence today 💃

  • @beatriceakinwolemiwa7006
    @beatriceakinwolemiwa7006 10 месяцев назад +11

    Team private. I didn't announce my husband until I think after our wedding.
    I can be very loud on social media however my loudness is subjective/selective

  • @victoriaadepoju6737
    @victoriaadepoju6737 10 месяцев назад +5

    A wise man and his wise wife. I love itttt.🥰

  • @godandeverything
    @godandeverything 10 месяцев назад +2

    WISDOM!!!!! Flying everywhere!!! I love it!!! Thank you beautiful people! God bless you union always with wisdom and more of God❤

  • @UgcbyJesutoni
    @UgcbyJesutoni 10 месяцев назад +7

    These discussions are so important for us singles to hear, especially coming from married Christian couples. I think I like the private but not a secret vibe o, it does help keep things intimate, especially early in the relationship and during key moments.
    Thank you for taking time out to do this, se you people won’t write book bayi 🤭 May God keep you both in love and in Him ❤
    PS: I love the multiple angles you did, very lovely, added this nice vibe to it! 👌🏾

  • @chidinmadurueke
    @chidinmadurueke 10 месяцев назад +5

    Ayyyeeeee “team we met on BBM!!!!
    I totally agree with this! No distractions, building intimacy and just focusing on each other. Long distance relationship was enough to work with and the last thing on the list was any pressure from the crowd.

  • @oyindamolaalao
    @oyindamolaalao 10 месяцев назад +4

    Private but not secret…. I love it❤. Thank you for blessing us with this

  • @abimbolaolumuyiwa
    @abimbolaolumuyiwa 10 месяцев назад +6

    Both of you are such a delight to watch 😊. God continue to bless and keep your home

  • @lilianstone741
    @lilianstone741 10 месяцев назад +2

    My God PG is just so full of WISDOM.
    Thank you both for always sharing great words of wisdom.

  • @estheragbomire4195
    @estheragbomire4195 10 месяцев назад +2

    Wisdom!!!! Know your why's, intentionality and Accountability😮. Thank you PT and PG

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 10 месяцев назад +3

    You guy are so amazing . No doubt that God is the foundation of your home . Appreciate your sharing with us . More anointing . ❤❤❤❤😮

  • @phemiaworld1242
    @phemiaworld1242 10 месяцев назад +3

    Word !!! Don't be afraid to off the camera and work on your marriage. Thank you for this

  • @bolanlesoares2514
    @bolanlesoares2514 10 месяцев назад +2

    Social media can make it hard for people not to perform. Even if you are not a public figure, how you truly feel is more important than how you look

  • @Tifegbadas
    @Tifegbadas 10 месяцев назад +2

    I always love having PG around. That’s always a lot of words of wisdom to take❤❤

  • @ijeicynthia229
    @ijeicynthia229 10 месяцев назад +7

    PG please do not stop showing your hands when mama says jump right into it😂🤲🏽🥳

  • @lauekwelle3006
    @lauekwelle3006 10 месяцев назад +2

    You guys are the best. Real people are awesome people

  • @blessingekere1820
    @blessingekere1820 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you mama @Tolulope Solutions for always sharing great content. God continue to bless and keep your home in Jesus name Amen.

  • @Bethel_Tamilore
    @Bethel_Tamilore 10 месяцев назад +1

    This was an amazing watch. Thank you for sharing your experience.

  • @de_Lois
    @de_Lois 9 месяцев назад +1

    Dear Tolulope, thanks for all the impactful teachings here on yt. Been following for a while now. Hows soso baby. I miss seeing her cute face.❤

  • @stellzluchii
    @stellzluchii 10 месяцев назад +2

    Love seeing PG back to back ❤🎉

  • @nmaumeh
    @nmaumeh 10 месяцев назад +9

    The two camera vibes!!!!! Higher and higher ni o

  • @nanaaddae8623
    @nanaaddae8623 9 месяцев назад +1

    In moments when we don't feel like it, we have to feel like it by force! Thank you. ❤

  • @mrsemily.o2912
    @mrsemily.o2912 10 месяцев назад +1

    Tolu and Gbemiga God bless you both. Good content older marriages are picking one or two things from you both. PG admire how much you admire n encourage your wife truly in her fields.

  • @WendyLiving
    @WendyLiving 10 месяцев назад +4

    I love how realistic this is, how you both buttressed your points & love the questions Tolu asked 👌🏼

  • @extypresh5856
    @extypresh5856 10 месяцев назад +2

    Amazing teaching.. intentional relationship, I must say.

  • @foluthebridge5269
    @foluthebridge5269 10 месяцев назад +1

    I can soooo relate!
    I’m Team Private till Proposal mehnnn😅😅.
    Thanks for sharing. Thank you PG for sharing from your well of wisdom❤❤❤

  • @Mercy-zz9fv
    @Mercy-zz9fv 10 месяцев назад +2

    It's always the way mama smiles and blushes hard when PG is saying sweet words 😂😍🥺

  • @TheAdedolapo.
    @TheAdedolapo. 10 месяцев назад +2

    Always a lot to learn when you both film together. Thank you Mama Sols and PG

  • @ademolarasheedat7799
    @ademolarasheedat7799 10 месяцев назад +5

    Solutions mama , you and PG are just a perfect make from above,😘🥰 God bless you for the information, I learn alot, just blushing all through, more wisdom.
    I am team Private till proposal or wedding bell, i pray for that soon. Love you 💋💖

  • @iamabena_saabah
    @iamabena_saabah 10 месяцев назад +1

    I enjoyed every bit of this video!
    I bless God for your life Ma’am❤️❤️

  • @onabotefunmmy2562
    @onabotefunmmy2562 10 месяцев назад +1

    New video ,glad to be here

  • @damilolaoyediji6650
    @damilolaoyediji6650 9 месяцев назад +2

    Forever Team Private
    I remember how a lot of folks were so surprised when i was even in a relationship when my wedding IV came out
    Thank you PG…always a delight to grace our screen

  • @chiesoobikpo3716
    @chiesoobikpo3716 10 месяцев назад +8

    I love 'sit down ' videos with PG. There is always so much wisdom served.
    I am Team Private. As long as the most important people know, others should chill till it's time for the big reveal.

  • @Obehikaita
    @Obehikaita 10 месяцев назад +11

    This was really a good watch! I am team private o 😂😂😂 I just love to enjoy things in private. I haven't even posted my wedding pictures. 😂

    • @TolulopeSolutions
      @TolulopeSolutions  10 месяцев назад +1

      There are levels to this 😅

    • @Obehikaita
      @Obehikaita 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@TolulopeSolutions 😂😂😂

  • @olutayoositelu769
    @olutayoositelu769 10 месяцев назад +3

    Be about the realness in the relationship and not about performance...Not just for a good time but for a long time.

  • @tracyiyamu3891
    @tracyiyamu3891 10 месяцев назад +1

    Team Private...it has always been my safe space.
    Thank you PG

  • @popoolaabosede4346
    @popoolaabosede4346 10 месяцев назад +1

    I learnt alot from this video, thanks alot ma for always coming through ❤❤

  • @adenijiayomide5328
    @adenijiayomide5328 10 месяцев назад +1

    PG sir🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
    Agba wisdom!!! Well team secret but not for long😩😂😂

  • @GraceAdelegan
    @GraceAdelegan 10 месяцев назад +5

    Dont be afraid to set back , to keep the camera close✅️

  • @adeojofunmilolaesther2112
    @adeojofunmilolaesther2112 10 месяцев назад +1

    Downloaded to listen later, love you momma

  • @anatellahhhh
    @anatellahhhh 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much, sir and ma❤

  • @reginaakinwale7889
    @reginaakinwale7889 10 месяцев назад +1

    Solutions mama🎉❤
    Let me sit and watch😁

  • @ifyama
    @ifyama 10 месяцев назад +3

    Your outlook must always reflect your reality

  • @Yakirawots
    @Yakirawots 10 месяцев назад +2

    We are here for a long time not just for a good time🎉🎉

  • @AdjoaJosephine7724
    @AdjoaJosephine7724 10 месяцев назад +8

    Singles are we breaaafinnng 😂😂😂😂......
    We are breafingggg in the wisdom 😂

  • @Isra_el1
    @Isra_el1 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for the enlightenment and balance
    Team private 💪

  • @Aridunnu_eni
    @Aridunnu_eni 10 месяцев назад +1

    So much wisdom in one video.
    I’m team single but not showing face. I’ve always not been a fan of showing face from the onset 😁

  • @abosedep2255
    @abosedep2255 10 месяцев назад +3

    The spirit got to be one. Same message in church today !!!!

  • @tryde_d
    @tryde_d 10 месяцев назад +1

    A wise couple, I stan❤🎉

  • @Abbas_jewel
    @Abbas_jewel 10 месяцев назад +2

    Yesss mama solutions please share the video of how you were able to weather throught the different faces😂😂😂

  • @Abbas_jewel
    @Abbas_jewel 10 месяцев назад +2

    Especially as Christians, there should be sensitivity. Every relationship is different and requires some level of discernment especially in the beginning where the foundation is being formed.
    There's no one size fits all, we just need to be sensitive to know the ways God will have us pay more attention and be aware of the things that need to be done or not done in every season of the relationship.

  • @atereprecious8478
    @atereprecious8478 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Tolulope solutions ❤️
    #teamprivate

  • @praise_inioluwa.
    @praise_inioluwa. 10 месяцев назад +1

    Yayyy..A New Video ♥️💃

  • @alinafevictoriaeliasi4961
    @alinafevictoriaeliasi4961 10 месяцев назад +3

    I am team private not a secret... There is indeed beauty and safety when your foundation is well fortified.. This was so good and informative.. Thank you PG and mama Sols 🤗 we've learned 🗒📝

  • @iamsosasmama
    @iamsosasmama 10 месяцев назад +3

    I know that feeling. Nobody knew I was even dating until I got married😄😄.

  • @Carlyeva7
    @Carlyeva7 10 месяцев назад +2

    Finally, this table has been broken😩
    Team private all the way😌

  • @Abbas_jewel
    @Abbas_jewel 10 месяцев назад +2

    Let's jump right into it😁

  • @matelillianmasule3313
    @matelillianmasule3313 10 месяцев назад +1

    A lot of wisdom here🙌🙌🙌

  • @queennyemekye1595
    @queennyemekye1595 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sooo goood!!!

  • @oyinkansolaola4598
    @oyinkansolaola4598 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you,always something to learn😊😊

  • @rosembise1064
    @rosembise1064 10 месяцев назад +1

    Beautifully loaded

  • @atunbitoluwanimi6208
    @atunbitoluwanimi6208 9 месяцев назад

    Wisdom!!!
    Thanks guys

  • @kateofmanycolours
    @kateofmanycolours 10 месяцев назад +3

    PG just had to make that signature hand movement 😂😂😂

  • @ewuolaoluwatoyin6392
    @ewuolaoluwatoyin6392 10 месяцев назад +1

    My people any day any time ❤

  • @damilolatobiloba2680
    @damilolatobiloba2680 10 месяцев назад +1

    We are here❤

  • @TheDew29
    @TheDew29 10 месяцев назад +1

    Truth so true! God bless you both for being so real.

  • @gloriaessien505
    @gloriaessien505 10 месяцев назад +1

    Mama Solutions...Some one is Blushing 😍

  • @Esther_nwachukw
    @Esther_nwachukw 9 месяцев назад +1

    It is mama’s blushing for me o☺️

  • @ikeoluwasteve-moses9225
    @ikeoluwasteve-moses9225 10 месяцев назад +2

    Please create another channel mainly for you both....we will gladly follow and listen for more wisdom.

  • @opeyemiakinbobola5551
    @opeyemiakinbobola5551 10 месяцев назад +5

    Team private but on his birthday I’ll post him till another time 😂😂

  • @krimkatdalang
    @krimkatdalang 10 месяцев назад +2

    Ssoooo good! #TeamPrivate o😅🙌

  • @stelia-ladye7090
    @stelia-ladye7090 10 месяцев назад +4

    I am team private your outlook must always reflect your reality and don’t be afraid to off camera and talk things out, and also don’t be afraid if people get to know about your relationship.
    They can’t do you anything to you because you have supreme power over them. Thank you mama solutions for bringing PG so much wisdom I have learned a lot. Thank you ma thank you sir

  • @timilehinwilson7311
    @timilehinwilson7311 10 месяцев назад

    God bless you ma and sir❤

  • @popoolaabosede4346
    @popoolaabosede4346 10 месяцев назад +2

    PG shared alot of wisdom here more annoiting sir

  • @Eden_starr
    @Eden_starr 10 месяцев назад

    I missed it here! So much catching up to do

  • @Thisisbisola
    @Thisisbisola 10 месяцев назад +5

    The PG is hereeee🎉 without further ado, let me watch this video 🤣
    Edit: The gems in this video is too solid!!! Real life should always be better than media content or what we share on any platform including “church pulpit” and that’s where personal integrity comes in. Honestly, take breaks when you need to.
    Thank you Tolu and PG! This was worth my time as always ❤
    I am team private oh!!!😅

  • @nanaaddae8623
    @nanaaddae8623 9 месяцев назад

    Wisdom!❤

  • @oluwatosinchristiana9040
    @oluwatosinchristiana9040 10 месяцев назад +3

    Are you truly a team solutions if you don't anticipate PG's appearance and dishing out tons of wisdom.
    It's a delight to listen to you both❤❤❤

  • @TheSholaAdekunle
    @TheSholaAdekunle 10 месяцев назад +3

    Team single and can't wait to be #Team Show-face!😄😄

  • @Adaeze_Nwachukwu
    @Adaeze_Nwachukwu 10 месяцев назад +8

    I'm team show after my first child is two. That's when y'all gonna know I'm married 😂😂🤣🤣

  • @FaithAdegboye
    @FaithAdegboye 10 месяцев назад +92

    I like when PG is around

  • @Graceonuche
    @Graceonuche 10 месяцев назад +3

    Team private oh ❤

  • @phemiaworld1242
    @phemiaworld1242 10 месяцев назад +6

    I agree with you, because why share a half-baked miracle? Why not wait till it matures before you share.

  • @oluwatosinchristiana9040
    @oluwatosinchristiana9040 10 месяцев назад +2

    I'm team private o. I want to have many moments I can cherish privately beyond the gram.
    After all we would still live our lives if the gram wasn't there

  • @oluwaniyifavour6488
    @oluwaniyifavour6488 10 месяцев назад +1

    Yayyyy💃🏿💃🏿

  • @victoradebayo2584
    @victoradebayo2584 10 месяцев назад +3

    PG is sound ✅💯

  • @EatwithEdem
    @EatwithEdem 10 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @Yakirawots
    @Yakirawots 10 месяцев назад +1

    This blessed me. Thank you so much❤️❤️

  • @temitayoesther2806
    @temitayoesther2806 10 месяцев назад +7

    Private but not Secret👌👌

  • @HEYBEAUTYFINLAND
    @HEYBEAUTYFINLAND 10 месяцев назад +1

    Team show face and surprise people 😅😅😅

  • @dollastube
    @dollastube 10 месяцев назад +1

    🎉🎉❤

  • @Mphon_
    @Mphon_ 10 месяцев назад +3

    Team Private until we're done cooking 🔒😅

  • @ebenezerissye9221
    @ebenezerissye9221 10 месяцев назад +1

    Like your hair

  • @vidashkitchen5833
    @vidashkitchen5833 10 месяцев назад +4

    U looking beautiful sis ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @OluwaseyiTV
    @OluwaseyiTV 10 месяцев назад +2

    PGGGGGGGGGGGGGG😂😂😂😂 Ife yen po😂😂😂😂5:00