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Marrying dead sister's husband two months after she and their child died: I think the accident should be reinvestigated. And if I had to apply for a bridesmaid job, I would have gladly said no thank you
I'm with you. Reopen the case.
Agreed. I think the late wife knew about the affair or at least had some inkling about it. And wanted a divorce but never got the chance to file it.
Yes...seems a bit sus!
"I prayed to God and he answered in more ways that one" mhm definitely sus
Yes and yes!! Yikes!
Umm... I felt all kinds of uncomfortable about the groom marrying his dead wife's sister... especially since it's only been two months since she passed away...
I wonder if they’ve been having an affair behind the deceased’s back
@@Loaves_of_Cat I'm gonna assume that was the case
I'm assuming Car breaks have been cut off at this point...
@@Loaves_of_Cat I wonder if they had something to do with the "accident" too
Do we know how the sister died? 😅
"Did you get engaged right away or did you wait a whole week out of respect for the dead?"
- Westley from the Princess Bride
This is what I thought of during that story about the dead sister's husband
Me too
You are a Queen my dear. Love The Princess Bride.
Colossians 4:2 NLT
Devote yourselves to prayer with an alert mind and a thankful heart. ❤️✝️❤️
Colossians 4:2 NLT
Devote yourselves to prayer with an alert mind and a thankful heart. ❤️✝️❤️
Okay the one at 1:26 about “I prayed, God answered” actually happened in my hometown. She was my 3rd grade teachers daughter. She indeed married her dead sister’s husband. The whole town was devastated about her sister’s death, including me. I knew her sister much better than I knew her. It was baffling how soon they announced that they were getting married. Literally it was not long after the one who passed and husband’s oldest got out of the hospital after being severely injured in the crash that killed her sister… the family is also insanely religious.
Someone should look into the “accident”. I have a feeling it was murder.
@@AmethystEyes they did. It fully was an accident. They had that road it happened on shut off for hours and police were redirecting traffic. It entirely rocked the entire community. Im sure the records are public by now.
That poor girl. Her mom and little sister gone, she's injured and her dad and aunt do this?! I can't even begin to imagine what she's going through. ❤️🩹💔 Does no one care about her?
I'd be more concerned about the church and mental wellbeing of that oldest child right now. I mean no disrespect to you if you are a member of her church but that doesn't feel like behaviour that a lot of congregations from main stream biblical interpretations would just accept. I really hope the child is okay.
@@bluebelle8823 this. Who's looking out for her? Poor girl. I really hope someone in the family other than them are caring for her.
I hate to say it but I can actually beat the marrying dead sister story. I am a pharmacy technician and a few years ago, there was a couple that were regular patients. Suddenly the wife died one day, rather unexpectedly. Her widowed husband married her sister... 3 days after the funeral, claiming he just couldn't live alone, and since the one sister had been a good wife her sister would be too. Yeah, no one believed that they had not been having an affair
One year later, but did anyone investigate the death?
@@Furrina89 Although her death was sudden, it was from a diagnosed health condition so it was accepted as "natural causes resulting from ___"
@@Furrina89i was wandering this as well
3 days after the funeral..? Yeah this is either fake or your delusional their had to be an affair, no matter how much grief how can you marry someone 3 DAYS after your burry your wife ?
@@Clownbunnycosplay ok, so you misread what I wrote - everyone knew that they had to be having an affair. Next time, try to actually READ before you attack someone
It’s the “god answered in more ways than one” that gets me. So God answered your prayers by killing your sister and niece in an accident therefore freeing up her husband so you could marry him? Wow!
Should’ve put quotation marks around “accident” because it’s so fishy that they both died suddenly and they got married 2 months later
Just made the same comment. Should have read down the page first. BTW, I'm in complete agreement with you. That's some unfortunate wording... or is it?
God answered her prayer in not getting caught for murdering her sister and her niece to marry her sister's cheating husband 😂
Now the police and/or insurance company should re-investigate the "accident".
Gave me serious flashbacks to this scene:
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Those were actually pretty reasonable demands and I'd appreciate being given an idea of what to expect out of being a bridesmaid for a specific bride before we get into the thick of it.
When I was 16 and my new boyfriend invited me to his brother's wedding my mother and grandmother talked me into wearing a full length white dress. I was goth/punk and HATED white. I felt like an asshole the whole time and I still feel like an asshole 28 years later when I think about it. Thankfully the bride and groom became my in-laws and have never held it against me.
Hummm, someone was trying to sabotage your relationship, it seems. Nice to know they didn't achieve that.
I feel like your mom and grandmother were trying to use you as the youngest aka the innocent or naive that van notice things and without knowing tell your grandmo and mom, the grown-ups and they will know for sure what is going, to be used and say. SEE?! Your wife is not good. We know cuz she saw it.
I hate when older fam and relative does that
Wait... so your ex-boyfriend's brother became your father-in-law? So you married your ex-boyfriend's niece or nephew? Ain't that quite a big age gap? No judgement, just curious.
@@skullsoul19 I think they meant like sibling-in-laws. Idk I could be wrong tho
It was my boyfriend's brother's wedding. When I married my boyfriend his brother became my brother in law. Once my boyfriend became my husband his family became my in-laws.
"You're entitled to your opinion, but now everyone knows your opinion." I need to remember that one. Woman who married her dead sister's husband makes it sound like her sister and niece's death were somehow part of her prayers. Given they only waited two months, I would honestly have someone look into that "accident" and make sure it actually was an accident. Tell me you were having an affair without telling me you were having an affair.
I read that just as she said it lol
It's like saying her sister's death was god's wish in the end, so everybody should be fine with it and be happy for her. And publishing it on Facebook as if it's all normal, that's a lot.
Either awareness is a thing of the past, or the comment is actually fake, I wonder.
We both have the same thing in mind😅
That accident not being an accident was my first thought too.
Yep, I definitely also has suspicions about the "accident."
If I died and my sister and husband got married so close to my (and my child’s) death, I’d absolutely be haunting them
Definitely a full-on poltergeist/Captain Howdy situation.
You snooze, you lose... No?..
My cheat-dar flared to life upon hearing that one.
Same here. No way they are getting away with that
If I was a ghost I would definitely help you.
i actually like the idea of the bride setting expectations and feeling out who’s willing to be involved before picking the bridal party, she wasn’t a bitch about what she wanted, the whole list sounded pretty fair so it’s good to give people the opportunity to say nah not for me instead of just asking people and them not being interested in actually doing it
Yeah most of her requests were very reasonable
Came to the comments to say this, the requests were only standard bridesmaid roles or reasonable per basic respect and doing it this way saves the hassle of asking someone that may not want that role but them saying yes anyway because they may feel obligated to if asked, I actually think it's a fantastic idea as long as the requests are reasonable
yes!!! thank you! I literally didn't really have a traditional bridal party so this was never a consideration for me....but the overall idea of this sounds reasonable to me if you're going to have one.
I was also wondering where the drop was going to come in and none of the points on the list seemed out of the question to me? My friends had my back before, during, and until the day after the wedding - one even took us out to eat the following night after everyone had left so we could eat on her dime before our honeymoon began.
Exactly! And she didn't even have a problem if they couldn't do everything! She seemed beyond reasonable, and wanted to make sure the bridal party actually WANTED to be apart of the bridal party! I was so confused because I didn't see the problem!
I married in my early 30’s. My husband and I scaled down our wedding plans because, we came across a house. My sister needed a formal dress for a cruise. I was completely happy for her to choose an ivory dress. We created our theme around ivory and black. I was in a formal wedding dress and he wore a tux. The rest of the party wore ivory and black. The only thing that mattered was he and I were getting married, and my grandmother was there, as well as all the family. It was beautiful and low key, on my in-laws dock. She made it to meet our daughter. ❤ A new story of both your lives together. Witnessed by your family and friends. These are the people that you will need in building your future. As witnesses to your vows, they are saying that they will do their best to help you on your journey. Why would you want anyone else there? Why do you want big and outlandish?
"I prayed my sister and her stupid daughter didn't exist anymore so I could marry her husband and God delivered!" Like WTF? I could not process that one. Those people are monsters. And yeah, I bet they were having an affair and now they are like: "Well, those two obstacles are gone now, sooooo Yey for us!" I can't even.
Can we be sure that this story was really true?
OOF, yeah. It really does read like that
@@kani9284 No way to know for sure, but I always assume they are not true. I'm here for the entertainment and laughs. Stay safe and have fun.
@@bren6967 yeah I hope this one is not true actually. Thank you and you, too
@@kani9284 I'd like to know too. But this could always be someone who knew they were having an affair, the accident happened, they kept going with the affair, and someone wanted to out them.
I think that list of bridesmaid expectations is actually a really good idea. I will never be a bride (my own choice), but if a friend sent me that kind of list and actually asked if I was cool with the responsibilities before choosing me as a bridesmaid, I would really appreciate it. As long as she didn't get butthurt if I said no.
There was another bride that did this and it went viral and even got on the news. I think Charlotte had it in another video and asked if we thought it was a good idea 💡 I thought it was a great idea 😃 I think it's just some of the wording of this one that's a little off. I think it's great she wants to make expectations and cost clear for her potential bridal party.
I was scrolling through the comments to see if someone felt the same as me about it 😂 like it is a bit odd, but actually very considerate
@@lkf8799 Yeah, the wording could have been better, but the idea is a good one, for sure.
It's the "send in applications" part that rubs me the wrong way. This is a conversation you should lay out with the bridal party members in person and say "no pressure these are my expectations though are you ok with it?"
I actually thought this list was very reasonable and liked it. This particular bride didn’t expect her bridesmaids to be at all events. Nothing seemed too crazy, it seemed fairly reasonable. The other list, if I remember correctly, was not as chill as this one.
It is an honor to have people attend your wedding. Basically, you are throwing a party and these are YOUR guests. If they bring you a gift, yay, bonus but their presence is the best gift of all.
I still can’t get over the fact that people can afford destination weddings, let alone expect everyone around them to be able to as well.
That "affordable" $5000 trip for a wedding smells like the bride and groom have a deal to get a certain number of rooms booked to get their stay cheaper/free and now so many people have backed out due to costs they're gonna have to shell out for the actual cost of the bridal suite
Marrying your dead wife’s sister within two months is extremely sus and at least super gross. There is no set time limit for grief but even if shared grief brought them together, at least wait a bit longer than just two months! Now it totally looks like the wife was murdered to make way for the sister who was already having an affair with the husband. The best thing I can think of is that maybe they shared a night of passion in their shared grief and she got pregnant after their night together? 🤔 A «Do the right thing» kind of shotgun wedding? Though sis does seem a bit too happy at the situation 😅
It's sickening either way.
Two months or not it's fucked up and gross af
I’d haunt the shit out of them
two months is not even long enough to get pregnant + realize you’re pregnant
@@matematicarka I am late to the party, but it depends on the woman I knew pretty quickly that I was pregnant, in a month
10:51 Rule #3 "eat before the wedding" . Something tells me the bridesmaids will not get a dinner. Or even allowed to take a break to eat.
I did wonder that, but hungry people get cranky, etc. Of course, she could provide snacks while they’re getting ready.
That last one about the bridesmaid duties was actually nice. Those are all things brides think of as no-brainers, but unfortunately they’re not. I had a bridesmaid not show up to any of the events, complain about the bridesmaid dress because the staff refused to order it THREE SIZES SMALLER than she measured, cried throughout the rehearsal dinner because she didn’t like where she sat, then cried at the wedding and looked really depressed in ALL of the wedding photos because the friend she brought as a date (and she was trying to get to date her) wasn’t in the crowd because he was LATE, got high during the reception, and finally complained nonstop to me and requested me accommodating her the entire reception… my maid of honor caught wind and immediately grabbed her husband (who was a groomsman) and they proceeded to tell her to leave me alone for the rest of the night unless she was giving me hugs or posing for photos with me. That one bridesmaid is the only one from our wedding party we haven’t spoken to since our wedding day 8 years ago. All the others in our bridal party have all been a part of our lives since and are like family.
"I prayed and God answered my prayers, in more ways than I could've ever imagined"🤨
So ,she prayed for her niece and sister's deaths so she could marry her brother-in-law? And he's cool with her saying that ,out loud? Dark.
Sounds like the beginning of a True Crime documentary.
Edit: forgot to add the niece.
That wasn't no fuckin accident was it 💀💀💀💀
@@PatrickLongblkwhtrbbt I don't think it was. That's my conspiracy theory and I'm sticking with it.
She probably only prayed for them to divorce but you know how God is 😏
@@BC-bt7hu God needs to chill tf out.
Yeah, he either cheated on his wife before oooorrr, and this is a big stretch, this is how they decided to cope with the loss.
That last bride and her set of rules sounds like she has experienced some serious issues and drama in other bridal parties the most of her requests seem reasonable and I appreciate that she’s telling them they don’t have to attend everything and that your commitment and love can be shown another way kudos to that thought
I agree. I think she was putting in writing the unspoken expectations of bridesmaids. I think having them compete for the role is kinda presumptuous. She needed a bestie to stop her from sending out that notice.
I thought so too.
First vacation my hubby and I went on was to his cousin’s wedding. I had tried to get him to go on vacation somewhere tropical for years and he said yes to this. It was nice. His dad was invited too and went with us. He was under the impression that this place would be exactly the same as every cheap resort he had been to in Mexico before, turns out this place was totally different than he had ever seen. It was so nice that we are planning a fourth trip back to the same place this winter (we get comfortable in the familiar and we know we like this place so we keep going back). It has a beautiful private beach right outside your room (if you pay for the pool view rooms), eight restaurants for your a la carte meals, and is far from any towns so they have their own on resort souvenir stands that they have multiple vendors at. It’s also a bit cheaper because it is just about at the border of Belize. But back to the wedding trip, not lots of family came (FIL was so sure lots of people were coming) and the bride and groom did not expect us all to participate in planned activities or just be glommed together as a group all day. I think that actually ticked off my FIL a bit as he gets big ideas in his head and if things don’t flow they way he thought they would he pouts like a child. I had fun. I sat on the beach all day and swam in the ocean and met some new people I haven’t from my husband’s family (big French Canadian family of 17 kids that has become a huge web of aunts, uncles, and many cousins). No one saw the need for all of us the have to do everything together all day
I just got engaged and am wanting to do a destination wedding and your message honestly makes me feel so much better! I feel like destination weddings get a lot of flak because people have to pay for travel and I’m really worried about people thinking I’m entitled for not wanting to spend 30k to throw a party when my fiancé and I are both introverts. Our immediate families and friends are all really excited and treating it like a vacation. What you described is exactly what I’m hoping for so thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
the death wedding made me think about this hilarity in my own family.
I had an older and a younger uncle. Older uncle was married to a woman the younger uncle’s wife hated. Everyone knew, that the wife of my younger uncle actually wanted to marry my older uncle, but instead she took married the younger uncle. They had two sons. One suspiciously looked more like my older uncle, but whatever… that isn’t the story. So, my younger uncle’s wife (my aunt) was a truly horrible beach*. She always would talk about how my older uncle’s wife ran off on him, and she could never forgive her for that Etc…. Several years later… older uncle passed away. Evil aunt and younger uncle make sure to limit widowed Aunt’s inheritance into estate holdings. Yes, they really did. Evil aunt was so evil, she put herself in the grave. She died within six months. A week after her death, younger uncle messaged a photo-less profile on plenty of fish…. It just happened to be my sister’s profile. Needless to say… he the ground running and did find himself a newer fiancée within six weeks of the post- funeral. Yes. Yes. That is an absolutely real story.
My MIL accidentally bought the same color of dress as me for my wedding (I wore teal). I really loved the dress! I told her to wear it with my blessing. It wasn't a traditional wedding anyhow 🤷🏼♀️ My MIL still bought and wore a different dress because of the rule about not wearing the same color as the bride. The MIL at 2:34 does NOT respect her DIL 🙄
I'd also quite like to wear teal when (if) I get married! Lovely colour
You sound super cool
Wow!! I hope to wear a similar colour if I ever get married!! Wearing white has never appealed to me!! Some shade of blue for me, lol!!
@@sorateal12 judging by your profile picture, literally ANY shade of blue would be drop dead gorgeous on you😍😍😍
@@aliioana8586 Wow, thank you!!!! ^_^
On my wedding day to my late husband, I was 5 months pregnant and only his family and friends were there. So we had it outside danced and did everything.. didn't even get to cut the cake because his dad got drunk and ate it all 😅
He was a good father inlaw tho
I've only gone to one wedding as an adult and I didn't want to go because at that time I literally couldn't afford a gift. They were so sweet and said we don't care we just want you to be there. That made me feel so good because my presence was enough for them. On a messy note I'm happy I couldn't afford a gift because they lasted less than a year.
I got married earlier this year.... I made it a point to put my husband's name first in pretty much everything (invites, cake topper, the gift card box, etc) I also added on the invite that we weren't expecting gifts of any kind as we were just thankful for our guests to be attending because it was kind of a destination wedding (travel to location is about a 4-5 hour drive depending where you start, plus the venue/resort we were married at was a wee bit on the expensive side)
I would definitely be haunting my sister, my ex, and whoever the heck is in their house. I ain't having it!
makes the whole accidental death of previous wife and child more suspicious she better haunt them!
@@tdelioncourt1268 I was thinking that exact same thing, pretty convenient 🤔 we need the "don't f@ck with cats" people on this stat.
Maybe I watch too much true crime but it's quite sus.
My husband I were just talking about this. I (F) think it's gross given it was your sisters' husband essentially making him your brother even though not by blood. My Husband thinks they clung to each other for support and caught feelings. I told him the husband should have bought a dog or car and moved on without the sister/ new bride.
I'm already haunting the blonde that had the audacity to wink at my fiance at a shop when he was getting petrol LOL
Regarding the destination wedding - when my nephew got married, his fiancee changed her mind late in the game about the wedding venue and decided to have a destination wedding in Mexico (causing my sister to lose her deposit on the original reception hall). It was at an all-inclusive resort, expensive enough that hardly anyone in my family (including the groom's sister) could afford to attend. The reason that they wanted to everyone to stay at the same resort is that if there were enough rooms booked at the resort for the wedding, their room for the wedding/honeymoon would be free. My guess is that the bride that was so insistent that her "friend" attend the wedding, was angling for a free honeymoon. BTW - my nephew's marriage lasted less than 3 years...
Somehow I'm not the slightest bit surprised.
smfh I hate people that do that
I would have said, "Knock yourself out sweetie, I'm not paying for it."
8:50 & the whole “destination wedding” thing - when one of my sisters got married (18+ years ago) she & her fiance had a choice between a UK wedding & reception for a ton of relatives they hadn’t seen for years, but no money left for a honeymoon, OR, have the wedding at a resort with immediate family only, so they got a honeymoon. NB: the guests had to pay their own way for the resort option. They went with the latter option, there were 7 of us in total that went. 5-star resort in Cancun, we had an amazing time. NOT a decision the couple took lightly, they had to really think about where/how they spent their money (that they’d saved). Those of us that were invited, had plenty of warning re. payment etc. We also had a choice over whether we went! I’m sure bridezillas have existed for decades, but am I the only one who thinks it’s worse since social media took off? That, and people spending ridiculous amount of money they don’t have, getting into debt etc. I had one friend who got married, again not well-off, so did the flowers herself for the church/chapel - vintage jars, tea-lights, ribbon, foliage etc. for both window-sills and pew-ends. Looked so pretty and just her style, with the bonus of being affordable. You CAN have a really beautiful day without going bat-s@%€ crazy, if you keep the focus where it should be - joining lives with your significant other, and celebrating it with family/friends.
Right?!?! And the response of "you've been abroad before, you can afford it."
I've been abroad before, but money was saved up for that. I couldn't go now. It's so weird the things people expect lol
I'm getting married in 2 months, and I really hope people come, have fun and there's no drama. Some of these brides blow my mind with their entitlement especially the gift grabbers!
Honestly out of all the craziness you read about weddings the last one was the most acceptable. At least she's letting you know what is expected of you. She wants a few friends that genuinely want to be there. And she even seems understanding and willing to assist with cost if necessary. 😀
My thoughts exactly, the bride is not over the top and it seems like she really just wants someone who is ready and able to take over the responsibilities that come with being a bridesmaid. Nothing that crazy.
I'm suspicious of that eat before the wedding thing
@@SpamEggSausage Probably due to a lot of women essentially starving themselves on the big day to make sure the dress isn't too tight. Or maybe for before alcohol consumption.
@@SpamEggSausage she my means eat so they aren't drinking on an empty stomach. That's why she said take care of yourself. A lot of people don't eat B4 and are completely inebriated b4 the reception starts.
@@BrooklynSaunders718 I thought she meant she didn't want to spend more $$$ on food
Still have my jaw on the floor with the sister marrying her brother in law. So sus. Sister is either a murderer or shady as hell. The husband needs to be investigated as well. Something is off.
If u want to know how her sister died look up “church van crashes in watts ok”
My Hubby said he would have liked that sign at our wedding. LOL. I bent over backwards to include him in planning. He's so sweet.
OMG, I just realised that in the US they have so many wedding related parties/activities: engagement party, bridal shower, bachelor/bachelorette, the wedding itself with all additional breakfasts, lunches and so on. In my country (Eastern Europe) we tend to have like a small bachelor/bachelorette party and the wedding party, that's all!
We had a wedding party want us to cater their reception. It was a BDSM leather and latex themed reception. In addition, they wanted the catering crew and the bartenders we were to supply to dress "Theme appropriate" They even included a list of different things they wanted them to wear, including those full masks/hoods, various clamps, etc. We didn't cater the reception, but laughed about it for a couple of years.
I really hope that was a 'no kids' event.
@@pablodelsegundo9502 pretty sure it was
Man... I can't imagine unloading in leather chaps, carrying tray's with clamps or trying to mix drinks in a hood... I mean... Flogging unruly guests and slapping people who make unwanted advances could be nice 🤔
Would have catered the shit out of that reception
Sounds fun 👀
I've been to a few destination weddings(one being in Japan) and the groom's family footed the bill for almost all the flights in for guests and we got a group deal on the hotel accommodations... expecting someone NOT in the wedding party to pay for flight, hotel, etc to a wedding and NOT inviting their partner is crazy.
6:03 the selling of the unopened suitcases reminds me of an episode of King of Queens. They got a gravy boat for their wedding but never opened the box. They regifted it but then realized there had been an additional gift, a check for 2 thousand dollars tucked in it. 😂
The destination wedding one - the bride and groom likely only get a discount on their own room/stay if a minimum number of rooms are booked, and they tried to keep other costs down by inviting the smallest number of people possible.
So when OP staff she couldn’t go, the bride was looking at having to actually pay for her whole wedding, instead of getting chunks of it for free.
If the bride having the destination wedding thinks it's so “affordable,” why doesn't she offer to help her friend with the costs if she demands she attend?
Also why can't they bring their partner? Even if the partner isn't invited to the wedding, the bride can't forbid them to travel as a couple and make it a bit of a vacation around the wedding
The first time I heard of a destination wedding, it was from one of our clients at the print shop I worked at in Dallas. Her cousin was the bride, and the wedding was very lavish and in a private resort in Hawaii reserved for the wedding guests and party only. The groom paid for ALL guests expenses including airfare!
Her cousin's name is Melinda...
the groom was Bill Gates.
Wish I could talk to that lady now, but that was decades ago and I moved 1500 miles. I hope she and Melinda are still close. She described her as being one of the kindest, most thoughtful people she'd ever known and that seems true.
The cost is on par with if not more than how much I spent on my best friends wedding and I was the maid of honor. That is by no means affordable.
that one sounded like those brides / grooms who invite anyone whom they think is remotely wealthy to get more gifts. I saw it happen. Especially because she evidently thought OP could afford it. There are people who will invite acquaintances, friends of friends and parents' colleagues just for the gift.
@@OrontesRM oh you're probably right. It's either that or the venue had a guest minimum for them to have the wedding there. I've seen that happen too. My friend invited acquaintances because both of their families are small.
I am highly sus of that sister marrying her dead sister’s husband 2 months later. It seems whenever I hear about these situations the person that was killed usually turns out to have been murdered. I know I watch too much true crime. But come on now, this is sus. 😂
I am completely down with your foul play theory.
And his daughter like dude no respect at all hopefully the police open a crash investigation because this is way beyond suspicious
Who’s thinking cut breaks??? 👀👀👀
yes! Also "I prayed and God answered" ?!?! "In more ways than one"?!?! She wanted the sister out of the way but got a special with losing the kid too 🤦🏽♀
They were probably already together behind her back a neighbour of mine was sleeping with his wife's sister whilst she was at work and the kids at school!
Had to pause at the gift one lol
When my husband and I got cards at our wedding- I was SHOCKED that people gave us money in them. Like, I didn't even know that was a thing. So people expecting gifts blows my mind out of the f Stratosphere.
I have literally stopped at the ATM and the dollar tree on the way to the wedding. Every single time 😂😂😂
Actually I thought the last ones not so bad. A bit formal, but requesting the bridesmaids to leave the drama at home and be familiy for the night is ok imho. I expected far worse, like: you have to color your hair blond, you have to wear high heels, you have to weight less the 120 pounds, you have to pay for everything on your own etc....These ones were maybe a bit formal, but overall quite ok. Better than having drunk bridesmaids before the wedding even starts, bridesmaids who start fights with each other during the wedding etc....
Yeah, the actual content isn't that bad. She's at least being totally up front about expectations, but the context of "oh you're not in the wedding party yet, so you're all in competition for a spot still" but one of the rules being "you're not in competition" is whack.
@@Swamp_Queen that's sucky, sounds like u needed new bridesmaids
@@Swamp_Queen I dunno... kinda sounds like UATA on this one tbh. I wouldn't have dreamed of asking my bridesmaids to pay anything for MY wedding. They offered to help with dress shopping (choosing, not paying) and were lifesavers there. All I asked was they plan the hens but told them it wasn't an obligation. They did and it was kinda underwhelming but nbd. One of them dyed and chopped off all her hair the week of, which stupidly had me nervous but we all looked dynamite in our photos. I had nothing but complete trust they would be great and I was right and then some. It was an amazing day, we are all still good friends.
Bridesmaids shouldn't be responsible for your "party." You should feel privileged your friends want to participate, not entitled to them.
@@natp3408 it's pretty common for bridesmaids to be in charge of the bachelorette party at the very least. And most weddings have the bridesmaids paying for their own dresses. And you think she's the a**hole here? Tell me you know nothing about weddings without telling me you know nothing about weddings.
Exactly, I thought it was kinda nice, like having a rule about remembering to eat and take care of yourself. Why did Charlotte think that was a bad list?
Honestly watching these wedding videos always makes me think I did mine wrong 🤣 I remember being asked by several coming to the wedding what gift I wanted as I never specified and my answer was "whatever you can afford" I also did say if money was too tight then the best present they could give me was their company. I cannot understand, don't think I ever will, why so many think they are entitled to a gift just because you're getting married 🤔
I'd take the memories, the people who attended over any gift, ever.
Well said ❤️
This is why you do it for you; my bride and I got married in Hawaii, brought both sets of parents, invited all the family, but really WE just wanted to get married, it was awesome honeymooned in Kauai and had a party at home for all those who couldn’t attend. 24 years in January 👍
The way you roast weddings, I honestly love it. Hope we can see what your wedding is going to be.
You're famous!!!! I wore my petty sweater to work the other day and my co-worker (who moved to Canada from Jamica 3 weeks ago) told me my sweatshirt looks like Charlotte Dobre's sweater. I am so glad to know someone else who fangirls as much as I do when it comes to you. Small city in BC btw
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the lady who had her parents spend 80 grand on her wedding, is an absolute spoiled brat 🤣
I just had this channel show up in my recommendeds. I am so hooked. I watched 23 of these videos JUST today. Through breakfast, lunch and dinner stopping only for bathroom breaks. I have to learn to pace myself before it gets cold outside or I will hibernate with my laptop and this channel all winter. I see that coming from a mile off. (Such a great sense of humor. Thanks)
“I love you MORE THAN LIFE.” More than her sisters life maybe. This should definitely be looked into.
It is in poor taste to not give a gift at a wedding. But it is in poorer taste to EXPECT gifts or think you're being entitled to expensive ones.
I'd buy that bride a dictionary, then she can be happy that someone boughten her a gift. 🤣
These ALWAYS make me feel grateful for mine and my fiancé’s families! Oh and for my bridesmaids!!! I have 6 and not one ounce of drama!!!
The husband and sister that got married only 2 months after the wife and child died need investigated for potential murder. I'd be willing to bet that "accident" wasn't accidental. Hubby and sister were obviously having an affair and they wanted wife and child out of the picture. Bet the life insurance paid for that wedding, too
With the destination wedding one where the cost is like $5,000, I am laughing at the bride saying it is totally affordable. I spent a semester abroad studying, went on a number of trips (including some more expensive locations like London), had fairly expensive flights to and from the Czech Republic, and had to pay for food and my dorm. All told it was probably around 5,000, maybe a little more but not by much not counting the cost of tuition which I would have obviously paid whether I studied at my home university or abroad. The thought of spending that amount of money on someone else's wedding is insane, when you can do a European vacation for cheaper and be there for longer if you pick the right places and housing.
1:50 - totally reminds me of Heather Duke's 'prayer' at Heather #1's memorial service on Heathers.
"Boughten" 😂😂
That bridal party rule list actually was super tame compared to other bridzilla lists Charlotte has done
I gave my bridesmaids a 'letter of transparency' which basically laid out their duties/responsibilities and approximate cost of everything, at the end of the letter I stated if this was something they were not able to do or even if they just straight up didn't want to, they could say no and there was no love lost. I don't think there was anything wrong with the last person letting her potential bridesmaids know what was up, the application portion was weird though lol
I’ve shared this before but it bears repeating: my XMIL wore white to my wedding to her son. She spent the next three years attacking me and the marriage in all ways. Hence, the EX part. If either MIL shows up in white to your wedding, y’all need to spend that honeymoon time packing up and moving far, far away from those harpies. Big, red (the white dress represents YOUR surrender whether you like it or not) flag right there. (Decades later, my XMIL is a technically homeless drunk who frequently breaks out of her state-funded crazy old people home to go on benders on the beach, and I haven’t spent all these years waking up to her son’s ugly mug every morning, so who really lost? 😎)
My mother wore the same dress as I did to my sister's wedding & I was the maid of honor. I had to buy a new dress because the dress picked out for the bride's maids was way too small & no time to resize. When we went dress shopping, the entire time, my mother kept saying, no you have to get the "W, for wide" as though the "W" on the size was wide and not just women. She ended up buying only one size below mine. So many people at the wedding came up to me to apologize for her wearing the same dress. That was over 15 years ago, thankfully my sister and brother-in-law are still together. We are estranged from our mother now. So much more to that story.
Love this.
@@NvrDieNvrSurrender blimey, what a piece of work
Um, white doesn’t represent ‘surrender’. ‘Though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be white as snow’. It’s to signify purity and wasn’t worn that often until the Victorian era
@@debbylou5729 That quote from the Bible is about an event in the future. And the modern bride and groom in black and white is heavily masonic.
Wedding Gifts: FYI for etiquette geeks, The Amy Vanderbuilt Book of Etiquette ( aka The Original) states that you have up to one year to send wedding gift. This stems from ordering things from Europe, custom orders, embroidery on textiles etc. Also, gift should be sent to the house not taken to the wedding. They can just get lost or stolen and someone has to watch over them and transport them. That's just silly. In the 1950's, affluent families had a room that displayed all the gifts as they arrived. It is not in poor taste to attend a wedding with out a gift. Not at all. It is in POOR TASTE to think that there is a correlation between wedding costs and gift costs. Ridiculous.
Yep. What a world we live in.
Thank you! I was hoping someone knew where the 1 year bit came from. I knew that was the etiquette but not where it was found. We really need to get back to the "send to the house" mentality. Because not only do the gifts need to be watched, but now someone has to haul them all to the bride and groom's place, where they will likely sit around until after the honeymoon anyway. And seriously, how fun would it be to have gifts randomly arrive for up to a year after the wedding. I love getting surprises in the mail!
@@totallyrandomd1714 At last! My random knowledge makes some one happy !
I recently lesrned there are some social circles and cultures where it is expected that a guest buy a gift roughly equal to the price of the meal (so $100/head = $100 gift). Sounds tacky to me but to some people apparently that's just manners
Girl…your editor is the funniest! Whoever it is, they are wonderful!!🤣🤣
I attended a wedding many years ago. The bride was absolutely beautiful in her white dress and the groom, as a mountie, was wearing full regalia. They knelt down at the front of the church and the congregation started chuckling. On his left foot was written “HE” and on his right foot was written “LP”. I never did find out if John knew his shoes were crying out for help or not. Was definitely a funny moment. 😂😂
Your processing face with the one "prayers answered" couple is usually me daily with my 6 & 3 y/o 🤦🏼♀️🤣
I wonder what people were thinking when my mother wore a white, lace dress to my sister's wedding. Both my sister and I got married six months apart and we insisted my mother wear that dress to either wedding because she looked STUNNING in it and she finally caved. Everyone could clearly distinguish the bride anyway in her beautiful, full-skirt dress and we were all happy
This is so educational. Love it. Thank you, Charlotte! ❤
5:50 The thing about gifts though is that once you have given it to someone, it belongs to them and they can do with it whatever they want.
If they want to sell it that is up to them.
Just as they have no right to shame you for giving them something they don't like/want, you have no right to shaming them for selling it afterwards, it is no longer your property, it is their property.
BS!!!!
I'm thankful for videos like this. Made me realize my ex friend was being a bridezila and it saved me from losing the dress I bought for her wedding. My ex friend ended up stealing my other friends 200$ dress and giving it to someone else when she couldn't make it. Even changing the size of the dress so my friend had to bring her own then she ended up taking that too. Ex friend tried to convince me to store the dress at her house with my friends dresses.
11:00 honestly considering some of the drama you post on here, this list actually makes sense
“boughtenated” took me out 🤣
Today was my wedding reception for my Dutch Canadian family, perfect timing Charlotte 👌
I, the bride, cut the wedding cake myself with my husband standing beside me. The Groom and I were wondering why the guest were looking at us oddly 😆
1:45 I got a flashback to Heathers. "I prayed for the death of Heather Chandler many times and I felt bad everytime I did it but I kept doing it anyway. Now I know you understood everything. Praise Jesus, Hallelujah."
@9:52 unlikely 😂😂😂😂 I don’t know why that has me cracking up!!!!
Love this: 'the world does not revolve around you..allright?' LMAO!
I'm going to be honest. I've been to 5 weddings in my life & nobody has ever brought a legit gift to the actual wedding. The gifts are usually reserved for the bridal shower & (in my family anyway) we bring a card with money in it to the actual wedding.
"My parents spent 80 grand on my wedding & we expect to be returned with some sort of thank you" Ah yes, YOUR parents spent THEIR money on YOUR wedding and the royal WE expect gifts to return the favor. This isn't a return investment for your parents. There is no "we" in that scenario.
"You are entitled to your opinion but now everyone knows your opinion and you sound rather entitled" - Charlotte the poet . 😁
Not a bridezilla story but it piggybacks off of my mom's 3rd marriage. Long story short in 2015 I graduated from highschool, that same year right after graduation my mom was getting married. I said things about it to friends of mine in school (important information) because I was happy for my mom. Well I was a pretty big part of the wedding, mom and I are close so I walked her down the aisle while also being her moh. No biggie I enjoyed the time with her during her big day. We got home that night at 11 pm, my little sister got sick that night due to a headache so I tried my best to care for her that night. My friend that knew all of this had her graduation party the next day at like 10am. I told her when she gave my the invitation personally face to face that I probably wouldn't be making it. I even called her and told her closer to the party that due to the wedding I probably wouldn't be up to a party the next day. The next day comes, and I get a text message telling me that we are no longer friends. That I have really hurt her, and that I am just a horrible friend. Now I had a card to give her and I was going to go to her house hand deliver it to her. Then I was going to see if I could have taken her to lunch, my treat. But I didn't even get a chance to do any of that because she just said not to contact her ever again for not going to a high school graduation party. I didn't even have one, I personally hated highschool so it wasn't as big of a deal to me as it was to her I'm guessing. AITA
Nta, You gave them a warning when you said when your mother is getting married. You also reminded them that you probably couldn't make it because you'd be tired. I feel if they were a true friend they would have understood and told you y'all could schedule a day for just the two of you to make it up, but clearly that didn't happen. You will find better friends that can and will be more understanding. Hope you are doing okay now, sending hugs from a random person on the internet 😂
You have the best and funniest facial expressions that go perfectly with each scenario LMAOL!
11:45 at least there were no crazy rules, besides the silliness of applying for the position it wasn't too bridezilla
It seemed more of like a, I have a lot of friends and I can’t decide who I want in my bridal party, so I’m gonna see who actually wants to be in it and go from there. I actually kinda liked it because she knows who actually wants to and not put one of her friends in an uncomfortable position of being a bridesmaid even if they don’t want to but they did it because they feel obligated. Trust me, been in that situation before
My cousin, who I grew up with, was getting married. I am in a wheelchair. I was told by my aunt (MOG) my boyfriend could not attend because we were not married. My father was not well and I did not want to put that on him pushing me around. I did not attend so as not to burden him. I recently lost him and am still angry and sad about it. ☹️
1:40 - yeah an “accident”.
My friend has a destination wedding. It actually is only 1 state over, but kinda in the middle of nowhere and an 8 hr drive away. She has made it very clear to everyone that she doesn’t expect them to come. She knows I can’t drive for more than 30 minutes straight (shoulder problems start acting up) and asked me if I even wanted an invite. I really want to go, so I am trying to make it work, but she is putting 0 pressure on anybody. They are even holding a pre-wedding party back home for all the people who can’t come (or just aren’t close enough to be invited).
On top of this, they have made it extra clear that they don’t expect gifts from anyone whether you attend the wedding or not. They just want to celebrate with friends.
It amazes me when people choose to do a destination wedding and still expect everyone to be able to come.
"You've been aboard before so you can afford it."
WTF has OP having been abroad before have to do with having to spend $1,000 just on a hotel room? It'd probably cost even more if they charge a single room supplement.
"If your wedding venue is so affordable then YOU pay for me to come."
also, when you go abroad for you OWN vacation, you choose location, restaurant, food etc. In case of a wedding you haven't chosen any of those things ... OP had been asked to pay that much for something that in the end is all about someone else ...
for one night in that hotel i could get like two weeks in greece all included
The application thing seems weird, but her demands were reasonable! Just "try your best to be there for me and don't be a massive drama queen".
Maybe she has issues controlling things in her life, or bad friends who NEED to be told these things, but those aren't outrageous thinks to ask of people
I assumed the application part was an attempt at humor that didn’t land. Since the rest was so reasonable I’m giving the benefit of the doubt.
That sister’s husband situation really took “til death do us part” to heart 😂 I mean I understand that shared grieving is a thing and maybe they found love through their loss but 2 months?? That’s disrespectful to the dead
"You are entitled to your own opinion,... but now everyone KNOWS your opinion." I'm using this 😂😂😂😂
2 months? Cheating and murder pop into mind. I'll wait for their snapped episode. I want to know how the family reacted to hearing this.
I'm one of the few who isn't having a wedding. I'm engaged and I don't want a wedding. We having a reception, but nothing too fancy.
I much rather save money and have a nice honeymoon. I love traveling and weddings aren't my thing.
Weddings cost too much and I never dreamed of a wedding. As a child my dreams involved having a recurring dream about a dolphin named daisy and she was my bestfriend. So lowkey determined to find Daisy. 😂
I'm with you, I want a small wedding and a nice reception. Which in my head means going to city hall, then get pizza and then either going to a club or to the stable to visit horses 😍
right? I was watching another YT video and the youtuber said "every little girl has dreamed of walking down the aisle in a white dress..." - and I thought "er...no?"
@Nicky L I was confused at first too, but I think Heather means a big wedding. They will do a legal ceremony, maybe a city hall or something, but not something you may expect at a venue. But they’ll still do a reception after the city hall.
2:17 I know it's messy in our culture, but I think it's kinda neat to mention that this is totally normal in my husband's culture. Actually if your spouse dies you're expected to immediately marry one of their siblings to be "taken care of" and stay in the family. It's a tradition thousands of years old but people still do it regularly in his country. Like if he died I would be expected to marry one of his brothers... Even if that brother is already married as long as he doesn't have four wives yet lol. (There's no way I would do that but I feel like this tangent fit the story a little bit lol)
It has been the same in our culture as well and I am from the Pacific, this way any kids would be taken care of by a maternal family member and and future kids would be blood and so ties are kept. We do not however let them marry after 3 months usually the funeral rites for the dead can take up to a year and during that time the marriage is negotiated between the families.
“Boughten.” Holy hell.
I've seen that application for a bridesmaid before and it actually doesn't bother me. Charlotte has read plenty of stories with lackluster bridesmaids that didn't really seem interested in the job. None of the rules on that list were out of the ordinary, in fact they were pretty accommodating. Personally I think it's good to know that the people you pick to stand by you would be at least willing to do this much. Now the fact that it's an application is a little weird. If I were the bride I would just pick the bridesmaids send them this and tell them they can back out if they aren't willing to follow everything on the list with no hard feelings
To me, it sounds a little entitled. Most if not all the things on the list people are going to do regardless depending on who the bride has as her bridesmaids/MOH. I can understand #6 the Zero drama policy because weddings are already stressful as it is and you don't want unnecessary drama or someone trying to upstage you. I think making her own list or thinking through who to pick the list wouldn't be necessary.
@@jackiekurtz6494 , as someone who doesn’t know wedding rules, this list is honestly helpful. Everybody has to learn sometime, might as well be before there’s a problem with a nice little list ^_^
To me, as someone who has hearing loss and grew up rather strangely and not knowing the social cues, the list in the last part is actually more helpful to think "Oh I can do these, okay" or sometimes I may want to support the bride but I would look at it and also think "Oh, I might not be able to do these but I'll go attend her wedding as guest" because sometimes, some people just would not be able to handle the stress then.
Having it all written out like this would at least give the baseline for the bride and bridesmaids to fall onto in case chaos happens. Sometimes you just may not have close friends to be those but family members who you may not be as close to (I was bridesmaid for someone I wasn't close with but bride needed someone who can fill in the spot due to other getting in accident before the wedding) as last choices.
Yeah, it's the bride's day but it's also needed to make sure things are going as smooth as it could be then. It may be all business like but it can be a good barrier for bride and bridesmaid to use to keep things from going absolutely messy as fuck at the end, emotional- and relationship-wise.
I look at wedding registries and I'm like hell no I cannot afford that, so I make gifts instead. I usually make a wedding quilt, or throw pillows or do something with my wood burning skills.
We were very conscious that most of our guests didn’t have a big budget. We registered at Target. Plus, we really needed towels and sheets and a new toaster oven. If somebody could only afford a couple of towels, that’s okay. Thank you for thinking of us.
You know you can afford it. Sounds like you just rather be greedy and selfish.
I have never had an actual wedding. I'm not wealthy and 90% of my family aren't even financially stable. I would love something made by someone hands. I would never expect people to spend their hard earned money just because I got married. Entitled people 😡
@@941sotaboy2 How would you know what someone else can afford? People aren't entitled to expensive crap because they are getting married.
@@pvanpelt1 If everyone gave a gift card you could get a lot of the items you need. People should do gift card weddings 😂
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That sign had me cracking up🤣
The bride having people fill out the application actually is a great idea. I just got married a month ago and while I understand the responsibilities of being in the wedding party, it became clear that not everyone was under that same understanding and treating it like a drunken free for all. I wish I had been more clear of my expectations, which were very simple and standard based on my understanding, so I would not have been so disappointed by the lack of help from a few.
Yeah it was over the top but at least it was a warning for what the expectations are
Really needed this reality check today. Been a stressful couple of days, and this made me laugh. The AUDACITY of some of these people.....more please!!!
I think the last one was a really good idea, actually. If one has a lot of friends, this is one way of curating a group who really want to be your bridesmaids. I think her list of requirements were reasonable.
One thing about destination weddings, if enough pay the bride and groom may get free