The Spiritual Energy Of A Narcissist - How To Recognise It
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Psychologically or spirituality driven is a question often asked in relation to the narcissistic personality disorder. Let’s look at the spiritual energy that seems to surround narcissists and see how that looks as opposed to a singularly psychological explanation.
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They are evil they destroy innocence and beauty.
Why doesn’t anyone want to call this what it is - they are pure evil they have lost their souls already
Totally agree! At the end of the day the fact that they use evil, shows them as unintelligent deviant pathetic and joyless! They murder godly souls! There should be a prison sentence for these entities! Murder of the soul is murder after all. Stay safe everyone!
All people have a soul, higher self, innate health etc. They haven’t lost their soul. They have chosen to cut of connection with it.
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They have definitely lost their souls. They are full of the devil.
I have seen it in my own life through my husband of 26 years. He can change his demeanor in an instant. The older they get, the more abusive they become. I have learned a lot, and after these last two years, I'm divorcing him.
You can never relax for long with a narc. They'll cause chaos, if they think you're getting too much peace. 🙄
Yep. The narc I left played nice for awhile, but got triggered because I was stupid enough to talk about how much I was enjoying watching the birds and squirrels in front of my place. NEVER TELL THEM ANYTHING. THEY WILL USE EVERYTHING AGAINST YOU. THEY ARE ABSOLUTELY NUTS. Addendum: Nuts, and literally DEMONICALLY infested, and trust me, I saw and experienced this with my own two eyes.
The demons won’t allow them to be at peace it’s not just physical it’s deeper spiritual
They are empty vessel filled item legions of them they are control in all they do but malevolent demonic beings they surrender to evil a long time ago and I believe a lot was born that way.
True, I was with my female Malignant Narcissist out for the day on a trip for my Birthday. Everything was going great until we started driving back, she started an argument out of nowhere because I wasn’t letting her play the music she wanted in the car and because I didn’t take selfies with her that day. It then went into the next evening on the phone.
Exactly! Eventhough they seem to never pay attention to what you say, out of the blue, they will recall something you had said a long time ago, in order to blame shift or accuse you of something, make you feel bad, question your sanity. They are pure evil, and what amazes me is the fact that I knew from the beginning that something was off with these people but I failed to recognize that what I felt was the truth and not my imagination. @@eagleeye2300
Yes they do this! They call it, “Knocking someone down a peg or two”. Or, if a narcissist is feeling too much jealousy or inferiority they claim they have to “Knock you off of your high horse “, to everyone but you. Miserable people to be sure
I think narcisists despise their targets from the beginning as they are jealous, envious , entitled and arrogant. It can often be felt that they do not like their victims even during the lovebombing . They target people who carry light and goodness and they are bend on their distruction . This is a battle between good and evil.
Yes I agree he used his two older sisters in law to provide the big bunches of flowers and gifts. It wasn't him who spent the time and money to love bomb me he had everyone sucked in.
I agree, they don't like or love anyone, but themselves..they are empty people. Better left on the shelf! They are simply, leeches! Sucking the life out of everyone!
Thank you for adressing the spiritual issue with narcissism. Psychologists see it as a personality disorder but in my view and experience it is a demonic possession. They are not interested in becoming happy themselves but rather they derive pleasure from somebody else's unhappiness and misery, especially if they are responsible for it. You described accurately what the atmosphere around a narcissist feels like, a constant agitation. The minute they walk into a room, everything vibrates on a lower more dense frequency which is eroding and exhausting. All empaths feel it instantly.
I agree with you. In many cases, it is some type of possession. I wish I would have known this earlier in life. It would have helped me a lot.
Demonic possession is very rare. Mental and physical causes have to be ruled out first by psychiatrists and neurologists . Then the Church has very clear teachings on what the victim has to present with before they can be accurately deemed to be possessed. These include unnatural physical strength; the ability to fluently speak and understand languages that the victim has never been able to speak before, often ancient languages such as Latin and even Akkadian; knowledge of events and actions in the lives of others that the victim could have no possible prior knowledge of- this is why the exorcist and his team MUST have made sincere Confessions before exorcisms or the possessing demons will taunt them about their unconfessed, unabsolved sins and attempt to humiliate them with those sins; very significant is the vociferous and seething fear and hatred of prayers and of sacred objects such as Bibles, holy water, blessed Rosaries and of course, the Crucifix. If the victim does not display any of these things, he/she is not demonically possessed.
This said, I do believe that there is a demonic/diabolic element to Cluster B traits in people, possibly what exorcists call demonic influence or attachment. To quote one, Fr. Carlos Martins , "Demons live in wounds". As we know that many of those with Cluster B PDs have experienced traumatic abuse in childhood, this makes sense to me. Thus, we could be sensing the presence of demonic spirits when around people with Cluster B PDs but they are around the individual, or attached to them but do not have control of their body- in possession, the demon/s take control of the victims body. The possessed victims don't know what they're doing when the possessing demon takes control, but Cluster B PDs do know what they're doing. They are in control of themselves, know what they're doing is wrong and evil, but either don't care or enjoy it.
Victims of demonic possession are called victims because they suffer, and sometimes even die from it, as that's the ultimate aim of the demons- to kill! The only case in which a possessed person does not suffer in this life is in the case of what is called "perfect possession" where the person is willing. Most possessed people are not willing at all, and as I say, suffer terribly. NPDs, psychopaths and sociopaths mainly cause others to suffer.
Thank you for taking the time to explain so thoroughly the difference between an actual physical demonic possession and a demonic influence. I was refering to the second but I didn't elaborate so as to make it clear to other people and not just to myself! I am sorry for the confusion I might have caused.@@notamused3715
@@notamused3715 Father Chad Ripperger, who's a Roman Catholic priest and an Exorcist clearly states there are 5 or 6 levels of possession. Agree that not everyone is fully demonically possessed. But they don't have to be to wreak havoc in your life. Also, don't just go by what the Roman Catholic church tells you. There are many different types of attachments. I've done an in depth study on this because this has affected me personally in multiple ways. I wish I knew 30 years ago what I know now. However, I still consider myself fortunate.
Correct well said,
Once the trauma bond is broken you can see clearly how evil this person is. I was living with a devil not a person with a personality disorder. Once I knew what I was dealing with it was a huge game changer. This is diabolical abuse. God help us, ❤
It's shocking isn't it? How can 'just' a trauma bond make one so blind that when it's gone one is appalled at how stupid one was? How could one not have seen it for it was so clear? Self-delusion or self-delusion + some demonic hypnotism?
How do I truly completely break this bond?
Once I was ready to let hope go the spell was broken. 36 years of believing this marriage could be fixed finally admitted the truth to myself this was never a marriage and was never salvageable. I actually asked an elder from church to pray for me for the gift of indifference. After two weeks of begging for this grace I received it. I also saw for the first time the depth of the psychological/emotional abuse I had endured, Let GO of HOPE! Let the corpse go. These people are so evil. They will never ever change. P.S. I’m still married to the asshole but he can’t access any emotions from me. It’s miraculous. Indifference/silence. this grace comes from GOD when we’re ready to access it. The indifference will come.
I'll be cleaning my flat with Sage today... 😁 Does anybody know any other good methods of cleansing your home off that demonic spirit?... Thank you x
@@maryisbell6421Pray, and ask for Holy Spirit Guidance. And give Thanks to Jesus for giving
Us our Holy Comforter and the Father who is so Pure that no darkness exists in them. They are total Light and Love. Always a Prayer away.❤❤❤
Energy vampires...they will literally suck the spirit (the will to live) out of you. Thank you for this message and for caring.
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I believe it’s nothing less than spiritual warfare. the classic dark versus light, evil versus good. they go after good empathic people and want to destroy them we work for the light they work for the dark. When you get involved with one of these narcs, you’re in for the battle of your life, I’m happy to report I survived !
Indeed. There’s a saying out there that goes: “There is no better place for evil to hide, than behind good”.
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That a why so many go to church
Wow.. so true
OMG! I love that..
@@patriciagriffin1505 True. Most "churches" are viper's dens full of these nasty beings (offspring of Cain). I avoid those places like the plague. God tells us we ARE the ekklesia ("church"), not a building full of nasty hypocrites.
A Narcissist is an actor. Always. There is no true self. Just a facade , a mask . I remember the x Narc used to make me wait for him. It was like I was put on hold.
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Exactly
My narcisstistic mother was saying she knows how to act and that she is a good actor.
Every time my narcissist ex husband came home, it felt like a huge dark cloud of energy came over the house. It was a heavy, depressing, and energy draining feeling. I was always on high alert when he was around because he was unpredictable in what he would do next. It was exhausting. Very exhausting. I begged him to let me go to therapy because I thought I was going crazy. He absolutely refused and I was forbidden to seek help (though I went secretly and that started my escape from him) and gave me a list of things to do around the house to occupy my mind. Everything on that list were things to do for him. He did enjoy my suffering. It was sick and evil.
I experienced this while married to a malignant narc the energy very evil I have left him got out filed divorce for so many other reasons
These monsters actually get a sort of "high" from causing others pain. They are absolutely dark clouds and extremely uncomfortable to be around. Glad you went to therapy....So sorry you had to suffer this. It's awful.
my god. absolutely awful. glad you got out
Me, too. Male Chauvinistic pig.❤
Same. It’s like the Charlie Brown cartoon character “Pig Pen”, that black cloud of anxiety, evil and unhappiness surrounds them. To get within 3-5 ft of them makes you feel like you have an icy finger up your back or like you have to shake or brush yourself off, as if their unhappiness is like a layer of dust that’s landed on you. Pure evil. They are demonic
I'm 60. I'm only just undoing the horrendous damage done since age 4. Once you understand it you can begin your healing. I'm the first out of the clan exposing it. It's a lonely journey.
You're not alone.
Nope def 61 childhood both Narc parents, sociopaths sibling. No my 40 yr marriage and his siblings used me as the scapegoat of their family with all 3 Narc and my husband’s ‘best friend’ sleazy feeding Narc vs me and Empath and Lightworker..I have children and grand to protect and the Abuse is at a sick level right now. 61 and all I’ve been is a feeding source of hate and destruction..
So please I feel and relate to looking at an age of 60 and paralyzed. I don’t know who to talk to and confide in stay in silence and Alone. Crazy I didn’t see it coming and am totally blindsided.. much love and blessings xo
Oh yes it gets them off.
@@antoinettefalone8830 I feel for whatever you're going through, however it is HIGHLY unlikely that every close relative of yours is a narcissist. They may have certain maladaptive behavioral patterns, but statistically it is impossible that they are all narcississ. Perhaps looking at your own choices and behaviors is a good start. In order to understand the entire equation and begin to create firm boundaries, it's imperative that one take accountability and full agency of themselves, their choices, and their behaviors.
You are not alone. I am 66 and just finally understand what I've been dealing with in my "family". I walked away, shut the door...never to engage again. I've since researched and have learned about narcissism, scapegoating and it's has blown my mind. God has blessed me with this knowledge and i am so grateful that i am free. Beware..all the psycobabble is our pagan culture's way of explaining away demon possession or oppression. I now see it clearly for what it is. Jesus has already defeated evil but we must cling to Him, we can't do battle without him. ❤❤
I left a narc spouse after 23 years of marriage . I kept hinting to him that I would leave but he was indifferent. He thought I was making idle threats . . . 2 months before I escaped I was woken up one night to him laughing wickedly in the dark . . . He was probably relishing my pain . . . This just increased my determination to leave , which I did one day when he had gone to work . . . He couldn't believe it , just couldn't. It has been 9 months now and when I look back I can see how evil , manipulative n sadistic he really is . I have 2 young adult sons who have chosen to live with me rather than their dad . . .
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@@NarcConIt's my experience however much evil you think they are capable of you are underestimating because you can only ever anticipate through the lens of a non Cluster B. Please keep your son's safe and yourself. More power to you.
@@jelkel25 You're right, they are capable of so much more than we could even imagine, even after everything they have already done to us!
Wow, how brave! I pray you will continually get healing and that God also protects the feelings of your young sons. You are fortunate that you know what this wickedness is while your sons are young. My son didn’t have a mother that was as smart. He has suffered but is finally getting a handle on the reality of the abuse he and I suffered at the hand of the “viper”.
Just keep it real for your boys. If they have contact with their father he will endlessly try to manipulate them to go against you. He will only stop when he can no longer talk/ no longer has access to them or is dead. Good thing is you can all truly live again now.🙏👍🏼👍🏼
When you become aware & in tune to energy.. you can pick up on it.. But years ago, I had no idea. Being an empath.. I tell truth - do as I say.. etc. so assumed others were as I am... It was a rude awaking to realize this was not accurate.. Narcissists are always looking for the upper hand and to et something over on someone. They are sneaky, snaky liars.. you can see it in their eyes, in their energy. They may appear calm, but it feels anything but calm. You feel uncomfortable around them. They create issues where there are none.
not always the case, for sure! sometimes they are sooooo convincing, everyone loves them! only a few, get the other side
Yes I can see it eyes but what do u when you are trauma bonded with them. Yet u know everything about them and I feel I’ve absorbed their energy..
@@SA-px3ln cut the energy.. take care of yourself.. read DADDY THROWS ME IN THE AIR... memoir/self-help.. in part 4 are tools and a process to assist in awareness & release that you can use forever..
@@anndillard8681 thank you how do cut energy cords I feel defeated depression dead. Who is author ?
@@SA-px3ln I am the author Ayn Dillard.. I created a process into identification and release that is in Part 4 of DADDY THROWS ME IN THE AIR.. I have found when you genuinely learn about your shadow side is when you see clearly.. it's about yourself and what you have been imprint with and by.. it creates energy that you emit and what you attract.. trauma bonding is emotional and hormonal.. clear yourself.. workout breath.. work the process in part 4.. learn about yourself.. forget about the other person..
God Bless You,
I agree with every single point you made. I am 63 years old and in the process of divorce. I had been with my soon to be ex, since I was 16, and he was 18. Even at 16, I remember saying to him, "Why do you look like you feel better, the more frustrated and upset I become"?.
There is one reason I finally escaped this insidious abuse. I fell on my knees when I was completely depleted, damaged, and had lost my will to live, and surrendered to God. I knew I was in trouble and I had neglected the Lord for decades. God answered and He answered immediately. Believe it or not, I worked my career as a RN, but I had gotten a psychology degree first, yet I was so blind to how evil this individual was. Well, I got to work, putting God first, and all the information I needed to heal, i.e. information on toxicity, narcissism, healing inner childhood wounds, etc., seem to inundate every area I was around.
Once that trauma bond is broken, you cannot unsee this disorder.
Thank you Jesus, first and forever, and thank you for sharing your wisdom with this bittersweet community.
God Bless You All.
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God will bring you through this. I was the same age. It was leave or slowly die. You have great courage !
@colbysmom56 Hi Colbysmom,
Thank you for the beautiful response.
The only thing, obviously besides my children and grandchildren, that I can say was a benefit from this experience, is the return and deepening of my faith.
No more doubts, peace I've never felt before, ever, and optimism for the future.
Our latter days will be better colbysmom!
God Bless You, and thank you again for uplifting my day.
❤God be with you. ❤
@@patriciamacnichol5061Did you grow up in a narcissistic household?
Thank you for this topic.
I also noticed if they are in my life, everything starts going wrong- car won’t start, bank card won’t work- tons of little things, when I remove them, the bad things stop happening, if I allow them back, it starts again- their energy infects you
I have noticed the exact same thing.... It's time to get these people out of our lives....
Right after discovering he was a child predator my car had to go in the shop 2 times. Whole transmission rebuild that cost 2500. Car had never been in the shop in 4 years
Exactly, many bad things /misfortune happened while in relationship with my ex narc.
We must protect our peace always. That’s gods gift to us and what they are always out to take.
💯 true! Always happened to me too! I thought it was just me experiencing this…..!
It is so weird. Getting kicks off others suffering. It's anti life. Their behaviour lead me to Jesus. So something wonderful had come out of it all.
My narc mother is all about jesus. Explain that.
I no longer stay around people who cause me to feel off-balanced and confused. I now know those people have serious problems that harm others.
Inflicting pain gives them power.. they get pleasure from controlling the reactions of other's emotions. They are weak, insecure and satanic..
I left the narc. my soul was dying. 6 months later I was getting educated the narc had the audacity to walk up to my face like nothing demonic happened. I said I would pray for his soul, he said don't he doesn't believe in souls, something shifted internally in him, i saw it through his eyes. Walked away. Creepy.its so creepy.
My husband says he doesn't believe in God. When I met him he at least went to church?? I didn't vet well enough tho
Yessssssss unclean spirits are the worst mentality physically emotionally and spiritually
I agree Paula.
The first time I met this person I felt really tense and a feeling of dread came over me. I could actually sense malice (I can't explain it but a sinking feeling).
I respectfuly tried to stay away from her and was asked why I didn't like her but was told I was judging and not giving her the chance.
The rest is history but not in a good way because the person turned out to be really very predatory and spiteful beyond my comprehension.
Also I have observed people like this to smile and or smirk when something bad is happening or they have hurt someone or caused strife.
I have experienced a narc saying horrific things to myself and others then casually hum to himself afterwards while a person is in floods of tears as if it's a normal task like gardening that you can say something awful then hum to yourself!
I absolutely agree Paula that there is a realm of some darkness in which they operate.
The realm of darkness exists, in our unconscious as well as in the Cosmos and it's full of archetypes, monsters, hybrid-thoughts half-and-half and creepy feelings of fear of the Unknown. Their combinations, in reciprocity, can variate and are infinite. William Blake: "The doors of perception..." (Marriage of Heaven and Hell). Some film directors are able to bring the contents of their nightmares into the light, on the silver screen (Tarantino's and Bunuel's movies, horrors, snuff movies ecc.) and a single 'npd', which cannot control his subconscious and unconscious (no true self), brings it out into the life through his/hers projections on the family members. That's it. * How to explain otherwise that many narcissists want us to experience their "brains"? * They say, "You don't judge me until you've walked three days in my moccasins (my brain) along the paths of my life." And we can, naturally and sincerely, tell them the same 🙏
"The distinction between children and adults, while probably useful for some purposes, is at bottom a specious one, I feel. There are only individual egos, crazy for love." ~ Niccoló Machiavelli, Italian
I feel like I attract narcassistic women I finished with one my recent partner ive have broken up and shows narcassistic traits I’ve given up on relationships now life should be simple life simple pleasures no drama
yes same with a woman narc. she is now sucking the life out of some other woman now .. and hookups. tells all her men she has a gf but she don't know whats going on .. I guess so they the men will not try to move in or move too fast ... it is the men she likes but the woman are the punching bags however she sees fit I was her first one she stole or tried my whole being and hid me in every way . also she takes on the other womens trsits .. all about control and mind torture , it was like the movie Misery for me bc I have injuries so she really had me tested and trapped .. gotta watch these people in remote areas where its all nice and pretty but you are fairly way out ... like a picturesque cabin in the woods . this woman would play movies of men trapping women in the woods a few times .. I think she was telling me through the movie that would be me ..
I can sense malice too and it's almost impossible to explain. Thanks for your comment - it's important to always gain distance from a person when you sense this feeling - I think it's the Gift of Fear (like the book). Stay safe out there!
Thank you for your explanations concerning narcissistic behavior. It's all new to me. My mistake years ago (not knowing what npd was, I wanted to end a 30 year friendship...I was done! When I told her...She said "Arn't you going to give me a second chance". I have regretted it ever since. So if someone is in this position....Remember they know your an Empath.
Somehow, anything you involve a narcissist will likely to end up tragically. They seem to gravitate towards destruction and disease. They will make you feel bad about even normal things in life and at the same time blame you for the cause of anything you feel bad about.
“You will understand that something’s wrong, but you won’t be able to put your finger on it.” Exactly, Paula! After an unfortunately long 30+ years before finally putting a finger on her behavior, I am feeling so much more relaxed and at peace without my narcissist in my life. In fact, yesterday, I felt the most peace and wholeness I have felt since I went no contact with her 10 months ago. But then, of course, the evil sent a nightmare about her to me last night in my dreams. So, that evil spirit is definitely out there still trying to bring me down. I am so glad I have my faith to turn to in order to get through this. Continued thanks for all you are doing for people who have suffered in relationships with Narcissists. And thank God, it miraculously does get better when you get away from them.
Don't feel bad. I was 62 when I found out what a narcissist really is. But OMG my life made sense. I went NO Contact 2 years ago. Keep learning. You are not dead. You are here.
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It is better for thinking to be away from them. I had nightmares too. It gets better and better. Be you and be kind to you.
It is difficult to recognise abuse. The insidious abuse that they inject us actually. We feel in holy spirit something is happening hurting, but we don't get enough proof. It's confusing.
I agree with everything you are saying here. The majority of these people are hosted, meaning they have entity attachments. Once you learn how to scan for an attachment, it becomes a lot easier. There are varying degrees of possession. If you don't know how to scan for an attachment, take your time in getting to know someone. What this person says and does (over time) will tell you a lot. Hold back your heart until you know who you're dealing with. All the best to you, Paula. Thanks for the great video!
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How do you scan for attachments? Is this different than intuition?
@@monaabdelbaset8726 Yes, scanning for entity attachments is different than intuition, although intuition certainly plays a role. Unfortunately, it is too much to write here. I am starting a RUclips channel and will be discussing this in a video series. I anticipate the topic will span many videos.
@@thepragmatist alright. Thank you so much. I may start to search about that.
IFS may help to understand this complex weave of deception and getting pleasure from others pain and despair
So many examples over the years, myself and kids would be home, everything peaceful until he flew in the door. Reminds me of the Tasmanian devil. There was always some “disaster” that he made everyone crazy, and in 5 minutes he was fine, leaving us shaking with upset the rest of the night. Starting fights for no reason so he could have an excuse to leave, making his video porn calls….always something. I used to call his energy frenetic. Looking back, it’s incredible how I had to live for so many years. He died last year, I’m free and I’m gifting myself peace and tranquillity every day!!
My step-dad was like that. I catch myself thinking about him then think "I wish he was dead." And he is dead.
Now i want to let it go
@@ChristinaFromRUclips yes, you know when it’s time 💕
They unload their internal misery, chaos and undealt with toxicity onto you so they can feel better. I call it "dumping a wet cat in my lap"......
@@reesedaniel5835 at least cats are lovable…even wet😻
My narc family was so bad I had a breakdown and was hospitalized. They used religion to make me look like the monster. Through Gods love he showed me otherwise. Gain knowledge in him. They are wolves in sheep clothing that the Bible speaks of. My best advice is walk away and just pray for them. Only God can change a demonic spirit. The Bible is full of examples of this. God Bless and my prayers are with each of you. ❤️❤️🙏🙏
2 Timothy ch 3 vs 1-9
Amen…they never change, and will never repent. Stay away and pray for them is the only way…
Amen. Jesus Christ can save you from these demons. ❤✝️🙏
It's no way a human being can be so careless, soulless, heartless and evil.... that is a demonic spirit in these narcissist!! You got to realize we are living in a spiritual world!! It could be a mental issue but the devil is in play in their lives!!
100% facts.
Gave them selves over!
My birth mother is a malignant narcissist, I was in the role of a scapegoat child. I never knew my biological father, she divorced him and managed to get herb2nd husband to adopt me, and alienated me from my very loving father. Then at a young age, I attracted a narcissistic psychopath, was married to him for 20 years. God helped me understand that I was living in the demons pit of chaos and division. Taking my time to heal. ❤
God bless you
Demons - sent to interfere with our divine destiny ❤️🙏
“You will feel zizzy” - I’ve never heard that word before and yet I understand it, viscerally!!
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My Dad used to refer to my ex (a total narcissist) as a "joy vacuum" (which we all thought was hilarious but true). When he walked into a room, the energy went dark and one by one, everyone would eventually drift out--even our dogs! The day I divorced him was one of the best days of my life.
Love the description 🤓
Haha joy vacuum! Absolutely spot on.
I eventually understood the psychology of the malignant narcissist and it's an extremely useful model but it’s a relief to hear someone also talk about the spirituality that drives it.
I always felt that this lying, incestuous, gluttonous, sadistic mother of mine who took enormous pleasure in the destruction of people’s lives, literally in the case of my father, was being controlled demonically. Now someone’s said it, and it needs to be said. Thank you.
I felt so pressured and monitored from a distance by a minor narc recently. There was intense, smothering, lovebomb energy and the expectation to reciprocate it was heavy. Then the flattery got less and more demands without asking first. I think it was a borderline. The phone was used to control me. I began shaking uncontrollably with anxiety, dread, obligation, & guilt. I had to ask for change & I was dumped. It was a relief actually.
@@discernthetruth hugs! This was shocking as it was only a friend. I’m grateful it’s over!
Did they try hoovering you yet ?
@@kidrosskidrossproductions2906 Right away. Took back all the nasty things they said after guilt tripping me for asking for more time between texts & calls. I blocked them everywhere because I was so done! I hope there are no more hoovers.
I was always afraid to acknowledge that this 'dark energy' resided in the narcissist and besides there was not really anyone online referring to this topic. Some of my visceral responses to the narcissist were ' nausea and sweating, brain freeze, body tremors and a gut feeling of impending doom.' I feel so validated by your video and 'peace be with you and with your spirit'
On t contrary. Its t only way to explain it. Theyre evil.
I found that there was always chaos of some sort. I think it makes them feel important. No such thing as bad publicity! It wears those around them out.
Totally agree on the spiritual level ,as a Christian I felted the energy levels shift when I was around a narcissist. All my predictions have been right .
Spiritual warfare, plain & simple. The spiritual journey with all its ups and downs is so fulfilling and freeing. However, doing a simple task as going to the supermarket can drain me as I can feel their presence near me. A huge paradigm shift happening folks and it’s about time, too!
Me to I don’t know how to get out of fear
@@SA-px3ln "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." 2 Timothy 1:7
@@reesedaniel5835 I have narcissist family I mentally can’t let go draining my energy even not around them still stuck in depression and absorbing everyone energy being empath sucks
Thank you for this message. I’ve been no contact with my partner for 4 weeks while we are separating. I knew something was terribly wrong but when I realized it was narcissistic abuse, I felt exactly like I was fighting for my soul. I would often catch myself saying, get thee behind me satan. Another bible verse would frequently come to mind about being vigilant because our adversary the devil goes about seeking whom he may devour. This is not just a psychological and emotional battle for me. It was and is mostly a spiritual battle and I am so appreciative for your acknowledgement.
For the narcissist it is never their fault for anything. Catch them & confront them with their lies & they become like a bomb being exploded. They will attack you with criticisms, say things that will hurt you & it all comes out with speed not permitting you then to get in a word & sometimes even hang up on you if the conversation was on the phone. They are dark, unhappy & empty souls
I experienced a very dysfunctional childhood and marriage where I spent the rest of my life healing and trying to figure out what the hell happened. Then 2 months ago everything began to align and suddenly I had a clear view and understanding of my experiences. My father was a malignant narcissist and husband was a covert narcissist just as you describe. From a spiritual perspective, I believe every soul is created in love, yet each soul chooses along their journey how to polarize: the more evil the greater potential for entity attachments which not only take great pleasure in witnessing pain but also feed on it.
You pointed out precisely at the spiritual level what is going on. I say that as a shamanic healer. Hopefully, many people will read and understand deeply so they can be free and heal.
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What you described in great detail has happened to my dear daughter. Sadly my daughter died due to her husband's relentless psychological abuse. Unfortunately, my daughter turned to alcohol as a coping mechanism.
Her physical appearance changed drastically, she developed 'cushings disease' which can be triggered by stress. Before she married her demonic husband she was so beautiful, happy, intelligent and deeply in love with him. But after a few months she changed. Unfortunately she was keeping quiet about her troubles. It was years later that I discovered he was involved with countless affairs even during her first pregnancy. He completely destroyed her self esteem and ability to deal with such a bewildering relationship. She eventually had 3 children. He even made her pregnant when she was totally destroyed by the effects of alcoholism. I was horrified because she was so highly disfigured by cushings and alcohol dependency. While she was pregnant he announced that he wanted a divorce ....... it all became obscene. My daughter was completely broken, he successfully alienated her from her children. He turned everyone against her. What is so frustrating is that social services, police, magistrates and solicitors didn't believe her when she desperately tried to explain that he is a narcissist. In fact very few people are educated enough to understand narcissistic behaviour. The narcissist appears to be well respected, intelligent, well spoken, professional and wealthy whilst the victim is both mentally and physically destroyed without support and subjected with negativity and criticism. My heart is broken because my daughter was a sweet lovely person without a bad bone in her body, now she is dead at the age of 40, buried 6 feet deep at the bottom of her grave. The only mistake she made in life was falling in love with a narcissist..... the silent assassin.
@@janradwanski8912 I deeply desire to acknowledge your experience and sorrow with more compassion than I am able to communicate via this message multiplied to each and every person who bears the losses perpetrated upon them through narcissist abuse. I am sorry for what you've been through and hold space for our healing journey with much love.
Its definitely demon possession! I lived with one for eleven years. Pure evil. All the comments on here is what i went through. I planned to leave. One day he went on a job interview (he was constantly getting fired), I loaded up my car and drove to my daughter's house in another city! Immediately had a nervous breakdown. Filed for my divorce 6 months later and as of May 25, 2017, im abrand new person. I actually love life and im living it to the fullest. They are very evil people!
I enjoyed listening to this. This behavior from experience is something you can not make up. How can all of us that has experience this strange ungodly experience. We all speak of the same experience. I was the scapegoat. I’ve seen enough with this on going behavior. It really makes you not wanting to be around something so dark in unconsciously cruel. My gift of discernment is a gift from God. He is the only one to save them.
Narcissistic energy in my opinion is so dark, so negative, so demonic. We have to types of energies: positive and negative. When you feel negative energies, you feel like a cold, the energy freezes you and it going to depend of the level of negative energy your body reacts. This why to understand how your body reacts to external factor. When you feel the vibration of the voice your body reacts. Negative energies creates blocks your mind, your energy level from a very high level it’s going to pull you down if you don’t know how to transform the negative energy into positive. Listen to your body.
I feel very alone and sad. Thank you for tour videos
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My soon ex husband would come home from work and change the energy in the room instantly. I never knew which character I was gonna see on any given day. VERY MOODY! For the most part he was quiet and loved the silent treatment. When he was leaving for the secretary at his work, he had the smirk on his face, dark eyes, voice change. The divorce process is already a mess, he filed but has held it up. Its all very telling 😈 Entity possession for sure. They feed on chaos and drama, well...i wasn't that but his next supply is,so have at it!
I know exactly what you mean,I used to work shifts and would often be at home when she was at work ,I’d be in the kitchen preparing tea and I’d see her car pass the house on the way to park on the drive and I knew what frame of mind she would be in by how long it would take her to get in from the car,if she was quick I knew that she would be upbeat but often she would take a while and when she came she would pick a fight over the stupidest things🤷♂️
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Thanks. Now I understood something. After some time your needs shrink to the point almost to the basics or not even that. You start to think that even not being harassed is a luxury not a basic need or right. Most things that normal people take as a norm you perceive as a luxure that perhaps you will never achieve. After some time you almost stop feeling bad about it - like people being burned stop feeling pain after a while when nerve endings got destroyed. A victim can be destroyed to the point he or she stops feeling pain and become numb nad dispair. Now they come and say "why are you so lifless? Do someting about it".
no empathy = evil acts and they enjoy it because they are evil
25 years of this, you are spot on in everything you say,they are pure evil,thank you Paula x
Pure evil. And i though i was imagining
@@Acc-eh8pp You not imagining anything that is GOD telling you what they are. Listen to him. I can assure you they are pure evil.
I remember trying to connect with my sister. Making yourself vulnerable can be a healthy way to connect with family and friends unless they're an unhealthy narcissist. My sister would attack me and make me feel horrible for showing a little vulnerability and genuineness. It was like a switch was flipped and she became extremely dominant and aggressive. It really fucked with my head for a long time until I realized my sister is a full blown oblivious narcissist. She claims to have "no problems". She ticks every single box in the NPD checklist. I honestly think she's in full denial of her narcissism. I've called her out on it and it exposed her in no uncertain terms. She exploded and basically said everything and will no longer speak to me. It's because I'm too strong and I can no longer be gaslighted. She knows it and she just can't deal with me anymore unless she's in a dominant position. I'll never allow it. Impasse.
Dark energy/sadistic/ capable of killing/ end desire of the narcissists is to get you to un alive yourself, the perfect crime.
Thank you for addressing the spiritual aspect and what it "feels" like around them. You describe a "zizzle" feeling. I feel it too and think of it as a short circuit in the electrical system radiating off a narcissist. It is erratic. You cannot put a finger on it and may easily talk yourself out of what you are sensing. Once you identify it, I think it is good to always trust your gut feeling. You know what it is. You can sense it in others quickly and I think it is a great tool.
Thanks for this explanation! It's helped explain something I've witnessed.....
Yes My partner for more than 2 years…I am 61 and he is 65 now… I was so nervous and stressed!! And I couldn’t understand it ! My stomach was nervous, my heart beating fast .. almost all the time !
I am sooo grateful that I chose to get help and get out of it, stop it🙏
The sheer joy they get at watching your destruction is so evil! He loved when I cried & I lost my job, & when I lost my job he said: it’s about time, I have been trying to get you fired for awhile now. I was so very weak. I’m not totally healed yet, but I’m doing very well now! It’s so damaging, I almost didn’t make it. But God, but God🙏🙏
They are suffocating evil wicked folks
Good video! I'm from a very secular place and upbringing, also quite rational and science-oriented. Only three years ago I might have dismissed any talk of dark spiritual energy etc.. Not so today. I agree there is a dark energy and a pure malice that cannot be well explained by psychologists. In fact when I hear many psychologists talk about NPD etc. it seems they capture only a schematic plan but not it's actual operation. It almost seems as you need to experience it to fully understand. In my opinion the malignant narcissist, covert narcissist, is evil! Like demons. Unfortunately I share custody over my child with a covert narcissist (the mother) who doesn't have any empathy for the child. But the facade is very good and she is so good at acting that other people believe she is a soft, caring, tender, etc..., woman who is also a victim. It is quite disgusting. She is a monster. And I have to protect myself and my daughter. Every hand over feels like walking close to radiation leak. I still struggle to grasp that someone can be so purely evil and also that I could be so deceived. I remember the look in her eyes once just before my "escape". It was like a transformation and it was like staring into a dark pit of emptiness. Really quite scary.
I appreciate your acknowledgement of the spiritual aspect of narcissism. It isn't just psychological or physiological. But this doesn't seem to be addressed from what I can see. It is an evil energy, in my opinion. I can feel it.
I went to church they took all sises lies went against me and still come against me without asking me any ?s or investigating or seeking truth they just take what she says and go with it I haven't gone back to a church. I still hang on to GOD HE'S seems to be the only one out here who's got my back no one believes me. 😢
I have always felt that what possessed my EX was more than just psychology. I was discarded in an extremely cruel way and it shocked and traumatized me badly. I kept asking myself over and over, what kind of man does something like this? What kind of person does something like this? I could not answer this question and then I did the deep dive to understand what happened and who this person was and most importantly, how I could have been so fooled. Going back and picking out certain scenarios I remembered looks, comments etc. that when observed later were much more disturbing. My entire relationship was fraught with darkness, dishonesty, manipulation, lies, dark secrets, usury, etc. etc. Darkness in every aspect of him as a living being. I have never known any human being so vile. Once I looked at the naked truth I realized how lucky I am to be rid of him no matter how it happened.
There's more than psychology in this...we feel it. So many folk were immediately turned-off meeting my ex, they said they just didn't get 'good vibes' (an exampke, the local shop keeper, a car mechanic..brief, casual interactions) , kinda thing. Post discard, the possession remains in thought (NOT longing, NOT sadness, NOT rumination) like a spiritual malignancy . As for the hugely over-used and populist trauma stuff, sorry not convinced. Thankfully you bring spiritualism I to this, it is so important. Many of us around this experience talk in Biblical terms about the experience and I have crosses hanging where before there were none - and I doubt I am alone.
I've seen and felt this energy before. By a hysterical adopted mother who lost her emotional bearings when I was 5 years old. And That fear sets you up for more emotional pain to come to you. The root of my trauma, I'll never forget in order to protect myself from it again. My advice, believe how you felt it. Believe your feelings and do not make any excuses for their bad, out of control behavior. If you ever encounter this energy with anyone, even your parent, watch for this diligently. To protect yourself from it. This behavior is very sneaky and covert. I, at 5, was labeled a liar when I did nothing at all. Took nothing. Another child did. I suffered for the rest of my life because of that day she lost her mind to something very very evil. She let it into our family. Loss of emotional clarity is the most sneaky way evil does come in between people. I've seen this happen on my side of the world to other people too. It's rampant and people must get a grip on this to stop it from spreading. "He said, "Forgive them. For they know not what they do". My mother did not know what was happening when she lost control over her own mind with rage that was completely inappropriate for the situation. Some thing else took over her. Our trust of each other was gone. I was 5 years old. If people don't know what they are doing, then who's in charge? In control? She sure wasn't and I had nightmares from her letting that bad thing come in between us. It never left. We never got along or were happy after that time. Our trust was over. Emotional control is imperative now more than ever. From calmness to panic, people must understand that we have to address our mental health as priority. Our feelings can wreak a lot of havoc if not taken very seriously. And I believe that if we have the highest level of awareness at this time, we can wipe out much of this human suffering. We need each others care and support and awareness and it doesn't cost a dime. And if we don't turn to each other, we will surely turn against ourselves. Love is a very powerful remedy for this trick were seeing. All you gotta do is look on skid row and Kensington to see what's really going on. We're pointing the finger and not turning to each other for answers, solutions. I believe we can flourish. But we have to have the desire to protect our children from our problems. I believe, by far, this is the most accurate information I've heard on this serious problem so far.. We need to take this very seriously. I thank God that we are finally being able to talk openly about this subject of greatest importance.
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Eating in a restaurant with a narcissist is the cringiest thing I have witnessed because they are so openly rude and cold and they think it’s funny to talk to people like trash who are only trying to help or serve them well ….I’ve been known to apologize to restaurant staff and waitresses/ waiters after we’ve finished and the narc has exited the door…I feel sorry for anyone in their path.
Also I’ve noticed that if you showed a narcissist a tragic video of someone actually getting hurt or even killed they will usually kinda laugh and say something like…wow they deserved to die!
A normal person would usually turn away in disgust and feel bad inside for the person or situation..or be traumatized.
A narc doesn’t seem to have an ability to feel traumatized or have pity about another persons injury or death…it’s all fun and games to them…that is until they are physically injured themselves and are trying to pull the heartstrings of others.
Thanks for this video…you hit the nail on the head !
It’s such a blessing to have found you. I am a Christian woman married to a complete narc, everything you’ve described is what I go through. I feel I am so broken down I don’t even know what to do. Thank you for these videos, at least I have comfort in knowing it’s not me ( because he is darn good and making me feel it’s all me) and I’m not alone. Thank you, I look forward to watching more of your vids and learning.🙏🏻💕
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I've been where you are now....even suicidal with a fool proof plan. Please just hang in there. Just some pieces of advice:
*Healing takes time so be gentle, patient and kind to yourself.
*These videos are great at explaining what destruction and war you've been engaged in. I had no idea there were actually WORDS explaining this kind of torture! Sometimes, you have to step away for a little bit because the information can be overwhelming. It's okay to pace yourself; you didn't know what you were up against or who you were dealing with.
*Learn to say "no". Especially with someone who is a challenge to be around. Conserve your energy right now for yourself. You will become more social as you build back more energy and stamina.
*Your real friends will support you. The pretenders will fall away even if you try to keep a relationship with them. Let them go. Your real friends will doubt the smear campaign but the pretenders will want to believe it. I think a smear campaign is a Blessing because it's God's way of weeding your garden.
*Remember to ask God for help. You don't even need to know what kind of help would be helpful....He knows. He knows who to send. I hope you can feel the hugs I'm sending!
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*As your questions come to mind, the answers will soon present themselves. This happens as you figure out the mine field that you got thrown into without your consent.
*Learn to trust your gut again. It's the Holy Spirit talking to you.
Just hang in there! There are more people rooting for you than you know!
You know Paula, I really believe these people are demon possessed because how else can it be explained how people from all walks of life culture ethnicity financial standing etc. People like us who have had the terrible misfortune of getting entangled in these relationships all have almost the exact experiences and struggles and just what it takes to get free and how hard it is to recover from their sadistic treatment.
They are demonically possessed. They are called “legions” for we are many.
Thanks to enlightening educaters such as Paula I have now developed a new inbuilt NARCDAR , and after a few moments I now get that ' feeling ' , the same vibe I used to mistake for excitement or intigue is now the alarm of HERE'S ANOTHER ONE ! 😂😅 Its so refreshing and life affirming to finally seek out GENUINE people who dont judge , have a hidden agenda , and who are actually pleased for my happiness !! 💪🙏❤️
There's so called experts out here within this community with alphabet letters after their name spreading disinformation about how it takes at least six months for you to know if someone is toxic or one of these parasites, when no it does not. It is without a doubt spiritual and your intuition (discernment) as well as how your body feels whenever around them is a huge warning that something is off, so therefore pay attention and never allow yourself nor anybody else to tell you to just ignore and dismiss it.
I actually saw the excitement on his face as I was becoming more and more upset the look on his face !!! He was actually excited. He loved it. He had a look of a joy on his face. He loved every minute of it. I’m in tears I’m just falling apart. He’s got me so upset and he liked it. That’s how disgusting these people are. You’re a mother even does history my aunt my brother, my whole family and they married one they’re everywhere and they’re evil.
You talked about adrenaline levels at 450.
It's true that they unbalance your hormones long term. This causes serious health problems...this is much more serious than people understand.
They ruin your health to the point that you are handicapped.
Yes. I firmly believe i developed ms from the constant stress of dealing with my narc husband's antics and attacks. Also belive my health will improve when I leave
It's true. And anxiety and panic attacks are a direct result of this damage. Your best defence is meditation and learning how to focus on the moment slowing down. The old saying slow down and smell the roses. DO THAT. Narcs torture you and make you a human- doing. DONT DO THAT. Be a human- BEING. JUST BE. UNLESS YOU DONT HAVE FOOD OR SHELTER THAT YOU NEED TO GO GET. Just STOP and relax. Do nothing for as long as it takes to center your self and focus. Healing is a long slow process. Do not communicate ghost them, half safe and flying monkeys as well. It's the only way out. Once you are out and really see the truth, you will NOT want to go back
Very happy I found you. I agree 100% and I’ve always found that the malignant narcissist embodies the “deadly sins” completely not from a religious standpoint necessarily but a spiritual one. The one I know has tried multiple times to destroy my spirit and snuff out my light. I know he’s dumbfounded that he hasn’t succeeded and never will. The biggest challenge for me is breaking the trauma bond and avoiding abuse amnesia. When I spoke to him of spirituality in the context of personality disorders and also brought up healing modalities outside of conventional psychology he mocked me. He doesn’t want to hear it. He hides behind a (fake?) diagnoses of having BPD but through years of on/off contact I know very well what he is and has and he hates that I know him. He surrounds himself with those who either enable his behavior or isn’t aware enough. Not sure if he “only” has demonic attachments or if his very soul has vacated his human body. Either way he can’t stand that he can’t defeat me and destroy me. Our light literally pains them because they know they will never feel and experience love and have peace. Their whole existence is a lie.
You hit the nail on the head with this analysis. It is a deeply spiritual problem they will not face.
I’ve watched all of Sam vaknins content, Richard grannon it gave me insight. Then Dr Ramani was a bit different preferred her female perspective but your content introducing the spiritual dimension is providing the real answers. I knew and felt this wasn’t all psychology I knew there was dark energy involved I felt it I’m clairsentient. Now I can heal, this insight is what I was missing and the piece of the jigsaw I didn’t have.
For me conversations with these kinds of people is strained and the feeling is that you have to stay on what interests them and to question or disagree with them it's as though they wonder why your even talking with them. It seems to bug them that you have your own perspective and opinion, it's just really weird. I never really understood these things until I discovered the true definition of a Narc and having lived and survived through what can only be explained as The Twilight Zone.
Oh, I know.
Thank you. I've been dealing with triangulation, drama, gaslighting & high blood pressure. I'm relieved to be out of it but am not in the clear yet
Yes ..getting your needs met infuriates a narcissist. Dental vision care, education, self improvement, basic needs items
Evil. Definitely.
So real. Yes the sick pleasure in their eyes while you die daily is truly from Satan. It almost killed me...almost.
Took me many years to come to the same conclusion. There is no longer any doubt in my mind, they have chosen to be pure evil.
I agree with you 100%. The satisfaction they get from your pain is absolutely demonic and evil 👹 Their energy is suffocating!
Definitely Dark energy. THE areas you cover are absolutely true absolutely true , thank you. It almost destroyed me......almost. I am getting better at seeing it. LOVE yourself first and i mean by that do not let them take your love....they will try to suck you dry. Its very painful because they get your trust then heightened emotional state happens and they cut your head off .... laughing. you have to learn to NOT react. First one to speak loses, one who wants it more and a bad deal, walk away . remember this. I would like to hope they can heal but they have few real friends unless they are NARCS too .... its an abyss do not get sucked into it, they are very averse to spirituality even spent their whole life searching for it. Im starting to realize maybe it is not to find it but protect themselves from it I never considered this aspect before... so this video is very thought-provoking. I want to hope they can find their soul, i am not so sure they can but this is something way bigger than me and I cannot fix them, i can only protect myself from their contempt and anger. I wont let my soul be sucked dry by them. I have enough love for us all but when they are so bent on hurting others this is a job for the higher power that is above us all.
Another thought provoking video. Always felt uneasy around my ex Narc and never totally relaxed. Often I would be sitting with the Narc and he would be staring in to space. I remember wondering what he was thinking. It's almost as if he was somewhere else and detached completely from the situation at the time. It's as if someone or something was feeding his mind. Unnerving to say the least. Thanks Paula. Best wishes to you and lovely Remy. x
robably was, if that was your intuition ! There is def something giving them instructions of sorts, since they all operate the same way... Thats my belief ;)
They are so easy to recognise once you had your fair share of N abuse.
It’s only with her husband and children and grandchildren that this energy comes through. To everyone else she is lovely. A victim of her very abusive family
That was tremendous spiritual awakening for me. You have obviously spent countless hours on this. I agree that it has Spiritual and psychological components. It's a personality disorder who hates any God but Self thus the darkest of energies reside there. You are so accurate in every word and your remarkable at tuning your intuitive aspects. Thank you for the clarity I believe these are people who loved self so much that the darkest of forces knocked on their door and they welcomed them in. And God they have no use for because self is more important. It's a spiritually deprived personality disorder that real demons take advantage of and reside. Very sad and dangerous
I have a PhD in psychology and it’s been impossible for me to understand how my ex narc is so incredibly demonic and evil.
I truly can’t understand how life hasn’t corrected these people into understanding that this is pure evil.
There’s no soul in academic psychology.
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Im sure you figure him out. But your heart ❤️ deceived you. So did your mind .so did your body 👁️👁️👁️ in our sprirt we can find the truth. Im still sesrching .i adored him yet after ten in a half months. My sprirt woke up .and realuzed i will not protect him any longer i will not love someone whos harming me im getting old .he told me i was ugly h e shamed me sexually a few times. The last time hurt the worse .🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕. I rather be alone until i die. Than feel the horrific rejection i felt that aft . Life gos on. Im scared insude ..
@@csnow1361I know the feeling I'm still with him I'm tryin get out god help us
I suffered hugely at the hands of two (so called) ‘elders’ in a church. As things progressed I began to see that there was something demonic behind their behaviours. This does not excuse their behaviour, but explains how two inherently sociopathic individuals would have opened themselves to demonic influences. They surrounded themselves with compliant people, and used their (illegitimate) authority to exert coercive control. They in effect became cultic, and despotic. All through I saw jealousy as a profound driver for their behaviour, and desperate immaturity in their characters. They destroyed the congregation and drove me into clinical depression. By the grace of God, I have learned how to spot such behaviour, and to be able to raise awareness of the problem of narcissism cloaked in ‘religious garb’, wolves in sheep’s clothing so to say. Jesus and the Apostles provide plenty of warnings about this sort of behaviour and these types… by their fruits you shall know them.
Blessed be the Lord who Heals. ❤
After thought… watch what the narcissist is saying about you or accusing you of… it is my experience a reflection of who they are and how they are behaving. Their words reveal much about the motives of their own hearts.
I agree with everything you said Pola. I can also sense the unpeaceful, entitled and draining narcisistic energy when I find myself in the presence such individuals. You can never relax when you are in the presence of a narcisist, your adrenaline levels are alway high, you never know what to expect. They are masters of seduction and enticement. Thank you for This video. I really needed it. God bless you❤
Yes, I've heard about different types of narcissists. The ones to pretend or are church leaders are called "communal" narcissists.
It's when they do something for the community. It can be helping animals, people with difficulties, etc.
I just realized my son is an abusive narcissist towards me... Love you Remmi...
My son too. I hurt for him and yet I need to survive and it hurts so much I'm so sorry you are facing this with your son too.its Real grief as we will always love them. Its Very hard and unbelievably real. I'm praying for him and will never stop loving him yet it got to the point I was running out of everything I needed to survive and i couldn't keep going even though I wanted to ...as he is my son and yet i had to love myself too- i miss him still . But God separated us I think because I couldn't do it myself and I couldn't have gone on much longer. He is 23 and my only family. I know your hurt and I'm so so very grateful you had the strength to recognize and admit that your son was this way - you gave me strength just in your few short words. It's so hard to accept even when we see the signs. It's our baby and our hearts.
Friend, you are speaking at a depth, that most will not be able to understand. But by golly, you are on point! You're 💯 percent right about EVERYTHING you've said. How I would love to tell you my story. I am almost 5 years in now, studying this demonic activity. I'm in the U.S. and I'm assuming you're across the ocean? But crazy how they all use the same playbook no matter where they are in the world. That speaks of another realm to me. I really enjoy your videos and your perspective! Blessings to you. ❤
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Paula you did a very good job cataloging and explaining the darkness that exist in these situations, even though it was at times not easy to listen to this because of my experiences and the uneasiness of revisiting those memories but for so many people that are trying to make sense of this madness your bring so much light into so many hurting peoples lives God Bless You 🤗
Bravo Paula 👏👏👏 & thank you for shedding so much light with your wonderful insight, which is gratefully appreciated by me (and no doubt many others) I truly value you & look forward to more videos. Thank you for being there x
Spiritually speaking, my Mother quoted this scripture to me with the warning that I would never be off his radar and she was 💯 correct. The scripture is from Proverbs; “And just as a dog returns to his vomit; so a fool returns to his folly”
“Psychology or dark energy?” Very profound…reminds me of what a friend of mine told me regarding truly spiritual matters
Thank you Paula, you are helping so many people. I am learning so much and your content has made a huge impact in my life 8 months discard, 1 week from my divorce court date.
I think you have just explained why I always felt like the meerkat, the one that is always on the lookout for the the safety of the others, but it was Like it was my turn every time, never a second of serenity, my senses were so constant that it it was frankly exhausting to just exist around her. However this experience has left me with what I consider to be another valid "school day" all lessons however easy or painful are valuable, there is at least that silver lining, I like my cup half full thank you Paula 💪🙏
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26 years ago I was crying out to God not knowing what to do about my mother ( I now know she is a covert narcissist) she was trying to destroy my family. I was just praying and all of a sudden I started binding the spirit of Jezabel ( at this point I had never heard of Jezabel ) when I read spiritual books on describing Jezabel in the Bible it was a complete match to my mother’s personality and a narcissist personality
Finally somebody talks about this. Thank you, ma'am 🙏🏽
You’re welcome 😊
I was his patient in a hospital here in Melbourne Australia, in April. He lovebombed me, he reeled me in, he crossed ethical boundaries, he filled my empty void , I was sick and he took advantage of me; he discarded me and told me I should die: I was shaking and didn’t know what to do. I went to the Anglican Church and spoke to the Clergy, I got an anointing, I reported the Nurse to the hospital, they reported him to the licensing and ethical bodies.
Demons come to steal, kill and destroy 😮
This is what I experienced when he dropped his mask. The energy was dark and during arguments I would feel this frequency which gave me a headache. I referred to him as a warlock and boy was I correct. He loved the chaos and l was not here for it. Goodbye and good luck to the other victims.
The narc in my life was an expert in disrupting the peace. We could never even sit down for a family meal without some sort of negativity towards myself or one of the kids spoiling the simple pleasure of eating together. I can remember trying to address the problems I felt were causing unhappiness in the relationship and the narc responded with a smirk or smile. I addressed this a few times and her answer would always be the same- " it's just nervous laughter" hmmmm?
I'm totally intrigued by the whole spiritual/psychological question Paula, in my own attempts to investigate I get a sense that, in most religions and early mythology and folklore, demons, malevolent spirits etc are symbolic of darker sides of our psychological conditions. Rich veins to be explored!
From a totally personal perspective I can say that, after thirty or so years of living with a narc, my body has physically suffered from being in a state of high alert almost the whole time. I only have to be reminded of her existence for my body to become tense and fearful. Not great! Going back to the religious and mythological analogy - in most stories, biblical or otherwise, these demonic spirits were either slain or tamed and I'm guessing that this coincides with our own feelings of needing to protect ourselves ( slay the demon) or pity for the narcissist (tame). Ok its getting a bit woo woo but I guess I'm trying to say that there are dark and light forces out there that are both psychological and spiritual at the same time. Maybe?
Yes, I agree!
Light Forces = Positivity
Dark Forces = Negativity
*As Above = Positivity
*So Below = Negativity
As above, so below = on earth as it is in heaven.
What happens here, happens in the spiritual realm first.
Thank you Paula, I am so pleased someone has addressed this as I've been observing a particular person in my surroundings and it really does seem as though there is some type of possession going on. It's a snap in, kind of crazy, chaotic behavior with words not even making sense and then, snap out 😮
Thank you Paula very well put across. I like that you call a spade a spade. The opposite to light is darkness and in a dark spirit evil is in full action. I saw this very issue with my ex. He had got into a mood over nothing and it got worse. When he spoke to me he opened his mouth but it was not his voice. If we open ourselves up to wrongdoing and negative thoughts they will enter and grow in a flash and take over. We have all been given a conscience and in empaths we know when we are doing wrong and normally stop as it goes against our moral standards. A narc I feel has let their conscience be eroded away with the more negative and filth they delve into opening up their spirit heart and mind. The darker they become the less they see their wrong and fuels their ego and heightened sense that they are lord of all. Light and dark cannot exist together as the Bible very definitely says. Satan will take over in the blink of an eye but each of us has the option whether to allow that door to open in the beginning. A narc doesn’t shut the door whereas an empath will if it got opened not knowing as much. That inner peace and calm in an empath is living in peace knowing not to outwardly go and deliberately hurt or be nasty to someone. We can have an off day as we are humans and we will see we need to apologise when we have hurt someone. Whereas as narcs ambition in life is to hurt constantly. That is not normal or the way the Lord made us otherwise the world would be pure evil in every corner. This is my understanding of the situation.
Thank you Paula for all of your enlightenment on this topic.