how to build confidence when you're "DIFFERENT"

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  • Опубликовано: 26 мар 2023
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Комментарии • 38

  • @ifrah.crystal
    @ifrah.crystal Год назад +16

    Having a therapist, cultivating genuine friendships, pursuing hobbies of interest, prayer, and self-reflection/journaling are what I personally do to build confidence. I have a tea ritual where I sit down, usually after the night prayer and reflect on what I did that day over a cup of tea. If anything, I made myself tea and I'm connecting with God. This has been immensely helpful. Taking time to learn new things also boosts confidence.

  • @MissUnderstood17
    @MissUnderstood17 Год назад +14

    I think people play a huge role in self esteem so if you have positive role models that's great. For some people, we don't, also it can take people a long time to gather self esteem and work through any underlying issues.
    That was a good tip regarding putting a picture up of your younger self and imagine talking negative to her.

  • @sophi2165
    @sophi2165 Год назад +32

    Guten Tag from Germany from a German 🇩🇪 found your channel a few weeks back and find the topics very interesting. Especially learning about some struggles you have when you grow up in another culture. I always admire people growing up with different culture and languages. I find it so inspiring and I always feel a bit boring being proper German, growing up here and only knew German as language when I was young. I think encountering different cultures can make you a much better person. I do find it very important to know about identity issues as I have an Indian boyfriend and we are also planning to have children one day. So keep going 🙌 my comment doesn’t fit to the todays topic but I wanted to drop it as you wrote Guten Tag and I was thinking about this when I was watching your content lastly

    • @lisabepunkt4212
      @lisabepunkt4212 Год назад +1

      Oh nein 🙊 du bist auf deine Art einzigartig! Du kannst immer noch verschiedene Sprachen lernen und dich mit Freunden mit verschiedenen Hintergründen umgeben, um deinen Horizont erweitern. Alles Gute dir!

    • @asmaak.8640
      @asmaak.8640 Год назад +2

      Ey krass, hätte nicht gedacht ne deutsche hier unten zu finden 😂🫶🏻 willkommen Schwester:D

    • @sophi2165
      @sophi2165 Год назад

      @@lisabepunkt4212 Dankeschoen 🤩 Das mache ich Glücklicherweise. Ich habe ein bisschen Arabisch gelernt und gerade Hindi 🤗

    • @lisabepunkt4212
      @lisabepunkt4212 Год назад

      @@asmaak.8640 😁 Überall

    • @lisabepunkt4212
      @lisabepunkt4212 Год назад

      @@sophi2165 eine gute Idee ☺️ viel Erfolg dabei

  • @33rdgrandinspectorgeneral18
    @33rdgrandinspectorgeneral18 Год назад +3

    Tazzy makes me cry in a goid way. She has helped me be more empathetic and compassionate.

  • @ByRand
    @ByRand Год назад +4

    Loved the video. Especially the point about self care I agree 100%. When you take care of yourself and your health and when you do the things that matter and that you love you feel 1 million times better about yourself 😊

  • @Scrubsandtales
    @Scrubsandtales Год назад +6

    Lipstick looks stunning 😍

  • @eurysa
    @eurysa Год назад +3

    its crazy how alike we think Tasneem!!! these things are exactly what i did to build confidence. u put my thoughts into words, Allahuma Barik. May Allah bless you for this, Ameen.

  • @sunsetlover.6196
    @sunsetlover.6196 Год назад +11

    loving your videos girl😍Been a subscriber from the start so seeing your growth is just beautiful. Confidence is definitely difficult to comes to grip with when your an outsider so this video was much needed, thank you!!☺☺

  • @hanamediocre
    @hanamediocre Год назад +5

    great video. our thoughts are not reality. i love the idea of having a photo of your younger self nearby so you won't talk badly to yourself/them. i found that on leahsfieldnotes
    i read that your inner critic is actually trying to help you even though it doesn't feel like it. it's protecting deeply vulnerable and ashamed parts of yourself. like how hyper vigilance in anxiety is trying to protect your body from danger, however that danger is often non-existent. our bodies are wonderful at protecting us, sometimes to a fault. we need to dive deep into the inner layers of the onion to see what's really happening inside of us
    an important thing to note is the role of your parents or primary caregivers in building your self-esteem. they were your first teachers on everything and thus shape how you view yourself and the world today. if they lacked recognition and affection towards you, your self-esteem and self-worth can be non-existent. this may be the root of it all and we need to address this in order to heal. if we don't address the harmful things we learnt, we will only internalise them and pass them on

  • @munibahali5853
    @munibahali5853 Год назад +1

    God these videos are gold😭 keep it up tazzyyyy

  • @sidorkomarina1
    @sidorkomarina1 Год назад

    You are such an amazing, beautiful person. You inspire me. 🥰

  • @emmnasr8989
    @emmnasr8989 Год назад

    Salam there, Tasneem and Ramadan Kareem!
    I can really relate to talking nice to yourself, instead of just trashing yourself all the time. I am a university student, and no kidding, it gets brutal at times. and then it's just so easy and natural to curse and talk negative about your ownself. but just positive, gentle and calm completely turns the tables around.

  • @ryumitsurugi2088
    @ryumitsurugi2088 Год назад

    These are the messages that the whole world needs to hear. Thank you 😊 🙏😎

  • @laelenaurora
    @laelenaurora Год назад +2

    Hey, thank you for the great video with such helpful tips. Lots of love from the Netherlands ❤

  • @m.m5166
    @m.m5166 Год назад

    I love your videos 😁💜
    Thank you

  • @haniqb
    @haniqb Год назад

    Being from Germany, I loved Guten Tag 😄Ramadan mubarak!

  • @ojitosrodriguez114
    @ojitosrodriguez114 Год назад

    Tazzy you are a role model 🥰 !

  • @caliberx5306
    @caliberx5306 Год назад

    Lol love your content. Keepem coming mashallah

  • @shaziamiya
    @shaziamiya Год назад +1

    sister! Thank you so much for sharing this invaluable info. Teaching us to love our inner child and surround them with our love presently. JAK

  • @ijuneberry
    @ijuneberry Год назад

    Love me some more deep self exploring topics 😎🔥

  • @LetsBeClear87
    @LetsBeClear87 Год назад

    👏✨👏✨👏✨👏✨👏 yes ma’am. 100%. Those are all crucial choices. Also, supplements/herbs. Power postures. Self care

  • @aishabaseema1599
    @aishabaseema1599 Год назад

    Epic video😊

  • @user-dh8yb7oe9v
    @user-dh8yb7oe9v Год назад

    You’re sooo cute Tazzy! I love the way you are, you are adorable 🥰

  • @sohanarahaman8070
    @sohanarahaman8070 Год назад

    Well, that’s interesting

  • @Cheesecake_mmm
    @Cheesecake_mmm Год назад

  • @ojitosrodriguez114
    @ojitosrodriguez114 Год назад

    lol that wasn't kendall's advice, that was her therapist's advice. good on her for putting that advice on a public platform though 🥺

  • @MissUnderstood17
    @MissUnderstood17 Год назад +3

    First 😮

  • @lillyblue9746
    @lillyblue9746 Год назад +1

    I wanna be friends with taz🥺

  • @Cwesade
    @Cwesade Год назад

    New here

  • @Aieshoo
    @Aieshoo Год назад

    Mohammed Hijab?